Lilia *finally* chops off ALL HER HAIR! (almost 13 yrs old) 🥺 SHOCKING EXTREME HAIRCUT
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- It's happening! After many years and many inches donated since she was a little girl... my daughter is cutting off her long, heavy, thick hair... for good. 🥺
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My name is Jess! I had a daughter (Lilia) at age 18 w/ my high school sweetheart. We mutually split up & co-parent to this day. I met someone new, got married, had twin boys (Kyson & Kaden) and another son (Landen). He cheated, we split ways, & he’s not around much. After juggling life as a single mom of 4 for some time, I met Chris, he had 2 sons: Caden and Tommy, who eventually became my step sons. After Chris and I got married, we had our 7th child together, Addelyn. We’re one big, complicated, blended family & every second of our story is on RUclips, you can start from the beginning here: • 8 Weeks Pregnant!
FAQ: Yes, we’re done having kids.
FAQ: Names and ages of the kids: Caden (step son, born in 2009), Lilia (daughter, born in 2010), Tommy (step son, born in 2010), Kyson (son, born in 2012), Kaden (son, born in 2012), Landen (son, born in 2014), Addelyn (daughter, born in 2016)
FAQ: Who are the dads? Gabe (Lilia’s dad), Drake (Kyson, Kaden, and Landen bio dad), Chris (Caden, Tommy, Addelyn’s dad)
Her confidence and self expression is truly incredible. As an adolescent mental health therapist I see kids struggle so much w their identity and resistance from their parents. Your acceptance and support of Lilias identity/expression is everything. Love you guys!!! ♥️
She is so cute with the haircut. She has a lot of confidence, love her
Lilia looks so happy with her new hair! But my favorite detail, was when Addy said she thought she wouldn't like it, and Jess reminded her that it is about what Lilia likes and wants. It wasn't a lecture, but just a calm, casual reminder for a little kid that will hopefully carry over into situations when Jess isn't there to remind any of the younger kids that their opinions don't count for more than the person actually making the choice.
Yes I loved that! Just a quick reminder that hey, you might not like it, but it's not your hair, and we should let people do what THEY want with their bodies regardless of if we like it or not. And like you said, she mentioned it so casually, not in a mean/lecture sort of way. A+ parenting right there imo
lol
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@@melissamack333 yes
Love when Addie said she doesn’t think she’ll like it and Jess reminded her that it’s what Lilia wants/thinks that matters. That’s what I’ve been telling people on Jess’ TikTok that say they don’t like it. Jess is such a good mom, allowing her kids to express themselves and teaching them to respect other people’s opinions and choices even though they defer from their own etc. wish more parents were like this ❤❤
as a hairstylist & a mama of 4 I’m so happy your so supportive I know how hard this is for us moms I’ve had amazing teen makeovers
Like this and moms will stand there crying but still very supportive Loving everything Lilia is doing how she expressed herself
So many young teens will
Be looking up to her she’s so fearless 🙌🏼😭
GABi
Big props to your friend who is a hairstylist! Awesome of her to explain the process to Lilia. She seems very knowledgeable, friendly, and someone I would totally trust with my hair!!
Lilias image really came to life with this haircut her vibe and personality all came together seeing a side of her really come out especially her style that we have briefly or barely seen on camera yet I’m so happy for her I can’t believe she’s gonna be a full on teenager next month really seeing a mature side of her come out it’s like her hair was hiding her for so long. Lilia you look incredible ❤
I absolute love how much confidence this has given Lilia. Seeing her change and how amazing all the family is about it all is heart warming.
I love not only the fact that you let her choose how she wants to style herself but the fact that you constantly support and remind her how beautiful she is! Lilia is so lucky to have you as a mama!
I am so in love with how Jess is as a mom. I have 2 little kids and I hope to be just as exciting and loving and supportive as Jess. ❤️
Jessica, the way you let all of your children feel confident in their own body and you have and will always support them makes me so so so happy! This is my future goals for when I’m a mama!! You’re amazing! ❤
Lilia looks incredible♥️ Jess, I think you are such an amazing mom. I think it's absolutely heart warming that Lilia can be herself and you are supporting her in any way. It really touches my heart and heals a little bit of my inner child. Thank you for takeing us along!
I wish my mom would be this supportive in letting me cut my hair short 😭😭😭 I've been asking for 4 years straight and she still keeps saying no because apparently I wouldn't look "feminine enough" 😭
I absolutely love Lilia’s new haircut she exudes confidence. 🙂💖🐈🐈⬛
the moment i thought oh yeah she’s working it is when everyone looked and chris is wowing at it, her jaw structure and beautiful smile pull it all together who would’ve known she could pull this off!
i love how supportive her mom is and her whole family!!!
I’m so glad you let Lilia embrace her own style and self not every parent does that so I love to see you supporting her through it all 💗 also I’m so glad she has accepting friends who love her for who she is, that is so important!!
I love this new Lilia. And I love that everyone supports her. My mom talked me out of multiple haircuts when I was younger, claiming my curly hair wouldn't look good in short styles, so I love to see parents that fully support their kids choices. And Lilia has so much more confidence the new haircut!!! And who doesn't love shopping for some new clothes!!!
Not my mom but a friend , had a really a short hair cut , and I said I wanted mine kinda like hers but messy taking into a-count my hair was curly . She said it wouldn’t work . Spoiler it did .
@renegadestorm6903 the freedom I got when finally chopping my hair of was so crazy. It was the end of my senior year, and I did it like a couple weeks after prom. I had gone all over short in October, but let it grow out for prom (bc I wanted an updo, and it looked amazing) and then Jojo Swia chopped all her hair off and I decided I would too. I've had it half shaved ever since.
But can we get a clothing haul?? Lilias style has changed so much over even just the past few months. That's awesome! Especially in middle school I was so scared to try new things cause I didn't want other kids to notice. And now in my adult life I still hold myself back because of those same thoughts. Definitely something I regret of my early teen years is caring so much about peoples thoughts that I don't even talk to.
I feel like I just watched Lilia become a full-blown teenager! I love seeing her find herself and be able to express it fully
I love how you allow her to be who she wants to be. You're such a great mama Jess!!
You are literally the best mom ever. So sweet. The true meaning of being a parent ❤️
I love it and she looks so grown up with it!! I love that you let your babies be themselves!! Such an amazing mom and daughter team!
I love how she’s feeling herself. Honestly her energy is so similar to Jess is adorable
Lilias confidence is incredible! I’m so happy for her!
I love how supportive you are of your kids. L is truly shining with her hair and the love your giving her is so refreshing to see.
Lilia's haircut looks nice on her. I like how happy she is and how she is not afraid to be herself and I love how her mom backed her up and supports her.
Lilia’s hair looks great and the best thing is that she looks so happy!
@Hope,s world do t think j should ask people that quetion only bc it can make people feel very uncomfortable just saying I'm not trying to be or nothing. 😊❤ have an awesome dayy! ❤🎉😊😊
I love ur name! ❤
@Hope,s world I don't think you need to ask that question ❓ you should try to say something more positive
@Hope,s world that is not something you ask she is Lilia she looks like herself and also why does it matter if she looks like a girl or a boy or whatever
What does "look like a girl or boy" mean? She looks like a human and has explained where she stands.
Her smile says it all, she needed the hair cut to show her true self, the confidence now is so much more than before ❤️beautiful
I love this flashback of Lilia, Jessica. I love your videos and channel
Why does her hair look nothing like what she wanted 💀
She changed her mind
She just needs to style it
she just needs to style it lol
that’s what i said lmfao ☠️☠️💀
@@kearkids she looks the same in the other videos tho so she didn’t style it
as someone who cut their hair a lot shorter to be more comfortable in myself, the reaction from friends was so amazing just to be asked what i wanted to be referred to as in regards to pronouns and stuff made me so happy
Love how everyone is always so supportive of lilia ❤
As someone who has wanted to chop their hair off and be themself but can't because of family this makes me so happy. I love how supportive you all are, Lilia you look incredible, such a slay.
LOVE the hair cut. Thank you Jess for listening to your children and making them comfortable and safe.
She tried so hard to have an LGQBT+ baby. She tried to dress Landon in Princess outfits and have him in make up and he eventually didn't wanna play along anymore so she moved on to Lillia .... all to stay relevant to the woke mob. Poor children.
she wanted to cut her hair tho? idk abt her other kid honestly but lillia seems really really happy with her haircut so just let her be.
Loving Lilia's new hair cut and so happy that your class were asking about your pronouns and everything, it is fantastic to see such progressiveness and inclusion. In my day such a drastic change in appearance would have meant dealing with being bullied for weeks afterwards!
I love how she talk to you about everything and shows her confidence❤
I am always a quiete viewer, but I couldn't NOT comment on Lilia's hair ❤️❤️❤️❤️ It looks so beautiful on her and she rocks it and is truly shining🤩🤩🤩🤩
LILLIA'S new hair style looks great!...Im just so confused to why her classmates would ask about pronouns and name change just because she got a short haircut??....are the schools overwhelming the kids with all the transgender talk so much so that a child cant even get a haircut without questioning her gender?....That was a bit startling.
they were just being nice and it would be better for someone who did want to change pronouns ect if they seemed open to it so it would make them feel more safe and supported rather than being ignored
Lilia was so happy that they asked. It just shows how accepting her friends at school are, they want her to feel comfortable.
yeah at our school every kid who has a haircut like that is trans, gay, genderfluid, uses different pronouns, all that type of stuff
Loved how Lilia's stylist explained everything. The cut is really nice and suits her so much, I know how light my hair feels after a cut so can only imagine that, literal, weight off her shoulders.
You can definitely see that this transformation has given Lilia some major boost in confidence! ❤
And, I don't know who said: "You look like Kaden!", but man, they're right! That was one of the first thoughts I had when I saw it on Instagram!
You go, Lilia, be who you truly are! ❤
I just really wanna say thank you🎉🎉 as a girl who's mother wouldn't even let me style my own hair till I was 15 and put so much importance on long hair for girls I love and appreciate that you listen to your child and did what she asked even if it wasn't something you liked so yea thank you
Lilia thriving gives my old, cold, queer heart so much hope and joy. You're doing amazing Jess!
I think her hair is super cute! What I don't like is when she said the first thing the kids said to her is oh so what are your pronouns? Like, she can't just get a short haircut??
Well Lilia has expressed she’s part of the lgbt community for a while so it’s probably to do with that, not just the hair cut
@madtingz2288 But who knows if her classroom knew, we don't know that. I would think if I were in her class, I would just complement her hair. Not just straight up ask what her pronouns are? I just find it odd that before she got her haircut, they didn't ask. But after she cut her hair short, all of a sudden, the reaction was oh she's part of the lgbtq I'm going to ask what her pronouns are. I completely understand the kids were being respectful to her, but I just wonder how she would feel if she wasn't a part of the lgtbq community and people asked, im sure she would feel really uncomfortable.
how is it she can pull of any and all hairstyles???? she looks absolutely beautiful
This makes the baby me soooo happy. I came out at 28 years old and 3 years later I finally love myself enough to be happy..I grew up in a not so accepting home so I love your support of your daughter! I cut my hair off a year ago and it made me sooo free! Keep up the positivity lillia! You’re awesome!
Kyson had the exact right question "do YOU like it Lilia" "yeah" "then I like it"
She looks incredible! Such an adult style!
This made me cry!!! You guys are such a supportive family! 😭❤
(Not in a bad way)
I’m so proud of you lilia you look good with your new hair cut I love how jesss lets her child have what she wants to make her kids happy ❤❤
Egna hair cut, it’s so on point 🤣 kaden is hilarious; he is such a brother
Just because things are different doesn’t mean it’s better. The fact people don’t care there is an issue is mind boggling.
fr why r people normalizing this
what is the “issue”? her cutting her hair? it’s literal hair.
I LOVE that she loves to switch it up and doesn’t care what anyone else would think ❤ she’s an amazing girl .
Love Lilia's haircut it absolutely suits her so much better than the long hair !!!!!🥰🥰🥰
Lilia looks amazing. Love her hair
So nice of her to donate to cancer patients.
Great job
Your a great mom! Your support radiates keep doing you Jess I love watching your family grow ❤️ your all amazing
omg I'm a girl and I'm age 12 but i was debating cutting my hair shorter then yours but i didn't know what people would say but thanks to you I put in the appointment for tomorrow .
you are such an inspiration Lilia i would love to meet you all
Hey kiddo! As a 25 year old let me tell you, do WHATEVER makes you happy and confident! What people think of you seems like a big deal but in 6 years when you hit 18 and graduate high school and such you’ll get to look back fondly at how you got to be yourself at age 12
You’ve got this! Keep shining!
@@amy2771 thanks that meant a lot I'm going to do it no matter what
She is an example of Perfection! Lilia is such an incredible role model for young people today! She is not afraid to be her authentic self and that is the way we all should be! Way to go Lilia live your best life and the only way to do that is to be You All the Time, Every Minute of Everyday! Don't ever change for anyone just CONTINUE TO LOVE YOURSELF, BECAUSE YOU ARE TRULY A BEAUTIFUL SOUL! GREAT JOB JESS, I LOVE THAT YOU ALLOW HER TO EXPRESS WHO SHE IS IN HER OWN WAY! YOU ARE GIVING HER THE ABSOLUTE BEST CHANCE AT A HAPPY LIFE THAT YOU COULD POSSIBLY GIVE HER. ITS AMAZING TO WATCH YOU SUPPORT HER COMPLETELY! SENDING YOU HUGS FROM SANTA FE, NEW MEXICO 💕🤗
She looks so cute with her long hair but now I’m still kind of happy because she’s helping people😊😅😮😢🎉😂❤
It really suits her and her personality! I’m glad she’s being herself :) good job Lilia
I really really love her hair! But also her style. You can see how much she grows and learns to be herself. That is amazing!
her hair grows so fast! it'll probably grow back to the same length in a year or two
Love Lilia’s new hairstyle!!!! Lilia you are such an amazing inspiration for all the young kids of today. ❤️😍😘🥰
Your haircut looks absolutely fabulous, Lilia! Good on you for doing what you want to do! You look so happy. It's great that your family support you in expressing yourself the way you want, too. I was at the hairdressers a few years back and wanted a shorter haircut, but my mum's cousin was nervous because my mum had other ideas. I basically told him that it was my hair to do with as I wanted and she'd need to suck it up. I got my shorter haircut (above the shoulders) and everyone was happy.
You can just tell that she feels more like herself with the shorter hair. She just looks like she feels more confident and comfortable in her body. Love that for her.
Lilia I am excited for you🎉 Your new look is Fantastic!! Glad your family is Supportive ❤
Incredible. Short hair suits her indeed ❤
Hearing Lilia talk about her classmates asking her about & respecting her pronouns made me so happy! The kids are alright 🥹🤞🏻also she looks gorgeous & I LOVE the confidence! She's clearly been raised in an environment that encourages her individuality & that's HUGE especially for young members of the LGBT+ community. Good for her & good on you, mom & dad (all 4 of you)!!! ❤️❤️
@S D cry about it
I am OBSESSED with Lilias new hair!! It suits her extremely well!! I cried happy tears when I saw her reaction!! So stinkiin cuteeee!! ❤️
Caden and her look like twins now 😂
She should dye a fun color too like her inspo!
I think it looks adorable. Her hair is awesome. I'm glad that she expresses herself in the way she wants and you let her awesome parenting. Love you you guys. You guys are awesome!🎉
i love that your kiddos know they can be who they wanna be with you, thats the mom im striving to be.
I think Jess will be repeating this process with a couple more of her kids soon.
Lillias hair is so cute!!!!🤍 you guy’s are great parents.I love how you support all of your kid’s decisions.much love to you all!🥰
I’m so happy kids were kind enough to ask Lilia what her pronouns.
I love it!!!!😍😍 Lilia is the sweetest girl, i hope she stays this way forever! 🎉🎉
Omg typical younger sibling reaction 😂 my younger bros always made fun of everything I did 😂 I’d try a funky makeup look and they’d be like “your face looks weird” 😂 but it ended up actually helping me to have confidence in my own style because I could be like I don’t care what you think, I like it!!!!
Lilia absolutely rocks that new cut!!!!
i love this new era of Lilia!! She looks so happy and is coming out of her shell.
I absolutely ADORE her new style, it honestly looks so good on her
I have some ideas of what lili could do to her hair, coming from a short hair person myself.
- add some layers to it
- add some wispy bangs
- put your hair in a little half up half down
- put it in two little pig tails
- do space buns
- let it go wild and curly
- do a wet looking slick back
Her hair looks amazing...such a confidence boost for a young person exploring their identity ❤
i'm so happy that everyone at school supports them😭😭
She looks sooooo much younger lol. It looks BEAUTIFUL ❤
Lilia looks SOOO bright and happy. It makes my heart smile. She’s glowing ✨
Can't wait to see the new vlog and hope you guys have a great Sunday evening and night with the kids and hope Lilia loves her haircut and can't wait to see the before and after pictures of her with her new haircut.
I really think that she looks so much better & prettier with her new really haircut & I really think this haircut fits this 13 year old teen age girl & I also think it makes her look a lot smarter than she was before & she is also going to be turning some heads & I think she is a lot happier with her new look
Proverbs 22:6
6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. Jess you will have to face the wrath of God for not teaching Lilia the truth!
Because she cut her hair ? What ?
@@madtingz2288 She says she goes by any, and she is going Straight to hell in a hand basket.
@@sduolcepoh7502 I’m sure you’re perfect.. 😂
@@madtingz2288 Going to hell is not a laughing matter.
@@sduolcepoh7502 can’t tell if ur trolling or not
Her face as soon as that first snip happened 🥺😭🤗💖.
I am so happy for her 🙌
omg i am so proud of lilia for doing what she always wanting to do 💕
My daughter just did the same! She had super long thick red hair. She loves it and Lilia looks amazing too!
I remember wanting to cut my hair so much before I truly found my identity and I definitely felt more confident once I did. It’s amazingly obvious to see how much more confident Lilia feels with this hair cut. It suits them so well! It’s also great to hear how great her classmates were about it. Great to know they are in an accepting environment both at home as well at school.
Aww i love Lillia's hair. My daughter 11 got her haircut about a year ago. It looks like a boys hair cut but with the hair on top longer, she loves it. She had asked me so many times and i finally said yes.
I love her hair so much! So super cute!
I’m so glad Lilia took the time to really sit on this decision because I’m impulsive and literally got a undercut the same day I mentioned wanting it and the growing process sucks so bad 😂
I'm very confused by this video why were the kids at school asking that, i thought she was just Lilia a girl wanting a new hairu style 🤔 have i missed something
okay so! i’m a high schooler so i can explain this to you a lot of the times kids now a day will express themselves being trans or being gay by their outfits and hair! and that’s why they asked this stuff to be respectful and to make sure they don’t disrespect her wishes or what she wants to be! ❤
Lilia looks like a different person 😮 Wow!! Love the new style though. Go Lilia!!!! Jess, I love that you let your kids be who they want to be.
lgbtq Homosexuals and Lesbians:
Romans 1:24-32
24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.
I love everything about this!! We love you Lilia!! 🥰
I remember when I cut off all my hair when I was 13, it was so freeing, it was a weight on me, best decision and headaches went away too!
Your haircut is beautiful!
$10 says this girl will suddenly be trans in the next two years. Betttt
for sureeee
hey so like im trans and just don’t say that. it’s not a fun cute thing to joke about really and not something to assume about a literal child. even if she is, it’s none of our business at this point. that’s just not smth you should say.
@@Rey-fj5bk everybody’s allowed to state their opinion ppl can’t expect everybody to like them when they r on social media
@@kennedygraceeei know that but im just stating my opinion that it’s not respectful to say that, i was just letting the commenter know in case they didn’t mean to sound rude.
@@Rey-fj5bk yea but u were saying that’s not smth they shld say which maybe it isn’t in your opinion but not theirs they can say whatever they want 🤷♀️
She looks great either way long or short and as long as she's happy, to me, it's all good!!
I love the new look! Also how her classmates are excited as she is about her new look and accepting of her being her!
I can t 11:
She looks sooo grown up looks so beautiful on her 🥰❤️