@@Dildonion Yeah well he's the president and he's winning on policy after policy. Ethics and all this high-minded talk means jack-squat in the real world. When you cut away the saccharine Mister Rogers persona, you know that reality is nothing like what the video says. Because if it were, then people would all live hunky-dory lives and the world doesn't work that way.
@@Dildonion He's not responsible for a naturally-occurring pathogen. And what was Trump supposed to do? Follow Fauci and order a total shutdown of the country? The liberals would call him a dictator - oh wait, they already do! He did a great job ending the failed Iran nuclear deal, and they're about to go broke and collapse because of the reimposed sanctions. So Iran can be free of the mullahs. China is losing because they had to sell Tik Tok spyware away and now have to buy our country's farm products - we aren't going to get beat up by foreign governments, nor taken advantage of. And his newest SCOTUS nominee, whoever she is, will get rid of Obamacare. What matters in life is winning. Nobody cares about the path, everyone only wants the ultimate outcome. It doesn't matter how you did in the season, what matters if you can perform to win in the playoff finals.
SamianHQuazi Thanks for asking everyone in the world and letting us know they unanimously agreed on what they want in life. Since you brought up what’s “realistic” though, what exactly defines the ultimate outcome in life? There isn’t one. As long as you chase that ideal you’ll always want something more. Winning matters to you, that’s fine. If that makes you happy, I hope you accomplish what you want to. But that doesn’t mean that everyone else has to care about it. Plenty of people live their life just doing the right thing, and are perfectly happy with that.
This is my first time watching a "Dad, how do I video?" And it surprised me, I was surprise at the strong, deep sensation I felt in my chest. My father was not absent physically, but he was... twisted, mentally speaking. He would lie and say hurtful things, just because he enjoyed having power over people. He was emotionally damaging. So much so, that I spent 25 years of my life thinking that I hated people, when I was actually just afraid. I feared getting hurt by people, because a person that should have loved me and cared for me, he hurt me. And now, just now, after so much therapy and medications (I have depressive states, and anxiety episodes) I am starting to realise how wonderful and amazing people can be. People such as this man, whom I have never met, and who looks in the camera and calls me "kid" and tells me, with his dad voice, that he loves me... and I have tears in my eyes. I am so grateful to be alive. I am so grateful this man is alive, he exists and he is good and tries to spread love and wholesomeness and thanks to him I am a little bit better, a little bit mended. By every act of love I have ever experienced, even this one. Randomly. From a complete stranger. In a language that is not my mother tongue. But this is... so, so important. Thank you. I am grateful. Thank you.
You are in the right place. You can learn alot from this man or even just a reminder of what u already know. There are some amazing people out there once you sift through. Find the good people and dont feel bad to keep away from the bad people. Him saying hey kids is like a big hug i love it. Sometimes we all need that feeling of love and warmth. ❤
Sophia Zhang whoever you are.... I love you. Not in an overly dramatic way.... just in a... fellow unwanted child kind of way. We are not what they said about us and we didn’t deserve what they did. I hope you know tenderness and the peace that comes from an assurance of love. Each one of us that finds that is a triumph.
If you need a little encouragement and comfort, listen to him read books to you. He is a lovely man. The comment section will prove to you that you're in the right place for some wholesome parenting. Best wishes to you ❤
I cannot explain to you how much your videos mean to me. My father was extremely abusive in multiple aspects to my family and I. Thankfully my mom was able to file for divorce when i was young but had a very long and egregious custody battle for my sisters and myself. Your videos have helped me in areas that were left blank. I appreciate everything you and your family do, and your words have helped myself and many, many others.
Sara Lesneski Thanks Sara! This youtube page has become more than just a wealth of info, the community following it has is awesome as well. I hope you enjoyed your weekend!
Remus-Andrei Pãun Thanks Remis-Andrei! Bery well said, i am always looking for lessons to teach my kids in the future and thinking of ways to help them become amazing men and women someday.
My father passed away when I was 1 Im now a 27 yo man who has 3 young children. I find myself with a hunger to learn exactly what your channel provides. People underestimate fatherhood. Thank you
You'll be a great dad. The simple fact that you want to learn to be a good father, means a lot. I'm 35, and lucky to still have my dad. Fatherhood is can also be simple things; telling stories before bedtime, taking a car ride once in a while, doing stupid stuff with me when I was a kid. Being human, being wrong, not knowing something is okay too. When I first started going to bars, he told me "Call me anytime you need a ride home and I'll be there. If you call me at 4am I'll be sleeping and grumpy, but I'll be there.". This is some of the stuff I'll remember forever.
Its about holding you to a higher standard.knowing your worth.setting boundaries.doing what you say you will do.being honest.doing whats right,even if the right thing is hard,or unpopular
Courtney H Idk your situation but talk to him about it. Tell him he needs to teach you stuff. But if he just isn’t a dad or the dad u want you cant hate him for it. Keeping that hate in your heart pulls yourself down
Courtney H All i can tell u is u dont have to talk to him or like him but dont hate him. Be able to forgive and forget because if not it’ll make you mad at the world and just pull you down trust me
My boyfriend grew up without a father. He lacks self-esteem and has very little to go on when it comes to man things. I'm so glad we found this channel, it has been a blessing for us and I thank you very much. I'm certain he will be a great father to our little boy with your guidance.
You are such an inspiration. I didn’t meet my Dad until my high school graduation, and he is still not in my life at all. I grew up being so angry that I didn’t have a father and constantly craved the attention I’d get from having one. Your videos make me tear up every time I watch them and your dad jokes make me smile every time I hear them. You are such an inspiration to people like me, and I am beyond thankful to have found this channel. God bless you, I love you 💛💛
I definitely needed to hear this. As a grown adult male, I have been dealing with a porn addiction fo the majority of my life. It's lead to some questionable decisions in my life, and I need to start holding myself accountable and be a man proud to look himself in the mirror. I just allowed the excuse everyone was doing it, but it put some ripples in relationships that need to be mended.
I will pray for you, Alan. This addiction destroyed my marriage. You are a strong and courageous man for identifying your weakness and wanting to overcome it;0) Bless you.
My father is a narcissist who is the most shallow, least integrity person I know. He will lie, cheat, steal, etc to make himself look like a hero/the "good guy". As I get older, the veil is coming off of him and I'm seeing just how many lies he's told me. I never want to be like him in any way shape or form. I'm distancing my name as far from his "legacy" as I can. I stick to my word, even if it's uncomfortable at times. Everyone I know knows me as a reliable trustworthy person and him as no more than a con artist. I hope to one day be a better father than he ever could.
My father is the exact same way. He has blamed every hardship from my parents' marriage on my mother, and blamed every act of violence that he has done, on her. He ALWAYS twists the truth to his favor, and has convinced a whold church to take his side against my mother. Thankfully, we found a new home church that supports us.
this is the one concept my dad ever had a serious father and son sit-down with me over, so as far as i'm concerned, this is proof that your intentions with this channel were as wholesome as i enjoyed to imagine. thanks for doing your best, i hope you and your family are and stay blessed.
Tom Lawson I haven’t either but pops said their were people online spread lies that he abandoned his son at 12. I don’t know why people would try to attack him like that.
When he said “I love you” at 0:13 my heart just exploded? Okay wow, this is the most confused I’ve ever felt, in a good way. Because I’m extremely happy and feel fuzzy yet wanted to cry at the same time (happy tears, I think). My own dad has never told me he loves me, but I never really yearned for it, never felt a loss for not having his constant presence let along his love. I don’t quiet yet understand why, but when he said “I love you” I got a sense of immense happiness. Honestly, I’ve been sitting here for that last 15 minutes trying to understand this and I’m the type of person that knows what they want and usual what they feel, but I’m at a loss when it came to this. I’m just going to let this sink in for a day or two and maybe I’ll be able to comprehend it.
Dad, thank you so much. I've never seen such a visible and genuine good heart that's on your level, and I'm grateful you've shared that heart with us. There will always be trolls and contrarians. But according to the 4k likes and 14 dislikes at the time of this comment, I'd say you're doing just fine despite the ugliness lurking on the internet. Make sure to keep up with those doctors appts. We don't want anything to happen to you ❤
Could you do a video about guilt and responsibility?? I’m trying to let go of some things my dad told me or did that affected, to be fair he didn’t do them with bad intentions, but my anger won’t go away so easily, so I’m trying to focus that it doesn’t matter anymore whose faults some of my defects are. It’s my responsibility do better, and make myself better, doubt my dad gets that but it’s a goal I’m setting
grimJT My husband of 6 years has had anger issues all his life due to a very mean step Father who had been a Marine. My husband is 55. And had anger issues all his life. These last 6 years have been really hard on me. I was married 30 years to a man that was never angry. He also wasn’t home much the last 10 years after he got addicted to his prescription pain meds. I say all that to say you don’t want to harbor feeling against your Dad. Just forgive him, put it down to he wasn’t smart enough to know better and you are a better man. I am praying for you.
You are really an inspiration to all of us that have an absent dad or no dad at all, I hope you get to more people all around the world. Greetings from Mexico.
I am a father of three. I grew up without a father. It has been my life’s mission to be the best father that I can be for my children. I am overwhelmed with emotion by what you are doing with this channel. It hits me right in the heart. A child can never have to many mentors or too much love. God bless you and thank you for what you are doing. You are changing lives. Great job Dad!
My dad died 17 years ago (I'm 38). I've loved your channel, even though I'm not in fresh grief. But my mom (my best friend for 20+ years) died suddenly, 4 weeks ago. I'm sobbing while typing this, but I would love a "Mom, how do I?" channel. I miss her advice and hugs. :(
I’ve waited 22 years to hear someone say they’re proud of me. The most passion I’ve ever heard from my father was when he told me to leave town; but hearing this gem of a stranger teach me things that I’ve had to teach myself for so long, and to hear that he’s proud of me, has brought tears to my eye every time, and I have no idea how to feel about all this. Thank you, dad. Thank you so so much.
My dad isn’t absent but he was physically abusive when I was younger and is still verbally abusive. He refuses to do anything but think of anyone but himself and has always been selfish. I literally just stumbled upon this man while trying to learn how to shave, and he is the best father figure I have ever had. I hope you get the chance to see this, thank you.
After losing my Dad at 12 years old, watching these videos every day mean the world to me even at 33. I love these videos and cry every single time I watch them, they bring me such happiness.
1:09 the timing of this quote (and video) is insane. I’m literally watching this with tears in my eyes. More often than not doing the right thing is way harder than staying in a particular situation and let it rule you
I have a father, I'm not going to pretend like I don't, he's here with me & always has been. But he was never there FOR me like I needed him to be, or when I wanted him to be. I attempted suicide 3 times and have had suicidal thoughts since I was 12, and part of that was because I never feel loved, I never feel wanted, or useful. So I cried when you said "I love you" at the start, I replayed it an uncountable amount of times. I never knew how much I needed to hear that. Thank you. Thank you for being there for me.
Thank you 🙏 for putting this out there; it brought me to tears. Thank you for weaving integrity, honor, and legacy into this talk, because in the end, it’s our intentions that power our decisions. Your encouragement and love inspire me to keep going 🙏💪🏾‼️Blessed be, Internet Dad.
I was raised by a single mom. Dad was like a comet in my life. Thank you for sharing your fatherly wisdom with all of of us. For the very first time, I felt what it was to be taught something by Dad. I can’t stop crying.... I’m glad I found you. Many blessings to you and yours.
I really wish i had a dad like You when i was younger. Now i'm finding in myself what it means to be an adult man by myself. Thank You for doing this. Much love
This makes me miss my dad so much, he’s been gone for a few years now and now that I’m getting older I really wish I had him here to help and guide me along. Please keep up the inspirational videos and the how to videos!
A few months ago, I made a mistake at my work that could have costed us everything. The biggest thing was, 'where was my integrity?'. I had to reflect and I came up with something that made sense to me: Integrity is like a mirror. You want to look in that mirror and say, I'm proud of what I've done; not avoid the mirror out of shame for what you've done. Thank you, Internet Dad. Finding you has made my life much better, even with my actual dad in my life as well.
I have my loving Asian dad in South Korea. But i dont know why I bursted out crying as soon as I watched your video. I just had an job interview (I don’t think I did well) but it’s been a really tough journey of getting a job and I just want to give up. I wasn’t able to share much about this struggle with my parents. This afternoon, Your words and encouragements, although you meant to convey the message with the different intent, kinda touched my heart. I still love my real dad lol but i just wanted to leave a comment to say thanks for making this channel. Please keep upload RUclips video for us! (P.s you channel was introduced in korean instagram and I simply typed your channel name out of curiosity)
My father died when I was young and I never really had a father figure in my life. As a father now myself I hope every day I'm doing the right thing for my kids and you sir inspire my to be the best dad I can to them so I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
I just wanted to say the time you take out your day to film these videos to help others is truly appreciated and I hope that God blesses you in so many ways! because YOU deserve it!
I needed this, thanks. My father left me when i was 7 and all this time i kinda had to figure things out on my own, whether it's somethings around the house or something inside me. If there is a God may he bless you, and if there's not you're still a great man that's helping out others when you don't need to. I love you internet Dad.
I had the best of dad’s and the worst of dad’s - one chose to walk away and the other chose to BE a daddy. The good one - my DADDY - went to Heaven a couple years ago. I miss him every day. I know what a good daddy is - and this man is a good one. So good. Bless you sir!!
i'm so thankful for these videos. i don't have a great relationship with my mom, and my dad wasn't around. hearing "i love you" and i'm proud of you" means more that i can explain. :)
Hope everyone knows that the cycle can indeed be stopped - I'm the product of that. My grandfather was a businessman and his commitment to the job over family is what drove my own father to fervently do the opposite. I know it wasn't easy, having to work odd end jobs and horrible hours to make it work, but with my mother the two of them were always there no matter what. And the more people I meet, the more I feel almost spoiled by it. But it's definitely a blessing I don't take lightly and it's definitely a lesson I hope to instill my own children. Because I think a huge part of integrity is understanding, even questioning, those morals and beliefs you hold beneath. It does you no good to stick to a code of honor you don't truly believe in. It's not "I should be there for my children just because", it's "here's all the reasons I *should and want* to be there for them".
I'd send this to my dad if I felt he'd really hear the message and what I really need him to hear and feel. What a precious thing to put out into the world ❤
This is SO important, and a good reminder for all of us!! I admire people with integrity. It's not always easy to act with integrity, but it's so important.
I can't even begin to thank you enough for your contribution to this world! Thank you for providing this content to those of us who needed this without even knowing it!
This is my first time watching one of these videos and this is the kind of dad I wanted growing up. My father was always around but he never spent time with us, never really talked to us, never taught us anything. He was just kind of there, like a piece of furniture. I remember being envious of kids that had involved dads. My dad has never said he loves me, never said he’s proud of me and it’s so moving to hear.
Every time he says "I'm proud of you" I cry. Every. Single. Time. God bless this man
yes
Everytime. I'm literally tearing up as I listen and write this comment lol.
Same😊❤️
I haven't even watched the video yet and I teared up at this comment
Same here.
Anybody else have a dad but still learns a lot from these videos?
✋
Me but not at all a great dad, might as well say I dont have a dad :/
Got 2,actually
No but I do learn
I do not have a father. I'm from Russia
Integrity is very expensive; it can’t be bought.
It’s priceless
@@Dildonion Yeah well he's the president and he's winning on policy after policy. Ethics and all this high-minded talk means jack-squat in the real world. When you cut away the saccharine Mister Rogers persona, you know that reality is nothing like what the video says. Because if it were, then people would all live hunky-dory lives and the world doesn't work that way.
@@Dildonion He's not responsible for a naturally-occurring pathogen. And what was Trump supposed to do? Follow Fauci and order a total shutdown of the country? The liberals would call him a dictator - oh wait, they already do! He did a great job ending the failed Iran nuclear deal, and they're about to go broke and collapse because of the reimposed sanctions. So Iran can be free of the mullahs. China is losing because they had to sell Tik Tok spyware away and now have to buy our country's farm products - we aren't going to get beat up by foreign governments, nor taken advantage of. And his newest SCOTUS nominee, whoever she is, will get rid of Obamacare. What matters in life is winning. Nobody cares about the path, everyone only wants the ultimate outcome. It doesn't matter how you did in the season, what matters if you can perform to win in the playoff finals.
Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, but those who act faithfully are his delight. Proverbs 12:22
SamianHQuazi Thanks for asking everyone in the world and letting us know they unanimously agreed on what they want in life.
Since you brought up what’s “realistic” though, what exactly defines the ultimate outcome in life? There isn’t one. As long as you chase that ideal you’ll always want something more.
Winning matters to you, that’s fine. If that makes you happy, I hope you accomplish what you want to. But that doesn’t mean that everyone else has to care about it. Plenty of people live their life just doing the right thing, and are perfectly happy with that.
If you’re ever having a bad day, come read dad’s comment section. Lots of good people around here 🤘🏻
scfire304 agreed!
Agreed!!!
Thank you.
This is my first time watching a "Dad, how do I video?" And it surprised me, I was surprise at the strong, deep sensation I felt in my chest. My father was not absent physically, but he was... twisted, mentally speaking. He would lie and say hurtful things, just because he enjoyed having power over people. He was emotionally damaging. So much so, that I spent 25 years of my life thinking that I hated people, when I was actually just afraid. I feared getting hurt by people, because a person that should have loved me and cared for me, he hurt me. And now, just now, after so much therapy and medications (I have depressive states, and anxiety episodes) I am starting to realise how wonderful and amazing people can be. People such as this man, whom I have never met, and who looks in the camera and calls me "kid" and tells me, with his dad voice, that he loves me... and I have tears in my eyes. I am so grateful to be alive. I am so grateful this man is alive, he exists and he is good and tries to spread love and wholesomeness and thanks to him I am a little bit better, a little bit mended. By every act of love I have ever experienced, even this one. Randomly. From a complete stranger. In a language that is not my mother tongue. But this is... so, so important. Thank you. I am grateful. Thank you.
You are in the right place. You can learn alot from this man or even just a reminder of what u already know. There are some amazing people out there once you sift through. Find the good people and dont feel bad to keep away from the bad people. Him saying hey kids is like a big hug i love it. Sometimes we all need that feeling of love and warmth. ❤
The first 2 minutes of his videos always make me tear up. Reading this comment though actually hit me just as hard. You get it. You really understand.
Damn. I don't know what to say but I love this comment. It's so genuine and now I'm smiling and tearing up at the same time
Sophia Zhang whoever you are.... I love you. Not in an overly dramatic way.... just in a... fellow unwanted child kind of way. We are not what they said about us and we didn’t deserve what they did. I hope you know tenderness and the peace that comes from an assurance of love. Each one of us that finds that is a triumph.
If you need a little encouragement and comfort, listen to him read books to you. He is a lovely man. The comment section will prove to you that you're in the right place for some wholesome parenting. Best wishes to you ❤
This man just said “ integrity may be hard to hear but I love you” 🥺🥺 why am I crying??? Please protect this man at all cost
What up Dad, i felt a little bit sad and tired today. Thanks for checking up on me! See ya in the next video
I’m glad that this conversation is being talk about. It is a must not a need in today’s world.
Tech4YourNeeds agreed!
I cannot explain to you how much your videos mean to me. My father was extremely abusive in multiple aspects to my family and I. Thankfully my mom was able to file for divorce when i was young but had a very long and egregious custody battle for my sisters and myself. Your videos have helped me in areas that were left blank.
I appreciate everything you and your family do, and your words have helped myself and many, many others.
Amen
Stay true to yourself. Learn from many positive male role models. You can be a better man for yourself and your future kids.
You aren’t alone david!!! We all feel the same and we are all here for each other ❤️❤️❤️
Sara Lesneski Thanks Sara! This youtube page has become more than just a wealth of info, the community following it has is awesome as well. I hope you enjoyed your weekend!
Remus-Andrei Pãun Thanks Remis-Andrei! Bery well said, i am always looking for lessons to teach my kids in the future and thinking of ways to help them become amazing men and women someday.
My father passed away when I was 1
Im now a 27 yo man who has 3 young children.
I find myself with a hunger to learn exactly what your channel provides.
People underestimate fatherhood.
Thank you
Glad you're here Anthony 👍 🙏
You'll be a great dad. The simple fact that you want to learn to be a good father, means a lot.
I'm 35, and lucky to still have my dad. Fatherhood is can also be simple things; telling stories before bedtime, taking a car ride once in a while, doing stupid stuff with me when I was a kid. Being human, being wrong, not knowing something is okay too. When I first started going to bars, he told me "Call me anytime you need a ride home and I'll be there. If you call me at 4am I'll be sleeping and grumpy, but I'll be there.". This is some of the stuff I'll remember forever.
"I love you"
WOW I haven't heard those words in a while. Thank you, internet dad
same :(
I love dad
Words we all deserve to hear❤️❤️❤️❤️
I wish I could like this twice
Its about holding you to a higher standard.knowing your worth.setting boundaries.doing what you say you will do.being honest.doing whats right,even if the right thing is hard,or unpopular
Hi, dad! How r u? I wish u the best day and life ever💕✨🧚🏼♀️ Thank u for doin' this, i learn a lot
I love him too! My dad has taught me nothing. However this dad has taught me so much. ❤️
Courtney H -SAME!!
Courtney H Idk your situation but talk to him about it. Tell him he needs to teach you stuff. But if he just isn’t a dad or the dad u want you cant hate him for it. Keeping that hate in your heart pulls yourself down
- that’s the sad part.... I’ve tried.. his new family has always been number one. 😢.
Courtney H All i can tell u is u dont have to talk to him or like him but dont hate him. Be able to forgive and forget because if not it’ll make you mad at the world and just pull you down trust me
My boyfriend grew up without a father. He lacks self-esteem and has very little to go on when it comes to man things. I'm so glad we found this channel, it has been a blessing for us and I thank you very much.
I'm certain he will be a great father to our little boy with your guidance.
Integrity = Everything
Accountabilibuddy!
You are such an inspiration. I didn’t meet my Dad until my high school graduation, and he is still not in my life at all. I grew up being so angry that I didn’t have a father and constantly craved the attention I’d get from having one. Your videos make me tear up every time I watch them and your dad jokes make me smile every time I hear them. You are such an inspiration to people like me, and I am beyond thankful to have found this channel. God bless you, I love you 💛💛
my dad died 4 years ago so I am glad to have you to watch ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss!
I definitely needed to hear this. As a grown adult male, I have been dealing with a porn addiction fo the majority of my life. It's lead to some questionable decisions in my life, and I need to start holding myself accountable and be a man proud to look himself in the mirror. I just allowed the excuse everyone was doing it, but it put some ripples in relationships that need to be mended.
Thanks for posting this. Porn is a harmful addiction destroying the lives of many, and people need to start acknowledging this verbally more often
Look up conquer series.
Freedom Coaching is another program to look into. The founder is from my hometown.
I will pray for you, Alan. This addiction destroyed my marriage. You are a strong and courageous man for identifying your weakness and wanting to overcome it;0) Bless you.
I appreciate your transparency Alan. The best way to beat the darkness is to bring it into the light. Be courageous Alan, I just prayed for you. 🙏
My father is a narcissist who is the most shallow, least integrity person I know. He will lie, cheat, steal, etc to make himself look like a hero/the "good guy". As I get older, the veil is coming off of him and I'm seeing just how many lies he's told me.
I never want to be like him in any way shape or form. I'm distancing my name as far from his "legacy" as I can. I stick to my word, even if it's uncomfortable at times. Everyone I know knows me as a reliable trustworthy person and him as no more than a con artist. I hope to one day be a better father than he ever could.
My father is the exact same way. He has blamed every hardship from my parents' marriage on my mother, and blamed every act of violence that he has done, on her. He ALWAYS twists the truth to his favor, and has convinced a whold church to take his side against my mother. Thankfully, we found a new home church that supports us.
this is the one concept my dad ever had a serious father and son sit-down with me over, so as far as i'm concerned, this is proof that your intentions with this channel were as wholesome as i enjoyed to imagine. thanks for doing your best, i hope you and your family are and stay blessed.
Hey we have to protect pops from whoever’s trying to attack his reputation. #protectthisman
Tom Lawson I haven’t either but pops said their were people online spread lies that he abandoned his son at 12. I don’t know why people would try to attack him like that.
Thank you dad
Love the Dad jokes😀
Sandy Anthony dad jokes are the best!
When he said “I love you” at 0:13 my heart just exploded? Okay wow, this is the most confused I’ve ever felt, in a good way. Because I’m extremely happy and feel fuzzy yet wanted to cry at the same time (happy tears, I think). My own dad has never told me he loves me, but I never really yearned for it, never felt a loss for not having his constant presence let along his love. I don’t quiet yet understand why, but when he said “I love you” I got a sense of immense happiness.
Honestly, I’ve been sitting here for that last 15 minutes trying to understand this and I’m the type of person that knows what they want and usual what they feel, but I’m at a loss when it came to this. I’m just going to let this sink in for a day or two and maybe I’ll be able to comprehend it.
And we know he really, really means it!!
Dad, thank you so much. I've never seen such a visible and genuine good heart that's on your level, and I'm grateful you've shared that heart with us. There will always be trolls and contrarians. But according to the 4k likes and 14 dislikes at the time of this comment, I'd say you're doing just fine despite the ugliness lurking on the internet.
Make sure to keep up with those doctors appts. We don't want anything to happen to you ❤
Thank you for the kind words Kendra. 🙏
Could you do a video about guilt and responsibility?? I’m trying to let go of some things my dad told me or did that affected, to be fair he didn’t do them with bad intentions, but my anger won’t go away so easily, so I’m trying to focus that it doesn’t matter anymore whose faults some of my defects are. It’s my responsibility do better, and make myself better, doubt my dad gets that but it’s a goal I’m setting
grimJT My husband of 6 years has had anger issues all his life due to a very mean step Father who had been a Marine. My husband is 55. And had anger issues all his life. These last 6 years have been really hard on me. I was married 30 years to a man that was never angry. He also wasn’t home much the last 10 years after he got addicted to his prescription pain meds. I say all that to say you don’t want to harbor feeling against your Dad. Just forgive him, put it down to he wasn’t smart enough to know better and you are a better man. I am praying for you.
I know this isn’t the point of this vid but...
He said “I love you” and I broke down in tears.... been a long time since anyone said that to me.
Slick Cat 💜
I lost my Dad at age 9 to liver cancer, thank you Dad.
I love your nickname!! 🌻
Love this. Much love to anyone who sees this 🤝
I love this dad.
Sir, you are an absolute ray of sunshine. I hope you know that what you are doing with your channel is so important and necessary. Thank you.
This makes me so happy that someone is substituting for fatherless people like me and many others this is so kind
love this. you've taught me what my father never would.
Everytime he say " Im Proud Of you" i always smile Because i haven't heard my father say that to me🙂
You are really an inspiration to all of us that have an absent dad or no dad at all, I hope you get to more people all around the world. Greetings from Mexico.
I am a father of three. I grew up without a father. It has been my life’s mission to be the best father that I can be for my children. I am overwhelmed with emotion by what you are doing with this channel. It hits me right in the heart. A child can never have to many mentors or too much love. God bless you and thank you for what you are doing. You are changing lives. Great job Dad!
I just had to leave a comment from one dad to another, you are doing a great job, man. Solo travel vlogger travelling across Russia
I speak spanish, watch the vídeo sub spanish, it's awesome your work
Se acabó mi nivel de ingles, gracias por los concejos de vida, te quiero, papa
Estaba muy bien. Mejor de mi en espanol. 🤗
Sigue practicando algunas conjugaciones brother, pero tu inglés está muy bien! A darle para adelante, abrazo.
@@psylopanda2841 gracias por el apoyo, espero ver pronto un vídeo en tu canal
@@footballfollowers770 no
My dad died 17 years ago (I'm 38). I've loved your channel, even though I'm not in fresh grief. But my mom (my best friend for 20+ years) died suddenly, 4 weeks ago. I'm sobbing while typing this, but I would love a "Mom, how do I?" channel. I miss her advice and hugs. :(
Thank you so much for being there for us all
And thank you for teaching me how to shave
Thanks Dad! Great hearing "Hey kids!". Thanks for this message, the world needs more men like you. 😊✌❤
I’ve waited 22 years to hear someone say they’re proud of me. The most passion I’ve ever heard from my father was when he told me to leave town; but hearing this gem of a stranger teach me things that I’ve had to teach myself for so long, and to hear that he’s proud of me, has brought tears to my eye every time, and I have no idea how to feel about all this. Thank you, dad. Thank you so so much.
My dad isn’t absent but he was physically abusive when I was younger and is still verbally abusive. He refuses to do anything but think of anyone but himself and has always been selfish. I literally just stumbled upon this man while trying to learn how to shave, and he is the best father figure I have ever had. I hope you get the chance to see this, thank you.
After losing my Dad at 12 years old, watching these videos every day mean the world to me even at 33. I love these videos and cry every single time I watch them, they bring me such happiness.
Hi dad, wish you love and blessings from Mexico
Hi Andie 👋 🇲🇽 🙏
1:09 the timing of this quote (and video) is insane. I’m literally watching this with tears in my eyes. More often than not doing the right thing is way harder than staying in a particular situation and let it rule you
I LOVE integrity ❤️and the feeling of conection, sharing honesty, kind... responsibily and creating a better world TOGETHER.
I have a father, I'm not going to pretend like I don't, he's here with me & always has been. But he was never there FOR me like I needed him to be, or when I wanted him to be. I attempted suicide 3 times and have had suicidal thoughts since I was 12, and part of that was because I never feel loved, I never feel wanted, or useful. So I cried when you said "I love you" at the start, I replayed it an uncountable amount of times. I never knew how much I needed to hear that.
Thank you. Thank you for being there for me.
Thank you 🙏 for putting this out there; it brought me to tears. Thank you for weaving integrity, honor, and legacy into this talk, because in the end, it’s our intentions that power our decisions. Your encouragement and love inspire me to keep going 🙏💪🏾‼️Blessed be, Internet Dad.
Amen Patricia!! 🙏✝️💖🌹
Beautiful, timely message. Thank you! 💕💕💕
I was raised by a single mom. Dad was like a comet in my life. Thank you for sharing your fatherly wisdom with all of of us. For the very first time, I felt what it was to be taught something by Dad. I can’t stop crying.... I’m glad I found you. Many blessings to you and yours.
I really wish i had a dad like You when i was younger. Now i'm finding in myself what it means to be an adult man by myself. Thank You for doing this. Much love
Thank you for doing these. I watch these with my 2 kids.
Thanks, Dad. Good talk. Good talk.
Integrity is so so important and I feel like it is so often overlooked for “saving face”. Excellent choice of discussion topic!
hey dad! it seemed like a tough topic for you to bring up. Thank you for doing so and for making us be better children
Your whole "Dad, how do i..." project rocks! Thank you so very much!
This makes me miss my dad so much, he’s been gone for a few years now and now that I’m getting older I really wish I had him here to help and guide me along. Please keep up the inspirational videos and the how to videos!
A few months ago, I made a mistake at my work that could have costed us everything. The biggest thing was, 'where was my integrity?'. I had to reflect and I came up with something that made sense to me: Integrity is like a mirror. You want to look in that mirror and say, I'm proud of what I've done; not avoid the mirror out of shame for what you've done.
Thank you, Internet Dad. Finding you has made my life much better, even with my actual dad in my life as well.
I have my loving Asian dad in South Korea. But i dont know why I bursted out crying as soon as I watched your video. I just had an job interview (I don’t think I did well) but it’s been a really tough journey of getting a job and I just want to give up. I wasn’t able to share much about this struggle with my parents. This afternoon, Your words and encouragements, although you meant to convey the message with the different intent, kinda touched my heart. I still love my real dad lol but i just wanted to leave a comment to say thanks for making this channel. Please keep upload RUclips video for us!
(P.s you channel was introduced in korean instagram and I simply typed your channel name out of curiosity)
Thanks for your encouragement Julia. :0)
Big Hugs and thanks for the chat Dad! ❤️. Such an important issue. 🤗.
My father died when I was young and I never really had a father figure in my life. As a father now myself I hope every day I'm doing the right thing for my kids and you sir inspire my to be the best dad I can to them so I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
There's a very calming and wholesome aura of this channel. Thank you!!
Way to go DAD! God bless you.
Thanks dad!!!
May you be blessed with all the good things in life In Sha Allah!
Amien! Its beautiful to see people wishing the best upon other people
I just wanted to say the time you take out your day to film these videos to help others is truly appreciated and I hope that God blesses you in so many ways! because YOU deserve it!
More of such talks please Dad 🙏👌
Ever since my dad passed away these videos mean a lot and are so helpful thank you so much
I needed this, thanks.
My father left me when i was 7 and all this time i kinda had to figure things out on my own, whether it's somethings around the house or something inside me.
If there is a God may he bless you, and if there's not you're still a great man that's helping out others when you don't need to.
I love you internet Dad.
There is a God and he loves you very much!! Call on him and you will see he will wrap you in his love if you will let him.
i lost my dad at a very young age, and i’ve never got the experience that a dad should teach. but this man has showed me, and i’m so thankful.
I had the best of dad’s and the worst of dad’s - one chose to walk away and the other chose to BE a daddy. The good one - my DADDY - went to Heaven a couple years ago. I miss him every day. I know what a good daddy is - and this man is a good one. So good. Bless you sir!!
i'm so thankful for these videos. i don't have a great relationship with my mom, and my dad wasn't around. hearing "i love you" and i'm proud of you" means more that i can explain. :)
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Hope everyone knows that the cycle can indeed be stopped - I'm the product of that. My grandfather was a businessman and his commitment to the job over family is what drove my own father to fervently do the opposite. I know it wasn't easy, having to work odd end jobs and horrible hours to make it work, but with my mother the two of them were always there no matter what. And the more people I meet, the more I feel almost spoiled by it. But it's definitely a blessing I don't take lightly and it's definitely a lesson I hope to instill my own children. Because I think a huge part of integrity is understanding, even questioning, those morals and beliefs you hold beneath. It does you no good to stick to a code of honor you don't truly believe in. It's not "I should be there for my children just because", it's "here's all the reasons I *should and want* to be there for them".
I'd send this to my dad if I felt he'd really hear the message and what I really need him to hear and feel.
What a precious thing to put out into the world ❤
Thanks, Dad! I love you, too! Always good to hear from you.
God bless you, too!
Thanks for your words of wisdom dad
Love this dad!
It's really nice to hear a man say, "I love you." Not just for me, but for him being human.
Hey pops
I have a great dad. I know am a father to a 4 yr old little girl. I still watch this man. Love you to RUclips dad.
I love your videos. Integrity is important and more people need to hear your words. Keep it up dad.
Eric Updegrove agreed!
Thanks dad. This is just what I needed to hear after something my mom told me to do. Questioned myself
You always make my day feel good :)
thanks dad,i love you 🥰
Your profile is amazing
Thank you for what you are doing in a time when so many need this I miss my Dad so much.
This is SO important, and a good reminder for all of us!! I admire people with integrity. It's not always easy to act with integrity, but it's so important.
Thanks, your sincerity and humility, and authenticity reflect your integrity too :)
Et Gara agreed!
“Think about what you want to be known for” - I love that, and integrity is so important. Keep sending these messages to help us be better people.👍
Can you do a video on general cooking? Spaghetti, rice something like that? I would love to learn to cook from you.
I can't even begin to thank you enough for your contribution to this world! Thank you for providing this content to those of us who needed this without even knowing it!
Thanks, dad
thank you Dad
Hey dad!
Love you dad
Everytime he advices me through his video ..im determined to become better.
I started crying when he said I love u and I'm proud of you
Every time you told us kids you go straight to our hearts, God bless you!
Thank you! Hugs, Dad!❤
My dad left when I was 3 and I learned a lot from this man
This is my first time watching one of these videos and this is the kind of dad I wanted growing up. My father was always around but he never spent time with us, never really talked to us, never taught us anything. He was just kind of there, like a piece of furniture. I remember being envious of kids that had involved dads.
My dad has never said he loves me, never said he’s proud of me and it’s so moving to hear.