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  • @alexandergrace5350
    @alexandergrace5350  2 месяца назад +236

    Disappointing to see all these Alpha Bros in the comments shaming other men for enjoying video games.
    Watch full length version of this video here: www.patreon.com/posts/101150586?

    • @screamingmetal1598
      @screamingmetal1598 2 месяца назад +3

      You should check out a show called 90 Day Fiance, they have tons of bad and good behavior dynamics between men and women that you can use as exmaples

    • @tiefblau2780
      @tiefblau2780 2 месяца назад +7

      We are Soilders in anything tech , front lines , building shelters , in anything...
      That did not change during the stone ages , it did not change now , and in the future it will never change.
      Bio we are created that way , Bee Hives , Animals , mammals , reptile .... All have its harmony.
      The only matter is , when is the next fall of rome?

    • @jeffreyrusselljr7713
      @jeffreyrusselljr7713 2 месяца назад +12

      Just another reason not to get married.

    • @aaronmicalowe
      @aaronmicalowe 2 месяца назад +5

      @@jeffreyrusselljr7713 The happier you are, the harder it is to avoid marriage.

    • @luisdetomaso867
      @luisdetomaso867 2 месяца назад +14

      Alexander, I'm a bit surprised and disappointed that you'd encourage men to spend their precious time staring at a screen. Video games are literally the junk food of hobbies. Learn a skill. Play a physical sport. Create music or art. Build something awesome. A huge aspect of masculinity is about engaging with the physical - not virtual escapism

  • @takeonedaily
    @takeonedaily 2 месяца назад +1556

    This man has 5 other men who would haul their PC to his house. Thats a win in and of itself.

    • @blackrack2008
      @blackrack2008 2 месяца назад +126

      Ikr? How freaking difficult is it to find friends like that at that age

    • @FoxhoundVIX
      @FoxhoundVIX 2 месяца назад +63

      ​@@blackrack2008 They're most likely old friends 😂

    • @quinnfable2694
      @quinnfable2694 2 месяца назад +115

      LAN parties and so epic. Relic of a bygone era.

    • @TheBazino
      @TheBazino 2 месяца назад +63

      Yes and he is going to marry and it will stop instantly because she will make him stop. Because now it's "happy wife happy life" not "we are responsible for our own happiness".

    • @TheZettaze
      @TheZettaze 2 месяца назад +25

      Also, look at how clean this setup is, knowledgeable and respectful.

  • @NGMonocrom
    @NGMonocrom 2 месяца назад +1149

    If that man marries THAT woman, he will regret it and soon be divorced.

    • @PhunkBustA
      @PhunkBustA 2 месяца назад +20

      was boutta say the same thing

    • @LetMeEatDem
      @LetMeEatDem 2 месяца назад +30

      Would have nobody to blame but himself.

    • @TheKCaryer
      @TheKCaryer 2 месяца назад +56

      Absolutely correct. She would be bitching if he did go out to the bars. She had not interest in video games and that pisses her off. This dude better not marry her. Never accept shame and blame. If she is doing this now, wait until the attitude and contempt you will receive during marriage. Listen to an older man. DANGER!!! Run to the CHOPPER NOW!!!!

    • @kdnofyudbn5918
      @kdnofyudbn5918 2 месяца назад +8

      And then she will take half his wealth!

    • @lukmanalghdamsi3189
      @lukmanalghdamsi3189 2 месяца назад +6

      I hope he sees this video first

  • @formdoggie5
    @formdoggie5 2 месяца назад +715

    Women cannot stand to see a man happy when the cause isn't her.
    It unironically makes them furious.
    In the 40-60's it was the radio.
    In the 70-90's it was the TV.
    In the 90-20's its been computers.
    And the craziest part?
    Theyve been on their phones the entire time seeking even more attention.
    Boggles the mind.

    • @Dirty_Dumb_NAFO_Scum
      @Dirty_Dumb_NAFO_Scum 2 месяца назад

      Postmodern women are overgrown adolescents, they have no business criticizing the entertainment habits of anyone else.

    • @settheray2jerry1
      @settheray2jerry1 2 месяца назад +48

      They want to be able to control you, so they can make you happy, or conversely take away all that happiness and make you miserable on a whim

    • @XAn0nymousX0
      @XAn0nymousX0 2 месяца назад

      ​@settheray2jerry1 and that is the dark side of female nature right there.

    • @rcmunro22
      @rcmunro22 2 месяца назад +5

      This was good.

    • @sk6056
      @sk6056 2 месяца назад +26

      @formdoggie5 very old joke: Why do women close their eyes when they're kissing? Because they don't want to see a man happy and having a good time.

  • @ASENEBS281294
    @ASENEBS281294 2 месяца назад +1004

    Women hate that all attention is not directed at her.

    • @FraIvan
      @FraIvan 2 месяца назад +45

      Absolutely, and to add overall shallowness & stupidity.

    • @edheldude
      @edheldude 2 месяца назад +10

      💯

    • @edheldude
      @edheldude 2 месяца назад +48

      My ex used to be jealous to a cat which I petted before we dated.

    • @tiefblau2780
      @tiefblau2780 2 месяца назад +18

      We are Soilders in anything tech , front lines , building shelters , in anything...
      That did not change during the stone ages , it did not change now , and in the future it will never change.
      Bio we are created that way , Bee Hives , Animals , mammals , reptile .... All have its harmony.
      The only matter is , when is the next fall of rome?

    • @Zxcvbueisn444
      @Zxcvbueisn444 2 месяца назад +31

      Yes correct. Real reason found. Women take an initial interest in your hobbies simply to see if they involve other women, money or alot of your time.

  • @chrisschultz6129
    @chrisschultz6129 2 месяца назад +548

    If you’re not toxic and cheating on a woman; then she doesn’t get to claim being a victim; which is what they want because then they get free therapy from tiktok.

    • @charliebrown4799
      @charliebrown4799 2 месяца назад

      Women love bad boys, tolerate good guys, and absolutely HATE good men. Tells everything u need to know about women. If I had a dollar for every woman that left me because I lacked weakness/cowardice, I'd be a millionaire. If I had a dollar for every woman that found my Marine Corps values attractive, I'd have like $2.75.
      There are a few good women left out here. Just gotta be patient

    • @jomojojo6603
      @jomojojo6603 2 месяца назад +33

      Women will find ANYTHING to play the victim. Just look at the first video. Gaming boyfriend. Oh, woe is me.

    • @edheldude
      @edheldude 2 месяца назад +19

      Tiktok for women is like alcohol is to men: great if you can't afford therapy, and don't want to be healed.

    • @daleford8621
      @daleford8621 2 месяца назад +16

      ​@jomojojo6603 yep. How dare he stay at home where I can be sure he's not out cheating and can help her if she needs it. She could even participate in the fun with him if she wanted by gaming together.
      However, that would require her to ditch the sanctimonious attitude.

    • @nathandobbs7540
      @nathandobbs7540 2 месяца назад +26

      Women love toxic relationships because it gives them an excuse to be promiscious without any consequences while getting the benefits of committment from their partner

  • @FleetAdmiral833
    @FleetAdmiral833 2 месяца назад +307

    If he marries her then he has to be ready for a lifetime of hell.

    • @poopoppy
      @poopoppy 2 месяца назад

      I disagree. He would sit on his ass, and game all day. She is there to keep him on his toes.
      I would of never seen ballet or watched an orchestra, go to an art gallery. If I wasn't dragged out of the house by a woman.
      Some men need to be kept in check. He for sure does.

    • @TheKCaryer
      @TheKCaryer 2 месяца назад +31

      Not a lifetime of hell, maybe 6 months of good sex. a kid or two, and then utter contempt and then based on her feelings, she files for divorce at age 32 thinking she can be wifed again.

    • @steveburke7675
      @steveburke7675 2 месяца назад +8

      and....according to Bill Burr..."is this the line where I lose half my sh*t?"

    • @godoftwinkies574
      @godoftwinkies574 2 месяца назад +1

      4 years tops.

  • @MrShell311
    @MrShell311 2 месяца назад +470

    How dare he have friends and hobbies. Bet she does absolutely nothing but scroll TikTok

    • @markd_aus9809
      @markd_aus9809 2 месяца назад +34

      or instagram

    • @LordofRacoons
      @LordofRacoons 2 месяца назад

      And or blows other blokes

    • @SoundsFromBeyond
      @SoundsFromBeyond 2 месяца назад

      I bet you're correct. In general, most women don't have hobbies. They can't break free of their mental prison of requiring constant validation and comparing their lives to other people. Which is why they're miserable and hellbent on making everyone around them miserable. Notice how she isn't spending time with her "friends"? Sadly, her man is probably clueless and will stay with her long enough to let her ruin his life before he wakes up.

    • @kapasitorcpt9249
      @kapasitorcpt9249 2 месяца назад

      Bingo. It's the attention

    • @David_1789
      @David_1789 2 месяца назад +5

      He needs to get a girlfriend who also plays video games. The women who don’t even dabble are stuck in 00’s anti-“nerd” culture.

  • @michaellombardi5831
    @michaellombardi5831 2 месяца назад +264

    NEVER STAY WITH ANYONE PUBLICLY SHAMING YOU, MAN OR WOMAN.

    • @Okunniger_Volker
      @Okunniger_Volker 2 месяца назад +3

      This.

    • @soulward6334
      @soulward6334 2 месяца назад +3

      Yep. She'll do it again next opportunity she has.

    • @Thinker1985
      @Thinker1985 2 месяца назад +3

      Even someone privately shaming you for things like "playing games with your buddies" is a red flag. Hard to find a woman who won't do it, though.

    • @CalebsAquarium
      @CalebsAquarium 2 месяца назад +3

      Absolutely. If I had a date and she pulls out the phone for the purpose of recording me for social media shame, that's it. I'm walking out. Bye.

    • @ZavaXavier
      @ZavaXavier 2 месяца назад +3

      I agree it's emotional and mental abuse.

  • @thelaggymonster
    @thelaggymonster 2 месяца назад +261

    She doesn't like that he has more fun with his friends than with her

    • @nerozero_
      @nerozero_ 2 месяца назад +21

      Yes, we should always be clowns and entertain them so they don't get bored.

    • @popsfursmurf
      @popsfursmurf 2 месяца назад +22

      Your assuming she has friends.

    • @bladeedge481
      @bladeedge481 2 месяца назад +2

      More like finding the next bf or someone better while she's in a relationship.after they get bored with the current bf they have.

    • @agoogleuseranonymous2658
      @agoogleuseranonymous2658 2 месяца назад +1

      Let's face it being with a woman is not fun. It's work. Like bantering and dark humor .... the end goal is sex. It's a lot more fun to play video games than this boss battle of pleasing a woman.

    • @localbod
      @localbod 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@popsfursmurf 💯🎯

  • @Mcfctreble23
    @Mcfctreble23 2 месяца назад +290

    Women can’t stand their husbands/boyfriends having fun without them.

    • @jeremycash1990
      @jeremycash1990 2 месяца назад +24

      For most women you could take off the "without them" and your statement is still true.

    • @theperfectbeing
      @theperfectbeing 2 месяца назад +8

      It's not even just that, it's also that it costs resources AND she has no way leverage it socially. You best believe that if he was doing something that was considered badass that she could brag about then she wouldn't have any issue with (things such as MMA, racing cars, etc)

    • @paulx7620
      @paulx7620 2 месяца назад

      And of course they wouldn't allow her to join I'm sure..... What a horrible human.

    • @plav032
      @plav032 2 месяца назад +5

      @@theperfectbeing bullshit, I get as much flak for my race car as I do the simulator to keep my racing skills sharp in the off season. It's just "games and toys" to them, they don't understand what we are achieving.

    • @henryford2950
      @henryford2950 2 месяца назад

      Most of them are basically Meghan Markles. Pure malignant narcissism at work here.

  • @kristianniss5201
    @kristianniss5201 2 месяца назад +250

    Men are obviously different, but there are two things that will 100.0% guarantee that I break it off with a woman.
    1) Unfaithfulness. Flirting with other men ect.
    2) Publicly disrespects me. TikTok is viewed by more than a billion people. Doesn't get more public than that.
    If I was him, I would cancel the wedding and pack her suitcases the moment I saw this tiktok.

    • @Aleksei_Lopatin
      @Aleksei_Lopatin 2 месяца назад +29

      Filming tiktoks is redflag

    • @blue-phoenix115
      @blue-phoenix115 2 месяца назад +7

      It depends on how she reacts when you address it. Otherwise you will never find a woman because everyone has red flags.

    • @marklittle8805
      @marklittle8805 2 месяца назад +1

      Women who hate men with hobbies are a red flag. My wife from day one told me she didn't need me to smother her. She had things she did with her mom and she had her garden and priorities doing things around the house. Hell, I think she has more hobbies than I do

    • @nathandobbs7540
      @nathandobbs7540 2 месяца назад +16

      Using tiktok is a redflag

    • @abelmcguire1951
      @abelmcguire1951 2 месяца назад +9

      @@blue-phoenix115 chances are she will not apologies so yes pack her bags!

  • @roadscholarwarrior
    @roadscholarwarrior 2 месяца назад +207

    So she would prefer he is out drinking and getting into all kinds of trouble? She should be happy he is chill and hanging with buddies at home. She needs a damn hobby

    • @brucenadeau2172
      @brucenadeau2172 2 месяца назад +54

      she want him out of the house so she can cheat on him

    • @jeremycash1990
      @jeremycash1990 2 месяца назад

      Her hobby is being the irritating rock stuck in her boyfriends shoe.

    • @TheBazino
      @TheBazino 2 месяца назад +41

      1) She needs the drama it would produce if he went out to drink and got into trouble.
      2) She wants to cheat with some non-gamer chad while he is out.

    • @markcoroneos7811
      @markcoroneos7811 2 месяца назад +4

      @@TheBazino100%

    • @localbod
      @localbod 2 месяца назад

      Most women are empty and need to be entertained.
      They also crave drama and attention.
      Some women do have hobbies and passionate interests but they are in the minority.

  • @Rievven
    @Rievven 2 месяца назад +88

    My grandfather refused to buy a new tractor. Instead he spent countless hours fixing it. I suspect this was not to save money but to have a "valid" excuse to sit in the barn alone.

    • @wat5513
      @wat5513 2 месяца назад +10

      My grandpa visited us for 2 weeks when i was young. Nothing is overtly said but looking at it now, i realize that he most likely was avoiding my grandma. Don't get me wrong, my gramps and grandma loved and doted on me. But my grandma was terrible to gramps, neighbor and even to my mum.

    • @randyindvik1171
      @randyindvik1171 2 месяца назад +4

      A wise man.

    • @AIGenerated
      @AIGenerated Месяц назад +1

      That's why retired men love their gardening and fixing things around the house, less yapping.

    • @TheRoadprincess
      @TheRoadprincess Месяц назад +1

      Or maybe he just enjoyed the challenge? I have know men that liked keeping things running beyond all expectations. So cool.

  • @kristianniss5201
    @kristianniss5201 2 месяца назад +169

    Alexander, didn't you read the list of 15000 things men shouldn't do? he broke a ton of icks there. Smiled. Had fun. Was with his friends. Stayed home. Played a computer game, and probably a lot more I overlooked or forgot. He was also breathing. That's an ick as well.

    • @LiberPater777
      @LiberPater777 2 месяца назад

      Probably even wears a seat belt and uses turn signals. Double ick

    • @localbod
      @localbod 2 месяца назад +5

      Nice. 😅😉

    • @Thinker1985
      @Thinker1985 2 месяца назад +2

      Haha. And what about the (honey-do) list of 150000 things he should be doing instead?
      Luckily, there's plenty of space to write that list right below the couple of lines that makes up men's list of what "women should do for and shouldn't do to their men". Oh wait, even that shortlist, women didn't read or are incapable of abiding by.

    • @Kyle-fp5lm
      @Kyle-fp5lm 2 месяца назад +2

      Poor guy exists, another ick achieved… Mhmhmhm

    • @patrickriarchy6054
      @patrickriarchy6054 2 месяца назад

      The whole ick thing is moronic at best. They really never grow out of being 15 mentally do they?.

  • @edwardsanchez3708
    @edwardsanchez3708 2 месяца назад +143

    She is going to take him for everything he's got, he just doesn't know it yet

    • @user-jd3cx9rn8m
      @user-jd3cx9rn8m 2 месяца назад +9

      She will also purposely destroy his friendships during that time as well By having sex with Warner more of them and turning them against each other, forcing them to pick sides, By saying that's she was abused

    • @-lord1754
      @-lord1754 2 месяца назад +9

      ​@@user-jd3cx9rn8mIf these guys lug all their gaming pcs to his house just for lan parties they are probably loyal enough to never do anything even if she comes on to them lol

    • @edwardsanchez3708
      @edwardsanchez3708 2 месяца назад +1

      @-lord1754 When I was a young teenager, a lot of girls used to like me and they would even come looking for me at my house or even my friend's houses. My friends, the guys used to always give me crap and even get angry and get into with the girls and they would embarrass me and give me crap about them showing up at their house looking for me. Come to find out, 100% of the guys were trying to sleep with 100% of the girls while giving me crap about the girls. That stayed with me, and I never trust another man when it comes to women

  • @Aleksamson
    @Aleksamson 2 месяца назад +222

    I was dating this girl for 3 months spending time with her every day. I owned a small business (watch store) and one weekend I was busy renovating the place, working, cleaning the store all day long through Saturday and Sunday so I could open on Monday. To work, to make a living from my shop that was paying for all our dinners, gas, trips...everything. She complained that I don't care about her that I'm neglecting her, that I don't have time for her...That was our first fight as a couple. And the last.

    • @SpaceCaptainJ
      @SpaceCaptainJ 2 месяца назад +45

      Women don’t understand trade-offs and compromise

    • @TRINITY-ks6nw
      @TRINITY-ks6nw 2 месяца назад +7

      Alex
      WISDOM

    • @moneyobsessed
      @moneyobsessed 2 месяца назад

      Women live deadbeats bcs they have all the time in the day to give "attentions"

    • @bldgy
      @bldgy 2 месяца назад +36

      I saw a youtube video a while back where they were asking people on the street which was more important, their family or their job?
      Women immediately answered "family" without thinking.
      Men were visibly confused by the question, werent sure how to answer, and most of the ones showed on the video said their job with noticeable uncertainty.
      The take away, of course, was that men dont care about their families as much as women, and even if they did answer family, they had to think about it. The women making the video and the women they asked didnt even consider the fact that a man's job is how his family is able to eat, be housed, and be clothed. They didnt understand that the question men were hearing was "which is more important? Feeding your family or spending time with them?"

    • @salguodrolyat2594
      @salguodrolyat2594 2 месяца назад +14

      If she truly y loved you, she would help you with the cleaning every weekend. 🤔

  • @iXiuxe717
    @iXiuxe717 2 месяца назад +38

    Ive said it for years; if your girl doesn’t have a hobby, she will force you to be her primary source of entertainment.

  • @Leispada
    @Leispada 2 месяца назад +107

    the fact that he got this multiplayer event up and going is in itself a huuuge win. Im a grown envious man

    • @techienate
      @techienate 2 месяца назад +7

      Same. Wish I had that many local friends I game with

  • @michaellombardi5831
    @michaellombardi5831 2 месяца назад +68

    She'd actually prefer he go out and cheat on her then she'd like him more because he's in demand.

    • @matthewzumbo9868
      @matthewzumbo9868 2 месяца назад

      Or she wants him out of the house so she can railed by the chad guy she claims to hate

    • @stevenc7877
      @stevenc7877 2 месяца назад

      Lol yea she's an idiot.

  • @Lucas-mf1tc
    @Lucas-mf1tc 2 месяца назад +39

    My ex wife couldn’t stand my cello , rock climbing and astronomy. Left me over a guy whose hobby was dealing and alcohol… he dumped her before the divorce paperwork was done.

    • @47coffee
      @47coffee 2 месяца назад +5

      LOL

    • @kennethcastillo9667
      @kennethcastillo9667 2 месяца назад +1

      Did she crawl back?

    • @Lucas-mf1tc
      @Lucas-mf1tc 2 месяца назад +9

      @@kennethcastillo9667 she’s too busy riding the carousel, but she is angry at me for doing better after divorce…. “Just not fair” she says.

  • @jchem
    @jchem 2 месяца назад +20

    Here is what no one tells you " you can not make a woman happy it is impossible"
    -Chris Rock

  • @alex_tucker
    @alex_tucker 2 месяца назад +15

    I would never date a woman who looks down on my hobbies. She doesn't have to be crazy about them, but she does have to respect them.

  • @cactaceous
    @cactaceous 2 месяца назад +47

    If my girl called me a “man child” publicly I would break up with her in a heart beat. She doesn’t respect him and knows he’ll still be her lap dog even if she disrespects him like that. She rode the carrousel and now is with Beta Bob for the security. Dude is clueless.

    • @RobertMorgan
      @RobertMorgan 2 месяца назад +10

      Would he let a stranger talk to him like that? No? Then why TF would you let a loved one talk to you like that? Is always my thought process.

    • @Gizziiusa
      @Gizziiusa 2 месяца назад +1

      yep. settled with ye olde beta provider.

    • @baddudecornpop7328
      @baddudecornpop7328 2 месяца назад

      Yeah she’s mad he’s not Chad thundercock from the Cancun foam party so she hates anything he does

  • @RR-bh8vd
    @RR-bh8vd 2 месяца назад +80

    To my brothers out there, heed Alexander's warnings. I married(for 23yrs) one of these evil creatures( 100% my fault I ignored or just didn't see the red flags). Within a few years I had: no real friends, my hobbies were looked down upon and there were always excuses not to see my family. I found out after I divorced her, while in therapy(still going) that she was a covert narcissist. Been divorced almost 2yrs doing my hobbies again, losing weight and started my own business. Stay vigilant brothers and really vet someone you are thinking about marrying.

    • @toaalta
      @toaalta 2 месяца назад

      Oof those cluster b people are truly evil. There's definitely a lot women out there with these illnesses out there and it's almost invisible to detect

    • @michaelradzichovsky9366
      @michaelradzichovsky9366 2 месяца назад +1

      Amen, brother. He speaks the truth. I had a similar experience.

    • @dougchapman4129
      @dougchapman4129 2 месяца назад +3

      I think the secret is not to get married or cohabitate. Protect yourself as all times.

    • @paulx7620
      @paulx7620 2 месяца назад +2

      Same every day is a party coming home to her not being there.

    • @MrAerospecial80
      @MrAerospecial80 2 месяца назад

      ​@@paulx7620I got to keep my house, so yeah🎉.

  • @Resident_Legal
    @Resident_Legal 2 месяца назад +74

    Video games offer rewards upon completion. Dates usually don’t.

    • @rw2382
      @rw2382 2 месяца назад +9

      And in game accomplishments.

    • @SpaceCaptainJ
      @SpaceCaptainJ 2 месяца назад +10

      Imagine planning date night only to end up arguing at the date

    • @svr5423
      @svr5423 2 месяца назад +5

      they also come with better graphics

    • @PremiumUserUltra
      @PremiumUserUltra 2 месяца назад

      ​@@SpaceCaptainJ so many times lol

    • @BryanFury-mi6eh
      @BryanFury-mi6eh 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@svr5423 something which is really underrated these days are the features, i mean you can have the best graphics in the world but if you just can run around in an Open world game and nothing else that game will suck, remember when games like GTA SA didn't had the best graphics but the variety of features were awesome, unfortunately this is forgotten these days and women doesn't have both of them wether it's graphics or features compared to games

  • @gotshpilkes
    @gotshpilkes 2 месяца назад +44

    A women's hobby is gossiping.

    • @Eaglemadhatter
      @Eaglemadhatter 2 месяца назад +2

      If they talk to you about other people they will talk about you to other peoples

    • @smcdonald9991
      @smcdonald9991 2 месяца назад +1

      Shopping is not a hobby.

  • @nathandobbs7540
    @nathandobbs7540 2 месяца назад +83

    I hope he leaves her, clearly she's planning to ruin his life

    • @thevisitor1012
      @thevisitor1012 2 месяца назад +3

      Yep, she'll never vocalize why exactly what he's doing is wrong. He's just expected to magically know how to act in all situations. And it's HIS fault if he can't meet that expectation.

    • @khaoscualdawath
      @khaoscualdawath 2 месяца назад +1

      @@thevisitor1012 On top of all that, he is having fun, while her preference that he never does that again, because it is not cool on social media...

    • @thevisitor1012
      @thevisitor1012 2 месяца назад

      @@khaoscualdawath If a man were to dictate everything his female partner did he'd be considered "abusive." I'm not sure why we as men tolerate it with women.

  • @Bjorn_R
    @Bjorn_R 2 месяца назад +78

    I dont know why its more acceptable to go out drinking in bars? That gaming situation looked wholesome af.

    • @anobeus4814
      @anobeus4814 2 месяца назад +8

      it's not "manly" enough

    • @kingkohli4952
      @kingkohli4952 2 месяца назад

      @@anobeus4814apparently it is so feminine to bash your fiancée online for clout? Modern women are a cursse

    • @RobertMorgan
      @RobertMorgan 2 месяца назад +15

      Does she not realize the ONLY reason for her man to go out and drink with the friends IS TO FIND A BETTER WOMAN.
      It's why women need to understand we feel that when they want to go out with their single friends. The only reason we do that is to get laid, so when they do it we assume they're trying to get laid be someone other than us.

    • @AlexanderJoneshttps
      @AlexanderJoneshttps 2 месяца назад +8

      I hate going out drinking would rather just be at home gaming

    • @erikw.418
      @erikw.418 2 месяца назад +1

      Exactly

  • @ytpah9823
    @ytpah9823 2 месяца назад +95

    hobbies women can do: make things, art (decorate things-not BUY decorations), music, learn cooking/preserving, gardening...

    • @jared2880
      @jared2880 2 месяца назад

      I’ve said it once before and I’ll say it again. The sexual aspect of a heterosexual relationship should be heterosexual, but the social aspect should be homosocial.
      Men have men hobbies and women have women hobbies. This doesn’t change when a man and woman partner up. Why can’t the girlfriend/wife be as satisfied with her female friends as the boyfriend/husband is with his male friends? So many women are boring these days and can only vibe out by getting wasted at a bar. It’s like women like getting wasted more than men though despite the stereotypes.

    • @mikeking683
      @mikeking683 2 месяца назад +11

      Learn cooking for $200 Alex

    • @SchrodingersMath
      @SchrodingersMath 2 месяца назад

      😳😄😁​@@mikeking683

    • @THX5000
      @THX5000 2 месяца назад

      They are REALLY good at: Gossip, complaining, creating drama, trying to get attention on social media, and hoeing.

    • @Babygrinch650
      @Babygrinch650 2 месяца назад +3

      @@mikeking683💀🤣

  • @daveg4417
    @daveg4417 2 месяца назад +8

    I'm 61 and single for the past 30 years. Every single guy that I know has hobbies, whether that is sports or video games or various clubs or even 3D model making. Every single woman that I know is always saying how bored she is and that her life is so tough, and they do nothing but scroll on social media and get into arguments with other people on there.

  • @Kanivalos80
    @Kanivalos80 2 месяца назад +68

    When i was younger (early 20s), me and my best friend could sit all day fixing our motorbikes, play videogames, talk for hours while having some beers. My gf didnt mind that much but my friend's gf was always " how can they have fun and talk all day and not get bored". Women are jealous of us being easy-going, easy to please with our hobbies. Deep down they envy male friendship as well.

    • @toseltreps1101
      @toseltreps1101 2 месяца назад +1

      FACTS!!

    • @RobertMorgan
      @RobertMorgan 2 месяца назад +8

      " " how can they have fun and talk all day and not get bored"
      is the question every man is always wondering about women lol. How can they have so much fun just talking all day and not accomplishing anything?

  • @badass6300
    @badass6300 2 месяца назад +16

    To the girl wondering how men aren't exhausted, it's testosterone, that simple.

  • @rajakghosh6602
    @rajakghosh6602 2 месяца назад +70

    Both men and women should have their personal spaces and spent time with their respective friends. They don't have to spend all time together.
    If a woman constantly nags or objects to her man spending time with friends over her, it's a big red flag. And this leads to men selling off his collections because hid wife doesn't like it and want to spent that money on some dumb cruise trip or have a man cave because the house is littered with her useless collections.

    • @bladeedge481
      @bladeedge481 2 месяца назад

      Double standards

    • @jeremycash1990
      @jeremycash1990 2 месяца назад +1

      "useless collections" Aren't you doing the exact same toxic thing this video is criticizing by belittling the hobbies that makes their SO happy?

    • @XGoldenPhoenixX
      @XGoldenPhoenixX 2 месяца назад +1

      What if all his friends are women though?

  • @Bookhermit
    @Bookhermit 2 месяца назад +18

    The BIG red flag is that SHE is not playing!! I had my wife playing WOW within 2 months.

  • @jonrazo7912
    @jonrazo7912 2 месяца назад +18

    I had a multidecade game of dungeons and dragons going when I lived in my hometown. One of my friends got in a very serious relationship and she would make fun of us for playing kids games. Meanwhile, she was a literal alcoholic who would get blackout drunk with her girlfriends at her bars. That is apparently the mature way to be.
    The relationship did not last.

    • @callak_9974
      @callak_9974 2 месяца назад +1

      Spending quality time with friends, not spending a fortune and having fun vs going out to the bar, spending a fortune (or men's fortunes), damaging your liver and getting so drunk that something may have happened and they wouldn't have a clue about it. Yeah, which one is the better use of one's time?

    • @Eaglemadhatter
      @Eaglemadhatter 2 месяца назад

      So she's single now? Which bar?
      Please no. Jk

  • @charliebrown4799
    @charliebrown4799 2 месяца назад +110

    My girlfriend has hobbies. She goes to the gun range and she crochets. Shes in the process of making me a sick ass beanie with skulls on it

    • @gabenewell2494
      @gabenewell2494 2 месяца назад +8

      dooope

    • @kylewhite8434
      @kylewhite8434 2 месяца назад +10

      Bro your gf rocks. Mine doesn't mind going to the range as well

    • @TheHoodmailbox
      @TheHoodmailbox 2 месяца назад +9

      Sounds healthy, my man.

    • @mrblank-zh1xy
      @mrblank-zh1xy 2 месяца назад +7

      Sounds like my ex-wife. She had a dark side though.

    • @carlheinze4398
      @carlheinze4398 2 месяца назад +8

      My wife likes guns and shooting too. The only problem with that is when I buy myself a cool new gun... I better have one for her too, or my cool new gun becomes her cool new gun.
      She claimed my Stribog real quick.

  • @Myownboss35
    @Myownboss35 2 месяца назад +33

    They hate it when their men have fun.

  • @roadscholarwarrior
    @roadscholarwarrior 2 месяца назад +51

    The other girl, she likes to grocery shop? And what about cooking the food after? Take a cooking class or learn from online videos! Cooking is a great and creative hobby!!!

    • @bobblacka918
      @bobblacka918 2 месяца назад +9

      Women have a double standard. When a man is passionate about cooking, it's a hobby. When a woman cooks, it's work. I have a friend who does all the cooking and his wife never cooks, but nonetheless, she complains about women being expected to cook.

    • @nathandobbs7540
      @nathandobbs7540 2 месяца назад +1

      I absolutely love cooking! Not only is it great, it's a very relaxing activity too and takes almost no time depending on what you're making. So whenever I hear a woman complaining about cooking being a chore, I always smh because I just know they're being lazy and entitled brats deep down
      Let's look at this logically, the man will work his 8 hour job for the day, sometimes even longer, and he comes home tired and hungry. However, all the woman has to do is take a few minutes or maybe even an hour or 2 to get dinner rolled out. If you asked yourself which position is better, it's obviously the woman without question. She has more hours of the day available to her with less stress involved from a work environment, but of course, women find fault with everything around them and will even complain about losing a few hours of tiktok scrolling and call it "slavery."
      Women like this are just overgrown toddlers who never matured emotionally and expects men to treat them like a child at all times, without any consequences. They are unsalvagable and any man with a woman like this should leave her immediately

    • @depressedphilosopherbitch7581
      @depressedphilosopherbitch7581 2 месяца назад +1

      I know! Cooking and Reading are fun :)

  • @AleksLazar
    @AleksLazar 2 месяца назад +23

    These women think your life is being wasted if you’re not spending every minute slaving for her benefit

  • @darkgardener9577
    @darkgardener9577 2 месяца назад +21

    "IDK what is worse?" They say this because the thing they hate most about either is that he's having a good time. They HATE that.....

  • @Animatthias
    @Animatthias 2 месяца назад +13

    What happened to women making music, reading, writing, painting, volunteering for social work, babysitting, playing sports, going for a swim, stuff like that?? They used to do at least those things. Now, it's literally just dating and shopping. It doesn't get any more boring than that, does it?

    • @tuinov6286
      @tuinov6286 2 месяца назад

      Well they have infinite options so its not boring for them. Also their whole life is about s3x. They were reduced to that one thing and they didn't even notice it. The biggest communist trick in history.

  • @highlanderknight
    @highlanderknight 2 месяца назад +13

    Her being on TikTok is WAY WORSE than them gaming.

  • @CommandoMaster
    @CommandoMaster 2 месяца назад +9

    Women want a guy that doesn’t care about her too much, but then complains he isn’t spending all his time with her. Then when he does spend all his time with her, she complains that he’s needy and doesn’t have anything else going on, so she leaves him for another guy😂

  • @Frank-pe9pk
    @Frank-pe9pk 2 месяца назад +13

    Fortunately I found and married a beautiful tomboy. She loved to hunt, fish and play guitar. Rarely carried a purse or wore makeup. When she passed my life was turned upside down.

    • @slumy8195
      @slumy8195 2 месяца назад +2

      tomboys got true love

  • @Truth_In_Numbers
    @Truth_In_Numbers 2 месяца назад +14

    If my fiance called me a man-child to millions of strangers on the internet, the wedding is off.

    • @Mjej2216
      @Mjej2216 2 месяца назад

      The truth hurts right boy.

    • @Truth_In_Numbers
      @Truth_In_Numbers Месяц назад

      @Rogerfvieira It's not about whether playing games is objectively childish. The problem is his fiance sees him as a man child AND shamed him for it to millions of strangers on the internet. There's a problematic level of disrespect here that I don't think will lead to a long-lasting marriage.

  • @Animatthias
    @Animatthias 2 месяца назад +8

    So, there ARE women who don't hate you having friends and hobbies?! WHERE???

  • @jessemiller3108
    @jessemiller3108 2 месяца назад +6

    Had a girlfriend do this to me when I was a cage fighter. She wanted me to get everyone tested for HIV or for me to not grapple anymore. I was putting her at risk if I wrestled with these guys, she said. I should have known she was just being jealous (which she admitted to eventually) Just crazy some of them can't let their guy be happy with stuff that doesn't include them.

  • @blasphemertheseventh
    @blasphemertheseventh 2 месяца назад +16

    Extremely thankful I never married. Listening to my friends endlessly moan about their marriage (prison sentence) is sobering.

  • @John-Evans
    @John-Evans 2 месяца назад +22

    I like the second woman who at least realises that guys do stuff. We do stuff because we are wired to be proactive and creative and build stuff. Bang on Alex. You got it.

    • @snuffeldjuret
      @snuffeldjuret 2 месяца назад

      that's why the only women you see in these very male spaces are trans women, because they are men. Gonna enjoy some goeguessr competition this weekend, and guess what? Literally 100% men.

  • @AnthonyKellett
    @AnthonyKellett 2 месяца назад +28

    I agree with you, on the difference between men and women, regarding the quantity of hobbies and areas of interest. However, I've never known a high quality woman who doesn't have at least some hobbies of her own. Gardening; interior design; cooking; organising dinner parties and similar social events; painting and art generally; music; reading; architecture; archaeology... I've encountered them all.
    If a woman has no interests, other than finding a man for a relationship, shopping, and self-beautification, it's a huge, huge red flag.
    Oh... and if a woman ever did this to me (or put me on any social media, to be honest), she'd be gone, instantly. I don't care about context.

    • @nathanstokes3931
      @nathanstokes3931 2 месяца назад +6

      I have never met a woman who has hobby. Unless you count watching TV as a hobby. Usually Sex and the City or law and order svu.

    • @paulx7620
      @paulx7620 2 месяца назад +2

      It's because they are shallow, nothing deeper then the surface.

  • @seventhkeyomegasghost8233
    @seventhkeyomegasghost8233 2 месяца назад +19

    They are dead set on taking away what little joy we get in this life. We can't have s***.

    • @emate8422
      @emate8422 2 месяца назад +2

      True, my ex was 10 years nagging that I work out 4 hours per week in the garage, just dont care what they say

  • @shandeepmomi2868
    @shandeepmomi2868 2 месяца назад +19

    Having being married for over 20 years, I can tell you without a doubt, that this video is 100% true. I’m lucky, I got a good woman who respects my hobbies and let’s me do them. The joy a get from them, gives her happiness. See it on her face Everytime.

    • @emate8422
      @emate8422 2 месяца назад +1

      Lucky you!

  • @USMC6976
    @USMC6976 2 месяца назад +5

    Instead of being happy her fiance is staying home and playing games, she wants to shame him for not being an alcoholic and chasing women.

    • @emate8422
      @emate8422 2 месяца назад

      Exactly! Very nice evening for guys, sitting at home and enjoying themselves but no, better to get wasted at bars. Nonsense

  • @jyyyb
    @jyyyb 2 месяца назад +17

    Just jealous they don’t have genuine friendships like men

    • @erikw.418
      @erikw.418 2 месяца назад

      Yup, women are their worst enemies 🐍

  • @BRlGADE_KINGPIN
    @BRlGADE_KINGPIN 2 месяца назад +50

    The pure hypocrisy of calling someone a child when she still puts on face paint everyday as an adult, and possesses the same strength of a 12 year old boy..

    • @paulx7620
      @paulx7620 2 месяца назад

      Dunno most 12 year old boys could whoop her.

    • @gabem6863
      @gabem6863 2 месяца назад +5

      Not to mention that most of them peaked in maturity at about 17-18 and stay there for the rest of their lives.

    • @danielcollins9628
      @danielcollins9628 2 месяца назад +1

      You forgot the mind of a child as well

  • @balerion77
    @balerion77 2 месяца назад +9

    If that guy has any Self respect and Balls , it's an immediate break-up for Publically shaming and disrespecting him.

  • @bldgy
    @bldgy 2 месяца назад +11

    Ive never understood why it is largely considered acceptable for a grown adult to sit and watch TV in a vegetative state, but as soon as that adult picks up a controller and starts playing a game that challenges them, they are immature and childish.
    I dont really have much down time. When i do want to sit and relax, unless there is something specific that im wanting to watch, I'd typically prefer to be playing a game, usually on a harder difficulty so im actually challenging myself. That is especially true now that games have story lines that at the very least rival if not surpass movies and tv shows.
    Play Red Dead Redemption 2 and tell me that games dont have compelling stories. Personally, i just finished God of War 4, and there are several aspects of that story that impacted me.
    Now, if a person wants to sit and watch tv, thats fine. I dont mean to be disparaging towards that. I just dont see how video games are immature by comparison (and, yes, there is such a thing as spending too much time doing either).

    • @johnsmith-ht3sy
      @johnsmith-ht3sy 2 месяца назад +1

      Women can watch endless hours of morning T.V and crappy soaps and complain to hubby how hard housework is and that when he gets in from work do the dishes.

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    @Ednajeremy798 2 месяца назад +431

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    • @NancyAllen954
      @NancyAllen954 2 месяца назад

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      @NancyAllen954 2 месяца назад

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  • @Siile_
    @Siile_ 2 месяца назад +10

    I remember a study a few years ago mentioning the fact that women are indeed a lot less likely to have real passions/hobbies, stuff guys will spend many hours a week obsessing over and they truly love. From music to enjoying fiction/art to collecting items related to any of it, men are way more intense and involved with their interests. That was a big mistake Disney made when they decided to make Star Wars and the MCU more female-oriented. On average, women don't even spend 20% of what men spend on this stuff

    • @hengineer
      @hengineer Месяц назад

      because they spend it on clothes, jewelry and makeup, all big indicators of status to women.

  • @konstantin3374
    @konstantin3374 2 месяца назад +5

    Something tells me she'd complain as much if dude was spending that time doing competitive sports with his buddies. Some women absolutely cannot stand men enjoying themselves around them.

    • @emate8422
      @emate8422 2 месяца назад

      Yes, true. Always creating some negativity no matter what you do

  • @Szklana147
    @Szklana147 2 месяца назад +6

    This is crazy how people have a nerve to show their partners privacy to the world. This is shameful!

    • @las9582
      @las9582 2 месяца назад +2

      It's truly disgusting.

  • @jerryc5743
    @jerryc5743 2 месяца назад +17

    5:29 - …yet, if the man was indolent, she would complain that he is boring.

  • @michaeldevlin7747
    @michaeldevlin7747 2 месяца назад +8

    The inability to see someone else happy is something I would associate with children. As is posting to TikTok for approval of childish behaviour.
    The ability to coordinate something like this is beyond most children.
    So one of them is an adult child, and it's not him. She should count her lucky stars her immature ass was able to land a guy like that.

    • @RobertMorgan
      @RobertMorgan 2 месяца назад

      Jealousy is bad, but ENVY can be useful. I know personally it makes me feel bad seeing happy couples and families, but not in a way that I'm like "F them, why do THEY deserve that and I don't", no, that's a mistake.
      Thinking damn, what can I do myself to get that because that's what I want. It's nothing to do with those strangers, they're just the example I'm comparing my situation to. I don't hate them, I hate whatever about me is keeping me from that, THAT I can probably work on and control. I can ASPIRE to that. I look up to those successful people, I ADMIRE them.

  • @scottmerric2180
    @scottmerric2180 2 месяца назад +6

    Women would rather their man go out and get wasted with the boys so they can create drama when they get back.
    Shaming him
    For being a nerd with friends means that she just can’t tolerate something wholesome and chill

  • @Shreadington
    @Shreadington 2 месяца назад +6

    🤣 My wife has bought all my consoles for me. I get my gaming in while riding my spin bike in the early morning before anyone is awake. It's my cardio, coffee, and Call of Duty time. I've been a competitive bodybuilder for 25+ years. When I met my to be wife I was in prep for competition. Before we got married I told her fitness is my thing and I'm not stopping. She said okay. After we got married she tried changing that. I had to remind her of our pre-marriage conversation. She simply wanted more time with me. So after the gym I come home and sit with her for about 30 minutes to give her my time. We then get things ready for the next day and hang out again before bed. Been married 20yrs and all is good.

    • @RobertMorgan
      @RobertMorgan 2 месяца назад +1

      If we're honest, we all probably have at least one thing we tried then really got into, even after they were gone, for a friend or lover. In my case it wasn't even her, it was her dad: My ex's dad was a pretty nice guy and really tried to mentor me into joining his professional career field, water treatment. I didn't do that, but after she broke our engagement and ran off, 10 years later I started a career in water treatment and have FAR surpassed her dad's accomplishments, all mostly by chance but that put the idea in my head way back then. Now I have a career that's put me where I'd have never even looked at her lol.

  • @thenovicewhispers
    @thenovicewhispers 2 месяца назад +11

    They think they're shaming them but honestly zi find it sad that they can't comprehend the thought of picking up a controller and joining in the fun. Instead they just aimlessly float around the house like a cat yelling for attention. How many times has she been in and out of the room recording and giggling, thinking she's superior because she refuses to participate? Honey, you aren't any better than them because you choose to use Tik Tok and do your nails and makeup all day. It's like pouting in a corner while your friends are outside playing with sticks and sliding down a slide because "No. I don't want be uncool or be a child. There might be pretty women watching. I have to be cool." She thinks she's better than them but really she's kinda pathetic because she's just following them around judging them but not actually doing anything productive herself either. So she is being a child too. Why not pick up a controller and prove your "superiority" by crushing all the homies in a couple matches?
    But no you won't do that because relationships aren't about spending time with each other and learning more about what makes your partner happy. They're about being catered to 24/7, expecting your partner to constantly put up a sterotypical tough guy, bar-hopping facade because anything other than that is not manly and therefore unattractive. Relationships are not about learning more about who your partner genuinely is and how you can appreciate them for it. It's only about shallow, surface-level physical contact and buying fancy baubles or eating expensive food. No creativity, love, or passion. No contentment with spending a night under a tree looking out at the stars because "Ew. Only poor people do that. Buy me a five star reservation NOW."

  • @thepassman
    @thepassman 2 месяца назад +15

    The other reason that this is a huge red flag is many like her will record short videos like this and screenshots of their texts with their husband, fiance, or boyfriend for future use either in a divorce or other legal proceeding.

  • @MisterNightfish
    @MisterNightfish 2 месяца назад +4

    That first lady just does not love her guy, period. If she did, she'd be happy he has a nice evening with his friends instead of trying to publicly shame him for having a hobby that she doesn't understand. I hope the guy sees this and reconsiders marrying her because her doing this just shows that she fundamentally does not respect him and that never ends well.

  • @matespider
    @matespider 2 месяца назад +9

    Male hobbies are things he do. Female hobby is talking, this is her dopamine hit.
    Man work.
    Woman taking care of children.
    Man have hobby.
    Woman talks with other women about stuff.

  • @BigDave423
    @BigDave423 2 месяца назад +6

    Women are human beings. Men are human doings. Women can just exist and there's a good probability they can live a comfortable life. Men have to achieve things to have success.

    • @kenXtripleI
      @kenXtripleI 2 месяца назад +2

      For some reason, they get to live life on easy mode

  • @0rbium
    @0rbium 2 месяца назад +10

    I couldn't agree more! I had a sinking feeling when a family member's wife started taking pot shots at his friends. She ended up completely isolating him from what was once a big and thriving social circle where he was often at the center, and it absolutely destroyed him and their marriage. In my case, I ignored my first wife's habit of framing everything as competitive, and that relationship turned very toxic. If I could go back in time to that family member and myself, I would say if you're hesitating to call them out on this unacceptable attitude, and to leave if they don't correct it completely and permanently, then you need to really look hard at your neediness and deal with that before you go any deeper with the relationship.

    • @SchrodingersMath
      @SchrodingersMath 2 месяца назад +2

      👍🔥....Rich Cooper said the same thing in one video.....CONTROL freak girlfreind- control freak wife will TRY to cut her man off from all his other freinds, hobbies, etc ➡️ men need to call this out ➡️....say NO......see how she reacts ( angry?)

  • @Duececoupe
    @Duececoupe 2 месяца назад +8

    Women can't accept, don't understand, how little it takes to make a man happy, a quiet and peaceful life, tons of hobbies....and a beer!
    To your good health, happiness and plenty of beer gentlemen, may you NEVER run out of either! 😉🍻

    • @henryford2950
      @henryford2950 2 месяца назад

      Considering the numerous demands and unrealistic expectations most women have, of course they can't understand what really drives men or makes them happy.

  • @ALrinea
    @ALrinea 2 месяца назад +9

    Marrying the first woman in the clip may lead to ongoing drama. Publicly shaming someone's hobbies on social media is unacceptable, and a supportive partner would never engage in such behavior. If you have concerns about your partner's hobbies, it's best to discuss them privately rather than airing them online, where they can easily spiral out of control due to gossip and negativity. Unfortunately, my wife also engaged in this behavior, and I discovered it through strange, insulting messages on my social media accounts, which even impacted my professional reputation and led to the loss of a client. I took legal action and won damages, which served as a wake-up call for my wife. I revoke all her cards for a week, for a small remindeder and punishment. Somethimes you have to edcute your partner's bad habbits. After a serious discussion, she understood the consequences of her actions and has since been supportive ever since, never repeating it. Today, she even joins me in gaming, showing her willingness to be a supportive and understanding partner. This kind of behavior, as displayed by the woman in the clip, is toxic and should be seen as a major red flag to anyone seeing it.

  • @factor2634
    @factor2634 2 месяца назад +11

    Girls hobbies are sitting around and gossiping 🤣🤣

  • @saitamaking324
    @saitamaking324 2 месяца назад +7

    This just made me realize how annoying and up my arse my bird is

  • @ronj9448
    @ronj9448 2 месяца назад +6

    Going on since the beginning of time - minus the social media. When I was young my friends would get together to play music together. Blues, Rock some Jazz. My GF hated it and thought we should go out to see a live band instead. This was what attracted her to me in the first place mind you. It was also a bonding with the friends. It was always a sore point. She's long gone. Guitar is tuned up!

  • @ryanhyand900
    @ryanhyand900 2 месяца назад +4

    I know what woman’s hobbies are ruining everything men like to do. Video games, movies, guns, etc.

  • @forresten
    @forresten 2 месяца назад +4

    Being at home with the buddies > being drunk and committing things that spoil mutual trust. And; both parties should have their own private spaces and pastimes. This is one of them(?)

  • @brianmeen2158
    @brianmeen2158 2 месяца назад +3

    “Do girls just not have hobbies?”
    This is one thing I noticed about many women that I dated over the years - they didn’t seem to have any hobbies aside from shopping or watching reality tv.

  • @WolfStory
    @WolfStory 2 месяца назад +5

    I've been with MANY women in my life. Anything from a 6 or 7 all the way up to a 10. And EVERY single one of them tried to shame me for: Playing video games, hitting the gym, drawing, painting figs, playing cards, taking martial arts, etc, etc, etc. I didn't go out to the bars on them or hit the town with friends at sporting events. I did the things that put my mind at ease and made me happy. NONE OF THEM wanted me 'at ease' OR happy. I will NEVER be in an LTR again. Not worth it whatsoever. I have no problem with short term relationships and keeping my hobbies and sanity.

    • @BrainWasherAttendent
      @BrainWasherAttendent 2 месяца назад

      Same here for the most part, except I did have 2 women be totally cool with my hobbies. So they do exist.

    • @radeknosil2950
      @radeknosil2950 2 месяца назад

      @@BrainWasherAttendent so this confirm its not biological

    • @callak_9974
      @callak_9974 2 месяца назад

      Just painting figs? Not other kinds of fruit? 😝
      I know you mean actual figurines though, like Warhammer or other miniatures, perhaps Gundams or model airplanes/boats/tanks/trains, etc.

    • @WolfStory
      @WolfStory 2 месяца назад

      @callak_9974 I loved painting Warhammer and Warhammer 40k models, but I also enjoyed model military ships and exotic cars as well. Very relaxing and no stress... unlike a woman.

  • @metoo7557
    @metoo7557 2 месяца назад +7

    They honest can't live their 'best lives' without putting others down.
    I'd like to feel sorry for the men, but they put a ring on that mess?
    No sympathy.

  • @Gowalkabout
    @Gowalkabout 2 месяца назад +4

    Excellent video. I’ve been married for 35 years. I’ve been driven all my life to achieve new things. But my wife has complained about the energy I spend away from her. Now I understand I’m normal and there is a reason for my drive. Thank you so much helping me understand I’m a normal guy doing normal guy things.

    • @RobertMorgan
      @RobertMorgan 2 месяца назад +1

      remind her that all energy you spend at all times everywhere is FOR her. You're out achieving and doing things TO BE ABLE to come back to her as a winner and be the man she wants. If you DIDN'T you'd stop being the man she loves.
      She needs to know that.

  • @Lenny_Hondo
    @Lenny_Hondo 2 месяца назад +13

    It is a control thing. Lived through it.

  • @NoirL.A.
    @NoirL.A. 2 месяца назад +4

    i wonder if he gets to shame her over her soap operas and reality shows.

  • @DanglyLingham
    @DanglyLingham 2 месяца назад +9

    Also the fact she mentions "Fiance". He is an object. A status symbol before anything else.

  • @spadw3394
    @spadw3394 2 месяца назад +8

    I had a friend and we were supposed to go fishing, before we left he called me that he wasn't coming anymore, that he had an argument with his gf that she didn't want to come, that the internet on the phone doesn't work well where we're going and she doesn't want to stay home alone and he stayed with her, the next day she go out with her friends but without him lol

    • @ray076NL
      @ray076NL 2 месяца назад +1

      Did he learn from it?

    • @spadw3394
      @spadw3394 2 месяца назад +7

      @@ray076NL no, he married her, they have two children then she cheated on him with her boss, now they are divorced and he gave up a very well paid job to work on minimum wage so he wouldn't have to pay her so much alimony lol

    • @ray076NL
      @ray076NL 2 месяца назад

      @@spadw3394 and they lived happily ever after.

    • @bladeedge481
      @bladeedge481 2 месяца назад +2

      Double standards he can't go out with friends but she can sounds like narcissisism

  • @ganseblume8886
    @ganseblume8886 2 месяца назад +10

    The question is is she a grown woman can she provide for herself or is she dependant on his sallary what makes her a child in my point of view

  • @stefantsarev4442
    @stefantsarev4442 2 месяца назад +8

    She'd rather see him become an alcoholic than a gamer.

    • @tuinov6286
      @tuinov6286 2 месяца назад

      The more a man suffers the happier they are. Thank you internet for waking me up. Im not going to give myself up for women like all our ancestors did. They change their behavior or humanity is done, most young guys don't care which one happens.

  • @stephenmclay5662
    @stephenmclay5662 2 месяца назад +5

    My God it's good to be old. I'd never ever put in that kind of work again for so little. Whew.

  • @DETERWEBER
    @DETERWEBER 2 месяца назад +9

    She just wants the drama of feeling like he is out doing something he shouldn't be.

    • @RobertMorgan
      @RobertMorgan 2 месяца назад

      Probably projection as well there, because SHE knows if it was HER out, there WOULD be bad things afoot, she'd make sure of it. So she assumes he would too.

  • @carlitosbrigante6889
    @carlitosbrigante6889 2 месяца назад +6

    Imagine if we do the same shaming them for being not cooking 🙌

  • @mgtow-balance3409
    @mgtow-balance3409 2 месяца назад +6

    that jealous hate video she made of her man, would have been an IMMEDIATE break-up, immediately

  • @Zathren
    @Zathren 2 месяца назад +9

    Juat to let any girls know who might check out this video. Gaming isn't gender exclusive. We'd love to play a two player game with you. And theres a game with your name on it, video games are way more than just shooting things.

  • @vipondiu
    @vipondiu 2 месяца назад +4

    0:00 You can see the Crazy Eyes. Pay attention to their eyes, the eyes never lie. Keep away from Crazy Eyes

  • @daleford8621
    @daleford8621 2 месяца назад +28

    His hobby doesn't even necessarily have to exclude her. If she was really the one for him, she'd want to share in his interests and try to play with him. It doesn't have to be something like COD or battlefield. Just find a co-op game that they can play together. Bam, problem solved. There are tons of games out there she could play with him and use to strengthen their relationship, but instead, she'd rather try to humiliate her man and his friends for being wholesome people who'd rather be having good clean fun than go to a bar and get drunk around 304s and douchebags looking to get laid.

    • @bigedslobotomy
      @bigedslobotomy 2 месяца назад +1

      Most men wouldn’t be interested in playing the Barbie game.

    • @daleford8621
      @daleford8621 2 месяца назад +2

      @bigedslobotomy true, but there are plenty of couch co-op games out there. The point is she could have done any number of things other than publicly shame her man for doing something most guys enjoy.

  • @robskalas
    @robskalas 2 месяца назад +4

    Not only is she shaming her fiance, but she is doing it in public. That is unacceptable.

  • @KyleReeseCel2029
    @KyleReeseCel2029 2 месяца назад +3

    People underestimate the value of friendship. Through family deaths, break ups, divorces, alimony, child support etc. a good friend will be there. That pc setup with his 5 friends looks fun. When are you ever going to be able to do hobbies like that with women? He's able to live an adult life with friends, like when he was in school. It should be an ideal to create communities throughout our lives. Working, women and even children aren't everything in a balanced life.

  • @BruceKarrde
    @BruceKarrde 2 месяца назад +22

    0:40 wasn't it on the recent Chriss Williamson podcast, where the guest shared that men need two nights with their male friends to have a happy life?
    Of course, the women were absolutely pissed off, because why was there something positive for men XD

    • @matthewzumbo9868
      @matthewzumbo9868 2 месяца назад

      Men are not allowed to have anything to be seen as sperm donors and bank accounts.
      Then women wonder why men are so angry and desiring to be left alone.

  • @kingbucketz182
    @kingbucketz182 2 месяца назад +6

    Ain’t nothin’ at bars but trouble and regret.