Expectations VS. Reality | After The Vows - Episode 13 | Season 1 | Full Episode

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  • @MsMphoLav
    @MsMphoLav 2 года назад +134

    This show is definitely underrated, I learn a lot from each episode.

    • @allthingsndatala
      @allthingsndatala 2 года назад +1

      I can agree😌

    • @trevormap2857
      @trevormap2857 2 года назад +1

      Same here🤝

    • @namsb.5221
      @namsb.5221 2 года назад +2

      That's me tlhe mma. Every single one has been beyond insightful.

    • @mphoearther983
      @mphoearther983 2 года назад +2

      Me and you both … people should normalise watching this show

    • @jayejay2530
      @jayejay2530 2 года назад

      Ppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppp0ppppppppppppppppppppppppp0pppppppppppppppp0ppppppppp0ppppppppppppp0ppppppppppp0pppppp0pppp0pppp0pppp0plpplplp0 pp

  • @fullybookedwithzizwe7932
    @fullybookedwithzizwe7932 2 года назад +34

    If this show comes back for another season then the episodes need to be longer. All the time it ends I feel like so much more could've been said/was said but edited out

  • @KMazibuko
    @KMazibuko 2 года назад +39

    This is a fantastic show! Been watching all the episodes as they are released. It brings such a different perspective to understanding people within marriage.

  • @mayumimolotv8523
    @mayumimolotv8523 2 года назад +13

    "People who marry people they want to change usually married down. The problem about a lot of people out there is that they haven't married their first choice and if you don't marry your first choice you usually walk in with expectations that you can make him the person you want him to be."

  • @motlhatlhedi88
    @motlhatlhedi88 2 года назад +28

    I was wondering why:
    - more than 4 guests
    - dining tables
    - di lunch/dinner being served
    Khanti, ke last episode.😭
    This was a great wholesome show. Learned a lot and I am looking forward to the next better season.🤗

  • @keepingthefaith1368
    @keepingthefaith1368 2 года назад +29

    I loved what Mpumi said about being the man that her father is! That’s just powerful

  • @Naughtorious
    @Naughtorious 2 года назад +13

    The editing was tricky here🌚kodwa ke love the episode

  • @nkepengmarumo3648
    @nkepengmarumo3648 2 года назад +14

    Mpho no this cant be the last episode 🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️been learning so much from the show and still feel it's not enough. You have been incredible as a presenter well done. Sis Mpumi I fully understand what you mean when you said you always wanted to marry a man like your father I am guilty

  • @swazi4769
    @swazi4769 2 года назад +14

    Honestly what they are saying is true.
    I do think is humanely possible to not have expectations from your spouse and vise versa, the issue with these expectations is when they are not communicated and discussed. I fell into that trap when I got married and damn, was I not miserable 😂😂😂.
    With time we learnt to talk and engage each other and it's way better than before.
    We are always told that communication is key ne, but for the first few months of marriage it's just mere talking past each other. Communication happens over time...
    Can't wait for season 2, I hope Mpho will think of season 2.

  • @swazi4769
    @swazi4769 2 года назад +8

    Sisi Mpumi needs to speak more. I loved her views as well as uncle T

  • @zusibone
    @zusibone 2 года назад +4

    Uncle Tony summed it up for me. If you can live without her don't marry her. That's my tune to leave. I definitely will never get married. Thank you bye bye. 👋

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 2 года назад +9

    The skits are my favourite parts of this show 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @minenhlenqubekozulu3899
    @minenhlenqubekozulu3899 2 года назад +10

    I wish it wasnt the last episode.... hopefully there will be season 2... We learnt so much from this channel 😊

  • @diedilepherane8433
    @diedilepherane8433 2 года назад +9

    This show is so fruitful.. Lessons I learn here are spot on 👌🏽

  • @AmberMokgosi
    @AmberMokgosi 2 года назад +3

    Ntate Tony Kgoroge I like your advises Ntate. If we can do that as married couples we will go till death do us part.

  • @silindokuhlepetse1949
    @silindokuhlepetse1949 2 года назад +4

    Mpumi's conclusion got me searching my soul🙏😭😍

  • @tholoanakojana3574
    @tholoanakojana3574 2 года назад +5

    Mpho should marry now, you have had enough advice

  • @khanyisagura4377
    @khanyisagura4377 2 года назад +6

    I like what Sliqour said about getting the little things right before the romance is well received.

  • @allthingsndatala
    @allthingsndatala 2 года назад +8

    A great show for the newlyweds indeed. Thank you SABC✨👏🏾👏🏾

  • @lowamaleka435
    @lowamaleka435 2 года назад +1

    Next time invite "THE MAKHS" please

  • @zohbuthelezi2689
    @zohbuthelezi2689 2 года назад +5

    This was the best show, thanks Mpho. I wish it was a bit longer, hoping for season2

  • @tshabom
    @tshabom 2 года назад +6

    Uncle Tony -Wisdom 👌🏽 , God bless you Sir!

  • @botlhaleradebe7738
    @botlhaleradebe7738 2 года назад +3

    I don't own a tv, just ran on this a couiple of weeks back. Wow Mpho, Le berkile go bona a. It is GODLY to see BLACK MEN holding Unions with this clarity and direction. Beautiful to have balanced representation of Our realities👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🌞🌚🥥🌛🌎💎🧚🏿‍♀️🍫🥥🐞😊🐻🦛🌜
    Le godile Bo Papa, wow so so so Beautiful, Siya👏🏿👏🏿sobriety ya gago is🥑 beautiful. Uncle Tony bathong 🐞🐻🍪the depth of content and guests was not superficial well for most of the guests.
    Mpumi, Your journey sounds like You are Healing, your sense of humour 🤣😂😂😂😂You seem different in a beautiful way from the times I have caught the show🌠
    Imagine all the drivel on tv that is repeated all day and they can't repeat this like the do with everything?
    ThAnkh so much for teaching the Afrikan Child that Family Unit is the strongest part of our dealings with organisational running. For teaching that We love, We nurture, We grow, We affect change for OUR BLOODLINES. May We live in honour and raise the BLOODLINE 👏🏿👏🏿💎🌍🌗🧚🏿‍♀️🍫🥥🌞🌚🦛🌎🌏🐻🥑🍪🌠

  • @karabomasufi304
    @karabomasufi304 2 года назад +4

    Malome Tony bit on the nail#Thanks#Deal with self 1st

  • @swazi4769
    @swazi4769 2 года назад +5

    What a beautiful show we need season 2 please?

  • @mamolewamodiba9159
    @mamolewamodiba9159 2 месяца назад

    All your guests said something profound. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @matebohomokapi7634
    @matebohomokapi7634 2 года назад +9

    I loved each episode and have learned so much from our guests. So what are you preparing next? What should we expect and when?

  • @manelisimlilo7226
    @manelisimlilo7226 2 года назад +3

    This is a beautiful show no doubt very informative

  • @khanyisameke1240
    @khanyisameke1240 2 года назад +2

    I enjoyed all the episodes I've watched. Thank you.

  • @rebatwins7139
    @rebatwins7139 2 года назад +1

    Been learning a lot from this show but I just feel the host cuts the guests short, they have a lot to say but he quickly jumps to the other guest

  • @kabelop9082
    @kabelop9082 2 года назад +3

    Well done Mpho, great conversations from episode 1 to date. Sure hope to see season 2.

  • @mayumimolotv8523
    @mayumimolotv8523 2 года назад +1

    My only issue with the show is that it's so short 😭😭😭😭. Do yall understand how much we're learning from this show?

  • @maphanganomcebo4584
    @maphanganomcebo4584 2 года назад +1

    I only discovered this show today... 😎 love love love .... I'll be binge watching hy

  • @tladiprisca5080
    @tladiprisca5080 2 года назад +2

    I love this topic coz coming 3 month i getting married 🤩🤩

  • @momadicmami1975
    @momadicmami1975 2 года назад +2

    Ooo yeah loved the mention of childhood traumas and the ‘deal with you before doing it together ‘

  • @nolitha_JekeL
    @nolitha_JekeL 2 года назад +2

    Always delivering the best content 👌👏

  • @lethabomashapa100
    @lethabomashapa100 2 года назад

    Ms Mops married for money. She mentions finances, shopping too many times

  • @feliciamswane2216
    @feliciamswane2216 2 года назад +1

    we have learnt so much, sad this is coming to an end, I learnt so much about me and what I stand for and red lights to look out for in a relationship, I still believe in love

  • @chipowilliam8638
    @chipowilliam8638 2 года назад +1

    Fantastic show. Thank you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @mathapelonkanyane3975
    @mathapelonkanyane3975 2 года назад +1

    Ahhhhh 💔😭the last episode, guys are you being for real 💔😭

  • @JeanetteMoseneke
    @JeanetteMoseneke 2 года назад +3

    I really enjoyed this series 😊

  • @masase19
    @masase19 2 года назад +3

    The show should be longer

  • @Bee-dp3st
    @Bee-dp3st 2 года назад +2

    Last episode 🙆‍♀️🥺😫
    Noooooo!

  • @khanyacewu
    @khanyacewu 2 года назад +2

    Incredible show ❤🔥

  • @karies6895
    @karies6895 2 года назад +1

    Last what!? No, bring season 2 please. We need more! And it has to be Mpho again

  • @nokwazishezi7580
    @nokwazishezi7580 2 года назад +2

    As for "i married my dad"😔 that sounds so bad

    • @nicolahlongwane4166
      @nicolahlongwane4166 2 года назад +6

      I think it’s pretty normal. We model what we grew up seeing. There are definitely traits in my partner, that were important to me because I saw them from my father.

  • @mrspngonair4621
    @mrspngonair4621 2 года назад +3

    Another socital pressure that kills marital bliss is rushing the couple to have kids. Couples must never rush into having kids. Only have kids when both partners are ready.
    Talk about everything and listen to each other, you will not easily have unrealistic expectations if you listen to your partner.

  • @ronewatsedu5332
    @ronewatsedu5332 2 года назад +1

    I needed this show... Thank You 😊

  • @nomvulairene4177
    @nomvulairene4177 2 года назад

    ❤️❤️

  • @oratilebatsile9952
    @oratilebatsile9952 2 года назад +1

    content i signed up for....goshh,

  • @being.luciaM
    @being.luciaM 2 года назад

    Please discuss a loveless marriage in the next season.

  • @tsholo977
    @tsholo977 2 года назад

    Mpho acting like he's under 30...

  • @MegaKhanyisile
    @MegaKhanyisile 2 года назад +1

    😍

  • @alettahtsotetsi3276
    @alettahtsotetsi3276 2 года назад

    Thank you Mpho for this channel

  • @boikanyoleabile4393
    @boikanyoleabile4393 2 года назад

    mpho this is brilliant!

  • @MtshaliSesiphiwe
    @MtshaliSesiphiwe 2 года назад

    I felt like this was a short episode

  • @nthabisengprudence4330
    @nthabisengprudence4330 2 года назад

    Dankie Mphoppops !!!

  • @ncumisanomazele887
    @ncumisanomazele887 2 года назад

    I hope ukhona useason 2

  • @estheroluwato1119
    @estheroluwato1119 2 года назад

    Notification GE ng🤗😍

  • @lelo_km5798
    @lelo_km5798 2 года назад

    Season 2 please 🙏

  • @toxicteezy8310
    @toxicteezy8310 2 года назад +1

    I’m crying coz this show is good to be true

  • @moe_ramz
    @moe_ramz 2 года назад +4

    Mrs Mops ke gold digger 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @noxxie1496
      @noxxie1496 2 года назад +15

      How about that she is a lucky girl who a rich man fell for? ❤️😊

    • @OngezwaDumel
      @OngezwaDumel 2 года назад +2

      No. She’s a smart woman

    • @moe_ramz
      @moe_ramz 2 года назад +1

      @@noxxie1496 She was in university dating a man two decades older than her. Sis let’s be real please.

    • @moe_ramz
      @moe_ramz 2 года назад +1

      @@OngezwaDumel from Soweto to Sandton. If he lost the money will she still be with him👀

    • @nthomengmajara8575
      @nthomengmajara8575 2 года назад +4

      So the part about her father being a taxi boss flew right over you? Money attracts money.