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Last story: the girlfriend’s mom really wanted compensation for what she herself said was a thank you gift. Doing this so close to the trip makes it sound like this is teetering on a scam.
"You should apologize for not being upset at being punished for having a baby out of wedlock. You were rude and disrespectful because you weren't upset" First story is wild
For the one about the Find My iPhone app, I think the idea is (arguably ) a good idea, but her motives are questionable at best, if she wants his 24/7 location _specifically_ because she doesn’t trust him. I say it’s a good idea because I and my parents use it, but it’s for different reasons (if one of us is walking home from work/uni we check it to see how long it’ll take to get back - for example, my dad will check my mum’s location when she’s walking home so he knows exactly when to start getting her dinner ready, that way it’s ready for her as soon as she gets home.) We also use it so if one of us loses a phone/iPad, we can track it, as it does happen surprisingly often and it wouldn’t be the first time my dad has accidentally left his phone on the bus and used the app to see if it was handed into the bus station to be picked up, still on the bus or pocketed by someone who found it. I do agree though that she seems to only want op’s location because she wants to know where he is 24/7, which is kinda creepy and really won’t help build up trust between them.
S3: OP should do the same, paint the BIL and his wife in a similar tacky fashion and show it to them as a surprise and hint at them saying she'd make a discount and ask for a just as ridiculous price and if they make excuses and stuff, she should act all offended and sad. Give them their own medicine.
Story 1: I wish I had that ability to tune out any offensive words hurled at me, but my short temper gets in the way. I think I'm the human version of Raphael from Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles.
Story with the painting. She sells her painting for $2,000-3,000? I help the cats I work with do paintings, and while I think they'd sell, I have no idea how much to charge.
Story 1: Good on the OP or staying calm through this stupid Karen aunts BS, but after this whole incident, i would just go no contact with her. Why subject yourself to her judgments? She sounds insane.... and it sounds like some of the cousins are really no better here. Story 2: No way is the OP a jerk here. Why should she be expected to do all this stuff for the sister here? Its her baby, not the OP. The sister and her bf didn't plan nor think any of this very well, and it seems like they dragged their heels on a lot of things. Well, now that the baby is here, the sister and the bf really need to shape up here. The OP shouldn't be expected to do any of that. It's okay for the OP to help out... and glad that she does, but shouldn't be expected. Story 3: 40 minutes? WTH? I wouldn't have let any of this go on for 4 minutes before i had police throw this guy out. This guy was a complete nutjob, drunk or not and im surprised no one kicked him out of the house for everything here. Least everyone had a laugh at his expense though. Story 4: OP is not a jerk at all here. This isn't about checking to make sure the other person is alright or safe or anything, it is about control 100%. The way the gf was talking and then getting upset about it, i think she is paranoid here and likely has dealt with liars and cheaters in the past, but that doesnt mean she needs to do this with the OP. Story 5: No way would the OP be a jerk here. You didnt ask her, or give permission to make this, so why on earth should she be offended that you wont buy it? Seriously, whats's her deal here? She sounds nuts... and doesnt sound like a good artist either. She just seems overly desperate for money here. Story 6: No way is the OP a jerk and if anyone should be paying back this first-class ticket, it should be the ex-gf, not the OP. She's the one that broke up with him, and he never asked for the tickets to begin with, so why on earth should any of this fall onto his shoulders? Looks like they are just trying to scam him for money here. I would tell them no, tell them off and block them after this.
Wasn't the 4th story about the art covered by the other narrator on this channel? lol Either way, the OP still isn't the AH for refusing being strongarmed into buying overpriced art. Is an artist allowed to hold value in their pieces? Yes, and I'd hope they do! Should they expect others to hold the same value in their art? Heck no. I've made art for others because I *wanted* to make it for them. I've even been offered payment for making art *and I refused it* because it was a gift, not a commission.
The story 5 is crazy because my grendma do art to but she sells it for like ±4000kc (22,3* more than USD) so in my country that jerk would sells it for 92 000kc (kc=my country money)
I wish you folks would start tagging which narrator you're using in the title or something because I'm starting to loathe the "You like literally recap the whole literal story after reading it and like literally say the same toxic words over and over, and I literally don't know what to do, here's what happened."
TL;DR: People need to back off of parents that aren't acting 100% within the person's 1840's style world view. Also mostly a rant/ramble that's slowly been building up in me for months and my social anxiety comment filter is malfunctioning so the rant/ramble comes out now ❤ Forgive my blunt comment here, I've heard so many stories about people getting pissy about women having kids out of wedlock and the final straw has broken my back. From my experience, the people that get so mad, offended, vindictive, vile, cruel, and any other synonym you wanna tack on about "women having babies out if wedlock" are the same people who get so mad, offended, vindictive, vile, and cruel about women's choices about their own bodies and whether or not they WANT to carry a baby to term. Excuse fucking me, Karen, but what if this person that you're going out of your way to ostracise was assulted in such a way that she became pregnant? Does she have to marry her attacker? Is she allowed to get rid of a constant reminder that she knows she won't be able to love because that she only sees her attacker in their eyes? No? So you'll cut her slack on not being married before the baby was born? Also no? The baby died in the womb? That's the mother's fault for falling off er bicycle when she was 12 because a wombat waddled into the way somehow I guess. The father is sueing for sole custody, what could the mother have to piss him off so much! How dare she have her own thoughts and feelings about the man that was basically shoved onto her to help her father's career! Well, what should she do then?! Plot twist! Her partner left because she can't have a baby! Somehow, someway, Karen will make both of those things her fault, then continue to be crule and vile to any children she adopts because "they're bastards" or "their birth parents rejected them for a reason" or some other absolute garbage that isn't true and doesn't matter if it is. I know OP wasnt attacked and that she's married in her husband's culture, which ahould be good enough for the people care about the entire marriage thing. As far as I'm concerned, you don't need jewellery, you don't need some fancy party, and you only need the piece of paper to get the government to back off; anything you else you want to make it feel offical to you, including the aforementioned jewellery and party, are entire up to you and your spouse(s). My rant was more about how no matter what OP (or anyone else that has to deal with this disgusting breed of Karen) did, no matter the reasons behind how or why the baby came into existence or if it DIDN'T come into existence, it wouldn't be good enough. The people that act like this are the kind of old-world thinkers that wholeheartedly believe that the person younger than they are that currently has their attention is personification of every iteration of the devil and they'll go deep to hurt these poor people, and anyone they care deeply about, just for existing. It's a lose-lose situation with these kinds of people, so you might as well save yourself a little pain and not play their pathetic game. Do what OP did and just sit and smile and say okay and offer to leave. The only people that'll get pissy are the people that did get pissy, Karen and the other old-world thinkers, everyone else will at least start to see why those people are wrong and hopefully teach the younger generation to be better because its too late for us to be good people, we have to settle for just better than predecessors. Please don't be the kinds of people that judge people for the families they choose to have; it doesn't matter if your niece or nephew or nibling is straight, gay, bi, ace, cis, trans, agender, or literally any other part of the LBGTQIA+, or if their partner or partners are, if any children they have are born in or out of wedlock, with or without the help of modern medicine or a surrogate, if they're single with their baby or if they choose to let their community help raise their child, or any other circumstance at all. What matters is so simple: are they happy and healthy? Is the child happy and healthy? Are the people that the parent of this child keeps around happy and helpful (ie, not berating and ostracising the parent or the child because the parent's choices dont 100% align with yours)? Its hard enough raising a kid without having to be expect to justify yourself repeatedly to the people that expect to be allowed in yours and the child's life
Story one Some of op are entitled because op and op husband didn’t get married in 🇺🇸 the marriage did happen also op husband darker sink colour is smarter then them they ego is hurt also I think they could be raciest
I wonhundredpercent disagree doctor original poster and string number two is a jerk because half of the story was them complaining about. Oh my sister refuses to get out she’s not in a rush to move out. She hasn’t tried to move out but guess what Neither is the original poster it sounds like the original poster is judging her sister for living with their parents but guess what so is there original poster. Like I understand not wanting to get up and change the baby but just sit there and being like oh well I want my sister get out. Why won’t she move in with her boyfriend and then they’re like oh she’s. I don’t say children or an accident I don’t believe a child is ever an accident I believe they can be unplanned, but not an accident. unless the original poster sister was trying to get pregnant that baby was not an accident. But like I said, the original poster shouldn’t be talking about. When is my sister going to get out and she’s not making an effort from what it sounds like you’re not making an effort either. to move out it sounds like you and your sister outside of the baby are in the same position and what does the narrator mean? Oh you’re allowing your sister to stay in your bedroom you know what the only people allowing anyone to stay there are the parents it’s not the original posters house. The parents are living with the original poster directional poster is living with her parents.
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old narrator back :)
Story 1: Go no contact with all of the jerks.
Story 2: Move in with a relative or friend.
Thanks
Story 1: yeah it’s time to go no contact with those delusional people
first story is wild fr
thanks for the daily tea mate
also delulu is never the solulu
@@rubycararedheart9555 that means delusion is not the solution right
@@boominion9329 yep
@@rubycararedheart9555 ok
First story OP: Does nothing
Aunt: And I took that personally
Painting OP: "Oh, no, I actually already have the wedding gift for them, but if you want to give it to them for wedding gift, that'd be nice!"
10:11: Whole house of jerks. *40 🤬 minutes?!?!*
More than likely they were afraid of what the jackass might do if they interfered
Imagine actually doing that 😂😂😂😂
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@@boominion9329 hello
@@venomheadytgood morning (maybe, could be evening for u)
@@Adamgamer42069 evening
@@Adamgamer42069 it’s 1:12 rn
The painting….reminded me of big bang theory🤣😂
Story 1:
to OP’s Karen!Aunt = *OK BOOMER !!!*
Bro coded an insult lol
The cold shoulder 🤑
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@@boominion9329hi!
@@boominion9329ive seen you 3 times now
@@Adamgamer42069 I commented on the first 11 comments I saw hi
Last story: the girlfriend’s mom really wanted compensation for what she herself said was a thank you gift. Doing this so close to the trip makes it sound like this is teetering on a scam.
She said it was a gift you don't pay people back for a gift!
POV first story: someone's trying to hard and we KNOW IT
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@@boominion9329 Hello there!
First thought opening this video. "Holy **** is that Turok?" Lol
Never share your location to a girlfriend, unless you have been together for awhile and trust each others.
Its so easy to abuse this and go crazy.
Story 3: W mom with the joke 😂😂😂
lol
Weird that the aunt is trying to get a rise out of OP.
Last story: 😂😂😂😂😂 I wouldn't want to be the narrator's ex. He wouldn't pay me back for anything.
Story 1. Aunt is MAJOR DELULU.
That weirdo watched too many cartoons 👀😂
Preventing someone from being freed in an enclosed space is actually a crime.
Hi love the videos
Story 1: OP essentially used the gray rock method and the older relatives
yeah were family continues to roast the heck out of you
"You should apologize for not being upset at being punished for having a baby out of wedlock. You were rude and disrespectful because you weren't upset"
First story is wild
For the one about the Find My iPhone app, I think the idea is (arguably ) a good idea, but her motives are questionable at best, if she wants his 24/7 location _specifically_ because she doesn’t trust him.
I say it’s a good idea because I and my parents use it, but it’s for different reasons (if one of us is walking home from work/uni we check it to see how long it’ll take to get back - for example, my dad will check my mum’s location when she’s walking home so he knows exactly when to start getting her dinner ready, that way it’s ready for her as soon as she gets home.)
We also use it so if one of us loses a phone/iPad, we can track it, as it does happen surprisingly often and it wouldn’t be the first time my dad has accidentally left his phone on the bus and used the app to see if it was handed into the bus station to be picked up, still on the bus or pocketed by someone who found it.
I do agree though that she seems to only want op’s location because she wants to know where he is 24/7, which is kinda creepy and really won’t help build up trust between them.
Trust is the cornerstone of a relationship. If she doesn't trust OP, the relationship is stillborn.
In the last two stories, that is actually a form extortion which is a crime.
S3: OP should do the same, paint the BIL and his wife in a similar tacky fashion and show it to them as a surprise and hint at them saying she'd make a discount and ask for a just as ridiculous price and if they make excuses and stuff, she should act all offended and sad. Give them their own medicine.
I CANNOT BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE EATING DURING DINNER INSTEAD OF BEING OFFENDED BY ME HOW COULD YOU
Story 1: I wish I had that ability to tune out any offensive words hurled at me, but my short temper gets in the way. I think I'm the human version of Raphael from Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles.
less than 1 minute
LESGOOOOOOOO
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Story 3 that’s pretty much quagmire
This probably makes me stupid but I don't know what wedlock means
Meaning you had a baby without being married
@@Erica69 Oooooooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh thank you
@@Barry6488 you’re welcome
Story with the painting. She sells her painting for $2,000-3,000? I help the cats I work with do paintings, and while I think they'd sell, I have no idea how much to charge.
Story 1: Good on the OP or staying calm through this stupid Karen aunts BS, but after this whole incident, i would just go no contact with her. Why subject yourself to her judgments? She sounds insane.... and it sounds like some of the cousins are really no better here.
Story 2: No way is the OP a jerk here. Why should she be expected to do all this stuff for the sister here? Its her baby, not the OP. The sister and her bf didn't plan nor think any of this very well, and it seems like they dragged their heels on a lot of things. Well, now that the baby is here, the sister and the bf really need to shape up here. The OP shouldn't be expected to do any of that. It's okay for the OP to help out... and glad that she does, but shouldn't be expected.
Story 3: 40 minutes? WTH? I wouldn't have let any of this go on for 4 minutes before i had police throw this guy out. This guy was a complete nutjob, drunk or not and im surprised no one kicked him out of the house for everything here. Least everyone had a laugh at his expense though.
Story 4: OP is not a jerk at all here. This isn't about checking to make sure the other person is alright or safe or anything, it is about control 100%. The way the gf was talking and then getting upset about it, i think she is paranoid here and likely has dealt with liars and cheaters in the past, but that doesnt mean she needs to do this with the OP.
Story 5: No way would the OP be a jerk here. You didnt ask her, or give permission to make this, so why on earth should she be offended that you wont buy it? Seriously, whats's her deal here? She sounds nuts... and doesnt sound like a good artist either. She just seems overly desperate for money here.
Story 6: No way is the OP a jerk and if anyone should be paying back this first-class ticket, it should be the ex-gf, not the OP. She's the one that broke up with him, and he never asked for the tickets to begin with, so why on earth should any of this fall onto his shoulders? Looks like they are just trying to scam him for money here. I would tell them no, tell them off and block them after this.
Damn ive never been so early
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Wait.. looking after her child? No
WOW
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Story 2: it’s the sister room but it’s in her parents house.
Wasn't the 4th story about the art covered by the other narrator on this channel? lol Either way, the OP still isn't the AH for refusing being strongarmed into buying overpriced art.
Is an artist allowed to hold value in their pieces? Yes, and I'd hope they do! Should they expect others to hold the same value in their art? Heck no.
I've made art for others because I *wanted* to make it for them. I've even been offered payment for making art *and I refused it* because it was a gift, not a commission.
Wonder if she wanted to share her location with you...
Na, she can cheat but you can't.
The story 5 is crazy because my grendma do art to but she sells it for like ±4000kc (22,3* more than USD) so in my country that jerk would sells it for 92 000kc (kc=my country money)
2nd earliest ive been, first was 1 minute
i made it in 9 minutes lets go
I wish you folks would start tagging which narrator you're using in the title or something because I'm starting to loathe the "You like literally recap the whole literal story after reading it and like literally say the same toxic words over and over, and I literally don't know what to do, here's what happened."
TL;DR: People need to back off of parents that aren't acting 100% within the person's 1840's style world view. Also mostly a rant/ramble that's slowly been building up in me for months and my social anxiety comment filter is malfunctioning so the rant/ramble comes out now ❤
Forgive my blunt comment here, I've heard so many stories about people getting pissy about women having kids out of wedlock and the final straw has broken my back. From my experience, the people that get so mad, offended, vindictive, vile, cruel, and any other synonym you wanna tack on about "women having babies out if wedlock" are the same people who get so mad, offended, vindictive, vile, and cruel about women's choices about their own bodies and whether or not they WANT to carry a baby to term. Excuse fucking me, Karen, but what if this person that you're going out of your way to ostracise was assulted in such a way that she became pregnant? Does she have to marry her attacker? Is she allowed to get rid of a constant reminder that she knows she won't be able to love because that she only sees her attacker in their eyes? No? So you'll cut her slack on not being married before the baby was born? Also no? The baby died in the womb? That's the mother's fault for falling off er bicycle when she was 12 because a wombat waddled into the way somehow I guess. The father is sueing for sole custody, what could the mother have to piss him off so much! How dare she have her own thoughts and feelings about the man that was basically shoved onto her to help her father's career! Well, what should she do then?! Plot twist! Her partner left because she can't have a baby! Somehow, someway, Karen will make both of those things her fault, then continue to be crule and vile to any children she adopts because "they're bastards" or "their birth parents rejected them for a reason" or some other absolute garbage that isn't true and doesn't matter if it is.
I know OP wasnt attacked and that she's married in her husband's culture, which ahould be good enough for the people care about the entire marriage thing. As far as I'm concerned, you don't need jewellery, you don't need some fancy party, and you only need the piece of paper to get the government to back off; anything you else you want to make it feel offical to you, including the aforementioned jewellery and party, are entire up to you and your spouse(s). My rant was more about how no matter what OP (or anyone else that has to deal with this disgusting breed of Karen) did, no matter the reasons behind how or why the baby came into existence or if it DIDN'T come into existence, it wouldn't be good enough. The people that act like this are the kind of old-world thinkers that wholeheartedly believe that the person younger than they are that currently has their attention is personification of every iteration of the devil and they'll go deep to hurt these poor people, and anyone they care deeply about, just for existing. It's a lose-lose situation with these kinds of people, so you might as well save yourself a little pain and not play their pathetic game. Do what OP did and just sit and smile and say okay and offer to leave. The only people that'll get pissy are the people that did get pissy, Karen and the other old-world thinkers, everyone else will at least start to see why those people are wrong and hopefully teach the younger generation to be better because its too late for us to be good people, we have to settle for just better than predecessors.
Please don't be the kinds of people that judge people for the families they choose to have; it doesn't matter if your niece or nephew or nibling is straight, gay, bi, ace, cis, trans, agender, or literally any other part of the LBGTQIA+, or if their partner or partners are, if any children they have are born in or out of wedlock, with or without the help of modern medicine or a surrogate, if they're single with their baby or if they choose to let their community help raise their child, or any other circumstance at all. What matters is so simple: are they happy and healthy? Is the child happy and healthy? Are the people that the parent of this child keeps around happy and helpful (ie, not berating and ostracising the parent or the child because the parent's choices dont 100% align with yours)? Its hard enough raising a kid without having to be expect to justify yourself repeatedly to the people that expect to be allowed in yours and the child's life
This is why people aren’t having kids. People are disgusting to single parents or parents who don’t have formal Christian weddings
What is this game ok the background ?
Lol
Damn early af
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🙂 Have a nice day.
... Is aitj guy and aitg guy starting to read the same stories??
300 gang
First story, it's not her business. You know you're married. And you just pissed her off. Your sister can ask, but you don't have to help.
Story one
Some of op are entitled because op and op husband didn’t get married in 🇺🇸 the marriage did happen also op husband darker sink colour is smarter then them they ego is hurt also I think they could be raciest
Im so early
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I wonhundredpercent disagree doctor original poster and string number two is a jerk because half of the story was them complaining about. Oh my sister refuses to get out she’s not in a rush to move out. She hasn’t tried to move out but guess what Neither is the original poster it sounds like the original poster is judging her sister for living with their parents but guess what so is there original poster. Like I understand not wanting to get up and change the baby but just sit there and being like oh well I want my sister get out. Why won’t she move in with her boyfriend and then they’re like oh she’s. I don’t say children or an accident I don’t believe a child is ever an accident I believe they can be unplanned, but not an accident. unless the original poster sister was trying to get pregnant that baby was not an accident. But like I said, the original poster shouldn’t be talking about. When is my sister going to get out and she’s not making an effort from what it sounds like you’re not making an effort either. to move out it sounds like you and your sister outside of the baby are in the same position and what does the narrator mean? Oh you’re allowing your sister to stay in your bedroom you know what the only people allowing anyone to stay there are the parents it’s not the original posters house. The parents are living with the original poster directional poster is living with her parents.
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