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हम अपनों से सबसे ज्यादा नफ़रत क्यों करते हैं? | Dr. Mayurika Das Biswas | Josh Talks Aasha
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Prepare to be inspired by the remarkable journey of Dr. Mayurika Das Biswas, a dedicated professional who has dedicated her life to the study of Psychology and Psychotherapy. In this captivating episode of Josh Talks Aasha, Dr. Mayurika will not only share her personal story but also provide invaluable tips on managing one of our most powerful emotions - anger.
With an impressive academic background that includes 5 years of intensive study at Mumbai University, along with a deep understanding of Psychotherapy, Dr. Mayurika possesses a wealth of knowledge and experience. Her 6+ years in teaching Psychology and Psychotherapy have taken her to diverse settings, including hospitals, rehabilitation centers, colleges, and NGOs. Dr. Mayurika's expertise shines through her extensive work with various groups, from adolescents to couples, addicts, and corporate professionals.
Currently, she is actively involved with major hospitals and rehabilitation centers in the city, making a significant impact on the lives of those in need. In this engaging conversation, Dr. Mayurika will open up about her journey, the challenges she overcame, and the profound lessons she learned along the way. She will also provide practical tips on how to control anger, a vital skill in today's fast-paced world.
Josh Talks Aasha is a part of The Josh Group. With 6 years, 9 languages,11 million+ subscribers, 5000+ stories and continuous interactions with the Josh Community, we realised the need to start a conversation about contemporary topics that impact our personal and professional lives in today's India. Hence, Josh Talks introduces Josh Aasha, a platform where together, we create a unique perspective about every aspect of our life from Finance, Career, Laws to Relationships, Emotions and Personal Image, all this and more through informative videos and discussions. Aasha is a part of the Josh Group.
Josh Talks Aasha, The Josh Group का ही एक हिस्सा है. 6 साल, 9 भाषा, 11 Million+ लोगों का परिवार बनाने और 5000 से ज्यादा कहानियां सुनाने के बाद और एक दूसरे के साथ किये संवाद से, खासतौर पर लड़कियों से, हमें ऐसे कुछ गंभीर विषयों के बारे में बातचीत शुरू करने की जरूरत महसूस हुई, जो आज के भारत में हमारी Personal और Professional Life को प्रभावित करते हैं। इसलिए, जोश Talks ने नींव रखी है जोश Talks आशा की। एक ऐसा मंच जहां एक साथ, हम अपनी Life के हर पहलू के बारे में बातचीत करेंगे जैसे कि Career, Law, Relationships, Feelings, Personal और Social Image आदि। इन मुद्दों पर Well Researched Content से हम अपनी Life में उस बदलाव को लाएंगे, जो जिंदगी को सफलता के मुकाम तक ले जाता है। तो देर किस बात की है, आँख बंद कीजिए, सीने पर हाथ रखिए और बोलिए, 'हम जहाँ, जोश वहाँ.'
'Log marte hai, nafrat zinda rehti hai!' What a strong line. Very impactful. You rock Dr. Mayurika. So much to learn from you.
@drmayurikadasbiswas totally corelate to my situation wen i face same hatered from my mother in law towards me and my daughter wen i gave her birth 4 years ago....she totally disappointed and since then she had never loved me and my daughter ....she only loved my sister in law son...even she forced me to eat a so called medicine through which the possibility of a baby boy birth is feasible but me and my husband denied strongly since then both of my in laws hated me and my daughter.......tears fell down from eyes hearing your story........finally i heard my story from someone else
@@shuktisharma in law's hate is understandable , it is expected but what if your own father or mother behave like this with you? That is the real trauma
Apki dadi b to ek ladaki thi. Fir b use ladaki pasand nhi thi. Ye bat to 100% Satya hai ki ek aurat he aurat ki sabse badi dushman hai.
Ye statement bilkul shi h qki ek ldki ko niche girane wali jada tr ek aurat hi hoti h
Sahi👍
Meri daadi bhi mujse bahut jyada hate karti thi 😢😢😢😢
meri saas ko bhi mahilayon se nafrat thi
ज्यादातर महिलाएं बेटे को ज्यादा पसंद करती इसका कारण जो मुझे समझ आता वो जिन मुसीबतों को औरत होने के कारण झेली होती है वो अपनी संतान को झेलते नही देखना चाहती है इस कारण शायद बेटी से ज्यादा बेटे के जन्म पर खुशी मिलती है
Mujhe to lga tha meri dadi jaisi kisi ki bhi dadi nhi hogi iss duniya me , prr aapne apni dadi ki kahani same meri dadi jaisi btayi hai, hme bhi apne dada dadi se kabhi pyar nhi mila dusron k dekh ke bahut tarsati thi kaash mere dada dadi bhi vaise hote😢😢😢
Thank God.. I'm blessed to have a very nice loving caring dadi . She loved all her grand children ( six grand daughters and three grand sons ) equally, without any discrimination .Thank-you dadi.
I can relate with her. Luckily I realised this at young age and now I m at peace with my situation. I hope her story reaches many people who needs to listen this. ❤
I thought it's me who faced this situation till date. Now I know aise log really exist karte hai. Same condition I don't talk to her just to stay away from her daily politics.
She is happy for no reason, loved it
I am also.
Kash aisi understanding sabki Ho jaaye. you are very nice mam
Nice line नफरत एक ऐसी चीज है जो रह जाती है.
It's human nature to hate someone or something....but if we want to have peace of mind n want to live meaningful and happy life.... we should develop the qualities of compassion, love,sympathy n ampathy for our loved ones and other people too. This is the right attitude. You are absolutely right madam. The way you make people to understand your point of view is amazing. ❤
Aaj Tak ka sabse behtaree talk in Josh Talk 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤💐💐💐
Her voice is so adorable
बहुत ही ❤अच्छा लगा उम्र के इस पड़ाव पर अपनी किसी छोटे से बहतरीन शिक्षा आपका धन्यवाद और आशीर्वाद भी सफलता आपके कदम चूमे।
दादी भी तो एक लड़की थी उन्हें यह भी समझ नहीं आ रहा था इसका मतलब तो उन्हें खुद से ही नफरत करनी चाहिए थी
It is the people like her who make this world a better place to live. Hats off to her positive outlook. Empathy indeed is a sought after virtue.
Same meri dasi saas mujhe psnd nhi krti but whi devrani ko bht psnd krti hai jbki wo sunti tk nhi yha tk ki dewar se itna sunwa or suna deti hai ki rone lgti hain maine aaj tk kuch v nhi bola fir v mujhe jb dekho har chiz k liye blame krti hain pr jb devrani rulati hai na gajab sukoon milta hai😂😂😂
Mam apka ek ek word bilkul real h or apke bolne ka tarika really bhot hi attractive h...
Meri saas bhi aisi hi h mujhe 2 ladke h vo unka bahut laad pyar karti h but mere jethani ki beti ko kuch bui nhi deti mujhe bahut bura lagta h 😢😢 msi uss bacchi ko bahut pyar karti hu aur uske haq ke liye ladti bhi hu😊😊 mai bhi ladki hu mai usse nafrat nhi karr sukti hu😢😢❤
Aap bahut achhi insan hai❤
@@spa2933 thank you🙏💕
Apne beto ko bole apni behan ke liye uske hq ke liye lde
@@divine-divya vo bhi uske saath hi h😇
I can't express how grateful I'm to found her on internet few years back. I wish to meet her one day ❤
🤗, your presence matters
True I asked my mom why women dont want to have girl being women themselves my mom told me that women did not like to have female child coz they knew how difficult life of woman is
Same condition happened to me I was very happy when my paternal grandmother died she used to abuse me for my dark complexion. I was so happy that I celebrated with my staff eating chicken roll
I can understand. I also dark complexion and relatives hate me... Which made me a rebel and straightforward. Which makes them hate me more. 😂
@@shvetaaiyer you are super cool love from Assam
Same
Kz 76hg😮😢 @@shvetaaiyer
If hate stays after the person is gone than love stays as well… So spread love so that there is no space for hatred.. Love the out come ❤❤❤
Even if we dnt like a person it is inhuman to laugh on his/her death for sure
Very well explained. You are indeed a great psychologist.
क्योंकि उन्हें सबसे ज्यादा प्यार करते हैं।
उन्हें ओ तकलीफ़ न मिले जो हमें मिला है।
Apki bate sunke sachem Acha laga....qki meri beti ki dadi bhi aise hi bartav krti hai...mujhe bhot Bura Lagta ki meri beti ko dadi Ka pyar nhi milta....thanx Apne sach bataya duniya ko❤
मुझे भी किसी से इतनी नफरत है जब मरेंगे तभी मेरा चेहरा खिलेगा ... मेरी 2 बेटियां हुईं तब मुझे खाने तक को नहीं मिला😭😓
Dear sab thik ho jayega
Sahi kaha....jis par gujarti hai wahi janta hai
Mujhe bhi h nafarat h apne sasur aur devar h itni jada ki bo nafarat mujhe hi kha rhi h
@@anshitarajawat5642itna nafart n kare jisse appko pareshani ho
@@anshitarajawat5642😢😢 ,आपके husband apka sath nhi dete hain ?
Empathy .... thanks for Describing this word ❤
U r a ST Category
I've met a lot of grandmothers who hated their granddaughters and absolutely loved their grandsons.....
My dadi was very much Orthodox and old school still in our family girls were respected and cared, my dadi was also caring to all kids equally
Y sun k mujhe y lg rha h ki m bhut lucky hu mujhe bhut pyr krne vali dadi mili lv u dadi m to pd jau sbse apne mata pita se bi
Pehli baat aapki Awaaz bahot pyaaree hai
You saved my life in many ways and today watching your video gave me more confidence ❤ thank u Mayurika mam... hopefully someday i can be one like you and help people suffering mentally
Mayurika ji aap bhut sunder hain and intelligent bhi🎉🎉🎉
Meri dadi mujhe bahut pyar karti thi❤
Aapne jo scenario bataya woh unlogo k liye h jo humse nafrat krte h aur muh pe karte h.Aur unka humse nafrat krna b koi paristithi ya koi past events se unka dil toota ho yeh wajeh hoti h
Lekin unlogo se kaese empathy kare jo humare muh pr acche hote h,jinka humne kuch b bura nahi kiya balki apna maante h hum aur woh log peeth peeche plan krke aapko aese halato me dhakelte h k aapke sath bura hi ho.Samne ekdum sage bante h lekin asal khel unhi ka kiya hota h jo hum jante h clearly.Kaese us nafrat ko khatam kre jab nafrat ki pehel humne ki hi nahi h aur na woh samne us nafrat ko khul k zahir krte h.Woh log Samne khade hote h aur hasi mazak me hi aesa kuch bol ya kar jate h jo saaf dikhayi deta h k dushmani nikalraha h
Such a humble lady❤❤❤
Kudos to you Dr Mayurika
I think man should be the regular visitor on this Josh talk platform she is very good in explaining the very peculiar uncertain and unknown behaviour of humankind
We are lesser exposed to the psychiatrist help that one can offer to normalise our lives in this situation not directly at least through this Josh talks we might learn something about our behaviour😂😊
Such a positive message towards a better world.
Bahut acchi physchologist hain mayurika ji😊❤👌💐
You elaborate simple thing's in a very motivated way ❤
Very well explained. N in very friendly manner. Thank u doctor.
Best talk I have ever listened ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you apke sabhi video me accha msg hota h
Thinking change hogya ❤tq Madam
It's wow.. I'm speechless ma'am. It was really needed ❤❤
Dr mayuri your are 100 percent right.
Aapke har word me positivity hai love u mam subscribe to mine kr liya kyoki bhagwan ne mere man ki baat suni aur aap mil gyi muzhe
Yeh situation mere saath bhi bachpan mein hua tha...Mere Nanaji mujhse pyar nahin karte the..Kyunki shayad main doosron ki tarah utni smart nahin thi bol chal mein...Unko smart log achche lagte the..Lekin maine kabhi nafrat nahin kiya ...kisi kisi ka pasand hai
You are a gem of a person.💎 So kind, so mature. It's not easy to empathise with others surrendering our ego.🫡 And you are doing this and also inspiring others to do it.
You are amazing. Hatts off to your knowledge.
Masha Allah nice talking
Best story heard by josh talks
I m varry Lucky bcz mera grand mother mujha sobsa jyada pyar karta tha... Mujha agar koiye kuch bol da to mera grand mother uska shat jagra kar leta tha .. love you dadi maa
Luckily i have a
grandmother who is very supportive and also my inspiration❤
Too good eye opening talks, when we wonder why people are jealous. How can we deal with it.
Meri mother ki sadi 13 salme ho gai thi unke 5 sal Koi baccha nai hau to unko bhi divorce dene ka bol rahe the. Meri mother ke parents vo 5 sal ki thi tab expired ho gaye the. Fir mera birth hua meri dadi bhi ki me pasand nahi thi. Par meri mom ne sas ko acchi tarase rakha. Muje padhaya. Us vakt padhneka bahut mahol nahi tha fir bhi muje education dilaya. Gov job mili. Aj mom ki soch ko salute karti hu. Sabko esi mother mile jo ladki ko education de
You have explained empathy so well. It was nice listening to you.
मेरी नानी के लिए आज भी मेरे मन मे बहुत नफरत भरी पड़ी है जबकि उनको मरे २४ साल हो चुके हैं मैके में कभी उनकी फ़ोटो देख लूं तो एक नफरत का भाव पैदा होता है
I am blessed that my grandmother loves me the most ❤ ...I also loves her ❤......I agree with your empathy lots of women,men also do this. .... completely agree with you madam ❤❤
Amazing 😍
I also feel detached to my mom .. and my child also don't like my mom?? Reason she is too dominating .. don't care for our emotions (at least what I feel throughout my life .. always rough on me and my children also..) she always compares me with others when I was teenger and young and now same continue she compares my children with other kids.. it's frustating for me even today.. I want to keep my children away from such environment but due to certain things I can't .. with growing age I become too much sensative and feel depreesed now
Same in my case
Dadi dwara hi aapke man ka bhav aisa hua ki aap manovagyanik ban gye
Great mai bhi aise hi kisi ki situation janane ki koshish krti hu
Wowww amazing ❤❤❤bhut achhe se mere sab swalo ke jwab mil gae 🙏 thx
I love you Ma'am....I also apply this technique whenever possible...but some people are.... seriously...
Sare samasyaon ka nidan vivek hi hai. Par vivek bhi kai prakar ke pprayogonbse gujarane ke bad hi ata hai vivekawan byakti hi safal hai. Om. Aapake baten har insan ke jiwan me ghatati hai koi samajh jata hai to samadhan bhi pata hai koi ulajhe hi rahata hai jindagi me apani na samajh ki hi wajah se. Thanks. Om.
She is tooooo goodd❤
I really liked the lady's talk. It was so right what she was saying only thing one has to implement this attitude which will be difficult atleast initially. Lot of patience is required to inculcate empathy within oneself. But madam is it possible that empathy can be implemented in every situation ? What when someone does things in purpose at such times how is it possible to implement this attitude ? Its nice at such young age she discovered how to not have hate for anyone. I will try and implement this strategy. Thank u madam for ur beautiful inspiring talk.
Hats off ❤
Sahi baat h .. jab abuse khtm ho jata h to dil ke andar ek nafrat jarur rah jati h
Aurat ko aurat ki dushman patriarchal society bnati hai...all women are 😢 conditioned to be like this throughout the generations. Dadi was also a victim of patriarchy so she did the same thing she was conditioned for.
Very true🥰🥰🥰🥰
Me bhut mansik Dard se gujari hun aur apki baat samjh rahi hun, sabse jarurai hai sweekar karna, apni aur samne vali ki sathi ko sweekar karna
Mere dadima bohat ache the.meri maa bohat tarif karte the dadima ki may God bless my dadima n my mothers soul in eternal peace Aameen
Aap legend ho. Yeh bharat ka naseeb khula hai ki aap jaise mahaan insaan yahaan pe paida hue. Aapse nafrat kaise koi kar sakta hai :).
Aap se yeh sunke ( asatya hi sahi ) main dhanya ho gayi.
@@drmayurikadasbiswasmam i so wish i could talk to you in person.
Mam ur voice is very touching... N I feel same this time my mother in law alsoo doing same... To same... Iam tottaly relate.. Same feeling hai... Jaisei aapka aapki dadi k liyai felling hai wah same mairi mother in law.. Hai... Mai kitana bhi karooo unhai sirf aapni betiya pasand hai
Mam you are so lucky you realized I'll start for myself.aap bahut achhe se baat karti h sab batati hain.
Jese bovoge...wese katoge. Jinhe pyar dena nahi ata...wo pyar paneke kabil bhi h nahi
Your thoughts are amazing ma'am.
आपकी आवाज 👌👌👌
Sambhavna correct word and process we will also apply at situation
Great woman❤
Ha right hum to achcha ban jayenge aur to aur nafrat bhi khatam ho jayega but us aage Wale insaan ka kya..usako sabak kon sikhayega kya wo aise hi nafrat leke marega...
You are right
Sach kaha insan mar jatein hain par nafrat zinda rahti hai.....
I just like her personality very much ❤
My mil hated me till last day of her life. When she died I exactly didn't know what to feel. My husband and fil know how she made my life a living hell. Now after she is gone whenever they speak about her they behave as if nothing happened. This saddens me as well angers me a lot. What should I do. Any suggestions.
Now try to forgive Ur mil,as Jo ho gya vo badlega nahi aur soch kar hamesha apna hi loss hai,Now start Ur life with new beginning
As same happened with me,my mil hated me till her last breath inspite i tried hard to take care of her wen she was bedridden
And after her death I had mixed emotions
Now my fil also hates me and making my life hell 😢
Now i have started my spiritual life to get rid of these things
Just let it go. And be at peace with the past for urself and for your mental health .
It's like she suffered, and she had daughters, and they have their daughters... when the situation is not in her hands, she doesn't want an other women go through that situation ( grandma might be thinking girls are born to suffer) she might be going through that pain and that's why she express it on who ever is there
It’s true in India about girls.
Lastly mujhe ye jaan kar acha laga k aur bhi log h jinki dadi meri dadi ki hi tarah h😂😂
Thanks a lot mayurika mam for the thought of empathy given by u, surely I can now be able to my emotions also
Superb
I can relate with her
khi pr to mother bhi betiyon ko like nhi karti hai
Oha my God... Beautiful....beautifully explain ☺️
Thank you mam 🥺
Meri friend Pooja ki Dadi jab inteqal hui thi tab voh bhi Hanss rahi thi 😢😢 she suffered alot
Meri dadi b aesi hi thi😢😢😊
Same
Bahut sara THANK YOU ma'am.
Hum sbke sath koi na koi bura krta hai par marne par hasna shyd hum itne pathar bhi nhi ho skte.😢
Log mar jate hai,nafratien zinda rehti hai