Just as Kayla said, being a stay-at-home dad is a real job, and a very commendable job that, honestly, not every dad can do! I know some people who’s dads were always home and as hard as it was, they did such a great job at raising their kids during that time period. So i say take pride in that Elijah!
Fr, my dad was always caught up in work so technically I was raised without a dad. I would have loved if he was a stay-at-home dad. Would’ve made my childhood even happier however, my mum did all she could to make sure I had a happy childhood. 🫶🏽 to her.
the comment Elijah made about young 20's and having kids putting a "stop" to your life is soo accurate! I adopted my two nieces from my brother at 18 and I barely turned 21 in February, and yes it feels disappointing when I can't go out with friends freely, but the joy in life is seeing the milestones you don't see regularly in life unless you have kids :')
Going out can become overrated. Although I get people want to experience that at some point in their lives… Seriously bringing your children to family activities (libraries usually have lists of like outdoor movies etc.). Also just spending time with your children will be something you can’t get back once they’re grown up. It’s not to take away from your circumstances, but just know some people would look at you and think you’re blessed 🙏
@@Baeprints aww yes, I understand that too! I know many people who can’t have kids, can’t adopt, or even foster children and it makes me feel fortunate enough to know that my family was considered to take two of them in as our own! There’s a lot of backstory to why I feel I lost my life after high school graduation, but can’t really say that on the internet you know? I am thankful I have them though! They are a joy to see grow up!
0:34 What did you do to prevent tearing? 0:51 Have you ever experienced UI? 1:54 Do you usually get mood swings? 2:34 Can you talk about the process of getting an epidural? 3:10 Do you think your marriage has been affected with kids? 4:17 Are you breastfeeding? 4:30 Are you doing anything differently with Elisia? 5:24 Will you be getting back on birth control? 6:24 What is the difference between your two birth experiences? 6:45 How much was your hospital bill? 7:31 Who was more nervous during labour? 7:54 How was postpartum with 2 kids? 8:00 How do you stay awake during nightly feeds? 8:11 Did your hospital take your baby to the nursery? 8:35 How long does recovery take if you didn't tear? 9:07 Do you guys get help with the kids? 9:53 Have you had your hair fall out during postpartum? 10:16 From someone who doesn't have kids, is it worth it?
Right now I’m 33w pregnant and I’m 21, just hearing you talk and talk about the birth and the relationship and everything. It makes me feel more at ease because a lot of people say things that like they want to “scare” you. So thank u for this
I get so excited when I get a notification from you! Gets me so happy to see Elijah comfortable in front of the câmara the upgrade is unmatch. Kayla and Elijah y'all are the best parents for sure it's inspirational how amazing you are at such a young age (I'm only one year older lol) Sending lots of love to your beautiful family💗
seeing you guys talking about how much kids has changed you in the last question made me nod in agreement so much. especially Kayla, i always feel like you have this strength and maturity that was always there (don't get me wrong) but it grows even more since Elliana and now with Elisia. You just become such a powerful woman. (i hope this isn't a comment that makes you think you weren't powerful before lol you know what i mean, you just continue to grow in elegance)
awwww "It just keeps me going, gets me up in the morning" if that isn't the most accurate parent statement I have ever heard then idk what is.... keep him! and you keep her! strong couple goals!
Both so young, both so wise ❤ i hope your kids really appreciate tf out of y'all along the line because y'all are such amazing parents and role-models (even to my old 29 y/o ass 😅😅) love y'all!! 😘❤️
You need to make a Q&A for when you were pregnant 🥺 I’ve been wondering if you’ve had morning sickness all or even none during the months you were pregnant?
I love you guys omg I’m at 40 weeks hopefully my baby girl comes out soon! you guys are so cute, so happy everything went well for you!! Love y’all god bless ❤️❤️❤️
i gave birth here in Finland and it cost us like 280€ without insurance. we stayed 2 nights in hospital we had our own room with two beds one for me one for my husband and baby had the hospital crib there as well. We had five foods daily that they prepared at hospital, nurses 24/7. Our own bathroom with shower. We had a tv in the room. Also didnt need to bring any pads or diapers for me they had it all, hospital clothes. They had diapers for baby and wipes. They had everything we needed. Its crazy how expensive it is in usa. come give birth here😂😂 wayyy cheaper
i’m 19 and i’m 34+4 with my little girl right now! i love ur videos sm bc i relate to u guys a lot. we were both pregnant and engaged at 19 with a 3 year age gap between our partners! and my baby is half filipina💗💗 and i also live in florida!
So happy seeing this family grow. Will always support you Kayla. And the Vasectomy….🤣😂! But Vasectomy is a good choice because it is reversible even after many years.
I wouldn’t recommended getting a vasectomy at such a young age. I’ve known couples where they guy gets the vasectomy at such an early age, thinking that they no longer want kids, and then as they see their kids growing up 8-10 years down the lane they want to get pregnant again and can no longer conceive because the vasectomy is pretty effective.
@@alexandria65 I know they’ve said that before but as someone grows their thoughts and decisions change as well. I’m just commenting don’t take it personal.
There's always the option of freezing sperm and/or eggs before going through with a vasectomy or hysterectomy. A vasectomy is the better option because it's less recovery and you're not removing organs that cause major hormonal imbalance later on.
Absolutely love this Kayla, thank you so so much for sharing. I wanted to ask what type of birth control you took? I am planning on taking one too but not sure which to take and I am nervous about it. Thanks Kayla.
Yay! Love the Q&A’s! I’ve said this before but I’m still in shock that Elijah is so comfortable in front of the camera. Your medical bills are insane and that part made me so mad, I mean why the government is trying to get rid of abortions, but then charge ridiculous amounts of money if you have a kid
In the first 12 weeks of baby's life Dad's testosterone drops by like 15% bc baby views both parents as one being. Good chance that's why you're having a shed, and bc you're at home providing closer to the hormone fluctuation bubble. Don't stress, it'll thicken back up when bub grows some and it levels back out :)
Omg i used to watch yall all the time from like 2017 - 2019. But i kind of fell off with watching RUclips videos. But omg i didn’t know you had two children. But congratulations. Looks like I have a lot to catch up on.
Labor hospital bills are insane🤯 why would you think to charge someone who just gave birth 2k for skin to freaking skin, I have to hold the baby anyway🤦🏾♀️ it’s a scam idc what anyone says.
I don’t know who says epidurals don’t hurt. That shit hurt. That needle took forever for the medicine to be administered, I was in pain and also getting contractions while having to stay in one position. Girrllll… I was in tears
Put more ads sis. It's still wild af to me that we really have to pay for the birth of the future just saying 🤷🏾♀️. You could actually opt out of them telling you no to being there when your baby gets shots. I'm not okay with them taking my baby at all especially because my mom in law and baby father tried to keep my daughter when she was a few months got PTSD so don't want my babies out my sight especially with baby number 2
Hi guys!!!
Omg hiii!
Also first
Hi
hii!!
'evryone seeing this comment , don't skip the ads🥰'
you're welcome kayla
hi love ❤️
Hi ily
37 weeks pregnant & just turned 20, needed this for some reassurance !
I’m so excited to you gabby! ❤
Congratulations Gabby, all the best and praying you have a safe delivery! 🙏🏾😘❤️
omg I just had my baby almost 3 months ago
Me too !! 🫶🏻
20 weeks and 20 yo)😅
Just as Kayla said, being a stay-at-home dad is a real job, and a very commendable job that, honestly, not every dad can do! I know some people who’s dads were always home and as hard as it was, they did such a great job at raising their kids during that time period. So i say take pride in that Elijah!
My father was the stay at home parent and he is the absolute BEST!
Fr, my dad was always caught up in work so technically I was raised without a dad. I would have loved if he was a stay-at-home dad. Would’ve made my childhood even happier however, my mum did all she could to make sure I had a happy childhood. 🫶🏽 to her.
the comment Elijah made about young 20's and having kids putting a "stop" to your life is soo accurate! I adopted my two nieces from my brother at 18 and I barely turned 21 in February, and yes it feels disappointing when I can't go out with friends freely, but the joy in life is seeing the milestones you don't see regularly in life unless you have kids :')
God bless you!! 😘🙏🏾
Omg, your amazing!
Going out can become overrated. Although I get people want to experience that at some point in their lives… Seriously bringing your children to family activities (libraries usually have lists of like outdoor movies etc.). Also just spending time with your children will be something you can’t get back once they’re grown up. It’s not to take away from your circumstances, but just know some people would look at you and think you’re blessed 🙏
@@Baeprints aww yes, I understand that too! I know many people who can’t have kids, can’t adopt, or even foster children and it makes me feel fortunate enough to know that my family was considered to take two of them in as our own! There’s a lot of backstory to why I feel I lost my life after high school graduation, but can’t really say that on the internet you know? I am thankful I have them though! They are a joy to see grow up!
It’s crazy how Elisia is almost a month old 🥺 she’s growing so fast!! 🫶
0:34 What did you do to prevent tearing?
0:51 Have you ever experienced UI?
1:54 Do you usually get mood swings?
2:34 Can you talk about the process of getting an epidural?
3:10 Do you think your marriage has been affected with kids?
4:17 Are you breastfeeding?
4:30 Are you doing anything differently with Elisia?
5:24 Will you be getting back on birth control?
6:24 What is the difference between your two birth experiences?
6:45 How much was your hospital bill?
7:31 Who was more nervous during labour?
7:54 How was postpartum with 2 kids?
8:00 How do you stay awake during nightly feeds?
8:11 Did your hospital take your baby to the nursery?
8:35 How long does recovery take if you didn't tear?
9:07 Do you guys get help with the kids?
9:53 Have you had your hair fall out during postpartum?
10:16 From someone who doesn't have kids, is it worth it?
Bro are you this free in life?
@@pritikaagrawal7184 Fr… I spent all day on the computer working. I just don’t have time wow…
doesn’t take extra time actually, just jotted it down as i watched the vid
@@pritikaagrawal7184 this helps others… quit tryna be a jerk when they are helping others smh
Having kids has never and will never be worth it. Don't do it!
Being a father does fit for Elijah,and you are a wonderful person and mother,!!!!!
Right now I’m 33w pregnant and I’m 21, just hearing you talk and talk about the birth and the relationship and everything. It makes me feel more at ease because a lot of people say things that like they want to “scare” you. So thank u for this
I can relate. I am 28 and 27/28 weeks along.
I get so excited when I get a notification from you!
Gets me so happy to see Elijah comfortable in front of the câmara the upgrade is unmatch.
Kayla and Elijah y'all are the best parents for sure it's inspirational how amazing you are at such a young age (I'm only one year older lol)
Sending lots of love to your beautiful family💗
Elijah such a Gemini going off topic and the bluntness, it's great, it matches really well with Kayla's personality too! Match made in heaven :)
You are the prettiest person I've actually seen Kayla. NOT EVEN AS A JOKE. 😭😭😭 THAT'S A PERIODT
You're the best mother to your kids
Love you guys as parents 🥺! And love seeing Elijah talk about his side of parenthood more!
Congratulations Kayla on the baby and Elijah btw your my favorite RUclipsr
You finally have the energy to post I hope you and the babies are okay ❤
seeing you guys talking about how much kids has changed you in the last question made me nod in agreement so much. especially Kayla, i always feel like you have this strength and maturity that was always there (don't get me wrong) but it grows even more since Elliana and now with Elisia. You just become such a powerful woman. (i hope this isn't a comment that makes you think you weren't powerful before lol you know what i mean, you just continue to grow in elegance)
Aww their relationship is so healthy 😭😭
It makes me emotional 🥲
I like when Eli explains his thoughts
awwww "It just keeps me going, gets me up in the morning" if that isn't the most accurate parent statement I have ever heard then idk what is.... keep him! and you keep her! strong couple goals!
Both so young, both so wise ❤ i hope your kids really appreciate tf out of y'all along the line because y'all are such amazing parents and role-models (even to my old 29 y/o ass 😅😅) love y'all!! 😘❤️
20%, is sad. It a must because its so wonderful to be a subscriber,!!! Eli , Kayla , Ellianna and new baby girl. Worth it,!!!!
25 weeks pregnant(first pregnancy & 29 yrs of age, thank you for the tips and helpful advice. ❤
Especially the liner pads 😅
Their kids are gonna grow up so loved. And I’m glad Eligiah looks a bit more rested, he was looking a bit sleep deprived last video. 😂❤
You need to make a Q&A for when you were pregnant 🥺 I’ve been wondering if you’ve had morning sickness all or even none during the months you were pregnant?
Elijah is really smart. He looks really young but he's matured in some ways esp when it comes to his family.
Yesss it’s very admirable ❤
I love you guys omg I’m at 40 weeks hopefully my baby girl comes out soon! you guys are so cute, so happy everything went well for you!! Love y’all god bless ❤️❤️❤️
Omg kayla and elijah BOTH ARE FUNNY FR 😂💕
I live for Elijas honesty 😂
i gave birth here in Finland and it cost us like 280€ without insurance. we stayed 2 nights in hospital we had our own room with two beds one for me one for my husband and baby had the hospital crib there as well. We had five foods daily that they prepared at hospital, nurses 24/7. Our own bathroom with shower. We had a tv in the room. Also didnt need to bring any pads or diapers for me they had it all, hospital clothes. They had diapers for baby and wipes. They had everything we needed. Its crazy how expensive it is in usa. come give birth here😂😂 wayyy cheaper
also they never separate you from ur baby. all the tests are done with u there and they inform u about everything they are doing.
Needed this ❤ 22 & just had my first bub 🥰
I wish you posted during weekdays too! I look forward to Sundays just so I can watch your videos! ❤
i’m 19 and i’m 34+4 with my little girl right now! i love ur videos sm bc i relate to u guys a lot. we were both pregnant and engaged at 19 with a 3 year age gap between our partners! and my baby is half filipina💗💗 and i also live in florida!
I was soo happy when i saw this notification !! been waiting for your next video kayla x
Aww so good to see you guys!! You’re all looking great! ❤The baby is so adorable. Missing cute lil Elliana. Have a great day!
I gave birth to my first and only kid thus far all naturally. No epidurals or anything. It was such a quick delivery, especially for my first.
You guys have such a beautiful family. So happy for you. And thanks for sharing with us. 💜
Kayla i lobe u guys im a mom myself and ur advices really helps😊and u motivate me so much congrats on baby elisia❤🎉
Elijah is so sweet ❤️ love you guys !! Congratulations again
Congratulations, you guys are literally my favorite
congratulations kayla so good to see you guys the baby is so adorable🥰🥰
So happy seeing this family grow. Will always support you Kayla. And the Vasectomy….🤣😂! But Vasectomy is a good choice because it is reversible even after many years.
Epidural was the best decision!!! Loved it
I loved everything about this video! I wish you all the best! 🥹♥️
I wouldn’t recommended getting a vasectomy at such a young age. I’ve known couples where they guy gets the vasectomy at such an early age, thinking that they no longer want kids, and then as they see their kids growing up 8-10 years down the lane they want to get pregnant again and can no longer conceive because the vasectomy is pretty effective.
yea that’s what I was thinking he is too young to even do that not knowing what the future holds
@@alexandria65 I know they’ve said that before but as someone grows their thoughts and decisions change as well. I’m just commenting don’t take it personal.
they can be reversed tho lol
They should create a male birth control.
There's always the option of freezing sperm and/or eggs before going through with a vasectomy or hysterectomy.
A vasectomy is the better option because it's less recovery and you're not removing organs that cause major hormonal imbalance later on.
I had two different experiences with my kids. I was telling them to plunge my first one out. With my son; I was laughing and having a good time.
Congratulations guyssss !! So proud of Y’ll!!
Congrats with the birth! Elisia is really cute!
ahhh i’ve missed you all!!
Aww she’s growing so fast!!
Congratulations on your successful birth and nice Q&A vlog, @KaylaKosuga ! ❤❤❤
Absolutely love this Kayla, thank you so so much for sharing. I wanted to ask what type of birth control you took? I am planning on taking one too but not sure which to take and I am nervous about it. Thanks Kayla.
Hi Kayla I’m a really big fan of your channel and I really think your a really good mum❤
Omg I love you guys!! Lol Elijah will be okay, it took my fiancé literally only 20 minutes and he was walking absolutely fine right after 🤣🤣
you're the only people i enjoy wayching on youtube, love you guys💘
my fave youtuber❤
Yay! Love the Q&A’s! I’ve said this before but I’m still in shock that Elijah is so comfortable in front of the camera. Your medical bills are insane and that part made me so mad, I mean why the government is trying to get rid of abortions, but then charge ridiculous amounts of money if you have a kid
In the first 12 weeks of baby's life Dad's testosterone drops by like 15% bc baby views both parents as one being. Good chance that's why you're having a shed, and bc you're at home providing closer to the hormone fluctuation bubble. Don't stress, it'll thicken back up when bub grows some and it levels back out :)
You guys r my fav....i love ur family
God bless ur family...congrats for ur new babygirl❤
This was nice I love the ending 💕
So cute and congratulations again this is beautiful ❤
Hi Kayla, I really loved your vlogs as well as your growing fam and I literally didn't skip the ads for you! ❤️
Omg i used to watch yall all the time from like 2017 - 2019. But i kind of fell off with watching RUclips videos. But omg i didn’t know you had two children. But congratulations. Looks like I have a lot to catch up on.
Kayla ur glowinggg😍❤. And your baby girl is sooooo cute ☺️
we miss youuuuu ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Omg so cute family as always 🥹🩷💞💕💖💓
27 weeks and 20 years old too but this video was needed
Proud to be part of that 29% subscribed fam! 😘😃
Shame on the 70% that's not (yet!) ! 😮🤨🥺
Lot of respect ✊ dad🙏he is true superman🙏
There was no ads for me to watch.
Can't wait to watch ❤
Loved the video as always ❤
She means “her life will be better” lol. Elijah keeping it real.
Also, having small babies help. My siblings and 1 were all around 2.5kg/5.5lbs. My mum never had tears in all 4 births
did you vlog for ellies bdayy? 💖 just wondering 🥰 love your videos! and not skipping the ads😂💖
Congratulations ❤
Hearing that hospital bill made me wanna throw up 😢 In Australia public health care is free!!!
Elijah definately looks like that main lead guy from cobrakai😅😍
I’m laughing 😂
kayla is literally a shay mitchell double ganger
My son came out with one of his fist up so I got tearing bad😅 I always say he punched his way into the world 😂
The fact that I just gave birth in Australia and the most I paid is $5 for parking 😂
“Give me the baby, let me see the baby, give her to me”
I died 💀🤣
Hey😊
Edit : omg thank you for liking my comment. I love you Kayla
Labor hospital bills are insane🤯 why would you think to charge someone who just gave birth 2k for skin to freaking skin, I have to hold the baby anyway🤦🏾♀️ it’s a scam idc what anyone says.
People do charge for anything random these days geez 😒
They charged you 2k to hold your baby??
Just cause there’s no income from it doesn’t mean it’s not a job. You are working hard more than 9-5 like 24/7 it’s a job
u guys r a gr8 fam!!!
i love you guys
I love y’all ❤
Thank you for the encouragement
i can't believe people charge you for giving BIRTH. it's free in my country (France) as it should be.
I don’t know who says epidurals don’t hurt. That shit hurt. That needle took forever for the medicine to be administered, I was in pain and also getting contractions while having to stay in one position. Girrllll… I was in tears
Yours might not have been inserted properly. It shouldn't be painful like that.
Ya'll should reunite with Maddie Burch!!!!!
Kayla should be a good boy mom too
Ilyyy❤❤❤❤❤
I have Ben whaitng for a video of you guysss 🤧🤧
Big fan of u 🥰
OMG im late but i love you guys!
Im so glad. My insurance paid.
I hate videos without Elliana😅❤.. but i love you guyss .. lots of love from India 🎉❤
Cutest fam ever
Put more ads sis. It's still wild af to me that we really have to pay for the birth of the future just saying 🤷🏾♀️. You could actually opt out of them telling you no to being there when your baby gets shots. I'm not okay with them taking my baby at all especially because my mom in law and baby father tried to keep my daughter when she was a few months got PTSD so don't want my babies out my sight especially with baby number 2