The Hardest Thing About Living in Japan// Girl Abroad Ep. 4
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This is episode 4 of Girl Abroad. I'm letting out the hardest thing you'll most likely have to face when you move to Japan. It's truly the worst! I also went on a date with someone I have been seeing for a little while and catch up with a friend I met back in college!
Sometimes, you have to make sacrifices if you want to live your dreams.
I hope you enjoy this episode and I would love your feedback!
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Hi! My name is Kelly and I am an English teacher living in Japan! I studied Japanese and education at Michigan State University with a minor in TESOL so I am living the dream!
I`m also a singer/songwriter and love to travel and eat lots of yummy food around the world!
I post videos about lifestyle, health, and travel.
l please don't be afraid to comment on what I can improve on as well as on any travel tips you have or cool places to visit!
皆さん、初めまして。
私の名前はケリーです。
私は東京に住んでいて英語を教えています。
ミシガン州立大学で日本語と教育を専攻していました。
TESOLも勉強したので自分の夢をかなえることが出来ました。
私は日本の生活や旅行についてのビデオを作ります。
歌うことも大好きなのでそれもチャンネルでお見せしますね。
私はRUclipsを始めたばかりなので
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Ok that RUclipsr who made her wait and didn’t respond to her messages...you’re the worst for making someone wait like that
Hey guys! I just want to let you know, I do genuinely use Italki especially for grammar and writing practice. If you aren't interested, it's no biggie! Just skip ahead! I've worked with them since the beginning of my RUclips times and appreciate their service. :D Enjoy the video! I would love to hear your feedback!
LoveLyzKelly.im learning Korean. And always be there you for you and support you 💕🙏🙏🙌
Would use it if I didn’t absolutely suck at learning another language! Love the vlogs though! Keep at em!
It's a great service thank you for sharing , I have a passion for learning languages as well so that will be very helpful in the future for me personally thank you so much gorgeous 💛🌿
Appreciate your honesty, thank you for a great video!
I'm a Japanese college student studying in LA, grown up in Tokyo. To be honest with you, many people in Tokyo are feeling lonely like you even Japanese. So many came from countryside don't have friends in Tokyo and can't get used to fast-speed Tokyo lifestyle.
It is so hard to make friends outside of school and workplace even though you walk by thousands of different people everyday.
However, once you could get in multiple communities, your life there would not only dramatically change, but you would appreciate the diversity Tokyo offers unlike other international big cities do. You should make hobbies and get into community group. Japanese love foreigners. They want to make friends from outside of their world because they are so unique.
I googled "東京 サークル" and found this website. tunagate.com/search/tokyo/&is_new_arrival=false
I hope this would help you.
Good luck and enjoy life in Japan. 年末年始 is coming! SO excited!
"The people that reach out to you - despite you living miles away, are the people that truly care about you the most" 😭😭
these videos give me hope for my future. right now, everything is so stressful and I often wonder if the rest of my life will be worth the effort now. when I see you enjoying your life and doing the things that you want to, and the things that make you happy, it helps me believe that one day, I'll get to do those things too. thank you for being yourself and doing what you do. I really appreciate it.
Dont worry stress happens to all of us, Im also dealing with a stressful point in my life with college and work but you'll get through it, we all will. Dont give up on your goals you can do anything you set your mind too. Dont let the stress kill your dreams.
Trust me I had been feeling that way for a while. I’m in my late 20s and still trying to find myself. Dating has been rough and I don’t have a legit job. I teach and do this stuff but I enjoy it and I love this country to death. Life is too short so I’m doing my best to give back to the community I’m targeting. I’d love to work for myself someday! That’s the dream and the goal. Consulting, mentoring, online courses, encouraging others to live abroad and grow their own brand if they want to. Set some goals and start now. You’ll have down days but don’t let that keep you from accomplishing things. Find positive ppl to spend time with and enjoy the small moments.
I've been watching your last few videos. I totally get the difficulty with feeling lonely in Japan. It takes so much longer to get personal with people here. I'm also a Vlogger and I feel really lucky to have Nami doing videos with me. It's so much time spent alone at a computer editing and alone shooting by yourself, so it really helps if you can find someone to spend time with. I'm rooting for you!
if you are lonely in Tokyo JOIN THE AMERICAN CLUB TONS OF PEOPLE AMERICANS BELONG IN TOKYO
White people are carefree and talkative we Asians are a bit conservative when it comes to talking with other people there is a place for talking ex. is going to bar with colleagues. We dont like talking too much. I dont wanted to be rude but this is just my opinion.
Thinking the same thing when she talked about getting used to saying goodbye. When the right person comes into her life, she won't have to...
What bollocks, Im in my late 60;s from NZ, my Jland friends of same age are GREAT..... pull your finger out and enjoy life
I love how she shows herself with and without makeup, Normally girls don't do this on youtube, Also I feel like she is a genuine person. keep them coming you are doing a great job.
She is beautiful either way and her confidence is even more so ,
however just a note I feel like sharing make up isn't a stigma or a negative thing if used correctly, it's meant to just help us look and feel more fresh at least that's what I learned growing up , it's also a sort of art form, some girls like to play with make up depends on the mode some love it so much they use it to make a living, as long as it's all with balance and knowledge should be fine & in the end of the day it's a personal choice.
@@TheMaskedChef7 I totally agree with you
@@tharindunirmal7339 sorry about the auto-correct mistakes it's early in the morning in Cairo lol
Actually it’s trendy to do “no makeup” for YEARS started by celebs to create that exact feeling of “realism”
I'm a dude, she's honestly one of the few girls who look really good with no makeup at all. Not sugar coating with this "beautiful no matter what" bullshit, she's just legit pretty.
Living in japan is hard and it’s even harder if your friends and family aren’t here to be by your side.
Exactly!
I love your attitude of pushing yourself to overcome situations that cause you anxiety! Each time u do it, the fear will become less and less! Great job, keep putting the effort in~
I only found your channel a couple weeks ago but I wanted to let you know that all of your videos I've seen so far have been incredible and they're always so genuine and inspiring and that's so hard to find and I just really love them and appreciate you sharing all of your experiences with the world it truly is an amazing thing you're doing here and I guess I just wanted to tell you to keep being your awesome self haha
Thank you! You’re awesome for commenting and watching!
Of all the vloggers in Japan that I've watched, your videos really give me a sense of everyday life and what it would be like living in your area of Japan. Continue your bravery, your fear is only temporary :)
Aww I love this comment 🥰
@@KellyMorita I realize the video logs are therapeutic and help deal with the tougher times as well as showcase the happy times. Keep up the great work and the spirits. Happy Holidays. Dont know if Christmas is big there, I assume not lol
This makes me feel nostalgic about Japan. It's been 2 1/2 years since I lived there, and I can't believe it's been that long. I lived there for 11 years. I did RUclips in Japan, but I wish I'd done a lot more vlogging. I have pictures, but video would have been far better. I'll be back in the Tokyo area for a few days next spring, and will be vlogging the entire thing. I miss Japan!
Yes, keep doing videos! It makes us viewers happy, and it makes YOU happy, which is the most important thing! Good work!!
It sure does!
Really cute hearing you say you appreciate your friends reaching out to you despite the distance. I can really tell you're an honest sincere person. We're strangers on the Internet, but I'm sending you positive vibes!
Thanks! I love my friends so much :)
Honestly screw that youtuber guy for standing you up and not replying :/ so rude
If you wanna hate on him personally, it was probably the Abroad in Japan guy XD
Sebastián Chagoya Sanders pretty sure that Chris is still on his cycle journey and he doesn’t seem like the guy that would be so rude as to have a girl wait for 2 hours without response....
@@clementineattr219 Yeah, sorta missed that. I really just hought how funny that would be because Chris is like a whole month behind on uploading videos (also he just cycled with a married woman, so I know its not relevant)
Maybe its Daniel
@@sebastianc.5825 lol first person who came to mind
I agree. Thats the hardest part about Japan. I'm used to saying goodbyes with my way of life, but it doesn't get any easier. I have more skills to cope with it, but it still feels heavy. This is the first year I haven't spent thanksgiving with my parents in forever and I miss getting together and watching movies and listening to music while we cooked dinner. Its also hard to meet with friends when you have such drastically different school schedules. One of my closest friends has the exact opposite schedule of me so we literally only see each other at the station as one of us is headed to school while the other is headed back home. However, I think that it has made me put more effort into making time for people, which helps me realize which people I can depend on or I want to spend time with rather than defaulting to convenience.
You should collab with abroad in japan
Seconding.
To increase the odds/catalyze:
Post the comment on his videos + get likes. Good luck and Cheese!
EDIT*: CHEERS!*
+EDIT 2: Kelly seems A-OK collaborating with Chris.
+EDIT 3.#: I just realized the "K" sounds in both of their names.
+EDIT 3.b: -the- their
@狐 he travels all around Japan all the time though.
agreed love him
I am staying in Japan for almost 3 months. Watching your vblog helped me adjust and understand things here in Japan. I can relate to all of your emotions. 😊
Yay! I’m glad! Enjoy your stay 💕
Thank you Kelly for your vblog. 😘
Welcome to Japan!! :D. Enjoy your stay and keep your good work!!
I just got back to germany after 6 months of living in Japan, and now im really indecisive whether i should move to Japan or not, because i realized how the "magic" of Japan getting less and less during my weekly routines of studying or working. Just as it is everywhere, you get used to the things and everything is just getting normal. But still im in love with Japan and i can't really explain why but your videos are just so amazing and inspiring. Thank you very much for that, we might see each other in Tokyo one day :D
I love and agree with your sentiment about doing something because you feel uncomfortable doing it and knowing that the only way to overcome it is to embrace it. Keep it up!
I discovered your channel a few days ago and I absolutely LOVE how your vlogs are in a form of a diary. It's so beautiful to watch! You're inspiring me to chase my dream even more - to study Japanese and perhaps even move there someday 🤗💕
9:19 I heard Spanish ❤️
"Mira que bonita" - Look, she's so pretty! 😊
sanquel12 you mean "look how pretty"
But are they wrong?
Depends, if it towards a female sanquel12 is correct. If it was towards an object it woulf be bonito :) Spanish is weird but im happy it is my first language.
@@jackylovefb yup your correct it's not 'look how pretty'.
@@sunnydays7615 que pedo 😂 I forgot, thats true
I’ve been following your videos for 2 years now, and I really love your current direction. You’re so kind, patient and brave. If I were you I’ll also focus on what I want, and your positive energy will eventually attract people who want to know you more.
New sub here. I love this kinda content. So real, and feels like I'm experiencing the rollercoaster of emotions you would have living in a strange city. I've never travelled outside of my state let alone country and I'm 37. Haven't been on a plane or anything, so watching you live this life is exciting to watch. You're incredibly brave. 💜
Hey I started watching your videos (Im only on episode 4) and I really like your videos. The part where you said that the hardest thing living about Japan is being away from family and missing them made me so sad. I visited Japan last year AND I MISS IT SOO BAD! The grocery shopping experience was surreal (Ive been adulting for 8 years and japanese grocery shopping almost turned my world upside down). Watching your video makes me long to go back to Japan. I hope you feel a lil less lonely tho.
Girl, ditch that guy since (harsh words coming in) if he doesn’t put effort in meeting you, he doesn’t care that much. I always put down my ‘rules’ when dating which helps filters the good from the bad (not a perfect technique though haha). I say that I want to have fun with you and only you and who knows what happens down the line but when you have doubts or issues, voice them to me because i find communication and honesty key elements. If I get a weird vibe from telling this to a guy i am dating then I stop dating him. It might sound harsh but I don’t want to waste my time , brain/heart juice and money on someone that does not feel the same like me and also vic versa. Too many people play games and are not honest with their intentions and i feel that if you are unsure, you voice it and act accordingly. It is tough but I want to walk down a path in life where I have someone next to me and go on adventures together, and not stir away from my own path just so I can get some mediocre love.
Yep, if anybody isn't interested in seeing ou. not worth it.
Well, found my dream girl.
wow 5 years is a really long time, I'm happy see you are still in contact! And I totally agree about documenting your own life, it can be so eye opening to look back. I am often shocked by how much my memories changed over time when I am confronted with how things really were.
Yes, documenting things is so important! We can grow to be better people this way. It’s sometimes a good thing to embrace social media in this way.
This is such a nice video! I've always wanted to visit Japan and this video has me taking it far more seriously now (thinking about planning something!). Very endearing, genuine vlog. Loved you mentioning your anxiety in crowds and facing that as I deal with that too. The added Kingdom Hearts sound effects whether intentional or not were cool to hear lol. Such a nice video!
Thanks for being real ! I have been working abroad since 21 and it is true that friendship and relationship abroad tends to be long distance. Keep vlogging and keeping it true to us and yourself.
I love watching your videos for many reason. One reason is your voice is really therapeutic and i feel stress free. Another reason is your videos show japan from a different side. I love when you show japans beauty and culture. Love you !
I’ve randomly stumbled across you and I’ve only been watching for 10 mins and decided to subscribe. I work for a Japanese company and although I’m based in the UK, I regularly travel to Japan so your take on things is really interesting.
You’re an absolute sweetheart and are totally relatable. No gimmicks or silliness; you just say it and document it how it is. This is so refreshing.
You’re a beautiful girl with a huge heart. Thank you for making so much effort for your viewers.
I think traveling by train is the best way to get around and I enjoy it a great deal when you add train travel to your videos. It was such a touching moment when you met up with your good friend whom you haven't seen in so long. You made excellent points about all the things that someone would have to sacrifice living so far away from friends and family and about how strong and determined one needs to be in order to stay focused on oneself and on their priorities. Those were some very nice views of the city -you always find the prettiest parks to go for walks and I appreciate that very much. This was a really sweet video👍❤
I feel like I'm always single because I'd so much rather be single than with the wrong person or a person I don't vibe with. Focused on my projects, too. Living parallel lives, Kelly!
Keep your chin up, Kelly. I spent a year in Japan after graduating US high school in 2012. The separation hits the hardest, but I'm glad you have friends. I can tell you're doing your best, even if it doesn't seem like enough, but you're strong. Someday you'll find someone who appreciates that and you will be happy that you endured the hard times to be with them. Remember to smile, step out of your comfort zone from time to time, and keep living. I'm proud of you for overcoming the anxiety of public vlogging because it adds so much more you-factor to the video, even if it's just walking. Thank you for everything you do for us viewers and for staying in touch. I hope the hard times get easier for you. Remember, keep your chin up.
Even living in Japan, there are so many places that are nice to visit which I did not know.
Like chilling out at the Yotsuya Park. How cool is that
Hey girl! I'm glad to see that you are genuinely becoming more and more happy with your self growth lately. It is really showing in your videos. Because of this, you're able to attract new and old viewers again. And I believe this new series that you are doing is helping us and also helping you in return. Keep up the great work girl! You're doing great!!
Its so weird seeing places I go to all the time on youtube lol.
I legitimately did this exact same sequence of events for a date a few months ago. Crazy.
Came across your vlog by accident. I never like or comment on videos, but I found the few vlogs of your channel that I watched interesting. Appreciate your genuine and raw format. It feels like you're introducing your viewers to some of your daily life.
Thank you, for posting videos like these. I recently moved 8 hours away from where I grew up, to pursue my career. I don't know any people in the area I moved to yet, but I hope to make friends here soon. I was also really close to my family members and friends and I miss them a ton. Missing out on family events truly hurts, so I just want to say thank you for being honest about your feelings and helping me realize that other people have felt the same way too, thank you.
I think you're very brave to vlog every step of where you're at and you're focused and know exactly what you want. you're so lucky to have the chance to live in Japan and experience what that country has to offer.
The part where you mentioned about the people that reach out to you even when they are miles away care about you made me cry a little because it’s true 😭❤️
I like watching your vlogs, there is like a mixture of moments that I see in the videos like ( sad & sweet ) living alone anywhere is pretty difficult. But it's nice to see that at the end of the day you are actually happy :)
Support from India.
This is REALLY random, but you can pour vinegar into a ziploc bag and tie it around your showerhead to remove all of the hard water stains and limescale. Works like a charm! I only know and recognized this because I did it over the weekend lol
You just put it in a closed ziploc?
@@KellyMorita You can tie the ziploc bag around the neck of the showerhead with a rubberband or hairband and let it sit for a couple hours.
@@nikkei325i I know this comment was not for me, but imma gonna give it a go!
You can also do this with those dishwasher detergent pods, although that might require a bit of scrubbing afterwards. They generally contain descaling agents since a lot of people have hard water in their homes and apartments.
realities of being girl in abroad. you’ve shown lifestyle, your story, thoughts, everything, i feel like having a senior, a sister. yeah a sister. i love your videos. as a foreign student here in Japan I had a lot of struggles emotionally being far from family and friends somehow had able to manage it. yet still loving the content of ur videos.
Oh my goodness I wanna be a RUclips sister! 🥰
Nice video, tell the guys straight what you want on the first date, if he gets turned off, well you saved time ;) be strong. (sorry for being nosy)
Hahaha thanks for the tip XD
@@KellyMorita FR Sis.
i’m behind on ur videos so i only just watched this but it’s heartwarming to see you talking like this when i know you’re now engaged. truly, congratulations
that was my life in london, friends were transient in that city, leaving after couple of years.
really great that you subtitle the restaurant or place names. makes it easier to look up if i am interested.
Another real video! Love the format - day-to-day but occasionally dropping those epiphanies and introspective moments. Big support for putting yourself out there and sharing with us!
I’ve been watching your videos since forever, and I got to say that the content is getting better. I like seeing what a normal day is for a foreigner in Japan. A lot of youtubers in Japan only show places and events. Sometimes it’s nice to see what a normal day looks like. It’s quite refreshing. You can also learn a lot more about the culture that way too.
It's pretty awesome how you were able to turn your day around like that. Your positivity is super cool.
I used to live abroad and I also felt what you said in the video. Generally, when leaving a country, either you or your friends must say goodbye first. It's hard to get used to saying that.🤯 Anyway, thank you for sharing the video. This is definitely a great filming that cheers those who feel loneliness up:)
I’m glad! Trying to shed a positive on some negatives.
I hope your friend stephanie gets to move there! Also the quality of your content just keeps getting better! Love this series! The aesthetic is just beautiful and the time spent is very noticeable
I appreciate how you number your videos in chronological order. I am trying to raise my daughter independent and confident like you.
Don't be too hard to yourself...just be happy you have a cute smile and lovely eyes...love ur videos
Your videos have really made me miss Japan in an emotional way. I was there only for 2 weeks and I never thought I'd have the feeling of moving to Japan for good till I flew back home. Now I'm already looking into moving there. But thank you for your vlogs. Just to see the subway, stairs and even the people ther really makes me miss Japan and appreciate their culture.
These are great videos, very well put together and thought out. I am an American living overseas and I totally know how you feel. I have my husband who is also American but it’s seems like time goes by and people forget about you. These videos show true friendship, anxiety, Loneliness and what it’s really like to live overseas. Thank you for making these, you have inspired me to maybe do something something in the uk, at least I’ll document my life more on video.
You are seriously so adorable. You seem so genuine and I love that you're just being yourself in these videos.
Love you channel! I am an ESL teacher and I teach children in China and I do this online. I love to immerse myself in videos of the Asian culture to understand how my students live and how other ESL teachers around the world live and work in other countries. Thank you for your videos ❤️❤️❤️
😘 this vlog episode~
Reminds me so much of how I wanna just be up and travel to Dubai to have coffee with my bestie. It's been years since I've seen her and this vlog gave me a perspective how hard it must be for her too doing her best to catch up with us via WhatsApp and international calls. Hope you stay strong and go on with this vlog. I support you!
I’m doing an exchange programme with my university for my second year. From next August I’ll be in japan for 9 months so it’s very interesting to watch these daily life vlogs. You seem such a nice person, I hope you find what you are searching for ☺️
The hardest part being abroad is dreaming you're home greeted by your family a good morning like for real! Then suddenly you wake up and reality hits your face like hell. :( cheer up lady be in relationship with yourself. If you feel incomplete it's because you forgot something....something everyone needed before walking in our daily lives.
Thank you for making these videos! 😆 They are very helpful in showing what it is really like to live in Japan; the sad things and all. I’m hoping to go to Japan for college in the future so getting to learn things about Japan from your videos helps me a lot! 😁
Wow, I absolutely love the honesty in your videos. I just subscribed. I follow a few youtubers in Japan (who I also enjoy), but after watching a few of your videos, I really enjoy the raw type of day-to-day activity that you're trying to portray in your videos. I hope to visit (and possibly live in) Japan one day so it's really nice to see all of these small things. I totally get what you're saying about getting used to saying goodbye. I am American but I currently live in Ukraine and have lived here for over two years now. A lot of people just leave over time, either other foreigners or a lot of people in Ukraine immigrate to other countries and it gets really hard on me sometimes. Especially because I live in a small village and it's inevitable to end up feeling lonely sometimes. I also understand the feeling of missing important events from your loved ones back home. I've had so many friends have children and get married while I was away and it's so strange to me to be on the other side of the world sometimes while life goes on in the US. I'm going back to America for a month next month and it'll be my first time being back in the US and I'm honestly terrified of all the changes.
I moved to Tokyo 8 years ago. I totally agree with you. It is so hard to be away from family and friends at home and always have to say goodbye to friends who move back to their countries.
I really love watching your videos! They are so honest and inspiring😊
yes it´s always hard to say goodbyes, how / what did you do to move to japan? do you speak japanese ? do you have a job in japan? apartment?
I started watching a few of your videos when I took my trip to Yokosuka a couple weeks ago. I plan to go back in a few months, so videos like yours are extremely helpful. So thank you!
This video showcased a great story and it flowed well. I think it touched more on what it is like being away from home rather than just living in Japan.. but I completely agree! Great topic! Keep up the great work and I’m subbed up!
I work as a German teacher for italki. I absolutely love it, it's the best job I could possibly have since I go to uni full time. Even if I could work regular times, I think italki is a much better job than being a waitress etc.
Aww wow! It’s good to hear from a teacher!!! Thanks for commenting!
I'll be visiting Japan with my girlfriend sometime next year (been planning a trip for a very long time). We may start considering to move there after the visit. I feel like saying goodbye is definitely something you have to get used to throughout your life. Even if you move to a different city, you will most likely lose most of your friends and a huge portion of family contact. But it always gets better. Stay strong! I don't know how long you've lived in Japan, but you've done something many people are afraid to do - moving out of their comfort zone. And I have so much respect for you for doing that.
That’s such a good point. Saying goodbye all your life is something that can internally change us and sometimes for the worst so it’s a good idea to stay strong and grow from the goodbyes
Things about friends is the good one always will be there. One of my best friends we only meet once a year at most and only chat than but when we do meet it like no time has passed (only difference is our hair is getting greyer). So the thing about friends and not seeing them is that even happen when living close. They get married have kids etc and they naturally won’t have time to meet up as much. The coolest thing technology make it easier to FaceTime into family and friend events. It helps to send their gift ahead of time. It nice to have focus and free of distraction to do what you love. And you have a RUclips to share all the experiences /adventure while you live in japan.
I really enjoy how open and honest you are and I also appreciate being able to share a bit of your life with you through your vlogs!
Keep it up! Discovered ur channel a few weeks ago. I’m 38 & going back to school in St. Paul, MN. U followed ur dream & living in Japan. Wish I could change a few things & do what ur doing. Ur videos motivate me & show what is like to live & work in Japan. Love ur channel!!! Karen
I’m glad they’re motivating that’s what I want my videos to be!
I love your honesty 😍😁
Whenever I see you going through this my heart breaks into pieces . I literally wanna come there and wanna give you a hug .you r so sweet... 💕💕
Love your honesty and your open heart, thanks for letting us be a part of your life and showing us a beautiful Japan :)
You’re welcome! Thanks for watching 💕
I used to date very often, that I realised I never gave me the chance to enjoy myself, my time and the things that I do. The best we can do is to focus on ourselves, love would reach us anytime. Love your videos, keep up the good work! :D
I just recently found your channel and I must say I really love your content because I can really relate to so much you are talking about. now especially to the "always saying goodbye" part. I have been in Tokyo since 2013 and I have become really jaded in some ways because of this, unfortunately. I feel exhausted of the thought of making new friends just to have them leave again while I stay behind and then just start over. Lately I have been trying to get over it and making new connections, but it was really bringing me down hard there for a while, so it's oddly conforting seeing someone else having the same sort of feelings. I feel like a lot of Japanese-related content is just about how awesome and cool Japan/Tokyo is so it's refreshing to see just your life here.
Awesome vlog Kelly, sometimes you have to focus on yourself first, and it's good that you know what you want in a man and what you want out of a relationship, you do such a great job at editing :)
I've been glued to these videos for the last hour or so. There's a realness here that is fantastic. Keep them coming. :)
I sometimes feel this way too in my own city! I work weird hours sometimes and it's starting to get to the point where I need to branch out. I'm glad you shared your feelings on this, that's really brave of you! And I'm glad you're following your dreams. I know for a lot of people it's very hard to leave where you're from and the people you are with to go live abroad.
Good on you for overcoming your anxiety but really confronting it in situations it's most uncomfortable for you to be in. Like you said it'll help strengthen that area. That's really admiring! And inspiring. Keep up the good content ☺
After getting sick of university teaching, I started my own business just one station outside of Tokyo.
I now check into the office about three hours a week to make sure everyone is doing their job. I'm the boss, and nobody tells me what to do. Well? They may tell, me, but I do what I want. I'm starting a second business.
Everything is a ten-minute bicycle ride from home. I ride the trains about three times a year.
Life is good!
But don't think I haven't suffered. I *hate* working in Japanese organizations. At work, the Japanese have a very feudalistic mentality. But they make great employees. If I ever have to choose between hiring a Japanese or foreigner, I always hire the Japanese.
I now love Japan. I will be here until the day I die!
When I lived in Japan back in 2006 it didn't seem as tourist friendly. Also Social media wasn't invented yet and there really wasn't a "Top 10 things to do on a no budget in Japan while knowing no Japanese and pointing at things and smiling" List on RUclips because RUclips wasn't really a thing yet. Dang I Japaned on hard-mode
Not to many Japan vloggers on Myspace that I recall 🤔
no social media? good old times
I did this in rural India recently (Hindi is so so difficult to learn) and I really empathise about this
Friendster??? Myspace??
For what it’s worth, your 92,000 subscribers aren’t going anywhere and we support your journey! 🤗
Here I am just watching some Japan vlogs of people I don't know so I can live vicariously through them and the life that I miss and then RYAN SHOWS UP OUT OF NOWHERE. We worked together in Tokyo back in 2014-2015 before we both moved on to bigger and better things lol. Miss that kid every day.
Living 6 years in japan, lot of fun, good life and good salary! Me and my friends are all having an amazing time here, mostly of them got married and the singles ones use date app (and they are more adicted than Quagmire lol). Girls and boy come and enjoy!
you look good even without makeup and i seriously hope that you find someone who will share your ideas and i appreciate your honesty you are some of the rare few people who is genuine with themselves and others
I resonate with what you said. Everything about being over here is awesome and all, but being away from family and friends for years on end really wears on your soul. The goodbyes are the worst part when people come to visit because those bittersweet moments are what you're left with once their gone. Obviously you have the fun times you share to focus on, but remaining vigilant can be rough. Surronding yourself with friends out here is the best though, especially other expats who you can relate with when you need that hit of stateside natsukashi. Good luck to you lady, and also I'm all caught up on this series you've started!
You are me when I lived in US. I was a ghost. I felt like I don't even exist there
Japonicasian :(
Im sorry that happened there is definitely a thing here where people have groups and dont really invite new people sometimes
you are so honest and authentic in your videos. That's why I keep coming back. 😁
Living abroad seems so beautiful , but so hard when your away from everyone and even just the though of being out somewhere new can be terrifying for me , your doing great ! And know that you will have more friends there and you wont be alone
I just stumbled upon your videos! I love watching jvloggers since living in japan is on my bucket list. I have to say i love how real and vulnerable your videos are. It's refreshing. Also nice kingdom hearts sfx
I usually don't watch videos like this, but after I stumbled across your Ep.1 of this series, I can't get enough! These videos are so good, and inspirational! It kinda makes me want to move to Japan. Keep making these fantastic videos! You're awesome!
Thank you 💕
What you said about the documented moments was so motivating to me! Your videos are really lovely!
Been living outside the USA since 17.. 36 now and wouldn't change it for anything. The world is a beautiful place.
I like this series of videos because it's really down to earth. Even that you show yourself without makeup. That isn't something a lot of girls would do. Keep up the good work!
Thanks for what you do Lyz.....I hope you know how much people appreciate and enjoy your work..! Please keep doing your videos.....they're a lot of fun to watch. 😎🚁
The part about missing b'days back home hit me hardest. I used to get irritated about that until I met a friend once for coffee on t-giving day. He and his girlfriend were on their way to meet his parents for lunch at a toll plaza on the highway. Apparently his mother does not get along well with anyone so they compromised to meet half-way between their homes to exchange gifts. They've been doing this once a year. After hearing their story, don't know why, but suddenly I felt good about my family.
I'm new to your channel and I love this vlog series you do. You live your regular life and share it with us, and it just shows a different side of Japan to views, which I really like. I'm glad that you seem to know what you want in relationships and your work. I think you are amazing for continuing to pursue what you like, and know what to prioritize :) keep up the wonderful work and take care of yourself! Happy Thanksgiving to everyone!!!
I was at Harajuku couple weeks ago and I miss it, I wanna go back to japan again, it’s so nice over there. Keep up with the great videos.
Being here for a year and a half now I can relate with you. The times I’ve had to say goodbye are the worst. And when you meet someone whether it’s as a friend or dating and you really like them but they say they’ll only be here for like a year or so is the worst :( great video :)
I love you!!!!!!! Come over!!!! 🤣
Wait I just got home lol 😆 I could e came dangit 😂
Kel Preston haha I’m kidding I just woke up and decided to reply to comments cause I drank coffee 💕 now can’t sleep
I love going to cities and seeing the street performers and artists it's so cool. I myself am very artistic and I just look up to these people who can whip put an amazing spray paint work in 10 minutes or less. Sometimes it takes them only 3 minutes! Musicians are always awesome and set a mood for the place. Once I was at English Bay, a beach in Vancouver and there was a guy playing a big 2 level wood xylophone and his friend had this string instrument I forget what it's called and they were playing a nice lively beachy tune and I felt so comfortable and warm and relaxed with my drink and the sand and the sun and the music. It's amazing.