On "Bit Abuse", Proper Frames and Rollkur

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Комментарии • 662

  • @rosethecat9746
    @rosethecat9746 6 лет назад +721

    It makes me sad because Raleigh made a video and it had one of my videos in it. I was riding a pony and he reared and I pulled on his face by accident. She kept saying bad words at me and saying that I can't ride. I emailed her and asked her if she could take the video down and she said that I abused my pony and that I shouldn't ride in a bit (I use a loose ring, double broken) and everyone in the comments was saying stuff about me too. She said that a real rider wouldn't use bits and a horse wouldn't rear with a real rider. I know that she's wrong, but just seeing her say that and all the people in the comments agreeing with her really made me upset.

    • @Milestone-Equestrian
      @Milestone-Equestrian  6 лет назад +290

      Rose The Cat See, this is why I have such a problem with the way she does some things. That’s just bullying and it offers no education for anyone! The fact that she wouldn’t take it down, either, is really quite nasty. Everyone makes mistakes and when unexpected things happen, sometimes riders are caught by surprise and end up doing things like catching the mouth without meaning to (Raleigh did the same in the clips of Link rearing up on her). Really unfortunate that she did that to you.

    • @toriwallace9622
      @toriwallace9622 6 лет назад +81

      Rose The Cat We all have bad days with our riding and we shouldn't be judged just on those days, and having a bad day and making a mistake doesn't make you a bad rider or abusive. ❤

    • @nszlavik6589
      @nszlavik6589 6 лет назад +70

      Rose The Cat I am currently trying to tell people on her channel EXACTLY that. Obviously you didn't purposely pull on your horse. I don't understand how people don't see that she is a bully. I am sorry that happened to you. ❤

    • @haileykramer5124
      @haileykramer5124 6 лет назад +38

      Just remember we all have our bad days, and also remember in these clips Shelby has, anytime Raliegh's horse acts up ends up pulling on the horses face. It's a natural reaction to pull on the reins when something happens even if you don't mean to. Watch any of her videos and she's doing the same.

    • @rachelsmith6479
      @rachelsmith6479 6 лет назад +44

      Rose The Cat Raleigh is an immature, ignorant bitch. Don't let her get to you!

  • @nicoleb1563
    @nicoleb1563 6 лет назад +259

    can i put you in my pocket so i can carry you around and pull you out whenever someone tRIES ME

    • @libbyharcourt4254
      @libbyharcourt4254 6 лет назад +14

      Mustang Barrel Racer literally THE best idea

    • @laurens.6326
      @laurens.6326 6 лет назад +7

      Mustang Barrel Racer Also for that time someone says "ridings not a sport"...

  • @tabbyteddy9155
    @tabbyteddy9155 6 лет назад +171

    I ride bitless, but I really couldn't care if other people ride in a bit or not as long as the horse it happy and comfortable there is nothing wrong, Raleigh is just giving people who ride bitless a bad name by picking holes in everything but her own riding and making out as if its a massive deal when it really isn't unless the horse is uncomfortable and annoyed with the bit.

    • @maddiefabian9414
      @maddiefabian9414 6 лет назад +3

      TabbyTeddy oml yes... also your profile pic is holo!! #holosexual ?

    • @tabbyteddy9155
      @tabbyteddy9155 6 лет назад +2

      yass well it was before I changed xD I legit changed it just before I saw this

    • @michellelenihan9402
      @michellelenihan9402 6 лет назад +2

      yassss holosexual for life!

    • @tash7052
      @tash7052 5 лет назад +1

      Tabby teddy that is really well said

    • @LunarPotatoo2
      @LunarPotatoo2 5 лет назад +2

      TabbyTeddy 👍all I want is for every horse to be comfterble and happy...

  • @HollyLenahanSJ
    @HollyLenahanSJ 6 лет назад +457

    I never leave one of these videos of yours without learning something, this is why I’m subscribed to you and refuse to even give Raleigh my views any more. I would say that I hope Raleigh watches this, but honestly, she is so caught up in her own opinions that she isn’t able to accept an alternate point of view and would no doubt disagree with everything, no matter how many references you cite.

    • @HollyLenahanSJ
      @HollyLenahanSJ 6 лет назад +40

      Also I’m really glad you talked about the effects of riding a horse in a hollow frame. I’m sick of people attacking riders if their horse dips behind the vertical every so often but riding horses with their head in the air and a hollow back is completely fine, when in reality, it’s actually much worse for the horse.

    • @averydueker653
      @averydueker653 6 лет назад +15

      i used to be subscribed to raleigh until the jeteventing thing happened and then started watching her videos again. about i month ago i completely unsubscribed and refused to have anything to do with her because of her hipocracy and just blatant disrespect to others.

    • @itzmekyleigh4300
      @itzmekyleigh4300 6 лет назад +11

      Holly Lenahan preach it gurl!!ur soo right !!just because Raleigh has the perfectly broke horse thats broke in all directions, that doesnt mean she can go telling other people that their abusing their horse and not listen to them when they say i accidentally got him in the mouth..shes super caught up in her own opinions !!

    • @lollypoppins2131
      @lollypoppins2131 6 лет назад +3

      Holly Lenahan True

    • @isabellareed894
      @isabellareed894 6 лет назад +2

      Very True I always there something

  • @narcissafurniss3471
    @narcissafurniss3471 6 лет назад +100

    I think Raleigh is the 'Tana Mongeau' of the Equestrian community- she uses the "let me say something shocking, let me be loud and obnoxious, let me exaggerate my stories" route to gain fame and boost her notoriety. I just think that she doesn't believe in what she says most of the time and just does things to get a reaction (good or bad) out of people.

    • @susanjamison3382
      @susanjamison3382 5 лет назад

      Narcissa Furniss preach it girl! You have that young pegged.

    • @Galemor1
      @Galemor1 2 года назад

      Luckily things change..
      She's still loud, but in many ways, she's promoting real horse abuse, instead of nagging about bits or not...

  • @annieburton5553
    @annieburton5553 6 лет назад +222

    Now everyone wait for the Shelby Dennis threw SHADE AT ME ?!?!? Video

    • @ashlyntyrie234
      @ashlyntyrie234 6 лет назад +2

      omg yessss cant wait

    • @hannahmarie1155
      @hannahmarie1155 6 лет назад +14

      If only that other girl was mature like Shelby and Jill

    • @toriwallace9622
      @toriwallace9622 6 лет назад +10

      Annie Burton If she tries her ass is gonna get knocked to the ground by Shelby's sass and straight factsss.

    • @ashlyntyrie234
      @ashlyntyrie234 6 лет назад +1

      tori etc yes it will happen

    • @kelbyogryzlo1439
      @kelbyogryzlo1439 6 лет назад +11

      I would love it if she does, but she’ll look so bad doing it because Shelby has presented her side in a smart, calm and respectful way. The only thing she has to grasp onto as an argument is. that “oh that’s an old video/photo of me”, but that just reinforces Shelby argument that you can’t judge other people on their riding because you don’t know the context.

  • @Milestone-Equestrian
    @Milestone-Equestrian  6 лет назад +290

    Also a side note- it’s easy to point fingers and list off what people are doing wrong without really providing any real sources or means of education to help people out. Yelling at people for being abusive doesn’t help them if you don’t have the means to prove your point or a decent way to educate them. If people are truly invested in animal welfare, they need to care enough to do their homework and get the information that they need to present their argument in an accurate and educational manner. Intentionally misleading people by stating that studies are conclusive and there’s no way around that ruins the argument and makes people less likely to listen. Be honest. If people are truly concerned about equine welfare, look for the truth. Not just what makes you comfortable. And care enough to provide the information in a mature and responsible manner that people will be likely to listen to. Attacking people and calling them abusers doesn’t make them open to conversation.

    • @applethefell2910
      @applethefell2910 6 лет назад +18

      Shelby Dennis finally someone who actually does their research. Raleigh is so biased and your sources just knock her's out of the ballpark!

    • @alexiadats3564
      @alexiadats3564 6 лет назад +9

      I really liked that you mentioned frames because she’s very against pessoa lunging systems but maybe she’ll understand importance of correct frames if she sees this. Also I’m very reassured by this video, I was going to try a hackamore but now I won’t

    • @GuardianAngelEquine
      @GuardianAngelEquine 6 лет назад +7

      Shelby Dennis could you do a video over how to teach the horse to engage? Please!

    • @Freya-si2px
      @Freya-si2px 6 лет назад +7

      Thank you so much and she said something like the horse won't take the bit because it hurts but my greeny plays around when I put the halter on and brings her head low to grad the bit from my hand😂No one trained her to she just does. Raleigh said maybe it's because someone kept hitting her teeth with the bit until she took it so she is trying to get away from pain, but she never had anyone else on her like what😂? Could you do a video on how to teach your horse the proper frame?

    • @abbyqueenan4127
      @abbyqueenan4127 6 лет назад +1

      Shelby Dennis agreed!

  • @allisonnguyyen
    @allisonnguyyen 6 лет назад +44

    Thank you, Shelby, for standing up and saying what needed to be said, and also using your platform not to just bully, but actually educate.

  • @ameliasmenagerie3350
    @ameliasmenagerie3350 6 лет назад +95

    You are always putting your facts before your emotions, which is amazing. I love you. Thank you for helping me to learn something new every time I watch your videos.

    • @zanna2679
      @zanna2679 6 лет назад +3

      Amelia's Menagerie Raleigh has emotions....and no facts

  • @shadowspxdes4434
    @shadowspxdes4434 6 лет назад +27

    Yes, horses do those things like rearing out of pain but also if they’re just excited or scared, so many good points, thanks for presenting it in such a perfect way

  • @BuddysMomma5
    @BuddysMomma5 6 лет назад +52

    You know, if what you're pursuing in college doesn't work out, you could look into being a lawyer. You have all the makings of a good one, haha. But in all seriousness, a very well-done video. Facts before emotion. Mature, logical arguments. People need to take some notes, because THIS is how a debate is done.

    • @e-bikeautonomy
      @e-bikeautonomy Год назад

      actually, the law works like this as I study law. reason foreseeable is what the main aspect is and sorry I really like Shelby channels but females work mostly on emotions and men use facts.. why more me are lawyers! hope that help u understand how our crap justice system works.

  • @mycatdarwin7282
    @mycatdarwin7282 6 лет назад +36

    I just love how mature and professional you are about everything. It honestly makes me confused at how immature Raleigh is. The amount of anger and hate she has to spread is ridiculous.

  • @tonyayaeger7077
    @tonyayaeger7077 6 лет назад +12

    I seriously appreciate your maturity in these videos. This is how you get your point across and get people to listen. Thank you.

  • @avaraynor927
    @avaraynor927 6 лет назад +24

    this is so refreshing omg. Shelby thank you, cant wait for " Shelby dennis threw shade at me" I already have my comment ready.

  • @lmp8932
    @lmp8932 6 лет назад +101

    I always rode with a bit. I NEVER had a horse rear on me, or buck. I have hand reared orphan foals and started young horses and retrained OTTB's. I tried a hackamore once on my QH mare, she hated it and just stopped, refused to move. There are so many more things to upset your horse than a bit. I did prefer eggbutts and sweet iron 'broken' bits depending on the horse. My lovely last girl, a QH did not like being ridden in an English style saddle but was OK Western (I am in Australia) or a stock saddle. You have to 'listen' to your horse and adjust your own style to suit them. My two cents worth.

    • @ALittleParanormal
      @ALittleParanormal 6 лет назад +2

      My Appy x QH doesn't like English bits or saddles as he would always buck or get away from me when using a snaffle, he never listened to my hand or leg cues in English but i've been trying to make time to convince my horse into letting me ride him bareback and bridleless without him acting up. His western tack is his favorite by far.

  • @RedFox890
    @RedFox890 6 лет назад +7

    I can't believe I've found someone who actually understands the importance of riding a horse into an outline! And not pulling on the mouth to get their nose in!! Thank you there's not enough people like you !

  • @nodakstyles2638
    @nodakstyles2638 6 лет назад +20

    She's so mean! People that produce content like her are the reason some people are too scared or nervous to produce their own content!
    Thanks Shelby for the informative videos! 🖤

    • @zanna2679
      @zanna2679 6 лет назад +1

      ThatRoanieBaby thats actually why i dont post

    • @nodakstyles2638
      @nodakstyles2638 6 лет назад

      Equine Forever Girl, Same.

  • @moesearles
    @moesearles 6 лет назад +25

    I wish I could like this 10,000 times

  • @rebekahmorgan5937
    @rebekahmorgan5937 6 лет назад +98

    I love how you don’t even have to say Raleigh you just have to say she and everyone knows who your talking about

    • @kynancapybarafan9964
      @kynancapybarafan9964 6 лет назад +3

      Rebekah Morgan true

    • @RustledAngels
      @RustledAngels 6 лет назад +1

      Rebekah Morgan or she posts fuckin pictures of Raleigh so we know who she’s taking about lmaoo

    • @anakruger2412
      @anakruger2412 4 года назад

      @@evimarioli3039 Most riders support bitless riding?

  • @stephanglim7192
    @stephanglim7192 6 лет назад +97

    Preach those facts Shelby yesssssss 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 Freaking love you for making facts/evidence based videos!!!
    You are a great social media influencer because you don't post things that are only based off your opinions and no factual evidence!

  • @ameliamcintosh8460
    @ameliamcintosh8460 6 лет назад +28

    2 dislikes : raleighs 2 channels

    • @sophie.grace4230
      @sophie.grace4230 6 лет назад +3

      Horse Lover nah it’s just Raleigh’s one fan that is EXACTLY LIKE HER

  • @TaylorSpurgeon
    @TaylorSpurgeon 6 лет назад +56

    You're so educated, smart and talented! You're going places and I can't wait to see what your future holds. 🙌🏼

    • @gsdmomb530
      @gsdmomb530 6 лет назад +3

      TaylorSpurgeon į totally agree

    • @katherinee.1213
      @katherinee.1213 6 лет назад

      TaylorSpurgeon I love your channel and Shelby's, you guys are the best equine RUclips channels

  • @caleightc
    @caleightc 6 лет назад +6

    Thank you so much for making this video! I am sick and tired of people making uneducated rants about bits and whips being “abusive.” As a dressage rider, I have had people come up to me before (even at my school) who’ve seen pictures of me riding on Instagram and say that because I ride in a bit (a double jointed snaffle) and hold a dressage whip (which I rarely use, and if I do I’m always sure to be careful) that I’m abusive and should not be allowed around horses. They also tell me that I shouldn’t be riding my horse on the bit because I’m doing “permanent damage to their neck,” even though I am careful to make sure my horse is stretched and warmed up properly and is not always in a frame. I’m so glad that there are people like you out here to make well educated videos on these kinds of topics 🙂

  • @KLMEquine
    @KLMEquine 6 лет назад +28

    So. Much. Respect. For. You. 👏😭

  • @hevshorsestuff
    @hevshorsestuff 6 лет назад +12

    Yes. Yes. Yes! The importance of teaching long and low to a horse before bringing them into the more uphill frame is so often over looked. Like I said on your poll my horses are trained to work long and low on the lunge without training aids to begin the strengthening process, I also do lateral work on the ground to improve core and pectoral muscles in order for the horse to be able to appropriately lift their backs. Think you've inspired me to do a video on this. 😊

  • @gsdmomb530
    @gsdmomb530 6 лет назад +20

    I know I have said this before, I am very proud of you. You have a head on your shoulder. You are so very knowledgeable when it comes to horses. I know your parents are very proud of you. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Kiayya_-.
    @Kiayya_-. 6 лет назад +39

    I personally think you and JETEventing should collab to explain this. I'm getting tired of the Bullying going on on Raleighs channel, calling out and displaying tons of people and then talking shit about them. What I find ironic is her new year new me video she was like "last year I was very immature and ect" like and she's STILL doing it. Now she's even doing a Equestrian reacts to Other equestrians where she publicly downs people and channels and How can the blunt bullying be allowed on RUclips. And what I love the most. When she gets called out she acts victimized and hurt. I think by how much pain she's in someone must be using a bit on her!😂🤔😒

  • @kaelyncorun4397
    @kaelyncorun4397 6 лет назад +5

    honestly so impressed by the level of maturity you continue to have when dealing and speaking on these topics. this. this is how it should be done. major props to you. this is why i keep coming back to your channel.

  • @Ashley-ww5ze
    @Ashley-ww5ze 6 лет назад +17

    I rarely have seen Link in a proper frame. His back is often hollowed and his head is always stretched out like a giraffe. Her hackamore is generally sitting too low on Link's face too which is far worse than a damn snaffle bit. It's disturbing how hypocritical she is and she'll bully her own followers without knowing anything about them, their horse or their riding ability. Thank you Shelby for always making informative and unbiased videos.

  • @emmakarjalainen9507
    @emmakarjalainen9507 6 лет назад +11

    SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK! But really; preach it, Shelby!! 🙌🙌🙌

  • @Knight108cb
    @Knight108cb 6 лет назад +65

    This is much more pleasent to listen to than Rick Gore lol

  • @katierobbins7962
    @katierobbins7962 6 лет назад +2

    I love that in your videos, you are always calm and controlled, not jumping on RUclips and just reacting. Your videos are so informational, and always get me thinking.

  • @BornToRide37
    @BornToRide37 6 лет назад +11

    Thank you for this video. It is so important that people have all the FACTS about bits/bitless and then make their decision on what equipment to use. Like you said, everything can be abused, and there are so many other aspects (like correct muscles) which should be put much more into focus. No matter what equipment you use, if they don’t use themselves correctly you are “harming” them either way. Raleigh could influence so many young riders in a positive way by making videos more like these. At least we have you 😄

  • @maxib8394
    @maxib8394 6 лет назад +5

    And this is exactly why you have quickly become one of my favourite youtubers

  • @PonceyTheBear
    @PonceyTheBear 6 лет назад +4

    You deserve 1million subs tbh. I never leave a video without learning something and it's always backed with facts.

  • @kathrynschaller8875
    @kathrynschaller8875 6 лет назад +5

    On your last bit video, there was a girl in the comments saying she thinks that bits cause more abuse. I wrote that anything used wrong can be abusive. I said I use the Myler port the way it's intended: loose contact and using my seat more than my hands (like everyone should). She then preached about how my bit was "cruel". Thanks for keeping it real, Shelby. Breath of fresh air.

  • @ChloeBeautyMusic
    @ChloeBeautyMusic 6 лет назад +3

    I absolutely LOVE your videos like this. It's not a video attacking, it's simply you sitting down and taking the time to calmly talk to us & educate us because of something you've seen that's not right and further educate us about horses like you have in this one.
    I love how you don't just argue on one point, you show the good and the bad for both sides which is how it should be done. Good on you for making these videos Shelby! :)

  • @lorenheald1758
    @lorenheald1758 6 лет назад +1

    Omg. I love you! You are putting your view across without being rude or judgemental. You show an equal balance in your argument whilst also sticking to you point. It is completely up to the rider and how they choose to use the equipment. Loved it

  • @summerengland7179
    @summerengland7179 6 лет назад +4

    You use real information and are very calm and honest and I really love these informational videos!

  • @horseandogs
    @horseandogs 6 лет назад +20

    Shelby, can you do a video on how to get your horse to stretch their head down and engage their hind end while riding?

    • @emily9250
      @emily9250 6 лет назад

      horseandogs yesssssss

  • @demisalad1455
    @demisalad1455 6 лет назад +9

    Thank you. That was a true neccessity. I had the same thoughts all the time.. I really hope you won't get overrun with hate by her followers. Just keep the positive value and positive influence of your videos on youtube in mind. What you say is important and makes a difference!

  • @Leftbarrelfirst
    @Leftbarrelfirst 6 лет назад +3

    For the first time in his life my 15 year old gelding is learning to carry himself properly and I can already tell a difference in his muscles and over all strength. It's so so important for every horse and I've found it's never to late to start!

  • @isabellareed894
    @isabellareed894 6 лет назад +2

    I love that you have your sources when you talk of something I always learn something new. ❤️💜

  • @jade_stone3354
    @jade_stone3354 6 лет назад +2

    When you mentioned young riders feeling bad about listening to Raleigh's videos, that is totally me. I ride in a bit because that's what my instructor gives me. I can't believe I found this video, and I'm so happy I saw it, it makes me feel a lot better about riding in a bit!

  • @christinamitsiou9630
    @christinamitsiou9630 6 лет назад +5

    To be honest even though I don't care about uneducated opinions like hers, I couldn't help but question myself as a rider after watching videos or reading comments accusing everyone who uses a bit of abuse. I knew she hasn't any actual evidence to prove her point but I really love my horse and I want what's best for him, so only the thought that I could be hurting him because of the bit I ride in, made me feel guilty. I know a lot of people have faced the same problem, so I wanted to thank you for clearing things up. You are seriously an amazing person thank you for educating the equine community ❤️

  • @gsdmomb530
    @gsdmomb530 6 лет назад +115

    Raleigh is becoming to much. She is a Rick Gore wannabe. And I have had enough of her. I am so glad you showed those videos of her and Link. The sad thing is, she was barely riding Link as she never had time for him.

    • @emilyshaw5666
      @emilyshaw5666 6 лет назад +1

      GSDmom B too*

    • @gsdmomb530
      @gsdmomb530 6 лет назад

      Shiro I seriously don't need the Grammer police. I am in my cruiser taking quick breaks. I don't proofread.

    • @emilyshaw5666
      @emilyshaw5666 6 лет назад +1

      Do you need the spelling police? Grammar*
      I'm sorry I'll stop now xD

    • @gsdmomb530
      @gsdmomb530 6 лет назад +4

      Hayley Sondgeroth Oh please. She puts thousands of dollars into him, for what? I don't put thousands of dollars into my horse. She trains him? She has barely ridden him. She doesn't even know how to train.

    • @gsdmomb530
      @gsdmomb530 6 лет назад +1

      Hayley Sondgeroth Oh I highly doubt it.

  • @eventingxdreams
    @eventingxdreams 6 лет назад +3

    I can’t say enough on how much I admire your desire to take action. Thank you for the very educational video

  • @citiz3nfang
    @citiz3nfang 6 лет назад +2

    I really love how well educated you are and you dont go out of your way to call people names or be immature. Definitely a big thumbs up for you to keep doing what you do! 👍🏻

  • @myrockymountain4102
    @myrockymountain4102 6 лет назад +1

    I love how you weren't immature about making a video back to her. You honestly just explained your side, and i really admire that. You could have just been like your an idiot and bashed her but you didn't. Such a humble rider for such a good one!

  • @harleyoleary7178
    @harleyoleary7178 6 лет назад +5

    It is so much better to listen to someone being profesional like this than to listen to someone yelling and name calling.
    I love the contrast between this and Raleigh's video. You are mature and respectful and seem to have made this with the goal of informing people whereas she seemed to be just trying to spread hate. And I noticed the fact that you credible sources rather than biased studies. This is the correct way to show your point of view of something.

  • @sundayeffort162
    @sundayeffort162 6 лет назад +3

    Shelby, you are so so so strong to say this! I would have chickened our by now, I am so happy that you are doing this. I completely agree with you on everything girl. Just keep slaying and always defend your word Shelby! ❤️ you are amazing girly!!!!!

  • @katyculpepper8059
    @katyculpepper8059 6 лет назад +4

    OMG I LOVE YOU SHELBY! Your videos are all so informational... this is why I love your channel.👏🏻❤️

  • @morgansmith8691
    @morgansmith8691 6 лет назад +2

    I absolutely love this video. My personal opinion on the bit vs bit less debate is do what your horse goes best in. And I love that you talk about proper frames for horses when being ridden. As usual an amazing video filled with well researched facts and a calm delivery. Thank you Shelby!

  • @krystalhoward1309
    @krystalhoward1309 6 лет назад +12

    You are definitely the most reasonable and knowledgeable equine vlogger, so thank you for that. Wish you could have challenged Rick Gore a little bit because he's as unreasonable as Raleigh and his horses go around hollow all the time it's horrible! And he thinks everyone else does horrible things to horses but so does he! Ugh! So sick of the hypocrisy! Thank you for calling some of them out on it. It's easy to run around saying bits are abuse when your a back yard rider who knows nothing about how to teach a horse to use his body correctly when being ridden. Both Raleigh and Rick Gore are the same, banging around on their high headed horses, it's horrible!

    • @Milestone-Equestrian
      @Milestone-Equestrian  6 лет назад +9

      Krystal Howard Watching Rick Gore makes me want to blow my brains out but if people sent me stuff like video clips or screenshots then I could, I just don’t wanna sift through hours of his garbage to find it 😂

  • @horsefriends4839
    @horsefriends4839 6 лет назад +13

    Raleigh has always been a major hypocrite. Nothing she’s ever said has NOT been hypocritical.
    Shelby, you are 100% right. Lots of people have called Raleigh out on her ridiculous assumptions and bullshit. It’s kind of nice to see a bigger RUclips channel make this video.

  • @sophiahenelius7305
    @sophiahenelius7305 6 лет назад +10

    Love this video! Very well done and educational!

  • @zaraf4915
    @zaraf4915 6 лет назад +7

    YAAAAS ALL HAIL SHELBY OUR QUEEEEEN 🙇🏽‍♀️🙇🏼👑👑

  • @maddyd355
    @maddyd355 6 лет назад +35

    I kind of want to see what Rick Gore's reaction would be to this 😂
    Awesome video!! Definitely sharing this video with anyone that says putting a horse in a frame is bad for them

    • @mckennabokhoven7566
      @mckennabokhoven7566 6 лет назад +7

      Exclamation Pointless god he is annoying 😂

    • @caitlinpadgett-pararider5037
      @caitlinpadgett-pararider5037 6 лет назад +14

      He'll have no facts and make it about how Shelby is a woman and therefore her opinions and facts mean less than his as he is a man 😂

    • @toriwallace9622
      @toriwallace9622 6 лет назад +11

      Equimania That sounds about right. He's a sexist, ignorant, old man who thinks a little too much of himself and his way of life. I'm so glad I stopped watching him and found people Like Shelby and Jill.

  • @cowboyyhours
    @cowboyyhours 6 лет назад +4

    Presenting ideas, *facts* and opinions in a civilised manor without bullying others....a perfect example on how to be taken seriously when arguing your side on a subject as opinionated as this. I can only wish that more equestrians were like you, Shelby!

  • @juliahollwarth2796
    @juliahollwarth2796 6 лет назад +2

    Y.E.S. thank you so much!! You hit every point, provided evidence/examples, and most importantly, you were calm and collected! I'm so glad a video was made about this!! I really hope Raleigh sees it😅

  • @janedoe285
    @janedoe285 6 лет назад +23

    When raleigh claims there are “thousands” of studies and clinical trials to back her up but only cites 2, and Shelby acknowledges both sides and cites 23+ sources....

  • @HunterJumperHank
    @HunterJumperHank 6 лет назад +1

    it's incredible to actually have an extremely educated person with genuine sources talk about this topic

  • @Jacob-ep7te
    @Jacob-ep7te 6 лет назад +3

    The way you did this video was so good. You don’t swear or shout and that’s the difference between you and her. She tries to get her point across by just shouting and swearing and pointing fingeres

  • @stephaniehawkstorm9140
    @stephaniehawkstorm9140 6 лет назад +2

    Excellent video, agree with you 100%. The biomechanics of the horse including the engagement of the hind and lifting of the back (correct working of the horse) is so so so important.

  • @AverageJockGf
    @AverageJockGf 6 лет назад +6

    I'mma just straight up say that Shelby is my favourite youtuber ever. She actually links all of her sources and puts her facts first, unlike a certain "equestrian" we all know

  • @ceilidheyford5744
    @ceilidheyford5744 6 лет назад +4

    OMFG!!!!!! YAAASSSSS GIIIRRRLLLLL PREACH!!!!!! MORE PEOPLE NEED TO SEE THIS!!!!!!!

  • @happymv5350
    @happymv5350 6 лет назад +2

    Wonderfully put, objectively positioned - and kudos for supporting your views with well documented data. This is certainly a topic with varied opinions - but as is clear from your videos - you place the well-being of your horses first and foremost and it is very obvious you research extensively before making any decision where your equine partners are concerned.
    As I have mentioned before in a previous comment - be proud of your accomplishments and know that your viewpoint is not only credible to your viewers - but far more respected because of your intellectual approach and the positive energy you exude with your delivery.
    Keep studying and continue to share your learnings and experiences with us.

  • @GuardianAngelEquine
    @GuardianAngelEquine 6 лет назад +16

    Shelby I wish I could meet you in person I’m sure we would get along great! We obviously have the same love of correct education!!

  • @jessivietz991
    @jessivietz991 6 лет назад +3

    Yes yes yes yes yes thank you ❤ I'm so sick of everybody attacking each other. There's no need!

  • @ryleemonley2461
    @ryleemonley2461 6 лет назад +3

    You are so knowledgeable! I am SO SO SO happy you made this video!!!!! :)

  • @Raukshine
    @Raukshine 6 лет назад +2

    Every single equestrian needs to subscribe and watch your videos. You're such a great example with how you carry yourself - maturely and kind. You can see your knowledge in your riding videos and you always approach these type of debates so well. I really want to know if Raleigh has responded to any of these. I feel like she is at a loss for words. She should take some notes.

  • @peytonk8015
    @peytonk8015 6 лет назад +2

    I love how you are mature enough to talk about these topics and other people without having to cuss every five seconds to prove a point

  • @Saanaa111
    @Saanaa111 6 лет назад +3

    Yes! I think we should all just listen to our trainers and professionals, and not just trust random people in the internet. I do agree with you.

  • @willowhenshaw7157
    @willowhenshaw7157 6 лет назад +1

    I love that you are willing to call her out on her shit... Someone needs to.

  • @user-uw4yq6rj7g
    @user-uw4yq6rj7g 6 лет назад +11

    She said she'd changed, but then she made this video acting like she was 100% right and act like anyone else is wrong. If you ride in a bit as long as your horse isn't having any damage done because you use it correctly then you're good. obviously if a horse's mouth is getting damaged by the bit you're using it wrong or being abusive. I thought Raleigh's ways changed but doesn't seem like her video styles really did. I don't think she understands that what she says is her OPINION not facts.

    • @gsdmomb530
      @gsdmomb530 6 лет назад +1

      Mybffisahorse and there were many of us who said it wouldn't last. We were so right. Hahaha

    • @user-uw4yq6rj7g
      @user-uw4yq6rj7g 6 лет назад +1

      GSDmom B definitely

  • @vasilisaaleksic9810
    @vasilisaaleksic9810 6 лет назад +7

    *2 days later raleigh posts video:Shekby dennis threw shade at me?!!!!?*

  • @laurencegelski968
    @laurencegelski968 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you so much for this, people don't realize that these are not a weapon of abuse but rather a tool for the well-being of the horse. I know that if I attempted riding my young spooky thoroughbred bitless, we wouldn't have a productive and informational ride, but more of a me not trying to die ride. I think eventually I would love to teach him bitless for that extra level of trust (just like you and Milo who I look up to as an example for my young thoroughbred) but people need to realize our different situations and the level of trust between a horse and rider. Plus, riding a 4,3 jumper bitless is REALLY SCARY, I've tried... So, the equestrian world thanks you and we have your back for further confrontations!

  • @ponyprinsass9517
    @ponyprinsass9517 6 лет назад +6

    I have so so much respect for you Shelby. I am glad that you have decided to speak out about this because I am getting tired of people saying they just ignore it. I have tried to defend the people Raleigh has been bashing in her videos on my channel but I dont have as large following as you. Raleigh is the def. of a hypicrite and its annoying because she knows, and we all secretly know she is but she doesnt want to admit it. She allllwwwwaaaayyyysssss will delte my comments off of her videos but then she goes on to say she never reads the comments. She is an embarrassment and im glad your speaking up about it.

  • @hatbat8964
    @hatbat8964 6 лет назад +7

    I don't want to be grouped together with people like Raleigh because I don't use a bit! She's giving us a bad name. I don't want people to think I look down my nose, or think I'm better than people who use bits. The people I know that use bits, use them properly and don't abuse their horses. There are so many things that go into riding a horse humanely, but because we can see the bit, it's easy for people like Raleigh to pick on. If people saw a 30 second video of her riding, it would probably be easy to make it look like she was a terrible rider abusing her horse. The problem is there's often no context to these short clips, we only get a tiny idea of whats going on and know way to properly assess these riders.

  • @Taylor.Elizabeth.
    @Taylor.Elizabeth. 6 лет назад +3

    Can every equestrian pls watch this video. Ilysm Shelby thanks for being the good example the equestrian community needs right now.

  • @natc8200
    @natc8200 6 лет назад +6

    Preach girl, I was thinking the same thing with the 'horses have bad days too ' vid. 👍🏼

  • @rachelsmith6479
    @rachelsmith6479 6 лет назад +2

    I love this video, it was very organized, consice and easy to understand. It taught me a lot and brought up some things I need to work on such as proper collection and frame. I have a 3 yo quarter horse so she's still learning but you gave a lot of good information for me to keep in mind. Thanks!

  • @graciea4646
    @graciea4646 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you so much for making this! I learned a lot and I hope Raleigh watches this and learns something

  • @dser366
    @dser366 6 лет назад +4

    she ALWAYS rides hollow. never seen her not. thank u for this

  • @libear2744
    @libear2744 6 лет назад +3

    Shelby the equine savior

  • @EddiesGun91
    @EddiesGun91 6 лет назад +3

    Preach!! Could watch you all day

  • @noellemcculloch4670
    @noellemcculloch4670 6 лет назад +5

    I 100% agree. I watched one of Raleigh's videos and it made me feel like crap for using a bit!

  • @leah398
    @leah398 6 лет назад +3

    can't wait to watch this video!! Love you and the pons!!

  • @katier1873
    @katier1873 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you for showing why horses need to use a bit to help them carry themselves an develop the needed muscles

  • @vasilisaaleksic9810
    @vasilisaaleksic9810 6 лет назад +2

    So true.Raleigh makes people feel guilty.Shelby thank you.I waited for someone to do this.

  • @anacsmari
    @anacsmari 6 лет назад +1

    I want the entire world to watch this

  • @ambitiouseventers4403
    @ambitiouseventers4403 6 лет назад +2

    This video was so well done. I 100% agree with what you say.

  • @VeronicaEquestrienne
    @VeronicaEquestrienne 6 лет назад +14

    Even Raleigh janked the reins.. and even though it's a hackmore and not a bit.. IT STILL "HURTS" the horse over it's nose...
    I believe the bit and the hackmore are as strong as the hands that holds it..if you know what I mean. We learn to ride with soft hands, and if you didn't learn to ride with soft hands..then I can say it's not fair to use a bit.. or a hackmore..it's not fair being on a horse. Hope you understand what I mean

  • @astridsnowbridge7556
    @astridsnowbridge7556 6 лет назад +5

    We should spam this video in her e mail or your other bit vid so when she opens it on her wednesday reacts all she will see is this video xD

  • @chloebaxter6804
    @chloebaxter6804 6 лет назад +2

    Actually incredible 😍 insightful, humbling, realistic, educated. Girl. Yes.

  • @caleighevemarie
    @caleighevemarie 6 лет назад +6

    In my opinion, I don’t quite understand how Raleigh has the right to judge other peoples riding, and the way they do things. It’s super annoying because she thinks that she is so perfect, yet I’ve actually never seen like a full video of her actually riding in the saddle. I understand if you don’t have the time or someone to help you film your riding but I don’t get it why she constantly critiques other people and think that everything she is doing is perfect.

  • @egeesling6542
    @egeesling6542 6 лет назад +1

    Yassss Shelby I love this video and I’m so happy you made it!!!

  • @caffeinatedwolf9318
    @caffeinatedwolf9318 6 лет назад +2

    Bless this video...and bless you Shelby for the education you provide for equestrians
    -Caffeine

  • @Amandabostroom
    @Amandabostroom 6 лет назад +8

    I feel like if you're worried about your horse being in pain you should consult a professional, you know a vet, chiropractor, experienced trainer etc. NOT listen to random people on the internet with no real experience or education. Always surrond yourself with people that know what they're doing and ask for help when you don't know. There's no need to freak out about things just because some stuck up youtuber tells her biased opinions as facts.

    • @Amandabostroom
      @Amandabostroom 6 лет назад +4

      I was talking about Raleighs video where she guilt trips people for no reason. As far as I know Raleigh is not in vet school.

    • @isabellareed894
      @isabellareed894 6 лет назад +1

      Oh sry (Shelby is in Vet School)

  • @hannahmarie1155
    @hannahmarie1155 6 лет назад +1

    I had no idea how the bit could hurt their spines if not used right. Thank you for making this Shelby! I have learned a lot!

    • @rachaelglaeser4391
      @rachaelglaeser4391 6 лет назад +3

      The bit doesn't hurt their spines it's the way that they carry themselves.