"What is essential cannot be observed, the essential thing is behind the things we can observe. How do we reach essential knowledge? We expose ourselves to a situation, without the wish that it should be different as it is, and we expose ourselves to our client without the wish that something should be different and we expose ourselves to ourselves, without the wish that we should know more! Iin this way we become empty and then suddenly what is essential is seen. Therefore We reach essential knowledge by keeping back, and trust" Hellinger
"What is essential cannot be observed, the essential thing is behind the things we can observe. How do we reach essential knowledge?
We expose ourselves to a situation, without the wish that it should be different as it is, and we expose ourselves to our client without the wish that something should be different and we expose ourselves to ourselves, without the wish that we should know more!
Iin this way we become empty and then suddenly what is essential is seen. Therefore
We reach essential knowledge by keeping back, and trust" Hellinger