3 Marriages ??? | 1980's Intercaste Love Marriage & Struggles
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3 Marriages | 1980's Intercaste Love Marriage & Struggles
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The best 24 mins of my life listening to this video ❤❤❤. Thank you Bhaiya and Bhabi for recording this, now this will stay with us forever.
Thts true..i will never forget this lovestory
It would be great to record a song of your parents in your studio at home.
Lovely love story 😍
👍👍
😭Sachi me yaar ... Aunty ji ne bola wo touch kr Gaya baat Bhut pyari h aunty ji aap😘😘😘😘🧿mata Rani blessed u💖
I was in a relation with someone from different caste and religion for more than 10 years. In the end he couldn’t tell his family about me and he had an arranged marriage with someone from his own caste. Not everyone have a heart to take major life decision. Your father is a brave man.
No dowry
Intercaste Inter-community
irrespective of looks
They fell for each other's hearts
This is what marriage is all about.
Have faith...we all will find our soulmate.
Very true line.... don't know why people complicate it
sab luck ki bat bahut log esa chahte hain but wesa life partner milta nahi .. ye sab pichle karm hain... wo depend karta hain upper wala apke bare mei kya decide karta hai par ye sab har kisi ke sath hota nahi its all about destiny
Arjuna ,your father is so so practical, His thoughts are so positive he is a pure gentleman
Lucky you "Arjuna"
Yes. That is adorable to know for over intelligent caste based minded people,but it will be easy for loving mind people.
Why I said over intelligent just go below to understand this
jaati ka Matlab to ye but ki uchhi jaati ka aadmi kitna bhi bura Kare wo hamesha. Ucha hi rahega aur neechi jaati kaaadmi agar bhagwan bhi ban Jaye phir bhi wo apradhi hi kahlaye!Nature is god, this is written in every book, sun is the only lord, because every planet worship him, but some people always prayed humans!
Our hindu religion is Great because i. It we pray true Lord Sun only!
My mum is a Dogri Rajput from Jammu n dad is a Maithil Brahmin from Bihar... Both doctors,met in Medical College...Dated for 7-8 years n then after a lot of struggle n manana from my fathers side..my Brigadier Nanaji agreed... In 1974 they united their lives ,souls n Its a beautiful journey since... I n my brother know 8 languages... My parents are amazing... n super grandparents now!! We enjoy the culture n cuisines from both sides...
So I love intercaste marriage stories... Thanks for this lovely story...
Wow 🙏🙏
Great...I am also a Bihari
I m also dogra from jammu
Its very difficult to do intercaste marriages in jammu especially bhramin girls
Great love story
It is Inter Community Marriage, not inter caste. Marriage between a Punjabi groom & Bengali bride. Your parents and their parents were wise, so the journey of marriage was smooth.
I have toxic parents and they fight so much and never understand each other that always make me think that marriage is very toxic where two people just fight but after listening this story and Arjuna Divya story I feel it's most beautiful thing ...I started believing in soulmate ...your story are just ",MIRACLE" and god bless your family for such pure thoughts 🥺❤️
Same here man🙂 I'm so so glad i got arjuna sir's channel❤️
@@vaishnavii6299 yeah , at least we have different perspective after watching them😊
Same here
I am sure these two couples also fight behind the camera.. so, all marriages will have fond memories and silly fights but they always stay together, thats the beauty of our hindu marriage system...
Same here 😑
Arjuna sir's speaking style is similar to his father😁
Their story is so raw and pure. ❤
This story proves that supporting parents kisi bhi era me exist kr skte bas soch aisi honi chahiye k bacche khus rhe😃really lucky people.
AApke mummy papa ki story aapse similar hi hai. Bs thori unpdated hai. Ab to kichu ki same story aayegi. God bless you kichu😘😘😘
Kuch pakhandi log kahte hai aap pichle Janam me kisi aur jaati me paida huyi thi, aapko swarn kul me Janam apke shresth karamo ke Karan Mila hai , Kya apko yaad hai ki pichle Janam me aap kaha paida Hui thi?
@@gaurav2254 what rubbish r u ok. Mai in chigo ko nhi manti
@@gaurav2254 ye true hai karmo ka fal milta hai ye sab jooth nahe hai jaati Kya manusya janm bhe acche karmo se he milta hai acche ko accha fal bure ko bura fal karma se he hai dusri baat duniya ki mat suno khud practical karo ok practical se he answer khud ko milte hai tum jaise log sirf bolte ho kisi ko bura khud me himmat nahe hai khud ke dam mehnat pe janne kee himmat khud me lao karo aur dekho sacchai kya hai if himmat nahe hai to parkhne ki kosish bhe bekar hai kuch nahe milega sirf aur sirf burai aur har cheej me asmanjas he rahega samjhe
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After listening to the Dad, Divya - if you ever need advice or struggling with some issues/problems, you have a great father in law to consult/seek his advice/suggestions. Dad is very clear in his thoughts and likely in his actions too, and Mom seems very strong. They are blessed to have each other! Wish them all the happiness and good health!
I noticed a similarity in your own story as you and Divya met again after some 10 yrs gap and seems like your parents too met again after some 10 yrs gap. In both the cases, it was the guy who sought/located the girl again. Very interesting, as they say history repeats itself!
Yup ❤
19:08-19:15 uncle got emotional....😞😞 That's called true love pure ND Devine. Hats off to this lovely couple lots of respect 🙏 uncle ND aunty
I really got tears in my eyes...It was emotional 😒😒
Your father is a real hero, intercaste marriages are not easy today also, really I got emotional watching this video ....🙏
Yes he is very rational person
@@Mr.Singh69 bhai aj bi hmare area me gaion me ya to district me bi Intercaste mrge nehi hota...bahot muskil hai..heartsoff to this gem
🧐
Assam me kuch nahi hota😀
How lover get married they don't see their partner belongs to which cast??
Aunty ko ab dekh k aisa bilkul nahi lagta ki Aunty itni bold rahi hongi. Wonderful love story!! Thats y they say Never judge a book by its cover. She is strong women pillar of strength for the family.
Ur father is so sensitive caring and progressive person
Such strong personalities...I'm already touched by their values and the way they think! Huge respect!
Especially your dad, he has a solid jigraa....it makes me grounded again...and think about what life really is about!
We get so caught up with satisfying expectations of the world, that we let it change ourselves to match standards of other people. This was such a reality check...touched deep corners of my heart! What courage, what conviction! You parents were so crystal clear and knew exactly what they wanted in life...and stuck with it! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I too want to marry with true love like uncle,he truly said that marriage is basically 1 soul having 2 bodies and no show off. i too believe in this and hope I will get the same
M nd my bf are also from different caste plzzz pray that we get married👫💏💍👏🎉💒🍸 😕.
Same.. But it doesn't matter to my family... Also my family doesn't know that I've a bf.. 😛🤫
Keep praying for the future with him 💜🌸❤️
❤️ From Bangladesh 🇧🇩
@@chaitydhar but it does matter to my family.. They are totally against of it.
M very worried about my future🔮.😔
@@sssquare-gd2zk Don't worry... & keep praying 🙏 🌸 💜
You should tell them that, "May the caste are different but the religion is same... Isn't enough?"
@@chaitydhar yeah! Plzzz pray for us.
We both love each other truly💕
God bless u... U will definitely win . But never loose hope.. How much time it takes 😁😁
Uncle ji get tears everytime. How beautiful his heart is .Rooh paak tau aankh zaroor chalakti hai. So nice to know such a loving couple.
Awwww...uncle is so cute!!! he loves his wife so much and when he said about the rituals he did not believe in shows he was way ahead of time...There were tears in my eyes when he started sobbing at 19:04... so much love... this story really touched me... New to your channel... Aunty is so lucky find a man like him...
The line that marriage is conversion of two souls into one took my heart.
No ghodi Rasam and all. 😍 Having this type of thinking at that time is actually applaudable. Truly a big fan of you all😀😀
Exactly. These cultural customs maybe over time have taken on different meanings but I love the phere vows. Doesn't matter what era when you hear those 7 vows you understand that yes this is about two people becoming equal partners and growing together. Culture will change but nothing changes spirituality
watched this today, after almost a year and now i understand why Arjuna and Divya have such an amazing love story.
Such pyara pariwar this Harjai family is.
Touchwood
That Krishna vali story....ohh my god.....such a wonderful thing🤗❤️.....I also believe in krishna or you can say Krishna bhakt😇.....this incident doubles my love towards krishna🥰🥰.....and one more thing that she was such an innocent girl( arjuna's mummy)....she gave her chain...this is very innocent and pure soul thing
Most heart touching story of love marriage, that too at that time of era when this was not common................ Inspired by Uncle and Aunty
This reminds me of the Story of my Parents. They were in Primary School aged 5 and 6 respectively in Malaysia. 14 -15 Years after they had a love marriage in Nepal. After some Years of marriage they saw old Photos and recognised each other. Destiny only knows it seems
Its really unbelievable that what I'm seeing is true & happened in that time .... their love marriage looks so ideal & look at them .....so dignified & maintained the love & respect even after so many years.....that's so evident by seeing tears in uncle's eyes & the memories aunty tells. Wish all the marriages r like theirs ....Happy, respectful & full of love 😇
"Marriages are made in heaven"❤️
Why am I crying .... This man is such a good human .... ❤️❤️❤️
Mano to mai ganga maa hu..
Na mano...to baihta pani...😊😊
Beautiful love story...😍😍
This was magical..just loved how genuine and honest they were...most beautiful thing I saw online today
Two of my favourite videos on this channel
1) this video
2) arjun and divya lovestory
I can imagine and feel the intensity of their true love for eachother. Whn uncle was crying I was also crying 😭 .....
When did he cried btw?
@@akashgusain114 At 19:10
I too feel so emotional with innocents love
Pure souls…best love story ever… my heart is filled with so much love and emotions after listening them..❤️
So sweet :)) Uncle is too sweet!! I wish them good health and happiness. What really struck me was, when uncle told things happen according to how you perceive them! This is so true!!
In this materialistic world, It's so nice to see how two people just wanted to be together coz they loved each other!!
I always found your mom very different and today after hearing this🙌🏻🙌🏻 She feels so different because she is that rare personality. You people are so lucky, not all people are so spiritually gifted like your parents🙏🏻.
i am literary crying while hearing to your father , such a great soul with high values, hard to find these days.
God bless
बहुत अच्छी स्टोरी👌👌 अच्छे विचार व विश्वास की जीत👍👌👌
He is a great storyteller..♥️...was glued to it through a whole video ..
But the most outstanding thing for me was his thought process ..it's too beautiful..
This is so heart-warming! You both had a divinely blessed marriage (saw your video) and so did the parents. People with a spine stay committed forever! Astrologers played a role in both of your marriage someway 😀
The way uncle talk about equality in relationship 😭😭❤️❤️❤️uncle aunty is so genuine and down to earth ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻god bless them
I really appreciate the bond Uncle and Aunty share and the kind of unflinching support they have for each other.. Really like Uncle's expression of conviction and commitment towards Aunty. It is definitely something to be replicated .. Lots of love and respect 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I can't tell you Your parents love story inspired me so much .
Really Marriages are made in heaven .
I am Bengali girl and I can feel your mother's emotions .
Still mostly Bengali parents are against Love Marriage ......
But your maternal grandparents were liberal .
Still your mother smiles like newlywed bride .
Very wrong.. i got married to a marathi guy just 6days back nd we got no problem at all
@Shreya Chakraborty exactly
@Shreya Chakraborty exactly.. Bengalis are the most progressive when it comes to situation like these.. intercaste marriage is not even a thing anymore..
Are you serious man... Bengalis are the most progressive community in the country... I never saw any bengali going against love marriage of their child..🙄
@@sushmamondal9765 obviously .I am also intetcast relationship but in today's days also my parents is totally disagree with this.even they mentally torchered me due to this
Aare wah!!! Such a beautiful story and lovely mom&dad ❤️...Nazar na lage
Arjuna sir u r really lucky to have a parents like them...ND uncle is so down to earth and his each ND every word is nothing like a life lesson means he is talking with facts ND he's so inspiring.... Divya mam how u blessed u r to have such a beautiful ND sweet in-laws...
Apki mom bengali hai
Omg muje shock laga
Yr family is the best yrr including u both ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️...
Kind of similar story... As Arjuna said history repeats itself ❤️😂
Divya is bangali?
@@sugaarmyradhika1792 no she's Punjabi
Kechu ka name kya hai
@@NewsRepoter avyukta.
Punjabi+ Bengali combination is really remarkable... Arijit singh and arjuna bhaiya is one of them.🔥💙😂
Arijit and Arjuna.... One of them???
Bro two of them.... 😂😂
These days this is very common
I am combination of punjabi +punjabi 🤣🤣
@@akshatseth7289 me too 😂😂😂
@@harbinderkaur920 i not fully punjabi like my mom is mona punjabi and my father is khatri 🥰
This is the most heart touching stories of love marriages I have heard. It shows that it's just the commitment towards your which matters as uncle rightly said there were not attracted towards each other because of physical appearance instead they were attracted to their qualities or passion which they had in their times.
Love you Uncle and Aunty
Okay now I genuinely believe in true love. Mujhe lagta tha aap dono hi soulmates ho but yaha toh uncle aunty bhi soulmates hai..this is so so so beautiful..❤ aunty is so sweet and Uncle is a very wise man.
I hve nver ever listened a love story like this so pure...so intense.....real love .....hattsoff to sir and mam ....the patience they hve...the commitment they have....and that line ....."meri search tum pr khtm hoti h ".....what more a women can expect from a man....its just magical.....lots of love to all of u
I really liked the gentleman. And his wife of course. But the gentleman is extremely articulate and clear in his thought process. God bless this couple.
Yes you said it correctly ❤️
Best love story. I had ever heard till now.
This called true love. But now a days people thinks that physical touch is true love here we have to give proof of our love.
I wish mujhe bhi koi aisa true love mile.
Same thinking here
Going through the same phase. Just told my parents and now waiting what will happen. Hope it's get sorted.
I never comment on any of your vlogs. I am your silent watcher and subscriber but this story touched my heart. I was already a fan of aunty and now I am a big fan of uncle too. Precious family ❤️❤️
Itna true love to purane time me hi hota tha. Ajkal to true love milta hi nahi. Mujhe Saif-Deepika ki Love Aj Kal movie yaad aa gai. ❤️🙏
Teri kismat da likheya tere te koi le nahi sakda
Je hove Meher usdi te tennu ohh bhi mil jayi toh
Tera ho nahi sakta❤️
Your words of your song keh nahi paunga🤍
I literally Just had a heart break and after watching this
I just felt that what is meant for you will come to your way❤️
Bahat khoob
The moment Arjuna's father had tears in his eyes when his wife was telling the krishna incident, oh my god, it hit me so hardd man. I hope i get someone like him in my life❤
Same to same, my tears rolled down. This touched me intensely.
I was also noticing the same! 18:50
Blessings are the only thing I can give , am speechless , god bless uncle aunty ji, they are pure soul, I strongly feel it. There was a constant smile on my face , also had tears on hearing that marriages are made in heaven , really felt the positivity.
@ArjunaHarjai You r very lucky to have such parents..I almost cried when ur mom started telling the 5yr old kid wala part.
I am a Bengali too and i know how dowry is still socialized in the sake of good fortune. I could totally relate to ur mother bcoz i exactly have the same thought as ur mom did.
I Wish all the happiness for ur family
...stay like this forever ❤️☺️
Kitni khub sundor love story hei.I loved it totally.Being a bengali I know the problems.But they made possible❤
KICHU IS LIKE WAIT FOR MY STORY😂😎❤️
Very Genuine, inspiring and thoughtful video..... Thank you for sharing too personal moments with all of us..... Blessings
I wish that type of parents every and each child needed ... specially girls ....cause feeling such ❤️to dad.... Heads off ..... How he talk about tradition and the dahez pratha..... Wish ki inki ek speech har mom dad ko sunai jaaye....not only boys ke parents ....also the parents of girl who want a family not a boy for their princess.... And love you keechu bby 🥰🍫
Ab pta chla arjuna ne true love krna Apne parents se sikha h❤️
@CARNAGE !!! yess
@CARNAGE !!! muslim boys can but muslims girls can't
@CARNAGE !!! You have to spread poison everywhere?
@CARNAGE !!! Speak what improves on silence. Otherwise one should keep quiet.
@CARNAGE !!! Your reply was expected. You are nurturing a lot of negativity. Let go of it
Your story is so similar to your father n mother's story 😃😃 they met when they were teen agers and after 10-12 years they met , this is so special 💖
Now I understood how u sing so well.. Ur parents are such good singers and composers.. And ur mom is a bengali.. M a bengali too. I know the first thing we inherit is 🎶 music..
Thank you for the heart Arjuna
Nice topic and interview.Just a suggestion ,never add music when in an interview.Also since you are closer to the mike when you speak,it too sharp
Gonna watch this, whenever I'll feel low🥺🥲....True love❤...Also waiting for Divyuna's story❤.... Jai Shree krishna ❤🥺🙏!!
The best love story of that time I ever heard 😍..... Thanks for sharing arjuna sir.... God bless you nd your family 😇
This is like same story which is going in my life right now... I m odia and he is punjabi.. 😊😊
Acha Odia 😉
Ghar per kese mangaye
LOVED IT❤️
This is the mindset we all should have.
Thank you for bringing this to us❤️
I was so indecisive if i really wanted to watch a 24 minute long video of someone s love story.. But in between the moments of smiling and sudden crying I didn't even realise how these minutes passed.... So so thankful that I came across this video. uncle aunty have restored my faith in love ❤️❤️ Thank you so much Divya and Arjuna for sharing these wonderful souls with the world..
Aapne shaadi kar li?
@@Light-kw1qk ji abhi tak nai
@@mamtaadhikari878 *what's your age?*
@@Light-kw1qk hahahahahha are you sending me rishtas
I was in a relationship for 1.5 years when my guy's parents got to know about us. We were deeply in love but due to his parents he broke up with me...with time we had many fights n bcz of that we are rude with each other now.. but anyhow the love for each other is same!! I pray from God that we live happily with each other now and when our marriage age comes we get married! I love him so much ❤
Such a beautiful and charming story of Uncle and Aunty .
Been a while , haven't heard anything so pure like this . So was the story of Arjuna sir and Divya ma'am. Touchwood ❤
I have become a huge fan of your father ...He has a pure soul
Beauty that can't be described❤❤❤ Blessed to have known this story ❤
Same love story... Father son ki.... papa mummy bhi kafi saal baad mile the...or ap or divya bhi..... Wht a coincidence yr....❤️
Am Bengali and am melted .... Now I know why Arjuna have such nice voice ....💞💕
What a beautiful feelings,,, no words......chhote se Shabd mein badi gehri baat Kahi uncle Ji ne 2 souls ghoom rahe hote aur vah ek hote hai. ,,,,,,,Upar wale ki marji..... Watching this I feel '' actually happy ki ayese thoughtful positive clear soulful person actually hain main unko Sun paa Rahi hoon Jo Main bhi hun jo Aaj bahut kam logomain dekhne mein milta haii ,,,,bohot baten Arya dimag mein par Main likh bhi nahin paa rhi hoon happy thanks a lot,,, what a blog 💕Arjuna+ divya..:- arivya💝
Best love story ever. We can't comment on one segment. Full story was commendable. Kichu is blessed to have such a loving grandparents. Live live. Love love.
Bhoot achcha laga bhai is video ko dekhkar....I m girl of non bengali but my husband is bengali.....I quite happy...
I think musicians are really pure and practical at heart...
Mom - 'What kind of mad people throw money at God..'
Dad - 'I don't believe in sehra bandhi and ghodi chadna..'
I mean...regular people like us don't think from such a pure/emotional/beautiful/positive perspective!
CUTEST VIDEO EVER!!! This is so pure and beautiful! Love your parents! Wish saare logon ka view itna amazing ho! God bless them.
Felt so good to hear their story of love ❤️... Specially your dad is such a gentle person and its heart touching when he cried couple of times being emotional... Sabke thinking aisi ho jaye to bas....love in air
Wow great ! Specially lakshmi + Madhusudan the story in temple your mom told ❤️
i liked wt ur mother think ,this how it shd be ..........respect to aunty
I have never heard such a beautiful love story. I wish I was in this same era of simplicity. And your dad's opinion are far ahead.
Whole family is pure n intelligent
Wowww you have an amazing parents ♥️♥️ Even i’m trying to convince my parents for intercaste marriage but they are not agreeing .. Yes I believe in spirituality but my parents don’t.. I wish I can have parents like you ❤️❤️
I want more such parents and couples and human being to exist for real 😭❤️❤️
Amen 🙏
Yes
Kitna sadgi wala pyar hain...isiko kehte hain man se jor jana....Kaku and kaima long and happy married life to you....
heats off uncle ji and runty ji . we can learn lots of things from these two souls ..& i m 1000% dam sure if movie will cast that will super duper
Krishna ji ki baat sunke mujhe v rona aa gaya...aap log bahut achhe insan hai ....aise hi khush rahiye uncle aunty 🙏🙏
such a pure bond they are sharing...my eyes got blessed after watching this💖Loved this thnku for sharing this
TBH Uncle ji talking about destiny gave me hopes!!!
I got so emotional listening to their story; thank you bhai for sharing your parents’ story! :)
You got a such beautiful parents i couldn’t stop myself to comment here , if these kind of mindset every parents follow in india i can tell that there is huge chunk of casteism would be demolish in india . Thats why i felt that his son is very respectful, soft spoken and very smooth with his wife . God bless your family love from philippines .
This made my day this is a real true love the non biased relationship equal respect for each other this couple love story was written by God... I always pray that they always stay blessed...
Today I came through this video... am very late.... am in class 12 but I just got amazed by hearing (dadaji's) words... he is just an amazing person...