Fatherhood Unfiltered I With Abel, Phil, Njugush and Newson.

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  • Опубликовано: 17 июн 2024
  • Since Mumbus can't join us today, we're back with another Fatherhood Roundtable. On set we have our awesome dads - Njugush, Phill, Newson, and our one and only Daddy Abel - to share their unique experiences, healing Childhood Wounds to Build Better Dads..
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    Thanks for watching, Dads!
    God Bless You!

Комментарии • 331

  • @commentator254
    @commentator254 15 дней назад +114

    Mi na Phil mzae was the same mpaka saa hii I still doubt kama kuna vitu naeza fanya manze but luckily am getting my confidence up lately. Always learn from such convos as a young dad. Love this video Judy. Thumbs up😊

  • @mrwakili254
    @mrwakili254 15 дней назад +124

    Lakin hii friendship tunaomba ikue ya forever 🤜🏿🤛🏿

    • @ABlessing479
      @ABlessing479 15 дней назад +1

      Amen Amen Amen.

    • @johnpaulbenedict
      @johnpaulbenedict 14 дней назад +1

      @@ABlessing479 kuna mtu mmoja anafaa kua hapo lakini hayuko na imeniuma sana kwa roho. na sijui nifanye nini

    • @ABlessing479
      @ABlessing479 14 дней назад

      @johnpaulbenedict Sure, but very soon, the Lord will come through for him .

    • @mrwakili254
      @mrwakili254 14 дней назад +2

      @@johnpaulbenedict kama n butita he couldn't relate hii conversation but tunamtaftia bibi shosho yake alisema by force by faya😂😂

  • @simonkarechu5538
    @simonkarechu5538 11 дней назад +25

    Njugush makes even the sad parts sound hilarious 😂😂😂

    • @muthoni_
      @muthoni_ 10 часов назад

      I know i wasn't supposed to laugh but yoh!

  • @bluxxfamilytv
    @bluxxfamilytv 11 дней назад +27

    Umenotice ukidouble tap comment unalike try it uone😊😊

  • @mukamiwanjiku4024
    @mukamiwanjiku4024 6 дней назад +7

    Petition to make this team a show 👏❤️💯 I have enjoyed the whole show😍

  • @kikenyilydiah6721
    @kikenyilydiah6721 15 дней назад +57

    The love Philip has for the son❤

  • @morrenewambui3312
    @morrenewambui3312 15 дней назад +33

    Kimani always in his character 😅😅😅,,,great great conversation 😍😍

  • @welliqphotography1447
    @welliqphotography1447 15 дней назад +30

    Phil, I totally uderstand you, i can relate, when you say 'am not good enough'

  • @faithshiko5228
    @faithshiko5228 15 дней назад +36

    Healthy fathers is a win

  • @lydiaakoth8761
    @lydiaakoth8761 2 дня назад +1

    Always learning in such conversations we need to have more of this.Good job Judy

  • @lucymurage6654
    @lucymurage6654 13 часов назад

    Judy as always, a great show. What I love about your shows is that they teach, help us know that our experiences are more or else the same and most importantly, you come up with ways in which to help the wider society. I love the idea of mentoring boys and helping mums who are rearing them. Be blessed.

  • @kiarie_tochter586
    @kiarie_tochter586 15 дней назад +16

    The questions Judy get to ask are so deep, real and mature 📌💯....
    I'm questioning myself the same and figure out deep things that I couldn't think of😊
    I love this❤❤❤

  • @nyamburakimani3726
    @nyamburakimani3726 13 дней назад +5

    Abel Mutua ,good job am 34yrs old and to date I have never heard my Dad shout at my mum ever

  • @mwalimuabel
    @mwalimuabel 14 дней назад

    I love the way this guys are intentional in their parenting. God bless you guys

  • @pauline2604
    @pauline2604 15 дней назад +11

    Please allow Them Back more often ❤❤

  • @dennoh_phennal5754
    @dennoh_phennal5754 15 дней назад +57

    Congratulations Bi mkuruu and Mkuruu for the Eldoret Jyuuce party that was historic,to many more wins🥂🥂🥂

  • @aggasheri06
    @aggasheri06 14 дней назад

    Very thoughtful conversation, i like how all of you have decided to be present and be different to your families. Judy be blessed for allowing this men to speak out its brings out the a generation that will challenge genz.

  • @watchNLearn393
    @watchNLearn393 9 дней назад

    You are lucky guys at the end of it all you have something to show for your hard work. Some of us are still struggling no matter the effort they have put. Thank your God.

  • @MissMungai7
    @MissMungai7 15 дней назад +16

    Ahaaa,Njugush …my dad was a drunkard and he later died,,,fast forward to words that always get into my nerves when my granny tells me that your father was a drunkard and he left you with nothing…I hate to say those words are soo deep such that I work myself out and to say that I am now in U.K. pushing my nursing career and afraid of dating and getting kids…
    Such a lovely conversation

    • @ritaroggs
      @ritaroggs 13 дней назад +2

      Yur story is my story. Drunkard absent dad. Lost him n here I am.in Usa dng nursing too.

    • @MissMungai7
      @MissMungai7 13 дней назад +2

      @@ritaroggswe will change the stories in our own families

    • @ritaroggs
      @ritaroggs 13 дней назад +2

      @@MissMungai7 ameeeen ameeen...in JMN!!! Cheers

    • @annesam3671
      @annesam3671 8 дней назад +1

      More grace, may God bless the work of your hands guys

  • @johnnjuguna4785
    @johnnjuguna4785 15 дней назад +1

    Taking notes.
    Very insightful conversation.

  • @damahdaves6446
    @damahdaves6446 15 дней назад +4

    woooow..mom Mumbus thanks for this conversation.. it's so educative,fun and just the best ❤❤❤ kudos ✌️ to more of these

  • @almonnykumu
    @almonnykumu 10 дней назад +1

    Judy i love how you ask these questions because very composed, intelligent and i pra y to God I get an intentional Father to my kids like my dad was to us.....This circle really really inspires me

  • @esthermaina9172
    @esthermaina9172 13 дней назад

    Proud of all for fathers for choosing to be present fathers .intentional fathers .
    Learning from your childhood and being intentional to be different.

  • @judith7964
    @judith7964 15 дней назад +17

    Mimi nikona father wounds from here to timbuktu but I appreciate he was present

    • @daisyjoan2084
      @daisyjoan2084 15 дней назад +1

      me too mahn. me too and it's sad to see my siblings go through it. but he's present and that's something

  • @shirogitari3641
    @shirogitari3641 14 дней назад +3

    This is why I love this team ,and i can tell rising boys as single mum ,not easy but we try our best. Keep it up bi.mkuru team and philitv as large ❣

  • @thesmokychef
    @thesmokychef 12 дней назад +2

    Many lessons learnt here 💪🏿💪🏿thanks for this continuation❤❤❤

  • @lwandomweetwa2908
    @lwandomweetwa2908 15 дней назад +6

    I can relate to Tim's story,mzae alikuja Kenya to study as a pastor hapo machakos kwa kina Abel...the struggle ya kuwa in a foreign country 🇿🇲 kwa masomo and having wasee kuwashikilia maze will forever be in my heart.Wakenya walishikilia familia yetu in so many ways.For that reason me ni mkurugenzi and Kenyan at heart daima❤️

  • @wanjiruannecate1035
    @wanjiruannecate1035 15 дней назад +1

    This is beautiful I've learnt so much.

  • @bettynganga9303
    @bettynganga9303 15 дней назад +17

    Yaaani I just leave this conversation..... I'm just 18 and I'm already learning how to approach life...
    Vitu hadi wazae wangu hawajawai nishow manzee you guys just inspire me
    ..
    ..

  • @janiemsoh
    @janiemsoh 15 дней назад +3

    I love this

  • @AnnetWangari-ux6jc
    @AnnetWangari-ux6jc 15 дней назад +4

    Very educative conversation 👌

  • @agirlyouhavetoknow4125
    @agirlyouhavetoknow4125 9 дней назад

    Its beautiful to know that this generation is filled with intentional fathers actively breaking parental traumas

  • @florencemawanda6374
    @florencemawanda6374 14 дней назад

    Thank you for sharing this...very profound

  • @mumleina0179
    @mumleina0179 14 дней назад +1

    Learning in every episode,😊 much love mama Mumbus❤😊

  • @claremomanyi4159
    @claremomanyi4159 15 дней назад +1

    Awesome lessons to be learnt.

  • @MercyBlessed-lh8jt
    @MercyBlessed-lh8jt 15 дней назад +2

    Very inspiring ,,,nice one Judy.

  • @esthermaina9172
    @esthermaina9172 13 дней назад

    Good job judy this is much needed

  • @bushcollo
    @bushcollo 15 дней назад +3

    This is impactful 💪

  • @AnnMureithi-zu3nu
    @AnnMureithi-zu3nu 14 дней назад

    Super dads and great conversation inspiration to many.

  • @jeffreactions
    @jeffreactions 15 дней назад +1

    This was time well spent!

  • @kirikakinyanjui1586
    @kirikakinyanjui1586 15 дней назад +3

    Best of the best

  • @keziahwanjiku6560
    @keziahwanjiku6560 15 дней назад +5

    A bunch of very wise, funny and mature men in their own ways. Really enjoyed this episode ❤
    Well done fahers and thank Judy for hosting them

  • @Qatmpendwa
    @Qatmpendwa 13 дней назад

    amazing, congratulations fathers. you are doing great. God bless you

  • @JanetMuthoki-zs4ip
    @JanetMuthoki-zs4ip 14 дней назад +1

    They are very inspiring stories😊

  • @pisaliteenterprises2751
    @pisaliteenterprises2751 12 дней назад +1

    As a parenting enthusiast who advocates for intentional parenting, I love this conversation. All parents now should pass here and of-course I can pinpoint 1,2 things of what my own parents were/did.

  • @douglastories
    @douglastories 15 дней назад +10

    i neverb get enough of njugush

  • @marybirech4858
    @marybirech4858 15 дней назад +2

    ❤❤ I love your content. Keep the inspiration going.

  • @cynthiawambui3980
    @cynthiawambui3980 15 дней назад +1

    I looove love love these people..nice conversation

  • @philomenamugure855
    @philomenamugure855 14 дней назад +1

    HEA , THANKS ALOT THIS IS VERY HEALTHY CONVERSATION❤❤❤❤❤ BEING A SINGLE MOTHER AND RISING 2BOYS I HAVE LEARNED ALOT FROM THIS........❤❤❤❤❤

  • @MercyKendi-je5wd
    @MercyKendi-je5wd 15 дней назад +2

    I have laugh lines on my face cause I have been smiling all through the show. This is such a beautiful convo. Thanks Judy☺

  • @mewa1659
    @mewa1659 13 дней назад +11

    I will always be back to say Phil thank you for being a dad to your son and always acknowledging him..that melts my heart..Bless you!
    Judy i wll never get tired of listening to these men..they are awesome!

  • @cynthiamwikali8780
    @cynthiamwikali8780 День назад

    Amaizing conversation ❤

  • @teresiamungai7602
    @teresiamungai7602 13 дней назад

    This was amazing to watch. You guys are all amazing ❤

  • @SageQuotes33
    @SageQuotes33 15 дней назад +6

    An awesome convo that should not be halted.
    I celebrate you'all for taking the most important job in the world seriously.👏👏👏. I'm a single mum to a 8 yr old boy and I'm afraid that most of us are smothering our sons and I would love to have one of you as a mentor to my son.

    • @dorothygacheri4724
      @dorothygacheri4724 15 дней назад

      In the same shoes

    • @patriciahngendo1399
      @patriciahngendo1399 13 дней назад +1

      Me too I'm in the same shoes..my son is 9 yrs old I really need a father figure in his life ...I'm afraid of failing as a parent ...I can't keep up with him

  • @cynthianzomo6132
    @cynthianzomo6132 14 дней назад

    Wueeee 😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉that was an amaizing conversation Judy, can't wait for more ❤❤

  • @gracewahura5987
    @gracewahura5987 14 дней назад

    I wish all parents could listen to this

  • @symoshikukawaru8805
    @symoshikukawaru8805 13 дней назад

    This is one of my best forum.. i wish it can be regular because for us raising kids we get more tips. kudos

  • @krismikeBazenga
    @krismikeBazenga 15 дней назад +1

    You guys motivates me a lot as a man

  • @maryannndichu1470
    @maryannndichu1470 15 дней назад +21

    Aki kimani... *nalima mbwa* ha haaa

  • @monicawairimu2156
    @monicawairimu2156 13 дней назад

    Such an interesting conversation! I love the intentionality that comes from your stories of fatherhood and parenting. Bless up to this powerful team!

  • @mutheu24
    @mutheu24 8 дней назад

    I love this.. amazing conversation ❤

  • @rachaelchirindo1645
    @rachaelchirindo1645 13 дней назад

    This is so good judy I'm a mother of one and I'm learning alot through this.... I never saw my dad he died when I was two years and I understand the pain of living without a father. God bless you abundantly

  • @judithmandere955
    @judithmandere955 10 дней назад +1

    I am a single mom.. listening to @abel mutua ama what he is today I know my son can be who I know he can

  • @bilhahnjeri6427
    @bilhahnjeri6427 12 дней назад

    Wow great men n wonderful conversations bring them more often we are learning a lot

  • @charlesnjeru4205
    @charlesnjeru4205 15 дней назад +1

    Good job. That was Deep

  • @teresiamungai7602
    @teresiamungai7602 13 дней назад

    Aaaaaw Paulo, the dad we all need. God bless him

  • @wambuimwangi6082
    @wambuimwangi6082 14 дней назад +5

    I have really enjoyed this conversation. I am currently a mum of two boys expecting my third boy next month and let me tell you my husband has really taught my boys to be young men. Those rough games making them walk to the kinyozi by themselves and come back home with the proper change. Doing manual work with them my 8 year old and 6 year old have been toughened by their dad. If I did not have him they would surely be soap soap boys

    • @bimkurugenzi
      @bimkurugenzi  11 дней назад

      Wow! This is inspiring ! Thumbs up to your hubby!

  • @wangarikariuki3192
    @wangarikariuki3192 14 дней назад +7

    Wangari here, raising a nine year old boy , ive loved the conversation, and the realness.
    I'm here to the end of the conversation, ive loved what Abel has said about as a woman i can't be everything for my son, and i am grateful to God for teaching me this early on in my mothering journey.
    It's true, take up the role of making a date with a son and engaging them .

    • @bimkurugenzi
      @bimkurugenzi  11 дней назад +3

      Would you like to share your motherhood journey ?

    • @wangarikariuki3192
      @wangarikariuki3192 11 дней назад +2

      @@bimkurugenzi yes I'd love to Judy.

  • @assumptawambui43
    @assumptawambui43 12 дней назад

    Such a great Convo

  • @wangariirene2370
    @wangariirene2370 15 дней назад

    I love this...newson my school mate...you motivate alot guys

  • @edwinmuthui4452
    @edwinmuthui4452 15 дней назад

    Wow... Big up to everyone. Amazing show Judy.

  • @NKATHAMEMEnm
    @NKATHAMEMEnm 15 дней назад +1

    Big up to all present dads .i have been raised by a single mum,in form 2 I was kinda adapted by another family(not legal adaption) where the dad is very present it feels nice also the brother to mum plays the role of been a father to me but I can say I still feel the gap cause yes they are there but not fully like the way your own dad would have been there💯but i appreciate the fact that they try there best to be a present dad in my life

  • @mumbimwaura1
    @mumbimwaura1 15 дней назад +1

    Thanks Judy for bringing to them again and may God bless them for sacrificing their time to come...aki pls warudi tena na tena we're learning a lot from them

  • @waganaliz7479
    @waganaliz7479 2 часа назад

    I've finally watched this conversation...thanks Bi Mkurugenzi... it has evoked a lot of emotions😢😢 coz some (actually almost all) childhood situations are relatable. It's amazing all has healed from their childhood now but what I've not picked up from THE FATHER WOUND is how they healed (The Healing Journey), the steps they took. Like did it take a therapy, a good friend or what else.

  • @Petes0022
    @Petes0022 14 дней назад

    I am saving this for future ❤❤

  • @catherinegitau7086
    @catherinegitau7086 14 дней назад

    Judy t,these was a powerful session thanks alot , lessons are many.

  • @mwendemutuku6630
    @mwendemutuku6630 12 дней назад

    Wueh moms of boys tunaumia wueh.. We need more intentional men in society. You guys are doing great and may God bless you guys more and more. Barikiweni sana. Y’all are truly appreciated….

  • @joanthuo7290
    @joanthuo7290 10 дней назад

    Great conversation with your squad

  • @igwanyaesther7877
    @igwanyaesther7877 15 дней назад

    I can listen to this gentleman for hours, so much that when Judy says its time to wrap up, I feel sort of sad. I love the conversations, so enlightening and engaging, and made me appreciate my child's father even more. And like Abel says, weee, raising boys aint easy! We need to hear them.

  • @samsonkuriairungu5189
    @samsonkuriairungu5189 6 дней назад

    Hi guys, I have really enjoyed our conversation. You have made me see the importance of a farmer I am a father who is working in Qatar my son was born while I was in Qatar he’s two years nowI have never seen him and I desire to see him and even bond with him I’ve not been able to go home because of some few finances issues

  • @kelvinwachira2678
    @kelvinwachira2678 15 дней назад +5

    I really love u wakurugenzi. Abel I love ur stories sana.

  • @aminahendesiahosotsi
    @aminahendesiahosotsi 14 дней назад

    Amazing conversation 👌

  • @mercykanini9994
    @mercykanini9994 7 дней назад

    I've learnt a lot from this episode..
    Also kids raised by single parents and how that affected their current life

  • @user-gv3np5qq1i
    @user-gv3np5qq1i 14 дней назад

    Amaizing talk ❤❤❤

  • @debrawanjiku6087
    @debrawanjiku6087 8 дней назад

    I pray for a healthy environment, caring and loving dad for my kids 🙏🏽

  • @denisngetich2509
    @denisngetich2509 15 дней назад

    High risk high return..Newson God gave you the real gentlemen.Most of us out here we wish to have sometimes with those guys you have.

  • @CarolineWKanene
    @CarolineWKanene 15 дней назад +3

    Hey Judy,
    This is really an eye opening and educative discussion.. I have definitely learnt a lot from it..
    For the mums raising boys I would definitely suggest my sister, she's a mum of a 20 year old and based on our upbringing; amazing job!

    • @bimkurugenzi
      @bimkurugenzi  11 дней назад

      Please reach me at judynyawiram@gmail.com

  • @kandieeunice8452
    @kandieeunice8452 15 дней назад +5

    Nice Convo..so let me talk about something unique Single dad's...well I was raised up by a very present ..loving and strict dad..together with 2 boys and dads driver so I was the only girl ...he was so intentional about Education he partitioned part of sitting room and made a library reading newspapers and books daily was Mandatory..( he was an educational officer) when the hse help wasn't around he would cook ugali..and taught us how to cook mboga ...going to sunday school was mandatory...sadly when I was doing my KCPE in 2010 he died but he used to tell me to promise him that I will go to Alliance that was his desire and few weeks before he died he came to my school..took me out for a lunch date..bought me new glasses and made me promise him that I will go to Alliance.I worked so hard to go be called to his dream school.by God's grace I was called to Alliance but sadly I couldn't go so I gave my letter to a neighbour ..but still went thru highchool now doing my masters in Europe...

  • @reginahwaithira8684
    @reginahwaithira8684 15 дней назад +3

    Eeeish Mama Mumbus you look amazing, so beautiful ❤️💃💃loving the conversation

  • @versatiledentalsolutions2938
    @versatiledentalsolutions2938 14 дней назад

    One wholesome conversation Judy🙂

  • @angieblessed
    @angieblessed 15 дней назад

    Very helpful talk

  • @lizankatha4205
    @lizankatha4205 15 дней назад +2

    I'm a single mum to a 8year old boy. Luckily I have a brother that teaches him the man stuff. I have learned to keep quiet when they are in it because sometimes I want to intervene ... So grateful!! Because it so easy to baby a child (a boy child) as a mother

  • @dariusngugi5081
    @dariusngugi5081 13 дней назад

    This is good you guys mnanichapa tbt growing up in the 90's and early 2000s napenda you convos never missing out

  • @esthermaina9172
    @esthermaina9172 13 дней назад +1

    Abel mutua just the first sentence of this show
    How you said you knew you would be a present father.
    Thats amazing

  • @Andrew_Mwinga
    @Andrew_Mwinga 15 дней назад +10

    Educative, informative and Inspiring. I like the fact that Abel has recognized we have a lot of feminine men in the streets that needs help

  • @edwinmwangi1468
    @edwinmwangi1468 12 дней назад

    the two videos are so educative and interactive

  • @charitynyakeruma8494
    @charitynyakeruma8494 14 дней назад +1

    Kumbe mnaweza kuwa serious.
    I love the conversation and the seriousness you have put in your families.

  • @belindahnjeri
    @belindahnjeri 13 дней назад +2

    My God help the fathers-to-be become as intention as this great men on the set❤

  • @elsiechoge9456
    @elsiechoge9456 13 дней назад +1

    It’s great to see fathers in art parent differently and have their own personal experiences that can positively influence the child’s future if they choose art.
    Art has been seen as a useless career for a long time which is contrary to the truth.
    Kudos to these dads

  • @FlorenceKunyiha-qo7ft
    @FlorenceKunyiha-qo7ft 14 дней назад +1

    I love listening to mkuru he's a very good story teller