Personalities dont love. They want something. So her statement gives me hope when she said i love him but cant do anything about it. That is the beauty of self realization. Truth shall set us free.
This is weird way of dealing w this. Maybe they just aren’t compatible and want different things. Sure you could cope with that on Buddha mode if you want but why not try to find someone who is a good fit.
I was thinking the same thing. Wanting to be in a relationship with someone who is emotionally available isn't selfish. Trying to change someone from emotionally unavailable to being present is hopeless, but convincing this guy he's selfish for wanting a partner to be emotionally available seems shaming and cruel to be honest. How about helping him realize his worth and that if he gives up trying to force Frank to be who he wants he can actually go out and find who he wants.
This is the work on one self. It has absolutely nothing to do with the other person. The other person is just a tool to get to know one self. Never is it said one should stay with that person. The quickest way to get to know oneself is to see our own shortcomings . Then, it will come natural to be with someone who appriciate us because we will appriciate them.
@juliaeaton your comment is the definition on codependency. You miss the point of this video. Its returning the focus to yourself, honoring yourself, and realizing that your suffering is based on trying to argue with the reality of someone's emotional unavailability. When you put all of your energy into trying to change someone so that you can feel better emotionally, you dishonor yourself AND the other person. Its releasing judgments and your own stories, and accepting reality for your own mental health.
Personalities dont love. They want something. So her statement gives me hope when she said i love him but cant do anything about it.
That is the beauty of self realization.
Truth shall set us free.
I love the seagull sound in the background!
Excellent! Thank you so much. I listened many times.
Thank you so much I was pushing against my partner, oh honey, thank you
Thank you for uploading this 🙏
Thank you🙏
Amazing
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This is weird way of dealing w this. Maybe they just aren’t compatible and want different things. Sure you could cope with that on Buddha mode if you want but why not try to find someone who is a good fit.
I was thinking the same thing. Wanting to be in a relationship with someone who is emotionally available isn't selfish. Trying to change someone from emotionally unavailable to being present is hopeless, but convincing this guy he's selfish for wanting a partner to be emotionally available seems shaming and cruel to be honest. How about helping him realize his worth and that if he gives up trying to force Frank to be who he wants he can actually go out and find who he wants.
This is the work on one self. It has absolutely nothing to do with the other person. The other person is just a tool to get to know one self. Never is it said one should stay with that person. The quickest way to get to know oneself is to see our own shortcomings . Then, it will come natural to be with someone who appriciate us because we will appriciate them.
You miss the whole piont...😂
@juliaeaton your comment is the definition on codependency. You miss the point of this video. Its returning the focus to yourself, honoring yourself, and realizing that your suffering is based on trying to argue with the reality of someone's emotional unavailability. When you put all of your energy into trying to change someone so that you can feel better emotionally, you dishonor yourself AND the other person. Its releasing judgments and your own stories, and accepting reality for your own mental health.