I got maried in 2013 for 5years there was lot of problems in the hous ,i was not knwing how to handle the situation, nw it was great for me to handle life after watching ur videos ,i feel like god sent angel to teach me
मैम जी सच में आपकी सारी वीडियो.... खुद में बेमिसाल ही होती हैं.... और आपका ये प्रयास काफी सराहनीय है़ 👌👌👌👌👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👏आपकी वजह से ही मैम जी कई लोगों के सम्बन्ध अपने परिवार से अच्छे हुए हैं l मैम जी अब मैं किसी को भी गलत नहीं समझती ,सबका अपना-अपना स्वभाव होता है़ ,पर हाँ हमें अपनी तरफ से सिर्फ अच्छा ही करना चाहिए ,सच में जब से आपसे जुड़ी हूँ मैम जी, सोच ही बदल गयी है़, मैं ये सोचती हूँ ,कोई भी इन्सान बुरा नहीं होता बस उनकी सोच हमसे अलग होती है़ ,परिस्थितियाँ ही किसी को बुरा या अच्छा बनाती हैं ,नापसंद इन्सान नहीं होते, उनकी आदतें होती हैं ,हम अपने अच्छे व्यवहार से ,किसी की भी सोच को ,बदल भी सकते हैं ,है़ ना मैम जी ,बेहतरीन वीडियो के लिए सस्नेह धन्यवाद मैम जी l🤗🤗😍😍❤
Hello mam..mai yhi krti hu ..Avoid krti hu situation ko..Kyuki mere sanskar aise nhi hai..Hm sirf apne behaviour ko control kr skte hai..Kisi aur ke nhi..Par bura tb lgta hai jb samne wala muhh pe taunt marta hai..Aur fir khud normal ho jata hai..Vo gussa hmare andar reh jata hai..
Mere sath me bhi bahut aisa hota tha par maine yahi tarika sahi samjha sab kuchh sahi karne k liye ki jaha jaruri ho vaha boliye aur jis jagah jarurat na ho chup rahna sikhiye .. kai bar chup rahna aur khud par dhyan dena bahut sari problems ko tal deti hai 😌💐
Fair point. I would say you have always expectations from your close one, the one you love the most or you do not want to lose and which is fine. You cannot expect something from the strangers. If you are living in joint family it's rude if you are not talking to that person or you hate them . Instead you can talk to them and try to build on that relation. Understand what that person expect from you and act accordingly and then they will also understand you. In relations I think one should not give up though you can restrict your limits how much talk is needed as per the behaviour of that person ? One day that person will realise and will definitely talk and have strong relation with you. Be positive and do not get affected by the situation. Sometimes you may feel low but that's okay everything is not permanent.
i show this first time and aapki salah bhi suni ek gharme rehnevali but ma'am galti na ho expect bhi na kare aur badi bat simpali normal behaviour ke bavjud vo to hamare satha bura karne ka jid rakhe hue hote he tab bahot hurt hota he
Very good video mam jab bhi man negative thought ki taraf jata h to aapki video drkh leti hu bahut positivity milti h aap bahut aacha samjatr ho mam thank u aapki voice hi itni pyari h ki aapko sun kar hi bahut accha lagta h mam
Bahuttt badiya mam.waise m sabkooo pasand karti hu.bcz m janti hu ki har insan m kuch burai h to usme bahut achaaiii bi hoyi h. Bus hume najariya change karne ki jarurat h.or sub log mujhey bi pasand kartey hn.😚😘 thanks mam.
Hooo mam ,kaise ho,bhut suljhe hue h aap, main newly married hu,jab bhi mujhe koi prblm aati ha,i to mujhe aapa hi channel hi milta h solutions ke liye. Thanks mam for guiding to evey lady to handle the situations....
Maam agar koi apke sath rahta hai or wo hamesha negative baat karta hai, apke samne aap hi ke bare me indirect way me baat kare to aise insan ko kaise handle kare. Kaise usko avoide kare. Or kya is sab ke baad hume kabhi uske kam ana chahiye?
*मानव पसंद नहीं करते लेकिन ईश्वर पसंद करता है तभी वह अपना चमत्कारी ज्ञान प्रदान करते हैं जो मानव पसंद नहीं करते वह ईश्वर के चमत्कारी ज्ञान प्राप्त नही कर पाते हैं* *धन्यवाद*
How to deal with the hurt you face from cruel in laws who speak ill and wrong about you?. Hum chup toh ho jayenge par usse jo dukh hoga wo kahan le kar jayenmam?
Maam meri saas her waqat mera beta mera beta kerti rehti hein or mery husband ko chahti hein k un k pass hi beta rahy or mujhy time nahi deny deti or healthy honey k bawajood meri help nai kerti sara din kaam ker ker k thak jati hoon or disturb rehti hoon shaam ko husband atty hein wo mujh say b zyada thak hoty hein meri baat Dyan say nai sunty pl reply zarror kerna
nice topic mam,aise logon se aksar pala pad jata hai,chehre pe smile rkhte hain or dil me jahar bhar ke baithe rhte hain,aise log kab humri life me kya kar deng pata v nhi chalta hai😣😣😔😔
Mere husband.meri mother in law and sister in law bahut hi achhe h maim..humari arrange marriage h fir bhi MERI life me koi interfere Nahi karta..MERI family bahut hi achhe h maim...Mai god ko thanks krti hu etni achhi family k liye...aise family sabhi ko mile........I love my family..
Thanks mem..., Apke videos Dekh Kar Mene APNI sasu ma ko samjaya .. bahut pyar SE to mem really vo man BHI gayi aur unhone mujhe suit pehnne ki BHI parmission de Di...so ..me apki bahut Thank full Hoo....love you mem....😘😘😘😘🤗
Thanks mam aapki video me hamesha dekhti hu. aap bahut hi suljhi hui lady hai. Meri mother nahi hai. Or aap sabhi rishto ke baare me kitna acha samjhati ho.
Respected madam really you are great your presentation is very excellent. I am thankful to you for your precious words and very informative video. Your every video is very useful and better than the other one. If you wouldn't mind I will say that your voice is also very sweet and it directly impress to everyone. God bless you and your family
Mam your videos r awesome & har saas buri nahi hoti aur har bahu achhi nahi hoti pehle ke time mostly saas buri hoti thi but this time mostly bahu buri hoti hai
So good topic,,, aaj logo k passions bhut kam ho gy hai.. Har baat par jagra,,,,,, Mantilty bhut kamjor ho gai hai,,, ese topic bhut jaroori hai.... Good job👍
Mam maine saas se boht freely baat kiya..aur meri takleef bhi batayi...infact saas sasur and husband sab k saamne apne mann ki baat rakhi... Result boht bura hua..kuch log nhi samajhte..aur bas raaj karna chahte hai... 2 yrs of marriage mein boht struggle rha ... Fir maine khul kr bolna chod diya...ab adjust kr leti hu...boht mushkil lagta hai..lekin karna padta hai..
M b yahi krti hun umeed ni rakhti kisi se aur accept kr leti hu smile b rakhti hun .. but fir b yr kabhi na kabhi to brdash k bahr ho jaega tb Kya hoga ..2nd thing jab hum bardash krte rehte hai to ghr me sab smjhte k Galt insan ko k vo ab sahi ho gya hai kyu k hun ne bardash krna shuru kr diya
Hello mam. THANKS GIVING 🌹 greetings just a little bit late. Thank you from the bottom of my heart 💓. Aapki vajeh se life bahut positive ho gayi hai.🙏 Mam Mai aapke videos regularly dekhti Hoon. Aap ek family member ki tareh lagti Hain Jo her baat ko itni achhi tareh se samjhati Hain. Beech me jub Aap hansti Hain to mood or bhi achha ho jata hai..May God bless you mam.🙏
Meri sis law se thodi dikkat hai unki shadi ho chuki hai but Abhi bhi control unka hi hai Sab unke hibat mante hai even mere husband bhi unhe kuch keh nai sakte to muje kya Karna chaiye.
Hello mam ! u r right apne ko hi change karna chayie but sab kuch Kar ke Dekh liya Apne ko change bhi, chup bhi rhe ke Dekh liye ache se BAAT bhi karke Dekha but jab samne wala hi bilkul badlene ko tiyaar na ho or Raat din Ghar Ka mahool kharab Kar rha rha ho to kya kare
I got maried in 2013 for 5years there was lot of problems in the hous ,i was not knwing how to handle the situation, nw it was great for me to handle life after watching ur videos ,i feel like god sent angel to teach me
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Hello
Thank you mam, I got my answers.. 😊.. No Reaction, no negativity, be happy and busy with self...
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@@MonicaGupta ❤😊
मैम जी सच में आपकी सारी वीडियो.... खुद में बेमिसाल ही होती हैं.... और आपका ये प्रयास काफी सराहनीय है़ 👌👌👌👌👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👏आपकी वजह से ही मैम जी कई लोगों के सम्बन्ध अपने परिवार से अच्छे हुए हैं l मैम जी अब मैं किसी को भी गलत नहीं समझती ,सबका अपना-अपना स्वभाव होता है़ ,पर हाँ हमें अपनी तरफ से सिर्फ अच्छा ही करना चाहिए ,सच में जब से आपसे जुड़ी हूँ मैम जी, सोच ही बदल गयी है़, मैं ये सोचती हूँ ,कोई भी इन्सान बुरा नहीं होता बस उनकी सोच हमसे अलग होती है़ ,परिस्थितियाँ ही किसी को बुरा या अच्छा बनाती हैं ,नापसंद इन्सान नहीं होते, उनकी आदतें होती हैं ,हम अपने अच्छे व्यवहार से ,किसी की भी सोच को ,बदल भी सकते हैं ,है़ ना मैम जी ,बेहतरीन वीडियो के लिए सस्नेह धन्यवाद मैम जी l🤗🤗😍😍❤
बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद😊😊
Hello mam..mai yhi krti hu ..Avoid krti hu situation ko..Kyuki mere sanskar aise nhi hai..Hm sirf apne behaviour ko control kr skte hai..Kisi aur ke nhi..Par bura tb lgta hai jb samne wala muhh pe taunt marta hai..Aur fir khud normal ho jata hai..Vo gussa hmare andar reh jata hai..
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Same condition vandana ji.or jab husband b support na kare na samjhe vo b inlows k sath milke aisa kare to ek wife kaha jaye frasted hoti rahe
Same here yr ..Koi solution hi nhi hai ..
Mere sath bhi yhi hota he
Same mere sath hota hai
Mere sath me bhi bahut aisa hota tha par maine yahi tarika sahi samjha sab kuchh sahi karne k liye ki jaha jaruri ho vaha boliye aur jis jagah jarurat na ho chup rahna sikhiye .. kai bar chup rahna aur khud par dhyan dena bahut sari problems ko tal deti hai 😌💐
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Fair point. I would say you have always expectations from your close one, the one you love the most or you do not want to lose and which is fine. You cannot expect something from the strangers. If you are living in joint family it's rude if you are not talking to that person or you hate them . Instead you can talk to them and try to build on that relation. Understand what that person expect from you and act accordingly and then they will also understand you. In relations I think one should not give up though you can restrict your limits how much talk is needed as per the behaviour of that person ? One day that person will realise and will definitely talk and have strong relation with you. Be positive and do not get affected by the situation. Sometimes you may feel low but that's okay everything is not permanent.
Thanks Vandana Rana 🙏🏻🙂
Thank you for this 🙂 we shouldn't keep our expectations..
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Thank you
Mam aap aur aapki baten dono great h
Thanks 🙏🏻🙂
aaj jaise hi phone uthaya aap ki ye video sbse uper thi ,aisa lga ki bhagwan ne mere mn ki baat aap ke dwara smjhai thanks
Mind ko change kar dia mam..I love soo much mam.. my mother
i show this first time and aapki salah bhi suni ek gharme rehnevali but ma'am galti na ho expect bhi na kare aur badi bat simpali normal behaviour ke bavjud vo to hamare satha bura karne ka jid rakhe hue hote he tab bahot hurt hota he
मेरा जीवन तो सत्संग ने बदला को पहले किसी के भी सत्संग से नहीं बदला था
साधना tv 7:30pm से 8:30pm
और बुक जीने की राह ने बहुत प्रेरणा दी
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Very good video mam jab bhi man negative thought ki taraf jata h to aapki video drkh leti hu bahut positivity milti h aap bahut aacha samjatr ho mam thank u aapki voice hi itni pyari h ki aapko sun kar hi bahut accha lagta h mam
Thanks divya rajpoot 🙏🏻🙂💐
Really... respectfully talk kre and always happens feel kren.... thanks ma'am 🙏 your talking style soooooo nice ❤️💯
My pleasure 😊
Nice video 👍but zindgi muskil tab ho jati h jab hamri life k design aur log layty h.😊
Thanks for the video👍 I follow your tips always 🙂
बहुत सुंदर प्रेरणा लेने वाली लाइन धन्यवाद
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Masha Allah i will try
Best of luck
@@MonicaGupta thank you
Your guidance is best. Ì saw your video carefully. You are great adviser. You are very nice and so sweet.
Thanks sunita mehmi 🙏🏻🙂
Bhut badiya mam...aapki baat karne ka teeka dil chu jata h ..main aapki baton ko apnane ki koshish karti hun🙏 thanks for your precious view
Thanks 🙏🏻🙂
Bahuttt badiya mam.waise m sabkooo pasand karti hu.bcz m janti hu ki har insan m kuch burai h to usme bahut achaaiii bi hoyi h. Bus hume najariya change karne ki jarurat h.or sub log mujhey bi pasand kartey hn.😚😘 thanks mam.
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Listening to your vedios gives me inspiration all the time.thanks a lot maam
My pleasure 😊
Better be patient in joint family and pray 🙏 for it that's it simple
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Ap bhut achhi h, har topic pe solutions deti h, u r great mem
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Hooo mam ,kaise ho,bhut suljhe hue h aap, main newly married hu,jab bhi mujhe koi prblm aati ha,i to mujhe aapa hi channel hi milta h solutions ke liye. Thanks mam for guiding to evey lady to handle the situations....
हमेशा खुश रहिए... 💐🍫👍🙂
Aap ki har baat bahot pyari our dill ko chhu jane wali hoti hai
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Mam your voice and way of talking are very sweet
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@@MonicaGupta 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭👸🤴👩🦳👨🦳
Thanku ma'am
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thank u mam...apki vdo pehle hi dekh leti to mere liye bhut achha hota
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Maam agar koi apke sath rahta hai or wo hamesha negative baat karta hai, apke samne aap hi ke bare me indirect way me baat kare to aise insan ko kaise handle kare. Kaise usko avoide kare. Or kya is sab ke baad hume kabhi uske kam ana chahiye?
Thank you mam 🙏🙏
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*मानव पसंद नहीं करते लेकिन ईश्वर पसंद करता है
तभी वह अपना चमत्कारी ज्ञान प्रदान करते हैं जो मानव पसंद नहीं करते वह ईश्वर के चमत्कारी ज्ञान प्राप्त नही कर पाते हैं*
*धन्यवाद*
Sahi bat hai mam abse bhot kuch sikne ko mila
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How to deal with the hurt you face from cruel in laws who speak ill and wrong about you?. Hum chup toh ho jayenge par usse jo dukh hoga wo kahan le kar jayenmam?
Very nice mam. Aapke sabhi video bahut ache hote hai.thank u so much
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Thank you aap ke video bahut helpful hai ❤️
Thanks @vaishnavijadhav5632 🙏🏻🙂
Really your videos are very inspirational.
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Thank u so much...for such a helpful vedio.
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Thank you bhat acche se aap sehjta se smjhate h aap ki
Thanks 🙏🏻🙂
Mam your words give me strength..😇
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Mem aap ka last poit bhutan man ko tesele mili àj mepersan tha ise bat ko leker thanks
Meri saas badi materialistic hai. me family m akeli feel karti hun Kya kru.kisi. Se kuch kah b nahi sakte.
Thank u so much mam🙂 mai b pariwar mai expectation nhi rakhuge kise se b khud ko change kruge....
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Bilkul sahi, apne ko hi badlna hota hai other wise aadmi marr bhi saktaa hai.. 😔😔🙏
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👌👌👌👌👌bhut achcha mam
Thanks Renu Negi 🙏🏻🙂
Apke smjhane k tarika bhut behtrin h
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Maam meri saas her waqat mera beta mera beta kerti rehti hein or mery husband ko chahti hein k un k pass hi beta rahy or mujhy time nahi deny deti or healthy honey k bawajood meri help nai kerti sara din kaam ker ker k thak jati hoon or disturb rehti hoon shaam ko husband atty hein wo mujh say b zyada thak hoty hein meri baat Dyan say nai sunty pl reply zarror kerna
Love you mam,thank you so much
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Thanks mam
Haa mam mere sath bhi aise problms h jaisa aapne bola m sb krti hu but jethani sudharne vali nhi h
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Its complicated & exuasting
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Condition accepted...
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Very very thankful mam
Most welcome 😊
Good
nice topic mam,aise logon se aksar pala pad jata hai,chehre pe smile rkhte hain or dil me jahar bhar ke baithe rhte hain,aise log kab humri life me kya kar deng pata v nhi chalta hai😣😣😔😔
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Good video. Thanks
Mere husband.meri mother in law and sister in law bahut hi achhe h maim..humari arrange marriage h fir bhi MERI life me koi interfere Nahi karta..MERI family bahut hi achhe h maim...Mai god ko thanks krti hu etni achhi family k liye...aise family sabhi ko mile........I love my family..
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app bhagywan hain
U r very lucky.
Thank you mam
Aapki baat karne ka tarika bahut Achcha hai
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Thanks mem..., Apke videos Dekh Kar Mene APNI sasu ma ko samjaya .. bahut pyar SE to mem really vo man BHI gayi aur unhone mujhe suit pehnne ki BHI parmission de Di...so ..me apki bahut Thank full Hoo....love you mem....😘😘😘😘🤗
अरे वाह !! ये हुई ना बात... उन्हें मेरी नमस्ते बोलिएगा...
Ji mem....🙏
Ye aapki choice h kya pehne kya nai ye saas aur pati se poochne ki jarurat hi nahi,kyunki saas aur pati aapse pooch ke thode na pehanta hai
Thanks mam aapki video me hamesha dekhti hu. aap bahut hi suljhi hui lady hai. Meri mother nahi hai. Or aap sabhi rishto ke baare me kitna acha samjhati ho.
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@@MonicaGupta nice
Bahut jbrdst solution dete ho ji ap Waav Osm thought
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Nice talk, but very hard topic to solve😊
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Thank you ma'am
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Ap achha OR shi bolti h AK ak bat shi h
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Yes right advice.
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Kuch ni krna bs gaali do mnn mein sukun pao🤣
Hahaha ryt
Respected madam really you are great your presentation is very excellent. I am thankful to you for your precious words and very informative video. Your every video is very useful and better than the other one. If you wouldn't mind I will say that your voice is also very sweet and it directly impress to everyone. God bless you and your family
Thanks 🙏🏻🙂
Mam your videos r awesome & har saas buri nahi hoti aur har bahu achhi nahi hoti pehle ke time mostly saas buri hoti thi but this time mostly bahu buri hoti hai
अरे??
@@MonicaGupta kuch videos mam bahu par bhi banao jo ghar pe ghar barbaad kar rahi hai paiso ke liye
Y dislike any1? Bachpan mai kase ladte the fir dosti.. B innocent 😌😌😃
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Talking style and voice both are cute maam 😊🙏👏
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So good topic,,, aaj logo k passions bhut kam ho gy hai.. Har baat par jagra,,,,,, Mantilty bhut kamjor ho gai hai,,, ese topic bhut jaroori hai.... Good job👍
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Monicaji
Good morning 🙏
Happy women's day 👍
Nice video
बहुत बहुत शुक्रिया😊👍💐
Namaste Medem thanks you very much
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Mam very nicely explained.
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Thanku
Correct mam .. mai b aisa hi karti hu...
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Hello mam....agar woh insan pati hi ho jise hum pasand nhi krte fir kya krna chahiye😀
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Kya hua
Ji hn mem bilkul sahi baat hai
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thanx
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Exactly ❤️❤️
Thanks Ravi Sharma 🙏🏻🙂
Mujhe lagta hai ki sabse achhe se bat karte hai our mujhse koi baat nahi karte matlab koi bhi baat sheyar nahi karte
आपको ऐसा किसलिए लगता है...
Very nice mam🙏🥰
Thanks a lot
Thanks a lot madam.
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Thank you mam aap bahut acche Se Samjhe aati ho
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right mam
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Really madam you are doing a great job for society
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Mam maine saas se boht freely baat kiya..aur meri takleef bhi batayi...infact saas sasur and husband sab k saamne apne mann ki baat rakhi...
Result boht bura hua..kuch log nhi samajhte..aur bas raaj karna chahte hai...
2 yrs of marriage mein boht struggle rha ... Fir maine khul kr bolna chod diya...ab adjust kr leti hu...boht mushkil lagta hai..lekin karna padta hai..
Aur koi option nhi h hamare pas
Monica Beti.Meri bahu hai.Mai Aur mera beta hum Thuk Gaye Usase Adjust karate huye.Wah pagal Nahi Balki Murukh Jai
Mam aap achhi videos bnati h thanks
शुक्रिया
M b yahi krti hun umeed ni rakhti kisi se aur accept kr leti hu smile b rakhti hun .. but fir b yr kabhi na kabhi to brdash k bahr ho jaega tb Kya hoga ..2nd thing jab hum bardash krte rehte hai to ghr me sab smjhte k Galt insan ko k vo ab sahi ho gya hai kyu k hun ne bardash krna shuru kr diya
Hello mam. THANKS GIVING 🌹 greetings just a little bit late. Thank you from the bottom of my heart 💓. Aapki vajeh se life bahut positive ho gayi hai.🙏 Mam Mai aapke videos regularly dekhti Hoon. Aap ek family member ki tareh lagti Hain Jo her baat ko itni achhi tareh se samjhati Hain. Beech me jub Aap hansti Hain to mood or bhi achha ho jata hai..May God bless you mam.🙏
शुक्रिया नीलम💐
Ma'am mere liye a video awsom hai thku
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Really apne man hlka kr diya
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Mam u r too good
Thanks Sonal 🙏🏻🙂
I really love your videos monicaji....🤗🤗
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Meri sis law se thodi dikkat hai unki shadi ho chuki hai but Abhi bhi control unka hi hai Sab unke hibat mante hai even mere husband bhi unhe kuch keh nai sakte to muje kya Karna chaiye.
Madam, kindly answer,which Mike do u use for recording while making RUclips videos.
कॉलर माईक
Thanku so much very useful information mem...
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Thanks for sharing
If possible add spiritual value
Mam , How to manage school , Tutions , self studies in a balance way .
Hello mam ! u r right apne ko hi change karna chayie but sab kuch Kar ke Dekh liya Apne ko change bhi, chup bhi rhe ke Dekh liye ache se BAAT bhi karke Dekha but jab samne wala hi bilkul badlene ko tiyaar na ho or Raat din Ghar Ka mahool kharab Kar rha rha ho to kya kare
फिर आपको जल्द से जल्द घर के बडे बुजुर्गो से सलाह लेकर इसका हल निकालना ही चाहिए...