Girl, set your standards high || Acharya Prashant (2023)

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    Video Information: 25.03.23, Vedant Mahotsav, Rishikesh
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    How to raise your standards and upgrade your life
    3 Ways to Raise Your Standards
    Raise your Standards, Increase your Success!
    Set Your Personal Standards, And Stick To Them
    Music Credits: Milind Date
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Комментарии • 213

  • @AcharyaPrashant
    @AcharyaPrashant  Год назад +34

    "To contact the Foundation: acharyaprashant.org/en/enquiry?cmId=m00027
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  • @theirbodiesnotours
    @theirbodiesnotours Год назад +1544

    "Dont let your environment dictate your standards . Let your standards come from books, documentaries, good philosophical videos"

    • @meet_bestwatch
      @meet_bestwatch Год назад +1

      Brief it

    • @anatasiatirkey8834
      @anatasiatirkey8834 Год назад +10

      Preach girl Preach

    • @_HE_RAM7038
      @_HE_RAM7038 Год назад +5

      मैं सहमत हूं की, आदर्श रखने चाहीए बच्चो के सामने, मगर हम सिर्फ रख सकते चुनाव करने का अधीकार लडको लडकीयो़ का होता है,हम उन्हो जबरदस्ती नहीं कर सकते,क्योंकी जबरदस्ती से किये या दिये बातो के कभी भी सफल सुफल परीणाम नहीं आते, लेकीन हम उन्हे भ्रमजाल से वाकीफ जरुर कर सकते हैं

    • @nenika-tw9hn
      @nenika-tw9hn Год назад +2

      Yaah

    • @simranmanuja8560
      @simranmanuja8560 Год назад

      right 👍

  • @poonam9479
    @poonam9479 Год назад +123

    Why raise your girl as a princess, when you can raise her as a warrior.

  • @sukritisingh3251
    @sukritisingh3251 Год назад +113

    Damn this father. He was so balanced n understood his daughter pov. The way potrayed it ...wow

  • @si-1255
    @si-1255 7 месяцев назад +23

    He's such a great father and Acharya Ji is such a great teacher. The daughter is so lucky to have such an amazing guardian. Wish all parents were like this.

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  • @shim74
    @shim74 Год назад +35

    I'm glad the girl opened up about this with her parents.

  • @HeenaN-kn9nb
    @HeenaN-kn9nb Год назад +215

    What a great father... So thoughtful and perceptive of his daughter's point of view

  • @VedantRajdeep
    @VedantRajdeep Год назад +355

    Wellwishers of Women:
    1. Support you in education.
    2. True religion.

  • @vivoviva7880
    @vivoviva7880 Год назад +458

    Happy Father's day to Acharyaji for being the true father figure for me and so many girls like me without even knowing us in person.
    Thankyou Acharyaji !!

  • @Anshika_Gautam
    @Anshika_Gautam Год назад +163

    ”If I do not know what kind of highness is possible then any kind of lowness will become gold standard for me.”

  • @thesingingsparrow111
    @thesingingsparrow111 9 месяцев назад +11

    ये बात शत प्रतिशत सही है कि बुद्धिमान लोग वास्तव में विश्व में बहुत कम है, बेवकूफ ज्यादा! और बुद्धिमानों के सामने सबसे बड़ी चुनौती है उन बेवकूफों के साथ जीना और उनके साथ deal करना 😢

  • @sheetalyadav4563
    @sheetalyadav4563 Год назад +149

    I m in my mid twenties and whatever acharya ji is saying is true. When you spend time with women who came before you and paved the way for future generations, you understand your privilege and also your responsibilities towards next generation. I read extensively about women revolutionaries like pritilata waddedar, kalpana dutt, shanti ghosh, suniti chowdhry, prakashwati pal, durga devi vohra, these women were all in their early 20s ready to sacrifice their lives for the country.Reading their live stories will make you question what you are doing with your life . Reading is very important for women especially coz we have been taught from very young age to have three eyes instead of two. The third eye through which you should know what the society demands of you. It's really cruel and inhumane the way women have been conditioned to live their lives through their third eye.

    • @khushisharma591
      @khushisharma591 Год назад +5

      Absolutely right 👍
      Your words have power!!💜

  • @MUKESHKUMAR-rq3wo
    @MUKESHKUMAR-rq3wo Год назад +66

    Salute this father dare to ask such question ❤️♥️🙏

  • @rajmita2057
    @rajmita2057 Год назад +120

    About women not watching women playing cricket or other sports : I think we as girls are not encouraged ( sometimes not allowed ) to play sports. I see boys running to the grounds in the afternoon daily since my childhood days. Where us, girls used to stay at home after school. Even in boys' school the grounds are bigger and the authority arrange interschool sport matches where is girls' school we are told to attend one PT class once a week only.
    This is the reason most of the girls don't relate to sports . The 'going to the ground after school ' culture never been inculcated into as. We need the change that first. Only then WPL will also generate equal viewership as IPL

    • @penny5011
      @penny5011 Год назад +5

      Exactly.. so true..

    • @ruhi_neet1864
      @ruhi_neet1864 11 месяцев назад +5

      We girls are only taught to become doc teacher engineer or an officer like the whole youth has only 3 choices neet iit and jee
      I myself am a neet student
      All my passions were ignored and when I said I want to be in medical stream my parents thought about neet though I want to actually explore let's hope the generation will change

    • @sm123_5
      @sm123_5 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@user-go7yi8ye7jhow?

  • @sapanashrestha2963
    @sapanashrestha2963 Год назад +58

    Its exactly I felt. I am good at studies. I work hard. I am captain of Volleyball. I am very good at singing and dancing, wins many competition of school.
    However, I am modest, even dont know to do makeup and making boy friend is thing I dont know. All the friends around me are so beautiful, preety, stylish, ....They are liked by everyone. And I felt so so so inferior.
    And yes like Guru jee, Diary and books has become my saviour.
    To all girls out there, you are made in perfect way by god.

    • @SunainaM27
      @SunainaM27 Год назад

      Same here

    • @Tillu_dream16-39
      @Tillu_dream16-39 Год назад

      If you are not pretty, you had no choice but to be good at the other stuff that requires some grinding, unlike the hot ones...it is what it is.

    • @xi_c_ayushprashar5950
      @xi_c_ayushprashar5950 Год назад

      ​@@Tillu_dream16-39There is difference between pretty and hot

    • @anamikakumari3655
      @anamikakumari3655 10 месяцев назад

      Thankyou

  • @VedantRajdeep
    @VedantRajdeep Год назад +170

    As long as emotions remain more important than liberation, no hope.
    ~ AP Ji

  • @aradhnatyagi4833
    @aradhnatyagi4833 8 месяцев назад +6

    The question raised by a concerned father is so thought provoking.

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Год назад +31

    8:06, how some bollywood movies show intelligent and studious kids boring and timid, but some verbose, mediocre fellow one smart and cool guy.....🤷‍♀️
    Stereotypes....😶

  • @vaishnavee_
    @vaishnavee_ Год назад +39

    Every girl needs to listen this.

  • @daraiusdubash
    @daraiusdubash Год назад +51

    She has to be introduced to women who really are worthy of being remembered. And then her internal standards will rise to a point where she will stop caring about the hipsters. Otherwise, if she thinks these are the only ones to compare herself to, obviously she will feel disadvantaged and left behind.
    Why must you allow your environment dictate your standards? Let those standards come from books and documentaries, videos, and other places. Books primarily.
    Give her real solid role models.
    Just give her great role models. Give her great books. See what her preferred mode of assimilation is. If it is visual, take her to the right documentaries, the right movies.
    Women worth emulating, women worth worshipping. Why must we not introduce those role models to our daughters?
    The names are comparatively fewer when it comes women, but they do exist.
    In all walks of life, you have women role models.

  • @VedantRajdeep
    @VedantRajdeep Год назад +80

    Nothing enslaves you other than your desires and greed.
    ~ AP Ji

  • @VedantRajdeep
    @VedantRajdeep Год назад +114

    If you want independence, then you must be able to bear abuses.
    ~ AP Ji

    • @bookpop2247
      @bookpop2247 10 месяцев назад

      U r absolutely correct

  • @chandramohan682
    @chandramohan682 Год назад +13

    really appreciate.
    women should not driven by men's choices.

  • @VedantRajdeep
    @VedantRajdeep Год назад +79

    Core spirituality is the woman's best friend.
    ~ AP Ji

  • @vershatehlan9809
    @vershatehlan9809 Год назад +15

    Shi h ye samajhdaar Ameer parents ki ladkiya hi aisa Kar sakti h .......mere pass na paise na samajh koi btane waala nahi
    😢😢😢😢

  • @somikakush8734
    @somikakush8734 Год назад +30

    What a great & an appritiable question asked by a father?

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Год назад +27

    3:20, one of the reasons I don't watch women's basketball ball match, because I start feeling crying inside that I couldn't play it right now....!

  • @Manish967p
    @Manish967p 9 месяцев назад +9

    Every human has to be sets standards high , it's not about only one gender 💫

  • @sonalijha3476
    @sonalijha3476 Год назад +93

    I literally watched myself biography of Marie Curie her life is very inspiring do watch him guys❤

  • @vishwamandal1050
    @vishwamandal1050 Год назад +13

    Why just women? Everyone should set high standards! ❤

  • @koushikipal8776
    @koushikipal8776 Год назад +60

    Acharya Ji, you basically panned out my life till now. I wasn't introduced to any role model and hence ran around nonsensical things for 30 years of my life. When life hit me and I fell hard on the harsh real ground, I had to unlearn whatever I was taught since my inception and the strength I now feel in me fills my whole heart and drives me every passing second to strive for excellence and being a better version of me. Thank you Acharya. 🙏

  • @prernability
    @prernability Год назад +23

    A great dad I see there

  • @VedantRajdeep
    @VedantRajdeep Год назад +42

    Whenever Vedanta shines, its effect will be emancipation of women.
    ~ AP Ji

  • @nidhipandey5281
    @nidhipandey5281 Год назад +43

    If we want woman empowerment for real... Every parent should follow acharya ji 🙏

  • @Guruprasad_Bhat
    @Guruprasad_Bhat Год назад +8

    Stress and unease is so obvious in the voice of the person who is asking the question.

  • @uniquegirl9691
    @uniquegirl9691 Год назад +9

    I think your daughter is multi talented.

  • @DuhDude-zm5uw
    @DuhDude-zm5uw Год назад +88

    I was near about 12-13 year old when I heard about a girl in our school who had many boyfriends. She use to get alot of attention from both genders. This thing got me and I started talking to boys online and used to date them and tell about them to others so that I would get popular too. This happened till when I grown up to 14-15. And now it has been like a normal routine for me to think that boys are everything. Like when I got really attached to this one guy we stopped talking. And it was lockdown one video got recommended. It was about whom I will get married and there I got the concept of soulmate twinflame karmic. This shit totally brain washed me. I used to think that what if I started focusing on myself the other one would think I am busy ans would leave me. If I started improving others would hate me. Soulmates are necessary in life. You should always keep them safe. Never ever put yourself first. Always keep others first. This shit was really taking me away. Idk what to do. Somehow I stopped watching those shifty ass videos and got relief. But still there is a corner in my mind that if I totally focus on my goals then there will be no time to find good partner for myself. I have been brain washed i know this but I cant help it duh. I have to start following my rules strictly. My rules means To stop delusional thoughts and think of what is happening right now. Reality.
    I know that I am going to do this and going to be a better woman. No boys. No boys. No boys. Just ME, I AND MYSELF.

    • @xohrmn
      @xohrmn Год назад +18

      No girl, if you started to focus on yourself then the other one won't "leave" you. Infact, if you focus more on loving yourself, improving yourself, getting to know who you rlly are, only then you'll attract your soulmate. That's how it works!

    • @ruhi_neet1864
      @ruhi_neet1864 11 месяцев назад +5

      That's not true u can even get good partner who will help u improve
      Relationships aren't s hitty things but what type of relationship u are in matters and yes the relationship trend of nibba nibbi is shityt thing

    • @Rohan_Choudhary5
      @Rohan_Choudhary5 10 месяцев назад +1

      If opposite gender people are calling the lust as love...then what is love? Girl has lust for boy bodyparts and boy has lust for girl bodyparts...only body 😂

    • @hemangshrivastava9561
      @hemangshrivastava9561 6 месяцев назад

      i agree with you 💯

  • @anilsahu3725
    @anilsahu3725 Год назад +26

    A must watch gem for every parent, be it of a girl or a boy. Gratitude Master ✨🙌🙏

  • @Didi_blessed345
    @Didi_blessed345 Год назад +23

    Salute to great father

  • @atithigupta2738
    @atithigupta2738 Год назад +31

    Let your standards comes from books❤❤

  • @gaytrirami9496
    @gaytrirami9496 8 месяцев назад +3

    I really appreciate her father

  • @prerna77
    @prerna77 9 месяцев назад +4

    So true , Madame Curie the best recommendation ever ....read it recently .. reset my priorities big time !

  • @BEYOURSELF-lm9zp
    @BEYOURSELF-lm9zp 8 месяцев назад +3

    What a worthful discussion seriously I wish I could see acharya ji in my teenage

  • @nidhi6699
    @nidhi6699 11 месяцев назад +12

    I wish someone had told me when I was younger 😔 the mistakes are already done by me😢 I feel pathetic and horrible 😞😞

    • @Wellnesswave358
      @Wellnesswave358 3 месяца назад +1

      Forgive your mistakes and give it a fresh start.
      It's better late than never.
      You are a queen of parents.Raise your head high,the crown is falling 🍁

  • @rakhisahu8633
    @rakhisahu8633 Год назад +5

    आचार्य जी जैसे गुरु की प्राप्ति ईश्वर की प्राप्ति , कृष्ण की प्राप्ति के समान है ,कोटि कोटि नमन इस युगपुरुष को 🙏आचार्य जी के कहने के बाद कहने को कुछ रह ही नहीं जाता , और कहने का कुछ मन भी नहीं करता , बस उनके शब्दों की गूंज को , गहराई को कुछ देर मौन रहकर मन में महसूस करते हुए आनंदित रहने का मन करता है l
    नमन है इस युगपुरुष को 🙏❤️

  • @prernaprakash1891
    @prernaprakash1891 Год назад +34

    I would like to add, this what sir is saying is not just limited to teenagers but beyond that, be it bachelor's, PG. There are wrong influences which are way too attractive but not worth adoring. Great video! 🙏

  • @kaustavi5129
    @kaustavi5129 Год назад +10

    Standard high hi set rakha tha ....phir bhi dhoka mil gya .....its all about fate and destiny 😊

  • @preetipatel7291
    @preetipatel7291 Год назад +7

    Nice session on the child development & environment to be created for highly growing girls youth👏

  • @vinayvincent764
    @vinayvincent764 Год назад +12

    Simone de Beauvoir
    Rasalind Franklin
    Frida Kahlo.....there are so many .. history is filled with so many great women's to inspire youth.

  • @namratapandey8861
    @namratapandey8861 Год назад +3

    Tqq acharya ji जो ham sabhi ko sahi umr me aap मार्गदर्शक के रूप में मिले

  • @shreyatripathi3900
    @shreyatripathi3900 10 месяцев назад +11

    It doesn't matter that your English speaking skills is good or bad the thing matters is that it's conveying the exact meaning you want to give 😇

  • @snehanegi5952
    @snehanegi5952 9 месяцев назад +2

    If I don't know what kind of highness is possible then any kind of lowness will become the gold standard for me .

  • @shrishtisingh6242
    @shrishtisingh6242 Год назад +4

    Mai bhaut stress me rehti hu mujhe smjhaa nhi kise apne Dil ki baat kru Maine aapka session dekha plz meri help kre
    Mai relationship me thi Jo meri sbse badi glti thi wo bndaaa bhaut toxic h wo mujhe blackmail kr rahaa hai ki tumhari family ko pic send kr dungaa
    Pic normal h bt Mai nhi chahati ki mere parents ka mujprse trust tute wo bhaut trust krte h
    Plz help me

  • @phoenixvision7249
    @phoenixvision7249 Год назад +12

    Some women actually hate competitive woman more than others

  • @Chandana-nj3kv
    @Chandana-nj3kv 7 месяцев назад +2

    Mary kom, serena and venus williams, pv sindhu, sania mirza, smrithi mandhana, tell their stories to your daughters❤

  • @SunainaM27
    @SunainaM27 Год назад +8

    Daughters need to hear this

  • @prasannapaudel8701
    @prasannapaudel8701 Год назад +24

    I needed to hear this since few months 💙✨ highly recommended for girls

  • @NishuSaini_
    @NishuSaini_ Год назад +6

    Feeling blessed to have such guru in my life. I'm learning thousands of lessons from you sir😊

  • @VedantRajdeep
    @VedantRajdeep Год назад +13

    These emotions are not your well-wishers.
    ~ AP Ji

  • @hemalathabhandari3895
    @hemalathabhandari3895 Год назад +8

    💐💐🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Prnaam Acharyaji 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @sayalilute
    @sayalilute Год назад +7

    Right kind of roles models through documentaries, movies, books! Could be movies like King Richard, hidden figures, Jane goodall documentary, Mary Kom, Sindhutai Sapkal, etc.

  • @Aspirant..hain-3567
    @Aspirant..hain-3567 Год назад +2

    Really....... need ur guidance everywhere guruji 🙏

  • @Didi_blessed345
    @Didi_blessed345 Год назад +11

    We girls have power to completely change our nation and world by rightly raising our kids specially boys and by setting high standards through hardwork then males have to focus on becoming gentleman, and truly uplifting self to get partner and this way we will make good society because uplifted males will focus on equality ,then will not feel ashamed in becoming househusband

  • @vivekshukla928
    @vivekshukla928 Год назад +14

    He is not telling any extra ordinary things people problem is they are not going to follow even after this session
    But they are just showing they dont know 😂😂😂

  • @soniyaadvait
    @soniyaadvait Год назад +8

    Acharya ji❤🌟

  • @Didi_blessed345
    @Didi_blessed345 Год назад +11

    Please make videos on great women who had ever lived on planet from everyfield

  • @rahuljaiswal5477
    @rahuljaiswal5477 Год назад +12

    This is not only happening with girls👧. this same story is happening with boys also....i have seen that many boys inspired by those boys who have a girl friend and make them feel like they are doing some great work, but we all know its just a silly thing😊.🚫❌DON'T GET INSPIRED BY THOSE 🚫❌

  • @knightwing2024
    @knightwing2024 Год назад +22

    modern women works zero but expectations are high !!!!!

  • @lov_is_life
    @lov_is_life Год назад +5

    Wemen empowerment tabh hee badhegi jab aurat aurat ka saath degi 👍

  • @akashyadav1335
    @akashyadav1335 Год назад +8

    Gratitude❤ 🙏

  • @RISHIKESHWITH
    @RISHIKESHWITH Год назад +4

    Valuable learning

  • @dhanyanair3100
    @dhanyanair3100 Год назад +7

    So beautiful explained🙏

  • @rimzhimverma2867
    @rimzhimverma2867 Год назад +1

    So valuable things you say sir......yo are great really,

  • @gurushanthaiahms2121
    @gurushanthaiahms2121 Год назад +5

    Pranam acharya ji !

  • @user-ni1ts1ci9b
    @user-ni1ts1ci9b 7 месяцев назад +1

    Very well said sir!!😊

  • @shashisharma1584
    @shashisharma1584 Год назад +5

    How beautiful explanation ❤

  • @sonamsingh442
    @sonamsingh442 Год назад +5

    Sirr bahut achcha ●question Kiya woman not support woman field £x support other things

  • @jayashreesaha6154
    @jayashreesaha6154 Год назад +8

    This was WOW..!!

  • @jyotibokare4401
    @jyotibokare4401 Год назад +4

    Thanks sir for such wonderful thought 😊🙏

  • @aasthaverma1887
    @aasthaverma1887 11 месяцев назад +2

    Excellent topic 😊

  • @vpreeti36
    @vpreeti36 Год назад +3

    Thank you sir,i will raise my daughter like this

  • @inspirationalstories2940
    @inspirationalstories2940 Год назад +1

    Thanku acharayaji 🙏🙏

  • @aakankshapandey5228
    @aakankshapandey5228 Год назад +2

    Aap sahi kah rahe hai aacharya ji

  • @vincentalmeida7065
    @vincentalmeida7065 Год назад +3

    Very much true Sir.

  • @anaesthete3234
    @anaesthete3234 Год назад +2

    Thankyou! 🍁

  • @iasofficermissrachana5038
    @iasofficermissrachana5038 Год назад

    Namaste Acharya ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍👍👍🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @HimanshuSingh-xk8xg
    @HimanshuSingh-xk8xg 10 месяцев назад +3

    Acharya ji is Really a true motivator.
    He is really an inspiration for so many youths.A lots of things needs to learn from him.
    The way of explaining things is really incredible in order to change mindset as well as to move in right direction.
    Huge Respect for every womens.

  • @charanpreetkaur3582
    @charanpreetkaur3582 Год назад +2

    Guru Ji pranam

  • @ATUVAM
    @ATUVAM Год назад +5

    Ye jo reel waali ladkiyo ne mahual bigada hai na 😢 sb ladkiya pareshaan hai

  • @drjj7067
    @drjj7067 11 месяцев назад

    So good understanding

  • @yasirquershi3070
    @yasirquershi3070 Год назад +5

    I watch women's beach volleyball...I promote women's empowerment....

    • @Tillu_dream16-39
      @Tillu_dream16-39 Год назад

      Yeahh man, lot of strong beautiful women there...

  • @VedantRajdeep
    @VedantRajdeep Год назад +13

    After you've been with Marie Curie, how can you be with pari!

  • @ninjaamara8053
    @ninjaamara8053 Год назад +5

    Kya aapne women cricket ya dusre game mein cheer boys dekhe hai nahi na par cheer girls jarur dekhe honge jab image aise rakhoge to kon tumhara sports dekhega.🙄🙄🙄

  • @InfoBlitz2023
    @InfoBlitz2023 Год назад +3

    Thnak you so much , this is literally what i needed to hear!! can someone list , there favrioute role models (women) bellow

  • @shashisharma1584
    @shashisharma1584 Год назад

    Happy Father's day Acharya ji

  • @merabhoot2233
    @merabhoot2233 Год назад +4

    🙏 speechless 🙏

  • @somaram4986
    @somaram4986 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you sir. This disscution is really very important for for girls

  • @pushpamakhijani7345
    @pushpamakhijani7345 Год назад +5

    Offcourse, Madam Curie, not and never a pari. 👍👍🙏🙏🌹🌹❤❤🥰🥰

  • @motivationtales3341
    @motivationtales3341 Год назад +1

    Thank you acharya ji ❤

  • @manjarikumari7380
    @manjarikumari7380 2 месяца назад

    highly inspired🙏