The woman that co tiniest to have an affair with Vanessa's husband, should have just ended all communication with Vanessa's husband. I would have ghosted him amd left town. Vanessa's might have probably still been alive, had the her husband's girlfriend stopped the relationship cold and gotten an order of protection if he didn't stop calling her.
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In his case, a couple decades would be the rest of his life anyway. So, roll the dice, go to court, maybe he'd walk, though looking at his face when they announced the verdict he didnt seem like it came as a particular shock.
@@GNMi79 The average prisoner dies behind bars at age 64. Incarceration dramatically impacts life expectancy with some statistics saying 2 years off lifespan for every 1 year behind bars. Im not advocating for this dude to be sure! no way, f this dude
Especially considering the fact that earlier she said she knew he was married and said "meh," then changes her tune and says if the wife had come on over and told her to stop, she would have instantly stopped...lol.
"If Vanessa had showed up to my apartment pleading and groveling with me to leave her husband alone, I'd have cut off the relationship right there." ....buuuuuut she wouldn't cut off the relationship when she found out he was married in the first place.
But she knew that Vanessa was still involved with him and instead of leaving she gives him an ultimatum. She is not the virtous woman she is playing. A homewrecker.
I was duped by a man who told me he and his wife were divorced. He had 2 kids. He said he didn’t want me to meet his kids yet bc he didn’t want the fact that he had a new girlfriend cause issues with his ex wife and cause issues with him seeing the kids. I bought it. He was married. But, as soon as I found out, I walked away and I told his wife. I thought she should know what he had been doing. She ended up staying with him, which I found pathetic but to each their own. I’m sure he continued to cheat on with other women. The amount of elaborate lies he told her so he could spend time with me were insane. I only know about this bc she asked me if I spent 4th of July week with him, told her yes, and she proceeded to tell me the elaborate lie he told his family to get away. There were more examples like that.
@tatianacaterina874 you might see it as pathetic but most of us don't just turn our backs on our family over one incident. He may cheat on her with other women but clearly he stays with his wife. If anything it is the mistresses who are pathetic.
A single woman should never have the audacity to give a MARRIED MAN an ultimatum of either being with her or HIS WIFE! That's insane. The moment singles find out their partners are married, they need to walk away themselves. Don't give them the choice. Make the choice for them and leave the situationship.
She was absolutely p a t h e t ic. The red flags with flashing neon lights were in her face....but her weakness controlled her: which proved her character. I wouldn't trust that woman as far as I could throw her, because she couldn't be trusted to do the right thing when it mattered.
I'm wondering how closely did they look at the girlfriend. I think she lied about not having a sexual relationship with the husband. I also think she lied about being confronted by the wife.She could of borrowed his truck. Maybe she knew how to shoot a rifle but did not know enough to remove the shells. I hope she was given a lie detector test!
It's a matter of public record. My sister and I both tried some online dating, we just came out and told the guys hey I need to run a complete background check on you. The gentleman like guys were always like, not a problem whatsoever.
God rest everyone's souls. FOCUS WAS ALL UPON them mostly. AGAIN, WE ARE TO ASSUME that the perpetrator FAILED a lie detector test somewhere along the process; ASSUME that this X-policeman, military man had absolutely no enemies who might want to PLANT evidence out of revenge. Never assume, and always look for "what might be missing from the scenario!" In feeling a bit sorry for Mary Beth's having been deceived, does anyone wonder if SHE didn't have an admirer who might have wanted competition out of the picture ? Must be evident that ALL evidence isn't being shown by 48 hours ? "Man on The Run" LyndaFayeProductions
Travis' father: "In my heart and in his heart, we know he's innocent. He told me that he was innocent -- lookin' dead into my eyes." Well, there you have it ... he didn't do it. Though he lied to his wife and to his mistress, he certainly wouldn't lie to Daddy, would he?
Ha! I have a little brother who will look you in the eye & swear to god on a lie! Momma always said if Billy tells you it’s raining you better go look 😂 People think their babies can do no wrong.
You mean the suspect who would taunt the daughters of his murdered wife by pointing a "finger gun" at them when they passed by? THAT "innocent" son??? SMH
@@DennisSnuffysame girl, but it’s my sister. You can literally watch her drop a glass and ask why did you drop that glass and she will look you in the eye and tell you she didn’t drop a glass (using the glass as an example) she even believes her own lies lol
So, you loved him, thought him/his underwear was sexy, and you gave him an ultimatum, but sex was the only thing you didn't do? Such a dumb thing to lie about.
And why would she give an Ultimatum to someone who was married and not just leave him. If I found out someone was married that I was seeing, I would be gone.
@@juliealbright5191 for real! I believe Vanessa’s daughters that their mom went and spoke to Mary Beth, too. So I think she knew before she says she did.
Everything she said had airholes. At one point she made a statement that separated herself from the situation. She says what she needs to. I think she knew alot about Vanessa.
Me too. Least if they divorce they can restart and build themselves up again. He has no chance of that in prison. If you can’t remain faithful just don’t get married. It’s as simple as that.
Mary Beth refusing to see how impactful her words or ultimatum was is ridiculous. What she should have said was, “You’re a liar and a cheat and I can never have a real relationship with you. So goodbye!”
@@jaball77 Great point, The first thing she learned about him was that he’s a liar and a cheater… So why would she want to be in a relationship with someone like that
My mother once told me: "If they cheat WITH you, they'll cheat On you" AND... "If they talk TO you about other people, they're talking ABOUT you to other people" It's the easiest way to judge the character of a person. Teach your children!
exactly....she knew what was up. I believe Vanessa came to her house as well. She's a mess. The minute she found out she was married, she should have left him alone
Ha ha ha! She testifies that she gave him the ultimatum to choose which woman he wanted to be with, yet claimed they had never had sex. Sure, everyone believes that.
AGAIN, WE ARE TO ASSUME that the perpetrator FAILED a lie detector test somewhere along the process; ASSUME that this X-policeman, military man had absolutely no enemies who might want to PLANT evidence out of revenge. Never assume, and always look for "what might be missing from the scenario!" In feeling a bit sorry for Mary Beth's having been deceived, does anyone wonder if SHE didn't have an admirer who might have wanted competition out of the picture ? Must be evident that ALL evidence isn't being shown by 48 hours ? "Man on The Run" LyndaFayeProductions
The mistress is DEFINITELY lying. She contradicts herself. First: "*I* wasn't ready for an intimate relationship." Later: "That's why HE didn't want to be intimate."🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 If liars' pants really caught fire, this program would've been WAY more entertaining. 🔥
I get your point but both statements can be true especially when spoken about from different angles. I could not be ready and later talking about why my boyfriend isn’t ready doesn’t make one of those statements untrue.
How does that PROVE anything? Both statements can be true. And you do know they do editing right??? She could have mentioned that he also didn’t want to be intimate in the 48 interview, and they edited it out for various reasons.
Yeah, I caught that, too. Because she lied about that, she's also lying about sex, not knowing he was married and about Vanessa coming to beg her to leave her husband alone. Sad that Vanessa didn't just let hubby have the lying mistress. They deserve each other.
Mary Beth claims it was "only texting" but talks casually about how he was with her in her house. We ALL know they were gettin' it on. And despite her denial, Mary Beth was definitely visited by the victim, who begged Mary Beth to stop seeing her husband. THAT'S what prompted the ultimatum to him. She's just trying to distance herself from her part in it. And she played a big part in this woman's death. Karma is a b!tch.
The mistress is a prime example of „hear what you want to hear“, her level of delulu is just…and how absurd is it to fight over a man who looks like the American version of Gru from Despicable Me 🤡
Air force, police officer, firefighter, paramedic. Women love that, true or not true. To them it means he is trustworthy, dependable, honorable, a provider and a status symbol to brag about. And they love uniforms.
20:53 "They really said thaaat??" You can see the lies on Mary Beth's face when confronted about the claim of the wife begging her to leave her husband alone. I bet Mary Beth knows WAYYY more about all this... I wouldn't be surprised if she played a part in the planning of it too.
Oh she is so lying. “Emotional” affairs are just unconsummated actual affairs. Her texts and choice of words very much prove that she was deeply involved physically as well. Whether they consummated or not doesn’t matter, you can do all that over the phone. Affair is affair.
Didn’t the mistress talk about his underwear being folded and put in a Vera Bradley bag in a text?? If they aren’t intimate what the hell is she doing with his underwear?!
I met someone exactly like that, flood of texts, selfies, gifts, etc….the one I have been waiting for! Complete sociopath-had a false identity and found out he had been married over 30 yrs. I didn’t give him an ultimatum I told him to eff off and never contact me again. He is going to end up just like this guy. He could win an academy award for his acting skills! Anyone who floods you with attention is a GIGANTIC RED FLAG!!!🚩
I don't think she's vindictive but she's definitely disingenuous. I think she lied about the victim coming over to see her and wants to portray herself as having done nothing wrong whatsoever.
The husband was despicable but the mistress is also guilty for NOT ending the relationship. Instead of breaking it off like a respectable person would do, she gives him an ultimatum.
Yeah, but people don't go to jail for being the other woman. He killed his wife. Considering the wife got with him when he was still married, seems like this game would have continued with many more women if he could have gotten away with it.
My mama used to say, "If you give me "either, or", I'll take the "or" every time! My mother was a beautiful woman in real estate and was hit on constantly. A respectable woman who turned down a ton of guys. Miss you, mom!
Air Force vet here: No such thing as an Air Force accommodation medal and EVERYONE pretty much gets an achievement medal. I'm sure he meant AF Commendation medal, but it's weird that he pronounced it that way. Just pointing this out to show that maybe he lies about everything?
That's her 3rd marriage, I doubt she was as loving as they pictured her. And as my daughter has done a beauty pageant, modeling, ballerina.....99% of the people are narcissistic.
@@سارهاحمد-ت2ش Or maybe the GF unalived her? There wasn't enough evidence for me to say Travis undoubtably. I've seen more coincidences in innocent cases.
@@WhatAWonderfulNameItIs My exact thought. I wish she had shown some humility, concern, shock, sorrow for the outcome and for being involved with a married man.
Travis McGraw "will remain in prison for life with no chance for parole. The State Court of Appeals came back with a unanimous vote by three appeals judges, that the trial for Travis McGraw was 'free from error' and that the defendant was given a fair trial."
Vanessa seems like a wonderful woman who raised two amazing daughters and was raised by a loving father. My condolences to the family and Saluda community she served so generously.
@DecolonialRhetoric never get involved with a married person! Practically he was still married! You are only lonely in your mind! You have your marriage that is over! So! You have more time to spend with your work at church.
I know I'll be attacked, but I'm tired of the "woman of faith" mantra, when it doesn't match actions. Daughter of a Baptist preacher, goes on mission trips,...and then proceeds to marry three times?! When you're that age, you should know better than to get caught up in "whirlwind romances"; especially with a man who is not even divorced yet. What religious people will never say is, sometimes our own sin leads us into the path of evil people, and it leads to our own destruction. It doesn't exonerate Travis or Mary Beth's guilt, but if you do what is right, you don't end up with these people in your life at all.
Mary beth, did not physically killed Vanessa, but she did give the go ahead for travis to pull the trigger. She's evil. I hope she gets her karma soon.
Blaming and hating the killer is evident. But for that mistress who knew he was married and giving the ultimatum which is the trigger… and still playing innocent👺🤮💩
Seems she met the wrong person 3 times. Sometimes folks want a partner so badly, they dismiss the tells, those little niggling instances where our intuition/God is warning us.
Mary Beth needed to mind her business cuz. nothing she says makes sense. She was so very vulnerable yet she continued to see him, make demands and contributed to the death of the actual, innocent wife. I know that Vanessa DID visit her, but she lies about it to look better in everyone's eyes. She is a despicable person looking for attention on a doc. like this, when really she has no reason to be there!!
I'm always suspicious when a man is described as "charming" by many people. It seems like they are more often than not a phony and not to be trusted. I'm so sorry for this family's loss.
*LADIES* and dudes, if you find out that your partner is currently in a relationship or married, don’t ever ask them to choose. Relationships are hard enough when you’re a good and moral person. Don’t mess with cheaters once you know who they really are.
He lied to Marybeth that he was single. For me, that's enough reason to cut him off. I would never want to be the reason to break up any marriage, no matter how bad that marriage is.
If she would have conscience, you're not gonna make an ultimatum to a MARRIED MAN to choose between you and his wife! Can you sleep knowing you're destroying a family??
Well, this example is very bad. Everybody seemed to want to look good and not be good. It’s very possible to find mature love when you are not chasing after married men and pretending to be perfect while doing so.
I only feel bad for Vanessa's poor father..Imagine raising your only child with all love now you're almost 80 and one day you wake up and your only child gets murdered😭😭
But I always wonder about wives confronting the other woman. Not justifying knowingly sleeping with a married man but she's not your problem, the husband is.
@@matchhunter7012 What a ridiculous way to put it. This isn’t about sacrificing your freedom for a woman as you frame it, this is about being a murderer.
It's proven that "love bombing" is a RED FLAG! If a man or woman cannot step back and leave you alone after you first meet, but keeps texting and calling more than is normal- GET AWAY!!!
if a 50 yr old guy shows up to a random event and is the only one wearing his miltary dress uinform there is usually something up with that guy and not in a good way.
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The woman that co tiniest to have an affair with Vanessa's husband, should have just ended all communication with Vanessa's husband. I would have ghosted him amd left town. Vanessa's might have probably still been alive, had the her husband's girlfriend stopped the relationship cold and gotten an order of protection if he didn't stop calling her.
@@CarmenAmorosGoldberg
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*Senator Nancy Schaefer*
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*The Corrupt Business of*
*Children Protective Services*
Warning _lower income families on
How the give."use you as a way to keep in a "job"
Plus listen to her on
*Alex Jones inforwars*
And William Wagner
Especially if you're on any gov.aasst.
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Soon...
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*Senator Nancy Schaefer*
And her telling on
*The Corrupt Business of*
*Children Protective Services*
Warning _lower income families on
How the give."use you as a way to keep in a "job"
Plus listen to her on
*Alex Jones inforwars*
And William Wagner
Especially if you're on any gov.aasst.
Ok
Peace ✌️
Wish someone would reach out to me 😮
Soon...
Please tell others ..
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8.15.2024
Whenever they show the husband that is not being interviewed at the beginning of the show then my alarm bells starts ringing.
And when they said "her husband of two years..."
Clever
Was thinking the same😮
Same…
I always say whomever isn't doing the interviews is the killer.
He was too arrogant to take a plea deal. He thought he could manipulate his way out. Now he has life with no parole. Very satisfying! Bye
Spoiler alert.
In his case, a couple decades would be the rest of his life anyway. So, roll the dice, go to court, maybe he'd walk, though looking at his face when they announced the verdict he didnt seem like it came as a particular shock.
because he could dupt 2 women this grow up his confidence.
@@GNMi79 The average prisoner dies behind bars at age 64. Incarceration dramatically impacts life expectancy with some statistics saying 2 years off lifespan for every 1 year behind bars. Im not advocating for this dude to be sure! no way, f this dude
The sociopaths always outsmart themself!
You could clearly see, all over her face, that the mistress was lying when she said she never came over to confront her.
Exactly, her facial muscles did not match the words she spoke.
this is what i was looking for in the comments that someone else thought it was a load of bull
I am glad someone else noticed that too.
Especially considering the fact that earlier she said she knew he was married and said "meh," then changes her tune and says if the wife had come on over and told her to stop, she would have instantly stopped...lol.
"If Vanessa had showed up to my apartment pleading and groveling with me to leave her husband alone, I'd have cut off the relationship right there."
....buuuuuut she wouldn't cut off the relationship when she found out he was married in the first place.
But she knew that Vanessa was still involved with him and instead of leaving she gives him an ultimatum. She is not the virtous woman she is playing. A homewrecker.
@@devianadkar7969 My point exactly.
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I was duped by a man who told me he and his wife were divorced. He had 2 kids. He said he didn’t want me to meet his kids yet bc he didn’t want the fact that he had a new girlfriend cause issues with his ex wife and cause issues with him seeing the kids. I bought it. He was married. But, as soon as I found out, I walked away and I told his wife. I thought she should know what he had been doing. She ended up staying with him, which I found pathetic but to each their own. I’m sure he continued to cheat on with other women. The amount of elaborate lies he told her so he could spend time with me were insane. I only know about this bc she asked me if I spent 4th of July week with him, told her yes, and she proceeded to tell me the elaborate lie he told his family to get away. There were more examples like that.
@tatianacaterina874 you might see it as pathetic but most of us don't just turn our backs on our family over one incident. He may cheat on her with other women but clearly he stays with his wife. If anything it is the mistresses who are pathetic.
Love when they reject a plea deal, take it to trial and get something heavier. Turned down 16 years, get life. Love it!❤❤
This was near slam dunk case. I hate when prosecutors offer a plea deal for winnable cases.
@@haddingtoniangcp2464 I think those plea deals are a form of injustice anyway. Confess and we will give you the minimum penalty. Shameful.
@@GoodWillPrevail lazy work from the prosecution. Don't wanna prepare for a trial.
@@OikPoinFive made me chuckle. I work in Paddington.
That truly is the only thing that will cause them to have any regret, especially at the end of year 16.
If you gave a man an ultimatum, then there WAS something going on, you don't give an ultimatum to a "friend"🙄
Shes full of bull 💩
So obvious!
NMDiagree.
Emotional, yes. Sex? No.
Exactly
She was lying to her teeth!
@@elainerespecia2164
Actually, I think it was to her toothbrush.
You don’t give ultimatums to married men, you walk away. Let them sort it out without any input from you. He’s a grown man
don't give an ultimatum at all with any man. If you are at that point, leave. It never works. You don't want a cheater.
@@ST-rj8iu Exactly
Yes. That is exactly what I was going to say. She knew dam wel something was up.
Stop blaming that woman. The guy is a cheater and a murderer but it is all the lover's fault??
@OMundoParaIniciantes I was not blaming the woman. I'm just commenting on her actions. Indeed, the murderer is responsible for his crimes
unbelievable how this man can have absolutely nothing to offer, yet have women falling over him
He was good at selling himself apparently.
Nothing to offer???
You didn't hear about all this guy's jobs?
You don't know what women want.
@@MargaretCho-pt3ng a bunch of civil servant jobs, non of which accumulate wealth
Very important jobs tho
But he has military medals!!!! Isn’t that enough
He also chose vulnerable women.
A single woman should never have the audacity to give a MARRIED MAN an ultimatum of either being with her or HIS WIFE! That's insane. The moment singles find out their partners are married, they need to walk away themselves. Don't give them the choice. Make the choice for them and leave the situationship.
She was absolutely
p a t h e t ic.
The red flags with flashing neon lights were in her face....but her weakness controlled her: which proved her character.
I wouldn't trust that woman as far as I could throw her, because she couldn't be trusted to do the right thing when it mattered.
I'm wondering how closely did they look at the girlfriend. I think she lied about not having a sexual relationship with the husband. I also think she lied about being confronted by the wife.She could of borrowed his truck. Maybe she knew how to shoot a rifle but did not know enough to remove the shells. I hope she was given a lie detector test!
I think she is super suspicious
Bla bla bla.....life isnt alwayz black and white. Women, men fall in love regardless of marriage status. Emotions are human
It's a matter of public record. My sister and I both tried some online dating, we just came out and told the guys hey I need to run a complete background check on you. The gentleman like guys were always like, not a problem whatsoever.
I just LOVE her daughters. SO decent & loving, just like their beautiful mom !! GOD REST HER SOUL !!!
gritsNgravy-fn5ic - ❤️
God rest everyone's souls.
FOCUS WAS ALL UPON them mostly.
AGAIN, WE ARE TO ASSUME that the perpetrator FAILED a lie detector test somewhere along the process;
ASSUME that this X-policeman, military man had absolutely no enemies who might want to PLANT evidence out of revenge.
Never assume, and always look for "what might be missing from the scenario!"
In feeling a bit sorry for Mary Beth's having been deceived, does anyone wonder if SHE didn't have an admirer who might have
wanted competition out of the picture ? Must be evident that ALL evidence isn't being shown by 48 hours ?
"Man on The Run"
LyndaFayeProductions
How were two women fighting over this Humpty Dumpty lookalike?!? 🥺
His twin Tweedle Dum is bummed.
😂😂😂omg this comment section is hilarious
Did you see the women? With all due respect, of course
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@@edp3202 I think he'll be bummed himself pretty soon in prison 😅
Travis' stock pick up line, "I'm separated." Let this be a lesson to desperate women, "separation" means still married and cheating on wife.
But they weren’t intimate, lol
Let that be a lesson to men being cheated on by women. The door swings both ways.
Amen!
@@davidc3839
Absolutely! Goes both ways 💯
@@twatts1523
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Travis' father: "In my heart and in his heart, we know he's innocent. He told me that he was innocent -- lookin' dead into my eyes." Well, there you have it ... he didn't do it. Though he lied to his wife and to his mistress, he certainly wouldn't lie to Daddy, would he?
Ha! I have a little brother who will look you in the eye & swear to god on a lie!
Momma always said if Billy tells you it’s raining you better go look 😂
People think their babies can do no wrong.
You mean the suspect who would taunt the daughters of his murdered wife by pointing a "finger gun" at them when they passed by? THAT "innocent" son??? SMH
@@DennisSnuffysame girl, but it’s my sister. You can literally watch her drop a glass and ask why did you drop that glass and she will look you in the eye and tell you she didn’t drop a glass (using the glass as an example) she even believes her own lies lol
His Dad also says his son was 'not stupid'....hmmmmm
@@DennisSnuffytrue...also they feel they will have to share the guilt as well...so better to stay in denial
Dad admitted it himself “my son is probably arrogant.” Which explains it perfectly. He didn’t think he was ever going to get caught.
So, you loved him, thought him/his underwear was sexy, and you gave him an ultimatum, but sex was the only thing you didn't do? Such a dumb thing to lie about.
A girl's got to keep some morals, don't you know.
It's poetic justice that he refused the plea deal and ended up with a life sentence without parole.
Why would Mary Beth give Travis an ultimatum if she hadn’t been intimate with him?
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And why would she give an Ultimatum to someone who was married and not just leave him. If I found out someone was married that I was seeing, I would be gone.
I was thinking the same thing!
I thought the same thing. Does she think that makes her look better? Nobody believes that . Now she's a liar and a side piece.
@@juliealbright5191 for real! I believe Vanessa’s daughters that their mom went and spoke to Mary Beth, too. So I think she knew before she says she did.
The mistress is a liar. I don’t believe a word she says!
Nope
Everything she said had airholes. At one point she made a statement that separated herself from the situation. She says what she needs to. I think she knew alot about Vanessa.
such a liar
They ALWAYS know the wife/gf!!! She was lying when she said they weren’t physical…
I'm SO TIRED of hearing about people killing their spouses instead of just leaving... Its SO SELFISH.😢😢😢
Same here. But in cases like this, he wouldn't get the insurance money. Broke AND broken is a dangerous combination.
Imagine if the US does away with no fault divorce.
It’s not only self serving it’s actually demonic.
Me too. Least if they divorce they can restart and build themselves up again. He has no chance of that in prison. If you can’t remain faithful just don’t get married. It’s as simple as that.
I hate it too soooo horrendous- But here we are, watching 48 hours😂
Mary Beth refusing to see how impactful her words or ultimatum was is ridiculous. What she should have said was, “You’re a liar and a cheat and I can never have a real relationship with you. So goodbye!”
Yup , if she would have said yeah, no nope I'm done and kicked him to the curb this would have never happened Rest in peace Vanessa
Ladies, if a man is dating you while he's married, he will do the same to you when you're his wife. Guaranteed.
They absolutely will!
@@jaball77 Great point,
The first thing she learned about him was that he’s a liar and a cheater…
So why would she want to be in a relationship with someone like that
My mother once told me:
"If they cheat WITH you, they'll cheat On you"
AND...
"If they talk TO you about other people, they're talking ABOUT you to other people"
It's the easiest way to judge the character of a person.
Teach your children!
@@FionasNonna agreed
She had 2 failed marriages she probably was too much to handle.
He has lost all his appeals and he will have to serve his sentence.
As he should.
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Mary Beth, you're not fooling anybody!!!! 😡🤬
exactly....she knew what was up. I believe Vanessa came to her house as well. She's a mess. The minute she found out she was married, she should have left him alone
@@cindysammy2513exactly!
No decent woman would!
Ha ha ha! She testifies that she gave him the ultimatum to choose which woman he wanted to be with, yet claimed they had never had sex. Sure, everyone believes that.
AGAIN, WE ARE TO ASSUME that the perpetrator FAILED a lie detector test somewhere along the process;
ASSUME that this X-policeman, military man had absolutely no enemies who might want to PLANT evidence out of revenge.
Never assume, and always look for "what might be missing from the scenario!"
In feeling a bit sorry for Mary Beth's having been deceived, does anyone wonder if SHE didn't have an admirer who might have
wanted competition out of the picture ? Must be evident that ALL evidence isn't being shown by 48 hours ?
"Man on The Run"
LyndaFayeProductions
When the husband won't come to his wife's side after her daughter tells him that his wife is sick, something's fishy (and I don't mean his breakfast).
If he is a Married man, he already made a choice.
No ultimatum needed.
You should have immediately removed yourself from the situation.
The mistress is DEFINITELY lying. She contradicts herself.
First: "*I* wasn't ready for an intimate relationship."
Later: "That's why HE didn't want to be intimate."🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
If liars' pants really caught fire, this program would've been WAY more entertaining. 🔥
Great catch!!
I get your point but both statements can be true especially when spoken about from different angles. I could not be ready and later talking about why my boyfriend isn’t ready doesn’t make one of those statements untrue.
To be clear though I do think she’s lying. S*x out of marriage, especially in the south, is often still considered a sin so people commonly deny it.
How does that PROVE anything? Both statements can be true.
And you do know they do editing right??? She could have mentioned that he also didn’t want to be intimate in the 48 interview, and they edited it out for various reasons.
Yeah, I caught that, too. Because she lied about that, she's also lying about sex, not knowing he was married and about Vanessa coming to beg her to leave her husband alone. Sad that Vanessa didn't just let hubby have the lying mistress. They deserve each other.
The daughters look so sweet and pretty 💕 Grandfather is a Rock
What a beautiful family. 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸
I’m sorry that their grandmother didn’t live long enough to see justice for her daughter.
God bless them .
Lovely family, the girls intense love for their mother is so touching. She seemed a wonderful person.
They are beautiful…just like their beautiful mother.
Yes, I agree, they seem so harmless, Wich makes it more painful, hope they find peace eventually ❤
Beautiful family indeed.
Mary Beth is lying through her braces. She is just as much at fault as Travis. RIP Vanessa.
Not her braces 😂
Hard to get a read on her. She is looking in two directions at once.
Folks, if your significant other has some nookie on the side, don't ask them to make a decision; YOU make a decision.
Mary Beth claims it was "only texting" but talks casually about how he was with her in her house. We ALL know they were gettin' it on. And despite her denial, Mary Beth was definitely visited by the victim, who begged Mary Beth to stop seeing her husband. THAT'S what prompted the ultimatum to him. She's just trying to distance herself from her part in it. And she played a big part in this woman's death. Karma is a b!tch.
I don’t believe a word that mistress says.
Hard to get a read on her, she’s looking in two directions at the same time.
The mistress is a prime example of „hear what you want to hear“, her level of delulu is just…and how absurd is it to fight over a man who looks like the American version of Gru from Despicable Me 🤡
Good one. Gru.
She was looking for a meal ticket
Facts
People don't understand how charming and convincing Narscissts can be.
I can’t unsee that now
My heart goes to her girls....they sound so sweet just like mama
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LOL mama was not so "sweet" 😂😂😂😂
Yes. It's heartbreaking. They and their Papa seem incredibly kind & they were devastated by the loss.💔
@@virg0_lem0nadewhy are you blaming the victim?
How on earth could any woman find him attractive??
Women don’t look good either.
Air force, police officer, firefighter, paramedic.
Women love that, true or not true. To them it means he is trustworthy, dependable, honorable, a provider and a status symbol to brag about. And they love uniforms.
Umm the women weren’t attractive either.. so they were perfect for each other
Bet the men in his cell block find him simply irresistible
@@StofStuiver I would not date police officer ever or military officer
20:53 "They really said thaaat??" You can see the lies on Mary Beth's face when confronted about the claim of the wife begging her to leave her husband alone. I bet Mary Beth knows WAYYY more about all this... I wouldn't be surprised if she played a part in the planning of it too.
Can't believe they thought he was handsome omg
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Putting a uniform on a man foes a world of difference 😂😂
I don't think the mistress thought he was handsome. I think she saw him as a meal ticket.
If someone like that can get married then so can I
@@belindabester54 delusional
Why would a woman give a man an ultimatum and say “I love you” if nothing is going on!! She’s a liar!!!!!!!
Absolutely, doesn’t add up.
Yeah platonic? Nobody believes her she lies very easily.
That is what I was thinking. Calling him "HOT" in text. If you haven't slept with someone and you know they are married, you walk away.
Emotional affairs are very powerful. She is 100% believable.
Oh she is so lying. “Emotional” affairs are just unconsummated actual affairs. Her texts and choice of words very much prove that she was deeply involved physically as well. Whether they consummated or not doesn’t matter, you can do all that over the phone. Affair is affair.
Peter Van Sant is a class act. He is the best crime show interviewer.
Peter Van Sant is great but, IMO, Peter Thomas is better.
Second only to Keith Morrison from Dateline! 💋
Thanks for suggesting three good men, guys! I will find their work. Love this level of production values.
She reminds me of Chris Watt's side piece.
Didn’t the mistress talk about his underwear being folded and put in a Vera Bradley bag in a text?? If they aren’t intimate what the hell is she doing with his underwear?!
You shouldn’t be giving a married man an ultimatum, because you shouldn’t have anything to do with him!!!
Well said.
OF COURSE, THIS BUCKET OF SLIME WAS GUILTY.
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Totally GUILTY!
The gun shell AND the woman staying at the motel that night SAW HIS TRUCK THERE! Case closed!
Travis looks like the kinda guy who'd take the last 3 donuts at the work meeting: GUILTY
@@pizzaearthpancakesandother2549 😂😂😂
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“You need to make a choice”. That fact that you’ll have a man make a choice between you and his wife 🥴 no class, no self-worth
His mistress is lying...just disgusting behavior.
I agree, she seems like a deceitful person. I don’t trust her word one bit!
I don't trust the two whales lmao y'all are delusional
@@twatts1523
Agreed. There is a chance he would not have done it, if the ultimatum was never made.
I disagree. I think she was honest.
Absolutely! No way he wasn’t sleeping with her.
I met someone exactly like that, flood of texts, selfies, gifts, etc….the one I have been waiting for! Complete sociopath-had a false identity and found out he had been married over 30 yrs. I didn’t give him an ultimatum I told him to eff off and never contact me again. He is going to end up just like this guy. He could win an academy award for his acting skills! Anyone who floods you with attention is a GIGANTIC RED FLAG!!!🚩
Her daughters sound so wholesome and beautiful, I’m sure their mother was a great person ♥️ may her soul rest in peace 🫶🙏
yes, that's why I believe 100 % that she was lying about her confronting her!
@@treeyogi879 I don’t think she did either
Mary Beth comes across as vindictive and disingenuous.
Agree. There's something very off about her
Vindictive??? Why in God's would SHE vindictive? She wasn't the wife!
Hard to get a read on her, she’s looking in two directions at the same time
I don't think she's vindictive but she's definitely disingenuous. I think she lied about the victim coming over to see her and wants to portray herself as having done nothing wrong whatsoever.
The husband was despicable but the mistress is also guilty for NOT ending the relationship. Instead of breaking it off like a respectable person would do, she gives him an ultimatum.
Yeah, but people don't go to jail for being the other woman. He killed his wife. Considering the wife got with him when he was still married, seems like this game would have continued with many more women if he could have gotten away with it.
Hi good ..ikr...also girlfriend was desperate for a man.
My mama used to say, "If you give me "either, or", I'll take the "or" every time! My mother was a beautiful woman in real estate and was hit on constantly. A respectable woman who turned down a ton of guys. Miss you, mom!
Air Force vet here: No such thing as an Air Force accommodation medal and EVERYONE pretty much gets an achievement medal. I'm sure he meant AF Commendation medal, but it's weird that he pronounced it that way. Just pointing this out to show that maybe he lies about everything?
I agree. As a USAF vet, that was laughable
Ladies, when you meet a guy, demand that he let you run a complete background check on him. Good guys have absolutely no problem with this.
In my opinion, Mary Beth is lying.
Mary beth was the mastermind
@@daniellakarenina8634 So why didn't Travis snitch for less time?
in every logical person's opinion
@@daniellakarenina8634
no doubt about it. too bad she didn't get any jail time.
Ya think?
Life insurance plus an affair is a lethal combination when a loving trusting spouse marry a narcissist.
That's the truth. You summed it all up with that sentence.
You can be a narcissist but don't commit homicide.
That's her 3rd marriage, I doubt she was as loving as they pictured her. And as my daughter has done a beauty pageant, modeling, ballerina.....99% of the people are narcissistic.
@@SidewaysInTraffic
Vanessa was murdered by Travis ...for what?
@@سارهاحمد-ت2ش Or maybe the GF unalived her? There wasn't enough evidence for me to say Travis undoubtably. I've seen more coincidences in innocent cases.
Newsflash ladies: extricate yourself from the situation instead of issuing ultimatums
Ladies? Why not just ‘remember people’?
Also, if your husband is cheating then leave him and divorce him immediately! Don't go begging to the mistress for her to leave him alone.
Exactly. She had a son to take care of and was doing this mess. Just embarrassing.
Don't get involved with others that are cheaters.
People advising side chicks and not wives who are married to men who hate them. hmm
The fact that the mistress didn’t find it VERY suspicious that the wife was killed the day after the mistress gave Travis the ultimatum…hmmm.
@@WhatAWonderfulNameItIs My exact thought. I wish she had shown some humility, concern, shock, sorrow for the outcome and for being involved with a married man.
And the audacity for her to say “someone that he was involved with “. He was married to his WIFE not involved. I find that woman was quite sketchy.
To be honest: it is incredibly difficult to imagine someone you love could do something like that.
No, Mary Beth, she wasn't "involved" with him. She was his wife!!!!...
Bet he’s wishing he took that plea deal now!
LOVED this part of this senseless tragedy! Yes I did! 👊
Wait until he hits that 16 years. That's when his tears will flow properly
Proverbs 16 KJV 18 Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.
@@lorimugi6952 LMAO!!!
shows how arrogant he was, thought he was gonna talk his way out of it and every one was going to believe him.
Travis McGraw "will remain in prison for life with no chance for parole. The State Court of Appeals came back with a unanimous vote by three appeals judges, that the trial for Travis McGraw was 'free from error' and that the defendant was given a fair trial."
*spoiler alert😁
Great!!!
alisong, thank you for this most awesome info ❤
Good!!!
Thank you!
Vanessa seems like a wonderful woman who raised two amazing daughters and was raised by a loving father. My condolences to the family and Saluda community she served so generously.
@DecolonialRhetoric never get involved with a married person! Practically he was still married! You are only lonely in your mind! You have your marriage that is over! So! You have more time to spend with your work at church.
Agree...
So well said.
@@lindaholtzhausen1539yes! Vanessa, as kind as she seems, shouldn’t have gotten involved with a man who wasn’t divorced.
I know I'll be attacked, but I'm tired of the "woman of faith" mantra, when it doesn't match actions. Daughter of a Baptist preacher, goes on mission trips,...and then proceeds to marry three times?! When you're that age, you should know better than to get caught up in "whirlwind romances"; especially with a man who is not even divorced yet. What religious people will never say is, sometimes our own sin leads us into the path of evil people, and it leads to our own destruction. It doesn't exonerate Travis or Mary Beth's guilt, but if you do what is right, you don't end up with these people in your life at all.
Mary beth, did not physically killed Vanessa, but she did give the go ahead for travis to pull the trigger. She's evil. I hope she gets her karma soon.
Blaming and hating the killer is evident. But for that mistress who knew he was married and giving the ultimatum which is the trigger… and still playing innocent👺🤮💩
Side chick only made herself look worse
Sounds like an amazing woman. We just want to be loved, and sometimes we meet the wrong person. May she rest in peace 🙏🏽
Seems she met the wrong person 3 times. Sometimes folks want a partner so badly, they dismiss the tells, those little niggling instances where our intuition/God is warning us.
@@Lori-db8vl well said. So true
Yes agree, and sometimes more than three times😅
@@MemphisBrown-wy9es lol 😆
Mary Beth needed to mind her business cuz. nothing she says makes sense. She was so very vulnerable yet she continued to see him, make demands and contributed to the death of the actual, innocent wife. I know that Vanessa DID visit her, but she lies about it to look better in everyone's eyes. She is a despicable person looking for attention on a doc. like this, when really she has no reason to be there!!
So true
As soon as she realized he was married she should have ended the affair. She seems devoid of empathy.
Agree with you completely! She claims there was no relationship just a friendship yet gave him an ultimatum 🙄 she's so full of it
Why a divorce is expensive?.. It is much better than a life in prison without parole...
I'm always suspicious when a man is described as "charming" by many people. It seems like they are more often than not a phony and not to be trusted. I'm so sorry for this family's loss.
That’s essentially what charming alludes to. It is a very negative word in the Bible and meant with deceit and used to WARN PEOPLE of danger.
So Mary Beth was prepared to lock her future to Travis without even seeing his pee-pee? Sounds dodgy.
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😂😂 Can’t believe she sat there and lied with a straight face. She is just as dangerous as he is.
@@ahinchley right?! What woman these days buys shoes without trying them on first? 😂😂😂
Narcissist always think they can outsmart the world.
I wouldnt…gotta make sure its clean and it works good 😊
To find your mom murdered, i can't imagine. My heart is so sad for the daughters and her dad 😞
The father said my son Travis is not stupid …. Well the verdict says he is now he will be there for life instead of the plea
Agree!
Too bad he's in protective custody in prison for a being a high profile case 😠
That girlfriend is not the hottest french fry in the happy meal.
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*LADIES* and dudes, if you find out that your partner is currently in a relationship or married, don’t ever ask them to choose. Relationships are hard enough when you’re a good and moral person. Don’t mess with cheaters once you know who they really are.
He’s 100% guilty! And the girlfriend isn’t being completely honest. Poor Vanessa RIP
They definitely had a sexual relationship!
48 Hours makes me proud of being single.
Good one 😂
That makes no sense
I'm assuming you're being sarcastic?
Amen to that!
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Something about that girlfriend tells me she’s a liar wouldn’t be surprised if she was still in contact with him
Exactly get his jail phone calls and we will be shock.
Nah, my impression is that she was looking for a "supplier"...
@@xiscaminart3517my friends and I always say “she’s looking for a sponsor.” 😂
I’m not sure she is, but I am constantly amazed by the number of women who contact prisoners and start relationships with them. Mind blown!! 💥
I’m sure she’s already moved on to another married man.
"I love you", "the relationship", the ultimatum... Yes I believe this was completely platonic candy crush.
He lied to Marybeth that he was single. For me, that's enough reason to cut him off. I would never want to be the reason to break up any marriage, no matter how bad that marriage is.
The Mistress is a Liar!
Big time!
a mistress is a liar by nature...whether it is blatant or a lie by omission, her position along with his is to lie...
@@lisawentworth6831🎯🔥
She should be charged and jailed.
……..pants on fire!
“I know cuz he looked me in mah eye…” Well okay then. Call off trial yo.
Marybeth does not look like she’s in her twenties. 😮
If she would have conscience, you're not gonna make an ultimatum to a MARRIED MAN to choose between you and his wife! Can you sleep knowing you're destroying a family??
The girlfriend is at fault for giving him an excuse to choose between her and his wife. She should be ashamed of herself.
She had a right to do that. Many people do that. Looks like you are a big moralist here.
Travis McPudding face wasn't exactly an Adonnis. And with his airforce cap he looked like Benny Hill.
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hysterical 😂😂😂😆
😂😂😂 Mc pudding face
Benny Hill looked better than him
The use of drone shots for areas is a very good addition to the film editing for 48hours. Give that person a raise!
I am happy I am single. Having a relationship when you are older it seems like a lot of work, I would not trust anyone. I am tired of lies.
Me too.
Ditto. 😊
yep me too, hard work, not worth the angst🙂
Well, this example is very bad. Everybody seemed to want to look good and not be good. It’s very possible to find mature love when you are not chasing after married men and pretending to be perfect while doing so.
Truth
I feel so horrible for her sweet daughters and her daddy.
I only feel bad for Vanessa's poor father..Imagine raising your only child with all love now you're almost 80 and one day you wake up and your only child gets murdered😭😭
I feel horrible for him too, but her girls as well.
My heart breaks for her father.
OTHER WOMAN... SHE SHOULD HAVE BEEN ARRESTED WITH THIS FOOL
She even looks & acts guilty AF
She was also deceived by a charming and convincing Narscissts.
Why? She wasn't the murderer,i am divorced because my husband had a new girlfriend but i am still alive!!!
@@CSDonohue11 I hope that guilt haunts her every night for the rest of her life. Just as guilty imo
very stupid comment. She did not do anything criminal
Curious if cell phone records would show Vanessa went to see the mistress... Sounds like the mistress is lying about meeting her
A call does not prove a visit.
@@hardwired8084 but they can check cell towers, so.
I don’t believe anything that woman has to say. She seems sneaky and deceitful.
But I always wonder about wives confronting the other woman. Not justifying knowingly sleeping with a married man but she's not your problem, the husband is.
@@hardwired8084 a call would not show a visit but cell phones show location history
"No sex. Depends o what sex is" as a recent President once said. He coined that perfectly. Lots of love. He knew she was a perfect little Liar.
Mrs Homewrecker trying to justify her actions for continuing the relationship after she learned he was married.
Never give a man an ultimatum. If you even entertain the thought you have to, just leave the boy, and don't look back.
From 20 max to life without parole. He was too cocky😂
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Why can't these men just divorce the wife and move on?
@@edp3202 exactly! No woman is worth my freedom!!
@@matchhunter7012
What a ridiculous way to put it. This isn’t about sacrificing your freedom for a woman as you frame it, this is about being a murderer.
no sexual relationship and yet he kills for her! She is the biggest liar here!!!
It's proven that "love bombing" is a RED FLAG! If a man or woman cannot step back and leave you alone after you first meet, but keeps texting and calling more than is normal- GET AWAY!!!
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Thank God he didn't take the plea deal and got what he truly deserved, what a loser. RIP to Vanessa
if a 50 yr old guy shows up to a random event and is the only one wearing his miltary dress uinform there is usually something up with that guy and not in a good way.
Mistress is pissing me off.
He pisses me off a lot more.
Me too either.
Why would MaryBeth want to be with a man who lied to her and cheated on his wife?
No sex at all, OK.
Pure as the driven snow...
Lmao such a liar. Why is she lying?
Texts even showed talking about their sexy underwear lol
That "handsome" guy looks like one of the Three Stooges... I think Curly was better looking though... And more personality too...
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