Taking Stock of Our Relationship One Year Post Marriage: The Good, Bad & Ugly

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

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  • @marthamichelle1342
    @marthamichelle1342 10 месяцев назад +3

    An anxious attachment meets a secure attachment. They really compliment each other. Such a calmness and sincere growth they both have had. Looooooooveeeeeeeettt it for them.😊

  • @Jayeoba.Faanubomi
    @Jayeoba.Faanubomi 11 месяцев назад +15

    This conversation is so deep and wholesome! It deserves more views. I'm so happy you both found each other and chose each other. Your love and friendship will continue to grow and blossom in Jesus name.

    • @CassieDaves
      @CassieDaves  11 месяцев назад +1

      Amennnnnn. Thank you so much

  • @henryijeoma2228
    @henryijeoma2228 Год назад +15

    Cassie, your weird traits are very similar to mine. I remember falling in love with someone. I don't sing in front of anyone, except in church. He knew.
    One day, I sent him a voice note, singing. This was over one year after we had been together. He was shocked and happy to have gotten to that extent with me.
    I remembered that when you mentioned that you still don't dance in front of your husband. I totally understood that.

    • @CassieDaves
      @CassieDaves  Год назад +4

      Thank you! I’m always happy when I meet people that can relate to things other people may consider weird

    • @ebubechukwuifedigbo5450
      @ebubechukwuifedigbo5450 Год назад +2

      ​@@CassieDavesThis is our 6th year of marriage and I just recently started trying to dance and do other stuffs in front of my husband. You are not alone Cassie and you are not wierd. Marriage is a long process. You have the rest of your lives to unfold and become the best for yourself and eachother. Such a soothing conversation. Love it!

    • @CassieDaves
      @CassieDaves  Год назад

      @@ebubechukwuifedigbo5450 thank you for this comment! Very reassuring and a timely reminder too.

    • @ebubechukwuifedigbo5450
      @ebubechukwuifedigbo5450 Год назад

      ​@@CassieDaves❤

  • @victory__chy1
    @victory__chy1 Год назад +18

    I think this is the most honest video I've seen on Social Media. I'm so similar to Cassie, I struggle a lot with being vulnerable and I find things akward and I don't know how to handle people being in my space. Feels good to know that there's others who have gone through same. Thank God for giving you a man who understands and is patient. ❤ God bless your home AMEN

  • @tolulopewilliam-abe8209
    @tolulopewilliam-abe8209 Год назад +18

    This was such a fun and calming watch, so relatable and loving. Mark and his goofiness always balancing Cassie's intensity. I really loved this video. Well done Cassie.

  • @favourevro
    @favourevro Год назад +18

    All i see here is kindness, intentionality, love & vulnerability. Thank you both for reassuring us Love is worth waiting for. Big love for you both❤❤❤❤❤

  • @pagedbyruth
    @pagedbyruth 11 месяцев назад +1

    I’m still watching this but reading the comments has been sort of a resting place. Dancing, being goofy, etc., is something that I don’t know how to bring out. There was a time my roles required me to be very put together and ensure others were prim and proper, so, that stuck so much. I was the one always watching out for the crude jokes, unclean lyrics, etc. I was to ensure law and order. I was very shy and conscious of myself. I can want to be goofy, break out in a dance that doesn’t have rhythm but I couldn’t just do that even on my own; it just remained in my head. The best that I could do was to imagine the scenario and chuckle. With my partner - my husband, I’ve been emphasizing the fact that I want to be okay being goofy, being “inappropriate” with him, and so much more.
    I don’t want to feel so stuck up. I want to enjoy life and my time and I really want to do it with him…

  • @chinuadozie9550
    @chinuadozie9550 Год назад +6

    I really really enjoyed watching this. So real and honest.
    I see kindness, a love that’s patient and forebearing. I am Such a huge fan, thank you for sharing🤗

  • @Jayeoba.Faanubomi
    @Jayeoba.Faanubomi 11 месяцев назад +3

    The way Cassie is flinching at Mark’s touch is the way I flinch and try to bite my husband off 😂

  • @ihechieke
    @ihechieke Год назад +6

    This was so soft and smooth to digest😭❤️

  • @obu_Chinaza
    @obu_Chinaza Год назад +9

    Not Mark saying he wants to be a house husband 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @kosiejieji3123
    @kosiejieji3123 Год назад +5

    You both are so adorable and the synergy between you is palpable.

  • @GodxTracy
    @GodxTracy 11 месяцев назад +1

    It's the intros.
    Always the intros for me.
    Sets the tone for a great watch.

  • @joyitunu269
    @joyitunu269 11 месяцев назад +1

    It's how you often ask how he feels about what you say... The love, care and kindness is just mutual

  • @doyinsolaolaniyan6428
    @doyinsolaolaniyan6428 11 месяцев назад +2

    Your story telling holds me spellbound each time the intro to all your videos are always well thought out and beautiful❤

  • @aroyanduniya4797
    @aroyanduniya4797 Год назад +2

    I can count almost 80 comment affirming how great your videos. I'm joining in to say no creator puts out what you've been able to. You're special and I'm grateful for what you share with us here. I feel like you value your audience and their time. ❤

  • @merocode1821
    @merocode1821 Год назад +3

    Oh my !! I can relate to that having people in my space and over thinking especially when they don't keep my space clean 😂 and having to tell someone to clean when they leave the place dirty . Recently my housemate said I had OCD 🤣😂 because of how mindful I am of my space , even though till tomorrow I feel she'd never understand.

  • @Geenalale
    @Geenalale 11 месяцев назад +2

    This is such a wholesome watch. Thank you for putting this out 💕

  • @cynthiahillian
    @cynthiahillian 11 месяцев назад +2

    You guys are irritatingly funny.. I love the dynamic between you guys😅

  • @DamolaKayode
    @DamolaKayode Год назад +3

    Awwww I was just smiling throughout ❤❤😊
    Mark has thought a lot about this house husband thing 😂😂❤

  • @angelaumoru1393
    @angelaumoru1393 Год назад +3

    When he talked about you blowing so he can become a house-husband, it sounded like my husband. He says that often😂

    • @CassieDaves
      @CassieDaves  Год назад +2

      I hear it at least once a day. At this point God needs to pick up his call asap

  • @B_Lloyd
    @B_Lloyd 11 месяцев назад +1

    This man is a natural.

  • @prudenceokonna7551
    @prudenceokonna7551 11 месяцев назад +2

    This video is beautiful and I am not even done watching🤍

  • @exotiknuella
    @exotiknuella 8 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤ Enjoyed this. Rooting for you guys always.

  • @yusufislamiyat9411
    @yusufislamiyat9411 Год назад +5

    Always looking forward to seeing your videos, your editing and narration are on point, plus the beautiful view you share with us ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @NavigatewithJane
    @NavigatewithJane Год назад +2

    Cassie, you definitely have created a safe space here, thank you for this video... Would you and the Hubs be open to do a video talking about how to handle a Sexually shy, reserved, naive partner please.

  • @sharonariyo4783
    @sharonariyo4783 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love this video sm, my partner and I have been together for almost 2 years but I have never cried in front of him and I cry but never in front of him and it gets to him that I am not being vulnerable with him, what is vulnerable sef

  • @His_Rahmah
    @His_Rahmah 11 месяцев назад

    I'm a new subscriber here, and i have been enjoying this space so far... Thank you for sharing your story and love with us

  • @MoJo-ng5ot
    @MoJo-ng5ot Год назад +1

    I enjoyed watching this!! I’m happy for you guys ❤

  • @denise7565
    @denise7565 10 месяцев назад

    You all are hilarious!!! Thanks for sharing!

  • @joycengozi2008
    @joycengozi2008 Год назад +1

    Both of you really compliment each other❤

  • @onifadeblessing7736
    @onifadeblessing7736 Год назад +1

    Love love all of your videos. Thank you for being so genuine with it❤❤.
    Funny how, a thought came to my mind earlier this morning, that you were going to post a video like this soon.

  • @DivamakaO
    @DivamakaO Год назад

    Loved how vulnerable and real this was. Thanks for sharing! ❤

  • @Tia_oz
    @Tia_oz Год назад +2

    I really learnt alot from this... At least when i get married i know what to expect 😂... Keep it up 💯👍

  • @seyioluboba8752
    @seyioluboba8752 11 месяцев назад +1

    I didnt expect to laugh as much as I did, you guys are funny 😂 and cute 🥰

  • @maryadedeji368
    @maryadedeji368 11 месяцев назад

    Mark is such a delight😂😂😂😂

  • @d3light.b
    @d3light.b Год назад +1

    It’s the consistency for me 👌🏽

  • @OJMaronii
    @OJMaronii 11 месяцев назад

    Cassie you’re such a DELIGHT to watch.
    Your weirdness is CUTE 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @ScissorN
    @ScissorN Год назад +1

    First time here and wow she is beautiful .. love from South Africa

  • @Eltiko7
    @Eltiko7 Год назад

    I love watching you guys, I look forward to your post every Saturday! Keep it up guys🎉🎉

  • @obindeborah1305
    @obindeborah1305 Год назад

    I always look forward to seeing your creativity Cassie this video was Soo wholesome

  • @EbeleEby
    @EbeleEby Год назад +1

    Just got here but i know it will be a beautiful video as per usual

  • @d3light.b
    @d3light.b Год назад +1

    Loved this video Cassie 💕 you were so open with us

  • @maryi3073
    @maryi3073 11 месяцев назад

    I’m very shy about that topic on sex and Virgin as well and I’m in my 30s too. I’m anxious about that day but I pray my partner will someone will be patient and kind

  • @Tuoyoede
    @Tuoyoede Год назад +1

    Mark and his protein explanation 😅😅. Honestly, I get it tho I also like eating my food with some sort of protein.

  • @Ai55h
    @Ai55h Год назад

    I really loved this. Thank you for being open ❤

  • @똑바로말해-b7m
    @똑바로말해-b7m 11 месяцев назад

    16:39
    I went to a boarding house... tough sketchy one.
    Omo... I'm still awkward oh 😔
    I like someone and even before the feelings got in the way, theyve seen some of my major quirks... but the thing is, they haven't seen the best of them if you know what I mean 😬 and the fear of them seeing all of my quirks and being judged is getting in the way; it's messing up my mind.

  • @reginachiambasen7674
    @reginachiambasen7674 Год назад +1

    Wholesome video Cassie❤❤❤ 29:19

  • @chefotee
    @chefotee Год назад

    I really enjoyed watching this video😊❤ Many lessons and I smiled throughout. I love your energy❤

  • @moyosoreshobitan8862
    @moyosoreshobitan8862 Год назад

    Lovely video. All natural. Thanks for sharing your vulnerability and love with us.

    • @CassieDaves
      @CassieDaves  Год назад

      Aw thank you for watching and leaving a comment ❤️

  • @davidwey7784
    @davidwey7784 Год назад +1

    Mark & Cassie, you are adorable.

  • @MoJo-ng5ot
    @MoJo-ng5ot Год назад

    I love the sponsors break 😂😂😂😂

  • @Joy-kl6fz
    @Joy-kl6fz Год назад

    Awwww this was beautiful to watch ❤❤❤❤

  • @mayomikunadenipekun8736
    @mayomikunadenipekun8736 Год назад

    This is so nice and insightful❤️❤️
    Cassie, I thought we did laser though?🥺

  • @rowenakadiri8636
    @rowenakadiri8636 11 месяцев назад +1

    I dey quick provoke 😂😂😂😂

  • @ifesochidiokpala8610
    @ifesochidiokpala8610 Год назад

    There’s always something to learn in all the videos

  • @akinaguda
    @akinaguda Год назад +1

    This video is wholesome

  • @olaoluwapopoola4222
    @olaoluwapopoola4222 Год назад +1

    Wow!😅 A year already...congrats!

  • @shonolarachael2622
    @shonolarachael2622 Год назад

    Cassie
    I love how jovial you are in this video

  • @chinazaekpendu5488
    @chinazaekpendu5488 Год назад

    Thank you, Cassie ❤ Thank you. Thank you.

  • @ebukaobidiegwu5287
    @ebukaobidiegwu5287 Год назад

    Beautiful video. Actually learnt watching this

  • @EhiAnthonia
    @EhiAnthonia Год назад

    I really enjoyed this!

  • @miriam.augustine.94
    @miriam.augustine.94 Год назад

    Really honest conversation

  • @onyinyechiebirim469
    @onyinyechiebirim469 Год назад

    Loved this..Thank you very much..
    More love between you two ❤️

  • @rowenakadiri8636
    @rowenakadiri8636 11 месяцев назад

    Why did Mark wave like that at the beginning 😂😂😂😂

  • @Faustinaogbe
    @Faustinaogbe Год назад +3

    So your marriage to me was just there 😂😂😂😂 womennnn

  • @dammyschannel
    @dammyschannel Год назад

    Love your hair cut

  • @Therealbubuu
    @Therealbubuu Год назад +2

    I can’t wait to meet my person🥹
    You guys are so beautiful to watch🤎🤎

  • @EstherABBAN-j2k
    @EstherABBAN-j2k 10 месяцев назад

    I don't feel like an alien in this world anymore gosh i see so many similarities between Cassie and I lol

  • @TheOyinsLifestyle
    @TheOyinsLifestyle Год назад

    Love this!❤

  • @Faustinaogbe
    @Faustinaogbe Год назад +3

    My best friend will make me not have meat problem with anybody. I eat 1 meat pls, she eats 4 meat fam… it is well

    • @CassieDaves
      @CassieDaves  Год назад +1

      4 meats! It really is well looool

  • @thecircle2024
    @thecircle2024 Год назад +1

    so adorable 😄😄😄

  • @Ben-AmutaEnehiDaniella
    @Ben-AmutaEnehiDaniella 6 месяцев назад

    😅For the meat stuff my dad is like that, love your videos Cassie

    • @CassieDaves
      @CassieDaves  6 месяцев назад +1

      Men are indeed special 😂. Thank you!!

  • @tosinabatanshitta
    @tosinabatanshitta Год назад

    Enjoyed this video through and through 💯. Mark is a clown, and I must appreciate you both for being real with the viewers.
    May God Almighty continue to bless and keep your home. The very best would always be your portion 🙏.

  • @oyindamola26
    @oyindamola26 Год назад

    I don't wanna be spoilt pleaseeee. Lol. Thank you for sharing.

  • @rahamaabah
    @rahamaabah Год назад +2

    So beautiful 😍 😊

  • @Tai193
    @Tai193 Год назад

  • @iteabwayi4347
    @iteabwayi4347 Год назад

    So adorable 🥰 ma

  • @Therealbubuu
    @Therealbubuu Год назад +3

    I can’t eat beans without meat oh 😂
    I usually dice it in small pieces.

    • @CassieDaves
      @CassieDaves  Год назад +1

      Coming from a woman, I’m shocked 😂

  • @emmanuelororho7455
    @emmanuelororho7455 Год назад

    There was absolutely nothing wrong with that vandana tho 😅

  • @gboyega_adeoya
    @gboyega_adeoya 11 месяцев назад

    That ego part

  • @bellao7592
    @bellao7592 Год назад +1

    Pls I’m with Mark on the meat thing 😂

  • @goodnewschibudom6695
    @goodnewschibudom6695 Год назад +2

    Here for the sponsorship message. DE Cassiedaves 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @obu_Chinaza
    @obu_Chinaza Год назад +2

    She's the best content creator I know of.🤌🏼
    Nobody fit tell me anything else!!!!

  • @Faustinaogbe
    @Faustinaogbe Год назад +2

    My best friend will make me not have meat problem with anybody. I eat 1 meat pls, she eats 4 meat fam… it is well