How I met Mr.Hallease (spoilers its boring) and learned how to be a girlfriend | VEDA Day 6

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  • Опубликовано: 5 апр 2016
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    Hallease is a video producer and editor based in Texas. Her channel showcases her life, and different interests she may have. From tutorials, travel, vlogs, to discussions on pop culture and everything in-between. Her channel is an eclectic representation of who/what it means to be Hallease.
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Комментарии • 179

  • @Evelynfromtheinternets
    @Evelynfromtheinternets 8 лет назад +277

    Shebabob throws me off every time lmaooooo like every time i'm not ready
    yay mr hallease he's the jam

  • @holtsdh
    @holtsdh 8 лет назад +135

    Im amazed at how you were able to say Shababob so many times throughout this story without missing a beat.

    • @Jessx
      @Jessx 8 лет назад +16

      +sdholt4 you would think that was homegirl's real name lol

    • @hallease
      @hallease  8 лет назад +24

      +sdholt4 I am committed to protecting people's privacy. It's always top of mind lol

  • @Greydrops
    @Greydrops 8 лет назад +168

    I was anticipating a typical "HOW I STOLE SHABABAB'S MAN" messy storytime video like everyone else on the yt

    • @hallease
      @hallease  8 лет назад +63

      +Greydrops PFFFTT! Nah, I ain't the one

    • @princessdaedae09
      @princessdaedae09 8 лет назад +1

      me to tho lol

    • @lemonline3719
      @lemonline3719 5 лет назад

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @gutchiespencer2714
      @gutchiespencer2714 3 года назад +5

      I think your friend’s man is Off limits because the friendship will suffer, always, but I think she’s a Virgo and they do shit like that....🤣🙄

  • @MsKwesi
    @MsKwesi 8 лет назад +59

    Thank you so much for sharing this story. I love the fact that what sold you on Mr. Hallease is that he is smart, easy to be around, and made you feel safe when you kissed each other. I wasn't bored at all by the story of you two meeting. I am recovering from a lifetime of abuse, and hearing how "normal" people have relationships helps me more than I can tell you in words. I hope to someday get to know a man who doesn't give me butterflies, but makes me feel safe.

    • @hallease
      @hallease  8 лет назад +14

      +Mildred Haslett Wow. I'm glad this video could help you on your journey

  • @caetechclub
    @caetechclub 8 лет назад +74

    I honestly don't think you could tell a boring story. I enjoyed this. Veda is my favorite time of the year 🤘🏽.

    • @missirey
      @missirey 8 лет назад +2

      +Keya Clayton I was going to say thing! I didn't think this was boring at all. :)

  • @SkinnyGirlFatHair86
    @SkinnyGirlFatHair86 7 лет назад +76

    So I'm binge watching your videos.
    Your relationship with Mr. Hallease reminds me so much of mine with my husband. He comes from a very affectionate family. He shows love through verbal and physical affirmation. Lol. I'm all like LET ME SHOW YOU I LOVE YOU BY KEEPING THIS HOUSE CLEAN. 😂😂

    • @hallease
      @hallease  7 лет назад +9

      +SkinnyGirlFatHair hey, I know you! I watch your vids! 🙋🏿🙋🏿

    • @SkinnyGirlFatHair86
      @SkinnyGirlFatHair86 7 лет назад +7

      Hallease WHAT? WHAT? WHAT? I am figuratively dying right now. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @cynfinite
    @cynfinite 8 лет назад +53

    I love your love story. I think it's interesting how he had to teach you how to be a GF lol, that's cute. And when you said, "There was life before Mr. Hallease, and they'll be life after him." Life ain't about the romantic r'ships ONLY, because there are people out there who don't care for them. And even if you do, it's good to recognize that life never begins or ends when a r'ship does. I loved this video. Thank you for sharing

  • @justice_k6440
    @justice_k6440 6 лет назад +16

    You are literally so chill~ the relationship between u and ur husband is so beautiful! It made me realize how crucial intimacy is in a relationship 😊

  • @GoziTV
    @GoziTV 8 лет назад +43

    I was sitting here smiling from ear to ear !

    • @hallease
      @hallease  8 лет назад +5

      +GoziTV I know you in real life! HIIIII!!!!

    • @AnArchaicSoul
      @AnArchaicSoul 7 лет назад

      ME TOOOO!! LOL

  • @jaleedamoore8837
    @jaleedamoore8837 8 лет назад +17

    Okay I need my boo to watch this. Because you are me and I am you. PDA, holding hands, greeting with a hug...Its a struggle...I have try hard to be affectionate. Thank you for validating that I am not weird...other people are weird too.

  • @Queen-of-the-Burbs
    @Queen-of-the-Burbs 8 лет назад +16

    I love your videos. I love that you're not over the top or constantly trying to sell me something. You're just you and you invite us to take it or leave it. I'm loving VEDA!!!!! Thanks for sharing this story.

  • @deannajones2426
    @deannajones2426 8 лет назад +60

    Are you and Shabobbob still friends?

    • @hallease
      @hallease  8 лет назад +106

      +DeAnna Jones haha yes, she is now happily married to an amazing man and has a toddler.

    • @polisigh216
      @polisigh216 5 лет назад +36

      Hallease New subscriber. I am so happy that y’all ended up together and no blood was shed because that is totally off brand.

  • @racheljohnson1282
    @racheljohnson1282 4 года назад +1

    Your hair has had crazy growth in three/four years! I just started watching, starting with that Lume vid, and subscribed. I’ve been thinking about locs for years. I think I’m finally ready.

  • @brigitsmile
    @brigitsmile 8 лет назад +3

    I just love your presence in front of the camera!!! Amazing music and your videos do not bore me!

  • @AhaItsMarii
    @AhaItsMarii 3 года назад +5

    "I can't fully explain myself because I only have one hand" nothing has resonated with me as much all day. Physical touch is way down on my love language

  • @xxxtacy
    @xxxtacy 8 лет назад +1

    I am so happy I found this channel. I keep having these giggling fit watching these vids.

  • @browngirlreading
    @browngirlreading 8 лет назад +17

    This video was so cute! Great story! I've got a video idea for you. Could you talk about a few of your favorite books and/or what you're reading at the moment? :)

  • @frescadefood7014
    @frescadefood7014 7 лет назад +1

    I'm laughing at this whole other conversation going on in the captions! i've literally never seen that before- brilliant

  • @MsSkupsie
    @MsSkupsie 8 лет назад +6

    Definitely not boring. This was really cute.
    Thanks for sharing, Hallease :)

  • @TruJuLoMedia
    @TruJuLoMedia Год назад

    This is so precious. I never went back this far before. What a storyteller you are!

  • @coolingwinds
    @coolingwinds 6 лет назад +8

    New subscriber here. So funny how you really like Mr.Hallease’s voice and as I was listening to you, I was thinking that I really like YOUR voice and manner of speech. I will remember to pray for y’alls housing situation.🙏🏾😉

  • @docfabz
    @docfabz 4 года назад +1

    This is sooo relatable. Learning how to be a girlfriend, greeting with a kiss, him being Latino, just feeling really comfortable around him. Thanks for sharing.

  • @sammehjol11
    @sammehjol11 8 лет назад +9

    That was such a sweet story, totally not boring lol. Yess to the husband tag!

  • @ladonnawashington1643
    @ladonnawashington1643 3 года назад +4

    I love your unconventional love story. It made me warm with happiness and hope. Thanks for sharing.

  • @renee7528
    @renee7528 3 года назад +1

    Girl! How have you been out here on the interwebs this long and I didn't know yoooooooouuuuuu. Glad I found you!

  • @Swanofdreamers
    @Swanofdreamers 8 лет назад

    This was so not boring!! Enjoyed hearing how you met your hubby.

  • @knotty1atl
    @knotty1atl 8 лет назад +1

    So love this video. Yes, you figured it out. Such a nice couple

  • @bankz9480
    @bankz9480 8 лет назад +2

    husband tag yaasssss!!!! my family is just like yours. when I even hear them say the word I love you I cringe a little. I guess it just gives you the best of both worlds, the affirmation and the act. Even though I hardly hear them say love, I don't ever have to question that they do. I find security in that

  • @akosuakoranteng3327
    @akosuakoranteng3327 2 года назад

    I just discovered your RUclips channel and instant love! Thank you RUclips algorithm!

  • @Christinandrearosamilia
    @Christinandrearosamilia 4 года назад +1

    You are such an inspiration for me.
    I am trying to open a RUclips account as well about my life. Keep doing what you’re doing and thanks

  • @mazznaturals
    @mazznaturals 5 лет назад +5

    I’m kinda binge watching your videos now I find you so interesting lol. Loved the story-time your such a cool chic! Learning to be a GF made me laugh 😆 it’s all about learning each other’s love 💕 language I guess. ☺️

  • @docdoctme
    @docdoctme 8 лет назад

    Great video-not a boring story at all!!! Thanks for sharing.

  • @StarlessTerrace
    @StarlessTerrace 8 лет назад +1

    I know that we don't actually know each other, but I really appreciate your personality. You come across as someone who is very down to earth and approachable. I'm glad I discovered your channel.

  • @sasa2979
    @sasa2979 4 года назад +4

    I relate to her so much on the family part. We show up for each but I can’t remember the last time I hugged my mom 💀. I definitely think I have to learn to be a girlfriend too.

  • @pursuitofnatural
    @pursuitofnatural 8 месяцев назад

    👀👀Rewatching your couples videos now that I'm one half of a pair... 👀👀 So glad I've been subscribed all these years! Wow, is this way more relatable now. I love it! 🧡

  • @BrittanyG1
    @BrittanyG1 7 лет назад

    I know this an old video but I'm glad I checked it. Made relate to you and your channel more. This was cool. Liked the vibes and can actually relate to the "bad girlfriend" lol

  • @Popsplaining
    @Popsplaining 8 лет назад

    LOL I feel you on the use of hands to communicate. I never realized how much I talked with my hands until I started doing YT videos.

  • @MsBird322
    @MsBird322 8 лет назад

    At 3:36... Yo, that feeling that you described right there! Thought it was just me, this is dope.

  • @vlilyb
    @vlilyb 8 лет назад +2

    Yay San Antonio! I go to school at UTSA! Loved the video!!

    • @hallease
      @hallease  8 лет назад

      +Victoria L Baldwin (vilybaldwin) 210 Por vida!

  • @michellem7388
    @michellem7388 8 лет назад +18

    What happened with Shababob? Yes to the Husband Tag! I'd like to hear his version of how you all met.

    • @hallease
      @hallease  8 лет назад +42

      +Michelle M Shababob is happily married and has a toddler

  • @thelondonerd
    @thelondonerd 8 лет назад +1

    Aww, you may think it's boring but I think it's adorable! Looking forward to seeing the husband tag :). Also, you sound a lot like me with regards to having to learn how to be a girlfriend haha my family are not affectionate either

  • @TheKhrissss
    @TheKhrissss 8 лет назад +6

    I like this! I feel ya on the life before and life after marriage thing. You're still an individual married or not! And yeessss do the husband tag! You told us when YOU knew he was kind of the one/dateable- what was his moment for you? ^_^

  • @NaturaleeMoni
    @NaturaleeMoni 8 лет назад +13

    I can't fully explain myself because I only have one hand! 😂😂 Expressive hands/ people who talk with their hands problems.

  • @leonardconstant
    @leonardconstant 8 лет назад

    Very sweet, Hallease. The whole eight minutes of it.

  • @kaydenpat
    @kaydenpat 5 лет назад

    Your story is far from boring. Love your look.

  • @LovinBeingNatural
    @LovinBeingNatural 8 лет назад

    I'd love to see a Husband Tag from you two! So interested!

  • @0Kimchi0
    @0Kimchi0 8 лет назад +19

    Can one of your Veda days be a flashback to one of your student films? Interested in seeing one and your thoughts about it! :)

    • @scotia4715
      @scotia4715 8 лет назад +1

      I co-sign this.

    • @hallease
      @hallease  8 лет назад +3

      +dadadosh OH GOD...I'd have to find one...and then change the music since RUclips wanna be all rude with the copyrights

  • @praise650
    @praise650 8 лет назад +22

    Get him to do the husband tag!!!! Please and thank you.

  • @varonicabryant8253
    @varonicabryant8253 6 лет назад +2

    Boring this story is not. Your a great story teller...

  • @87PageS
    @87PageS 8 лет назад

    Aww this was cute!! Yea I was super non pda when we started dating, now I'm all about it lol we got married in 2011 as well and I agree about not keeping tags too much because there's like an outward pressure of will it last. But I paid attention for year 5 because I'm trying to party it up lol hope to see the husband tag!

  • @praise650
    @praise650 8 лет назад +36

    Shababab is the best name EVER!! lol I love this vid.

  • @ANTHONYJOHNSON-ot6ck
    @ANTHONYJOHNSON-ot6ck 6 лет назад +1

    Your story is inspirational

  • @yvettem.holland5072
    @yvettem.holland5072 8 лет назад +1

    Great video , as always. Thank you! Where are you and your family from originally? When you said "you smaat " you sounded Caribbean.

    • @hallease
      @hallease  8 лет назад +3

      +Yvette M. Holland haha I don't really know how to answer this...Virginia and the Carolinas. After that...idk like Africa and stuff? I'm just black + other stuff. Probably do the DNA test one of these days.

  • @nyashapatrice2283
    @nyashapatrice2283 8 лет назад

    This was awesome! It was so not boring, I don't think you could even do boring. And I would love to see a tag with him. Now the question(s)... love, and finding the person to spend your life with, doesn't always equal marriage so Why did you guys decide to get married? What's the biggest concession each of you has made to your marriage (learning to cook/clean/hold your tongue or speak up/loss of privacy and independence/ holding on to privacy and independence/joint bank accounts or money management, etc)?

    • @hallease
      @hallease  8 лет назад

      +nyasha patrice This question is hella deep

  • @thekaerichtexas
    @thekaerichtexas 8 лет назад +5

    awww!!!! laughed my butt off at shabobob

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 5 лет назад +15

    "He's not really in the videos........what a difference 3 years make. lol

  • @krayzieog
    @krayzieog 8 лет назад +32

    Like everyone else my biggest question is how did shebabbab react? Are you still friends with her etc

  • @gmvanz01847
    @gmvanz01847 4 года назад

    LIKE THAT MUSIC THAT I HEAR PLAYING...... IN THE BACK ROUND !!!!!

  • @angelah6472
    @angelah6472 4 года назад +1

    I wanna hear shabobobobos side of the story😂 shabobobob has the tea

  • @trecp1969
    @trecp1969 8 лет назад +30

    Wow, you dated your roommate/friend's ex boyfriend . Did you talk to her about the situation before actually dating him?

    • @goodgirl6168
      @goodgirl6168 4 года назад +5

      Yeaaaa LIKEEEEEEEE????? Nobody has anything to say about that? Im turned off sorry..

    • @Gaia007
      @Gaia007 4 года назад

      I think it’s common with ppl their age. Oh you’re done with him? Great I’ll take him. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @reneeanne9995
    @reneeanne9995 8 лет назад +2

    Husband tag please, my question is what was you first impression of each other and when did you know that you cared for each other more than a friend?

  • @NeeshaShakeera
    @NeeshaShakeera 8 лет назад

    I like the idea of a husband tag from yall...you two are inspiring to a 30+ year old like me who was partying and being extra in her 20s. lol. This story was not boring. I would like to know when he decided to propose and if you had any inclination that it would happen when it did. Thanks!

  • @getaq6508
    @getaq6508 8 лет назад +1

    Great story and I like your fro😊😊😊

  • @LifeOnLahLahLand
    @LifeOnLahLahLand 7 лет назад +5

    Shebobob!!!!!😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ANTHONYJOHNSON-ot6ck
    @ANTHONYJOHNSON-ot6ck 6 лет назад

    Yes he loves you

  • @deannajones2426
    @deannajones2426 8 лет назад

    That's awesome!

  • @Crawfordsfive
    @Crawfordsfive 8 лет назад

    And btw.. You remind me of my best friend growing up. Everything about you! I could listen to her (and you now apparently) talk for hours. Seriously though.. if you're ever in the NY area, look up this woman named Tiffany Rea-Fisher: your soul twin.. Annnnd yes to the husband tag.

  • @kaylam1252
    @kaylam1252 6 лет назад +2

    I feel the Pda and I need my hand to express myself lol

  • @KamisKisses
    @KamisKisses 4 года назад

    I relate to this so much lol we need more realistic stories as many still believe in that fairytale stuff not all love is like that.

  • @allthingshair46
    @allthingshair46 8 лет назад

    Love this video! I was glued! Husband tap please!!!!!!!!!!

  • @8CountLife
    @8CountLife Год назад +2

    What did shebabab say are you still friends with her. Because I immediately thought about girl code

  • @ohjazzydiva
    @ohjazzydiva 8 лет назад +1

    Yes definitely a husband tag... I like your carefree personality

  • @NjokiKiiru
    @NjokiKiiru 7 лет назад

    It's amazing but.. So many things you're doing, the way you're talking even, it's very much like things I do! Not kidding.. We would be best friends if we ever met I can just tell.. This is officially the first lifestyle vlog I'm subscribing to so thank you for this :) you are beautiful!

    • @hallease
      @hallease  7 лет назад

      +Njoki Kiiru Thanks!

  • @ANTHONYJOHNSON-ot6ck
    @ANTHONYJOHNSON-ot6ck 6 лет назад

    It ok your blessed with him

  • @tameraanthony462
    @tameraanthony462 8 лет назад +1

    yes! husband tag yes!!!!

  • @aprillipscomb991
    @aprillipscomb991 8 лет назад

    yall are cute...love the story!

  • @nappyintellectual7054
    @nappyintellectual7054 3 года назад

    "I was on my grind yoh" 😂😂

  • @Rashida6891
    @Rashida6891 7 лет назад +2

    "Ohh, my bad!" Lol

  • @Wandxo
    @Wandxo 8 лет назад

    I like how you said that you felt calm vs buttery because I'm the same? If I feel buttery with you then it's just physical and probably will fade. If I feel comfortable and calm with you then I'll be more likely to stay with you and want to be physical/affection/committed

  • @lj7621
    @lj7621 7 лет назад

    Omg this is awesome! I'm so you 😂😂😂😂

  • @redapplejuuice
    @redapplejuuice 8 лет назад +4

    are you still friends with she bob bob?

  • @ANTHONYJOHNSON-ot6ck
    @ANTHONYJOHNSON-ot6ck 6 лет назад

    Great relationship you 2 have / life Partner

  • @LuckyUrbana
    @LuckyUrbana 7 месяцев назад

    I have always wondered about how y’all met😅

  • @reginaleslie7864
    @reginaleslie7864 8 лет назад

    Oh, I have some questions, if you do the husband tag! How does being in a relationship reframe the way you both conceptualize [romantic] love? What's one weird aspect of your relationship? (It can totally be anything -- food, habit, memory...) This one's from the channel Skin Deep (they ask people super thought-provoking questions) but you don't hafta answer if it's too personal: What's one thing you're hesitant to tell one another?

    • @hallease
      @hallease  8 лет назад

      +Regina Leslie Gurl, that last question tho...

  • @Bindi_Marc
    @Bindi_Marc 8 лет назад

    please do a husband tag.
    it took me forever to get cameron on camera.

  • @anitajones7090
    @anitajones7090 2 года назад

    Ok so I am new to your channel, and I didn't read all of the comments, but are you and Shebsbob still friends?

    • @one.shavn.michael4702
      @one.shavn.michael4702 2 года назад

      im new too and nosey so i was thinking the same question. also all my girlfriends have never understood the affection upon greeting either but now if i dont do it its like a grade-A felony to my girlfriend although she didnt instinctively do it in the beginning. anyways shout-out to the newbies and to shebobob.

  • @samahj8567
    @samahj8567 3 года назад +1

    Are you a to still friends with Shabob?

  • @drewtrini3055
    @drewtrini3055 8 лет назад +1

    bean boozled challenge........it looks so out of both of you comfort zone

  • @tiasimmons2050
    @tiasimmons2050 5 лет назад

    You are so beautiful sis!

  • @rainyfeathers9148
    @rainyfeathers9148 4 года назад

    I'm over here taking notes, I need girlfriend lessons like plants need sunlight x'D

  • @whatsonhermindblog123
    @whatsonhermindblog123 Год назад

    omggggggggggggggggggg u are soooo adorable ❤❤🤞🤞

  • @JustFluffyQuiltingYarnCrafts
    @JustFluffyQuiltingYarnCrafts Год назад

    Your beautiful with the afro and loc'd up. ❤

  • @TellyTingz2000
    @TellyTingz2000 8 лет назад

    Here is a question for the hubby tag ? Any advice for an African american women looking or wanting an interracial relationship .?

    • @TheNDofUO
      @TheNDofUO 8 лет назад +3

      O_O

    • @CatMoca
      @CatMoca 8 лет назад +3

      Why purposely go after an interracial relationship?

    • @TellyTingz2000
      @TellyTingz2000 8 лет назад

      +TheNDofUO OMG I just now re read what I typed in LBMO.... SMH sorry .LMBO I meant to say Any advice for African American Women Who is interested in dating someone of a different race.

  • @Cha-bj7hd
    @Cha-bj7hd 5 лет назад +2

    You are interesting and relaxing❤

  • @chocolateprincess2656
    @chocolateprincess2656 Год назад

    What's his sign ?

  • @DKMiti
    @DKMiti Год назад

    I sm there at the part where I still learn to be a girlfriend

  • @Wandxo
    @Wandxo 8 лет назад

    Favorite thing about Hallease - favorite gift from Halllease??

  • @caetechclub
    @caetechclub 8 лет назад +6

    Yes! Husband tag!

  • @traciross8250
    @traciross8250 5 лет назад +5

    OMG. The year is 2019, BritPopLife is now Patricia Bright. Your hair has grown, and youre still out here spreading life lessons about relationships and independence and the hard things no one talks about like "how to be x to someone."

    • @hallease
      @hallease  5 лет назад +6

      Yeah, the internet is so wild. I remember saying "don't get comfortable seeing Mr.Hallease" and look at me now...😅

  • @shreehill9641
    @shreehill9641 Год назад

    Aww cute love story