Pile 1: them being traumatized is not an excuse to abuse the hell out of me. I don’t accept that as an acceptable reason. I too was traumatized in my childhood but I don’t go and abuse the living sh*t out of people everywhere I go. How toxic. He deserves every drop of karma he wracked up for himself. Maybe he should’ve used his brain and thought about how this was going to affect his future.
one thing to keep in mind is to remember another person has no obligation to act in life according to how you would. It is difficult to remember this especially when we have been through hell and back and still love. This is your choice to make sure no one feels the way you did, however another person can make a simple choice to make others feel the way they do on the inside. Because we live in a dualistic world this is only natural in keeping the balance. It doesn't make it easier or better, it simply is. We can hold onto resentment and hope that it doesn't change us or we can allow them to be who they are and remember that forgiveness is not an invitation back into our lives it is an action one chooses to take to free themselves from the resentment which can easily turn us into those we ourselves are not understanding in the first place. Triggers allow us opportunity to heal ourselves because this is the only thing we can control in our journey. Good luck on this and know you are supported and loved by the divine and your angels. May you find your soul light and your truth in unconditional love! 🙏✨🙏🌟🕊️
"Most of us have become bundles of conditioned reflexes that are constantly being triggered by people and circumstances into predictable outcomes of behavior. These conditioned reflexes are like Pavlovian conditioning. Pavlov is famous for demonstrating that if you give a dog something to eat every time you ring a bell, soon the dog starts to salivate when you ring a bell, because it has associated one stimulus with the other. Most of us, as a result of conditioning, have repetitious and predictable responses to stimuli in our environment. Our reactions seem to be automatically triggered by people and circumstances, and we forget that these are still choices we are making in every moment of our existence. We are simply making these choices unconsciously." -Deepak Chopra It's not abuse, all the world is ourselves being reflected back to us in order to heal some kind of wound that is deeply compartmentalize within. You get to make your choice, keep in mind the longer you stay a victim and choose to disconnect, the harder things become in the long run. Good luck on your journey.
I chose #1 too and feel your pain but please understand that no one gets away with anything. There are three people in my life that I was inquiring about and all three of them have experienced major tragedies in their lives. From car crashes, bad health to the lose of a child. Not to mention that they are utterly alone and self loathing. It's actually sad because these were people placed in my life to love and nurture me and their default was always cruelty and competitiveness.
@@scatterlovetarotdo better in delivering your messages if people can call you out on it every spiritual narcissist has a hidden agenda when you defend an abuser it’s because you are one.
Pile 1: Well, I certainly hope I will never find anyone like them ever again. They are the worst person I ever came across, genuinely. They abused me, then victim-blamed and said they were justified in trying to ruin my life. She really thinks she's God, it's bizarre. I am manifesting someone who will treat me with respect and who actually knows how to love people. Yes, it was very frustrating to see people praise them while I got nothing. I hope it finally can be the other way around. I've waited long enough. She has a terrible attitude and she doesn’t even appreciate what she has.
I'm so sorry to hear you went through this, I am proud of you for finding the strength to choose you! While it seems like the win for a time, the truth will always be revealed and keep in mind by that time you will probably already be wrapped up in your dream. Focus on loving yourself and focus one foot in front of the other, you for I'll one day look back and see how much courage you truly have had all this time! Stay strong, stay lifted! 💕✨🙏❤️🪄
This must be so difficult to endure, I am so proud of you for choosing yourself, for knowing your boundaries and sticking to them! Stay lifted my love, you are a special soul! ✨💕🫂🙏
May happiness find your soul, may you always find a reason to smile and to remember that you are capable of going through the storm, as well as coming out of the storm. As it is spoken, so shall it be, Amen, A'ho, Ase!💕🙏🥰🌟✨
Pile 1: them being traumatized is not an excuse to abuse the hell out of me. I don’t accept that as an acceptable reason. I too was traumatized in my childhood but I don’t go and abuse the living sh*t out of people everywhere I go. How toxic. He deserves every drop of karma he wracked up for himself. Maybe he should’ve used his brain and thought about how this was going to affect his future.
one thing to keep in mind is to remember another person has no obligation to act in life according to how you would. It is difficult to remember this especially when we have been through hell and back and still love. This is your choice to make sure no one feels the way you did, however another person can make a simple choice to make others feel the way they do on the inside. Because we live in a dualistic world this is only natural in keeping the balance. It doesn't make it easier or better, it simply is. We can hold onto resentment and hope that it doesn't change us or we can allow them to be who they are and remember that forgiveness is not an invitation back into our lives it is an action one chooses to take to free themselves from the resentment which can easily turn us into those we ourselves are not understanding in the first place. Triggers allow us opportunity to heal ourselves because this is the only thing we can control in our journey. Good luck on this and know you are supported and loved by the divine and your angels. May you find your soul light and your truth in unconditional love! 🙏✨🙏🌟🕊️
@scatterlovetarotone thing to keep in mind is another person has no right to abuse someone, no matter what.
You must be an abuser yourself.
Pile 1: So Spirit was ok with abusing me and ruining my health to bring this person healing. How f***ed up is that??! I’m done with Spirit too.
"Most of us have become bundles of conditioned reflexes that are constantly being triggered by people and circumstances into predictable outcomes of behavior. These conditioned reflexes are like Pavlovian conditioning. Pavlov is famous for demonstrating that if you give a dog something to eat every time you ring a bell, soon the dog starts to salivate when you ring a bell, because it has associated one stimulus with the other.
Most of us, as a result of conditioning, have repetitious and predictable responses to stimuli in our environment. Our reactions seem to be automatically triggered by people and circumstances, and we forget that these are still choices we are making in every moment of our existence. We are simply making these choices unconsciously." -Deepak Chopra
It's not abuse, all the world is ourselves being reflected back to us in order to heal some kind of wound that is deeply compartmentalize within. You get to make your choice, keep in mind the longer you stay a victim and choose to disconnect, the harder things become in the long run. Good luck on your journey.
I chose #1 too and feel your pain but please understand that no one gets away with anything. There are three people in my life that I was inquiring about and all three of them have experienced major tragedies in their lives. From car crashes, bad health to the lose of a child. Not to mention that they are utterly alone and self loathing. It's actually sad because these were people placed in my life to love and nurture me and their default was always cruelty and competitiveness.
@@scatterlovetarotdo better in delivering your messages if people can call you out on it every spiritual narcissist has a hidden agenda when you defend an abuser it’s because you are one.
A total sociopath
Pile 1: Well, I certainly hope I will never find anyone like them ever again. They are the worst person I ever came across, genuinely. They abused me, then victim-blamed and said they were justified in trying to ruin my life. She really thinks she's God, it's bizarre.
I am manifesting someone who will treat me with respect and who actually knows how to love people. Yes, it was very frustrating to see people praise them while I got nothing. I hope it finally can be the other way around. I've waited long enough. She has a terrible attitude and she doesn’t even appreciate what she has.
I'm so sorry to hear you went through this, I am proud of you for finding the strength to choose you! While it seems like the win for a time, the truth will always be revealed and keep in mind by that time you will probably already be wrapped up in your dream. Focus on loving yourself and focus one foot in front of the other, you for I'll one day look back and see how much courage you truly have had all this time! Stay strong, stay lifted!
💕✨🙏❤️🪄
@@scatterlovetarot Thank you for the uplifting message.
Pile 1. These are narcisstic parents... They abused me so bad...
Spot on
Thank you, my love! 💎✨💕🙏
Pile 3: third party at a mental health practice. I met his new toy, which is his intern. Planning on leaving the job before it crumples.
This must be so difficult to endure, I am so proud of you for choosing yourself, for knowing your boundaries and sticking to them! Stay lifted my love, you are a special soul! ✨💕🫂🙏
@@scatterlovetarot Thank you so much for the kind words
Pile 1 and 2. You gave me such great insight. Thank you
You are so welcome, my love. I am so grateful to be here with you in this place called Earth, may all your dreams come true always! 🙏💝🦢
Pile 3 wow shook , so accurate
Thank you for confirming this, my love! 🙏💕✨💎
Pile 1 thank you for the reading very accurate. I just SUBBED.
Welcome to the tribe, my love! I am honored to have you here, thank you for your time and energy! 🥰🙏✨💕🙌
@@scatterlovetarot appreciate you for clarity 🔮💜💋
Pile2 thanks!!👀🥰
You are so welcome, I am honored! 💕✨🙏🥰
Ohh my God.. BCZ I'm the one I help her who she is now 🙏 your so on point pile 1
Thank you for this comment and for your energy and time! It is my honor, my love. Many blessings of love and light! 🙏✨💕🥰
Pile 2. I am so sad
May happiness find your soul, may you always find a reason to smile and to remember that you are capable of going through the storm, as well as coming out of the storm. As it is spoken, so shall it be, Amen, A'ho, Ase!💕🙏🥰🌟✨
Beautiful reading I choose to forgive in love Thank you!🤲🙏❤️
Thank you so much for this comment my love, I appreciate you truly! 🙏🫂✨💕
#3 Ewww. Gross. Promiscuity. He deserved it.
Life has a weird way of being back what one puts out. Stay lifted my love! 💕✨🙏🪄
Hello..thank you for the reading!
Also amazingly accurate to the someone I chose.
You are welcome, I am honored you are here with the tribe! 🌞✨🙏💕
Pile 1 ..... Spot on (*ˊᗜˋ*)ᵗᑋᵃᐢᵏ ᵞᵒᵘ 💯💯💯💯💯💯
You are so welcome, thank you my love for being here! 💕🌟🙏✨
Omg...... He is a VIRGO 😳😳😳😳
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P2
Thank you for being here! 🥰🙏✨💕
1S
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