So Cassper Nyovest Cheated When His Son Was Fighting Cancer? Yhooo

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Комментарии • 535

  • @KhanyaTwani-u1x
    @KhanyaTwani-u1x 22 часа назад +162

    Looking for a wife while his son was battling cancer? Hayi Owamie, you've lost the plot.

    • @kelebogilemotlogelwa1582
      @kelebogilemotlogelwa1582 21 час назад +19

      True, I totally disagree with owamie on this one aowa😮

    • @khathutshelo051
      @khathutshelo051 20 часов назад

      Men are worse than the bear !🐻

    • @Hleh-k1d
      @Hleh-k1d 14 часов назад +15

      She’s insensible

    • @rorowamanteko1725
      @rorowamanteko1725 11 часов назад +18

      We can also say she wasn't married because she married herself by paying her own lobola, so big guy was looking for his soul mate... Would that be fair? Apply your mind please. Your lack of emotional intelligence will be your downfall. You come here sharing your story, because it's what you went through, we don't judge you.

    • @AmandaY306
      @AmandaY306 10 часов назад +11

      Shuu!! Wait till Owamie is mom, then we can revisit this discussion...! Vile and ugly heart

  • @chanaeM
    @chanaeM 22 часа назад +94

    I think as a society we take infidelity lightly. Saying that he belongs to Jesus should not be a thing.
    No baby is born walking, if he can not keep his word and not betray you while you guys are dating what is stopping him from doing the same while you’re married? A person of integrity knows that cheating both in dating and marriage is wrong.

    • @prudencedantye9297
      @prudencedantye9297 20 часов назад +7

      It’s infidelity when people are married not in umjolo. According to the Bible you’re not even supposed to be engaging in sex before marriage. This is for our protection…the Bible says guard your heart above all things…We guard our hearts by keeping our legs closed when dating….
      I’m glad that she found Jesus and she’s healed. Unfortunately she learnt the hard way.

    • @aviwepama8286
      @aviwepama8286 19 часов назад

      @@chanaeM .

    • @aviwepama8286
      @aviwepama8286 18 часов назад

      I was not aware.... A lot of people do not want to read and are ignorant. Marriage is a God-ordained covenant relationship between man and woman, where their sexually exclusive relationship brings children into the world to sustain the connotation of be fruitful and multiple.......Weather you married or not it is still cheating.....Nothing of marriage is mentioned in Genesis as a "traditional ceremony" although Adam and Eve were husband and wife through being ordained. We then look at Joseph and Mary.....Mary is expecting a baby, Joseph
      wants to leave her....why? They were not married, so basically, let us stop promoting what some would call premature adultery....people should read more and not hear from their peers. Nyovest cheated......this has been a promoted culture by our black brothers.

    • @prudencedantye9297
      @prudencedantye9297 10 часов назад +3

      @@aviwepama8286 I hear you Aviwe. Yes, this is a promoted culture by our black brothers, why? Because our black sisters have no boundaries. Dating is not spending time in your man’s bedroom or making Babies. Dating is for getting to know each other, studying his character and him studying yours. It’s for vetting the man to see if he’s worthy of being your husband. If he cheats, then you can leave him because clearly he doesn’t have integrity and isn’t worthy of being your man. If you’re sleeping with him, it complicates things and if you have a baby by him it makes things worse…

    • @leegaleaglenombo9430
      @leegaleaglenombo9430 9 часов назад +1

      @prudencedantye9297 👏🏻

  • @Bassdrumkick
    @Bassdrumkick 22 часа назад +171

    I am convinced that we are in a lost generation if we excuse cheating for people in committed relationships. With this type of mentality, it means we are undermining the importance of trust, loyalty, and respect that form the foundation of any healthy relationship, whether married or not. It sets a dangerous precedent that commitment is only valid once formalized, ignoring the emotional and moral responsibilities people have to one another in all serious partnerships.

    • @bomikazimalimba6553
      @bomikazimalimba6553 22 часа назад +1

      .

    • @zees521
      @zees521 22 часа назад +24

      Our generation is doomed, the fact that people also want to split the two, saying he is a good dad bcoz he was there for the child. What about Thobeka? Didn't she deserve to not be cheated on? And to be loved and supported, it infuriates me so much that we have normalised treating mothers like nonsense and excuse the actions of the father saying they don't owe the mother loyalty

    • @mzansisoapiereviewroastand613
      @mzansisoapiereviewroastand613 22 часа назад +15

      ​@@zees521Society has normalized abusing Women in some shape or form, we have to learn to put ourselves first.
      I think as women when you decide to have a child, you must be more than prepared to be alone so that when they leave you don't become shocked to a point you can't function, have your support system beside the man

    • @fnamelname-s1r
      @fnamelname-s1r 19 часов назад

      ​@zees521 they weren't married. They just met and he fucked

    • @aviwepama8286
      @aviwepama8286 18 часов назад +9

      @Bassdrumkick A lot of people do not want to read and are ignorant. Marriage is a God-ordained covenant relationship between man and woman, where their sexually exclusive relationship brings children into the world to sustain the connotation of be fruitful and multiple.......Weather you married or not it is still cheating.....Nothing of marriage is mentioned in Genesis as a "traditional ceremony" although Adam and Eve were husband and wife through being ordained. We then look at Joseph and Mary.....Mary is expecting a baby, Joseph
      wants to leave her....why? They were not married, so basically, let us stop promoting what some would call premature adultery....people should read more and not hear from their peers. Nyovest cheated......this has been a promoted culture by our black brothers.

  • @thembi6946
    @thembi6946 23 часа назад +175

    You missing the plot ma'am… Thobeka made it clear in her post its not even much about them dating but the timing, and flaunting the relationship while she was going through that with her sick child… the disrespect 😏yhuu they both disgusting to me.

  • @cleopatramahlalela932
    @cleopatramahlalela932 22 часа назад +125

    When you have your own child one day, I can only hope you never have to go through the same pain. It hits hard when you have a child with your partner and have them do that to you…Whether married or not, no woman deserves that. Your village mentality is sickening

    • @N-kay31
      @N-kay31 21 час назад +18

      I can't stop picking my jaw from the floor. So triggered by her insidious opinion. Thoroughly disappointing.

    • @nolithabe
      @nolithabe 20 часов назад +3

      Yohhh

    • @jemimahbondo567
      @jemimahbondo567 10 часов назад

      Yes!!!!You are right

    • @LukeRev480
      @LukeRev480 7 часов назад +2

      What does a village have to do with her mentality? Haybo watch out wena singaqheleki kaloku ezilalini tyhini!

  • @zoephilile2274
    @zoephilile2274 22 часа назад +77

    Cheating doesn’t having to be, only in marriage. It’s someone going against his word to you, it is betrayal and cheating. It is based on what the couple has defined, for themselves, what would constitute as cheating.

    • @neosjournal_
      @neosjournal_ 22 часа назад +14

      And the same Cassper mentioned in an interview that this baby they had was planned. So he planned to trap her with a baby only for him to cheat🚮🚮

  • @DrMath_worldwide
    @DrMath_worldwide 21 час назад +49

    Owamie, if Caspper did what he did to you, we would hear about this story for years.your lack of compassion is scary 🚮

  • @SibsM93
    @SibsM93 22 часа назад +141

    Side eyeing your opinions this week Queen Ninja. Yoh. Granted they were not married, but he should have broken up with her and moved on to his wife. Not hurt her like that while she was already in pain due to her baby's illness. Also Bex said Pulane flaunted the relationship in her face. Now that's heartless.

    • @Mysweetdairy20
      @Mysweetdairy20 21 час назад +1

      But we also dnt know what Casper his wife for her to flaunt irelationship .

    • @zamokuhlemkwanazi5350
      @zamokuhlemkwanazi5350 20 часов назад +9

      Thank you for this comment. Not going to waste my time watching this video

    • @lebogangm234
      @lebogangm234 20 часов назад +15

      I think the big problem here is how we’ve normalised having children out of wedlock, it creates really painful experiences for mothers. In this case it’s unfortunately a sick child. A lot of women are hurting, we need to stop

    • @Drey2K-kr6zc
      @Drey2K-kr6zc 20 часов назад +9

      Somethong is wrong with Owamie trust me

  • @Ordell.M
    @Ordell.M 23 часа назад +92

    When she said “he later married her” I felt that yoh 💔

    • @ayandanobatana3440
      @ayandanobatana3440 22 часа назад +7

      Yuuuuuuu 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 AMADODA abolile ngaphakathi bangaphandle.Yini nkosiyam I'm really crying.

    • @Yeye__
      @Yeye__ 22 часа назад +5

      As he should he was SINGLE looking for a spouse 😊

    • @RayOfLetsatsi
      @RayOfLetsatsi 20 часов назад +2

      He was unmarried & wanted to get married what is the issue?

    • @Hleh-k1d
      @Hleh-k1d 14 часов назад +5

      @@RayOfLetsatsiI hope you will get your answer, when you go through a similar situation…just saying

  • @anthiamashudu2663
    @anthiamashudu2663 23 часа назад +72

    When she said it is not the infidelity but the timing" 😢😢

    • @bigbrownbabe
      @bigbrownbabe 22 часа назад +3

      It's not a divorce, relax . There is no timing like she was his wife . He was allowed to date and find his wife

    • @aviwepama8286
      @aviwepama8286 21 час назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @asivegaxa9788
      @asivegaxa9788 11 часов назад +1

      ​@@bigbrownbabe while his son is battling cancer?? Aibo come right

    • @bigbrownbabe
      @bigbrownbabe 11 часов назад +3

      @@asivegaxa9788 what does the child's illness got to do with his relationship status? Please explain

  • @sphindilengcobo1535
    @sphindilengcobo1535 21 час назад +72

    "Cassper did not cheat, he was looking for his wife"😮 aybo Owamie I can't believe I heard you say that.

    • @miguel_miggy97
      @miguel_miggy97 9 часов назад +8

      I did not watch the whole thing, just browsing comments and I think I will leave it there, sounds like she saying a lot of insensible things, so i'll pass...thank you.

    • @thembisilemsiza942
      @thembisilemsiza942 7 часов назад +3

      You did well, I regret listening to this bunch of nonsense 🙄 😒

    • @takie9204
      @takie9204 7 часов назад +3

      Owamie really needs to change and do a lot of self development, so her reporting can be progressive and well put 🤢

    • @Mi_nky
      @Mi_nky 3 часа назад

      I am still in shock & very much dissapointed

  • @sincedilemadonsela5089
    @sincedilemadonsela5089 22 часа назад +24

    No, he cheated on his girlfriend and mother of his child with a side chick. He later married the side chick

  • @fezekamkhulisi3798
    @fezekamkhulisi3798 21 час назад +26

    its not about Cas cheating but neglecting his only son when he needed him the most.

    • @mhlox654
      @mhlox654 11 часов назад +1

      But who said he neglected the son? He just wasn’t there for her as a partner

    • @ellletea
      @ellletea 10 часов назад

      That's the thing that's shocking. He was busy saying, but his child is sick. How did he have time for dating and marriage and take care of a sick child??

    • @fezekamkhulisi3798
      @fezekamkhulisi3798 10 часов назад

      ​@@mhlox654was he there for those chemotherapy sessions for his son?

  • @dot510
    @dot510 22 часа назад +54

    Hayi Owammie this is not about Casper loving Thobeka or not. He could have known that he wants to marry Pulane but waited for the sake of his son. Why? Because this would affect Thobeka emotionally and psychologically and since his young son depended more on his mom for survival, it would have been uBuntu to wait until the son recovers and Casper would marry whomever he decides to marry PERIOD!
    He was not only insensitive to the mother of his child but too selfish to be a father. He did not put his son's needs ahead of his own.

    • @julietkaunda9600
      @julietkaunda9600 20 часов назад +5

      I wish I could like your post a hundred times

    • @gapeapril_
      @gapeapril_ 17 часов назад +3

      She can’t understand bcz she doesn’t have a child. Some women wouldn’t haven’t been as strong as Thobeka. If she had succumbed to depression or anger and bitterness their child may have not received the medical care needed. So yes, he choose himself over his child.
      Personally I wouldn’t ever let him near my child again.

    • @nthabisengmashaba1
      @nthabisengmashaba1 17 часов назад +1

      Ohhhhh this comment. Thank you.

  • @RMg683
    @RMg683 22 часа назад +60

    So we can go around breaking people's heart's, wasting people's time, messing them up emotionally, sometimes for a lifetime and then justify this evil by saying, "we were not married"....Queen Ninja maybe it's me who's not understanding you

    • @startingover7217
      @startingover7217 21 час назад +2

      I'm also lost. Yoh!

    • @jenniferngobese9929
      @jenniferngobese9929 21 час назад +2

      It's not the infidelity but the timing was bad, he should have supported his Baby Mama during this season.

    • @AFRICAN-TALES.3447
      @AFRICAN-TALES.3447 20 часов назад +5

      The truth is hard to swallow 😢😢 ladies choose yourselves. Demand marriage and money before anything else . These men have no hearts

    • @fnamelname-s1r
      @fnamelname-s1r 19 часов назад

      ​@@jenniferngobese9929 She had sex before marriage

    • @miguel_miggy97
      @miguel_miggy97 9 часов назад +1

      She has lost it... for her commitment is marriage, she does not understand the value of relationships, because that is where marriages are formed...Owamie wa gafa.

  • @cestmoitout
    @cestmoitout 22 часа назад +34

    That thing for men not being emotional is not true- they use that as an excuse to cop out of situations to get the easy way out. The only emotion they seem to acknowledge is anger-which is still an emotion.

    • @startingover7217
      @startingover7217 21 час назад +1

      This!

    • @Daisy.Mohajane
      @Daisy.Mohajane 17 часов назад +1

      So true

    • @keikei1943
      @keikei1943 7 часов назад

      Exactly 💯

    • @LeiletaThuli
      @LeiletaThuli 6 часов назад +4

      Bruh! I once read a post that said it's not that men aren't emotional. They are, it's just that they're less empathetic / have less empathy than women. That's why they can break you and still not feel sorry for you/what they did.
      Beside that I'd say that society has enabled this because men have always been taught to care only about themselves and women to care about others.

    • @cestmoitout
      @cestmoitout 5 часов назад

      @@LeiletaThuli It is so draining. Most times I only see them showing empathy to their fellow men . It is true that society enables them and that is why women have to critically examine their own belief systems and the role they play in advancing this imbalance. Red p*llers are the angriest set of youtubers I have ever seen. Imagine someone shouting ' men are logical' that time they are banging on the table, veins and eyeballs popping eh eh! Uncle your blood pressure please. lol

  • @1phindy
    @1phindy 21 час назад +28

    Cassper was talking smack about A.K. A when he cheated on Zinhle making himself appear like a good guy. Today he's doing worse....so disappointed. I'm glad Thobeka and the baby are okay❤

  • @ZeeYanda-b1w
    @ZeeYanda-b1w 15 часов назад +22

    People's relationships should be respected and so as marriages

  • @Khumo_Mpho
    @Khumo_Mpho 21 час назад +26

    So disappointed that Owamie is saying all this. This is why people are afraid of getting in serious relationships

  • @hlonimokgadi3848
    @hlonimokgadi3848 22 часа назад +35

    Wow, your opinion really shocked me.
    If two consenting adults agree to be in a committed, MONOGAMOUS relationship, then when someone decides to step outside that relationship it is cheating, irregardless of whether you're married or not

    • @Liyoletha
      @Liyoletha 21 час назад

      😮i like owamie but today ah oh

    • @Ponchables
      @Ponchables 20 часов назад +1

      ​@Liyoletha This entire week nje she's been shocking me.

    • @Liyoletha
      @Liyoletha 19 часов назад

      @@Ponchables maybe I had high expectations but again it her channel and has a right to state her views and perspective....

    • @desireemashabela
      @desireemashabela 19 часов назад

      Her opinion on this makes me question her a lot. There are some things in life that just don't come easy, jwalo banna must marry us before we could say they owe us loyalty? She's very wrong on this one shem

    • @Ponchables
      @Ponchables 19 часов назад +1

      @@Liyoletha True. Kodwa haike.

  • @SanelisiweB
    @SanelisiweB 22 часа назад +89

    Nobody just gets married - unless it’s an arranged one. Most people date first & then their relationship leads to marriage. So if we’re saying cheating is allowed in relationships then we’re also saying it’s allowed in marriage mos? because umntu who can’t stay loyal in umjolo certainly won’t stay loyal [for a lifetime] in marriage

    • @AnitaMbulawa
      @AnitaMbulawa 21 час назад +12

      My thoughts too📍📍 if he can't stay loyal in the relationship/dating phase he will not even during marriage.

    • @KatMug
      @KatMug 21 час назад +7

      Exactly, these are the same people who will marry a cheater and think that they’ll change once they are married

    • @Ponchables
      @Ponchables 20 часов назад

      ​@KatMug So true, a bunch of clowns is what they are🚮 Down playing cheating like it's only valid in marriage.

  • @khanyikoetsi98
    @khanyikoetsi98 23 часа назад +26

    I almost cried reading that caption,I even unfollowed Cassper because no ways,she doesn't deserve all of that

    • @PinkyGabayi
      @PinkyGabayi 21 час назад +2

      You unfollowed Caspar,lapho baby mama still follows him🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @asandamathontsi5896
      @asandamathontsi5896 20 часов назад +1

      I also unfollowed him yuu😢😂

    • @munzhedzitshikovhele1990
      @munzhedzitshikovhele1990 18 часов назад +1

      ​@@PinkyGabayiI checked she doesn't

  • @dineogee110
    @dineogee110 21 час назад +16

    Personally, the stress of having to look after my cancer admitted baby and my baby daddy cheating on me and getting married was really gonna give me depression for a long time 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔.im very weak for umjolo

  • @busisiwemalundu4092
    @busisiwemalundu4092 21 час назад +25

    Cheating is cheating!!! Owamie am married and I feel and understand her disappointment.

  • @angelousdebrandlovu8198
    @angelousdebrandlovu8198 21 час назад +52

    Am glad you said your personal opinion so it doesn't mean you are right.If you are in a relationship and you start seeing someone else on the side its cheating PERIOD.

  • @thatotlhowe
    @thatotlhowe 22 часа назад +14

    Indeed a man always knows what his doing and who he wants to marry.
    No amount of children you birth for a man who has not made you a wife can change him. 😢

  • @seithatibaloyiletstour9073
    @seithatibaloyiletstour9073 12 часов назад +13

    Thats why when my son passed on ,I did not tell the father, I burried my son with dignity, I only told him the following day post funeral.then blocked him and all his relatives

    • @asivegaxa9788
      @asivegaxa9788 11 часов назад +7

      Sending love n hugs❤

    • @MaleboD
      @MaleboD 5 минут назад

      Sending love mama❤️❤️❤️

  • @lelethuzana
    @lelethuzana 23 часа назад +52

    Men will leave you in the desert without water

  • @MsBeautySpots
    @MsBeautySpots 22 часа назад +42

    Owamie, may you never feel the pain Thobeka is feeling.

    • @LollyMadikiza-xw4ok
      @LollyMadikiza-xw4ok 12 часов назад +4

      @Ms...what special pain is thobeka s pain?we ve all been betrayed & hurt,sum women were dumped when de child died.

  • @yayam8447
    @yayam8447 21 час назад +61

    🤔 Even paying for your own lobola doesn't make the man yours, he will still go and search for his soul mate, neh?

    • @kgolaganoloate1039
      @kgolaganoloate1039 21 час назад +6

      😂😂😂😂

    • @44Buyi
      @44Buyi 21 час назад +5

      😂😂😂😂

    • @julietkaunda9600
      @julietkaunda9600 20 часов назад +8

      You guys never forget neh😁😁😁

    • @yayam8447
      @yayam8447 20 часов назад +8

      They did Thobeka very dirty those ones, I even suspect that it was P...l..ne who was spreading rumours about Andile being the father of the child. If you think of it, she was in hospital with her child when those rumours circulated .

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali 17 часов назад

      @@yayam8447😢

  • @ng225
    @ng225 17 часов назад +9

    My gosh! Cheating does not only happen in marriage, it also happens in courtships. If she was the one who did what Cassper did to her, wouldn't we all be saying she cheated? Even though they were NOT MARRIED?
    Cheating is cheating!

  • @TsheM
    @TsheM 22 часа назад +48

    Aowa Owami cheating is cheating whether married or not. As long as there is some union, don't break it. The only reason Casper married her was because Thobeka had found out and was not ready to forgive him because of broken trust. Casper had left Puleng ready to ask for forgiveness from Thobeka.

    • @senabelombele3746
      @senabelombele3746 22 часа назад +4

      Her views sometimes. Ay. 🥴

    • @Liyoletha
      @Liyoletha 21 час назад +1

      How can you trust a men that cheat while still dating where will the assurance of him to be faithful on his vow

    • @tezulumagagula7556
      @tezulumagagula7556 21 час назад +2

      Being a girlfriend is not a union

    • @RayOfLetsatsi
      @RayOfLetsatsi 20 часов назад +2

      Being a girlfriend is not a union unless you are quoting another religion or culture we don't know how of.

    • @TsheM
      @TsheM 16 часов назад +5

      @RayOfLetsatsi My Oxford dictionary does not limit the word "union" to marriage. I'll save you the time and paste it for you below.
      When a couple is said to be in "union," it typically means that they are in a committed relationship or marriage. The term "union" generally refers to a legal or social agreement between two people, often involving shared responsibilities, mutual support, and a shared life together.

  • @nosiphosibeko1
    @nosiphosibeko1 18 часов назад +12

    When you have your OWN child that you given birth to one day and have also had your child diagnosed with any sickness and have that happen to please come back and comment like this. This also has nothing to do with Casper’s cheating it’s about him neglecting his responsibility as father e.g your father’s actions towards you and your siblings.

  • @saneleabigail6298
    @saneleabigail6298 20 часов назад +17

    It's not about Cassper not loving Thobe ka. Owamie, Thobeka needed support from his baby daddy not marriage. Please read that caption again

  • @teebee236
    @teebee236 23 часа назад +24

    The way i cried ninja when i saw her post yhol men😢

  • @OwamieEntertainment
    @OwamieEntertainment  23 часа назад +20

    Guys sorry about the sound 🏃🏽‍♂️

    • @nomveloG
      @nomveloG 23 часа назад +4

      I really want to vote for you can you please explain in detail how to vote because I’m not good with the internet thing

    • @leesparkles101
      @leesparkles101 22 часа назад +1

  • @rorowamanteko1725
    @rorowamanteko1725 13 часов назад +13

    Owamie you are just a shell, no human emotions whatsoever when it comes to relationships. I dont know if it stems from your past hurt, but... Casper was in a serious relationship with Thobeka, her hurt is valid, regardless of whether they were married or not. I am a ninja, love you very much, but the manner in which you're addressing this is also very insensitive

  • @tsakamhlabane9269
    @tsakamhlabane9269 16 часов назад +13

    Like she said Owamie, it’s the timing!!! You lack sensitivity Sis, this is not about how you view it….thus pulane girl has been throwing shade, she knows she’s guilty… she lacks class like you Owamie no wonder you siding with her🚮🚮🚮

  • @ongezwa_siyamthanda
    @ongezwa_siyamthanda 10 часов назад +8

    Your opinion on this one sends a message that women who aren't married and their children can be treated like filth and it is justified. We uphold marriage over everything it's clear. I do not think even God intended for marriage to be idolized in this manner! it's shameful to justify what Casper and his wife did, not to Thobeka but to the child who was battling cancer, she did say it was more the timing that broke her because she had to be there fighting with their child for his life while the dad and his now wife were having a jol. That's the issue here and as mothers we feel it, at the time she needed his respect and support in order to have the strength she needed to fight with her child and instead he broke her. STOP IDOLIZING MARRIAGE SO MUCH!!!!!

  • @kelebogilejohannaseeletso9283
    @kelebogilejohannaseeletso9283 21 час назад +45

    Hawu Owamie,but you always judged Bonang for dating AKA,,,you even said she lost you as a fan because of that.Was AKA married to Zinhle?

    • @Peighter
      @Peighter 7 часов назад

      She addressed this in the video; you are choosing to be upset.

  • @charitykamogelo8457
    @charitykamogelo8457 18 часов назад +6

    Baby mamas in the comment section should heal. The minute people accept that men do what they want whenever they want, people will not see what casper did as amazing. South African men do worse than he did

  • @gapeapril_
    @gapeapril_ 17 часов назад +21

    Owamie , from the comments here , I choose not to listen to your opinion. Sometimes, you need not to have an opinion over things you can’t relate to. You are unable to see this from a mother’s side because you have no children of your own.
    His actions could have easily led a weaker woman into depression or a spiral of anger and bitterness. His actions could have affected the attention the mother gave to their then terminally ill child’s healthcare and resulted in chaos had she been a weaker woman. Have kids and speak with informed opinions.
    The timing was evil .

    • @rainbowtyukala8452
      @rainbowtyukala8452 10 часов назад +5

      I don’t have kids but I don’t think like her in this situation 😢 hayi I’m very disappointed at Owamie 😢and you right she must keep her opinions to herself especially when she can’t relate

    • @miguel_miggy97
      @miguel_miggy97 9 часов назад +5

      It is wise to keep quiet if you do not have something of value to comment...Owamie needs to understand that, this topic needs empathy, someone who's been in the same shoes as Thobeka, unfortunately for , she has never been... so @Owamie Entertainment, ma'am SHUT UP🙄

  • @tulz123
    @tulz123 18 часов назад +11

    And she is expecting y’all to vote for her when she can’t even get context right. SMFH!!!

    • @asivegaxa9788
      @asivegaxa9788 11 часов назад

      😂😂😂😂😂 @tulz123 please vote

    • @tulz123
      @tulz123 Час назад

      @@asivegaxa9788 hello no. 🤣

  • @mrshamunyela2194
    @mrshamunyela2194 13 часов назад +12

    You and your ex husband were together for years before you actually got married both legally and the whole lobola situation yet you always indicate ex husband of 9years in actual fact you were not married for 9years. The relationship was however a serious and committed relationship how you cannot see that in other people’s relationships like this one is so shocking and disappointing. You’re terribly working here and you’re genuinely becoming crazy insensitive to topics lately especially when you’ve missed the plot. Maybe skip a few topics and reflect before reporting it really gives reckless reporting. This is distasteful to say the least.

    • @julieotieno5800
      @julieotieno5800 Час назад

      @@mrshamunyela2194 very diabolical and insensitive of her.Then she's asking us to vote for her with a foul mouth

  • @kimberly_H
    @kimberly_H 21 час назад +13

    This is such a crappy mentality this why ya'll are not getting married cause people first need to prove loyalty before marriage, you don't learn to be loyal and not cheat when you are married. People are dogging cassper's wife because why would be busy with a man in a relationship while his girlfriend is in the hospital with a sick child. People have been condemning Mihlali for what she did every chance they get. You missed this one totally sisi cause Thobeka did say what hurt her was the timing not what he did. You should have just sat on this story and critically think ungangxami ngethink piece yakho.

  • @nkosana_wongama
    @nkosana_wongama 22 часа назад +25

    Inobuso bokukhohlakala nje legirl!!But Bexx won maarn!Marrying a man who's capable of that and thinking you are an exception is a problem😮

    • @Ponchables
      @Ponchables 20 часов назад +6

      Bo Mrs I'm special
      If he can do that to a child he planned, what makes her think her future kids with him or herself nje are safe?

    • @Cr3asionz
      @Cr3asionz 18 часов назад +2

      @@Ponchablesexactly

  • @Ordell.M
    @Ordell.M 23 часа назад +28

    Yoh I didn’t expect this commentary 😂 sad but it’s the truth

  • @lesterdampie6134
    @lesterdampie6134 23 часа назад +27

    I have been avoiding this story all day, waiting on you to speak on it, Mommy. 😢😢😢

    • @mariasimon231
      @mariasimon231 21 час назад +8

      And then she just disappointed us all bu how she views this matter

    • @N-kay31
      @N-kay31 21 час назад +8

      Only for her to come with such an insensitive and heartless commentary, that condones betrayal, emotional and psychological abuse. I'm Shocked!

    • @N-kay31
      @N-kay31 21 час назад

      ​@@mariasimon231Yoooooooh!!!

    • @mariasimon231
      @mariasimon231 20 часов назад +7

      @@N-kay31 yeah she really vile on this one hey all she thinks about is mihlali and mimi has nothing to do with this story. Cassper was wrong and that's it
      Wishing thobeka all the peace and healing she needs

    • @N-kay31
      @N-kay31 18 часов назад

      @@mariasimon231 Amen🙏🏾

  • @cleopatramahlalela932
    @cleopatramahlalela932 22 часа назад +34

    Yho, you never cease to amaze me. Your level of thinking is shocking. Are you okay upstairs?

    • @N-kay31
      @N-kay31 21 час назад

      ​@@aviwepama8286RESOUNDING NOOO!!!

    • @julietkaunda9600
      @julietkaunda9600 20 часов назад

      @@aviwepama8286 Not sure dear

    • @aviwepama8286
      @aviwepama8286 18 часов назад

      @@cleopatramahlalela932 I am voting

  • @GossiphiveEnt
    @GossiphiveEnt 21 час назад +23

    Obviously you are not authentic when doing your hell and back stories, you are judging them behind their backs 😂😂😂😂

    • @asivegaxa9788
      @asivegaxa9788 11 часов назад

      😮😂😂😂😂

    • @GossiphiveEnt
      @GossiphiveEnt 10 часов назад +1

      @@asivegaxa9788 I’m serious yazi, like WTF? 😂

    • @ScissorN
      @ScissorN 10 часов назад +1

      100%

    • @rainbowtyukala8452
      @rainbowtyukala8452 10 часов назад +6

      That’s the first thing that came to my mind and also her laughing while talking about this situation hayi shame

    • @asivegaxa9788
      @asivegaxa9788 7 часов назад +1

      @@GossiphiveEnt the thing is I cant unthink what u said apha🤣🤣

  • @zees521
    @zees521 22 часа назад +16

    Even though some believe Karma doesn't exist, what Pulane doesn't realise is that she married ma man with no honour and good character, he will not change for her, she is nothing special when it comes to a man capable of something so heinous and devastating. And as for Cassper, I have no words, he was never shit to begin with, him and his wife deserve each other.

  • @eulanda.m
    @eulanda.m 22 часа назад +14

    Your commentary has been diabolical for the past week. What the hell?

  • @Samantha-Ina
    @Samantha-Ina 22 часа назад +8

    And imagine if she didn’t have the kind of money she has, they would have suffered my dear 😅

  • @isandragabrielasimbo956
    @isandragabrielasimbo956 21 час назад +10

    How u met him is how ull loose him. Women should stop this thing of saying I'm better then her is why he left her, blah blah blah. No one is special wat he can do to his ex he will surely do the same to u

  • @thandazilezungu2222
    @thandazilezungu2222 23 часа назад +16

    Owamie giving us dululu advice😂😂😂 we going on dates even though we in relationships 👀🙆🏽‍♀️😂😂😂😂Owamieeeee

    • @emmyiiyambo6463
      @emmyiiyambo6463 22 часа назад +3

      It's rough in these dating streets 💔😂😂

  • @beewest5704
    @beewest5704 22 часа назад +14

    Casper was there for a good time not for a long time. The minute things got real he dipped. Same thing will unfortunately happen to his wife.

  • @manthobajudithrammutlanyan529
    @manthobajudithrammutlanyan529 21 час назад +2

    It is not about the Infidelity, it is about the timing😭 imagine someone doing that to you while your child is in hospital.

  • @Melumzi4343
    @Melumzi4343 9 часов назад +6

    What I like about this story...mna Jesus was a solution and Thobeka glorifies Jesus 🙌

  • @TshifhiwaMashamba
    @TshifhiwaMashamba 22 часа назад +11

    And that is true we need to protect our wombs

    • @ayandanobatana3440
      @ayandanobatana3440 12 часов назад

      @@TshifhiwaMashamba Till we are 40 so that we can have problems.These days ppl make kids bcz they wanna be mom's.That is what Thobeka did, after it all will be lonely masiguga.

    • @BarbieYunch
      @BarbieYunch 12 часов назад +4

      @@ayandanobatana3440I don’t mind aging and dying alone. Rather that than living a stressful baby mama lifestyle.

    • @ayandanobatana3440
      @ayandanobatana3440 10 часов назад

      @@BarbieYunch I think cc these days if you wanna be a parent don't trust anyone.Just choose a guy to have a child with kodwa umshado asoze noma u can have kids married umuntu nje wesilisa is a problem.

    • @BarbieYunch
      @BarbieYunch 10 часов назад +3

      @@ayandanobatana3440 you missed the whole point of my argument. I’m advising women not to have kids before marriage because then they can at least walk away with half of the man’s assets when he messes up

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 21 час назад +7

    I just came from Own Narrative with Sonia Booth. She said, "You are not special." Casper will do the same to her. Just wait and see.
    I was there when they said to you Queen Ninja AKA belongs to Jesus, and what happened to Bonang and AKA 🤔🤔

  • @piela_n
    @piela_n 22 часа назад +16

    I have no words💔

  • @sihleqengqeleka7125
    @sihleqengqeleka7125 17 часов назад +15

    You completely missed her point. Kanene English yingxaki kuwe 🤑
    No wonder you paid your own lobola 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @asivegaxa9788
      @asivegaxa9788 11 часов назад

      😭 yhuuuu haybo Sihle!😂😂😂

    • @sihleqengqeleka7125
      @sihleqengqeleka7125 10 часов назад +1

      @@asivegaxa9788 Usile lo 🤣🤣🤣

    • @miguel_miggy97
      @miguel_miggy97 9 часов назад +1

      She reads to give her commentary and not to understand🙄

  • @busekacharlie2529
    @busekacharlie2529 21 час назад +5

    Wow so we get into relationships only to babysit other women's husbands?
    Why do we even date if the only thing stopping a guy from stepping out is marriage?
    Also if he can't be faithful in a relationship, then how will a marriage keep him?
    How can you have a faithful husband from a cheating boyfriend?
    What happened to how you get him is how you will lose him?
    Girrrl this commentary is a mess TBH

  • @21_answers
    @21_answers 19 часов назад +6

    "Not the infidelity, but the timing"

  • @soothethesoul9535
    @soothethesoul9535 22 часа назад +4

    God should have left men to live alone. He should have just created homies for them and left us women alone😂

  • @thobekiledlamini
    @thobekiledlamini 22 часа назад +15

    Eish what a sad story😢but Owamie dear can i advice that when you read such article, read it with compassion tone..

    • @malebs8332
      @malebs8332 22 часа назад +1

      😂😂😂 you are killing me 😭

    • @asivegaxa9788
      @asivegaxa9788 11 часов назад

      ​@@malebs8332😂😂😂😂

  • @KoketsoNdaba
    @KoketsoNdaba 22 часа назад +6

    I believe during their valley period, Cassper found solace in his now wife. During that period, he might have realized that she's actually his wife. The period they were in was challenging (for lack of better word) I must allude, however it opened new destinies for both of them (a blessing in disguise). I Pray Thobeka heals and holds on to Jesus, whom provides Unfathomable peace ❤❤. Love and Light to her and her son ❤❤.

  • @katlegothobejanemothoa
    @katlegothobejanemothoa 19 часов назад +5

    I’ve never agreed with that statement (if you not married he not yours)…. I love you Owamie but I think the Nunjus tought you that so it might not even be ninjas. Nonetheless I feel what Thobeka revealed about her child’s health is the sensitivity of this topic. That is where it triggers people.
    Men cheat on wife’s, baby mamas girlfriends etc but this topic could not afford that type of criticism. In as much as you feel it’s truth people should know before making babies with men but I think it was more about her pain than a wrong decision she made by having a child with a man that saw no future with her and wasted her time.
    Imagine if Jesus son cheats now with someone and they flaunt it on your face then later Jesus son marries that other girl simply because you refused to take him back. Wayaka that would make you angry imagine if you had a child under cancer treatment and this comes out??? You deal with it alone privately, the day you decide to come out. Owami makes this kind of video iyooh. I love you but no ninja this is deep for me, I get what you saying and it’s always been like that on your channel Mara I feel this issue was more sensitive. Not even about Men cheating but more about challenges people go through everyday while you thought yours were big. People will look for someone to blame, even the victim will also look and I understand why they coming for Pulane, she stealing cakes at a funeral while everyone’s praying with eyes closed. Let us support a mother that had an 8th month old baby suffering with cancer the the man she chose to be the father had his pants down for someone else. Let’s not judge her mistakes now let’s judge her pain and understand how sometimes some of us we cry over small stuff

  • @proudlysa774
    @proudlysa774 21 час назад +17

    Iyoh!! This week uyangimangaza 😮😮

  • @Beingkat
    @Beingkat 23 часа назад +10

    Is it really reported if queen Ninja didn't report it?

  • @lelethuzana
    @lelethuzana 22 часа назад +12

    In my opinion they were exclusive and both agreed to not date/sleep with other people, then he did cheat on her.
    Pulane knew Thobeka yet continued to sleep and disrespect her, says a lot about her character. Imagine someone close to you and your boyfriend sleeping with your man. Haibo! Pulne and Casper were wrong.

    • @dot510
      @dot510 22 часа назад +6

      Especially Casper knowing very well that his son depended on his mom emotionally and otherwise.

  • @tyrantmaloka1273
    @tyrantmaloka1273 21 час назад +16

    Iyo I'm side eyeing you shame

    • @Mosa_365
      @Mosa_365 14 часов назад +3

      BOMBASTICALLY SO!!

  • @lilyfinemotha7224
    @lilyfinemotha7224 22 часа назад +6

    So the premise of this video is not to report on Cassper and give us your honest thoughts. It's to rile up people who have disagreed with you in the past and because you hate being told off, this is your gotcha moment to them? Aowa Owamie tlhe 🤣🤣🤣

  • @noxienhlapo9055
    @noxienhlapo9055 22 часа назад +5

    I never liked this guy... he is just evil

  • @lebzardhlamini2355
    @lebzardhlamini2355 22 часа назад +5

    It's not news 📰 till Owami steps in.... I was working when I read this, trust me I stopped working for 1 hour.. Sad sad caption 😢 but the Lord is with her surely

  • @tsitsisetlalekgosi
    @tsitsisetlalekgosi 23 часа назад +12

    I was waiting for you to report😂😂😂😂

  • @ntokotom147
    @ntokotom147 22 часа назад +10

    You're the big sis I never had
    I love how you're honest even if it's not fashionable

  • @ZaneleClamentine
    @ZaneleClamentine 22 часа назад +6

    Mina i knew she was too good to be true this Casper wife i never liked her and childhood best friend story didn't make sense too

  • @crimestoriesSA
    @crimestoriesSA 6 часов назад +3

    I get you owamie . So many women are soo willing to give men children and they go look for thier wives . Having standards really helps you not get involved in nonsense . Also obeying GODS RULES

  • @ayandanobatana3440
    @ayandanobatana3440 22 часа назад +6

    😭😭😭 i remember BONANG xcited for Casper and that girl .Wow some things ziyaswabisa

  • @anitasibiya2432
    @anitasibiya2432 21 час назад +5

    When two people decide to be exclusive and label their relationship … That’s courtship🤷🏽‍♀️ so it’s definitely cheating and I’m glad she refused because he was gonna marry her and probably wouldn’t have grown spiritually as she has now .

    • @RayOfLetsatsi
      @RayOfLetsatsi 20 часов назад +3

      He wasn't gonna marry her they had been together for years😂😂😂

    • @Yassmiinn.
      @Yassmiinn. 5 часов назад

      ​@@RayOfLetsatsi so people that have been together for years can't get married?
      Owamie and Big Guy were together and stayed together for YEARS before they finally married.
      Umuhle, but your views? SKEWED.

  • @mokhadibuthane2615
    @mokhadibuthane2615 20 часов назад +3

    I am schooled. But we can not ignore the fact that it's painful.

    • @gugulethusimelane112
      @gugulethusimelane112 11 часов назад

      Hay bo cc don’t take this kind of schooling 😂😂🙆🏽‍♀️

  • @Baracudavibes
    @Baracudavibes 21 час назад +6

    Owamie there is something wrong with your thinking capacity

  • @michellerisimati
    @michellerisimati 23 часа назад +10

    Was waiting the whole day sana 🤣😂🤣❤️

  • @palesamokoena1183
    @palesamokoena1183 22 часа назад +9

    Owamie: I forgot his wife's name.
    Me: why would you want to remember such garbage 🚮

  • @TshifhiwaMashamba
    @TshifhiwaMashamba 22 часа назад +7

    Cheating is cheating bathong

  • @n_mahlambi
    @n_mahlambi 22 часа назад +5

    I’ve been waiting for this 😂😂😂,I see Casper is trending ngiyasho ngith uphi uOwamie nomgosi ngoba angazi wataguan😅

  • @morongoamanyathela6484
    @morongoamanyathela6484 20 часов назад +4

    But Owamie what is the different between Bonang AKA & DJ Zinhle? & Casper, Pulane andThobeka? You bashed Bonang so bad for many years but today you are singing different stories So does that mean u were just a HATER of Bonang? u even said she lost u as a fanCasper said with his own words that he cheated & you are saying he did not cheat😮

  • @JayJay-mx7oc
    @JayJay-mx7oc 22 часа назад +5

    Fake pastor, selling billiatto while Preaching scripture 😂

  • @Dineo-Montage
    @Dineo-Montage 7 часов назад +2

    Honestly Owami, you know that not all relationships are defined the same. Imagine someone saying "Big guy didn't cheat on you since you married yourself by paying your own lobola. Was he also looking for a wife that he will marry with his own money perhaps?"
    He could've told Thobeka, he didn't see their relationship moving forward if he wanted Pulani instead of sneaking around, then when caught come back with his tail between his legs like a dog. And all this while she was at her lowest.

  • @dailessnanyinza8201
    @dailessnanyinza8201 22 часа назад +5

    Am loving your looks Queen Nija

  • @tembisahenisi6965
    @tembisahenisi6965 21 час назад +4

    Owami you r wrong hun, if u r in a relationship and decides to have a child then it ends because u r cheating. You cheated your partner, period .
    2,You can’t date someone else and love me having there , explain I’m your partner now.
    It’s only difference when they had a baby and broke up that’s different

  • @leesparkles101
    @leesparkles101 22 часа назад +4

    💔 Casper mara has no heart.

  • @zanelencedani6174
    @zanelencedani6174 20 часов назад +6

    Owam this time I disagree with you, so you are promoting that men must have multiple partners? as long as the men is not married he must have multiple partners. yho your opinion this time is not make sure shame.

    • @miguel_miggy97
      @miguel_miggy97 9 часов назад +1

      This woman contradict herself...ALWAYS

  • @dineogee110
    @dineogee110 21 час назад +2

    Not you reminding us "unless he is married he belongs to jesus "yoooo😭😭😭😭

  • @nomfunekonosilela3895
    @nomfunekonosilela3895 22 часа назад +3

    I understood Thobeka to have had an issue with the timing of the infidelity, she needed his emotional support. Does it mean their son's illness didn't affect him?

  • @Meta_Tshegofatso
    @Meta_Tshegofatso 23 часа назад +5

    Owamie your hair is already long enough to braid?😁😍
    You are blessed 🔥🥰

  • @ntiyiso985
    @ntiyiso985 21 час назад +4

    My sentiments, that's true,one remains single till married

    • @leegaleaglenombo9430
      @leegaleaglenombo9430 9 часов назад +1

      People don't get it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @miguel_miggy97
      @miguel_miggy97 9 часов назад +1

      Can you marry someone you just met today? Niyahlanya nine

  • @takie9204
    @takie9204 7 часов назад +3

    Zwine Owamie aco tea u ita ndi self reflection nau vhuyelela therapy, the only reason I’m following you at this point is because we’re from same province, used to love your commentaries but nowadays your videos are full of vile and darkness.

  • @senzelokuhlenkabini6004
    @senzelokuhlenkabini6004 23 часа назад +7

    I love how you pronounce awe🤞🤣. Authenticity at it's best❤.

    • @SibsM93
      @SibsM93 23 часа назад +1

      All the RUclipsrs pronounced it like that 😅

    • @Lbm-f1o
      @Lbm-f1o 22 часа назад +1

      😂