Absolutely spot on . in fact it came to me earlier today on the same subject. both parents are gone, but the pain is still there. I ask the Father to lay this at the foot of the cross and praise the Father for removing the pain
Before I say anything I must say that my parents were very honorable, wonderful parents who did everything that they could for me. When I dropped out of college and came home on drugs and with a severe psychiatric illness. The burden was top much for them and they forsook me. They had me locked up in a psych ward where I was drugged like some sort of monster. They even tried to have me committed. But I was able to escape and left their care in the hand of God. I suffered terribly but was able to overcome much and even serve the Lord in a pulpit ministry for 28 years. When my Father retired they moved to the city where I live and we reconciled and had many wonderful years together. When they became old and needed someone to care for them I was able to meet the need with the help of God. They passed away in great peace. The Lord let me know that they have entered the Holy City, the New Jerusalem and are resting there waiting for the rest of the family to join them. God is good. God is faithful. Hallelujah!! Blessings and peace to you Queen Alita!!
Wow! Praise God for that testimony! Wow, will you please stand in agreement work me on how and what to say to my mother when we speak. She reached out to me a few days back and we have a severely broken relationship. I don't think she likes or even cares for me, she doesn't support me and thinks my career and life is a joke. I have blocked her from all communications but she found a way to reach out in such a time where God is rebuilding my life. I need holy spirit filled guidance with this one in Yeshua's name❤🎉
@@SharJoyMichelle5555 I understand, because it’s been the same way for me to. However I don’t think it’s Michael’s responsibility and he may not reply to you, but if he does then he does. But the Lord is asking you and me to do what he wants us to do on our own. I just wanted you to know I understand because it’s been my experience but it’s my mum that didn’t want anything to do with me, not the other way around. I know that she is guilty for sending me to boarding school when I was eight years old but it wasn’t her choice or her fault. It’s a long story. But I think it’s beautiful that your mother has reached out to you. The Lord will give you grace and love for her. Think of Joseph in the Bible and what he had to do for his family when they came to him for help. Christmas is not far off now. 😉 I’ll say a prayer for you when I come off-line in a minute, and would you say a prayer for me please? I was only just praying for reconciliation with my family before I came on here today. 🥲
@@SharJoyMichelle5555 i’ve just noticed that you have 555 in your handle, that you use on here, and it was 55 minutes ago it says, that you placed this message in the comments. Five is the number of grace. 🙏😊
Well done, Michael, you have such a beautiful heart and it’s wonderful to read and listen to your testimony. God is good and you are a beautiful example of God’s love and grace for those who have hurt you. Your heart is like the heart of Jesus. ❤️🥲🤝
This is a timely message for me. I think the tricky part here is maintaining healthy boundaries and protecting our hearts from further abuse while also forgiving and giving grace.
You're not being insensitive at all, Alita. This is so important and I pray that people understanding how LIFE CHANGING it REALLY is. I've gone through this myself this entire year, and I was so angry with my mother to a point where I was preempting being mistreated every time she asked me to do something, even reasonable things. One day I was venting to my sister and I stopped dead in my tracks when suddenly I felt this conviction in my spirit that it is I who needed to change. I had been projecting my anger all along such that I couldn't even think rationally. So I decided to change and there began my healing and restoration. We are so close now! What God said to me was that I'm going out into the world where some people are going to undermine me and look down on me. If I can conquer my own mother so to speak, whose opinion and validation mattered the most in terms of my achievements and being seen, then I can conquer anything. And it's true. Now I'm at a point where I don't care what people think because I got over the biggest mountain. Funny enough it was after that process when God finally revealed to her what I've been trying to tell her about my calling all these years. My advice? Forgive them, honour them, and leave the revealing to God. One day they will see you, but you may not even be in a place where you need it by then! Beautiful message, and thank You for the reminder. I'm excited that this is what it is before the breakthrough!
Wow. I don’t think a message has ever hit closer to home. I’m in this very situation; forgiving, showing grace, and slowly healing. Lord, I’m ready for the next chapter. Let them see YOU in me. 😭🙏♥️
My God! As I’m cleaning my kitchen I was literally thinking on Exodus 20:12. As I’m mentally sorting out how my mother raised my siblings and I versus some of the challenges I’ve faced raising my children. I’m asking myself so many deep questions that I’ve carried for years, as to how I was raised….very similar to your what you shared. Then I click back on your video that I paused in the first few minutes while I finish loading the dishwasher….and my God!! If He didn’t answer immediately!!!! Thank you for sharing your story and this message. 🙏🏾😢❤️❤️❤️
WOW I am in the process of putting together a natural body care product line!!!!!!!!! I plan on operating with integrity and looking into suppliers. Best of luck to your friend. I am making tee shirts, body products, jewelry, and massage.
I was sexually abused by my father's brothers child and because my mom enabled my dad's discrimination against me (he favoured my little sister over me every chance he got) I was too afraid to tell anyone. Now I'm 32 and I'm struggling with the effects of that abuse. I'm BROKEN because I'm so afraid and I have no one to lean on. Please pray for me. I don't want to fall apart again. To this day, my feelings are always disregarded and I have to deal with my sadness and anger when I'm just still a little girl whose scared of everything and everyone around me .
I can identify. The remnants left behind from sexual abuse in a family have been and continue to be a hurdle in different ways in my journey. It is hard. But I believe one day I and those like me, will be TOTALLY FREE!!!
It has taken me the past 10 years to do this. I'm encouraging everyone to do so, because if us kids change it is like a rippke-effect. God bless Y'all - this is a hard pill to swallow. Aluta, You are in our prayers! Love: Emily from Budapest, Hungary
Yes, good word, I am grateful God brought me and my mother together again, praise God for bringing families together! After seven years of not speaking to/seeing each other I was able to forgive my mother and reconcile with her by God his spirit, also being aware of my own sins/mistakes. In accordance with this word and ephesians 6:1-3, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 I bind one to honour one's parents while binding to hell every dishonoring of one's parents in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone not honouring one's parents, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah ❤!
Thank you Alita. My aunt who kinda raised me was quite something. She never had kids of her own so to put it bluntly, she was clueless esp when I became a teenager so I became a rebel too in response. I wasn’t home when she passed away. I had to ask The Lord to help me forgive and God in His grace healed me in a dream in my sleep because I just couldn’t consciously forgive her. So my advice to others who are struggling to forgive their parents is just ask The Holy Spirit for help, tell Him that you’re willing but you can’t on your own and He is faithful to come to your aid. Shalom
Thank you, this has been heavy in my heart over the past couple days as my mom and I have a very disconnected relationship for almost my entire life and she reached out a few days back. I quickly blocked her number instantly and asked God please show me what to do moving forward. This seems like a word-of- confirmation and I will ask God how I should proceed and for him to show me with clarity what to say. If you are reading this will you please stand in prayerful agreement we me that God will give me what to say as I address her in conversation. Please and thanks you in Yeshua's name❤🎉❤🎉
Remember honoring parents is a biblical principle, not doing so can delay and halt many good things in life. Right or wrong, we gotta honor and respect them.
Confirmation and it's scary because God was telling me to call my dad. And I am no contact with him for a long time now and the same day I feel God saying that, you post this.
Forgave my parents for me it was the abusive spouse that as you explained became my teaching grounds for the abandonment, rejection, and heart break I suffered at the hands of my parents.
Amen, thank you Alita for being so vulnerable and transparent with this. I pray it helps those who are stuck due to this very thing 🙏. Forgiveness towards my parents and loving them with grace and honor and being grateful for what they did do for me was a huge step in the restoration and growth in my life. Our relationship has come such a long way and the respect and grace has greatly increased on both ends and had allowed God to work in their own hearts through the way I love and carry myself with Gods love and grace.
I was NOT expecting this message from the title of this video. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! I disappointed my parents & God himself this summer with my disobedience, disrespect, and snottiness. The Lord was convicting me so bad up until this moment. I had a very slow and somber summer because of my behavior. I was yearning to apologize to my mother, but that pride was getting the best of me. I’m excited to sit with God to discuss this more 🙏🏽🩷
🤔It's weird how All of Us parents thinks that we are a better parent than our parents were in their broken states even in our own brokenness 🤔 ONLY GOD CAN HEAL 💜
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Praise the Lord. This could apply to any other relationships where there has been hurt. Thank you Prophetess Queen Alita.
Absolutely spot on . in fact it came to me earlier today on the same subject. both parents are gone, but the pain is still there. I ask the Father to lay this at the foot of the cross and praise the Father for removing the pain
Before I say anything I must say that my parents were very honorable, wonderful parents who did everything that they could for me. When I dropped out of college and came home on drugs and with a severe psychiatric illness. The burden was top much for them and they forsook me. They had me locked up in a psych ward where I was drugged like some sort of monster. They even tried to have me committed. But I was able to escape and left their care in the hand of God. I suffered terribly but was able to overcome much and even serve the Lord in a pulpit ministry for 28 years. When my Father retired they moved to the city where I live and we reconciled and had many wonderful years together. When they became old and needed someone to care for them I was able to meet the need with the help of God. They passed away in great peace. The Lord let me know that they have entered the Holy City, the New Jerusalem and are resting there waiting for the rest of the family to join them. God is good. God is faithful. Hallelujah!! Blessings and peace to you Queen Alita!!
Wow! Praise God for that testimony! Wow, will you please stand in agreement work me on how and what to say to my mother when we speak. She reached out to me a few days back and we have a severely broken relationship. I don't think she likes or even cares for me, she doesn't support me and thinks my career and life is a joke. I have blocked her from all communications but she found a way to reach out in such a time where God is rebuilding my life. I need holy spirit filled guidance with this one in Yeshua's name❤🎉
@@SharJoyMichelle5555 I understand, because it’s been the same way for me to. However I don’t think it’s Michael’s responsibility and he may not reply to you, but if he does then he does.
But the Lord is asking you and me to do what he wants us to do on our own.
I just wanted you to know I understand because it’s been my experience but it’s my mum that didn’t want anything to do with me, not the other way around. I know that she is guilty for sending me to boarding school when I was eight years old but it wasn’t her choice or her fault. It’s a long story.
But I think it’s beautiful that your mother has reached out to you. The Lord will give you grace and love for her. Think of Joseph in the Bible and what he had to do for his family when they came to him for help.
Christmas is not far off now. 😉
I’ll say a prayer for you when I come off-line in a minute, and would you say a prayer for me please?
I was only just praying for reconciliation with my family before I came on here today. 🥲
@@SharJoyMichelle5555 i’ve just noticed that you have 555 in your handle, that you use on here, and it was 55 minutes ago it says, that you placed this message in the comments.
Five is the number of grace. 🙏😊
Well done, Michael, you have such a beautiful heart and it’s wonderful to read and listen to your testimony.
God is good and you are a beautiful example of God’s love and grace for those who have hurt you. Your heart is like the heart of Jesus. ❤️🥲🤝
@@SharJoyMichelle5555 Yeshua!! Make a way Lord where there seems to be no way. In your most holy name. Amen.
This is a timely message for me. I think the tricky part here is maintaining healthy boundaries and protecting our hearts from further abuse while also forgiving and giving grace.
Triggered indeed. Please pray for me on this issue.
You're not being insensitive at all, Alita. This is so important and I pray that people understanding how LIFE CHANGING it REALLY is.
I've gone through this myself this entire year, and I was so angry with my mother to a point where I was preempting being mistreated every time she asked me to do something, even reasonable things. One day I was venting to my sister and I stopped dead in my tracks when suddenly I felt this conviction in my spirit that it is I who needed to change. I had been projecting my anger all along such that I couldn't even think rationally. So I decided to change and there began my healing and restoration. We are so close now!
What God said to me was that I'm going out into the world where some people are going to undermine me and look down on me. If I can conquer my own mother so to speak, whose opinion and validation mattered the most in terms of my achievements and being seen, then I can conquer anything. And it's true. Now I'm at a point where I don't care what people think because I got over the biggest mountain.
Funny enough it was after that process when God finally revealed to her what I've been trying to tell her about my calling all these years.
My advice? Forgive them, honour them, and leave the revealing to God. One day they will see you, but you may not even be in a place where you need it by then!
Beautiful message, and thank You for the reminder. I'm excited that this is what it is before the breakthrough!
Wow. I don’t think a message has ever hit closer to home. I’m in this very situation; forgiving, showing grace, and slowly healing. Lord, I’m ready for the next chapter. Let them see YOU in me. 😭🙏♥️
I am very Aware of this. Perfume. Food. Water. Drinks. I pray over everything I buy.
My aunt pointed this out about my mother and I a few days ago. I’ve been making steps to be the bigger person
My God! As I’m cleaning my kitchen I was literally thinking on Exodus 20:12. As I’m mentally sorting out how my mother raised my siblings and I versus some of the challenges I’ve faced raising my children. I’m asking myself so many deep questions that I’ve carried for years, as to how I was raised….very similar to your what you shared. Then I click back on your video that I paused in the first few minutes while I finish loading the dishwasher….and my God!! If He didn’t answer immediately!!!! Thank you for sharing your story and this message. 🙏🏾😢❤️❤️❤️
All truth...this message carries His truth
Thank you for the word....God bless you.
WOW I am in the process of putting together a natural body care product line!!!!!!!!! I plan on operating with integrity and looking into suppliers. Best of luck to your friend. I am making tee shirts, body products, jewelry, and massage.
Wow, PRAISE GOD for this message 🙌🏾 🙏🏾
This is definitely confirmation for me...I'm going to GOD about this
I was sexually abused by my father's brothers child and because my mom enabled my dad's discrimination against me (he favoured my little sister over me every chance he got) I was too afraid to tell anyone. Now I'm 32 and I'm struggling with the effects of that abuse. I'm BROKEN because I'm so afraid and I have no one to lean on. Please pray for me. I don't want to fall apart again. To this day, my feelings are always disregarded and I have to deal with my sadness and anger when I'm just still a little girl whose scared of everything and everyone around me .
I can identify. The remnants left behind from sexual abuse in a family have been and continue to be a hurdle in different ways in my journey. It is hard. But I believe one day I and those like me, will be TOTALLY FREE!!!
I am a survivor as well and I just said a prayer for you, Anita. If you ever want to talk I am here.
Amen!!! So good! 🙌🏼
Jarin is so DOPE 🔥🔥🔥
It has taken me the past 10 years to do this. I'm encouraging everyone to do so, because if us kids change it is like a rippke-effect.
God bless Y'all - this is a hard pill to swallow.
Aluta, You are in our prayers!
Love:
Emily from Budapest, Hungary
Yes, good word, I am grateful God brought me and my mother together again, praise God for bringing families together! After seven years of not speaking to/seeing each other I was able to forgive my mother and reconcile with her by God his spirit, also being aware of my own sins/mistakes. In accordance with this word and ephesians 6:1-3, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 I bind one to honour one's parents while binding to hell every dishonoring of one's parents in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone not honouring one's parents, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah ❤!
Thank you Alita. My aunt who kinda raised me was quite something. She never had kids of her own so to put it bluntly, she was clueless esp when I became a teenager so I became a rebel too in response. I wasn’t home when she passed away. I had to ask The Lord to help me forgive and God in His grace healed me in a dream in my sleep because I just couldn’t consciously forgive her. So my advice to others who are struggling to forgive their parents is just ask The Holy Spirit for help, tell Him that you’re willing but you can’t on your own and He is faithful to come to your aid. Shalom
Amen
I Thank you Jesus, bless you Woman of God’s!
Thank you, this has been heavy in my heart over the past couple days as my mom and I have a very disconnected relationship for almost my entire life and she reached out a few days back. I quickly blocked her number instantly and asked God please show me what to do moving forward. This seems like a word-of- confirmation and I will ask God how I should proceed and for him to show me with clarity what to say. If you are reading this will you please stand in prayerful agreement we me that God will give me what to say as I address her in conversation. Please and thanks you in Yeshua's name❤🎉❤🎉
Remember honoring parents is a biblical principle, not doing so can delay and halt many good things in life. Right or wrong, we gotta honor and respect them.
@@TheSisUNeed Amennnnnnnnn I am understanding this more clearly as I have recently asked God for ways to honor my mother! Tysm for this reminder!🫶🏾
@@SharJoyMichelle5555 We thank GOD and give Him glory for your immediate growth! This will unlock many doors for you, just keeping this precept.
Confirmation and it's scary because God was telling me to call my dad. And I am no contact with him for a long time now and the same day I feel God saying that, you post this.
We look forward to learning more about the perfumes and when and where we can buy them.
Yes it will be life changing in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth
Forgave my parents for me it was the abusive spouse that as you explained became my teaching grounds for the abandonment, rejection, and heart break I suffered at the hands of my parents.
Sis I Truly Thank GOD for you Allowing HIM TO USE YOU 🙏💜
Jarin is amazing!!!You Go girl!!!
Thank you Lord
Amen, thank you Alita for being so vulnerable and transparent with this. I pray it helps those who are stuck due to this very thing 🙏. Forgiveness towards my parents and loving them with grace and honor and being grateful for what they did do for me was a huge step in the restoration and growth in my life. Our relationship has come such a long way and the respect and grace has greatly increased on both ends and had allowed God to work in their own hearts through the way I love and carry myself with Gods love and grace.
I was NOT expecting this message from the title of this video. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! I disappointed my parents & God himself this summer with my disobedience, disrespect, and snottiness. The Lord was convicting me so bad up until this moment. I had a very slow and somber summer because of my behavior. I was yearning to apologize to my mother, but that pride was getting the best of me. I’m excited to sit with God to discuss this more 🙏🏽🩷
Amen ✝️
Very good word! God bless!!
Change me father God Almighty in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth
🤔It's weird how All of Us parents thinks that we are a better parent than our parents were in their broken states even in our own brokenness 🤔 ONLY GOD CAN HEAL 💜
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
You said when I called UPON you that you will answer me I'm calling father God Almighty change me please In the name of Jesus Christ of NAZARETH
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Is this only for wounds caused by parents or could it also be wounds caused by others?
Change me expeditiously rapidly swiftly and SUDDENLY MANIFEST RIGHT NOW IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH