So, I wonder if she would have continued the affair with the manager had she not overheard him saying he'd never leave his fiance over her? How many people have destroyed marriages listening to so-called friends or co-workers who seemed to be "experts" at relationships!?!?
@@cheekyftoro8962This is 100% true, they pretend that it is true cause they want it to be true. They all know it is just a lie but since they wan't it they put faith in it.
for both. I got offered an open relationship by my side, meaning I could have been with different men, but my BF wasn't gonna be with other women. I refused because I think that's disgusting
I also see it as a W. It shows you the true colors and intentions of someone. If my SO would suggest open relationship it is instantly over and im gone
It was a W in this case. And most cases, as it tests 🧪 if it is true love 💗 or not. If it is true love you having sex with other people will not decrease your love for your partner. Otherwise you will lose your feelings for them.
@@RanchoSantaAnadelChino ah yes promiscuity and whoring around outside your marriage to test if you actually love each other. Open marriages fail 92% of the time, not considering those where they resent each other but don't divorce
Being with someone for a long time builds a sort of bond like the fiction crap. Imaginary though it is, it leaves a gaping hole in you when they betray you it leaves you numb or for emotional folk it leaves them hysterical But both sides feel the hole and it can turn very bad like thoughts of inflicting great harm on them for what happened or self harm
You seem to have commented this quite confidently, however I’m 99% sure you haven’t formed an romantic emotional bond with someone, that lasted first years, so you really don’t know what it’s like to be in that situation, which is okay, a lot of people haven’t, but you can’t go out preaching as if you’re an expert.
Isnt it funny how the Cheater is always the one who DEMANDS you open the Marriage, then when your better at it then them, they suddenly want to Close it?
Because they always picture themselves benefiting the most from the opened marriage and not the other way around. The closing shit mostly comes from their spite and jealousy seeing you find your own happiness elsewhere.
Oh no i had long and successful marriage with my husband and my friend said i missed on amazing shity dates with shity boyfriends and few faileds relationships and i also missed sleeping around. Such amazing friends she had.
She has to be severely low IQ if a friend can easily talk her out of her marriage. Youd think telling someone to cheat on their husband would be a difficult thing to do.
People only open their marriages because they aren’t satisfied with their current partner. More often than not, if your partner asks for an open marriage/relationship you should end the relationship or marriage. They will use it as an excuse to cheat on you while they use you as their financial support
NO it has mostly nothing to do with being "satisfied with their current partner". It would mean that the actual miss something. Thats not what happends. They are often very insecure with them self and have a low self esteem. Those low self esteem gets an big boost, when a 3rd person shows attention and validation. And now they want that attention and validation again and agian. It is like an happy pill, a drug. The attention and validation from their current partner has lost its impact because they got used to it. Tha sayed it is an problem of the self esteem, the feeling of self worth, the depndends on attention and validation from out side, that leads to those situations. It is not that they miss some thing from their partner but within them self.
Think only in today's world, if you don't feel your fault, you can always dis voice. Bringing a third person is always wrong and it mistake@@rapsack7058
"They are toxic and a threat to our marriage" - is the wife like slow or something? The "friends" said the truth 100% if she cannot accept her husband having a fling why would she want an open relationship? Whatever she or people think about those coworkers they just said the truth she was just angry that they are not saying yes to everything the wife says
Funny how she only realized that she didn’t need a comparison when her husband found someone else as well. Now she’s suddenly concerned over ruining her marriage? Nope. That ship already sailed. She threatened her husband with divorce to open the marriage. He didn’t do this willingly. She also broke the rules and laughed at him in front of her boy toy. She didn’t want an open marriage. She wanted permission to cheat while OP was supposed to sit back, pining and waiting for her like a backup.
This is common in these scenarios. The wife realizes the new girlfriend is giving her husband EVERYTHING she never did. He's smiling and looking more fulfilled than she EVER made him. She wants to close things up and offers him more excitement in the bedroom, but the husband knows what's in store once he agrees to close things up- the same-old boring bedroom as before. He thinks, "Why would I want THAT when I now have SO MUCH BETTER?" She's operating under the notion of avoiding being REPLACED, while he's operating under the notion of cutting his losses and moving on with a better model.
He is a different beast now, he is the one who lives now. No more of him destroyed cause he wont take more suffering from you. He is the man made monster, he is the one who conquers, you are his wife no longer. He won't take more suffering from you
Exactly, and notice how she exclaimed that she NEVER stopped loving her husband, and it was just something different. She THOUGHT it was love, but then realized it wasn't. This, of course, was after admitting she felt like a piece of meat... being nothing more than a "pleasant distraction".
Ppl realy act like stds and parasites are non existent. 😂😂 They dont even consider getting an std or giving it to their partner. Thats not love thats lust
Self accountability is kryptonite for some women. They aren't looking for the truth and information for change. They are looking for affirmation for their actions.
What I always wonder is: Why does it seem to be always the man that moves out or finds a place to stay for the time being? Statistically it is most likely that it is the man who owns the home or is the only/main tenant...
I believe that the marriage was over as soon as the wife wanted to open the relationship. Something like this needs to be talkt out at the beginning, not in the middle of an relationship.
The problem was not only that open marriage. It was her self esteem problems and bad judgement, who she let influence her. This kind of person, who have no inner self esteem and strength, have not the strength to face temting situations and then they become incredibly selfish and ignorant for the needs and wishes of their partners. Those people cheat openly or secretly. And yes those "progressive" ideas of open relationships/marraiges are kill often functioning relationships. Way to less speak about the darkside of those open relationships.
yh she only wanted to go back because one she realised that she was unwanted by the manager and because she was unwanted by her own husband. She was cheating and wanted to feel comfortable doing it. He wanted love again hence he sustained an actual relationship. This type of woman is the type to cheat when the relationship gets "boring" when there isn't much sex and the husband clearly needs help
the moment someone wants to open the marriage, it's almost always over because chances are the one who brought it up already cheated in one form or another.
It works both ways. You get a partner he does without being upset at you very much. He gets a partner you begin saying you no longer want a open marriage like girl pick.
"What does Charlotte do that I don't?" Idk, maybe she doesn't blow her manager while knowing damn well she is in a closed marriage and he is in a closed engagement?
Having an “adventure” is always so fun when it’s suggested by the “friend” who is divorced and never really had your best interest at heart. She was stupid for believe those “friends”. And yeah the wife “regrets” it but hey! It was an “adventure” right? Oh and the manager was scum too, isn’t that a “pleasant surprise”?
Calling him gullible, and leaving with the other guy after opening her marriage and then doing it in the guys bed is literally nothing more than an attempt to hurt him. She doesn't care about him. Any remorse shown by her is just so she doesnt force herself to confront that fact that she's a psychopathic woman.
The wife wanted to see if she had a chance with the manager since he was better off, when she found out his true intentions she decided it’s better to be safe with OP and now is realising her mistakes, there is only one way for this marriage and I’m sure you know what way. It’s not that I don’t feel bad for the wife, she was influenced by her environment, I would gather evidence in secret and divorce her if OP doesn’t then he has a problem , people who make mistakes due to bonds and emotions have a problem
Isn’t nobody talking about how she apologized? That is really hard and if she didn’t care she would’ve just been merry with her life instead she apologized…it’s just my perspective I try to see more than what normal people see and I’m curious on what happened to the wife did she commit su*cide? Did she continue or nah is there more sorry I’m curious 😅
Hopefully she didn’t self delete. As for an apology, she already stated she heard her boss clearly stating that she was just for relieving stress and didn’t care about her at all. More like he felt sorry for her husband. This might just be speculation on my part but she only did a 180 when there was another woman in her husband’s life. My last point is, she cheated even before she convinced him to accept an open marriage as to deter him from finding out she cheated or was cheating.
At this point just divorce her since she seems like a pushover and it might happen again when she is with the wrong people and besides this marriage was bound to end the moment she suggested open marriage and you seem way happier with your lover and she seems to be a better partner than your wife so although you guys have been together since middle school I think it would help best if you divorced each other. Just saying.
I mean I suppose you both can try to work things out but I personally think that it just won’t work out and if it some how does then i’d be very surprised
The OP's wife paid the price for asking him for an open marriage and it got out of control and she will have to live with the consequences of her choice whether she likes it or not.
I hate that as a man you can do everything right, your relationship or marriage somehow becomes dependant on her homegirls. Homegirls can decided your creepy and its over. I lost the love of my life bc her friend didn't like me not bc i fked up cheated failed or anything else.
@@cohina8476 sucks because i still talk to her everyday for the past 3 years through text. I ofc had to earn my trust and worth back meanwhile her bestfriend just said teehee sorry bestie and nothing else happens.
I shouldn't be watching this, especially since my grown son just talked me out of getting out of an abusive relationship and going no contact with him. It was a group effort since he really made me feel like I was trash like I can't get anyone else ever. Now, I'm really second guessing myself. I know, completely different, but this really got into my head.
Maybe she did love him, we don't know. All I know is that love isn't as simple as "you stay, you love, you leave, you don't." Love is one of the most complex emotions, to the point where if it hurts you, it manifests as actual physical symptoms. People have _d!ed_ from broken hearts before. All I can say is that I'm glad all relationships involved ended, it's the best for all innocent parties.
@@bonnietelocole6777 if you love someone you don’t cheat, it’s really that simple, yes love overall is complex but cheating does not imply love, love would not get trumped by lust
@@randomguy3080 I understand, but to make sweeping generalizations of a complex emotion tied in an even more complex phycology is always a bad idea. _Always._ I do agree, she didn't love him as much as she believed if she was capable of cheating, but cheating doesn't mean she didn't love him, period. It was just a weaker love that could be overpowered by the adrenaline rush of doing something you're not supposed to be doing. More of a crush than a wholehearted love.
There's an old saying: Be careful of what you want because you just MIGHT get it. Which SHE found out...When it spews out of her sewer of a mouth, You say so you have chosen to be single, We get divorced and you can have all the dates you want since you are now single. He should have never agreed to it and ended the marriage asap. But good for him for finding someone else.
why are there never friends that say "do not do this, you will regret it" but no, this "false"-friends encourage the cheating😑 I believe that they don´t want to be cheated ether, but why do they cheat?
it is AMAZING these woman always let themselves be played like that, what a woman can pull in terms of looks and wealth in men is very different depending on if its a committed relationship or just hookups ,,, the last last leaves them feeling empty hollow and sad while the first if a good one is very satisfying woman please warn your fellow sisters
TLDR: 1:26 to describe it : Thrilled to drive under the influence before begging the cop to not apply law after being caught and tagged with a good ol' aggravated DUI ...
Ususally if tjese are reddit stories they do that to expose how misandric Reddit is. In another story a man refused to cook because his wife stopped washing the dishes and he was tagged as an asshole, but whrn the role were reversed the man was still the asshole. This is literally insane.
@@FatherGarcia-Priest yea I’ve seen that a lot too. I’ve also noticed they switch roles like you mentioned or they cut out some parts of the story. It’s like just post the real story lol
"divored beluga sized friend" IS WILD
bro got cooked, burned, toasted, roasted, deep fried, and grilled in 4 words
@@springtrap-fnaf-.1987frr
I mean, if it’s true, and she is the person that started it all
@@springtrap-fnaf-.1987damn😂
@purple-guy-fnaf.1987 wait ive seen u like 4 times 😭
“I open up my marriage, but now I close it cuz I’m embarrassed” ahh wife
More like she's jealous that her "husband" loves someone else
Lol its his fault for marring her plus more for me I could of been that dude that got and dipped
@@LARVIS-wv9kmYou do realise people can't predict the future, right?
@@Astrals00 your one of them blind ones huh that's good more for me. Maybe I'll you kiss her with my kumm on her lips
So, I wonder if she would have continued the affair with the manager had she not overheard him saying he'd never leave his fiance over her? How many people have destroyed marriages listening to so-called friends or co-workers who seemed to be "experts" at relationships!?!?
Nope, she'd still be one of his booty calls.
or if he never had gotten a lover himself
Honestly from what I have seen they o ly listen to clearly stupid advice when it confirms what they already want to do.
@@cheekyftoro8962This is 100% true, they pretend that it is true cause they want it to be true. They all know it is just a lie but since they wan't it they put faith in it.
It sounds like several different stories I've read on literotica
I was so happy to hear when the guy’s fiancé found out and dumped him.
Open marriage is always an L for the person who doesn’t suggest it
for both. I got offered an open relationship by my side, meaning I could have been with different men, but my BF wasn't gonna be with other women. I refused because I think that's disgusting
I also see it as a W. It shows you the true colors and intentions of someone. If my SO would suggest open relationship it is instantly over and im gone
@@minnihd6470
"be more open than that,
your single now"
It was a W in this case.
And most cases, as it tests 🧪 if it is true love 💗 or not.
If it is true love you having sex with other people will not decrease your love for your partner.
Otherwise you will lose your feelings for them.
@@RanchoSantaAnadelChino ah yes promiscuity and whoring around outside your marriage to test if you actually love each other. Open marriages fail 92% of the time, not considering those where they resent each other but don't divorce
He should’ve divorced like seriously asap why wait for counseling
cause when ur with someone for so long you want to do everything in your power to make it work no matter what.
@@radiosilence6969 also gives a better chance it court. "He gave her a chance"
Being with someone for a long time builds a sort of bond like the fiction crap. Imaginary though it is, it leaves a gaping hole in you when they betray you it leaves you numb or for emotional folk it leaves them hysterical
But both sides feel the hole and it can turn very bad like thoughts of inflicting great harm on them for what happened or self harm
You seem to have commented this quite confidently, however I’m 99% sure you haven’t formed an romantic emotional bond with someone, that lasted first years, so you really don’t know what it’s like to be in that situation, which is okay, a lot of people haven’t, but you can’t go out preaching as if you’re an expert.
@@SegularRpork People like you use emotions to make a move, other people are not clouded by emotion and are rational in their decision making.
Isnt it funny how the Cheater is always the one who DEMANDS you open the Marriage, then when your better at it then them, they suddenly want to Close it?
Because they always picture themselves benefiting the most from the opened marriage and not the other way around. The closing shit mostly comes from their spite and jealousy seeing you find your own happiness elsewhere.
Not to mention the cheater tends to either be a booty call or an atm.
Oh no i had long and successful marriage with my husband and my friend said i missed on amazing shity dates with shity boyfriends and few faileds relationships and i also missed sleeping around. Such amazing friends she had.
She has to be severely low IQ if a friend can easily talk her out of her marriage. Youd think telling someone to cheat on their husband would be a difficult thing to do.
People only open their marriages because they aren’t satisfied with their current partner. More often than not, if your partner asks for an open marriage/relationship you should end the relationship or marriage. They will use it as an excuse to cheat on you while they use you as their financial support
NO it has mostly nothing to do with being "satisfied with their current partner". It would mean that the actual miss something. Thats not what happends. They are often very insecure with them self and have a low self esteem. Those low self esteem gets an big boost, when a 3rd person shows attention and validation. And now they want that attention and validation again and agian. It is like an happy pill, a drug. The attention and validation from their current partner has lost its impact because they got used to it.
Tha sayed it is an problem of the self esteem, the feeling of self worth, the depndends on attention and validation from out side, that leads to those situations. It is not that they miss some thing from their partner but within them self.
@@rapsack7058 Guys I found the cheater
Think only in today's world, if you don't feel your fault, you can always dis voice. Bringing a third person is always wrong and it mistake@@rapsack7058
@@rapsack7058 she said nothing to her partner about this and didn't want to fix it. She broke the marriage.
@@rapsack7058 it should be treated as a crime then ppl will think 10 times before cheatin
It was not the " i love him " reaction, it was the
" i cant let him love someone else " reaction
Tbh it's better for the both of them to divorce. Attempting to continue the marriage would feel more like a "friends with benefits" type of marriage.
The best marriages are sexual friendships.
She completely ruined her own marriage smh
mental health is in ruins too
I am absolutely GOBSMACKED on how people are ok with just cheating on their partners
Blame the people all you want in the end of the day that is on you and it was your choice lmao reap what you sow
Right! This is totally on her, smh…. You don’t play around w/ marriage 🤷🏾♀️
"They are toxic and a threat to our marriage" - is the wife like slow or something? The "friends" said the truth 100% if she cannot accept her husband having a fling why would she want an open relationship? Whatever she or people think about those coworkers they just said the truth she was just angry that they are not saying yes to everything the wife says
Suggesting an Open marriage is another way of saying “I want to cheat with your permission” to your partner
Whoever suggested this is a Moron
More like “I want to frick others without feeling guilty” because most of the times the cheating part already happened, physically or not.
"I don't care if you fell for someone else come back home or I'll hug you to death" ahh woman
0:45 for the short
My goat
Legend
Thanks
The opposite of love is truly indifference
Funny how she only realized that she didn’t need a comparison when her husband found someone else as well. Now she’s suddenly concerned over ruining her marriage?
Nope. That ship already sailed. She threatened her husband with divorce to open the marriage. He didn’t do this willingly.
She also broke the rules and laughed at him in front of her boy toy.
She didn’t want an open marriage. She wanted permission to cheat while OP was supposed to sit back, pining and waiting for her like a backup.
This is common in these scenarios. The wife realizes the new girlfriend is giving her husband EVERYTHING she never did. He's smiling and looking more fulfilled than she EVER made him. She wants to close things up and offers him more excitement in the bedroom, but the husband knows what's in store once he agrees to close things up- the same-old boring bedroom as before. He thinks, "Why would I want THAT when I now have SO MUCH BETTER?" She's operating under the notion of avoiding being REPLACED, while he's operating under the notion of cutting his losses and moving on with a better model.
He is a different beast now, he is the one who lives now.
No more of him destroyed cause he wont take more suffering from you.
He is the man made monster, he is the one who conquers, you are his wife no longer.
He won't take more suffering from you
She loved the manager until she overheard him 😂
Exactly, and notice how she exclaimed that she NEVER stopped loving her husband, and it was just something different. She THOUGHT it was love, but then realized it wasn't. This, of course, was after admitting she felt like a piece of meat... being nothing more than a "pleasant distraction".
Ppl realy act like stds and parasites are non existent. 😂😂 They dont even consider getting an std or giving it to their partner. Thats not love thats lust
AI tweaked existing story… original is way way better…
Name of the original
If you have a link to the original would you mind letting us know?
Can you send that?
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@@Corbify below
"open marrige or divor-"
" *DIVORCE* "
Honestly that should be the only response.
Self accountability is kryptonite for some women. They aren't looking for the truth and information for change. They are looking for affirmation for their actions.
Wife FAFOed, literally. Her friend and AP, too. Hope OP and Charlotte are living happily together now. They deserve some peace and joy.
What I always wonder is: Why does it seem to be always the man that moves out or finds a place to stay for the time being? Statistically it is most likely that it is the man who owns the home or is the only/main tenant...
I think it's more of a decency thing... Also, not wanting to be in the house surrounded by reminders of him and his wife.
Damn this is so sad for all involved
Karma
Taking advice of divorced beluga for a marriage is wild😮
Plot twist! Charlotte was her ex-lovers/boss's girlfriend. 😮
i am
@@Charlotte-g6k8s I'm sorry- HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
@@Anna-ep8bi lol
I believe that the marriage was over as soon as the wife wanted to open the relationship. Something like this needs to be talkt out at the beginning, not in the middle of an relationship.
The problem was not only that open marriage. It was her self esteem problems and bad judgement, who she let influence her. This kind of person, who have no inner self esteem and strength, have not the strength to face temting situations and then they become incredibly selfish and ignorant for the needs and wishes of their partners. Those people cheat openly or secretly.
And yes those "progressive" ideas of open relationships/marraiges are kill often functioning relationships. Way to less speak about the darkside of those open relationships.
Better not to commit if you plan on having an open marriage.
yh she only wanted to go back because one she realised that she was unwanted by the manager and because she was unwanted by her own husband. She was cheating and wanted to feel comfortable doing it. He wanted love again hence he sustained an actual relationship. This type of woman is the type to cheat when the relationship gets "boring" when there isn't much sex and the husband clearly needs help
the moment someone wants to open the marriage, it's almost always over because chances are the one who brought it up already cheated in one form or another.
“I want to open our marriage so I could have someone else, I’ll throw a fit if you do so only me”
you know its bad when your affair partner has better reasoning then you
It works both ways. You get a partner he does without being upset at you very much. He gets a partner you begin saying you no longer want a open marriage like girl pick.
I understand influences can get you when they're your friends but giving up neck while still together is baffling
"What does Charlotte do that I don't?"
Idk, maybe she doesn't blow her manager while knowing damn well she is in a closed marriage and he is in a closed engagement?
the audacity of the soon to be ex, if she seriously can't understand why he likes the other girl then this relationship can't be saved
Ngl....why not simply close the marriage with the wife on the other side of the door and Charlotte by his side?
I would of divorced she admitted to cheating before it was opened
Having an “adventure” is always so fun when it’s suggested by the “friend” who is divorced and never really had your best interest at heart. She was stupid for believe those “friends”. And yeah the wife “regrets” it but hey! It was an “adventure” right? Oh and the manager was scum too, isn’t that a “pleasant surprise”?
lmao i would have left as soon as i heard she cheated or mentioned open marriage she would prob end up committing self oof
Open marriage = GTFO now.
Calling him gullible, and leaving with the other guy after opening her marriage and then doing it in the guys bed is literally nothing more than an attempt to hurt him. She doesn't care about him. Any remorse shown by her is just so she doesnt force herself to confront that fact that she's a psychopathic woman.
I feel illegally early even though I'm 6 hours late😭
She wants an open marriage until he was happy
"my wife demanded we close it and begged me me to take he back" lol im dying its so funny
“Divorced beluga sized friend” dang
The wife wanted to see if she had a chance with the manager since he was better off, when she found out his true intentions she decided it’s better to be safe with OP and now is realising her mistakes, there is only one way for this marriage and I’m sure you know what way.
It’s not that I don’t feel bad for the wife, she was influenced by her environment, I would gather evidence in secret and divorce her if OP doesn’t then he has a problem , people who make mistakes due to bonds and emotions have a problem
"my marriage is in a ditch, cuz karma is a bitch" ahh wife
Divorce your wife.
U know how fucked it must be even for the marriage counsiler to act like that
Isn’t nobody talking about how she apologized? That is really hard and if she didn’t care she would’ve just been merry with her life instead she apologized…it’s just my perspective I try to see more than what normal people see and I’m curious on what happened to the wife did she commit su*cide? Did she continue or nah is there more sorry I’m curious 😅
Hopefully she didn’t self delete.
As for an apology, she already stated she heard her boss clearly stating that she was just for relieving stress and didn’t care about her at all. More like he felt sorry for her husband.
This might just be speculation on my part but she only did a 180 when there was another woman in her husband’s life.
My last point is, she cheated even before she convinced him to accept an open marriage as to deter him from finding out she cheated or was cheating.
After hearing this story, I don’t ever want to hear anyone criticize abstinence ever again.
Wait wait wait but what happened with his lover Charlotte?! Did they stay together? I NEED to know! 😫
Hope so
This story sounds like a re write I’ve heard of another story
Brought it on themselves. You reap what you sow.
0:42 for those from the short
At this point just divorce her since she seems like a pushover and it might happen again when she is with the wrong people and besides this marriage was bound to end the moment she suggested open marriage and you seem way happier with your lover and she seems to be a better partner than your wife so although you guys have been together since middle school I think it would help best if you divorced each other. Just saying.
I mean I suppose you both can try to work things out but I personally think that it just won’t work out and if it some how does then i’d be very surprised
@@Nezuko_277 an open marriage tends to be a dead marriage.
The OP's wife paid the price for asking him for an open marriage and it got out of control and she will have to live with the consequences of her choice whether she likes it or not.
I hate that as a man you can do everything right, your relationship or marriage somehow becomes dependant on her homegirls. Homegirls can decided your creepy and its over. I lost the love of my life bc her friend didn't like me not bc i fked up cheated failed or anything else.
That’s probably because her friend was jealous of your partner
@@cohina8476 sucks because i still talk to her everyday for the past 3 years through text. I ofc had to earn my trust and worth back meanwhile her bestfriend just said teehee sorry bestie and nothing else happens.
That's why when I see the girl I see their homegirls First it's a trick
I heard this exact story explaining everything a lot more details and the main people have different names 🤔
Dayum and she’s just realizing her mistake…
I shouldn't be watching this, especially since my grown son just talked me out of getting out of an abusive relationship and going no contact with him. It was a group effort since he really made me feel like I was trash like I can't get anyone else ever. Now, I'm really second guessing myself. I know, completely different, but this really got into my head.
Dawg I need a Part two,im trying to see if anything else happened
“Losing the love of her life and her baby.” She didn’t deserve the lost the baby, but she never loved her ex if she was able to cheat
Maybe she did love him, we don't know. All I know is that love isn't as simple as "you stay, you love, you leave, you don't." Love is one of the most complex emotions, to the point where if it hurts you, it manifests as actual physical symptoms. People have _d!ed_ from broken hearts before. All I can say is that I'm glad all relationships involved ended, it's the best for all innocent parties.
@@bonnietelocole6777 if you love someone you don’t cheat, it’s really that simple, yes love overall is complex but cheating does not imply love, love would not get trumped by lust
@@randomguy3080 I understand, but to make sweeping generalizations of a complex emotion tied in an even more complex phycology is always a bad idea. _Always._
I do agree, she didn't love him as much as she believed if she was capable of cheating, but cheating doesn't mean she didn't love him, period. It was just a weaker love that could be overpowered by the adrenaline rush of doing something you're not supposed to be doing. More of a crush than a wholehearted love.
Some people just need to stop being curious
There's an old saying: Be careful of what you want because you just MIGHT get it. Which SHE found out...When it spews out of her sewer of a mouth, You say so you have chosen to be single, We get divorced and you can have all the dates you want since you are now single. He should have never agreed to it and ended the marriage asap. But good for him for finding someone else.
DIVORCE DE-VORCE NOW-
why are there never friends that say "do not do this, you will regret it" but no, this "false"-friends encourage the cheating😑
I believe that they don´t want to be cheated ether, but why do they cheat?
"Intoxicating behind the wheel of a car"
Answer A: and now you've crashed that car and you're dead to me
Answer B: and now you're going to prison
3,182 views in five hours is crazy bro fell off
When she brings the other dude in your bed was she thinking about you, she is not a good person.
it is AMAZING these woman always let themselves be played like that,
what a woman can pull in terms of looks and wealth in men is very different depending on if its a committed relationship or just hookups ,,, the last last leaves them feeling empty hollow and sad while the first if a good one is very satisfying
woman please warn your fellow sisters
"Being intoxicated was intoxicating"
Hmm, yes. *This floor here is made out of floor.*
Wise decision.
Ok I'm going to say this they are toxic but how are they toxic for saying then why you start an open relationship that's a valid thing to say
Most likely meant that they were toxic for inciting her behavior and not for asking her why she opened it if she had a problem.
Honestly listening to that was satisfying
She can keep those wedding photos since they aren't real anymore
Never believe a Woman's tears and a Man's smile. She did it once she will do it again.
I can't believe this story is real
And women wonder why men are staying single.
"Some couples come out stronger"... Yeah, you could say all couples come out stronger, cause most of them are no couples after that BS.
Okay
Once you open that door it’s impossible to close
TLDR: 1:26 to describe it : Thrilled to drive under the influence before begging the cop to not apply law after being caught and tagged with a good ol' aggravated DUI ...
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Yeah this an altered story, I read the original and key things were changed to make it more dramatic.
‘beluga sized’ is crazy😨
man just put some minecraft gameplay and its perfect
my ahh ex girlfriend if we still were together would have done the same thing
Dr Hyde and mr Jekyll? 😭
you NEVER EVER agree to open a marriage,,, fucking hell
Divorce her once a cheater allways a cheater
i think you could say, she fucked around and found out
So they goaded her into making a mistake that ruined her marriage to entertain their boring lives at the cost of hers. What pieces of shit these guys.
Damn I'm sorry bro
What a crazy story 😅
This is the same story but it’s switch. The husband wanted a open marriage
Ususally if tjese are reddit stories they do that to expose how misandric Reddit is. In another story a man refused to cook because his wife stopped washing the dishes and he was tagged as an asshole, but whrn the role were reversed the man was still the asshole. This is literally insane.
@@FatherGarcia-Priest yea I’ve seen that a lot too. I’ve also noticed they switch roles like you mentioned or they cut out some parts of the story. It’s like just post the real story lol
@@JosefineKRespectfully lol
The orignal reddit post, the wife never slept with her lover i. Their marital bed. Seemed like it was just thown in there.