Jordan Peterson: Overcoming self-defeating behaviors
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- Опубликовано: 21 янв 2018
- Jordan Peterson talks about overcoming self-defeating behaviors such as resentment & Carl Jung's Shadow etc. ORDER Peterson's NEW book & audiobook Beyond Order: 12 More Rules for life amzn.to/33uho7H Australians click here for Beyond Order: amzn.to/3qfSxOI
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If you space out for like 2 seconds in his class you're done
Yeah for real. That made me laugh 😂
Youre probably right cause i keep rewinding the video haha
I don't know about that. To me it's kind of like "The Bold and the Beautiful". You can miss 6 months, but when you return, the same things happening. He tangents, but always comes back to the main thread of the story. But without getting divorced a thousand times or sleeping with his step-daughter.
@@ManiKais i like hamburger
@@disappointment3688 Chocolate. And pink fluffy dogs. But yes, the moon landing was definitely probably a hoax.
For someone who hasn’t been able to pay for any help with mental health or have the opportunity to ever see a therapist these videos have really been great for me, thank you.
Absolutely agree.. They are invaluable!
Same! I’m so thankful to discover him. Good luck to you friend ❤️
I have actually learned so much from him that I am and have been able to help dozens of people who struggle and not all of them do anymore. I will continue to help for the rest of my life
"Sorry I'm late for class, I was cleaning my room" - the only acceptable excuse.
Traffic and I overslept are only accepable excuses, I was cleaning my room will get you fame on the campus
Kant would say otherwise xD
Gareth Bradley I was talking to my enemies
@@regs1917 went right over dudes head. He missed the first thing you should do in the morning
Well said. It really bothers me when someone is late. If yiu state a time, you arrive on time. I'd only accept a death in the family or the car blew up as an excuse. I'd rather they didn't turn up at all so we could have a fresh start in the morning. Also, I'd have given my right arm to be involved in one of Peterson's lectures.
Rule 13 - Get to class on time.
Rule 12 - Go to class.
Or wherever.
😆😆
7:55 she's way too late.
Rule 25: Ah fuck it.
Rule 26: Complain about others on RUclips.
*Meanwhile the students:* “what the hell do I write down? is this coming on the test next week?”
LOL. LIVE THIS
Wondering what his tests look like. I want to take one. Or multiple. What a gift to us all he is. Glad to be alive with Jordan at the same time he is. Keep it up Jordan!
@@dustyhockema4356 I don't think he's the kinda guy who would give tests. I think he would assign reports, and you'd better do them damn well.
he doesn't like note taking
@@Ethan-rw7ub Yeah, I agree. I suppose I was being too simple. You are certainly correct. But still, it would be a joy to be graded by him and have him tell me where I were I messed up.
"If you're resentful about something, it either means you should grow the hell up and accept the responsibility and quit snivelling around and whining, OR it means that someone is actually oppressing you and pushing on you too hard and bullying you and demeaning you and you have something to SAY or DO that you're not saying or doing and no wonder you're not saying or doing it because it can be really dangerous to say things or do them to free yourself from being oppressed. You can get in a lot of trouble in the short term for doing it so it's easier to just not say anything day after day. In the short term you protect yourself but it crushes you"
This is such great advice! If I'd followed it or even known it as a young man, I might have saved myself and others a lot of suffering.
Robbie Linton sometimes you do say something and they continually try to oppress you.
Sounds like my work-life experience
Ryan Brown Thanks for your honesty
@@AnnaLVajda Of course they will. Life is an uphill struggle through obstacles. Just objectively consider them as such and do and say what you need to to get through or around them.
Its truly beautiful to watch a genius after he has mastered his intelligence just trying to help by educating the people.
Incredibly well put. It really is an honour to listen to him speak
I will not read a more beautiful comment today, Sir.
Thank God for this man. He teaches these kids about life! They can actually use what they learn from Dr. Peterson in the real world.
I need to poop
The test of a great teacher is not when your comfortable, well fed, a solid roof over your head,
but when your down on your luck, with the anxiety, angst, and hearing various motivational speakers fall completely flat, leaving you with less than nothing,
this man has unlocked and fully illuminated ones ability to obtain control and put into action ways to move forward, in real time.
This man has insight that can move one to clarity. When others say "why", Jordan says "how"
This man has a gift, he offers it freely. A rare, once in a lifetime person, who can argue with.
that's why you gotta talk to your enemies.... because they might tell you a thing or two that you don't know...
that phrase could wipe out 90% of humanities problems.
Depends on the enemy. Some people just disagree with my viewpoints and vice versa, and it can be fascinating (and infuriating, to be honest) to talk to them. Hell, even if we continue to disagree, we can do so with civility. Others, however, aren't worth the $0.14 it would take to improve society by removing them from the face of the earth.
My enemies don’t speak up . Or they are just annoying arrogant people make sense?
@@oceanabc5169 they don't trust u just like u don't trust them..
@u real i know thanks
Yes. Self defeating behavior is my worst enemy. This is something I'm spending alot of energy trying to improve and I'm pleased to announce I'm making good progress. Just taking the good with the bad and persevere. Much power to us all. Power to the people.
@@harsh9674 Like a rollercoaster as always hahaha
Dr P. walking back and forth like a rock star on the stage of life. Belting out lyrics of wisdom and truth to an audience of constant encores!!!
I love this line! So true and creative!
Well thats a sordve metal way of describing it. (I love heavy metal btw)
This man is a pool of wisdom.
I’d say a sea of wisdom but Yeaaa wowww
Read books, education is free.
@@greenman5391 You don't get wisdom from reading books, you get knowledge.
If Jordan was a physics professor, he'd be teaching the students how to throw a good punch!
ChannelMath I'm not sure what you mean but I somehow agree 100%
haha, thanks.
Hahaha i think so to and every man should know
As someone who has taught striking for 15 years and studied the martial arts since age 6, its just physics. And the straight punch to this day is still debated heavily and taught 20 different ways like we dont know that there is one way that is better. Come let me show you lol
I honestly get it, physics was one of the subjects I really liked in high school and taught a bit of it to people who were struggling in the subject. It happens that I’ve been a martial artist for year Karate/MMA and would’ve went pretty damn far in it if I wasn’t questioning what I should be doing. Skateboarding is another thing I like, there’s a lot of physics in it which I like.
I could listen to him talk forever. So many interesting topics
I feel like Jordan Peterson is one of the few ppl who could get me cuz I know he went through a similarly bad existential crisis as I did. the way he talks, you know this guy has gone deep and survived.
Yes and then he speed draws hentai to take the edge off
@@moldypotato1337 Fuckin' killed me!
I don't understand how you could show up late to one of his classes...those kids don't know how lucky they are 😆
You don't protect what you know. You go after what you don't know
so the rumors about smart people on youtube were true
Wow, just found this while he said that
And it was amazing
Skystranaut Do you believe this to be true?
100%. I tried stand-up comedy for the first time recently, i know that i'm not funny now.
jk, i actually did good
Well put, be prepared to let go of what you know, even annihilate your world view, in order to become more than you are. Even if you are terrified, through protecting your 'self'. 'Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.' or... Do not worship the ashes, stoke the fire
Your enemies can give you insight about yourself, that you or your friends just don't know or see, so in a sense your enemies can be more of a friend than your best friends!!
This lecture is just too amazing! So packed with wisdom and insights about the human condition. Can’t get enough of Peterson!!
Execllent lecture! On resentment and how to avoid going into that dark place by taking responsibility for yourself and having some self respect and courage!
I laughed at times throughout his points because one it's understandable and two, he puts in such a blunt way that it really sharpens your attention.
When I moved to this country, seaside town. I managed to get full time work at a production plant nursery, where there was a country boys club, that I wasn’t parted to etc. I was just there to work. Slowly but surely the bully behaviour from them started to take place, then I reacted by standing up for myself by the only way I knew at the time and that was to use intimidation and street behaviour to give them the message. The overt bullying turned to passive aggression from their part (sabotage of my work and much more). When I confronted those who I thought were responsible, I could immediately tell they were intimidated by my defence/streetwise responses and couldn’t look me in the eye to talk about the issue at hand. I ended up getting fired for petty reasons shorty after and not getting a good reference. It is a tricky one, but never allow anyone try to dominate you anywhere/anytime. I could see how beaten down and weak some of the country lads had become, where I left feeling stronger, but without a job or a reliable reference that has kinda screwed me for the future jobs I was applying for. I learnt to pick my battles very carefully and to be mature about how i deal with these situations from then on. Sometimes the job is not worth it, therefore in that case. Have another job happening on the sides, so if you feel you should leave the toxic workplace, you still got a job somewhere else..
Stevo Devo ive done the same thing many times...and im fucked for it
good luck further on.. i`m thankful that i work alone with all my customers. No gossip, no drama.. i love it
Deviant One 2001 agreed
Please be aware that the person who posted this vid has censored some parts that he apparently does not believe in or possibly believes did not happen. At about 8:17, in this vid, there is a skip that does not occur in the original video found here: ruclips.net/video/wLc_MC7NQek/видео.html at 1:58:40. Go and watch the original and discover how small minds work.
baddoggie101 “...and then you end up shooting kids down in Connecticut...”
baddoggie101
I sincerely thank you for pointing this out.
I had thought the skip was due to a video recording error, but going against uploader intent seems more likely; I have noticed for months now that Essential Truth keeps on mislabelling Jordan Peterson's interviews/lectures to portray a more right-wing/PUA angle, a viewpoint that excludes many of Peterson's nuanced arguments, therefore completely misrepresenting Peterson's knowledge: this is no different than what Cathy Newman did. This video in particular was one of the more aptly named videos of ET's; ET's other JP videos are clickbait and push an agenda that JP does not push.
From the moment I was first listening to the lecture, I had a strong intuition that Dr. Peterson was leading the lecture regarding psychological disturbances to a direction that would also explain why suicidal persons feel the need to bring innocent lives with them, a la the school shooters.
This is such dishonest representation by Essential Truth. A shame because these bite sized bits of JP uploads are golden.
Maybe they're afraid of getting flagged. Thanks for the heads up. 🖒
Having JP for class three times a week would be so intense.
Our Father who art in Canada, Peterson be thy name.
Mani Kais best comment hahaha
love ya too, Brian
So many kids need a father!
Thy (and ours and many more) will be done.
In America as it was in canada
Wow, I really needed this. I'm in a point in my life where I'm really doing some self-reflection and looking inwards and I need to start learning how to get rid of destructive and self-defeating behaviors. I realized recently that I probably have OCPD and that it seriously effects my mental health and relationships with others. I'm taking small steps on how to change my ways of thinking and the actions that I take along with it.
Any improvement !!! 🙂
All hail Lelouch
I think these lecturers are interesting but poorly titled.
Go to his actual channel. 90 percent of his RUclips content in the wild is by click bait bullshit channels that just play off his Fame for likes.
Soo off topic
What would you title this video? He covers so much that it's next to impossible to give an accurate title other than just "Jordan Peterson Lecture" which makes it indistinguishable from the hundreds of other clips like this.
Poorly titled is right. I once spoke with a psychotherapist who told me I engaged in self - defeating behavior. Like Jordan Peterson he had no suggestions to help me. People who engage in self defeating behavior do so because they are PROGRAMMED to. I've spent most of my adult life dealing with it. Of course it could be worse...........
So do I.
Sincerely love this man and what he says, thank you for you wonderful lectures Doctor
wtf?? xD
DDhide14 what the fuck pervert
DDhide14 didn't know the RUclips comment section was now tinder
You are disgusting, nothing I said warranted that response.
I think he is one of the most sensible intelligent people ever to grace You Tube and the wider world in general.
This gotta be the only class I’d never be late for
Thanks Doc. Been listening to you for years.
Hope you know how much you help. Lol I’m 57 n realize now a lot of what my dad was telling me about life !
Never could console him on them,passed 30 years ago so you’ve answered them.How Cool is that !
*"Sorry I'm late, I was competing for the top lobster position of the dominance hierarchy"*
Those shits. I'd never be late to Jordan's class.
the way he articulating every thing damn ....RESPECTED SIR
what a beautiful mind dude i cant even explain how much he has helped me. i was definitely going down that path of resentment
When he was talking about humans hurting other humans, and how some rip apart humans both physically and psychologically, man that gave me chills. There are some videos of cartels doing this to captured enemies and it's absolutely horrendous. Humans have such a capacity for evil that it's disgusting...
I had a dream with Dr Peterson in it before he became famous in which he psycoanalyzed me and concluded that I was not living up to my potential.
The collective unconscious?? And then I took a multiple choice test to test my abilities and passed thru the waterfall. I interpreted the dream as a need for a life coach, which I take to be Dr Peterson! Thank you, doctor....you are giving me something *more* to live for....
sounds like the key to prevent mass shootings
Indeed!
Beta uprising
It is. Period.
@@Ronin3453 does that equate to soy boys?
@@suzanrhodes Yes, I think.
I havent seen a person speak in such a complex and yet so beautifully creative way without loosing the train of thought since an interview with Focault I saw. This guys level is very unusual.
This guy's literally one of my heroes
These lectures are so deep, I can't believe that the in-class students are not overwhelmed. There is so much in this!!
So beautiful.
I dont know how other people perceive the articulation JP presents everytime i hear him but definitely his old classes really feels like the best of him. One of the best teacher i could easily imagine on this earth, and i never sat in his class just RUclips. Kudos to JP
This speech made my brain tickle. Incredibly well put.
I’ve always heard that young men need a dragon to slay. JBP is like hey boys I found one! Now go kill it! Thanks Doc
Ever since I saw The Thirteenth Warrior (wonderful movie - Beowulf Adaptation), I've regularly caught myself muttering "Oh, there's *always* A Cave.... "
And like Jung's ideas about Hell, they go into The Cave, confront The Terrible Mother in The Centre, and come out The Other Side......
He’s a gift to the internet
Those dudes arriving late 🙄 Man, I’d be waiting outside the lecture room the day before!
My biggest issue is social isolation. People don't challenge me enough, or others are scared to call me out on my shit. If they do I wish they would give me ideas or suggestions to help me change. Sucks
Why do you isolate ? Have you lost before you began ? I ask because im.isolated myself and would like to.hear your reasoning. Why do you think others should call you out when you do that to yourself ?
Get a better social circle. None of us are special. Find people you want to be like and bring them value. Theyll challenge your vain surpossed intellectual superiority. Theyll challenge you by outperforming you in multiple aspects of life. And winners/high performers WILL call you out. Dont surround your self with unassertive unhelpful cowards and then complain how cowardly and unhelpful they are.
Here’s a bit of gold from a baby dragon, before you think you’re anti social, first make sure you are in fact not surrounded by assholes
How great would it be to sit through all of his lectures. And being at a point in your life where you are a beacon for change. Life changing.
I could watch this 100 more times and pull something different from each time! Thank you sir!
I Used To Spend Most Of My Time Chasing The Dragon But Thanks To Dr Peterson I Slew It. xx
I would love to sit in his lecture room and just look at and listen to him!
There are drops of nuggets all over this lecture for life and meaningful things. At 8:50 to 9:44 was a highlight meaning to me and in how we interact with people. It’s unfortunate how people around us and close to us fail at this understanding, because it does make us better in how we communicate. Because so often we are just constantly having miscommunication all around that fails.
Jordon Peterson is the brightest light on our Planet!!
I find the most innocent things (babies, small animals, disabled) often get targeted by the people going down a negative path of hate and resentment
Inspiring... you seem to have given me the exact answers I was looking for. Thank you
It's great to hear such explanations for things that play a huge role in my daily life. This is one that has been really stressful in my life
So bloody smart....almost too smart for his own good. I love and respect this man.
I needed to hear this right now
Brilliant brilliant brilliant
So much energy emanating in his lectures. Does he prepares for them, how does he keep from burning out with this constant passion?
Thanks for putting these online.
You know that feeling when you know something deep in your bones, but you are unable to sufficiently express it? And rather than publicly stumbling over your own words and embarrassing yourself... because you also understand that it’s entirely possible you’re wrong... you just keep your mouth shut?
... and do you remember the feeling when you heard someone far more intelligent than you logically and succinctly explain the very thing you’ve understood but never said? That’s exactly how I feel right now
8:30 Free yourself from oppression
8:51 Don’t always assume you’re right
9:18 Go after the unknown. Don’t protect what you know. You already know what you know
Wow! What a speech!! ❤❤
Thank you, Mr. Peterson, for your bravery in challenging our citizens to stand up straight, stop being stupid, take responsibility, and tell the truth. Thank you for your passion in trying to turn the tide on the downward spiral of our populace. I heard only men are listening to you. I listen. I agree. I am trying to tell people you are saying things we all need to hear and do. Please don't grow weary.
This man be hitting me on so many levels it's insane.
If this dude was my teacher.... What an absolute legend.
...one of the BEST known, speakers of our time.
Absolutely.
I was always late in College But a class like This I would be in the Front seat.This are the things That you Can Find No lecturer to teach you this.The are the Type of Lessons We Need.
every video hits a spot, but it keep building me stronger .
Yes, dragon types can be flying and ground types too
Noice
Theres even dragons that aren't dragon types, right Lance?
He’s hitting the mark perfectly.
Flowing from today's psychology, to its roots in Freud thru Jung into Piaget into Petersonianism was absolutely smooth as butter. Incredible
Thank you! This helped me immensely and now I can be free.
Okay. Brilliantly put.
Going for the unknown ... Awesome
4.
I was more late yesterday, so this is an improvement.
This is probably the most relevant video of Peterson's for me personally. Great insight!
To initiate a young man, just starve him until he understands what anyone will ultimately do in order to eat. He won't forget.
5:02 this concept is what competitive gamers tug at. once you know what works on yourself. you can effectively decimate any battleground as long as you know what works
I can’t help but feel this guy will go down in the history books. Specifically his biblical lectures. I wish I had a better way to teach my children the teachings of JP.
This really sank in. Well said and well taught.
I have PTSD and GAD. I constantly worry about everything. Im very productive but always feel guilty...for anything. I'm aware the guilt is irrational. Im terrified I will lose someone everyday to some kind of tragedy of I dont do things a particular way. I panic easily in the morning (not having felt rested) and at times attempt to articulate a thought or feeling pertaining to a certain responsibility...however the way it comes out seems dramatic and emotional when im just seeking some kind of understanding. It results in a crying disaster over trivial matters which in turn inclines my partner to not want to talk to me. Ive recently sought help through therapy and DBT. I can't relax. I really feel stressed over everything...all the time. I'm tired of always being so easily startled to the point of panic bc someone closed a door...queitly I might add. I'm tired of being tired, sore, feeling guilty when I know I'm a good person that works my ass off and literally is burdened with sooooooo much empathy I can never focus on myself. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm a big fan. You explain things in a way i can easily understand. Thanks for what you do. Be well. - Carrie Miller
Scary Carrie I feel you. I haven’t had a moments peace throughout my entire life. However, I’ve learned that my anxiety will probably never completely go away, but it can be managed in a way that can make life bearable. I’ve figured out that I need a lot of rest, avoid too much TV/media, quiet time, time to read, and to have a really strict work-life balance. If I violate these, I begin to suffer greatly. I wish you the best.
Look into Enduring Personality Disorder
keep listening to his lectures... take his self-authoring program... there is hope! you can learn to conquer those dragons within you!!!
Try cbd, exercise , and healthy diet maybe will help.
Cut out grains, try an elimination diet. Most mental problems are gut related. Try MSM for detox and helping clean out your cells. Best of luck
this man knows how minds work
He’s a hearer, a seer and a doer
Wish we heard the end of that... hes endlessly fascinating to listen to...
Thank you Dr Peterson for your videos.. They are a treadure.. And I agree with what you are saying. The more I think about it, humans are terrible beings. The more I think about it, some of these terrible beings are so amazing, so wonderful because they have given back in kindness, in love, in every effort to do good to the planet and what lives within it. I am praying that good will over come all this evil.
This is dedicated to cathy newman... shes her worst enemy , she even brings a shovel to a debate to dig deeper
I felt sad for her, that could have been a fruitful discussion, rather than leaving her aware that she had failed herself.
So what your really trying to say is " donuts are special" or forks prefer robust chewing gum?
So what your really trying to say is ""kackl kackle peck peck "
So what your really trying to say is" , woman should be rounded up and gassed? Is that what you're saying Mr Peterson? Hmm? That's what your really saying isn't it?
All I can think of is the south park Obama duck , spewing diarrhea
Eh, I wouldn’t continue to focus on Newman. She was looking for buzz worthy sound bites from Peterson, as her editor and colleagues instructed her to. Lots of other reporters do the same-although she did it in a strikingly funny way. Peterson was so deft in that discussion-really impressive
Ah ha!
How the actual hell could someone have this guy as a professor and show up late. I'd be so engaged that he'd prolly not like me by the end of the class. I truly adore this dude.
Not much to do with her being late but you have to understand that their there to learn for there degree and that they most likely have exams so there mindset is a bit different. They don’t have the luxury to sit on the couch and take want they want out of the lecture. There’s pressure to learn it all for there exams, they’ll worry about applying it to their life another time
@@Liam-pf9kp That's precisely the problem with modern education.
@@benjaminmacdonald593 agreed
thank you, father
These students are soooooo lucky! Am I the only one who finds a lot of relevance in this video in their life right now? This is really powerful stuff.
This man is my virtual Father.
Where is your real father?
Adam Downes yeah man, I understand what you mean.
I learned more from watching JP online than in my entire Psych Master's program.
I can believe that.
As a disgruntled psychology undergrad, I really think that both the current college system as a whole, but also psychology, is pretty screwy :/ It is NOT what is advertised I think. At least for me, it basically resulted in a lot of bullshit pseudo-philosophy and history or famous psychologists. I am now gonna go to community college for Applied Psychology and then hopefully transfer somewhere else for Behvaioral Neuroscience or something similar. Maybe that will help. I love the abstract, subjective side, but good God I have learned so much more from my own studies and youtube then from school. They hire a bunch of kook J-perterson-wannabes who espouse opinionated bullshit and call it psychology. No thank you. If I'm paying that much, I might as well learn the technical side which is harder to study on your own
@@noted_insolence1894 My experience was much the same. =)
@@noted_insolence1894 same experience. Nothing in school prepared me for being face to face with people looking at me for the answer.
But, I don't have their answer; they do. I remind them as peterson does, by listening to their inner divine or consciousness.... if you are brave enough to face yourself, your next step will become bitterly clear.
@@noted_insolence1894 you might need to take it to your masters if you want to make a career out of psch.
Jump thru all the hoops, keep focused, stay humble, and get all your hrs, then you can step out and go private.
God bless you Dr Peterson, so so so true
Wow, superb talk. He pretty much sums up society today.
Every speech is unique.. i don't believe he rehearsed himself, but just went in with a few cup of coffee
Yes
How can you just not love this guy
they do not teach us this in school because they do not want us to be woke. Talks like these make me realize that the old philosophers were so right.. But modern education facilitates our sleeping state. It makes us zombies that continue struggling in the system. JP is a treasure because he guides us on the path to true awakening
If only watching a 13 minute video could fix things. Well, its a start.
"Sorry I'm late" my shadow was slowing me down!
It depends on your definition of “late.”
How FORTUNATE are his students to hear him speak in person!!!
There's always one of these that speaks to something I'm wrestling with.
God bless Jordan Peterson and the Algorithm. 😁