Btw some people don't know that there's a difference between erectile dysfunction and performance anxiety. One is a physical thing the other is psychological. If you can still get an erection while alone then the issue is performance anxiety, not ED.
@@scoobie8amg hey im very curious how did he fix his anxiety how long did it take for him to perform good while having sex and what where the problems he had
Hey Cut - it would be really cool if, next time, you discussed sexual dysfunction on the women’s end too. I, for example, suffer from vulvodynia, which means I have chronic pelvic pain that causes excessive tightness. Many women who have this problem don’t know what it is, and therefore don’t know that it can be overcome with a loving and patient partner. Like, I used to think I would be single forever because of it 😕 But then I met my husband, and we figured it out! There are also women who have trouble lubricating, or women who suffer from low libido due to medications they’re on, as one of the ladies in this video touched on. I think it would be really interesting to explore these kinds of issues at greater length. Thanks!
don't bother - this video was never even supposed to be about couples' sex lives, it was literally just a really long add for dick pills. i knew it seemed like they were lingering on erectile dysfunction for too long...
@@OnizenArt True dat. It's an uphill battle. Ultimately though just gotta deal with it head on, better to try n work on an issue than suffer in silence.
Getting ED for the first time, you feel an overwhelming sense of shame and embarrassment. However, a good partner will try their best to comfort and reassure you
Just want to say thank you to the people willing to put themselves out there in this video. I've struggled with ED since I was about 23 and the shame over it has only made it worse. So thanks for being so open and showing that lots of people have issues with it!
After a certain age, it’s more likely to have ED than to not have ED. It really shouldn’t have a stigma. It’s natural and not typically indicative of a larger problem.
This video wouldn’t have come at a better time for me. I’m in my first real -what I would call adult- relationship. We’ve been together for 4 months and lately we’ve been struggling with ED. It was really important for me to hear a mans prospective. Love you CUT!
@emilymarie433 if he watches porn a lot and masterbates that can play a huge role. It helped 100% for me to stop doing those things. Your brain becomes required to get turned on from porn instead of your partner. Which sounds ridiculous but it’s 100% true I heard a psychologist explain it and I tried it and it worked for sure. If that is it and he isn’t willing to give up porn for a good sex life than he’s gotta go
Truly appreciate these couples for speaking so candidly and publicly about ED. Special shout-out to the men because there’s a lot of shame around this topic. 👏🏽 👏🏽
CUT NEEDS AN AWARRRRRD!! This is something 90%of males in my opinion deal with! It makes a lot of us feel like lesser men. I’m so happy to see not just men but COUPLES talk about this issue and I’m 29!! 💪🏿👨🏿🦲⚒️
Thanks for being open and honest about sex issues guys! Sex issues are more common than ppl think for both guys and girls, and needs to be talked about more!!
I love the Cut. Normally I don't comment on videos but I have to applaud the video. This is so refreshing to see real open couple struggles and will help many people feel like they are not alone. Thank you to the couples that took the time to be vulnerable here. 😊🙏
2:12 😩💔 The pressure some guys put on themselves to "perform" is so stressful. An entire industry has been created around a so-called _dysfunction_ while there are a zillion ways to be satisfyingly intimate and enjoy ecstasy with your partner that don't require penetration.
So your solution to any guy with ED is to just never use their penis again and do other things for the rest of your life? Sheesh you're definitely not a guy
@@personrandom8215 all men experience occasional softness, premature ejaculation and dysfunction and as they get older it’s frequency increases. Young men should not be experiencing these issues at the rate that they are. It is not normal or healthy for this to be such a huge part of their sex lives that they feel they need to be medicated (some as young as teenagers). Pressure to perform, porn and stress in general have made it more difficult for men to engage in sex that they want. Instead of just universally band aiding this with a pill, we should be focusing on fixing the root causes. We are playing into a market that exacerbates the problem rather than fixing it for young men. Alleviating the cause is the most sustainable way for men to have the penetrative sex they want while avoiding dependency on substances. Focus more on improving men’s lives than attacking women for considering other means of sex.
Natasha exactly. Also, @Person Random. No, it is to deal with the toxic mentality behind it. A lot of ED cases are actually mental rather than physical. And actually, allowing yourself to enjoy the experience rather than worrying whether what you are doing makes you less of a man, will be a better experience for both yourself and your partner. On a amab cis guy, there are so many different erroneous areas that feel amazing to explore apart from your penis. And no, I'm not just taking about your prostate. Your sides, shoulders, back can all feel amazing when simulated properly. And when you drop that mentality that penises are required for sex and the only way to give pleasure, then you get a much better and more fulfilling intimate relationship with your partner
@@personrandom8215 That's not her point? Pretty sure the point is that it would be better if men didn't feel as if the entirety of their sexual worth depends on whether they can get hard or not.
@@Ineverusemychannel Umm...read my comment again. You're jumping to assumptions that I've given you no reason to believe. I completely agree with you that ED may be a symptom for other causes that may include blood pressure and heart problems so you should for sure consult a doctor. And I also agree with you that you should be cautious when taking drugs and look for other solutions first. I didn't say anything to the contrary. I'm simply saying that using other means to have an enjoyable experience is a temporary solution not a long term for multiple reasons. Also I'm not attacking anyone I'm just disagreeing there's a big difference.
I really love these kinds of honest videos! I think it removes the stigma off of normal mundane issues. It is entertaining and educating at the same time.
It makes me sad that people with ED feel the need to explain themselves. It's obviously not their fault, the same way as it's not somebody's fault if they can't have an orgasm, no one's to blame here. Our bodies are tricky, they don't always do what we want them to and there's no reason to feel guilty about it. I appreciate these people's honesty though!
ED is so extremely common that either it shouldn't even be called abnormal or society at large needs to come up with a solution to the dangers of porn (not having it freely accessibly on the device we're all on 24/7 would definitely help lol).
i wish we could talk about how often this "dysfunction" happens to women too but there's just no word to describe it so it often goes un-talked about. Very often many women myself included just cannot get aroused and sex can be incredibly difficult and disheartening when it feels like- why won't my body respond the way I want it to? Why does it only feel good sometimes but then others I just can't seem to get aroused or finish. It's really frustrating that there isn't a word to describe this in women and it's NEVER talked about. :( especially considering how common it is.
Very true. When I first got on anxiety meds I had little to no sex drive and it would take at least an hour to get an orgasm and the orgasm sucked. It was super depressing and lasted for a few months. I wish issues like this were discussed more.
My sex life has been limited due to childhood obesity. I have lost 200lbs+ and changed my life around about 10 years ago however i was a heavy smoker & drinker, i almost certianly had ED and was very upset over the matter. Since i quit alcohol and that in itself flipped my world, i also quit smoking cigarettes (I still vape & smoke weed) this and working on my cardio, diet & spending time working my kegel muscles my penis is not only bigger but i am a completely different person down there. ED is not a poblem anymore and i live a simple but happy life atm which i love. If this inspires anyone i wish you luck! Alcohol is a toxin please don't dismiss that.
I'm all for medication that helps properly diagnosed folks, it just sucks that all insurances cover ED meds but many insurances don't cover birth control, which many people need for serious medical ailments, in some cases life-threatening ailments.
This is so great! Thanks Cut! Our goal as a brand is to break the stigma about ED and performance anxiety! Here's to happy, healthy, and exciting relationships!
Men should start talking about these. As much as women are vocal these days about things that make them insecure I think if men start talking about this it would help a lot of young people
We can't. i would wager 90% of men's insecurities come from women. Just go on tiktok or twitter and you'll see entire comment sections filled with people saying how useless and bad men are.
Aahhh theaters Nice to see, Definitely enjoyed everyone honesty... We are new here but definitely not new as a couple...Being together more than 10 Years... We always talk about everything and I most say he is very active and never have any issues.... He is very aware of his body and knows what to do and what not to do at those moments.. I guess I will put this topic on our list of videos we will be posting in the near future... lots of love to everyone who reads this & we wish you a Beautiful day
She's a porn star, I think. Saw her interviewed by some dude years ago, can't remember his name but he tries to make his guests feel awkward. She was funny. Was weird that wasn't even mentioned in this video, but I suppose it's basically a long advertisement where the end goal is a plug. So they just wanna get to the plug ASAP while trying to feel organic. Except it doesn't, because the whole video was about men struggling.
Interesting to hear the response on ED. As a 33 year old whose like the one that said he gets hard with a hug, I didn't know ED was so frequent even for younger guys.
I’ve been w my bf for almost 5 years now and honestly we used to have sex like 3 times a day, and everyday. Now it’s like once a week, and sometimes it’ll go for longer and sometimes it’ll happen two days in a row. Super fluctuating. So if you came here nervous that you and your partner don’t do it enough just know your natural libido will go down over time and the more comfortable you get with ur partner as well! So don’t fret it! It’s natural
It makes me so sad to hear about the performance anxiety and self doubts people go through because of a body function that you can't control. It's okay. It's nobody's fault. There's plently of ways to have sex and be intimate, let's embrace them.
My ex had ED and it is why we broke up. He never wanted to talk about it and I finally cried about it. I had a bad moment and internalized it, partially because he never talked about it, partially because he never complimented me, etc. He never spoke to me again even though I wanted to work on it. Communication is key.
My main takeaway from this video was that erectile dysfunction is a bigger issue than I previously thought. I never realized how common that is. I’ve never experienced it personally but it sounds awful.
It's great that they talk about ED but I wish they had discussed female issues too. Unfortunately I think female issues are largely ignored because you believe you can just slap some lube on and it works anyway, but female arousal is about more than just lubrication so that's really not a fix!
If anyone sees this who is not very educated on female arousal, I'll go ahead and elaborate a bit. For one, the vagina expands quite significantly during arousal to accommodate penetration, the cervix shifts up to make room etc. Because of this, penetration when not aroused can be uncomfortable even if you use lube. Furthermore, just like with male erections a lot of blood will rush to the genitals and make them swell and throb. The clitoris enlarges and pokes out, making it easier to stimulate, and everything generally becomes more sensitive and receptive to pleasure. This is why foreplay is really important particularly if you have a female partner! The fact of the matter is that female arousal takes longer than male arousal, and if you rush past it you're more likely to experience discomfort and less likely to experience pleasure. As a woman myself I know this very well, like sometimes if I want to masturbate but go at it too quickly with insufficient preparation it's quite an underwhelming, disappointing experience. One of the main sexual complaints heterosexual women have is a lack of foreplay. Seriously, I cannot stress enough how important it is for females to be properly aroused, and that it goes beyond lubrication!!
Huge props that guy being honest about his shortcummings and erectile dysfunction. I don't know that feeling but I bet when I get older I will experienced that feeling, and I admire his bravery and honesty
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It‘s so nice to see real and honest sex stories, makes me less insecure
Yeah go ahead and tell the internet about your sex life.
@@ANJIN-p4q ?
@@ANJIN-p4q u mad huh
Imagine being insecure
ikrrr
Her: “He’s not super into medication for that kind of thing.”
Him: “Absolutely!”
2 times
Her: “we are not huge medication people so uh“
him: “yeah absolutely”
💀💀
Men will take just about anything to have sex good.
It's good for these discussions to be open around ED and raising how common it really is
I got confused for a sec I read it as eating disorder lol
It would be better if not sponsored though...
Except that guy whos good every time lol
@@ulixo1132 this is a far better placement for said service opposed to on a videogame video.
Wouldn't ED mean they aren't raising anything?
The diversity of the couples just makes my heart smile
💯
Not a single all black couple though…
@@rhodabaruch4 so?
@@rhodabaruch4 or latino or asian or middle eastern or aboriginal, so?
@@rhodabaruch4 So?
"both butts" HERE FOR IT
😂😂😂💪
Same
i was like HELL YEAH
Btw some people don't know that there's a difference between erectile dysfunction and performance anxiety. One is a physical thing the other is psychological. If you can still get an erection while alone then the issue is performance anxiety, not ED.
Does ED mean you can’t get it up at all ?
@@Kirbystare1992 Yes! P.A. is just having issues performing for others.
Oh interesting. My bf def had performance anxiety in the beginning. I was his first and he was an older virgin.
Yeah I dont have ED, but i have pretty bad performance anxiety, just cant get comfy with other people
@@scoobie8amg hey im very curious how did he fix his anxiety how long did it take for him to perform good while having sex and what where the problems he had
Wish they spoke about sex struggles generally and not just ED
hoping for another edit of this video !! with more questions !
This is a probably staged ad for vi*gra...
@@Mobin92 don't know if you watched to the end, but yup, it's an ad for an ED medication lmao. fucking CUT is relentless
guess we have to wait until someone makes a medication for other sex struggles, then CUT will make a video advertising it
Same, it would be nice to hear more real stories about sex struggles
Hey Cut - it would be really cool if, next time, you discussed sexual dysfunction on the women’s end too. I, for example, suffer from vulvodynia, which means I have chronic pelvic pain that causes excessive tightness. Many women who have this problem don’t know what it is, and therefore don’t know that it can be overcome with a loving and patient partner. Like, I used to think I would be single forever because of it 😕 But then I met my husband, and we figured it out!
There are also women who have trouble lubricating, or women who suffer from low libido due to medications they’re on, as one of the ladies in this video touched on. I think it would be really interesting to explore these kinds of issues at greater length. Thanks!
If ur interested there’s a show that talks about this I think and other things it’s called sex education
@@Tostito777 is it in the 3rd season? I haven't watched it yet but I remember that in the 2nd season the nerdy girl has vaginismus
@@arirj844 yeah Lily had that. And Sex Education does an excellent job around various sexual topics. Such an awesome series.
don't bother - this video was never even supposed to be about couples' sex lives, it was literally just a really long add for dick pills. i knew it seemed like they were lingering on erectile dysfunction for too long...
@@arirj844 yeah that’s how i realized i have vaginismus people hate on it but the show is really helpful
Whatever sex struggles you had, always open up and communicate with your partner
Big facts 💯
not juzt sex struggles also...whatever the problem is, communciate it. communication is the key.
It's easier said than done when fear and embarrassment sets in, on top of the thoughts of how your partner will handle it
@@OnizenArt True dat. It's an uphill battle. Ultimately though just gotta deal with it head on, better to try n work on an issue than suffer in silence.
Silverhand knows this
"oh yeah I'm old" best answer
But also I'm glad the younger guys were honest.
These couples are all so lovely and communicating with the audience and each other! So nice , and open :)
ruclips.net/video/CLbqIKIgJn8/видео.html Racst teacher caught
It’s fake. It’s a commercial for ED pills
“If we hug it’s like, I am fuckin’ hard now.” LOL too true
every time, every time!
You guys get hard when your cousin hugs you?
weirdies
@@Kevin4M3 Alabama shit
He just like me
Getting ED for the first time, you feel an overwhelming sense of shame and embarrassment. However, a good partner will try their best to comfort and reassure you
Despite its flaws, the best thing about cut is the representation. Being able to see real people talk about real things is important.
Just want to say thank you to the people willing to put themselves out there in this video. I've struggled with ED since I was about 23 and the shame over it has only made it worse. So thanks for being so open and showing that lots of people have issues with it!
“What a bummer” is the understatement of the year
This is so refreshing to know how common this is and hear it be discussed so openly.
After a certain age, it’s more likely to have ED than to not have ED. It really shouldn’t have a stigma. It’s natural and not typically indicative of a larger problem.
This video wouldn’t have come at a better time for me. I’m in my first real -what I would call adult- relationship. We’ve been together for 4 months and lately we’ve been struggling with ED. It was really important for me to hear a mans prospective. Love you CUT!
@emilymarie433 if he watches porn a lot and masterbates that can play a huge role. It helped 100% for me to stop doing those things. Your brain becomes required to get turned on from porn instead of your partner. Which sounds ridiculous but it’s 100% true I heard a psychologist explain it and I tried it and it worked for sure. If that is it and he isn’t willing to give up porn for a good sex life than he’s gotta go
Truly appreciate these couples for speaking so candidly and publicly about ED. Special shout-out to the men because there’s a lot of shame around this topic. 👏🏽 👏🏽
Fuck yes, Cut. The openness from this channel is so important.
CUT NEEDS AN AWARRRRRD!! This is something 90%of males in my opinion deal with! It makes a lot of us feel like lesser men. I’m so happy to see not just men but COUPLES talk about this issue and I’m 29!! 💪🏿👨🏿🦲⚒️
Are you a man?
Shoutout to CUT for including the realest the most normal diverse couples not super gorgeous hollywood models!!
“Why is it so HARD to talk about?”
Ha that was on purpose!
"none of us are very demure" hits in 2024
Thanks for being open and honest about sex issues guys! Sex issues are more common than ppl think for both guys and girls, and needs to be talked about more!!
I love the Cut. Normally I don't comment on videos but I have to applaud the video. This is so refreshing to see real open couple struggles and will help many people feel like they are not alone. Thank you to the couples that took the time to be vulnerable here. 😊🙏
2:12 😩💔 The pressure some guys put on themselves to "perform" is so stressful. An entire industry has been created around a so-called _dysfunction_ while there are a zillion ways to be satisfyingly intimate and enjoy ecstasy with your partner that don't require penetration.
So your solution to any guy with ED is to just never use their penis again and do other things for the rest of your life? Sheesh you're definitely not a guy
@@personrandom8215 all men experience occasional softness, premature ejaculation and dysfunction and as they get older it’s frequency increases. Young men should not be experiencing these issues at the rate that they are. It is not normal or healthy for this to be such a huge part of their sex lives that they feel they need to be medicated (some as young as teenagers).
Pressure to perform, porn and stress in general have made it more difficult for men to engage in sex that they want. Instead of just universally band aiding this with a pill, we should be focusing on fixing the root causes. We are playing into a market that exacerbates the problem rather than fixing it for young men. Alleviating the cause is the most sustainable way for men to have the penetrative sex they want while avoiding dependency on substances. Focus more on improving men’s lives than attacking women for considering other means of sex.
Natasha exactly.
Also, @Person Random.
No, it is to deal with the toxic mentality behind it. A lot of ED cases are actually mental rather than physical.
And actually, allowing yourself to enjoy the experience rather than worrying whether what you are doing makes you less of a man, will be a better experience for both yourself and your partner.
On a amab cis guy, there are so many different erroneous areas that feel amazing to explore apart from your penis.
And no, I'm not just taking about your prostate. Your sides, shoulders, back can all feel amazing when simulated properly.
And when you drop that mentality that penises are required for sex and the only way to give pleasure, then you get a much better and more fulfilling intimate relationship with your partner
@@personrandom8215 That's not her point? Pretty sure the point is that it would be better if men didn't feel as if the entirety of their sexual worth depends on whether they can get hard or not.
@@Ineverusemychannel Umm...read my comment again. You're jumping to assumptions that I've given you no reason to believe. I completely agree with you that ED may be a symptom for other causes that may include blood pressure and heart problems so you should for sure consult a doctor. And I also agree with you that you should be cautious when taking drugs and look for other solutions first. I didn't say anything to the contrary. I'm simply saying that using other means to have an enjoyable experience is a temporary solution not a long term for multiple reasons. Also I'm not attacking anyone I'm just disagreeing there's a big difference.
I dealt with a guy who had performance anxiety-you have to be patient and understanding. He got better the more we messed around.
I loved it when he said "Both Butts"😁😂😂
Would be great to see a video with more female sex struggles as well
2:01
Guy: “I think not every guy can perform 100%”
Guy2: “Every time every time ”
💀💀💀💀
I really love these kinds of honest videos! I think it removes the stigma off of normal mundane issues. It is entertaining and educating at the same time.
I've been dealing with minor ED recently as a 33 year old, and that "what a bummer" response is an accurate response
I’m glad we’re having these conversations 👍🏾• _ •👍🏾
It makes me sad that people with ED feel the need to explain themselves. It's obviously not their fault, the same way as it's not somebody's fault if they can't have an orgasm, no one's to blame here. Our bodies are tricky, they don't always do what we want them to and there's no reason to feel guilty about it. I appreciate these people's honesty though!
ED is so extremely common that either it shouldn't even be called abnormal or society at large needs to come up with a solution to the dangers of porn (not having it freely accessibly on the device we're all on 24/7 would definitely help lol).
i wish we could talk about how often this "dysfunction" happens to women too but there's just no word to describe it so it often goes un-talked about. Very often many women myself included just cannot get aroused and sex can be incredibly difficult and disheartening when it feels like- why won't my body respond the way I want it to? Why does it only feel good sometimes but then others I just can't seem to get aroused or finish. It's really frustrating that there isn't a word to describe this in women and it's NEVER talked about. :( especially considering how common it is.
Very true. When I first got on anxiety meds I had little to no sex drive and it would take at least an hour to get an orgasm and the orgasm sucked. It was super depressing and lasted for a few months. I wish issues like this were discussed more.
This video should be more popular! One comment every 4 days?! The couples are so respectful and nice, they are super chill too lol 😭
“…any samples?”
😂 I love her, she’s always great.
"Both butts 😎" lmaoo the way he said it
Can we talk about this from a female perspective? There are lots of women who suffer from sexual dysfunction and more awareness is needed!
My sex life has been limited due to childhood obesity. I have lost 200lbs+ and changed my life around about 10 years ago however i was a heavy smoker & drinker, i almost certianly had ED and was very upset over the matter. Since i quit alcohol and that in itself flipped my world, i also quit smoking cigarettes (I still vape & smoke weed) this and working on my cardio, diet & spending time working my kegel muscles my penis is not only bigger but i am a completely different person down there. ED is not a poblem anymore and i live a simple but happy life atm which i love. If this inspires anyone i wish you luck! Alcohol is a toxin please don't dismiss that.
People need to be more honest like this
I'm all for medication that helps properly diagnosed folks, it just sucks that all insurances cover ED meds but many insurances don't cover birth control, which many people need for serious medical ailments, in some cases life-threatening ailments.
This is legit “couples talk about ED”
1:50
I just love the mindful editing lol
2:01 the editing 😀
Ik 💀💀
if i watched this like 10 years ago i would be much less insecure today
This is so great! Thanks Cut! Our goal as a brand is to break the stigma about ED and performance anxiety! Here's to happy, healthy, and exciting relationships!
I like channels like Cut, channels that share stories from all kinds of people and don't shy away from 'taboo' subjects
Men should start talking about these. As much as women are vocal these days about things that make them insecure I think if men start talking about this it would help a lot of young people
We can't. i would wager 90% of men's insecurities come from women. Just go on tiktok or twitter and you'll see entire comment sections filled with people saying how useless and bad men are.
Aahhh theaters Nice to see, Definitely enjoyed everyone honesty... We are new here but definitely not new as a couple...Being together more than 10 Years... We always talk about everything and I most say he is very active and never have any issues.... He is very aware of his body and knows what to do and what not to do at those moments..
I guess I will put this topic on our list of videos we will be posting in the near future... lots of love to everyone who reads this & we wish you a Beautiful day
“Why is it so hard to talk about?”
“Well the fact of the matter is that it’s not hard at all”
Nicki is too precious for this world
She's a porn star, I think. Saw her interviewed by some dude years ago, can't remember his name but he tries to make his guests feel awkward. She was funny. Was weird that wasn't even mentioned in this video, but I suppose it's basically a long advertisement where the end goal is a plug. So they just wanna get to the plug ASAP while trying to feel organic. Except it doesn't, because the whole video was about men struggling.
@@b33p she was on kessemG
Which one is that? And is she really an adult actor as the other comments claim?
@@jonaswolterstorff3460 Nicki is the person with blonde hair wearing a red polka-dotted dress.
HA 😂😂😂 you must have very low standards for precious then
Yes! We have to make these conversations normal! ✨💕
The couple w the girl in the polka dot shirt & the guy from the end are sooo cute to me
Interesting to hear the response on ED. As a 33 year old whose like the one that said he gets hard with a hug, I didn't know ED was so frequent even for younger guys.
I love Nikky!! She cracked me up when she finished with "Any samples? :D"
"Would you consider medication"
Women "Hmm, I don't kno-"
Men "ABSOLUTELY"
😂😂😂
The fact that the guy behind the camera is 32 and I’m in love with his voice- well you didn’t see anything
"No dude can be 100% everytime"
"EVERYTIME! EVERYTIME!"
I’ve been w my bf for almost 5 years now and honestly we used to have sex like 3 times a day, and everyday. Now it’s like once a week, and sometimes it’ll go for longer and sometimes it’ll happen two days in a row. Super fluctuating. So if you came here nervous that you and your partner don’t do it enough just know your natural libido will go down over time and the more comfortable you get with ur partner as well! So don’t fret it! It’s natural
i wish they put their names up whenever they’re talking.
It makes me so sad to hear about the performance anxiety and self doubts people go through because of a body function that you can't control.
It's okay. It's nobody's fault. There's plently of ways to have sex and be intimate, let's embrace them.
My ex had ED and it is why we broke up. He never wanted to talk about it and I finally cried about it. I had a bad moment and internalized it, partially because he never talked about it, partially because he never complimented me, etc. He never spoke to me again even though I wanted to work on it. Communication is key.
I love how honest this video is. ++
Even tho this is a shameless ad (not judging), I love how this brings awareness and stimulates openness about such a "regular" subject
4:57 I dont want to surprise her😆😆😆
The biracial couple (black woman, white dude) are so cute together
Not to be pedantic but that's an interracial* couple. A biracial couple would mean they're both biracial.
Never hear about women's struggles w penetration tbh, would like to hear that
My main takeaway from this video was that erectile dysfunction is a bigger issue than I previously thought. I never realized how common that is. I’ve never experienced it personally but it sounds awful.
Blue Chew is just Sildenafil which you can save a lot of money buying it at Sam’s if you are a plus member and have a prescription.
0:42 hurt my soul. People living my dream rn
Idk why but I like the shirt of that one guy with a yellow beanie. It's like a mood.
It's ironic that the only couple who agreed he could get it up everytime also had the girl say sex is just ok for them x:
As someone who has yet to dip their toe in the sex world, I had noo idea erectile disfunction was so common
It's great that they talk about ED but I wish they had discussed female issues too. Unfortunately I think female issues are largely ignored because you believe you can just slap some lube on and it works anyway, but female arousal is about more than just lubrication so that's really not a fix!
If anyone sees this who is not very educated on female arousal, I'll go ahead and elaborate a bit. For one, the vagina expands quite significantly during arousal to accommodate penetration, the cervix shifts up to make room etc. Because of this, penetration when not aroused can be uncomfortable even if you use lube. Furthermore, just like with male erections a lot of blood will rush to the genitals and make them swell and throb. The clitoris enlarges and pokes out, making it easier to stimulate, and everything generally becomes more sensitive and receptive to pleasure.
This is why foreplay is really important particularly if you have a female partner! The fact of the matter is that female arousal takes longer than male arousal, and if you rush past it you're more likely to experience discomfort and less likely to experience pleasure. As a woman myself I know this very well, like sometimes if I want to masturbate but go at it too quickly with insufficient preparation it's quite an underwhelming, disappointing experience. One of the main sexual complaints heterosexual women have is a lack of foreplay. Seriously, I cannot stress enough how important it is for females to be properly aroused, and that it goes beyond lubrication!!
I like the checkered shirt/stripped black jumper couple. I'm tryna see more videos with them in it!
Loved the old guy in the white shirt that says COLOMBIA im guessing her wife is Colombian, such a sweet couple
“every time every time” that was a funny ass transition
WHERE THE FUCK DO YOU FIND THESE GTA CHARACTHERS LMAOOO
When you watch a 10 minute ad for a subscription box..
I don't want to surprise her.
Best statement ever bahahhahahhhhha
The guy who gets hard when his partner hugs him is absolutely my partner and I haha im so grateful
The PUNS, 🤣😂. "WHY IS IT SO HARD TO TALK ABOUT IT?"
Wow. Just wow for the honesty 👍👍
It’s surprising how common this is. And how everyone deals with it.
This is literally just an ad for bluechew lol
Huge props that guy being honest about his shortcummings and erectile dysfunction. I don't know that feeling but I bet when I get older I will experienced that feeling, and I admire his bravery and honesty
This was a 5 minute Bluechew ad.
I love how honest this video was but why were all the additions directed towards the men not “performing”?
Lmaooo this was really just a long commercial 😂I had feeling when they spent over 1/2 the video talking just about ED
I wish Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction (PIED) was discussed a little more in this
Thought I was the only one .
Cut is the main reason why I can mind my business. This channel satisfies my nosey instinct. 😂
Drop that honey in that Hennessy! It’s gone be alright lol
LOVE that shirt lol "Super Filthy Casual"
Paul & Roxy (?) are such a beautiful couple!!
The dull sex part is normal so if you plan on getting married remember it's normal.. it's boring.. it's a natural feeling
THERES A LITTLE BIT OF VIDEO IN YOUR AD