How To Date in the Philippines Without Going Crazy: the Jeepney strategy
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- Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025
- You’re going to find it incredibly hard to date in the Philippines if you don’t have the right strategies. So I want to talk about the 6 biggest challenges that foreigners face when it comes to dating in the Philippines and simple advice for how to overcome each one, and I want to conclude with the ultimate strategy for not going crazy when you’re dating in the Philippines. -Ellie
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This video was inspired by and uses direct quotes from psychologist Dr. Orion Taraban. If you enjoyed this episode, consider subscribing to his RUclips channel: / @psychacks . You might also consider buying his new book "The Value of Others," available on Amazon. We're big fans of Dr. Taraban have enjoyed trying to adapt his ideas to how dating works in the Philippines.
Smart Girl: Ellie
Camera: Irish
Writing Assistant: Maricel Dela Cruz
Editing: Rosamie Mendoza
Artwork: Jasmin Villanueva
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Amazing professionalism. Absolutely without a doubt the best advice anywhere on the Internet. Thank you so much.
I've dated a few Filipinas in my time. You have to establish the ground rules from the beginning. I'm 6'2" (188cm) and don't like riding in Jeepneys. I prefer to get a trike or taxi. Still, a trike is uncomfortable for me as my head bangs on the roof. Jeepneys and trikes are not designed for tall, western men.
Dating: It's different dating Filipinas. They are shy and difficult to read. Novices will end up paying for a family outing or for several of her friends. Filipinas are addicted to their phones and want to take pics of everything. I oblige, but I kindly ask them to put their phone away. If not, I pay the bill and walk away. You will soon understand only one in ten Filipinas are worth pursuing. Similar to dating in the West.
Be careful, as a one night stand may quickly develop into her family knocking on your bedroom door. Tread with care.
Don't get me wrong, if you find the right Filipina, she will change your life. They tap into your masculine energy and make you a better man.
My suggestion is to not have too many expectations, relax, and enjoy the attention you will receive. It's great!
@@ominousenough6172 Good advices 👍 And I'm 188 cm / 6'2 too 😂
Tq also 1-88
errrmmm. .... jeepney is being used as an analogy !
Over your head ..lol
Thanks! Jollibee's, because i'm too old to come to the Philippines :)
Thanks so much! We're ordering Jollibee this Friday from you!
I love the Jeepney strategy!!😅
Honestly I think you made me change my mind about coming to the Philippines
Love the analogy “ride the Jeepney” very apt 🙌🙌🙌
Most excellent information 😊
Great video. You give great advice and I love the use of your metaphor. Kudos to you!
I loved this video! So entertaining, funny, and holding words of wisdom. Great work! ❤
A Filipina who is a good match really is a dream wife. The problem is that they are located on the other side of the world. I got lucky and met my wife in the US and frankly, its not that much different than an American girl for me except, I felt she was trust worthy and very capable as we traditional wife who is an anchor in the family. I know she was a better first time mother also, as she seemed to automatically know how to raise children. So, yes, they are very attractive, fun and excellent wives and moms. They are feminine, dress classy and a very good companion and partner in life, they way things used to be, many years ago.
I always look forward to your videos. Thank you!
Southern California.
I have been passionate about The Philipiness which has a lot of awesome attractions.Furthemore I'm getting into Philipinas who are loyal and hospitalitable.
It really is that easy to date there. For any guy fat, old, weird, bald, doesn’t matter. Don’t pick the first one and stay single for a 6-months to a year at least! Don’t ever give money for any reason besides pay for food and 100 pesos for trike money. She asks for money beyond that block her immediately.
Any tips on how and where to find/meet them?
@@ruslanhrybchad6832 If you want someone who is not looking for your money I hear visit the more expansive coffee shops. I figure to check out the churches.
@@WhiskersAndWordsonly 100k... Why is not 1 million?
Just frigging talk to one casually, there are millions of single girls there @@ruslanhrybchad6832
@@ruslanhrybchad6832anywhere and everywhere. Just go over to the Philippines and talk to them when and where you can.
Thanks for the info ❤
Jeepney, what an incredibly accurate metaphor for dating in the Philippines and many other SEA countries.
Great video, Ellie! 💯🎉
Thankyou❤️❤️❤️see you in Cebu and Leyte in feb
Great tips!
Smart ladies at this channel 😅
Nice video Ellie! You're so very expressive! Are you an aspiring actress?
Many thanks for this video!
Brilliant. Great content. Ride that Jeepney!
Good analogy using the Jeepney
Oh I wish I saw this video before I got involved with a couple of Filipinas, I've never gave them a large gift like a house or scooter but a little here and a little there tends to add up to A Lot of money! I was too trusting never acknowledge the 'signs' 😥
thanks for the practical tips.
good advice
Thank you.
Great analogy have ridden many jeepneys and dated many filipinans
GREAT VLOG
Hello Ate Ellie! A Happy New Year 🎉🎉🎉🎉, I'm going crazy already, I need help! Please, maybe you can give an advice
Thanks
This is some of the best advice I have heard. Thank you so much it took me a long time to learn what you're saying.
Love the code or metaphor love!
I love Jeepneys also…👏🏾
13.30 "when my grandma was grumbled" 😂😂😂
just remember, you ride the jeepney from the back, hold with both hands or you you might slip.
Not all Filipina's are skinny. Jolly Bee's and other food places like that is changing it. In 20 more years it will look more like the U.S..
😂
We as men should also be shopping around we find a buyer. If she has a BF or husband, no worries. Time to move on. I also find it helpful to have other activities outside of dating.
"She's not your girl. It's just your turn!" SGP just spit some red pill truth right there.
Very intelligent commentaries and beautiful girl
To set up 2 dates at the same evening works really great i did this but the date 1 worked so well i stayed with her so 2nd girl was cancelled.
Protect this girl
Agreeable?
I can agree with a lot when it comes to Filipinos, but agreeableness is certainly one of their biggest weaknesses. Especially when you consider their insane jealousy and the insane over the to pride they possess.
Never date a lady that doesn’t have a high school education or a decent job no matter how pretty she is if she lives with her parents at 30 years old look out Friend like hell she’s going to use you like an ATM
Are you seriously advocating for a man dating a Filipina who has a boyfriend or who may even be married? Just trying to upgrade? Who can blame her? Guys, never date a woman like this. She has no principles or morality… so you will just be setting yourself for failure.
Is it even possible to date women without going crazy?
Young and skinny? Some are. However, there are plenty of Filipinas who eat way too much Jollibee and junk food in general. They don't work out, and sooner or later, they end up losing their beauty faster than they should have.
💯❤️💯
Actually you can blame her for upgrading from whoever she's dating at the moment because if she's trying to upgrade from him who's to say she won't try to upgrade from you
Would love to ride your jeepney 😅
Very creative reply.
If she never asks you for money that she is the one who is going to cost you the most money))
The two strategies with regard to women which are still unbeaten are>
.) Short-time
.) Hit & run
Holy crow! Your teeth look great compared to a year ago. Compliments to your orthodontist.
How serious could it possibly be if she doesn't call you.. No private communication makes it hard to take a situation serious. They have a scam with camaras where they threaten to share pictures of you to people on facebook. I didn't think that was a problem but god only knows what someone who is trying to get leverage over you and your money will try to do,
You are a sweet girl ❤
If she is seeing you to see if you are a better option, she will keep looking for the better option when you think got her, move on!
Do they ask for money after the 1st date?
all wahmen are w *ores. its not an insult. its a fact.
it depends.. if they asked about your money block them as easy as that.. friendly advice from a filipina
jeep-knee means "a bus"
It’s all temporary wives .
every wife is a temporary in the modern world, except few very religious societies like arab countries etc
I know countless couples married for decades. Some guys and some women are not suited for marriage and this scenario is not immune to incompatible matches either.
@@BeAsOpinionatedAsOpenMinded in the past
@@bobbyjames4300 Well, I know it’s changed. You’re right. However, I still see Filipina women and some from good families in the provinces that are still formed in the old pattern and family oriented. Our son is married to a traditional Filipina for 4 years already. They seem really good together.
I do understand the situation out there. However, there still are traditional women in the Philippines. Like I said, my son is no exception but I will say that I do see the provincial girl stereotype as having some validity. You can still find college educated women in the provinces also and thats a good formula if you can find it. Also a mid thirties Filipina can be great (pre TikTok).
Oh and what about getting to meet you in person?? Maybe you could evaluate me and have someone you know that you could introduce me too!! That is only if you’re not available 😊
Too small for me being 6’5” 😢
Ride the jeepney....that's the best. haha
How does a RUclipsr meet the love of her life? What if a listener is the one?
lmao you look exactly like one girl I know, and she's thai :))) i'll probably even subscribe not for content but mostly for the face 555
All of these excuses are just excuses for being late. Filipino Time is a real thing. People show up 1-2 hours after their scheduled time. They make it to work on time.
How to know if is a gold digger, or uses other "things" to manage the relationship
Marry me Ellie
What if she is very clingy ?
@wld-ph she wouldn't let almost anyone come without five feet of me unless she was right there attached to my hip 🤣
@@jayperez955They know you are the prize 😊
2 ways to look at "clingy". She's smothering you or she's devoted to you. I had a talk early on with my fiancee about "holding me too close". Now she understands, and knows there needs to be space even while she is still devoted to me as I am to her. Filipina are wonderful but you need to communicate.
She’s not talking about jeepneys!
Filipina always late ha ha ha, that’s hilarious. If the date is for 1:00 pm I’ll wait until 1:01 pm, if she’s not there, I’m gone….
I’ve already had my energy and wallet drained right here in the USA, after 21 years of what I thought was a final good marriage, She Out of the Blue, with no arrangements going on , I got hit by lightning with her having me served with divorce papers while I was out at the supermarket after getting a normal kiss from her as I left the house to go shopping!!! 🤯😱🤷🏻♂️🤬. So now almost two years later, & after watching 100 different utubers from the Philippines on how easy and great the women there are I been planning to come there and settle down with a loving feminine younger woman for a peaceful life, But after watching your videos lately on all the batshit crazy woman there, and also renting a girl it sounds like the same sht What’s a man to do ??? Most guys are just giving up on women.
BRING LOTS AND LOTS AND LOTS OF MONEY.... THE BABY NEEDS... everything in the gd world... the family needs... everything in the world... the neighbors need every gd thing in the world.... the whole country needs..... BIRTH CONTROL abt 50 yrs ago.
Filipinas are not that skinny in general
how long have you been in the PI? what part of PI do you find that? my area about 90% are skinny..
Must be in the big cities. A lot are still thin but the western diet is in the cities, I think. For others its still, fish, chicken and rice.
@@MickeyMouseParkMindanao Iligan city had lots of fat girls 😮😊😮😊
All the drinks are loaded with sugar.
just drain me why are you talking hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Great wives and girlfriends...= HAS THE MOST DATING WARNINGS OF ANY OTHER COUNTRIES 🤣🤣🤣🤣girl bye 👋
I feel sorry for these girls.
Why?
Any woman with a scammer mentality or Western mentality should not be pitied. They should be avoided. Signed: RED BLACK Expat (Philippines) 🇵🇭
There is nothing in this video that makes me want to come to your country. It appears to be all about how to excuse the girl's behavior and how to learn to behave in certain ways to accommodate her. Sorry, but the prize is the other way around, and if she can't adapt to that or recognize it then why should I want to be with her? It seems ridiculous expectations are not solely based in the West.
Are you married?
Ha ha ha.. I Fillipino girls always late 1 or 2 hours, I will came 1 hour later.. She can wait... and will not be angry at me .. Right?
“Cheat sheet” each have a long e like in beach. “Chit shit” is humorously “not a meaningful phrase”.
Time is money and everything. Who have time to waste my time l can’t wait no way if she is gorgeous in the world.