MY FIANCÉ SLEPT WITH MY SISTER: Ashley Harris v Turlaine "Randle"
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- Опубликовано: 6 май 2024
- Ashley says the betrayal she has experienced at the hands of her fiancè, Turlaine, has broken her heart. She says he is a cheater, a liar, and she is ready to end their relationship.
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She met him on a blind date and she proceeded to stay blind for fourteen years.
Best comment!!!!! Ever❤ okayyyyy!
Exactly!
Yep!!!
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He slept with your sister but he's STILL your FIANCE ? Your mental anguish afterwards is on you.
Facts! Who raised these people.
These women refuse to get with their own man.
@@RacieRainit seems as though we're living in a time where people have lost what it means to have self respect and self love. Nowadays if you bring up the fact that they should leave the cheater, people call it victim blaming. Yet how are you a victim of ANYTHING when you know they are always cheating. At this point you are a willing participant in your own misery. They would rather be comfortable and miserable other than grow a backbone, face a little struggle and have peace and self worth.
@@Shellygrrl2573I love your comment because it's true she isn't a victim EVER because day 1 she didn't have to proceed
@@Shellygrrl2573 honey our grandmothers have stood by their cheating husbands for generations thats nothing new.
Every time she stayed the respect got less and less
Yep
So true
True
There was never any respect, hell.
I be so tired of these women coming on this show so willing to tell everything THEY put up with "I have more to tell your honor" "that's not all he did your honor". At that point we looking at YOU girl. What the hell are you doing??? You the one I'm looking at crazy now.
Blaming the women. How original
@@Ddofcit’s is! She can just leave! Why complain and put up with it?
@@Ddofcwomen have too many options and far better options than cheaters who they love soooo much. There’s literally no good reason for a woman to fight over one man when she has millions of options.
@@Ddofcwho's to blame when you ALLOW someone to mistreat you?
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A man will only do to you what you allow him to do. Love is not blind.
A person itself will only do what you allow the sad part.... your SISTER, TWO KIDS ALL THE DIRTY YOU CLAIM AND YOU STILL THERE IM NOT SORRY IT'S DEFINITELY TIME TO GO LOVE IS NOT BLIND INSECURITIES ARE YOU KNOW IF YOU WANTED TO STAY
If it is tell someone else and ask them to see for you.
Just joking
Agree. He seems uninterested and disconnected 😢
Wow the insight of the ex- girlfriend is amazing, she certainly dodged a bullet.
I have a lot of respect for her.
Yes she definitely matured and although I don't know her, I'm proud of her for realizing her worth!!! This poor girl…she stayed waaaayyy to long. He needs to go see someone about his moral compass because it's off!!!
She was covering up their relationship. She is so sleeping with him still.
Not before he saddled her with two kids!!!!
@@topshelf6771Chile!!!! You been together for 14 years, engaged for 1??? And it was probably an after he got cheating again proposal! I tell all young women after a year they know. And if they aren't ready to settle down after a year they are wasting your time!!!!😒😒😒
HOWWWWWW do you stay with someone who did you that dirty???
It's so easy. You become trapped by the relationship especially if the guy is narcissistic.
@@kay7229 I mean I have been a fool in love before, but after having babies on me and being with my sister I would be sooooooo goone.
No…Self…Love… we don’t know what circumstances these people are raised in IF they’re being raised at all… poor kids… they almost don’t stand a chance relationship wise. AND this is the manly example they have
Sometimes people aren't raised, they just grow up
I dont no
THE 1ST RED FLAG SHOULD BE THE LAST RED FLAG... HE SAW HER AS A PUSHOVER AND HE TOOK FULL ADVANTAGE OF THAT.
This only happens when a woman is attracted to a type and refuses to let it go out of attraction.
Don’t insult that woman’s intelligence. She could have walked away at any time, couldn’t she? Why she didn’t?
I wholeheartedly agree!!
I dont understand how you are not married and want to leave a relationship and dont... there is literally nothing holding you there...
Those beautiful kids it what’s holding her back
@@shesocute9613 respectfully, those kids should be what's catapulting her out the door. Accepting unacceptable behavior will do so much damage to those children. Children take in more of what they see than what they are told.
Exactly
Common law marriage in some states...
RUN GIRL RUN..HE WILL STAY BROKE AND BRING HOME DISEASES
Right
The FIRST outside baby should have had her packing her bags and moving on. I am glad she woke up though.
LADIES WE HAVE TO THINK BETTER OF OURSELVES THIS IS CRAZY. HIS CHARACTER BEYOND FLAWED😢
You can do it girl. It hurts today but tomorrow will be smiles.
Preach
She should leave just off of the strength he slept with her sister💯✌🏾🏃♀️
Why do these young ladies need to be on television airing out their dirty laundry to JUSTIFY leaving a toxic relationship? She had all the answers before she went on the show.
That's whst I say! Do u need permission from the judge to go?? Ur not married. Get ur car keys and ur purse and GOOOOO
Y y'all watching?? Just just and be entertained
Maybe they need the confidence to walk away..? Some people can't walk away without encouragement or other people next to them due to DV.
I was asking the same thing lol
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Sleeping with your spouse's relative is mighty low
Stay loyal to you while you’re gone?! He can’t stay loyal while you’re there! What is wrong with her? 🙄
This situation reminds me of my children's father and the woman he's with now. She cheated with him and flaunted in my face that she had him. He had a baby on her. Now she tries to find me everywhere to complain about he's ugly ways. I'm free, they're locked in and I'm living my best life.
Amen 🙏🏾
Yay you, girl!🎉. I'm happy for you. I wish I could see my ex and his side piece get theirs too.
Good for you sis ‼️ girl don’t look back🤎🤎
His apology did NOT sound sincere...he wants to have his cake & eat it too
what's wrong with cake 🎂🎂🎂? cake is always good🤣🤣🤣🤣
He can have his cake and eat it, because they all allow him. That wouldn’t and couldn’t be me. Some of these ladies have no self respect. Even if you didn’t grow up with your dad, open your eyes and learn something along the way. If you have one child, with the bad treatment, why stay and have more. No self respect, how are you going to train up your children? to be door mats
@@d820m💯👍
Turlaine: "I've done a lot."
Robert: "Ya think?!"
Yeees I was wondering if anyone heard that. 😂 I pray for wellness for this woman. I pray she truly moves past him 💕🙏🏾
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He didn’t break her. She broke herself putting up with all that. And she ‘went away’ thinking he’d be faithful? Yeah right. Okayyyy
Please look up Narcissist abuse until u live it please don't pass judgement
You're so disgusting to blame her and not the perp. That's bad pick me energy.... Just disgusting.
I’m so tired of you passive/aggressive strong and independent powerless victim boss chicks… y’all got the strength and the power to do Everything… EXCEPT… be accountable for your actions and consequences, walking away from a toxic relationship, and make better decisions when it comes to relationships while staying too long in the destructive ones.. TAKE OWNERSHIP!!! If you have a business and it FAILS, you’re at fault… if the business is not working … QUIT THE BUSINESS and start another one.. Geeee Wizzzzz!!!!!!!!!!
@bonitathompson1640...NO SHE DIDN'T...HE DID...STOP VICTIM BLAMING...ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU CAN'T IDENTIFY A COVERT NARCISSIST!!! STAY OFF OF SOCIAL MEDIA UNTIL YOU GET SOME EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
@@lalamaker5693 funny 😄
I’ve been yelling at my phone the whole time, “Girl wtf are we here?! Leave us alone with this!”
Girl, STAND Up.
And stop being a door mat she needs to run NOW she can do better by herself and focus on her babies 🙏🙏🙏
Never let a dude that look like him make you feel any kind of way!! Girl leave!!
She should’ve left no matter what he looks like
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I AGREE with you 💯
@@tj5087that too but he got some nerve
She over here stressing over garbage. Lol I can't. She's silly.
Naw even Garbage matter! He is dumpster juice!
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I don't feel sorry for her. LEAVE!the first time.
Yep
I don't she knows better ..
I agreeeee
Imagine being that delusional that you KNOW that he has cheated on you when you're not 'away' but think he will be loyal when you're not there 😂.
The other baby momma was killin his ass with them cuts 😂😭
Yet, she still only the baby momma…
@@bryanbeeman5256being the wife would have been worse
When she said “a piece of a daddy” I felt that cause he definitely is a piece of something and a daddy ain’t it. More like a piece of 💩
Doesn't sound like she wanted to be anymore than that. She cut him off, not the other way around.@@bryanbeeman5256
@@bryanbeeman5256she should be happy. Like he is a prize or something!!😂
And I know “pacifically” that he is TRIFLING!
Waiting till he knew "pacific'lly" 🌊 😅
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He can only "break you down" to nothing because you placed too much value in HIS level of love and loyalty to her. Your self value should be in you. He doesn't even value himself.
After 14 year's makes no sense, and she used the qoute "Blinded by love ",and to actually have 2 children by him,why? then to stay afterwards 🤔
Competing with the other women
I would be quicker to leave than I would be to air this kinda mess out on national tv.
My one word response is: EW.
Ewwwweeeeeewwwwwwww
Her self esteem has got to be in Hell..he made 2 babies on you and he's still your fiance..NO MA'AM
I don't understand 14 years and not even married what a waste of life
What the plaintiff meant to say: "I thought he would be faithful, stay loyal while I was gone for 10 months, even though I know he can't stay faithful for 5 minutes, while I'm there." 🥴🙄
If she wanted to end the relationship, she wouldn't have come on the show.
Normalizing chaos and chaotic relationships for your daughter is the worst thing. Our mother can do because when the daughter grows up and it’s time for her to get up out of situations, it’s gonna be very hard for her.
There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; each is different. What works for one couple may not work for another. However, I've realized that there's always a way to resolve issues. Five years ago, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of marital difficulties, but we managed to reconcile
Your words carry profound meaning, and I truly hope my feelings echo yours. Despite our current apartness, I cannot fathom my life devoid of her; my love for her is boundless. I long to have her by my side again, and I'm ready to exert any effort to make it so. We've explored various routes, such as therapy, in our endeavor to mend things
Releasing someone you love is always a daunting task, but in my situation, I had the support of a spiritual advisor who prevented the disintegration of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I appreciate your direction. I'll swiftly look her up online. Thanks. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will bring about positive changes for me too; her absence is deeply felt.
I promise you will not regret it
He has major character flaws, nothing to be done with that.
Girl he knows you are going to keep putting up with his BS. 😂
He went back to a baby mama, girl you’re his baby mama as well. 🤦🏽♀️!!!
She been in fourteen years too long..don't walk run sister...
Why does she want to know if he slept with the ex He's sleeping with Everybody why would this make a difference Girl Bye
That's what I said!!!! Why does it matter???? She stupid.
Because she’s not over that good-for-nothing piece of male
Is desperation for a man at an all time high that a woman would put up with all these shenanigans from a cheating man?? I mean… she kept coming up with all these infidelities one after another after another. Ain’t no man worth all this bull, I’m just saying!!!!
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You've ALLOWED him to break you honey.
Pick up your dignity and leave
The first baby momma was strong and smart! I loved what she had to say! He was terrible!
My mission statement is, can’t nobody clown you if you don’t entertain the circus. You can’t control how someone treats you but, you can control how they will continue to treat you.
It's so sad, because he's around here dropping babies everywhere and ugh just disgusting.
She did NOT say that with enough confidence or assurance for me, so nah,she ain’t going nowhere. But God bless her heart .
She’s definitely not going anywhere
Divorce Court? These people are not married.
What's love got to do with it.Run girl do not walk,😂😂😂😂😂
Sis go live your best life 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊
His ex dropped a few gems. She is the reason why I go to the women because the women have to bear the brunt of the trauma.
Then he says I’m staying at home just for you, he should be staying at home because that’s where he wants to be, he’s a 🤡 and she is too as far as I’m concerned
I would have been gone with the first annoymous baby picture
He is a liar. Words mean nothing with no action.
Why he looks so dingy 😢😢😮
I’m only a minute in and been together 14 yrs and engaged for 1?! 😒🚮
I think she needed someone else to say he ain't it.
My boy said Pacific the word is specific.I apologize, go a lot further than I'm sorry...
Right! Pacific sent me!
She's not making him look bad. She's making herself look stupid. Why would you stay with a man who early on in your relationship had two babies on you?
Is hard to feel bad for her and it's really hard to understand why she stay 14yrs
She really showed up on national television as of she is confused about staying or leaving. Nobody could ever make me hate myself this much.
You say sorry when a mistake is made.
Sorry is not allowed when the trust is broken.
This man has broken her down all the way to the core. He took her dignity 💔
That other mother has absolutely grown and she walked it out, now it’s time for the women to walk it out & leave, this man is disrespectful & damaged, all used up!
I remember when I was 20, I met this guy he checked out everything on paper. Low and behold my mom worked in the maternity ward and he was there as the father of a girl's child. That was it for me. Never looked back. From the moment wayward men show you who they are, don't make them your fool for going back to them, that's heart break express.
Everytime he opens his mouth, I think he's lying.
That Latrice is a real woman
So if youre done, why are you here? You aren't married to this sleaze. He's NEVER gonna stop
Why do we as women accept so much humiliation from our partners and justify it by saying ‘I love him’! She should have kicked him to the curb the first time he cheated and had an outside baby. Stop being a doormat, and move on! This guy is irresponsible and without remorse
Why the helll would you stay with someone who's done these things???????Really, where is your self respect????????????????
I'm not dealing with no outside kids
My God, that baby momma spoke the truth. What a strong woman,
In this crazy world we live in I couldn’t imagine my biggest stress being something I can leave at literally any moment
Mrs. Ashley. I pray for healing for you in the name of Jesus! You’re worth being loved and you’re worth respect. 😢
You deserve to be happy.......leave
I always wonder how women can say they've been cheated on by the man they love. What do you love about him and why? What do you hate about yourself that allows you to be blind?
This is what I mean when I say many women want the same man…
Judge star be looking beautiful
Yes, she does...✌️
“She walked the path I could’ve lived”- whew!
I cannot picture my person with somebody else.
Making their body feel like you make mine feel.
You're out of here
He won't change and she's not going to trust him. He's a liar. Girl run 🏃🏽♀️ 🏃🏽♀️
He lost me when he said pacifically and not specifically lol😂😂
I haven't been with no one 14yrs but my kids all boys ain't no way I would bring a man like this into our lives
Perfect example of the reason why the Facebook group are we dating the same guy exist 😂
She ain't going nowhere 😂
Love the Judge take on things🎉🎉❤
She wasted 14 years on a bum, who did nothing but disrespect her. I loved the maturity and clarity of the ex.
You got ONE TIME to cheat on me and I’m out!!! What is wrong with you women ?!!!
Don’t walk, run 🏃🏾♀️ girl
These women saying he kept it 100. Hes playing y'all is will be and never stop playing another woman 😴.
My family member, shouldn't know what my mate's body looks like nor feels like
You silly woman stayed with him with all this mess. What does that say about you...
HE IS A MESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!😢
So why did she come all they way here to tell him she's done? 🙄 She ain't going nowhere 😅
She’s not blinded by love, she’s broken! There’s no repairing that relationship especially after sleeping with her sister. That sister would be kicking rocks too! Extra baby momma, no,no and no!. Love yourself more and stop allowing someone to continue to mistreat you! Let him go!
Girl you not even walking away with no benefits. No spousal support, part of his 401k(if he has one). Engaged = not married. Your first mistake was staying after the first baby mama answered his phone. The second was having a child with him without a commitment and 3rd no marriage.
Judge Toler warned these women about doing wife things (getting pregnant without being married and shacking up) at girlfriend prices.
Judge Lynn woulda got on they a** about havin these kids, these toxic relationships, the poison they feeding the kids, etc. man I miss her 😢
Accept Turlaine for the man he ARE ....Lawddddd
I know it’s not funny, but….😂 😂 😂 😂 😂