4500.00 aint baddd?! girl i would literally fly to NYC and drag yall both to dallas and put y'all in a 4-5 bedroom with a theatre room for 1800-2000+ lol. NOPE don't do it.. Big sis Missy speaking here!
MissyLynnSays thats the city life i live outside the city in long island sheesh with 4500.00 she would have a mini mansion house in LONG Island NY 40 min away from NYC for my house i pay $1600 for 7 bedroom high ranch house big big yard two living rooms and the neighbors are not that close like the city
girl you did all that to have your own place ! dont move with no one , that's so college !! you dealt with that and didn't like it. yall can always see eachother , stay in your own place aint nothing like being in your own house !! girl dont do it ! .
Reading up on all your comments....thanks for all the opinions and suggestions! Again, it's so early in this process and we just wanted to toy with the idea and see what's out there on the market. Both Jayla and I currently live alone so we both appreciate the value of having our own space and definitely wouldn't want to put our friendship as risk; so trust me...this will NOT be a rushed and impetuous decision.
I️ would say live in the same apt building and y’all can just link up and have sleep overs when you’re lonely 🤗💁🏽 As an adult or really a human everyone is moody and sometimes you just want to be alone , shoot you might just want to walk around naked lmao or even when you’re dating someone you want privacy . Y’all both are financially blessed to do it by yourself so I️ would just keep it that way.
I haven't watched yet so idk if Jayla asked our opinion, but I'ma give it anyway lol. No matter how well yall get along and how much you love her, in order to preserve the friendship and not cause any issues, you two should live separately. Even if she moves to the city and lives near you, its much better than having to share a space with someone every single day, which is completely different from a weekend sleepover. I'm telling you, I have roomed with 3 friends before throughout college and after, so I am speaking from experience. Don't do it sis!
Miss Understood girl I’m only friends with 1/3 of those girls now. The other randomized roomates I had worked out much better! At this point I would only live with my momma, my boyfriend or by my damn self lol
If you two are great friends now, do your friendship a favor and don't move in together! It changes your relationship and not for the better. That may not be the case for everyone but I definitely wouldn't do it.
Where we moving too? I thought we just moved...I don't feel like packing again. Sis this to much 😩 Sis....yall haven't even known each other 6 months to be doing all this moving
Sweet as Hunny I swear 😂😂😂😂😂 I'm like did I miss the apartment tour or something. Next thing we know she going to be leaving NY where it's more affordable. This is how it all starts off
artsygirlify I enjoy Jayla separate and hanging out with her friends and them coming to visit. All this roomate stuff. Lordy seems to much for someone she hasn't even know a year
Meriam Silver Girl that's right. I've lost ALL my friends I've roomed with (5+)and it's less fun than just being by yourself in an apt. What's so sad, is that most of those situations weren't even my fault. I'm actually the easy one to live with. It's when you hold all your feelings in and don't express how you feel, then you're more comfortable with just letting friendships go. But that ends up haunting you later when you're lonely. Communication is the ONLY saving grace for roommates
No Jayla!! Keep your own space.... I've been on my own for sometime now and I've always let ppl stay with me it's not a good idea and its always different when you move in with a friend...
One of the keys of living alongside other people is being respectful and accepting of the other people/person. To make a long story short Morgan eat what suits you and live whatever lifestyle you chose. As virtuous as it is, don't force that ish on anyone else!
You never know a person until you live with them , that’s all I’ll say .. but I support you regardless of whatever the hell you do lol LOVE YOU SIS ! Edit : 4500 ?! That’s not bad ?! SHITTTTTTTT!
I think Morgan should move in your building in her own apartment. I think that would save the friendship sometimes moving in with friends it's not a good thing. Jayla I love your intro it's like watching a mini movie before the video you guys did a great job you and Santa I mean twin love you Jayla hope you guys are having an amazing day. hope you guys don't take offense to my first statement that's just how I feel no evil intent. Vaya con Dios. One Love❤💋
Mrz. Taylor I thought I was the only one thinking that,,, like when they were eating and Morgan told Jayla she needed a healthier lifestyle,, that was strike 1 lol everybody knows Jayla is a foodie and isn't going to change that
Issa NO sis for the moving together. Your life styles are completely different (food ) , aesthetic are completely different. Hmmmm it will hella tricky especially if bfs comes into the mix . It's your desicion though
I'm pretty sure Jayla is the one who made the idea to live with morgan. She is very clingy to her. When she first did a vlog with Morgan she was talking about taking a trip with her and everything.
Totally agree. Jayla was also the one doing all the talking about how great it would be-meanwhile, all Morgan could think about was Jayla's nasty eating habits
NYC be trying it with their matches boxes for $5000 😩😩😩😩😩I don’t care if I can see Jesus from my window, I’m not paying that amount for that tiny space.
While I prefer to live alone, you can’t knock someone for wanting a roommate. She’s grown and she knows what she is doing. I’ve had bad roommate experiences and I’ve lived with some of my best friends and while it can mess up friendships, it’s not always the case. When I lived by myself, my friend was always at my house anyway so we got a 2 bedroom so she could pay rent too 😂😂😂 and we are still close. As long as you set boundaries, rules, and communicate then you should be fine. I’m here for it!!
imhis00 I hear you but you can see the clash coming from more than a mile away. Jayla is used to having space and doing what she wants when she wants. In her own space that can happen with a roommate not so much. M I t to mention the amount of money she spent to get her apartment just right to then give that up would be a grave mistake. There are certain pauses in their interactions that is very telling. Nope!
Jayla TRUST ME. I'm a Scorpio just like you and I know how that friendship factor can push excitement. But we are loners by nature. I like Morgan, but it's pretty clear that you two wouldn't last longer than 5 months. I'm 29 and I roomed with people from 19-26 friends, non friends, in college, out of college and I can see right through yall THANG. It's not gonna work TRUST ME. She seems nice and all but she is just as strong minded as you, and I'd hate to see down the line, drama between you two online. Plus I can see that shes silent thunder, its too early for you to understand who she is under the smiles and curls. And shes a dancer, sounds like a lot if noise, company members, parties and music going on when you wont be feeling it. I know it gets a lil lonely on your own but just work on being good friends and spend time with each other. Gosh, the best way to ruin friendships forever is to move in with them. If anything, focus on your career. Then maybe down the line you can meet and move with the man of your life. It's better to deal with a man you know than a whole new person you just met. Trust me, if there's anyone who can give you roomate and friend advice....its me. I've seen and experienced so many relationships destroyed over rooming situations.
When you’re at work so you can’t watch just yet but you go ahead and like the video because it’s Jayla. Lol I’ll be back on my lunch break boo don’t worry!
Jayla....if it’s not financial then why move together? Why are you moving just because she’s looking? I don’t recommend that move in situation at all. Just help her find her spot and maybe in the same building, but you stay in yours. Don’t do the most
So I don’t know if y’all should live together BUT I do see Morgan influencing Jayla in such a more positive way then others we have seen on her vlog . Morgan seems cultured and really intouch with who she is and having friends like that will really elevate who Jayla is . The only other person I felt like that about is Jackie but not too sure what happened with their friendship z
Uhm no shes controlling and not respecting jayla's decision. If she doesnt like eating meat except chicken and drinks only tea and water thats on her but dont go judging your friend for not doing the same and telling her shes gonna have to change. Shes so annoying.
I can't take Morgan lecturing Jayla while she indulges on WEDNY'S hahaha. Like girl that is NOT healthy. Then cows milk in that Frosty she trieddd it. lol Yall are funny together (good dynamic.) I haven't watched her channel yet but she’s always cute in Jayla's vlogs.
sexymodelboy girl it’s killing both of them. Lol haha Wendy’s will not spare us. But idk Jayla is strong in what she wants I like that about her. I don’t see her changing those habits. Lol
Sassy Besos Chile yes! Lol But that nasty hormone filled chicken is slightly better than pork. LOL However, I don’t think Morgan was judging or ridiculing Jayla like people are saying. I think she just wants Jayla to improve her health. I encourage my friends not to eat red mead and chicken and they dropped them and we all feel better than before LOL
Don’t do it Jayla! No one should be trying to change you before even moving in. Especially a change that doesn’t pertain to her or her happiness. Stay in your lane Girl...do you and let others do them.
Man hell no jayla continue to live by yourself it just seem crazy that you wanted and found your own place just to up and get a roommate again don't do it 😂 nothing like living by yourself!
Jayla what about moving in together with Morgan in the same building but not in the same apartment? That way you have your own space but you can still hang out anytime :)
I totally forgot this I lived with my best friend for one summer cuz she lived closer to my job 😫 it was horrible she was nasty asf like hide her dirty pads in the closet stinking up the whole place nasty and id always gotta go places with her even if I finished a 12 hour shift and mad tired and bare mans would be over and that was just two months and I was so annoyed I hate her now.. I’m living with my husband and he’s even annoying keep stepping on my white mats with his outside shoes 😫 the 2nd apartment is nice though
The 1st part of this comment .... ew seriously? 😷😷 BUT the 2nd part not the White mats though?! Like damn. Smh 🙄 lol I read that with such an attitude, I could feel the annoyance girl. 😩😂
Sis I’m here for this comment about even living with your husband. I’ve stayed alone I can’t even imagine sharing with my future husband and kids for. THE. REST. OF. MY. LIFE 😩 I love my alone time. I have the best time lol
Sometimes it's just better to put up with just your man's shit. It's different with girls, they have to throw something to say on it and usually develop an attitude on the topic that they never drop. At least a man will just say you bitchin an go about his way until his next mess. Females on females and males on males can just get nasty, mean, vengeful and down right depressing. Better to raise kids (opposite sex and kids) then a grown person (same sex)
As we say in the Caribbean , “two man rat cannot live in the same hole”. You worked really hard to get your own space and to get where you are today. I really think you shouldn’t move in with Morgan especially since you guys just met. I do not know her on a personal level neither do I know you on a personal level but a lot of things usually change between any type of relationship when you start LIVING TOGETHER. That’s just my two cents, all the best.
I wish you luck, because it nothing like having your own space, I did it before, it didn't work out, from cleaning and pay rent and bills on time. 🤦🏿🤦🏿🤦🏿🤦🏿🤦🏿🤦🏿🤦🏿🤦🏿our friendship was never the same after that
UndeniablyyFlyy I so agree with you I like Morgan but when she started with what you can eat remind me of a friend of mine I would never ever move in with her!!
Jayla & Morgan do as you want. Friendships can be a sisterhood . Sisters disagree, family members disagree, that’s life. To close your life off from people under the guise of being “ a independent woman “ is foolish . There is a lot to learn when you are young. I appreciate that Jayla has opened her life to us, her life to friendships . And I see her maturing exponentially. Live, love & grow. 😊♥️
Velicia Williams that is a really good perspective. But I don't think it's about being an 'independent woman'.. it's about the reality of sharing a space with someone who you've developed a friendship with first. It's one thing to be roommates and then become friends afterward.. but to choose to room with your friend honestly.. I've seen it cause way more harm than good. Living in the same complex is a smarter idea, and will protect the friendship. They will get tired of each other fast.. their personalities seem slightly muted when together.. but telling enough to show that living separately is for the best.
O love, it’s a moment in Time. A lease for 6- 12 months goes very fast. If they decide that it doesn’t work , you move on. It’s not a big deal. Jayla does appear to be able to get past small things. She does not hold grudges or do petty stuff. So the window of time is small.
Velicia Williams in the roommate experience even 1-2 months is a long time. Trust me 6-12 is A LOT. But hey, everyone has to make their own decisions 🤷🏾♀️. She asked for input and I'm just giving her honest truth about choosing to live with someone who isn't blood. they're super friendly with each other and that's not the length of their personalities so.. and there really wouldn't be anything to get over or any grudge to hold if they instead just lived in the same building, but different apartments.
I can understand wanting a roommate due to cheaper cost, but you get tired of friends quickly! It’s nothing like having your own place, but this is YOUR life & you’re in control of your own path and if you want a roommate then do it sis & if it doesn’t workout then lesson learned! If it’s due to boredom, I got a puppy to keep me company and my friends visit almost everyday!
Apartments in Brooklyn are so much bigger and downtown Brooklyn is close to everything. Also, the newer the building, the more likely the space will be smaller. Check out brownstones, you get the newly renovated ones, you'll see how much bang you'll get for your money. Cut the wick before lighting the candles...It will eliminate the black sut that comes out when you 1st burn it. It will also lower the flame (check the instructions)
Now, maybe you could move to Dallas with Missy!!! Not in her home, but maybe the same neighborhood. You two would be so freaking bomb together. She's older and she thinks so wisely, I live her video when she's just dropping knowledge about life....love her! My vote is Jayla and Missy 😊😊😊
It seems like a good ideal to me.. Basing it off how y'all hit it off upon arrival 😂 (when yall first met) so, pray about it and the best decision should be made!
hmmmm...this roomie arrangement with 2 youtubers... Didn't you just meet Morgan? Aren't you in NYC to experience being a single grown woman in the big city dealing with grown woman issues making it on your own? So one vlogs and the other is in it more or less, the other vlogs and the other is in it more or less...it can be redundant where I would only look at one without looking at the other because I would have already seen one why look at the other? I say no because I love you for your aesthetics and I just subbed Morgan and love her for hers. And sometime or another you have to experience time living alone as a grown woman to deal with grown woman situations. But at the same time having a room mate in NYC is usually a financial choice living in NY. For it not to be financial in this case I see it as a business decision. You are a single black grown woman out of college. Live like one alone. Good luck! Morgan hun...keep doing you...and stay friends as neighbors.
artsygirlify, wow I agree, but please have that same energy, and critique for other RUclipsrs as well. I see you on another RUclipsrs page, but no critique/constructive criticism, only praise and defense. Although, I do agree about her growing into her own, but there's a big difference in 2 women trying to grow in business, than a young lady, and young man living together romantically quickly. It's okay for that, but not this?
I always love watching your vlogz something to look forward too...words of advice never rush into anything give it a thought and really know what you getting into.
I think Morgan would be really good for Jayla even if its just in the same building or city. Maybe not roommate but I'll be here for whatever you choose!
I will keep saying this over and over again and I know it's not the most popular choice. Stop wasting your money. This is coming from a girl that was born and raised in NY (The Bronx), lived in Brooklyn, Mount Vernon, New Rochelle, etc. I currently live in NC. And to top it all off I work in real estate for a commercial real estate company for the last 4 years, I'm the person creating the contract tenants sign. That money you pay every month is making someone very wealthy, where is all your money going? I'm seeing washers and dryers in the dang on kitchen area. You could have a house or even look into renting a house if you do not want to commit to mortgage for those prices. I know you guys are still in the looking phase, so maybe give that a try. Be wise about your coins, Ya'll will learn.
Jayla's job is there. Her lifestyle is her job. You can make good money in realestate many of cheaper places (i'm in real estate). However Jayla already expressed this is where she found her formula.. ect
+Elleinad Mai no one said she needed to leave New York. She can definitely get more for her money being smart about where your money is going, is not a bad thing. A cute look, is not enough to throw away 1,000's a month and not have nothing to show for it. I see a comment from Missy who Jayla knows personally (in real life) and she is saying the same thing. For that price you get nothing.
I agree with the renting a condo part but some condos look just like an apt/ same size same layout. It could be that she doesn't have the best credit to buy a house right now due to just graduating college. I know she just graduated college and when I did I didn't have a credit card or anything so I wait to build my credit plus she's an entrepreneur which can make it even harder qualify. Lenders will most likely need her income taxes, which could lead to problems.. see it so often with self-employed clients.. just playing devils advocate..
and again, Missy values space over location etc.. yeah you can get more space elsewhere but that doesn't really matter to some if it's not where they wanna be which is the case for jayla...just different preferences no one is better than the other. Because Missy would choose a bigger home in the dallas in the suburbs does not mean Jayla is a fool for choosing an a small apt in the city of NYC.
I have 2 best friends and all 3 of us lived together for 3 years and it was great, we got alone fine ... everyone is different! do what you think is best for y'all!
Do whatever you feel is right, but I wouldn't recommend going from living alone to having a roommate. Unless money is tight, it just doesn't make sense.
*wait* how morgan telling you what to eat, but doesn't cook? Process foods is just as bad as pork and beef, imo. 😂😂😂 i love yall friendship. But yall do have time to move in, no rush, continue to learn each other, then go from there. As far as cooking....morgan can teach you a healthier lifestyle and you can teach her how to cook. Its all out of love. 💙. You go ladies. 🖤
Yall must not realize that Jayla does the same thing lol Jayla def speaks her mind too. Plus they're friends. If you cant give your bff advice and tough love sometimes, who are you going to give it to?
Why don't you guys just live in the same building instead of together... especially if you plan on staying in the same area... it's always best to take new friends in doses. Up and moving in together seems lit.. but it will get old soon. Y'all haven't seen the ranges of each others personalities.. Living alone spoils you in a good way.. why change it..
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4500.00 aint baddd?! girl i would literally fly to NYC and drag yall both to dallas and put y'all in a 4-5 bedroom with a theatre room for 1800-2000+ lol. NOPE don't do it.. Big sis Missy speaking here!
MissyLynnSays 🗣🗣🗣🗣 PREACHHHHHHHHHHH. In fact she needs a phone call because this is irrational!
Yes Missy!!!
MissyLynnSays thats the city life i live outside the city in long island sheesh with 4500.00 she would have a mini mansion house in LONG Island NY 40 min away from NYC for my house i pay $1600 for 7 bedroom high ranch house big big yard two living rooms and the neighbors are not that close like the city
but you're fine with country/small town jayla isn't.. bday sis here. I'm not either
MissyLynnSays OMG hi Missy 👋😬
girl you did all that to have your own place ! dont move with no one , that's so college !! you dealt with that and didn't like it. yall can always see eachother , stay in your own place aint nothing like being in your own house !! girl dont do it ! .
Mariah Monae' PREACH👏🏽👏🏽
🗣LOUDER!!
Agreed!!! Nothing like your own!
YES
But REALITY hits Bills stacking up.......you might need a roommate, it depends on your money flow 💰
Reading up on all your comments....thanks for all the opinions and suggestions! Again, it's so early in this process and we just wanted to toy with the idea and see what's out there on the market. Both Jayla and I currently live alone so we both appreciate the value of having our own space and definitely wouldn't want to put our friendship as risk; so trust me...this will NOT be a rushed and impetuous decision.
ItsHeyMorgan Good love♥️
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOO!! how you assume they thots?
ItsHeyMorgan Well said. I agree.
Thank you for addressing this!
Such a positive and respectful response to these comments. Because you know all the viewers know you guys so well 😜
Two apartments same building=friendship preserved
TeeLee512 exaccccccccctly!
Agreed!
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Living with someone is annoying i know she ya friend and all but nah. Ain't nothing like having ya own
Tynia major the truth😌
I️ would say live in the same apt building and y’all can just link up and have sleep overs when you’re lonely 🤗💁🏽
As an adult or really a human everyone is moody and sometimes you just want to be alone , shoot you might just want to walk around naked lmao or even when you’re dating someone you want privacy .
Y’all both are financially blessed to do it by yourself so I️ would just keep it that way.
ForeverMegan〈3 Agree.
I like that idea. I
ForeverMegan〈3 they are young nothing wrong with saving the coin ...
ForeverMegan〈3 definitely the best suggestion
I think you all should just be neighbors. I like you having your own space. Lol
Morgan seems sweet but its kinda funny that she is telling jayla to eat healthy while scarfing down processed fast food.
I haven't watched yet so idk if Jayla asked our opinion, but I'ma give it anyway lol. No matter how well yall get along and how much you love her, in order to preserve the friendship and not cause any issues, you two should live separately. Even if she moves to the city and lives near you, its much better than having to share a space with someone every single day, which is completely different from a weekend sleepover. I'm telling you, I have roomed with 3 friends before throughout college and after, so I am speaking from experience. Don't do it sis!
Yes! I had a roommate and it didnt work out! I feel like you live w/ someone else ONCE... then never again!
Miss Understood girl I’m only friends with 1/3 of those girls now. The other randomized roomates I had worked out much better! At this point I would only live with my momma, my boyfriend or by my damn self lol
A little louder please for those in the back!
Listen friendship is nice but i love my privacy i couldn't do it lmao!
If you two are great friends now, do your friendship a favor and don't move in together! It changes your relationship and not for the better. That may not be the case for everyone but I definitely wouldn't do it.
Morgan is a great friend but I think you and her living together could be tricky...
DaisyWonderfulWorld agree don't do it gurl
I agree 1000%. Morgan seems controlling.
I agree. Just keep your own space.
That’s all I was thinking the entire video
I agree don’t do it your guys have completely different styles and are at completely different success right noe
Girl if u can afford ur own place, keep it! Don't risk ur friendship & u just met her frfr.
"Where's the living space?"
"We're in it..."
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TVision yea thats not what you wanna hear 😂
TVision 😂😂😂😂 this was classic!!
Where we moving too? I thought we just moved...I don't feel like packing again. Sis this to much 😩 Sis....yall haven't even known each other 6 months to be doing all this moving
gabby maiga 😂 still waiting on an apartment tour.
Sweet as Hunny I swear 😂😂😂😂😂 I'm like did I miss the apartment tour or something. Next thing we know she going to be leaving NY where it's more affordable. This is how it all starts off
exactly! I say Morgan run hun! lol do your own thing.
gabby maiga this is def the honeymoon phase of their relationship. .in the words of Janet Jackson ballad ..."let's wait awhile"..lmbo @jaylakoriantv
artsygirlify I enjoy Jayla separate and hanging out with her friends and them coming to visit. All this roomate stuff. Lordy seems to much for someone she hasn't even know a year
*i think yall should live in the same building🤔 your current apt too lit*
Why would they put the washer and dryer so close to the refrigerator
Shani 227 that threw me off.
Shani 227 location location location!!! Cus they couldn't fit it in the oven!!! That's new york for u..
It’s New York Lmao where else would you put it
Shani 227 thats NY. I once saw an apt here that literally had the bathroom in the kitchen. I can't wait to get out of this B next year!!!
i moved in with 3 of my friends, now I'm friends with only one of them, girl don't do it
Meriam Silver Girl that's right. I've lost ALL my friends I've roomed with (5+)and it's less fun than just being by yourself in an apt. What's so sad, is that most of those situations weren't even my fault. I'm actually the easy one to live with. It's when you hold all your feelings in and don't express how you feel, then you're more comfortable with just letting friendships go. But that ends up haunting you later when you're lonely. Communication is the ONLY saving grace for roommates
No Jayla!! Keep your own space.... I've been on my own for sometime now and I've always let ppl stay with me it's not a good idea and its always different when you move in with a friend...
I like Morgan so DONT MOVE IN TOGETHER 😂
Sweet as Hunny times two
Lmfaoooooo 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Girll what’s the point of living together ? I feel your going backwards lol y’all do not need to live together . There’s nothing like your own space.
Living together can mess up a friendship especially when you don’t know anything about their cleanliness
Edelyne Kayla they're styles are so dif. Girlie meets industrial. Let's see how that works out. I cringed throughout this kmt
great point Meisha^^^. Their apartments look COMPLETELY different
Next thing you know that intro is back.
“About to leave, Already packing. Come with me....”
Darryl Beason 🤣🤣🤣🤣😫
Darryl Beason 😂😂😂. T
I'm sorry you're a fool yo 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
Darryl Beason 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
im crying ahahaha
You could have a whole house with $2700 girll!! New york is not worth , im trying to leave as soon as possible.
One of the keys of living alongside other people is being respectful and accepting of the other people/person. To make a long story short Morgan eat what suits you and live whatever lifestyle you chose. As virtuous as it is, don't force that ish on anyone else!
Shaine Wilson ok den...lol..u said that
Exactly!!!!!!!
I could've said it better myself. She's annoying and controlling..
kennedismom12 thank god im not the only one that think so too.
You never know a person until you live with them , that’s all I’ll say .. but I support you regardless of whatever the hell you do lol LOVE YOU SIS !
Edit : 4500 ?! That’s not bad ?! SHITTTTTTTT!
Love MK lol I said the exact same thing before I read the comments..yasss gurl that is when u really learn someone...ppl put on a good front from afar
Love MK
ikr lol thats more than some mortgages....
Love MK That’s a mortgage
Velicia Williams right!! Plus that's a mansion in some states lol
This is so true with friends and family.
I think Morgan should move in your building in her own apartment. I think that would save the friendship sometimes moving in with friends it's not a good thing. Jayla I love your intro it's like watching a mini movie before the video you guys did a great job you and Santa I mean twin love you Jayla hope you guys are having an amazing day. hope you guys don't take offense to my first statement that's just how I feel no evil intent. Vaya con Dios. One Love❤💋
Jayla keep your apartment, I can tell your personalities will clash.
Mrz. Taylor rt
Mrz. Taylor I thought I was the only one thinking that,,, like when they were eating and Morgan told Jayla she needed a healthier lifestyle,, that was strike 1 lol everybody knows Jayla is a foodie and isn't going to change that
Not to a point that they can't live together tho.
I believe they will too😮
yeah I think so too. They seem to irritate each other in a frienemy way. DON'T DO IT!
Issa NO sis for the moving together. Your life styles are completely different (food ) , aesthetic are completely different. Hmmmm it will hella tricky especially if bfs comes into the mix . It's your desicion though
You should just live on your own, that's not a very good idea.
To keep from havin regrets later & hearin "I told u so" stay in ur own place.
There are people who have known each other for years and clash when they move in together. I say keep your own space.
I'm pretty sure Jayla is the one who made the idea to live with morgan. She is very clingy to her. When she first did a vlog with Morgan she was talking about taking a trip with her and everything.
Xiaoyuwon agree. She doesn’t like living or being alone at all 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ (from what we see) I feel like that’s an issue 😂😂😭 l
Totally agree. Jayla was also the one doing all the talking about how great it would be-meanwhile, all Morgan could think about was Jayla's nasty eating habits
Lashay Naria yup! She needs balance! Alone time is always good for the soul! But she’s still young! She’ll learn!
NYC be trying it with their matches boxes for $5000 😩😩😩😩😩I don’t care if I can see Jesus from my window, I’m not paying that amount for that tiny space.
😂😭 fr tho
😂😂😂 I swear!
Don’t do it Jayla!!! Red flag! She trying to change how you eat lol
Brittanee Mason 😂😂😂
Friendship that's headed straight for disater
While I prefer to live alone, you can’t knock someone for wanting a roommate. She’s grown and she knows what she is doing. I’ve had bad roommate experiences and I’ve lived with some of my best friends and while it can mess up friendships, it’s not always the case. When I lived by myself, my friend was always at my house anyway so we got a 2 bedroom so she could pay rent too 😂😂😂 and we are still close. As long as you set boundaries, rules, and communicate then you should be fine. I’m here for it!!
imhis00 I hear you but you can see the clash coming from more than a mile away. Jayla is used to having space and doing what she wants when she wants. In her own space that can happen with a roommate not so much. M I t to mention the amount of money she spent to get her apartment just right to then give that up would be a grave mistake. There are certain pauses in their interactions that is very telling. Nope!
Right! They might be trying to save money.
It's Tabaitha she already said it wasn't monetarily motivated.
Jayla TRUST ME. I'm a Scorpio just like you and I know how that friendship factor can push excitement. But we are loners by nature. I like Morgan, but it's pretty clear that you two wouldn't last longer than 5 months. I'm 29 and I roomed with people from 19-26 friends, non friends, in college, out of college and I can see right through yall THANG. It's not gonna work TRUST ME. She seems nice and all but she is just as strong minded as you, and I'd hate to see down the line, drama between you two online. Plus I can see that shes silent thunder, its too early for you to understand who she is under the smiles and curls. And shes a dancer, sounds like a lot if noise, company members, parties and music going on when you wont be feeling it. I know it gets a lil lonely on your own but just work on being good friends and spend time with each other. Gosh, the best way to ruin friendships forever is to move in with them. If anything, focus on your career. Then maybe down the line you can meet and move with the man of your life. It's better to deal with a man you know than a whole new person you just met. Trust me, if there's anyone who can give you roomate and friend advice....its me. I've seen and experienced so many relationships destroyed over rooming situations.
Yes! I’m a Scorpio too! I loveeeee living by myself I need my space idc how close we are I can’t do it, I’m a definite loner
Not eating certain foods is a personal choice and should not be pushed upon anyone. Especially by a potential roommate.
L Canaday if i was a jamaican weather man, the forecast for rooming together would be.."storm disaster soon come!"
yeah, and its kind of rude
jvickers67
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂this has me 💀💀💀💀
Them New York break lease agreements lol.... youuuu gottt moneyyyyyy
WolfGreyy I thought about that and thought they would probably split jayla's breaking lease since she's the one who already has an apt
WolfGreyy rt
I'm saying tho
Same thing I thought! Lol
jvickers67 orrrrrJayla’s lease will be up around the time Morgan graduates...
When you’re at work so you can’t watch just yet but you go ahead and like the video because it’s Jayla. Lol I’ll be back on my lunch break boo don’t worry!
I think I read on the BBW candles that you should trim the candle wicks before every use. That’s probably why the flames were out of control lol
Jayla....if it’s not financial then why move together? Why are you moving just because she’s looking? I don’t recommend that move in situation at all. Just help her find her spot and maybe in the same building, but you stay in yours. Don’t do the most
So I don’t know if y’all should live together BUT I do see Morgan influencing Jayla in such a more positive way then others we have seen on her vlog . Morgan seems cultured and really intouch with who she is and having friends like that will really elevate who Jayla is . The only other person I felt like that about is Jackie but not too sure what happened with their friendship z
Naomi Kenney you said a mouth full and I totally agree! You can tell Morgan is a very positive person!
Naomi Kenney I totally agree with u
I agree . Morgan's vibe is more organic. Jayla is a turn up girl so ionknow
Uhm no shes controlling and not respecting jayla's decision. If she doesnt like eating meat except chicken and drinks only tea and water thats on her but dont go judging your friend for not doing the same and telling her shes gonna have to change. Shes so annoying.
I know i'm going to need a Jayla and Jackie (JJ) reunion! they were actually cute roomates and got along really well.
I can't take Morgan lecturing Jayla while she indulges on WEDNY'S hahaha. Like girl that is NOT healthy. Then cows milk in that Frosty she trieddd it. lol Yall are funny together (good dynamic.) I haven't watched her channel yet but she’s always cute in Jayla's vlogs.
Sassy Besos im not following her but from this im not liking her much.
Sassy Besos I was thinking the same exact thing, but Morgan is actually right about that meat killing Jayla.
sexymodelboy girl it’s killing both of them. Lol haha Wendy’s will not spare us. But idk Jayla is strong in what she wants I like that about her. I don’t see her changing those habits. Lol
+itsasecret29 no one cares about what you like
Sassy Besos Chile yes! Lol But that nasty hormone filled chicken is slightly better than pork. LOL However, I don’t think Morgan was judging or ridiculing Jayla like people are saying. I think she just wants Jayla to improve her health. I encourage my friends not to eat red mead and chicken and they dropped them and we all feel better than before LOL
Never ever move in with your bff! Read through the comments of people who have had the experience before u proceed. Uv got your independence, keep it!
HairMusic Videos I lived with my bff throughout all of college. Luckily it worked for us. Errrbody ain’t lucky though lol
Don’t do it Jayla! No one should be trying to change you before even moving in. Especially a change that doesn’t pertain to her or her happiness. Stay in your lane Girl...do you and let others do them.
OH NO MA'AM! What do they expect you to be able to fit in those bedrooms!
I love u both but my Caribbean Grandmother always say "come live with mi and come spend time with mi ah two different things"
Man hell no jayla continue to live by yourself it just seem crazy that you wanted and found your own place just to up and get a roommate again don't do it 😂 nothing like living by yourself!
NYC got some tiny apartments and will have you paying mortgage-type payments. Goodness.
minglee76 It’s mind boggling. You can get a 7-bedroom house in the suburbs of the south for that kind of money.
Amari Inasad Okay?! Lol Yes!!
minglee76 that’s why i appreciate Atlanta every day
PettyBre _ Same, I’m born and raised, and even the super nice condos and Midtown and Buckhead will give you waaaayyyy more bang for your buck.
PettyBre _ How is the traffic for the cost of living in the Atlanta area?
Jayla what about moving in together with Morgan in the same building but not in the same apartment? That way you have your own space but you can still hang out anytime :)
Jayla live by yourself Morgan set in her ways . KEEP YOUR APARTMENT
You have to trim your wicks to prevent such high flames lol
Don’t do it sis! If u move, come down south some. U get more property for your money. Come to Dallas with Missy 😉😁
Sweet as Hunny exactly, I think her and Missy would be BOMB together.
it is sad ! I live in Nyc with my parents in a house and I would never move out to pay rent. Save the coins and buy a house
You see how excited you and Morgan get when you visit one another after a while of not seeing each other? 🎶🎵Keep it that wayyyyy!!!!!🎶 *Tyrese voice*
I totally forgot this I lived with my best friend for one summer cuz she lived closer to my job 😫 it was horrible she was nasty asf like hide her dirty pads in the closet stinking up the whole place nasty and id always gotta go places with her even if I finished a 12 hour shift and mad tired and bare mans would be over and that was just two months and I was so annoyed I hate her now.. I’m living with my husband and he’s even annoying keep stepping on my white mats with his outside shoes 😫 the 2nd apartment is nice though
The 1st part of this comment .... ew seriously? 😷😷
BUT the 2nd part not the White mats though?! Like damn. Smh 🙄 lol
I read that with such an attitude, I could feel the annoyance girl. 😩😂
Sis I’m here for this comment about even living with your husband. I’ve stayed alone I can’t even imagine sharing with my future husband and kids for. THE. REST. OF. MY. LIFE 😩 I love my alone time. I have the best time lol
Shoyah'sCrazy FantasticLife Lmaoooo. .gurl u need a hug!! I feel you on those white mats tho!!!
Sometimes it's just better to put up with just your man's shit. It's different with girls, they have to throw something to say on it and usually develop an attitude on the topic that they never drop. At least a man will just say you bitchin an go about his way until his next mess. Females on females and males on males can just get nasty, mean, vengeful and down right depressing. Better to raise kids (opposite sex and kids) then a grown person (same sex)
If you want to remain friends keep your own spaces...
As we say in the Caribbean , “two man rat cannot live in the same hole”. You worked really hard to get your own space and to get where you are today. I really think you shouldn’t move in with Morgan especially since you guys just met. I do not know her on a personal level neither do I know you on a personal level but a lot of things usually change between any type of relationship when you start LIVING TOGETHER. That’s just my two cents, all the best.
Morgan has some nerve talking about eating healthy...as she eats Wendy’s 🤭
Asa Smith Exactly!
All those apt combine cant compare to your current apt.
M Joh rt i said that...
I wish you luck, because it nothing like having your own space, I did it before, it didn't work out, from cleaning and pay rent and bills on time. 🤦🏿🤦🏿🤦🏿🤦🏿🤦🏿🤦🏿🤦🏿🤦🏿our friendship was never the same after that
nana flores omg same here I moved with my best friend and omg it was the worst decision I ever made like omg I'm dying to have my own space now
Agreed. Same thing happened to me and my best friend 😞
Yeah this not gone work. She already suggesting to Jayla what she should stop eating and we all know how Jayla feel about her food lol
Also you can use scissors or get a wick trimmer to cut down the wick from your candle that way it will burn clean and no tall flames
Nahhh she tryna control what you eat!! Don’t do it lol
UndeniablyyFlyy I so agree with you I like Morgan but when she started with what you can eat remind me of a friend of mine I would never ever move in with her!!
Morgan is kinda annoying
"Those meats are destroying you" eats chicken sandwich and chicken nuggets and slurps frosty". FAST FOOD IS LIFE 😒
Jayla & Morgan do as you want. Friendships can be a sisterhood . Sisters disagree, family members disagree, that’s life. To close your life off from people under the guise of being “ a independent woman “ is foolish . There is a lot to learn when you are young. I appreciate that Jayla has opened her life to us, her life to friendships . And I see her maturing exponentially.
Live, love & grow. 😊♥️
interesting perspective
Velicia Williams me too, love her.
Velicia Williams that is a really good perspective. But I don't think it's about being an 'independent woman'.. it's about the reality of sharing a space with someone who you've developed a friendship with first. It's one thing to be roommates and then become friends afterward.. but to choose to room with your friend honestly.. I've seen it cause way more harm than good. Living in the same complex is a smarter idea, and will protect the friendship. They will get tired of each other fast.. their personalities seem slightly muted when together.. but telling enough to show that living separately is for the best.
O love, it’s a moment in Time. A lease for 6- 12 months goes very fast. If they decide that it doesn’t work , you move on.
It’s not a big deal. Jayla does appear to be able to get past small things. She does not hold grudges or do petty stuff.
So the window of time is small.
Velicia Williams in the roommate experience even 1-2 months is a long time. Trust me 6-12 is A LOT. But hey, everyone has to make their own decisions 🤷🏾♀️. She asked for input and I'm just giving her honest truth about choosing to live with someone who isn't blood. they're super friendly with each other and that's not the length of their personalities so.. and there really wouldn't be anything to get over or any grudge to hold if they instead just lived in the same building, but different apartments.
I can understand wanting a roommate due to cheaper cost, but you get tired of friends quickly! It’s nothing like having your own place, but this is YOUR life & you’re in control of your own path and if you want a roommate then do it sis & if it doesn’t workout then lesson learned! If it’s due to boredom, I got a puppy to keep me company and my friends visit almost everyday!
Yeah I can see this not ending well with Jayla loving food and Morgan already trying to change Jaylas eating habits.
Apartments in Brooklyn are so much bigger and downtown Brooklyn is close to everything. Also, the newer the building, the more likely the space will be smaller. Check out brownstones, you get the newly renovated ones, you'll see how much bang you'll get for your money. Cut the wick before lighting the candles...It will eliminate the black sut that comes out when you 1st burn it. It will also lower the flame (check the instructions)
I agree with most. Living together is not a good idea. Morgan appeared to be bossy. Jayla, keep your place !!!!😕
B Loveable agree
Now, maybe you could move to Dallas with Missy!!! Not in her home, but maybe the same neighborhood. You two would be so freaking bomb together. She's older and she thinks so wisely, I live her video when she's just dropping knowledge about life....love her! My vote is Jayla and Missy 😊😊😊
did he really just say $2700 for a one bedroom apartment????
JasmineSimmonsTV Yep I thought I heard wrong at first lol where I live that place is $900-$1180
It’s NYC. That’s the norm unfortunately.
Clanesha Munford exactly. how much did people expect for MY. DC is just as bad. 1700 for a basement apartment. smh
Oh to be young and actually want someone around you all of the time. Bless.
I would hate sharing a bathroom lol
Jayla you need that washer and dryer lowkey im afraid of public washer and dryers
Ya'll just need to live in the same building because ya'll both have a apartment full of furniture and alot of stuff
It seems like a good ideal to me.. Basing it off how y'all hit it off upon arrival 😂 (when yall first met) so, pray about it and the best decision should be made!
NY just doesn’t seem worth the money to me. Everything is soo small and soo expensive 😩 I’m gonna live down south forever that’s for sure 😂
I love the dynamic between you too! Both of you are BOMB and BRILLIANT women! I’m sure you would be amazing roommates! 💗
hmmmm...this roomie arrangement with 2 youtubers... Didn't you just meet Morgan? Aren't you in NYC to experience being a single grown woman in the big city dealing with grown woman issues making it on your own? So one vlogs and the other is in it more or less, the other vlogs and the other is in it more or less...it can be redundant where I would only look at one without looking at the other because I would have already seen one why look at the other? I say no because I love you for your aesthetics and I just subbed Morgan and love her for hers. And sometime or another you have to experience time living alone as a grown woman to deal with grown woman situations. But at the same time having a room mate in NYC is usually a financial choice living in NY. For it not to be financial in this case I see it as a business decision. You are a single black grown woman out of college. Live like one alone. Good luck! Morgan hun...keep doing you...and stay friends as neighbors.
artsygirlify, wow I agree, but please have that same energy, and critique for other RUclipsrs as well. I see you on another RUclipsrs page, but no critique/constructive criticism, only praise and defense. Although, I do agree about her growing into her own, but there's a big difference in 2 women trying to grow in business, than a young lady, and young man living together romantically quickly. It's okay for that, but not this?
Shakeima Durant tf she can comment on whatever she wants. Positive or not. It’s her opinion.
Sami Gigi, mine as well, so why are you here? Same goes to you.😉
This was AMAZING! I agree with you
That first apartment Issa no! It look smaller than what you already have and really crammed
Everyday a new intro!! Your hard works doesn't go unnoticed ❤
I always love watching your vlogz something to look forward too...words of advice never rush into anything give it a thought and really know what you getting into.
She said 45 thats not bad GIRLLLLL thats a mortgage 😬lol ....NYC is crazy expensive sheeshhh
If u trim the candle wick before using, it'll eliminate that from happening!!!
I think Morgan would be really good for Jayla even if its just in the same building or city. Maybe not roommate but I'll be here for whatever you choose!
Alot of hints being thrown out Jayla...
I will keep saying this over and over again and I know it's not the most popular choice. Stop wasting your money. This is coming from a girl that was born and raised in NY (The Bronx), lived in Brooklyn, Mount Vernon, New Rochelle, etc. I currently live in NC. And to top it all off I work in real estate for a commercial real estate company for the last 4 years, I'm the person creating the contract tenants sign. That money you pay every month is making someone very wealthy, where is all your money going? I'm seeing washers and dryers in the dang on kitchen area. You could have a house or even look into renting a house if you do not want to commit to mortgage for those prices. I know you guys are still in the looking phase, so maybe give that a try. Be wise about your coins, Ya'll will learn.
Jayla's job is there. Her lifestyle is her job. You can make good money in realestate many of cheaper places (i'm in real estate). However Jayla already expressed this is where she found her formula.. ect
+Elleinad Mai no one said she needed to leave New York. She can definitely get more for her money being smart about where your money is going, is not a bad thing. A cute look, is not enough to throw away 1,000's a month and not have nothing to show for it. I see a comment from Missy who Jayla knows personally (in real life) and she is saying the same thing. For that price you get nothing.
I agree with the renting a condo part but some condos look just like an apt/ same size same layout. It could be that she doesn't have the best credit to buy a house right now due to just graduating college. I know she just graduated college and when I did I didn't have a credit card or anything so I wait to build my credit plus she's an entrepreneur which can make it even harder qualify. Lenders will most likely need her income taxes, which could lead to problems.. see it so often with self-employed clients.. just playing devils advocate..
and again, Missy values space over location etc.. yeah you can get more space elsewhere but that doesn't really matter to some if it's not where they wanna be which is the case for jayla...just different preferences no one is better than the other. Because Missy would choose a bigger home in the dallas in the suburbs does not mean Jayla is a fool for choosing an a small apt in the city of NYC.
I have 2 best friends and all 3 of us lived together for 3 years and it was great, we got alone fine ... everyone is different! do what you think is best for y'all!
Do whatever you feel is right, but I wouldn't recommend going from living alone to having a roommate. Unless money is tight, it just doesn't make sense.
I love y’all collabing together like yall just feed off of each other’s vibes
Hi from Chicago, just 3 words
DON'T DO IT!!!!!
I want to go to college in New York, but everyone keeps telling me how expensive it is 😩
Ariyonna Thomas Don't listen to everyone, do the research and make the decision on what's best for you. You just may get a scholarship, all the best.
La'Rose Thank you
Morgan’s hair is goals. I like you two together.
Love you both. You two couldn't be more different. Don't do it sis!!!!!
*wait* how morgan telling you what to eat, but doesn't cook? Process foods is just as bad as pork and beef, imo. 😂😂😂 i love yall friendship. But yall do have time to move in, no rush, continue to learn each other, then go from there. As far as cooking....morgan can teach you a healthier lifestyle and you can teach her how to cook. Its all out of love. 💙. You go ladies. 🖤
Yall must not realize that Jayla does the same thing lol Jayla def speaks her mind too. Plus they're friends. If you cant give your bff advice and tough love sometimes, who are you going to give it to?
Why don't you guys just live in the same building instead of together... especially if you plan on staying in the same area... it's always best to take new friends in doses. Up and moving in together seems lit.. but it will get old soon. Y'all haven't seen the ranges of each others personalities.. Living alone spoils you in a good way.. why change it..
Hey Jayla, do you trim your candle wicks before burning them?