00:20 Preoccupation with low-value matters 02:25 Low aspiration is living a life without value or purpose. 04:48 Being preoccupied and productive diminishes love and obsession in one's heart 06:41 Obsessive love reflects low aspiration 08:57 Excessive love and obsession harm one's honor and dignity. 11:51 Obsessing over women leads to loss of dignity 14:29 Obsession can lead to valuing external beauty over true essence. 16:55 Being infatuated with someone based on social media image
definitely challenging. I feel like this is why marriage is so important, because once you have a halal direction to express those desires the distraction doesn't ever go away entirely, but is drastically diminished, and you can focus on what really matters instead of being mentally occupied by such things.
My favorite words on this topic are that of Ibn Al Jawzi's where he says : "Having one’s desires fulfilled [lawfully] in order to free the heart and mind from such distractions is a cardinal pillar as it will devote the heart towards minding one’s other important matters. When a person finishes from subsequent side tasks he will then be able to focus on his original major tasks."
like it or not but this is true tasawwuf and zuhd from dunya. I liked this video very much even though i don't follow the shayxs mazhab or aqeedah. More videos on these topics like this are very needed.
may Allah reward you with goodness One suggestion for enhancing your teaching approach would be to first present the entire Arabic expression, followed by its complete English translation.
The topic was about Ishq yet you wrongfully named to create fear and hate for women. That is not Islamic teaching as it comes from non-muslim influence.
i dont think so... he clearly explained the difference between obsession an healthy love. The difference between the two feelings is high aspiration. If you have this you dont have to be scared of women.
@@muhammadsani129 no problem at all akhi, I was just generally curious, maybe it was some sunnah I wasn't aware of that I could staart applying it also 👍🏾
00:20 Preoccupation with low-value matters
02:25 Low aspiration is living a life without value or purpose.
04:48 Being preoccupied and productive diminishes love and obsession in one's heart
06:41 Obsessive love reflects low aspiration
08:57 Excessive love and obsession harm one's honor and dignity.
11:51 Obsessing over women leads to loss of dignity
14:29 Obsession can lead to valuing external beauty over true essence.
16:55 Being infatuated with someone based on social media image
May Allah reward you Amīn
“your presence in this world and your absence are the same?” that hit deep
Man! 🎯
definitely challenging. I feel like this is why marriage is so important, because once you have a halal direction to express those desires the distraction doesn't ever go away entirely, but is drastically diminished, and you can focus on what really matters instead of being mentally occupied by such things.
Great reminder from ustad hassan to control our desier♥️
My favorite words on this topic are that of Ibn Al Jawzi's where he says : "Having one’s desires fulfilled [lawfully] in order to free the heart
and mind from such distractions is a cardinal pillar as it will devote
the heart towards minding one’s other important matters. When a
person finishes from subsequent side tasks he will then be able to
focus on his original major tasks."
Commenting for the algorithm.
JazakAllahu Khair
Same let me add to that
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It worked you three. I got recommended this video after viewing a not too relevant video. May Allah bless your intentions and accept your good deeds.
Jazak Allah khayran for this dars
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JazakAllahu Khair
Wallahi I needed to hear this, Jazak Allahu Khair
Barak Allahu Feek
This is the poem
I needed
The video is actually very informative
Allahu akbar, may our creator increase us in knowledge ameen ❤😢✌️👍
great video
This video is what i needed . Jazak Allah khayr
May our creator protect us from all types of Satan's or Devil's and safeguard us from ungratefulness ameen ❤😢✌️👍
This is really a very important point to note
Amazing video, I needed this.
May allah reward you❤
Brothers
Do your 5 daily salawat
Fast during ramadan
Give zakat and sadaqa
Do umrah and hajj
Do dhikr of allah
Keep it simple
Thank you Ahki amazing may Allah bless you
Glad i found this yt channel, barakallahu feek
May Allah reward you ... benefit in sha Allah
Very beneficial. Jazakallah khair.
Thank you. This is deep.
I really pray I meet you one day ..inspirational ❤
May Allah reward you ❤
may allah reward you
Allah bless you Sheikh
جزاك الله خيرا
SubhanAllah
This video hits deeply in my soul
جزاكم الله خيرا
wow chokran.
BarakAllahoe feek
Very helpful
Well said.
Subhan Allah
Mash Allah shaikh amazing job 👍👌👍may Almighty ALLAH Bless you always and protect u always all the best 👍👌👍❤️❤️❤️
Alhamdulillah. Thank you for this video brothers.
حقّ
I liked the video and subscribed AlhamdouliLAH.
Assalamualaikum rahmatullah wa barakatuhu! BarakAllahufekum 🎉may Allah continue to bless you with afiyah ameen, and preserve your eman ameen
SubhanAllah Elhamdulillah La ilaha illAllah Allahu Ekber☝️
JazakAllah khair
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Jazakallahu khairan
JazzakAllahu khairan
like it or not but this is true tasawwuf and zuhd from dunya. I liked this video very much even though i don't follow the shayxs mazhab or aqeedah. More videos on these topics like this are very needed.
you don’t need to follow the shafi’i madhab to benefit from ustadh videos
@@ONFROZE thats what i said. Also i though he was salafi and dont follow any madhhab
@@ozbekfahri no he salafi in aqeedah and takes fiqh from the shafi’i madhab. he teaches maliki fiqh aswell
may Allah reward you with goodness
One suggestion for enhancing your teaching approach would be to first present the entire Arabic expression, followed by its complete English translation.
The account owner is not the shaykh btw
I dont agree with this. It is good the way he's doing plus he memorised it in arabic not english
perfect
صح!
I love your green screen 😂 real zuhd 😂
Mashallah
Sheik spittin ngl
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Great video but nothing prepared me for how he was sitting on the chair 😂
thank you
For the algorithm
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hmmm
Alpha male video mashallah
i think the word the sheikh was searching for is "limerence" that is the most accurate translation of the word "عشق" and Allah knows best
infatuation
@@taimurahmadOr simp, which is the lowest form because you have no resiprocating affection.
4:48
What book is this from?
Sheikh does speak good English
indeed, Arabic as well
and how ist a healthy love is looks for me like healthy love isnt desirable like unhealthy
SubhanAllah. But unfortunately, there is no value of righteous woman ustadh.
Men are not Qawwam anymore.
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جَزَاكَٱللَّٰهُ
Can I get notes of this lecture
Where is this book from
Sometimes I'm just tired of my own nature as a guy lol
The topic was about Ishq yet you wrongfully named to create fear and hate for women. That is not Islamic teaching as it comes from non-muslim influence.
i dont think so... he clearly explained the difference between obsession an healthy love. The difference between the two feelings is high aspiration. If you have this you dont have to be scared of women.
Why are you sitting on the chair like that?
I think generally people who sit on the floor in the masjid et cetera would be more comfortably sitting that way so it makes sense I think
What's your problem with that bro? 😂
@@xXTheRoyalTurkXx jazakallah, makes sense
@@muhammadsani129 no problem at all akhi, I was just generally curious, maybe it was some sunnah I wasn't aware of that I could staart applying it also 👍🏾
@@alifvidmar1239 wa jazaak akhi
Misogynist?
how 😭
My.sisters.of.the.world.please
Forgive.me.i.know.that.words
Bite.i.donot.mean.no.hurt.or.
Disresecpt.but.truth.be.told.
Some.of.you.all.leaves.a
Lot.to.be.desier.most.of.you.all.are.well.learned.but.vulgar
And.it.seems.that.some.of.
You.sad.to.say.have.thorn.
Most.of.the.values.you.once.
Held.dear.to.your.heart.in.
The.gutter.in.muddy.water.
Without.a.cear.in.the.world.
Just.to.please.the.crowd.
Of.slanders.body.shameers.
Interbreeders.peeping.toms.
And.decevers.please.
A.word.to.the.wise.please.
Protect.your.private.parts.
From.unclean.acts.it.is.
Not.healthy.on.the.day.of.
Resurrection.out.limbs.
Will.witness.against.us.
To.allah.is.the.return.
And.once.again.stop.using.
Molly.and.mith.with.
Wichky.and.keep.away.from..
The.evil.three.diging.wells.is.
Not.healthy.it.is.ungodly.and.
Evil.as.i.said.ervy.day.the.
Bucket.gose.to.the.well.one.
Day.the.bottom.will.drop.out.
And.it.will.not.be.able.to.
Hold.anything.
May.allah.help.and.guide.all.
Of.the.sistets.of.this.world.
Jazakallahu khairn