How To Successfully Date Over 40!

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  • Опубликовано: 30 ноя 2024

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  • @june6949
    @june6949 Год назад +274

    I hate how much shade Tamar gets . If you haven’t been a long time fan you wouldn’t see the growth and the work she’s put in , to be a better person. People have to understand the type of relationships she was in before being with jr. This is her first time that she’s really free to be herself and express herself freely without judgement, abuse and more. Let her be! She’s grown and her growth looks great on her . Her being loud is HER , deal with it or don’t watch .

    • @S.Milano
      @S.Milano Год назад +20

      Period, couldn’t had said it any better!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
      Tamar from BFV and the this Tamar is totally different! People don’t want to see past BFV, and you can definitely tell in the comments. Tamar has been loud and smacking her lips even before BFV. Give her some grace, you can clearly see a difference in her!

    • @lovenicole1704
      @lovenicole1704 Год назад +23

      Yes! They say she listens to respond but they’re watching to critique.

    • @S.Milano
      @S.Milano Год назад +5

      @@lovenicole1704 you just said a word!!😫👏🏾👏🏾

    • @koalateamagic
      @koalateamagic Год назад +3

      Omg.yesss

    • @rakialogan3372
      @rakialogan3372 Год назад +6

      Ill keep watching 👀 but she need to lower her voice talking that loud is a bit much its not to shade or hurt her feelings its constructive criticism to the viewers who watch if she has grown as you said she should be able to deal but when you get to the point where someone constructive criticism go un heard it could and will block future blessings remember there is a time place for loud talking we learn that as children

  • @Nubian2200
    @Nubian2200 Год назад +88

    I really am enjoying seeing Tamar truly happy. There nothing like having a partner who has your back and works to protect your peace.

  • @veronicacarter4443
    @veronicacarter4443 Год назад +16

    ❤JR is just who Tamar needs. Her whole vibe seems more relaxed and Happy..

  • @theadamsfamilyfoundation
    @theadamsfamilyfoundation Год назад +25

    Tamar is a special lady. She has a boisterous, fabulous, round the way exterior but a soft, reserved, loving heart. All she wants to do is love and be loved, unconditionally, flaws and all. But isn't that what we all want? To not be judged, criticized, and ridiculed for what's different about me from you? I'm glad that Tamar has found a place to share her feelings. I hope that JR will forever be Tamar's safe place, and she will be his.

  • @nicolewilliams1620
    @nicolewilliams1620 Год назад +60

    That’s a word Tamar! We repeat ourselves because we don’t feel heard! Preach!

  • @KJC1220
    @KJC1220 Год назад +57

    YOU’VE GROWN SO MUCH TAY! God is doing a awesome work in you! As well as thru you! #Here for Tay and Jr❤

  • @Ms_Ronda
    @Ms_Ronda Год назад +54

    Jr is matching Tamar’s energy and I love it. He’s definitely alpha and bringing her to that feminine energy state

    • @mode.or.culture
      @mode.or.culture Год назад +9

      Don’t they just melt in together! I like them together. I think this might be the one she will stay with.

    • @Ms_Ronda
      @Ms_Ronda Год назад +10

      @@mode.or.culture absolutely I agree. She’s able to be herself. And jr still has that hood in him which is what balances her

  • @brandyt.569
    @brandyt.569 Год назад +4

    IDC IDC I LOVVVE Tamar...She is authentically her and the prayer cloth comment almost took me out 🤣😭

  • @MumDulay
    @MumDulay Год назад +9

    I swear JR is the guy version of Tamar! No breaking-up here - God ordained this! Hallelujah !!😅

  • @JillsusTarot
    @JillsusTarot Год назад +3

    Can also do a background/personality check with a tarot reading! 👀😁

  • @nicolewilliams1620
    @nicolewilliams1620 Год назад +10

    Yesss! A good man will make his woman feel safe and secure.

  • @s6009
    @s6009 Год назад +66

    Y’all are funny af . Love that you both can agree to disagree . I see why you both are a pair ❤️. Wishing you both lots of love ❤

  • @prettygirltingz9077
    @prettygirltingz9077 Год назад +17

    Yea man.... JR got a lot of patience

  • @cynthiawade3852
    @cynthiawade3852 Год назад +9

    I love love love watching. It’s just the screaming loud when you talk Tamar. You are so beautiful. Stop talking over JR.

  • @graceannecreque5491
    @graceannecreque5491 Год назад +27

    JR and Tay you are both discussing topics that are thought provoking and forces you to think about the quality of your relationship and where you can improve or maybe change course.

  • @kimberlykenney4566
    @kimberlykenney4566 Год назад +2

    Loves how he keeps his hand on her knee

  • @MSD.4543
    @MSD.4543 Год назад +11

    JR honey 😂 you are something else tonight. You're hilarious😂😂 Tamar baby I am so happy to see you happy . Many blessings to you all 🙏💛

  • @shalomewhitfield1734
    @shalomewhitfield1734 Год назад +3

    I agree with JR on being able to be uncomfortable with being uncomfortable for the right one.

  • @anglu9
    @anglu9 Год назад +3

    JR is cool as hell . You all such a lovely happy couple.

  • @GoldenRoots360
    @GoldenRoots360 Год назад +5

    Love you lady but turn it down a little I actually had to turn the channel dam! I was enjoying the conversation just got to loud! You ever heard the saying ‘ you talking so loud I can't hear you? Great show and couple.

  • @designzbyjulez9838
    @designzbyjulez9838 Год назад +6

    He said hallelujah! And Let The church Say Amen!!!! I Love this Tamar, seems more mature. Not talking Loud, or smacking her lips.

  • @S.Milano
    @S.Milano Год назад +24

    Great conversation! I’m young, but it was great to hear from both female and male perspective. Hope to hear about the engagement ring and proposal in the next video!✨

  • @RB-sy1vp
    @RB-sy1vp Год назад +2

    Tamar I have never seen you so much in love, y’all both are just GLOWING!!!
    I LOVE LOVE, Your love
    God bless 💕

  • @sashagoodwin920
    @sashagoodwin920 Год назад +14

    Really good convo but from their past debates around certain topics, Tamar is holding on to traumas. Around contillong relationships from her past. She overcompenates by thinking they are controlling when they are just healthy standards and personal boundaries. He is emotionally way more mature. Hope they make it! Love them!!!❤

  • @MumDulay
    @MumDulay Год назад +11

    Tamar you’re funny as hell… click that’s how that goes… I’m here for it😂😂😂

  • @lovenicole1704
    @lovenicole1704 Год назад +11

    JR out here preaching. It’s so intriguing to hear a males perspective unapologetically.. I only know of those who walk on eggshells and issue half truths.

  • @lb1798
    @lb1798 Год назад +5

    16:40 I love how JR said WITH me not FOR me. With is a word for making a strong bond . I like him for Tamar. They seem good for each other.

  • @shalomewhitfield1734
    @shalomewhitfield1734 Год назад +5

    One more thing, I agree about being at the same place at the same time. That was me and my husband. We both were looking for the same thing, and we were at the same mental status, and both knew within minutes that we were for each other. God confirmed it.

  • @kimaniquillin3695
    @kimaniquillin3695 Год назад +6

    I met my amazing husband on a dating site ! Best thing I ever did ❤

  • @dianes529
    @dianes529 Год назад +10

    Absolutely Loved This! Tamar had me cracking up😅 talking about the hip man😂😂.❤

  • @graceannecreque5491
    @graceannecreque5491 Год назад +3

    Love Love this podcast watching a rerun just love the dynamics between this couple and despite the hills and valleys which is common in every relationship, hope they are able to find a amicable resolution and move forward in faith because human perfection doesn't exist. In the final analysis as mature individuals if the relationship is founded on genuine love, mutual respect and a commitment to be successful in the partnership then " rock it out".

    • @SNOB4LIFEE
      @SNOB4LIFEE Год назад

      This is so beautifully written. It blessed me, thank you 🫶🏾

  • @joyb2840
    @joyb2840 Год назад +7

    It's called being wiser being beginning to be wiser when you get older and you can foresee things in a relationship. Learning from your experiences and being wiser. Which is a good thing some people are slow Learners and some people are fast learners😊

  • @sweetmamarms8167
    @sweetmamarms8167 Год назад +4

    I’m glad to see Tamar is happy and has found perfect partner!! Y’all seem to get along well can actually communicate and laugh have a great time. God bless y’all ❤

  • @karon88wells
    @karon88wells Год назад +13

    This was great conversation I love it I been a fan of Tamar for a long time she grew a lot, some of y’all in these comments saying she too much is just mind blowing I just don’t think we watching the same episode cause Tamar was very kind and well spoken and this episode, she let JR talk and got his points out. What more do y’all want from this women is the question y’all been knowing Tamar and know how she is so why are y’all on here saying she loud she always been loud why she have to change🤷🏾‍♀️ Tamar know her man love how she is so why would she give af about what y’all even talking about. Like she said if you don’t want to hear her smack are talk loud log TF off her page simple. But anyway Tamar keep being you boo and JR you better give Tamar a baby like now cause she ready 😊

  • @luckyladybird3851
    @luckyladybird3851 Год назад +29

    I'm fifty and single after a 30 year marriage. I don't even know how to date anymore.

    • @lisayourbeautifulenterpris2128
      @lisayourbeautifulenterpris2128 Год назад +7

      It will be well..🌸 Take it one step at a time.

    • @nycole8192
      @nycole8192 Год назад +4

      Same! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️😒

    • @nycole8192
      @nycole8192 Год назад +6

      Not single...yet but, if all we have is all these years, we don't have much. 😒

    • @celesteredding1550
      @celesteredding1550 Год назад +6

      Be open to conversation, be pleasant, be interested, take it very slowly, be cautious & careful

    • @luckyladybird3851
      @luckyladybird3851 Год назад

      @@celesteredding1550 very good advice

  • @MumDulay
    @MumDulay Год назад +6

    Bring the prayer blanket!🤣🤣 only Tamar!

  • @s5white
    @s5white Год назад +8

    We just want to see your growth Tamar...Stll love you!!

  • @SBRLimey
    @SBRLimey Год назад +4

    I love the way Tamar asked, “I have questions…..?” Lol😂

  • @brendakeel5980
    @brendakeel5980 Год назад +17

    Hi Tamar and Jr. I can watch you too all the time. You are amazing people loving your content.❤❤

  • @lisa196409
    @lisa196409 Год назад +6

    Y'all are doing exactly what it takes to be successful when it comes to dating PERIOD. I LOVE YOU ALL'S ENERGY. ALWAYS CARE ABOUT WHAT YOU AND YOUR PARTNER HAVE TO SAY LISTEN. Ain't nothing good out in these streets so you better LOVE THE ONE YOU'RE WITH doodoo doodoo doodoo doodoo❤❤

  • @67Chevi
    @67Chevi Год назад +6

    I love them together,I don't see color I see love

    • @kimberlykenney4566
      @kimberlykenney4566 Год назад

      Well that's because he acts more black than white. He has soul and swag to him...shoot you think he is Black until he takes off his hat and see that straight hair with a part. It throws me off everytime
      .not matching his swag😅😅. I often think now when white folk get a perm it makes their hair curly. He should get a perm..lmbo and then cut it super short with a fad. Jr would be poppin frfr... a white man black with privileges. 😅😅😅. Right??!!! Awe man,😅 I so love them together. . Jr is a straight cool swagged out Caucasian man. So wait, how many kids does he have and he's been with sistas b4 right, I heard. I have to hear his back ground other than the blogs that first came out about him when they were first dating. I hope he's a good one and they construe this joining. I'm happy for Tay Tay especially if he has money from being a successful lawyer. Thats what's up. As long as he has some money not like that last Jamaican swindler Tamar dated.

  • @carolynlong8701
    @carolynlong8701 Год назад +4

    Tamar you have matured so much since the Braxton Family Values 👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾😉❤

  • @tamikawilson9272
    @tamikawilson9272 Год назад +5

    JR is so into Tamar, Tamar loves to talk, as JR as well, but be sensitive Tamar, I think they need to date longer before this show. Know each other first before you go Spreading your new love, just so your relationship can be strong to go throw the hurdles, this is cute tho

  • @laurapetty6493
    @laurapetty6493 Год назад +18

    Both of you are awesome! Continued blessings to you both. I love the conversations. They are needed.

  • @mosesmahone8663
    @mosesmahone8663 Год назад +7

    Jr is officially louis vuitton ambassador low key.. great video guys

  • @barbarawinns3197
    @barbarawinns3197 Год назад +4

    This is the first time I ever subscribed to anything on RUclips. Love your show. You’re a beautiful couple. Tamar I have followed you immensely. You have a beautiful voice and I love the way JR treats you. Take a deep breath and stop over talking JR. Give him time to respond to the topics too. Love you guys. ❤️

  • @reginahalr3519
    @reginahalr3519 Год назад +6

    You guys are dropping a lot of Truth. Love the statement about men being comfortable and uncomfortable. I also like Tamar talking about emotional connection.

  • @sonjahoward7659
    @sonjahoward7659 Год назад +18

    I love my Tuesday catch ups with T&J very funny and informative. Love you guys ❤ sending you a shout out for pathing your own path from a Pisces ♓️ NYC woman 💪🏾

  • @keeshabrooks1
    @keeshabrooks1 Год назад +4

    I love this Tamar... I see the growth 📈

  • @angieb2120
    @angieb2120 Год назад +3

    Tamar, I LOVE what you said about women not admitting that we can be in that same place as men, where we're "outside"! It's true, I did it after my divorce. I don't know why some women don't want to admit it either!

  • @DS-wv7lf
    @DS-wv7lf Год назад +1

    Tamar has definitely matured over the years. She has come a very long way from how she used to disrespect poor Vincent. She gave him HELL. She is not disrespectful to this guy. Good for you Tamar! Tamar is just being Tamar as always being loud and funny! LOL

  • @Aquieife4me
    @Aquieife4me Год назад +7

    .....Like your Mom said "I've been married since birth!" After 35 years of marriage and now single! I know what I want sadly the few men I dated I felt I was settling again. Still single and not looking. I feel maybe he whomever he is will show up eventually. Lol

    • @besslee7905
      @besslee7905 Год назад

      I think she is settling too. I'll never settle. I rather be alone than to settle.

  • @GoldilocksOfficial1
    @GoldilocksOfficial1 Год назад +3

    Ta is so Out Spoken n Strong...I pray this Man got what it takes for the long haul! Prayers Peace n Love 🌺🙏🏽🥰

  • @blessed1155
    @blessed1155 Год назад +6

    Tamar we need the engagement ring conversation…sis

  • @Psalm5110
    @Psalm5110 Год назад +3

    Another good episode! I learned about hip sales & king swipe😉😉love it!! thank you both.

  • @jayclarke8767
    @jayclarke8767 Год назад +2

    I found my forever on a bumble. I guess it was destined. The most important aspects of dating is truly being ready, putting yourself out there, and walking away when it doesnt feel right. Ladies date multiple men and have fun until you narrow it down to best option for you.

  • @briond4263
    @briond4263 Год назад +3

    I’m glad y’all made this. I messed around in my 20’s and found out lmao so now I’m single in my 30’s and just wanna work and be at peace lawd

  • @kasandraguilbeau5762
    @kasandraguilbeau5762 Год назад +5

    These videos have been amazing!!! I really like JR now! He is really good for Ta because he got a lot of patience 😂

  • @Davtrice0511
    @Davtrice0511 Год назад +2

    "Datin this thing right hea!!!" I felt that in my New Orleans soul and fell out laughing! That's how we talk baby! It's all fun! - Ms. Pat

  • @tyieshathomas7257
    @tyieshathomas7257 Год назад +5

    I just absolutely love you”all energy and chemistry and the convo’s are so on point and juicy. it’s a powerful dynamic. ❤

  • @cgt18777
    @cgt18777 Год назад +2

    Tamar is low key hella spiritual🌟

  • @aimeepinard3466
    @aimeepinard3466 Год назад +8

    I really enjoyed this conversation and loving the random lives. Keep them coming. The two of you'll are hilarious. My favorite youtube channel.

  • @francine4651
    @francine4651 Год назад +3

    It's true we do have to repeat ourselves sometimes we want to be heard 🙏🏾

  • @robibabe
    @robibabe Год назад +3

    Lol, just love how JR is Tamar's biggest fan 💯💯💯

  • @micheleg8026
    @micheleg8026 Год назад +4

    I love these talks. I’m sure a lot of people need to hear this. 🙏🏼

  • @aminabright355
    @aminabright355 Год назад +3

    I live this. I'm glad you touch on how long y'all have been together. If you pay attention to the show you would know.

  • @taynaj1972
    @taynaj1972 Год назад +11

    Great conversation!! Thanks you two🥰

  • @amworld3166
    @amworld3166 Год назад +7

    My brother found his wife on a dating app and they been married for years now

  • @coast2coast500
    @coast2coast500 Год назад +4

    I am 52 i feel old when it comes to datng know everyone meet on apps or Facebook i like the old school dating style meeting in person

  • @Discernin8
    @Discernin8 Год назад +3

    _Hey Tamar & JR. I’m enjoying your show. Tamar said can the mothers of the church bring JR a prayer cloth please 😂🤣Blessings on the two of you & your families. I’ve been married 26 years & love wins_ 🤍

  • @paulasullivan18
    @paulasullivan18 Год назад +3

    So Happy That Y’all Found Each Other Beautiful Couple🥰😊💯👍🏼

  • @Quiology
    @Quiology Год назад +3

    Good job with that one Ta, I’m practicing loving and accepting the blessings that I earn and deserve ❤

  • @suzanneiu7269
    @suzanneiu7269 Год назад +4

    Tamar- I’m so happy that your sincerely happy!! ❤❤❤

  • @gloriajwhitley7771
    @gloriajwhitley7771 Год назад +2

    I’m here for it Tamar. What ever you do, greatness was already destined for you.❤

  • @carolynlong8701
    @carolynlong8701 Год назад +2

    You guys are hilarious 😂about the hip person 😊

  • @Avahefdnvx
    @Avahefdnvx Год назад +2

    Thank you! An important topic and timely for me after divorce. In my 40s and last time I dated was in my early 20s .. before all these Apps! I’ve been nervous to even think about dating again when I’m ready but now I’m intrigued to date emotionally mature men who have learned lessons from life experience (as I have) and in my age range 😊

  • @charolettehawkins7988
    @charolettehawkins7988 Год назад +5

    Good show. Lots of energy and lively discussion. 👍🏽

  • @stef623623
    @stef623623 Год назад +6

    Great episode , loved hearing JR prospective of dating in your later years lol . Would love to hear more on when is it the right time to move in together and how was that adjustment mending family’s . You know as your older you get set in your ways of living and so sharing that space how was that transition

  • @sunnylove9511
    @sunnylove9511 Год назад +8

    I love see the love you both have for one another and your kids love the content much success 🙏🏽

  • @charlottegreen8676
    @charlottegreen8676 Год назад +10

    Enjoy you both every week ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @christinependergrass6023
    @christinependergrass6023 Год назад +1

    Yes Tamar love seeing you happy

  • @dorothy2220
    @dorothy2220 Год назад +2

    I Love Love Love Love y'all❤❤❤❤❤Thanks for showing up and showing out ...Enjoyed you guys 🤗

  • @levlogs24
    @levlogs24 Год назад +6

    Look forward to you all's videos every week! Great chemistry!😊

  • @carlospar6896
    @carlospar6896 Год назад +2

    U guys are too adorable 🙏😍🤓 great conversation. Keep them coming 🙏🤣💃🤓🇨🇦

  • @lydiarogers9046
    @lydiarogers9046 Год назад +2

    😅 this is so much needed and your energy tells us the truth you don't need to say it is very much shown and thank you so so much and I will continue to watch❤ and listen

  • @n.v.1173
    @n.v.1173 Год назад +4

    Topics for upcoming videos; where is engaged ring 💍 and wedding planning upstate 🙏🏼💞🌟🥰

    • @besslee7905
      @besslee7905 Год назад

      I don't think there will be a wedding. It's okay for a woman her age just to have fun. I hope she doesn't get hurt again, like with the African guy.

  • @shawnaw9750
    @shawnaw9750 Год назад +3

    This was a great conversation. Keep them coming, and thank you for sharing.🙂

  • @mode.or.culture
    @mode.or.culture Год назад +2

    I think she might have got it right with this one. I like him for her!! I do! People have said they were shocked because he is not black. LOOK WHO CARES HE IS HELLA COOL & HE IS AMAZING! Does he have a single brother?? Lol

  • @angelamoss8927
    @angelamoss8927 Год назад +1

    Hey are soooooooooo good together…… I Pray this is the one for Tamar Braxton❤❤❤❤❤❤ She is the one for JR.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @deekay313
    @deekay313 Год назад +6

    Loving your channel! Great conversations ❤❤

  • @graceliaw9245
    @graceliaw9245 Год назад +14

    It’s ok to let your man lead sometimes 😊

    • @Jamiesearchaccount
      @Jamiesearchaccount Год назад +9

      Omg yes all she does is cut him off and over talk him.. I like them together but sheesh can you let the man talk and let him LEAD.

    • @Drawblue1
      @Drawblue1 Год назад +9

      ​@@JamiesearchaccountI noticed that very early on. I think JR has a great deal of patience. I also think that he is a bit more mature than Tamar and truly has done the necessary work on himself, is grounded and has learned from his past mistakes. I don't think Tamar is quite there as much as she thinks she is. I think apart of her way of being is because she's never been heard and seen as Iyanla Vanzant called out during her therapy session which is why she was so triggered. I think she feels the need to be in control because of her past relationships especially with Vince. She was the total opposite with Davide and also with JR. I think eventually he will get tired of her. She needs to allow JR to lead, stop over talking him, allow him to be himself instead of correcting him all the time and also understand that she is with a WHITE man that she CHOSE and stop calling out everything that he does, thid man grew up in the south and clearly has a strong connection to black people everything doesn't have to be about race! Because she fully embraced David's heritage, like how porsha is with Simon. But calls out JR on everything as if she didn't choose to be with a white man. She needs to be a bit more Feminine and JR needs to speak up more Maybe that's what it is. Woman will walk over what they feel like are weak men
      Yet he's everything that she needs and deeply desires and because she's so used to being treated less than she sabotages it.

    • @tammywilliams9335
      @tammywilliams9335 Год назад +1

      Exactly

    • @melissawilliams6324
      @melissawilliams6324 Год назад +1

      You see a clip and think you know there whole relationship. You don't know if she lets him lead her or not you are not with them everyday so stop judging 😳

  • @bohotodaro
    @bohotodaro Год назад +2

    Allegedly JR was still on dating apps while sitting on this live! Ask Tasha K! The nanny spilled the tea! This video looks different now. He was fighting to do all the talking. He wants to be the star. No matter if folks like her or not, she is the star.

  • @racheller8753
    @racheller8753 Год назад

    A man willing to work on communication is a beautiful thing!!

  • @lateshiajones2965
    @lateshiajones2965 Год назад +1

    I’ve been on the dating site now at my age now

  • @graceannecreque5491
    @graceannecreque5491 Год назад +2

    I agree catching a vibe or not I agree women should not be in a hurry to become intimate but as JR says you need to have that time of courtship which is so necessary if you are hoping to build a long term relationship.

  • @tyfdh9
    @tyfdh9 Год назад +3

    Women and young ladies, don’t waste your pretty.
    Know your worth! ⭕️

  • @michellehood3345
    @michellehood3345 Год назад +1

    I'm so glad you two found each other!❤

  • @rosaford2057
    @rosaford2057 Год назад +9

    I love listening to y'all❤❤❤

  • @sann5715
    @sann5715 Год назад +2

    Oooh wee. Loving the tea Tamar & Jr. 😍😍

  • @unezsimpkins9107
    @unezsimpkins9107 Год назад +5

    Love you two,I love yall vibes,Love it that it's okay to disagree but not fall out about it.Keep it poppin you two .Love you guys❤❤❤❤🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣