You just randomly popped up in my YT shorts feed and I just fell in love with your personality. I'm so pleased you're here online being so open and educating all of us with your life experiences. ❤❤
The same with me, I first saw her on Insta - or was it FB Reels? Anyway, Alexis you are not just beautiful, but also inspiring! In times, when that LGBTQ things pop out from everywhere, one can easily feel bothered. But in a world, where one can be everything, it is possible to get to meet someone, who transitioned already, or is still in that process. Your videos help enormous, to UNDERSTAND, what transitioning means. And it is important to know, how to interact and deal with this topic. So I figured out, treating trans people as normal as possible, not to ask any questions the might not like, etc. One day will come, that me too meets someone, while working or so, it is only a question of time. Love your videos, keep on going, girl! You are awesome!!! Thank you so much for letting us be part of your journey!!!
You and Blair White are the only transwomen I watch on youtube! You're both beautiful, very real and very much in touch with reality. You are very respectful which is why you're respected. Respect is a two-way street! The rest are just out of this world and it makes it hard for me to embrace the transcommunity!
Can I do a gentle request that you stop watching Blair White she spreads a lot of misinformation and generally has a pattern of profiting off of transphobia apologia. Could I recommend Samantha Lux or Jammidodger? Both are great easy to watch trans creators who explain their views clearly and don't antagonize people too much :)
@@silkebroxdude7625 Its not a secret ! Is it the fact that they dress look and sound like women that bothers you or is it the crazy woke activists who do shit in the name of transfolk and spread the lies like men can BE women etc, cos I was getting bothered about transgender people and the whole thing until I spoke to a few I know and like Alexis don't think the same as these activists who seem to have taken up the baton but dropped the ball and are spreading misinformation and even blatant lies to further their own political agenda?😎🖖
Hiya; for me It’s your authenticity, objectivity and empathy when you speak about your opinions they show respect & value for others so I’m a fan!!! I have subscribed to your channel as you’re fabulous to listen to!!! 😊😊😊
Wow he was so shady, i am so sorry that this happened. So many things he could of said instead. I am glad you are helping people understand and make changes.
Maybe he thought that she was going to take someone’s job. I have been in a similar situation because I hadn’t told the workplace that I had a higher degree, it wasn’t relevant to the position and no one fought for me but that was what they were all worried about.
I don’t care anymore people calling me man or dude!! I live in California and the hate against us is insane now so I just live my life, I know who I am and that’s it. I just say to myself that I’m biologically male who transitioned into trans female and I’m happy who I am now, the transition was for me not waiting for validation from everyone. I found it just easier that I accept myself as a trans woman instead of a woman, peace of mind! I hope you will find a way to never be upset by situations like this one in the future. Thank you for the video ❤
It is sad, people hating each other and all. I knew this would happen, when the more radical amongst the community, and even outside of it (leftist in general), started getting louder and pushing for things like the drag shows in children spaces, or the indoctrination of kids even bringing porn around them, my brother (teacher), got kicked off of Facebook showing a book they had in the school. The forcing stuff on people, the silly pronouns, invading women's spaces, including sports and utterly destroying biological women. That's where the anger comes from, which turns into hate (as Yoda says). I find it very fascinating, that the very same people, who are deemed as "transphobic", for being angry at these things, will look at the trans community or "ladyboys" in Thailand, and will say things like "wow they are very beautiful", "look how nice they are", "look how respectful and honest they are", "I wish the trans community in our country were more like them". It is the division elites want, they want us fighting and hating each other, it is how they control us easier. Alexis Blake and Blaire White, are the absolute perfect examples to follow within the trans community, and the new fighters. The radicals out in the streets, being so vulgar, destructive, and supporting the taking over of women's spaces, and indoctrinating/grooming children, are not it at all. Back in the day the trans and gays who were in the streets fighting, fought the good fight, they were right and so they won. Today it is not the same, this is different, but they try to wear the same mask, as the fighters of the past and they are nothing like them at all. Don't listen to what the media is pushing out, as the vast majority of the country, support the protection of lgbt people.. Even the Jehovah Witnesses and Evangelicals came out saying they should be protected. The people in the streets, screaming about how they are losing their rights, have been lied to by the media. The legislation being brought up, or passed, has to do with making it illegal for a parent to have their small child who doesn't know anything about anything, being brought in for surgery.. There is even a case in Texas, where a mother basically forced her son into thinking he is a girl and uses it to taunt the father. The other is to keep the sex heavy stuff away from the children, something many gay people are also against and speaking out about it.. You have to check out Blaire White, she is very amazing!
I'm very happy with what you comented and I think it is the most logical and intelligent thing you can do. Accept and rejoice who you are, respect and be respected and move on with your life. It's that simple. I can't imagine how hard it must be to feel like you born in a wrong body and I can't understand how there are people who just want to fight and make life even more difficult than it already is.
I think the hate you describe is probably because of the militant activists have taken over the trans issue and in my opinion doing nothing but alienate the rational, reasonable people who really dont give a fyck who you wanna present as they just dont want this gender ideology and woke ness in the classrooms of their young children, some so called teachers are pushing their own political views onto kids with the walls of these classrooms being covered in questionable trans posters etc. I'm as straight as it gets but I have nothing against anyone doing what makes them happy as long as it don't involve young kids.😎🖖
I feel like this is how it should be for everyone. As a biological, straight, white woman (I only say this for context) I feel like we should all be able to live among ourselves without having to explain or “come out” as anything or give excuses for who we are. It’s no one’s business what we do as long as we aren’t hurting anyone in the process. Doing anything other than living freely in this world is what draws the divide among people. Shoving thoughts or feelings down anyone’s throat is how we pit ourselves against others. I don’t care if your trans, gay, an accountant or anything else just don’t try and force anything on me and we’ll likely be great friends.
You handled a very upsetting, stressful situation amazingly. I hope there were some people at your job who came by to see if you were okay & not because they had to or just treated you like a person and not the subject of gossip. I hope your job continues to improve & it gets to a point that it's a job that a bunch of people work at and not about people's gender. 💜
Hi Alexis I'm Adele and Trans myself and this happened to me like just the exact same thing being outed at work a few years back and I can remember the hurt and the pain that I felt in that moment in my life and at that stage in my transition I only had a couple of months until my main operation and I was literally on cloud nine and hadn't seen or heard anything transphobic or derogatory towards me for absolutely ages and so when it does happen it absolutely shatters me emotionally and physically 😊 so I can understand what an how it must have felt and what it must have done to you babe.
Alexis, your tic tok video, the one in your car, came into my feed about 2 weeks ago. After listening to you I wanted so badly to give you a big hug. I love your videos and this first youtube video of yours was very impressive. I'm now a fan. You are beautiful both inside and out. Your lips have such a perfect shape, I envy. You are so genuine and I love your accent. I'm a mother of a Transgender female, she is 26 yrs old. Thankfully, when she came out to friends/family and her co-workers she was embraced by all except an uncle who just doesn't get it. The uncle basically said it was a sin and kept dead naming her. I love and support the lgbtq+ community and the Transgender community truly has my ♥. I love that you have a wonderfully supportive finance. Keep making videos please I really appreciate you.
This just popped up on my feed and ive been following recently and youve continued to be real and transparent and utterly refreshing ❤ thatnk you for being you
I'm a biological woman in her 50's and I admire your restraint in dealing with the idiot who outed you. If I had been in your position I don't think I would have been so reasonable towards him. He would have wished he had never been born by the time I had finished with him (I blame the menopause, it's a bitch and brings out a lot of angry emotions! 😂). You're an inspiration and a credit to both the trans and the female community. Love you Alexis x
Hi Alexis, I'm a hetero/straight man and got two sons and a daughter just to get the picture😊 but I have to say you are very beautiful both physically as in personality and I just want to say how brave you are. The best part is that you seem to be completely yourself and not a character like for instance most of people of the attention seeking modern LGBTQI community. Please stay just as you are and have the most beautiful and happy life with yourself and your fiance. God bless you.
Love your personality and the way you look. Beautiful. You are a voice of reason and sanity in this increasingly out of control world. Stay strong and love to you.
Its unfair to put keeping your "secret" on others causing mental distress in others. You should not have asked the man to not say anything. Youre trans, own it! You're causing other folks stress.
I dont agree with you. This man wasn't mentally stressed, he saw an opportunity to create drama and intice hate. He knew what he was doing. He didn't have to say anything, the fact that he did shows his immaturity.
@@wendyprince1301Why? Transwomen are creating such situations with being not honest about what they’re and disrespecting womens boundaries. I watched a few newer vids from Alexis and found them always refreshing reasonable. This one though … They all "knew" anyway, it was just that noone dared to talk about it open without confirmation. Noone can change their sex, this was common knowledge just a few years ago. Most doesn’t have problems with transpeople, as long they’re honest and respecting sex-based boundaries.
Can I just say how refreshing your channel is? You are such a lovely soul and a role model. As a straight woman, I have always prided myself on being inclusive to everyone no matter who they love or the color of their skin.
Yayyyy! I have been waiting for you to do a full video!! You are such a gorgeous and thoughtful human being... and quite a cute girly too heheh!! So glad to get to know more about you!
Thanks for sharing this with me. It would have been so easy to have just driven away but you went back in - good on you ❤. I can’t believe that after waiting all weekend, they then had you wondering ALL Monday too 😳 I know that you shouldn’t have had to do anything or offer them advice on what to do next, but you did and your actions should really facilitate changes now and in the future. I imagine that they would have been terrified of a discrimination case or something like that. Maybe you should have asked for fresh flowers and chocolates on your desk every week lol. I wish you and your fiancé all the best. Thanks again for sharing this story. 🙂🐿🌈❤️
I was so excited to see you did a video! And not only shorts. I’ve been curious about how it all went and what not so I’m gonna grab a cuppa and take a seat to listen for a little while 🤗 I don’t follow tons of channels/people regularly but happy to follow yours! Anyways, I’m gonna shush and listen now 🫖 Thanks for being you!
I wish I could have given you a hug! It breaks my heart that people changed after they were told (which was a truly shitey thing to be done to you!) because I know I wouldn't have treated you any differently ❤
Alexis, I just stumbled upon you when all this came out in regards to Dylan. I have to say first off, I do not understand the whole Trans thing. I am very uneducated in regards to this. But what I can say is that you are the most beautiful person I have ever encountered. When you were outed at work, I wanted to reach through the phone and give you a big hug. You are so beautiful inside and out, it is amazing what an amazing person you are. I just wanted you to know that even if people don't understand, doesn't mean they don't care. Never forget how truly amazing you are.❤
I'm in Australia ... and when I saw the part with you crying in the car I wanted to hop on a plane, find you and give you a big kiss and cuddle. My husband and I love you and really enjoy your videos. We're learning so much and I thank you for educating us and others around you. I'm so sorry there are people in this world who are *insert really bad swear words*. I could go on forever, but basically ... we love you, we are proud of you and we thank you for allowing us into your home where we get to experience your journey. Your ups and downs, your laughter and your tears. What a bloody magnificent example of a woman you are. Thank you ❤️
Asking someone else not to gossip behind your back is reasonable. Asking someone to lie for you is wrong. You should be able to live your best life as you choose, and I fully support that. You are not female, that is a lie. As someone who loves science and who's education is in biology, I find that lie particularly offensive. Society should not have to lie to accept you. You are perfectly wonderful as a trans-woman and living your best life as who you are. You being you is the only health way to live imo and seeing you do that brings me joy. But, you are not female, and I won't be forced to lie even with the barrel of the cancel culture gun to my head.
still not their place. none of their business. it's their personal business. it's not something like saying she's actually a natural blonde. they knew there would be fall out and made the choice to do harm. you don't accept Aleix is a trans woman fine, but it's complex and people are very hostile. they are at high rates of violence. this was done with malice. nothing good came out of divulging this information
I’m a gay man, not trans, but I was outed by my mother to the rest of my extended family when I was 19. At the dinner table. On Christmas Day. It’s not the same, but it’s similar enough that I can totally understand why she was upset. It’s not someone else’s story to tell. NO ONE should be outed, wether that’s as trans, gay, lesbian or bi. It’s up to the individual to let people know, when and if they’re ready
Sadly, I can see some employers not employing trans staff because of the potential minefield when you can't control staff words and actions even if there's been education.
You are the most wonderful woman..I dont care if you are transgender. I'm 57 and ROM th 80's generation..and I think you are the example all transgender should strive for! Not kidding. You are respectful and deserve RESPECT. God bless and hugs. -Trish.
Love you Alexis! I don’t have Ticktock so I first saw you here on YT shorts and I love the energy you put out into the world! You’re my favorite trans influencer and a lovely person! Whenever I hear crazy things coming from a certain American loudmouth who seems set on simultaneously erasing and mocking biological women, I think of you and wish that one day your words will be the ones getting all the attention! You’re a beautiful, graceful person and your heart shines through in your videos. Thank you for being you! ❤
I understand being hit from the left field without expecting it and having folk , especially in Yorkshire where its renown as very salt of the Earth type folk who speak straight and are very conservative - gossiping behind you about being a trans person was painful as any form of gossip is. But, I am at a lost why you would be so angry for the young man speaking truth in the sense you were born a biological man. In that young man's mind you are indeed male and so he emotionally defended his person - being a male and possibly not wanting to be seen as being interested in male or transwoman ( as you said some folk would work it out that you are a transwoman by your Adams apple and larger hands). He was emotionally defending his vulnerability in front of such a conservative group of people whom you did say are so not used to seeing trans people be it women or men in their workplace - so much so they had no diversity training in how to deal with the possibility. He was being straight honest in the context that he knew you as a man. I can appreciate you have been through a lot to become a transwoman and the term 'man' does not resonate with you anymore, but if you can go through all that intense experience to transition I would have thought someone speaking in black and white terms would surely not faze you. Plus , its odd that you were so mad at him for telling folk you are/were a man because you wanted it to be private but you are communicating your complete story and current situation on TikTok and now YT. Your journey sounds incredibly challenging and required for you to be determined, strong minded and know what you want which is why the above elements seem confusing.
I understand you were upset about not having control over your personal information being ‘out there’ but I’m not really sure about why you’re upset your colleagues know about your journey. If you want equality and diversity at work, people first have to know there are differences. You also have to accept that your differences will make people uncomfortable until they know you, that’s just human nature and it will take time to accept trans, as it did LGB. There will be a level of resentment because colleagues and workmates will have to undergo training in something they may not believe in, their working practices may have to change which can be uncomfortable when they have been the norm for so long and they will question why everything has to change for the many to accommodate the one. This has never been a societal norm, the many have always had the voice. You seem to be light years away from the screaming mobs of activists, so often seen on social media; they have done nothing to help the trans cause in fact I would say they have set the cause back by decades. Your dignified, educated approach will engender acceptance and if trans people want to live quiet mundane lives like the rest of us, I’ve no doubt this will happen because most people don’t care what other people do as long as it doesn’t impact them negatively. I wish you every happiness in your future.
I'm incredibly curious about the transitioning and what you had to do to be where you are now... Cause you said you had to go through a lot of doctors to get on hormones and stuff. When and if your ever ready to tell that side of your story I would LOVE to listen!! Your amazing ❤
I would love this myself but it's incredibly sensitive and very private so we should not expect Alexis to tell anything. The fact she showed her cute girly pink top and spoke about her breasts is more than I ever expected. And I thank her so much for that
My goodness I’m glad I found you. I am cis female(she/her) and this helped me so much with my work situation. I was outed as a former addict and truly that feels like such a minor thing compared to what you have to deal with. You do it with such grace. I’m in awe of you! What a Powerful Woman you are ❤
omg how mortifying, so sorry you went through this, it really opens our eyes to just how much trans people go through, its not just about the operations and all that stuff, but the whole social aspect too, for some reason I never really thought about the fact that it doesn't happen over night, you have to work and live in-between each stage and deal with peoples BS as you go. I bet you thought great new job new life new me, then this idiot had to be a jerk and everything crashes down. Well you are amazing thats all i can really say. sending you love and support x
That's the best experience to transition with the support of managers and staff. I transitioned on my job for the state. I had the support of the Director of Nursing and the CEO. There were still people who didn't accept my transition but they didn't matter to me. I had no choice and I love a challenge. I have no regrets whatsoever. Love your channel and content.
Straight woman, totally standing for women's rights, and I am by your side. It is inspiring to see real trans people stand for truth and reality and fairness. Hugs and support all the way from NewZealand ❤
Alexis, I'm so sorry this happened to you. I'm a teacher and sick of having to speak to older staff about inclusion for everyone. You are beautiful inside and out xx
I hate this happened to you. You r a respectable trans woman. U aren’t trying to erase biological women or trick straight men & know what TRANS woman means. However it’s easy to see that u r trans.
Alexis I think you are absolutely wonderful. I love the way you speak. So peaceful and loving. I no longer identify myself by a political party. I just dont fit into either box. I lean conservative BUT I love people first and foremost. I love to see people be happy and I dont judge anyone's journey. You just have an incredible energy and I am here for it 🩷 Turning my notifications on for the first time. I just love you
You are a strong person and i think you dealt with it really well. I have been transitioned for quite a while and I have been very guarded about my past, I am very careful. I am not ashamed to be trans but it is a very personal thing that not just anyone deserves to know about. If something like this happened to me I would be so angry. However it would be a good opportunity for the company to do a lot better on equality issues and I think what happened in your situation has enabled things to be a lot better for you in the future and also for others in your situation.
I’m so sorry that this kind of uncomfortable situation was thrust upon you for just wanting to live and present as your most authentic self. With all of the legal, medical and beauty steps you have taken to look like a woman-and in fact to look better than most women- you are exactly the kind of trans woman us women welcome into our group. Thank you for sharing your story.
Alexis, i absolutely adore Rimmel Heather Shimmer, it is a 90s colour, it's the colour I've worn since my teen years, i think you pull it off better than i do though, the colour is so pretty on you. Im so glad you've managed to make a change with this company, it doesn't matter where they're based, there's really no excuse. Well done for confronting the issue in the way you did, even if they're was some sassyness 😉 You're so down to earth and i look forward to seeing your tickytoks 💜💜💜
I’ve been outed more times than I can count and I’m passable, too. Ignorant people have been outing trans-girls since day one, it’s just part of being trans. You have to adapt to the situation and continue living your best life. 🤷🏻♀️🏳️⚧️
Hello Alexis, I just found one of your shorts which led me to your work story, I’m so sorry you had to go though that, I love your personality and your shorts. You are so Beautiful wish red lipstick looked as good on me, than it does you definitely giving me the Marylin Vibes. Just want to say thank you for your videos and your story and views on transitioning much love ❤️
We have two trans males where I work. I remember when Michelle came to work for us. Looked like a young man already. There was talk but nothing hateful or vulgar. Just plenty of curiosity. And this is a blue collar organization here. A couple years into her employment with us, Michelle started growing leg hair out and started to have a bit of facial hair. Then Michelle legally changer to Mitch. That was a tough one for a while. Accidentally calling him Michelle every now and then... " Dude im sorry man" Mitch: "Dont worry about it (laughing) I get it." Mitch never tripped about it and understood it was going to be a bit of time before we all started seeing she as he. Mitch is a Trans Man. Not an activist. I've been to his wedding and have done huge photoshoots for him and his family. He has an amazing support circle and family. Well all love and respect him. He's just another guy out there in the field with us whom works hard to live his life and provide for his family
You’re a beautiful soul no matter what you choose to live as your videos are really interesting and informative I didn’t know much about what a trans person experiences Thank you for sharing your story ❤ You’re fabulous
Hey, did you ever inform- prior to your outing- the women in your workplace that they were sharing their bathroom with a man? If not, what gives you the right to take away their choices and rights so you could stay stealth?
Finally! First video, have so much love for you. love the positive vibes from you, ur beautiful and sorry for what has had happened to you and I hope you never go through that again.
"someone like me" i know its easy for people to say, but, people like you - you're a woman. you are very eloquent, i remember seeing many women just like you in the UK, your "look" your "sound" in your voice. I would consider myself lucky to have you as a friend, a close friend. i wanted to see what your early video looked like after seeing some from this month. happy for you.
That’s so cruel that people turned on you purely because you’re Trans. I’m so sad that happened to you. It’s fantastic that HR backed you up and asked for input for policies for inclusivity, safe spaces and fairness. You now hold some power yourself to make a difference for you and everyone else who works there. Good luck - I think you’ve got this ❤
Hi single straight older male I enjoy your content. I am a supporter of transgender women trying to lead just normal lives I’m Just sending you some support.😃😊🥰👍
Im sorry this happened to you my luv nobody has the right to speak your business im glad you are a strong person keep smiling and im sorry you have to put up with people getting up in your business hold your head high luv!
You didn't shout at him coz you're a good person 😊 he was an idiot and insensitive but he isn't a bad person. You handled yourself so freaking well hen well done! ❤️
I'm so sorry that happened to u that's just awful I really admire u I was born female. I don't like the word cis women and all those other words thrown at us women. I believe so much in respect I think you're a gorgeous woman and so strong.😊
@@Alexis_blake00 Can't wait see more of ur videos and positive vibes back and I hope they realize ur a women just like us and u should be treated with respect. 💕
I follow you on TikTok & I really enjoy your content, you are so lovely to listen to & such a calm & well reasoned person. I’m so happy that I found your RUclips channel ♥️
You put so many other trans women to shame .l you are so sweet and gentle and humble If they were all like you trans people Would be accepted so much more
I definitely think the "Not my type" response would have been the best thing he could have said. It fully covers sexual and gender preferences without spilling details. (Because let's face it, engagement or having a higher position doesn't stop too many people.)
I had a job recently, and straight away, they wanted to rebrand the disabled WC as "gender neutral." this lasted almost a week before I thought to myself, "Wait a minute - I'm transgender, not f@#£ing disabled!". I didn't ask for their permission, I just started using the ladies, but I was armed with the appropriate sections of the equalities act, just in case. I am a transgender woman. they put my chosen name on my contract, I was officially employed as female, I am there presenting as a woman - yet, jjevery time I go to and use the disabled WC instead of the ladies, it Mark's me out as being different. HR, was "concerned, that some people might get offended, or upset if they came across me in the ladies". But, throughout the months of me using the ladies, 9 times out of 10, I would be the only person in the room. and if someone did happen to come into the room, they would naturally go into their own qubicle and go about their business. I would finish, wash and leave and we still wouldn't cross paths, HR recieved zero complaints. all this talk about "safe spaces", is just nonsense. a convenient excuse to allow facilities like HR to say we are inclusive, but at the same time, openly discriminate. ironically, it's the FtM transgender people who have it worse. ladies WC's are all individual private spaces, the men's is normally an open-planed experience, with rows of guys all peeing into the same troff. a reality check is in order here!
You are amazing. I love watching your shorts but a full video is golden! You are so beautiful. I'm sorry you have to deal with this in your work place. My job is very LGBTQ+ friendly, if that is what you call it. I don't think people realize all the stuff you have to go through to transition. Please keep showing videos 😊
@Alexis Blake yes! I hope all jobs start being more friendly and accommodating to this community. No one should ever have to deal with what you have already. You are so strong and how you handled it was the best.
HI Alexis Sorry you had to go through that. Some people are very nasty. Some are just ignorant, you are a beautiful person inside and out, and I wish you all the best in your new life. So happy you have got the support of your family and Liam. 🤗🤗🤗 take care ❤️
Hey! You found a beautiful match on your extensions! I’m so sorry someone felt they had to do that to you. That just means their life is so small and petty that they wanted to bring someone as low as they feel about themselves.
I think what people fail to understand is the average person really doesn’t care one way or the other what some does or is. Personally I live my life treating everyone the same. I am not interested in the private life of those outside my personal circle. I was raised un the do as you would be done to principle. What she is speaking about applies to every one, the man was in the wrong spilling someone’s private information regardless of the issues she has raised. All people have the right to a reasonable expectation of privacy.😊
@@Alexis_blake00 I'm kind of obsessed with your YT shorts😁, I've been hoping that you would start doing full videos, I know obviously they're time consuming😏, but your realism is so refreshing compared to others in our 'community' that seem to be living in lalaland😬, it's nice to know we're not alone🥰
You are adorable love your videos. You explain things so clearly and humbly. Thank you for sharing your journey xx you are the only one I watch and feel like I am getting a better understanding. Keep being the beautiful you xx
I'm so sorry you went through that, its a shame that most likely they found you attractive. And then were embarrassed when they found out they were attracted to a transwoman, to hide their own insecurities And shame they have to try and tear you down to make themselves feel better.
Jesus that blows my mind that anyone would get annoyed or give you funny looks it also makes me really angry that he thought it was ok to tell your business xxx
Can I just say that you have the most beautiful hands ,I have hand envy!! I cannot grow nails ,they crack n split and as a women I often find myself feeling self conscious of them ( I also have vitiligo on my hands ) .I'm so sorry you had such a horrible experience ,your a gorgeous ,courageous, empathic beautiful woman Alexis ! That company is very lucky to have you !
I have a beard & have to shave every two days, I am female by birth but suffer with hirtuism, I've been checked for polycystic ovarian syndrome as that does run in my family, but the results were negative, but do get enormous amount of negative comments, I've found children & younger people are the worst, why cant everyone just live & let live 😢
His time will come one day when he wants something kept from ppl and he will be betrayed and know what it's like ....glad u got the support u needed and deserved x and omg Heather shimmer love it ❤xx
You are a strong woman! Thank you for sharing your story. ❤ Also, your fiance has some of the most expressive eyebrows I've ever seen! I bet he's really good at giving you the sad puppy dog stare when he wants something 😅
I like to preface this by saying I really like you !! I am liberal in the gay rights aspect and want equal rights for trans but I’m a Republican. However, I don’t agree with forcing this ideology on everyone and children. But, I saw one of your videos where you handled that stuff so gracefully with a child. You told them to ask their mommy and daddy and leave to the parents :) you are beautiful and like I said I normally don’t watch these type of channels but I really like yours! I’m so sorry that you had to deal with bigotry with your co workers :( you are a strong woman and it’s 2023 and no one should care if you are or not and it’s no one’s business
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You just randomly popped up in my YT shorts feed and I just fell in love with your personality. I'm so pleased you're here online being so open and educating all of us with your life experiences. ❤❤
The same with me, I first saw her on Insta - or was it FB Reels? Anyway, Alexis you are not just beautiful, but also inspiring! In times, when that LGBTQ things pop out from everywhere, one can easily feel bothered. But in a world, where one can be everything, it is possible to get to meet someone, who transitioned already, or is still in that process. Your videos help enormous, to UNDERSTAND, what transitioning means. And it is important to know, how to interact and deal with this topic.
So I figured out, treating trans people as normal as possible, not to ask any questions the might not like, etc.
One day will come, that me too meets someone, while working or so, it is only a question of time.
Love your videos, keep on going, girl! You are awesome!!! Thank you so much for letting us be part of your journey!!!
You and Blair White are the only transwomen I watch on youtube! You're both beautiful, very real and very much in touch with reality. You are very respectful which is why you're respected. Respect is a two-way street! The rest are just out of this world and it makes it hard for me to embrace the transcommunity!
@@abiA5 Luxeria is fab!
Can I do a gentle request that you stop watching Blair White she spreads a lot of misinformation and generally has a pattern of profiting off of transphobia apologia. Could I recommend Samantha Lux or Jammidodger? Both are great easy to watch trans creators who explain their views clearly and don't antagonize people too much :)
@@tigerstripedsinger What misinformation is she spreading?
@@samarahutton4779 this is a good video that covers some of it: ruclips.net/video/AeuZZuobHEo/видео.html
@@silkebroxdude7625 Its not a secret ! Is it the fact that they dress look and sound like women that bothers you or is it the crazy woke activists who do shit in the name of transfolk and spread the lies like men can BE women etc, cos I was getting bothered about transgender people and the whole thing until I spoke to a few I know and like Alexis don't think the same as these activists who seem to have taken up the baton but dropped the ball and are spreading misinformation and even blatant lies to further their own political agenda?😎🖖
Hiya; for me It’s your authenticity, objectivity and empathy when you speak about your opinions they show respect & value for others so I’m a fan!!! I have subscribed to your channel as you’re fabulous to listen to!!! 😊😊😊
your eyes are so pretty, thanks for makeup tips 😢 sorry you went through that
Wow he was so shady, i am so sorry that this happened. So many things he could of said instead. I am glad you are helping people understand and make changes.
Maybe he thought that she was going to take someone’s job. I have been in a similar situation because I hadn’t told the workplace that I had a higher degree, it wasn’t relevant to the position and no one fought for me but that was what they were all worried about.
I don’t care anymore people calling me man or dude!! I live in California and the hate against us is insane now so I just live my life, I know who I am and that’s it. I just say to myself that I’m biologically male who transitioned into trans female and I’m happy who I am now, the transition was for me not waiting for validation from everyone. I found it just easier that I accept myself as a trans woman instead of a woman, peace of mind! I hope you will find a way to never be upset by situations like this one in the future. Thank you for the video ❤
It is sad, people hating each other and all. I knew this would happen, when the more radical amongst the community, and even outside of it (leftist in general), started getting louder and pushing for things like the drag shows in children spaces, or the indoctrination of kids even bringing porn around them, my brother (teacher), got kicked off of Facebook showing a book they had in the school. The forcing stuff on people, the silly pronouns, invading women's spaces, including sports and utterly destroying biological women. That's where the anger comes from, which turns into hate (as Yoda says). I find it very fascinating, that the very same people, who are deemed as "transphobic", for being angry at these things, will look at the trans community or "ladyboys" in Thailand, and will say things like "wow they are very beautiful", "look how nice they are", "look how respectful and honest they are", "I wish the trans community in our country were more like them".
It is the division elites want, they want us fighting and hating each other, it is how they control us easier. Alexis Blake and Blaire White, are the absolute perfect examples to follow within the trans community, and the new fighters. The radicals out in the streets, being so vulgar, destructive, and supporting the taking over of women's spaces, and indoctrinating/grooming children, are not it at all. Back in the day the trans and gays who were in the streets fighting, fought the good fight, they were right and so they won. Today it is not the same, this is different, but they try to wear the same mask, as the fighters of the past and they are nothing like them at all.
Don't listen to what the media is pushing out, as the vast majority of the country, support the protection of lgbt people.. Even the Jehovah Witnesses and Evangelicals came out saying they should be protected. The people in the streets, screaming about how they are losing their rights, have been lied to by the media. The legislation being brought up, or passed, has to do with making it illegal for a parent to have their small child who doesn't know anything about anything, being brought in for surgery.. There is even a case in Texas, where a mother basically forced her son into thinking he is a girl and uses it to taunt the father. The other is to keep the sex heavy stuff away from the children, something many gay people are also against and speaking out about it.. You have to check out Blaire White, she is very amazing!
I'm very happy with what you comented and I think it is the most logical and intelligent thing you can do. Accept and rejoice who you are, respect and be respected and move on with your life. It's that simple. I can't imagine how hard it must be to feel like you born in a wrong body and I can't understand how there are people who just want to fight and make life even more difficult than it already is.
I think the hate you describe is probably because of the militant activists have taken over the trans issue and in my opinion doing nothing but alienate the rational, reasonable people who really dont give a fyck who you wanna present as they just dont want this gender ideology and woke ness in the classrooms of their young children, some so called teachers are pushing their own political views onto kids with the walls of these classrooms being covered in questionable trans posters etc. I'm as straight as it gets but I have nothing against anyone doing what makes them happy as long as it don't involve young kids.😎🖖
Ahhh another trans Californian hello! I honestly agree with you Hun. Only we know who we are. Other people shouldn't have a say in that.
I feel like this is how it should be for everyone. As a biological, straight, white woman (I only say this for context) I feel like we should all be able to live among ourselves without having to explain or “come out” as anything or give excuses for who we are. It’s no one’s business what we do as long as we aren’t hurting anyone in the process.
Doing anything other than living freely in this world is what draws the divide among people. Shoving thoughts or feelings down anyone’s throat is how we pit ourselves against others. I don’t care if your trans, gay, an accountant or anything else just don’t try and force anything on me and we’ll likely be great friends.
You handled a very upsetting, stressful situation amazingly.
I hope there were some people at your job who came by to see if you were okay & not because they had to or just treated you like a person and not the subject of gossip.
I hope your job continues to improve & it gets to a point that it's a job that a bunch of people work at and not about people's gender. 💜
Hi Alexis I'm Adele and Trans myself and this happened to me like just the exact same thing being outed at work a few years back and I can remember the hurt and the pain that I felt in that moment in my life and at that stage in my transition I only had a couple of months until my main operation and I was literally on cloud nine and hadn't seen or heard anything transphobic or derogatory towards me for absolutely ages and so when it does happen it absolutely shatters me emotionally and physically 😊 so I can understand what an how it must have felt and what it must have done to you babe.
Omg I’m so sorry 😮 sending you loads of love and hugs from your trans sister 🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️💖💖💖
I support you because your not trying to erode bio women. I'm not a CIS woman . I'm a woman . Thankyou for knowing this fact .you have my support .
Same sentiment!❤
Alexis, your tic tok video, the one in your car, came into my feed about 2 weeks ago. After listening to you I wanted so badly to give you a big hug. I love your videos and this first youtube video of yours was very impressive. I'm now a fan. You are beautiful both inside and out. Your lips have such a perfect shape, I envy. You are so genuine and I love your accent. I'm a mother of a Transgender female, she is 26 yrs old. Thankfully, when she came out to friends/family and her co-workers she was embraced by all except an uncle who just doesn't get it. The uncle basically said it was a sin and kept dead naming her. I love and support the lgbtq+ community and the Transgender community truly has my ♥. I love that you have a wonderfully supportive finance. Keep making videos please I really appreciate you.
This just popped up on my feed and ive been following recently and youve continued to be real and transparent and utterly refreshing ❤ thatnk you for being you
I'm a biological woman in her 50's and I admire your restraint in dealing with the idiot who outed you. If I had been in your position I don't think I would have been so reasonable towards him. He would have wished he had never been born by the time I had finished with him (I blame the menopause, it's a bitch and brings out a lot of angry emotions! 😂). You're an inspiration and a credit to both the trans and the female community. Love you Alexis x
You are a teacher, I appreciate you take the time to talk to the world.
Hi Alexis, I'm a hetero/straight man and got two sons and a daughter just to get the picture😊 but I have to say you are very beautiful both physically as in personality and I just want to say how brave you are. The best part is that you seem to be completely yourself and not a character like for instance most of people of the attention seeking modern LGBTQI community. Please stay just as you are and have the most beautiful and happy life with yourself and your fiance. God bless you.
Love your personality and the way you look. Beautiful. You are a voice of reason and sanity in this increasingly out of control world. Stay strong and love to you.
You are a lovely person inside and out, I’m so sorry this happened to you. You handled it with such grace. Best of luck! ❤
I'm so sorry this happened to you Alexis. You are beautiful and graceful.wish you all the best!
You worked hard. You earned your identity. You seem super grounded.
Its unfair to put keeping your "secret" on others causing mental distress in others. You should not have asked the man to not say anything. Youre trans, own it! You're causing other folks stress.
I dont agree with you. This man wasn't mentally stressed, he saw an opportunity to create drama and intice hate. He knew what he was doing. He didn't have to say anything, the fact that he did shows his immaturity.
@@wendyprince1301Why? Transwomen are creating such situations with being not honest about what they’re and disrespecting womens boundaries. I watched a few newer vids from Alexis and found them always refreshing reasonable. This one though …
They all "knew" anyway, it was just that noone dared to talk about it open without confirmation. Noone can change their sex, this was common knowledge just a few years ago. Most doesn’t have problems with transpeople, as long they’re honest and respecting sex-based boundaries.
Can I just say how refreshing your channel is? You are such a lovely soul and a role model. As a straight woman, I have always prided myself on being inclusive to everyone no matter who they love or the color of their skin.
For the record:
You ARE Alexis, and that is it. ❤
Even if the circumstances change at work or anywhere else, that doesn't! 😊
Yayyyy! I have been waiting for you to do a full video!! You are such a gorgeous and thoughtful human being... and quite a cute girly too heheh!! So glad to get to know more about you!
Thanks for sharing this with me. It would have been so easy to have just driven away but you went back in - good on you ❤.
I can’t believe that after waiting all weekend, they then had you wondering ALL Monday too 😳
I know that you shouldn’t have had to do anything or offer them advice on what to do next, but you did and your actions should really facilitate changes now and in the future.
I imagine that they would have been terrified of a discrimination case or something like that.
Maybe you should have asked for fresh flowers and chocolates on your desk every week lol.
I wish you and your fiancé all the best.
Thanks again for sharing this story.
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I'm an old straight lady, but I totally love you. Be yourself! You will win them over.
I was so excited to see you did a video! And not only shorts. I’ve been curious about how it all went and what not so I’m gonna grab a cuppa and take a seat to listen for a little while 🤗 I don’t follow tons of channels/people regularly but happy to follow yours! Anyways, I’m gonna shush and listen now 🫖 Thanks for being you!
So sorry you had to go through this,but you handled it with class and grace and I hope the workplace learnt something and feels safe for you now x
I wish I could have given you a hug! It breaks my heart that people changed after they were told (which was a truly shitey thing to be done to you!) because I know I wouldn't have treated you any differently ❤
Your open about it on RUclips. You outed yourself. I don’t get it
Alexis, I just stumbled upon you when all this came out in regards to Dylan. I have to say first off, I do not understand the whole Trans thing. I am very uneducated in regards to this. But what I can say is that you are the most beautiful person I have ever encountered. When you were outed at work, I wanted to reach through the phone and give you a big hug. You are so beautiful inside and out, it is amazing what an amazing person you are. I just wanted you to know that even if people don't understand, doesn't mean they don't care. Never forget how truly amazing you are.❤
I'm in Australia ... and when I saw the part with you crying in the car I wanted to hop on a plane, find you and give you a big kiss and cuddle. My husband and I love you and really enjoy your videos. We're learning so much and I thank you for educating us and others around you. I'm so sorry there are people in this world who are *insert really bad swear words*. I could go on forever, but basically ... we love you, we are proud of you and we thank you for allowing us into your home where we get to experience your journey. Your ups and downs, your laughter and your tears. What a bloody magnificent example of a woman you are. Thank you ❤️
Asking someone else not to gossip behind your back is reasonable.
Asking someone to lie for you is wrong.
You should be able to live your best life as you choose, and I fully support that. You are not female, that is a lie. As someone who loves science and who's education is in biology, I find that lie particularly offensive. Society should not have to lie to accept you. You are perfectly wonderful as a trans-woman and living your best life as who you are. You being you is the only health way to live imo and seeing you do that brings me joy. But, you are not female, and I won't be forced to lie even with the barrel of the cancel culture gun to my head.
still not their place. none of their business. it's their personal business. it's not something like saying she's actually a natural blonde. they knew there would be fall out and made the choice to do harm. you don't accept Aleix is a trans woman fine, but it's complex and people are very hostile. they are at high rates of violence. this was done with malice. nothing good came out of divulging this information
I’m a gay man, not trans, but I was outed by my mother to the rest of my extended family when I was 19. At the dinner table. On Christmas Day. It’s not the same, but it’s similar enough that I can totally understand why she was upset. It’s not someone else’s story to tell. NO ONE should be outed, wether that’s as trans, gay, lesbian or bi. It’s up to the individual to let people know, when and if they’re ready
Sadly, I can see some employers not employing trans staff because of the potential minefield when you can't control staff words and actions even if there's been education.
You are the most wonderful woman..I dont care if you are transgender. I'm 57 and ROM th 80's generation..and I think you are the example all transgender should strive for! Not kidding. You are respectful and deserve RESPECT. God bless and hugs. -Trish.
I found you through shorts, I'm glad you branched out to longer format. I wish that I could figure out makeup like you do, you are stunning.
Love you Alexis! I don’t have Ticktock so I first saw you here on YT shorts and I love the energy you put out into the world! You’re my favorite trans influencer and a lovely person! Whenever I hear crazy things coming from a certain American loudmouth who seems set on simultaneously erasing and mocking biological women, I think of you and wish that one day your words will be the ones getting all the attention! You’re a beautiful, graceful person and your heart shines through in your videos. Thank you for being you! ❤
We need to sit down and share stories of our experiences, just like this. It brings people together. Shows their humanity.
I understand being hit from the left field without expecting it and having folk , especially in Yorkshire where its renown as very salt of the Earth type folk who speak straight and are very conservative - gossiping behind you about being a trans person was painful as any form of gossip is. But, I am at a lost why you would be so angry for the young man speaking truth in the sense you were born a biological man. In that young man's mind you are indeed male and so he emotionally defended his person - being a male and possibly not wanting to be seen as being interested in male or transwoman ( as you said some folk would work it out that you are a transwoman by your Adams apple and larger hands). He was emotionally defending his vulnerability in front of such a conservative group of people whom you did say are so not used to seeing trans people be it women or men in their workplace - so much so they had no diversity training in how to deal with the possibility. He was being straight honest in the context that he knew you as a man. I can appreciate you have been through a lot to become a transwoman and the term 'man' does not resonate with you anymore, but if you can go through all that intense experience to transition I would have thought someone speaking in black and white terms would surely not faze you. Plus , its odd that you were so mad at him for telling folk you are/were a man because you wanted it to be private but you are communicating your complete story and current situation on TikTok and now YT. Your journey sounds incredibly challenging and required for you to be determined, strong minded and know what you want which is why the above elements seem confusing.
That is shocking I can’t believe that guy betrayed you like that 😞 Sounds like you handled it really well. Praying for your success and blessings!!
I understand you were upset about not having control over your personal information being ‘out there’ but I’m not really sure about why you’re upset your colleagues know about your journey. If you want equality and diversity at work, people first have to know there are differences. You also have to accept that your differences will make people uncomfortable until they know you, that’s just human nature and it will take time to accept trans, as it did LGB. There will be a level of resentment because colleagues and workmates will have to undergo training in something they may not believe in, their working practices may have to change which can be uncomfortable when they have been the norm for so long and they will question why everything has to change for the many to accommodate the one. This has never been a societal norm, the many have always had the voice. You seem to be light years away from the screaming mobs of activists, so often seen on social media; they have done nothing to help the trans cause in fact I would say they have set the cause back by decades. Your dignified, educated approach will engender acceptance and if trans people want to live quiet mundane lives like the rest of us, I’ve no doubt this will happen because most people don’t care what other people do as long as it doesn’t impact them negatively. I wish you every happiness in your future.
So glad you are on a whole story time. Your heart is so good :) ❤
I'm incredibly curious about the transitioning and what you had to do to be where you are now... Cause you said you had to go through a lot of doctors to get on hormones and stuff. When and if your ever ready to tell that side of your story I would LOVE to listen!! Your amazing ❤
I would love this myself but it's incredibly sensitive and very private so we should not expect Alexis to tell anything. The fact she showed her cute girly pink top and spoke about her breasts is more than I ever expected. And I thank her so much for that
My goodness I’m glad I found you. I am cis female(she/her) and this helped me so much with my work situation. I was outed as a former addict and truly that feels like such a minor thing compared to what you have to deal with. You do it with such grace. I’m in awe of you! What a Powerful Woman you are ❤
omg how mortifying, so sorry you went through this, it really opens our eyes to just how much trans people go through, its not just about the operations and all that stuff, but the whole social aspect too, for some reason I never really thought about the fact that it doesn't happen over night, you have to work and live in-between each stage and deal with peoples BS as you go. I bet you thought great new job new life new me, then this idiot had to be a jerk and everything crashes down. Well you are amazing thats all i can really say. sending you love and support x
That's the best experience to transition with the support of managers and staff. I transitioned on my job for the state. I had the support of the Director of Nursing and the CEO. There were still people who didn't accept my transition but they didn't matter to me. I had no choice and I love a challenge. I have no regrets whatsoever. Love your channel and content.
Straight woman, totally standing for women's rights, and I am by your side.
It is inspiring to see real trans people stand for truth and reality and fairness.
Hugs and support all the way from NewZealand ❤
Alexis, I'm so sorry this happened to you. I'm a teacher and sick of having to speak to older staff about inclusion for everyone. You are beautiful inside and out xx
I hate this happened to you. You r a respectable trans woman. U aren’t trying to erase biological women or trick straight men & know what TRANS woman means. However it’s easy to see that u r trans.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. 😢 Cheering on massive success for you as the road opens ahead in your entrepreneurial, content creator journey!
I'm sorry that you were treated bad at your work. You are such a kind hearted and warm person. You didn't deserve it.
Alexis I think you are absolutely wonderful. I love the way you speak. So peaceful and loving.
I no longer identify myself by a political party. I just dont fit into either box. I lean conservative BUT I love people first and foremost. I love to see people be happy and I dont judge anyone's journey. You just have an incredible energy and I am here for it 🩷
Turning my notifications on for the first time. I just love you
You are a strong person and i think you dealt with it really well. I have been transitioned for quite a while and I have been very guarded about my past, I am very careful. I am not ashamed to be trans but it is a very personal thing that not just anyone deserves to know about. If something like this happened to me I would be so angry. However it would be a good opportunity for the company to do a lot better on equality issues and I think what happened in your situation has enabled things to be a lot better for you in the future and also for others in your situation.
I’m so sorry that this kind of uncomfortable situation was thrust upon you for just wanting to live and present as your most authentic self. With all of the legal, medical and beauty steps you have taken to look like a woman-and in fact to look better than most women- you are exactly the kind of trans woman us women welcome into our group. Thank you for sharing your story.
Alexis, i absolutely adore Rimmel Heather Shimmer, it is a 90s colour, it's the colour I've worn since my teen years, i think you pull it off better than i do though, the colour is so pretty on you.
Im so glad you've managed to make a change with this company, it doesn't matter where they're based, there's really no excuse. Well done for confronting the issue in the way you did, even if they're was some sassyness 😉
You're so down to earth and i look forward to seeing your tickytoks
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I’ve been outed more times than I can count and I’m passable, too.
Ignorant people have been outing trans-girls since day one, it’s just part of being trans.
You have to adapt to the situation and continue living your best life.
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Hello Alexis, I just found one of your shorts which led me to your work story, I’m so sorry you had to go though that, I love your personality and your shorts. You are so Beautiful wish red lipstick looked as good on me, than it does you definitely giving me the Marylin Vibes. Just want to say thank you for your videos and your story and views on transitioning much love ❤️
You are strong!!! You will get through this and we are supportive of you!
We have two trans males where I work. I remember when Michelle came to work for us. Looked like a young man already. There was talk but nothing hateful or vulgar. Just plenty of curiosity. And this is a blue collar organization here. A couple years into her employment with us, Michelle started growing leg hair out and started to have a bit of facial hair. Then Michelle legally changer to Mitch. That was a tough one for a while. Accidentally calling him Michelle every now and then... " Dude im sorry man" Mitch: "Dont worry about it (laughing) I get it." Mitch never tripped about it and understood it was going to be a bit of time before we all started seeing she as he. Mitch is a Trans Man. Not an activist. I've been to his wedding and have done huge photoshoots for him and his family. He has an amazing support circle and family. Well all love and respect him. He's just another guy out there in the field with us whom works hard to live his life and provide for his family
I also saw you when you popped up in the YT shorts , i think you are a beautiful person inside & out ❤
You’re a beautiful soul no matter what you choose to live as your videos are really interesting and informative
I didn’t know much about what a trans person experiences
Thank you for sharing your story ❤
You’re fabulous
Hey, did you ever inform- prior to your outing- the women in your workplace that they were sharing their bathroom with a man? If not, what gives you the right to take away their choices and rights so you could stay stealth?
Finally! First video, have so much love for you. love the positive vibes from you, ur beautiful and sorry for what has had happened to you and I hope you never go through that again.
"someone like me" i know its easy for people to say, but, people like you - you're a woman.
you are very eloquent, i remember seeing many women just like you in the UK, your "look" your "sound" in your voice.
I would consider myself lucky to have you as a friend, a close friend.
i wanted to see what your early video looked like after seeing some from this month. happy for you.
That’s so cruel that people turned on you purely because you’re Trans. I’m so sad that happened to you. It’s fantastic that HR backed you up and asked for input for policies for inclusivity, safe spaces and fairness. You now hold some power yourself to make a difference for you and everyone else who works there. Good luck - I think you’ve got this ❤
Hi single straight older male I enjoy your content. I am a supporter of transgender women trying to lead just normal lives I’m Just sending you some support.😃😊🥰👍
Im sorry this happened to you my luv nobody has the right to speak your business im glad you are a strong person keep smiling and im sorry you have to put up with people getting up in your business hold your head high luv!
You didn't shout at him coz you're a good person 😊 he was an idiot and insensitive but he isn't a bad person.
You handled yourself so freaking well hen well done! ❤️
I'm so sorry that happened to u that's just awful I really admire u I was born female. I don't like the word cis women and all those other words thrown at us women. I believe so much in respect I think you're a gorgeous woman and so strong.😊
Wow thank you!!!! Lots of love xxx
@@Alexis_blake00 Can't wait see more of ur videos and positive vibes back and I hope they realize ur a women just like us and u should be treated with respect. 💕
I follow you on TikTok & I really enjoy your content, you are so lovely to listen to & such a calm & well reasoned person. I’m so happy that I found your RUclips channel ♥️
You put so many other trans women to shame .l you are so sweet and gentle and humble If they were all like you trans people Would be accepted so much more
I definitely think the "Not my type" response would have been the best thing he could have said. It fully covers sexual and gender preferences without spilling details. (Because let's face it, engagement or having a higher position doesn't stop too many people.)
I had a job recently, and straight away, they wanted to rebrand the disabled WC as "gender neutral." this lasted almost a week before I thought to myself, "Wait a minute - I'm transgender, not f@#£ing disabled!".
I didn't ask for their permission, I just started using the ladies, but I was armed with the appropriate sections of the equalities act, just in case. I am a transgender woman. they put my chosen name on my contract, I was officially employed as female, I am there presenting as a woman - yet, jjevery time I go to and use the disabled WC instead of the ladies, it Mark's me out as being different.
HR, was "concerned, that some people might get offended, or upset if they came across me in the ladies". But, throughout the months of me using the ladies, 9 times out of 10, I would be the only person in the room. and if someone did happen to come into the room, they would naturally go into their own qubicle and go about their business. I would finish, wash and leave and we still wouldn't cross paths, HR recieved zero complaints.
all this talk about "safe spaces", is just nonsense. a convenient excuse to allow facilities like HR to say we are inclusive, but at the same time, openly discriminate.
ironically, it's the FtM transgender people who have it worse. ladies WC's are all individual private spaces, the men's is normally an open-planed experience, with rows of guys all peeing into the same troff. a reality check is in order here!
I'm sorry this happened to you. People can be so mean. I'm glad things are getting better for you.
You are amazing. I love watching your shorts but a full video is golden! You are so beautiful. I'm sorry you have to deal with this in your work place. My job is very LGBTQ+ friendly, if that is what you call it. I don't think people realize all the stuff you have to go through to transition. Please keep showing videos 😊
Aww thanks!!! I wish I worked at your place lol xxx ❤
@Alexis Blake yes! I hope all jobs start being more friendly and accommodating to this community. No one should ever have to deal with what you have already. You are so strong and how you handled it was the best.
HI Alexis
Sorry you had to go through that. Some people are very nasty. Some are just ignorant,
you are a beautiful person inside and out, and I wish you all the best in your new life. So happy you have got the support of your family and Liam. 🤗🤗🤗 take care ❤️
Sorry to hear you had to go through this. Hope lesson have been learnt and your having a better time. X😊
Hey! You found a beautiful match on your extensions! I’m so sorry someone felt they had to do that to you. That just means their life is so small and petty that they wanted to bring someone as low as they feel about themselves.
Omg i accidentally outted a friend at work without thinking. I always call myself a tgirl. It just keeps everything simple.
I am so sorry this happened to you, you are so strong and so beautiful inside and out 🤍
I think what people fail to understand is the average person really doesn’t care one way or the other what some does or is. Personally I live my life treating everyone the same. I am not interested in the private life of those outside my personal circle. I was raised un the do as you would be done to principle. What she is speaking about applies to every one, the man was in the wrong spilling someone’s private information regardless of the issues she has raised. All people have the right to a reasonable expectation of privacy.😊
Alexis I do really love you and your honesty just keep being your wonderful fantastic self ❤
Also loving them nails
Makeup or no makeup, you are a stunningly beautiful person. Lovely face, wonderful eyes. 😊
There loss ....you seem to be s very sweet and respectful person. The best qualities of a great worker and an amazing friend.
YAY! full on video🥰
Yay! Thank you!xxx
@@Alexis_blake00 I'm kind of obsessed with your YT shorts😁, I've been hoping that you would start doing full videos, I know obviously they're time consuming😏, but your realism is so refreshing compared to others in our 'community' that seem to be living in lalaland😬, it's nice to know we're not alone🥰
You are adorable love your videos. You explain things so clearly and humbly. Thank you for sharing your journey xx you are the only one I watch and feel like I am getting a better understanding. Keep being the beautiful you xx
I think it s very ok How they react, u know when schoolkids get bullied so many times no one in school helps… so they ve done everything to support u…
You are an inspiration, keep slaying! 💕
alexis since you were in showbusiness a dancer; you ever think of acting? movies? broadway style stage? UK or US?
I'm so sorry you went through that, its a shame that most likely they found you attractive. And then were embarrassed when they found out they were attracted to a transwoman, to hide their own insecurities And shame they have to try and tear you down to make themselves feel better.
Good afternoon Alexis, brand new to your channel, so gone back to the beginning ❤❤❤
Jesus that blows my mind that anyone would get annoyed or give you funny looks it also makes me really angry that he thought it was ok to tell your business xxx
Can I just say that you have the most beautiful hands ,I have hand envy!! I cannot grow nails ,they crack n split and as a women I often find myself feeling self conscious of them ( I also have vitiligo on my hands ) .I'm so sorry you had such a horrible experience ,your a gorgeous ,courageous, empathic beautiful woman Alexis ! That company is very lucky to have you !
I have a beard & have to shave every two days, I am female by birth but suffer with hirtuism, I've been checked for polycystic ovarian syndrome as that does run in my family, but the results were negative, but do get enormous amount of negative comments, I've found children & younger people are the worst, why cant everyone just live & let live 😢
You have such a soothing voice!
I have been watching you for a while and also introduced you to my daughter. You are awesome! keep it up. And also I am dying for your cheekbones!
His time will come one day when he wants something kept from ppl and he will be betrayed and know what it's like ....glad u got the support u needed and deserved x and omg Heather shimmer love it ❤xx
You are a strong woman, I have deep respect for your and you are beautiful :)
No other human being has the right to upset to hurt you it is so wrong on every level you live your life as you choose you deserve to happyx
You are a strong woman! Thank you for sharing your story. ❤ Also, your fiance has some of the most expressive eyebrows I've ever seen! I bet he's really good at giving you the sad puppy dog stare when he wants something 😅
Had it happen as they looked up my yearbook pictures. I told them to f of or fire me. The company folded soon after.
I like to preface this by saying I really like you !! I am liberal in the gay rights aspect and want equal rights for trans but I’m a Republican. However, I don’t agree with forcing this ideology on everyone and children. But, I saw one of your videos where you handled that stuff so gracefully with a child. You told them to ask their mommy and daddy and leave to the parents :) you are beautiful and like I said I normally don’t watch these type of channels but I really like yours!
I’m so sorry that you had to deal with bigotry with your co workers :( you are a strong woman and it’s 2023 and no one should care if you are or not and it’s no one’s business