I think if someone like Mtho would fall deep in love for real, the heartbreak would be even worse for him because he doesn’t have the emotional tools to deal with it because he’s not used to being emotional.
@@unorthodox3593 EXACTLY! 😭😭😭😭😄😄😄😄😅. Yerrr the way I was screaming at the crib😅. Worse uMtho umdala - how does he not know that everyman has their Kryptonite. Yhuuu Mtho ndiyakoyikisela ntang' am😄😄🙆🏾♂️😅
Gents, Thato is in her early twenties - she will never compromise😏. The world is at her feet. She is literally incapable of understanding where Brother Mtho is coming from. What I don't understand about Thato's logic is this: Just because he's not struggling when you meet that doesn't mean that there he'll never struggle - inde lendlela
@@seciliaindila5128 I hear the 'seen' progress chat, but there's some naivity to that chat. E.g. I could go braindead - where's the 'seen' progress there mntase? Men want a woman who'll die for them because we know we're expected to die for her. Now, how can I be sure she'll die for me if she's worrying about 'seen' progress?
@@lukhanyisobrukwe5980 My brother, expecting someone to stick with you through being brain dead until you die is naive. What she’s saying is that start somewhere so that when tough times come I know with certainty that you are capable of being someone because I’ve seen it. Not these guessing games of will he make it and if he makes it, will he stay loyal to me.
@unorthodox3593 I admit that that specific example is naive neh - but that example was made to illustrate a situation where my ability to get the things which attracted the woman are no longer possible due to circumstances out of my control; the point being that as men we wann know how if she's here even if my things. I hear what you're saying about having evidence that the man has made it before. MY question is what if the man never makes it back again? Coz once peak physical beauty is gone it ain't never coming back again, but the man is expected to stay. "Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." There are memes about how woman will ask you if you'd still love her if she was a worm - to see of you're love is true. Men want the same assurance; if they didn't have nothing would yout love still remain true. Coz while she'll never turn into a worm - the mam can lose everything and never get it back
Operators today’s episode was very mind-opening and educational regarding relationships, money and heartbreak. A breath of fresh air from Sunday, Keep askarianing the banganoy on the spejeje levol 😂❤
Yeah Thato is correct,Young Stunna is different,he uses emotions when he performs and you could see and feel it,Daliwonga is bringing a catchy voice that will make the crowd go crazy
@@Molebogeng03 Ngoanesu its not about being the same. As logical as Mtho is, he's Kryptonite is out there somewhere. Yena he must just say he hasn't met her😄😅. These streets favour no man😄
Out the gate with a fire chat🔥🔥🔥🔥 I've never paid this much attention 😅 I loved this one. Thato understands what the guys are saying, she just doesn't wanna struggle 🤣🤣🤣 Thato's age showed in this episode cause of her perspective
Here's what I've learnt in my 21 years of life - You don't necessarily need to be burnt to learn a lesson. Although one out of the two, is more likely to play it safe and the other not so much. Now the benefit of the one who didn't go through the same struggle is, yes he's more open to take risks but he's also equipped to see bs from a distant. Now that's the difference between Mtho and Sino
I'm so impressed by the depth and nuance of your podcast's message. You're tackling complex issues with such care and sensitivity...keep up the good work 🔥✊️
What Sino is saying is true, being hurt by women made me become less affectionate to this gender. I gave my all and she messed me up. The bare minimum is the best for these huns😂😂
I’m only watching the episode now…bro I must say this is by far the best episode for me…Pastor Ndofaya cooked when he said if you find your type leave..my types always dribble me 😭😭..now I’m using the compromising formula danko 😂🎉
Most girls who are considered 10/10 often choose partners rated around a 5 or 6 because they feel secure knowing others are less likely to interfere in such relationships.
Sino cooked with the emotional segment(subtopic), when you are deeply in love. In most cases logic becomes blurry and delusional take a toll since you are willing to do anything for your companion. Full products have impacted the dating market negatively, social media is a contributing factor also. Even the nonchalant ones still get heartbreak.
exactly, love is very powerful, it beats logic at everytime, but i guess he wont relate because he never get into that point of being in love with someone
Off-the-dome Vs Freestyle: Off-the-dope: coming up with the words as you go. Freestyle: pre-written bars that can be rapped anywhere anytime - hence the 'free' in freestyle
Guys Thato did say one thing that hit me hard. She said if she genuinely loved the guy, she could even go to limpopo by foot. She added that she has done many things for a guy because of being in love. So to me, Thato acts a certain way and at a certain level but deep down when she is in love she can do anything for her man and be understanding.
You know the saying, "Intombi eshelwa ngamanga" - as men, we often see love through the lens of respect. When your woman respects you, that's when you truly know she loves you. What initially attracts us to women is their beauty, but over time, we learn to love the person for the qualities they possess and the traits we seek in a partner
Why are people so pressed by the girl's preferences? The problem is, y'all probably want people to come on the podcast and lie. You can tell by Thato's lifestyle that travelling by taxi is not in her means. She does not travel by taxi herself and she should go that low for a man she isn't even officially dating yet? Aowa🙌!!! And the honest truth is no one really prefers broke men if we are being realistic. You have your reasons for dating broke men which is okay. But if you could magically make him financially stable you would. WHY? because you would prefer if he were like that.
But you got to understand that to get a certain caliber of man comes with its pros and cons, most of this man with money have options, so if you are dealing with them its inevitable that they are gonna cheat, so its either you accept it or just get a regular man
"Each of us lives dependent and bound by our, individual's knowledge and awareness, and all that is what we call 'REALITY', however, both knowledge and awareness are equivocal one's reality is another's illusion. We all live inside our fantasies"
I truly feel like it's not just us watchers (operators) who are learning things, it's also bo Sino, Mtho, Thato etc who are becoming wiser and more knowledgeable with each episode... I'm saying this because this is one of, if not my favourite episode because of how enticing the topics were (especially the heartbreak chat). 😭And also... I'm still asking for an episode that will involve topics about teenagers and the latest generation. Please do it also😭
mans were cooking on this one 🤔🔥 but thing is , gents giving girls advice about how gents operate is like a fisherman trying to explain to a fish how bait works. The fish doesn’t see the world from the fisherman’s perspective, so the advice rarely sticks or makes sense to them.🤐😪 27:15 "girls don't see potential they want finished products"🚶♂
This is the most beautiful podcast ever for me cant lie, feelings are well expressed and I've realized something different about brother sino's personality.🙏🥺
Guys with no lies u guys are really cooking and cooking today I rushed from work to come watch this episode and this was a wonderful episode guys keep it up ….!!!! Commenting from Namibia and um a true and proper operator for long now guys also..!!! Let’s ashkarain the banganoys with the sbatjetje to the highest level always..!!! Shout out to Open Chats Podcast with their hardworkings .!!!! Let’s not forget to press the Subscribe button, like , share and comment!!!!! Alsoooo u guy let’s help the pod to grow ✊🏾✊🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Ey sino I thought I was the only one bro ,still going through the heartbreak brother mtho does not know the feeling I feel you bro especially when u find your type I haven't healed as yet it's really hard 😢
Brother Lefa must become a resident, he cooks. Mtho, Sino, Lefa and Busi owe us an episode. Also, Sino must operate there by Busi, they’re a match. Definitely made for each other.
the advice I can give to all guys out there... whenever you see a beautiful girl, always remember theres always a guy out there thats sick of her or doesnt even want to see her face
sino is very wise....both mtho and sino are right in the issue of relationships it really depends on an individual because we are different as per person so it is possible...thato is also right this convos everyone is kind of right because everyone has what works for them.
Being happy about solving a geometry problem is like level 0 of the dopamine rush. Imagine the dopamine level of fixing a civil+electrical design of a critical system at one of the leading process plants in South Africa, crazy dopamine rush.
My chate bout "Insecurity" is that it's a word thrown around with know depth of thought to it. People don't understand that in place of insecurity is SECURITY. It's your responsibility in a relationship to make your partner feel secured just as it's their responsibility to make you feel secured. The moment someone doesn't give you security or make you feel secured they become insecure. When your partner is insecure, it only says alot about you just like it says alot about them when you in turn feel insecure... You're not making them feel secured.
🚨 Let’s Hit that Like Button Operators
My Bhanganoyi is ready 😂😂
It's time for operations💯
Straight from Citrusdal😂
Chief Can we have Letlhogonolo for 1 episode before the year ends
Thato slowly be showing symptoms of empty head 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
VOTE FOR CHANGE✊✊....... WE WANNA SEE U MAMA KA BWOY 🙏🤔🤣🤣🤣
yes brother sino bring mama ka boy
Mama ka Boii asb chief😢
Yes please Ndofaya
Yes operator Mama ka boy must handle the mic🎉🎉😂😂
On a real one 😂
Heartbreaks can change a man ,Sino is cooking 🔥
Yeah Mtho hasn't been in real love 😂🤞, it's always your first love too.
Drop the timestamp quick😭😭😭 the intro got Me hooked! I'll watch the Ep. after work.
It's turning us into wild animals bro cause in this era we no longer use heart to love
😂😂Ndofaya is employee of the month, he never misses an episode.
Thato is only 22, in her peak, wait till she’s 30, the conversation is definitely going to change.
What if it won't change?
😂😂😂😂would be tough for her guy@@nkgabisengcamille3160
@@nkgabisengcamille3160 it’s impossible
@roycolours
Teenagers have many preferences but wen they reach 30+ age the whole thing changes.
she’ll start settling for anything less 🤣
Brother Mtho's looks when Thato went to answer her phone during Podcast, was priceless 😂
I saw jealousy in his face ayy dating at work is not for everyone
@@iam_jwelz 😂😂 Kanti it was her man who called, I thought it was an emergency.
@@OfentseMogapi Ah ! It's finished 🤣😂
Ah it was finished for her!!😂😂😂
I think if someone like Mtho would fall deep in love for real, the heartbreak would be even worse for him because he doesn’t have the emotional tools to deal with it because he’s not used to being emotional.
You are cooking, but the stove is off
😂@@LeonChabalala
@@LeonChabalala 😆😂
@@unorthodox3593 EXACTLY! 😭😭😭😭😄😄😄😄😅. Yerrr the way I was screaming at the crib😅. Worse uMtho umdala - how does he not know that everyman has their Kryptonite. Yhuuu Mtho ndiyakoyikisela ntang' am😄😄🙆🏾♂️😅
@@lukhanyisobrukwe5980 lol 😅
I’ve been here since 2023 and im extremely happy with the growth chiefs let’s continue operating on the highest level❤
Yei when Sino said a guy needs a heartbreak to grow...100%..it's painful 😏but a necessary process👌😅
Character development
@Mwansa_jr 100% bro!!
@@kennethmogaleleshilo9185 Yep it removes the brain fog and complacency when you're in a relationship.
Heartbreak is mandatory for character building. It necessary to ensure that logic prevails more than emotions as a man.
Gents, Thato is in her early twenties - she will never compromise😏. The world is at her feet. She is literally incapable of understanding where Brother Mtho is coming from.
What I don't understand about Thato's logic is this: Just because he's not struggling when you meet that doesn't mean that there he'll never struggle - inde lendlela
As long as there is ''seen'' progress in your struggle brother.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 too much regularity
@@seciliaindila5128 I hear the 'seen' progress chat, but there's some naivity to that chat. E.g. I could go braindead - where's the 'seen' progress there mntase? Men want a woman who'll die for them because we know we're expected to die for her. Now, how can I be sure she'll die for me if she's worrying about 'seen' progress?
@@lukhanyisobrukwe5980 My brother, expecting someone to stick with you through being brain dead until you die is naive.
What she’s saying is that start somewhere so that when tough times come I know with certainty that you are capable of being someone because I’ve seen it. Not these guessing games of will he make it and if he makes it, will he stay loyal to me.
@unorthodox3593 I admit that that specific example is naive neh - but that example was made to illustrate a situation where my ability to get the things which attracted the woman are no longer possible due to circumstances out of my control; the point being that as men we wann know how if she's here even if my things.
I hear what you're saying about having evidence that the man has made it before. MY question is what if the man never makes it back again? Coz once peak physical beauty is gone it ain't never coming back again, but the man is expected to stay.
"Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
There are memes about how woman will ask you if you'd still love her if she was a worm - to see of you're love is true. Men want the same assurance; if they didn't have nothing would yout love still remain true. Coz while she'll never turn into a worm - the mam can lose everything and never get it back
Operators today’s episode was very mind-opening and educational regarding relationships, money and heartbreak. A breath of fresh air from Sunday, Keep askarianing the banganoy on the spejeje levol 😂❤
It is so beautiful😭❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yeah Thato is correct,Young Stunna is different,he uses emotions when he performs and you could see and feel it,Daliwonga is bringing a catchy voice that will make the crowd go crazy
the best podcast of 2024 period all the way from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼
Thato is noticing Mtho . I love the chemistry between these two 😊
Mtho is cooking with the emotional chat we are not the same
@@Molebogeng03 Ngoanesu its not about being the same. As logical as Mtho is, he's Kryptonite is out there somewhere. Yena he must just say he hasn't met her😄😅. These streets favour no man😄
I used see the clips on tik tok and i didnt take it serious until i bumped into full podcast on youtube...MTHO & SINO are my favs now
Out the gate with a fire chat🔥🔥🔥🔥 I've never paid this much attention 😅 I loved this one. Thato understands what the guys are saying, she just doesn't wanna struggle 🤣🤣🤣 Thato's age showed in this episode cause of her perspective
The most educational episode even myself i now understand that as men we not the same at all.
Here's what I've learnt in my 21 years of life - You don't necessarily need to be burnt to learn a lesson. Although one out of the two, is more likely to play it safe and the other not so much. Now the benefit of the one who didn't go through the same struggle is, yes he's more open to take risks but he's also equipped to see bs from a distant. Now that's the difference between Mtho and Sino
Busi must come back
Nah, Please brother Mtho keep Busi in sunday episode angeke we don't want beauty without brains in tuesday please ene no offense I'm just saying
@LethaboNape yes true hawu
😂😂😂😂😂@@LethaboNape
Ehh 😂😂😂@@LethaboNape
@@LethaboNapeyou put it down nicely chief, I agree
I'm so impressed by the depth and nuance of your podcast's message. You're tackling complex issues with such care and sensitivity...keep up the good work 🔥✊️
Yei when Sino said a guy needs a heartbreak to grow...100%..it's painful but necessary process👌
So guys Sino really plugged us with a new Lingo!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
What Sino is saying is true, being hurt by women made me become less affectionate to this gender. I gave my all and she messed me up. The bare minimum is the best for these huns😂😂
ahhh! we learn chief 😂
You have graduated
😂😂🙌 coz wow
@@godbillion_nathan straight 😂🤞
Well done my son you've graduated.
You cooked in this episode. Now these are real conversations.
I still can't believe that Sino is in a serious relationship😂.... Big Upz🙌
Serious relationship when he kissed Busi on Sundays episode 🌚
Which one also now chief 😂😂😂
Alright today's episode is talking more realistic stuff🔥🔥💯Sino is cooking today bro
Let’s operate on the banganoi!❤️🔥 Podcast of the year with another dope episode-level!🔥✔️🤝
I’m only watching the episode now…bro I must say this is by far the best episode for me…Pastor Ndofaya cooked when he said if you find your type leave..my types always dribble me 😭😭..now I’m using the compromising formula danko 😂🎉
@@SibusisoZulu-u4i This is the only way not to get too invested into someone😂🤞
Pastor Ndofaya is cooking 👏👏👏
I don't wanna lie ,I feel like this is the best podcats for our generation (ma2000) I enjoy each and every episode 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Mtho is a genius ❤much love broo
Most girls who are considered 10/10 often choose partners rated around a 5 or 6 because they feel secure knowing others are less likely to interfere in such relationships.
A bus is mostly cheaper than a taxi unless it’s festive season.
This is the Sino we want. Being real ! 🔥
It's so true prepare yourself for disappointments or anything. Teach yourself to have a life goes on mentally it will help you from a lot of things
I must say i love how brother Mtho explains how man view love differently to women perception of love
Big on "get yourself heartbroken as a man"
I've learnt a lot from our favourite pastor today.😭😭
"A man who asks you to catch a taxi to see him? 🚩🚩" But she uses a taxi everyday to work
Thato is styling Mtho nicely. Bro's drip is improving. 👊🏾
😂😂
Im here for the Thato & Mtho combo.🤣🔥🔥
as a OPERATOR, ive never been this happy for you guys . Congrats for winning PODCAST OF THE YEAR and please dont forget to cut cheesekop guys🤣🤣
Sino is right on the heartbreak chat❤
Sino cooked with the emotional segment(subtopic), when you are deeply in love. In most cases logic becomes blurry and delusional take a toll since you are willing to do anything for your companion. Full products have impacted the dating market negatively, social media is a contributing factor also.
Even the nonchalant ones still get heartbreak.
exactly, love is very powerful, it beats logic at everytime, but i guess he wont relate because he never get into that point of being in love with someone
Operators let's watch the ads and support open chats...
Off-the-dome Vs Freestyle:
Off-the-dope: coming up with the words as you go.
Freestyle: pre-written bars that can be rapped anywhere anytime - hence the 'free' in freestyle
Guys Thato did say one thing that hit me hard. She said if she genuinely loved the guy, she could even go to limpopo by foot. She added that she has done many things for a guy because of being in love. So to me, Thato acts a certain way and at a certain level but deep down when she is in love she can do anything for her man and be understanding.
You know the saying, "Intombi eshelwa ngamanga" - as men, we often see love through the lens of respect. When your woman respects you, that's when you truly know she loves you. What initially attracts us to women is their beauty, but over time, we learn to love the person for the qualities they possess and the traits we seek in a partner
It’s good to have her back ❤️
"Work hard to be successful in academics but also know how to be a gardener" some wise words sir.
Why are people so pressed by the girl's preferences? The problem is, y'all probably want people to come on the podcast and lie. You can tell by Thato's lifestyle that travelling by taxi is not in her means. She does not travel by taxi herself and she should go that low for a man she isn't even officially dating yet? Aowa🙌!!! And the honest truth is no one really prefers broke men if we are being realistic. You have your reasons for dating broke men which is okay. But if you could magically make him financially stable you would. WHY? because you would prefer if he were like that.
But you got to understand that to get a certain caliber of man comes with its pros and cons, most of this man with money have options, so if you are dealing with them its inevitable that they are gonna cheat, so its either you accept it or just get a regular man
@@LeonChabalala Regular is regular right? not broke🥲
"Each of us lives dependent and bound by our, individual's knowledge and awareness, and all that is what we call 'REALITY', however, both knowledge and awareness are equivocal one's reality is another's illusion. We all live inside our fantasies"
~Itachi Uchiha
I truly feel like it's not just us watchers (operators) who are learning things, it's also bo Sino, Mtho, Thato etc who are becoming wiser and more knowledgeable with each episode... I'm saying this because this is one of, if not my favourite episode because of how enticing the topics were (especially the heartbreak chat).
😭And also... I'm still asking for an episode that will involve topics about teenagers and the latest generation.
Please do it also😭
mans were cooking on this one 🤔🔥
but thing is , gents giving girls advice about how gents operate is like a fisherman trying to explain to a fish how bait works. The fish doesn’t see the world from the fisherman’s perspective, so the advice rarely sticks or makes sense to them.🤐😪
27:15 "girls don't see potential they want finished products"🚶♂
You cooked here my brother
@@AwandeDlamini-xn5gx definitely.
Cooked
Gents myeken u Thato ikhanda licinile shes still young even upstairs uzazifundela in life. Life is the best teacher.
My morning and before bed podcast.and now my afternoon podcast🎉😅❤❤❤
37:37😂 I love Thato please! She's so unapologetic.
what a proper way of having conversations with different views and still understand each other♥♥♥♥♥
What pastor ndo fayah was cooking here 58:00 is emotional intelligence 💯🙌🏾
Nike tracksuits Sino = 2017 Christiano Ronaldo Noodles hair😭🤣🔥❤
You cooked chief 😂
Operators notice everything 😂😂😂
Podcast of the Decade❤- I don’t want to argue about that😊
This is the most beautiful podcast ever for me cant lie, feelings are well expressed and I've realized something different about brother sino's personality.🙏🥺
Heartbreak teaches you as a man to be alert all the time
So happy to see Kea back on the podcast ❤😂
As a coloured we love love that is y we loyal we can stick with u tru it all even if u leave us but we give love with everything plus patience
An ifw colored huns🥹🙅♂️🧢
Guys with no lies u guys are really cooking and cooking today I rushed from work to come watch this episode and this was a wonderful episode guys keep it up ….!!!! Commenting from Namibia and um a true and proper operator for long now guys also..!!!
Let’s ashkarain the banganoys with the sbatjetje to the highest level always..!!!
Shout out to Open Chats Podcast with their hardworkings .!!!! Let’s not forget to press the Subscribe button, like , share and comment!!!!!
Alsoooo u guy let’s help the pod to grow ✊🏾✊🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
LOVE ALL THE WAY FROM NAMIBIA
one of the best episodes so far ur guys podcast has given me a new outlook on life
This one definitely falls under my top 3 episodes 🔥
Ey sino I thought I was the only one bro ,still going through the heartbreak brother mtho does not know the feeling I feel you bro especially when u find your type I haven't healed as yet it's really hard 😢
Brother Lefa must become a resident, he cooks. Mtho, Sino, Lefa and Busi owe us an episode. Also, Sino must operate there by Busi, they’re a match. Definitely made for each other.
Brother Sino is our mentor 🔥🔥
This Kea girl has a great body and personality 😉
This episode was super educational❤ our minds were emancipated chief 😂❤
got my exam results, was watching this podcast while studying, but guess what, I passed😂❤i'm now a proud Operator🤞😅
S/O plss
That sino kiss on busi Sunday .....i am still full of envy🤧.
@@BusaniSiyabulela I'm surprised it wasn't brought up during this episode😂
the advice I can give to all guys out there... whenever you see a beautiful girl, always remember theres always a guy out there thats sick of her or doesnt even want to see her face
I always prefer Tuesday vibes than Sunday 😮
The podcast is my number one show because ngisuka from college to home to watch the show❤❤.... vote for change
Mtho and Sino haaiii haaii😂😂😂your laughter is the end of me
sino is very wise....both mtho and sino are right in the issue of relationships it really depends on an individual because we are different as per person so it is possible...thato is also right this convos everyone is kind of right because everyone has what works for them.
The Way Sino and Thato Defend Young Stunna ❤😂 I liked it It's Finished also They Outdid 😅 themselves 🫡🫂✊🙌🙌🙌Big Shout ✊ to Stunna Big Love Bro🫡🙌🙌
Thato sthandwa se nhliziyo yami 😭😍
Dont put your type on a pedestal, remind yourself shes a human, calm down, be ready because shes coming to finish you.
one of the best episodes I have watched , you guys are fantastic. Watching from the country of hakuna matata 💪
Brother Sino Cooked there ☝️
This was one the best shows , everything felt soo real i learnt a lot especially on the second half of the show.
Please love is kind not painful. You just have to both love each other 😊
This podcast is my free therapy session 😊
Being happy about solving a geometry problem is like level 0 of the dopamine rush. Imagine the dopamine level of fixing a civil+electrical design of a critical system at one of the leading process plants in South Africa, crazy dopamine rush.
2Hours episode loved it brother mtho❤🔥❤🔥
Sino is a clever guy he knows how the game works..there are hartbreaks you never recover in a lifetime,chieffff its tuffff..
My chate bout "Insecurity" is that it's a word thrown around with know depth of thought to it.
People don't understand that in place of insecurity is SECURITY.
It's your responsibility in a relationship to make your partner feel secured just as it's their responsibility to make you feel secured. The moment someone doesn't give you security or make you feel secured they become insecure.
When your partner is insecure, it only says alot about you just like it says alot about them when you in turn feel insecure... You're not making them feel secured.
I agree with Sino u can't recover from ur type where y'all have everything in common 🤞🏼💯
Sino is really cooking when it comes to relationship advices
Sino I like that you can feel energy
After this episode Mtho is really my match made from heaven 😊😂
I agree with Sino on the love argument
1 minute to go
Watching from Zimbabwe
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