Alhamdulliah you try your best to follow the Sunnah. This is Sunnah, some of the sahaba had women whom their right hands possessed. Everything that might be questioned for people is outlined in the Holy Quran. Allah explains very well that it is not fornication to be with your wife or someone whom your right hand possesses. Ask Allah Ta'ala to guide you and he will show you the answers for all your questions. -From a young Muslim Woman
I think he explained it very well. If your were a man and had women slaves living in your house. They were to be treated and taken care of as your wives. You had the same responsibility to them that you have to your wife. The women slaves had rights, the children you have with her also have rights. Like Br. Nouman said you won't really find this situation in our times but it is important to know about all aspects of deen. The women you your right hands posses are lawful to you.
Read Surah Noor ayat 32-33 and what Br. Nouman says will easily be explained. InshaAllah Allah will give you the ability to understand His Holy Book. Ameen
It is not fornication because you take care of her the same as you take care of your wife. She is basically your wife without the title. Like Br. Nouman said, no nikkah takes place because nikkah is literally giving responsibility of a woman from one waali(father, brother, uncle) to another waali (the husband). If a woman was taken during war and put under the care of a man, became someone who his right hand possessed, she would have no waali to give her to him.
you know what, tableeghi jamat would say leave your family and go for chilla for as long as 3 to 6 months. they will not speak about family they speak speak and speak talk talk talk no practicality.
Chilla is 40 days and the maximum they usually have is 4 months. Some of the jamaats that go out for long periods go as 'masturat jamaats' which means that men go with their wives. Most people in the world talk and don't practice.
5:08 Yup, these people can never accept that they've been beaten... Yo, dog, Islam is totally right, just admit it... But, noooo, they just gotta keep complaining. And their arguments do continuously get weaker. 6:55 Omg yes... I've dealt with people like this... I answer their question, they're defeated and know it, then they pop over to another topic... Like, hey hey hey... Can you acknowledge that I'm right before desperately scrambling away to another topic...?
SURA an-NISAA (4).34: "Men are in charge of women because Allah has made the one to exceed the other & because they spend of their property. So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret that which Allah has guarded. As for those from whom you fear rebellion, admonish them & banish them to beds apart & SCOURGE THEM (beat them with a rod or whip). Then if they obey you seek not a way against them." SURA al-BAQARA (2).223 "Your women are a tilth unto you so go to your tilth as & when you will" (a woman may be used by her husband as & when he wishes without need of her consent. - A tilth is a property: a piece of land for cultivation. It can also be bought, sold or exchanged) - IS THIS A FORMULA FOR A HEALTHY MARRIAGE? (I have used the Muhammad Pickthall translation, approved & endorsed by al-Azhar - it does not deviate significantly from the original)
Saadia Ali Khan What utter lies, hypocrisy and nonsense! - Do you suppose that I am as dim-witted deluded and ignorant of Islam as you are? What kind of double-talk nonsense is "Her consent is required but she cannot refuse without a valid reason"? - Sharia defines a woman's "consent" as: 'the absence of a refusal so spirited and sustained as to possibly endanger life'. - Who decides what is a "valid reason"? - the assailant? - SAHIH HADITH: Abu Dawud 2142 - "Narrated by Umar Ibn al-Khattab: The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: 'A man will not be asked as to why he beat his wife.' " A 'scourge' is a rod or whip. QURAN 38.44 "Take in your hand a branch and strike with it and break not your oath." (Allah is telling Job how to beat his wife) HADITH: Kash-shaf of al-Zamakhshari Vol. 1, p. 525 - "On the authority of Muhammad (peace and blessing of Allah be upon him), he said: ‘Hang up your scourge in a place where your wives can see it.’ " What is a "slight" beating? - Is it something like being 'slightly pregnant'? A beating is a BEATING - and ANY beating of an adult is demeaning and degrading. I have known & experienced the "rights" of women in Islam for probably more years than you or your mother have alive. The attitude of the 'prophet of islam' to women as expressed in his last sermon is: "... they are domestic animals with you and do not possess anything for themselves..." (Tabari Vol 9, Number 1754) 'Aisha said to 'Muhammad': "You have made us women equal to the dogs and the asses" (Sahih Muslim 4.1039) "I have not seen any woman suffering as much as the believing women'" (Sahih Bukhari 72.715)
Sister, it deeply saddens me when I see people quoting incomplete narrations of hadith or taking verses of quran out of context and posting in social media. If a person is sincere and honest before posting such things he or she will do a deep research and try to know the complete narration and context. For example: "You have made us women equal to the dogs and the asses" (Sahih Muslim 4.1039). Lets read the full narration of this hadith. Masruq reported: It was mentioned before' A'isha that prayer is invalidated (in case of passing) of a dog, an ass and a woman (before the worshipper, when he is not screened). - Upon this 'A'isha said sarcastically: You likened us to the asses and the dogs? By Allah (God) I saw the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) saying prayer while I lay on the bedstead interposing between him and the Qibla. When I felt the need, I did not like to wit to front (of the Holy Prophet) and perturb the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) and quietly moved out from under its (i. e. of the bedstead) legs. (Sahih Muslim: Book 4 - Prayer (Kitab Al-Salat) 1038). - So this is what people said & Aisha asked sarcastically that have you made woman equal to dog or asses? And than she told them that i used to lay in front of Muhammad pbuh while He prayed meaning a prayer is not invalidated in case a woman passes by. - This is a sad reality that such things are being posted on sites controlled by the west & we believe in them without understanding the context or interpretation. This is only one narration that i have cleared, there are many such narrations without context. DONT BELIEVE IN ANYTHING BLINDLY..!!! Study properly and deeply. Every verse and hadith has a story behind it. If you are really sincere and honest know the complete picture. If you are here just to make fun of Islam and abuse it nobody can help you.
galariajaved Having studied, researched and experienced these matters in very great depth throughout my fairly long life, it deeply saddens me to see people like you dishonestly attempting to evade the issue by creating diversions which do not alter the facts. I most strongly advise you to read in full my reply to 'YBYR Noor' posted above since it comprehensively answers you too and I have no need nor desire to keep repeating myself at length for each individual.
Leyla al-Aswad you are quoting incomplete narrations of hadith which i already proved by giving a complete narration of one hadith of asses and dogs...did you read that? if you do not want to know and understand the truth i cannot help you. Its very easy to misquote quranic text and hadith but very hard to try to do a bit of research and understand the meaning of the hadith.
galariajaved I am well aware of the complete narrations and backgrounds of each of the 3 ayat and 5 hadith that I have cited on this thread in addition to the one that you picked on. I have quoted nothing out of context and I need no help from you in understanding the religion in which I was born, raised, educated, studied under expert guidance, researched and been subject to all my life. If you come here only to divert attention from the central issue raised by the 2 ayat that I quoted in my initial comment by dishonestly and demeaningly engaging in nit-picking, hairsplitting worthless trolling arguments, I must ask you not to come back with more of the same because you will be wasting your time as well as mine and be liable to be removed from this conversation without further discussion or warning.
I am falling in love with my deen all over again, may Allaah reward Nouman highly, Ameen ❤️️
Brother Nouman super video mashaAllah
love his lectures
Wow just love ma deen it's beautiful
so shame only 11 000 views, you guys don't share it...you feel shame to share this video?
this is the solution, this video is gold diamond wake up.
Alhamdulliah you try your best to follow the Sunnah. This is Sunnah, some of the sahaba had women whom their right hands possessed. Everything that might be questioned for people is outlined in the Holy Quran. Allah explains very well that it is not fornication to be with your wife or someone whom your right hand possesses. Ask Allah Ta'ala to guide you and he will show you the answers for all your questions.
-From a young Muslim Woman
I think he explained it very well. If your were a man and had women slaves living in your house. They were to be treated and taken care of as your wives. You had the same responsibility to them that you have to your wife. The women slaves had rights, the children you have with her also have rights. Like Br. Nouman said you won't really find this situation in our times but it is important to know about all aspects of deen. The women you your right hands posses are lawful to you.
Read Surah Noor ayat 32-33 and what Br. Nouman says will easily be explained. InshaAllah Allah will give you the ability to understand His Holy Book. Ameen
It is not fornication because you take care of her the same as you take care of your wife. She is basically your wife without the title. Like Br. Nouman said, no nikkah takes place because nikkah is literally giving responsibility of a woman from one waali(father, brother, uncle) to another waali (the husband). If a woman was taken during war and put under the care of a man, became someone who his right hand possessed, she would have no waali to give her to him.
he did.
you know what, tableeghi jamat would say leave your family and go for chilla for as long as 3 to 6 months. they will not speak about family they speak speak and speak talk talk talk no practicality.
Chilla is 40 days and the maximum they usually have is 4 months. Some of the jamaats that go out for long periods go as 'masturat jamaats' which means that men go with their wives.
Most people in the world talk and don't practice.
why did muhammed not give his inheritance to his family?
5:08 Yup, these people can never accept that they've been beaten... Yo, dog, Islam is totally right, just admit it... But, noooo, they just gotta keep complaining. And their arguments do continuously get weaker.
6:55 Omg yes... I've dealt with people like this... I answer their question, they're defeated and know it, then they pop over to another topic... Like, hey hey hey... Can you acknowledge that I'm right before desperately scrambling away to another topic...?
When he was dying
Abu Bakr stole it? Huh? Prophet ( salilah alayhi wasalam ) ordered Aisha (ra) to give the money to the poor
SURA an-NISAA (4).34: "Men are in charge of women because Allah has made the one to exceed the other & because they spend of their property. So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret that which Allah has guarded. As for those from whom you fear rebellion, admonish them & banish them to beds apart & SCOURGE THEM (beat them with a rod or whip). Then if they obey you seek not a way against them."
SURA al-BAQARA (2).223 "Your women are a tilth unto you so go to your tilth as & when you will" (a woman may be used by her husband as & when he wishes without need of her consent. - A tilth is a property: a piece of land for cultivation. It can also be bought, sold or exchanged)
- IS THIS A FORMULA FOR A HEALTHY MARRIAGE?
(I have used the Muhammad Pickthall translation, approved & endorsed by al-Azhar - it does not deviate significantly from the original)
Saadia Ali Khan What utter lies, hypocrisy and nonsense! - Do you suppose that I am as dim-witted deluded and ignorant of Islam as you are?
What kind of double-talk nonsense is "Her consent is required but she cannot refuse without a valid reason"?
- Sharia defines a woman's "consent" as: 'the absence of a refusal so spirited and sustained as to possibly endanger life'. - Who decides what is a "valid reason"? - the assailant? - SAHIH HADITH: Abu Dawud 2142 - "Narrated by Umar Ibn al-Khattab: The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: 'A man will not be asked as to why he beat his wife.' "
A 'scourge' is a rod or whip.
QURAN 38.44 "Take in your hand a branch and strike with it and break not your oath." (Allah is telling Job how to beat his wife)
HADITH: Kash-shaf of al-Zamakhshari Vol. 1, p. 525 - "On the authority of Muhammad (peace and blessing of Allah be upon him), he said: ‘Hang up your scourge in a place where your wives can see it.’ "
What is a "slight" beating? - Is it something like being 'slightly pregnant'? A beating is a BEATING - and ANY beating of an adult is demeaning and degrading.
I have known & experienced the "rights" of women in Islam for probably more years than you or your mother have alive.
The attitude of the 'prophet of islam' to women as expressed in his last sermon is:
"... they are domestic animals with you and do not possess anything for themselves..." (Tabari Vol 9, Number 1754)
'Aisha said to 'Muhammad':
"You have made us women equal to the dogs and the asses" (Sahih Muslim 4.1039)
"I have not seen any woman suffering as much as the believing women'" (Sahih Bukhari 72.715)
Sister, it deeply saddens me when I see people quoting incomplete narrations of hadith or taking verses of quran out of context and posting in social media. If a person is sincere and honest before posting such things he or she will do a deep research and try to know the complete narration and context.
For example: "You have made us women equal to the dogs and the asses" (Sahih Muslim 4.1039). Lets read the full narration of this hadith.
Masruq reported: It was mentioned before' A'isha that prayer is invalidated (in case of passing) of a dog, an ass and a woman (before the worshipper, when he is not screened).
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Upon this 'A'isha said sarcastically: You likened us to the asses and the dogs? By Allah (God) I saw the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) saying prayer while I lay on the bedstead interposing between him and the Qibla. When I felt the need, I did not like to wit to front (of the Holy Prophet) and perturb the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) and quietly moved out from under its (i. e. of the bedstead) legs. (Sahih Muslim: Book 4 - Prayer (Kitab Al-Salat) 1038).
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So this is what people said & Aisha asked sarcastically that have you made woman equal to dog or asses? And than she told them that i used to lay in front of Muhammad pbuh while He prayed meaning a prayer is not invalidated in case a woman passes by.
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This is a sad reality that such things are being posted on sites controlled by the west & we believe in them without understanding the context or interpretation.
This is only one narration that i have cleared, there are many such narrations without context. DONT BELIEVE IN ANYTHING BLINDLY..!!! Study properly and deeply.
Every verse and hadith has a story behind it. If you are really sincere and honest know the complete picture. If you are here just to make fun of Islam and abuse it nobody can help you.
galariajaved Having studied, researched and experienced these matters in very great depth throughout my fairly long life, it deeply saddens me to see people like you dishonestly attempting to evade the issue by creating diversions which do not alter the facts.
I most strongly advise you to read in full my reply to 'YBYR Noor' posted above since it comprehensively answers you too and I have no need nor desire to keep repeating myself at length for each individual.
Leyla al-Aswad you are quoting incomplete narrations of hadith which i already proved by giving a complete narration of one hadith of asses and dogs...did you read that? if you do not want to know and understand the truth i cannot help you. Its very easy to misquote quranic text and hadith but very hard to try to do a bit of research and understand the meaning of the hadith.
galariajaved I am well aware of the complete narrations and backgrounds of each of the 3 ayat and 5 hadith that I have cited on this thread in addition to the one that you picked on.
I have quoted nothing out of context and I need no help from you in understanding the religion in which I was born, raised, educated, studied under expert guidance, researched and been subject to all my life.
If you come here only to divert attention from the central issue raised by the 2 ayat that I quoted in my initial comment by dishonestly and demeaningly engaging in nit-picking, hairsplitting worthless trolling arguments, I must ask you not to come back with more of the same because you will be wasting your time as well as mine and be liable to be removed from this conversation without further discussion or warning.
From my experience the answers are sub standard.
think again :_)
istagfirullah how could you speak so ill of the closest companion to the prophet saw, what have the muslims come to yaa allah, forgive us