Too Scared For School (Bullying Documentary) | Real Stories
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- Опубликовано: 7 июн 2024
- Shocking and emotional documentary about the pain and desperation of four young teenagers facing lives overshadowed by bullying.
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the worst part is that at many schools, you get in trouble for fighting back
Taking the law into your own hands can only lead to trouble
Shade Miller I got suspended for 2 days for fighting back
Shade Miller well that didn't apply to me.I socked one of my major bullies in the head, I didn't get anything, but he got a detention.
fred bond any school ive ever been to, even if you dont hit back you get detention and if you do then suspension
Shade Miller no one should care about getting in trouble at school for defending yourself. If you know you were in the right to fight back, then ANY kind of punishment a school delivers is completely irrelevant.
7 minutes on and i'm already crying. Poor children. Disgusting how some people have fun hurting other people.
Sad gal Well your screename is "Sad Gal", afterall. OWN IT SAD GAL!! ✊
We need to go back to Christianity!
I myself delight in personal vengeance if I am hurt for no reason. But I cannot and never will pick at people unless they have made the first move.
These kids need help. I wish someone had helped me through it so I didn't end up this way.
@@thegreatrestoration6784 No, because not everybody has the same beliefs as christians do.
@@TheWaynelds Everyone should. Jesus is the way the truth and the life!
Until your an adult, you really don't understand that bullies really are just cowards.
rosie a that’s bullshit everyone knows that
i understood bullies were cowards when i started secondary school
Understanding that doesn’t really make it any better when it’s happening.
Idk about that. I’m a full-grown adult, and I’m still deathly afraid of my childhood bullies. Makes perfect sense as to who the real coward now, isn’t it?
Nya Marie this is true. I only realized that I was bullied because my bullies were jealous of me. They found me weird and different because I would spend the break times reading books or going to the library by myself instead of playing or roughhousing. I was very quiet and often alone. Despite that, the teachers loved me because I was a very diligent student and I always got the highest marks and ranked first in class. I did nothing wrong and hurt nobody, at all. I only realized these when I entered college, but realizing that you didn’t deserve all the bullying you got doesn’t magically make the psychological and emotional issues you developed disappear.
Bullying should be treated as a hate crime.
Justin Parallax it should be treated as malicious assault and Harassment like it is for adults.
@@truthseeker3503 Exactly
@@truthseeker3503 True, but in some countries, bullying doesn't count as a crime. I think it would be better if it's considered as one, but only for teens is it illegal, if it's just kids doing that, they should just learn to be good first, because kids doesn't know everything, that's why I think that.
It is abuse.
victims should be able to call the police
Bully: *Bullies victim*
Higher people: Ah, he's just playing around, leave him be.
Victim: *Complains about it*
Higher people: What's your problem? They're just harmlessly teasing you and you whine about it? Grow up.
Bully: *Keeps bullying victim*
Higher people: It's alright, he's just hardcore. Nothing wrong with him.
Victim: *Snaps*
Higher people: This behavior of yours is borderline unacceptable. We're calling the police.
Sounds about right schools suck. There worthless
Especially when it comes to bullying.
True, Bullying is not teasing. Its abuse
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@@user-kk2pc7ik7t absolutely right!
@@lisabradford8180 one of the kids that used to bully me in daycare thought it would be funny for him and a friend to break into a cemetery and do doughnuts. the bullies parents worked for a really important company in the area and boy did they have some apologizing to do.
my son who is now a adult was bullied very bad at school and out side school. School would just say " boys will be boys" it was stupid. Any school who say's there is no bullying in their school are lies! My son tried to take he own life at 12 years old. that was the crunch i removed him from the school and for a while I was getting in trouble by the police sorry but i told them that i would rather go to jail than have a dead son due to school and bullies. But it didn't go that far I got him in to a fantastic school and he did fantastic and now getting Married.
us anti abortionists thin kits sad victims commiting sucide it should be the bullies
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I live in the UK. And I was bullied in the last 3 years of primary school. And it happened in secondary school too. It really fucked me up big time, and the teachers always tell you to go to them if you are being bullied. Yet they never do anything about it. And everytime I stood up to the bullies, suddenly I'm in the wrong, and end up in detention/isolation. And they aren't? Confused me all the time.
I went to college and the atmosphere there is completely different. No bullies whatsoever. Everyone treats me well. Though I now have a hard time trusting new people and tend to have panic attacks. And lots of confidence issues. I wanna say being both in secondary school and primary school both fucked me up big time.
But I know things are better now. I'm actually doing something I love. And I'm feeling happier again.
Farewell Angels Pollyanna happy for you, you deserve to be happy after what youve been through. I wish you the best xx
Farewell Angels Pollyanna that always happens to me! I get in trouble!
Farewell Angels Pollyanna I'm 13 and I know exactly what you mean I get bullied because I emotionally eat and so I'm bigger than most people in my year and I get so much crap for that, I've written death notes and stuff like that, and self harming is something that happens in my life, and it's all coz the teachers don't do anything
I got bullied very severely in highschool. Beaten hazed harassed. I dropped out of highschool and went to a vocational school where I earned my GED. I went to college and now I am a doctor. A LEGIT doctor. Keep your chin up and things will get better.
Lydia when i was in 2nd grade i was bullied by my best friend she always yells at me and she always told me if i fight back we will be enemies so i didnt i got bullied everyday she talk about me in other students i feel worthless i feel alone i wanna fight back but i cant cause i dont wanna get beaten up, and in 3rd grade i got bullied more i always wish she leaves the school but no shes still in my school and the bully got worst she always took my stuff and my mom gets mad at me she even pour a water on my head she step on my shoes and laugh i didnt told my mom,my mom gets mad at me everyday she wants me to be more careful she wants me to fight back, in 4th grade i told my mom if i can go to a private school she said yes i was very excited cause i expect people to be nice but they isnt a boy bullied me he did the same way taking my stuff everylunch i go back to class and my bag are gone he always hide it in dirty places i always ask my classmates "did u see my bag" they said no i tried to find it as hard as i could i go home crying and crying and i wanna die idk what i did to deserve this. in 5th grade things get alot better i still get hated but they dont do it everyday but one girl calls me a loser and i tried to hold back my tears in class and i started to tell my parents i dont wanna go to school they keep asking me why but i dont wanna tell them all i say was "i dont like the students there" my mom started to notice i was bullied she told the teacher and she brings me back to my old school in 6th grade but the girl that bullied me was in the same class as me i feel sad about it but i started thingkimg to fight back i fight back and shes nice to me😀 and i feel much better now. and always know this "when someone bullied you dont let them take you down make them stop and they will realised youcan be strong,cause bullies just want u to learn your lesson to fight back, and the bully will be gone"😀
~emna
Bullies are seriously the ultimate hypocrites, even more than internet trolls.
liftlash98 your right. Being an internet troll myself, I believe you should never edit comments. Edit: Also I believe you shouldn't be a troll on a serious video.
Sorry for the late reply, Well you've proved yourself right in being a hypocrite... However I wasn't being a troll, I was just pointing out the truth that bullies cannot take the criticism they give out to others.
i hate bullies i hate drugs and i hate abortions am i a troll
Yup, they’re the biggest μαλάκες.
How can the parents keep sending their kids back to school for more torture?
i just stayet home for 3 months before my mom and teacher found out that i got bullied in school
It is a popular misconception that children have to go to school. Parents can home school their children, the school has to support them in this schooling, what schools don't like about it is the fact that they can't claim money for the pupil.
Taxes. Going outside of your designated school zone garners charges from the school. Schools are funded by the tax payers. If you don't live in that zone you're taxes aren't going to that school so you have to pay.
Meanwhile, your taxes are still funding the school in the zone you SHOULD be sending your child to.
In most places, a child can be taken away from their parent by social services and be put in foster care if they aren't sent to school unless something severe has happened. It's considered child neglect if you don't send your kid to school
Alanna Butler-Gallagher You can home school your child, I have several friends who have done as much because of bullying. Child services can't get involved over school truancy only the local education authority and the school concerned if no good reason exists.
You do not have to send your child to school, you have the option to home school and the nearest school / education authority have to make available the teaching materials to school a child at home.
So sad to see these kids suffering, even the parents. Hiding in the shadows, constantly worrying about being bullied everyday. The schools and teachers need to do something about the bullying. I can understand the pain, being a victim myself. Not sure how old this documentary is, but I hope the kids are alive and having a better life.
Kaitlin Hannah You just simply change school if you don't have any friends overthere. If you have you fight until death.
In many cases, the only choice they have is to suck it up. That was my only option unfortunately, but it definitely got better once grade school ended. It got MUCH BETTER when I moved out of my hometown and into a new city. I wish them well because I would not wish this upon anybody.
Pumped up kicks style tends to work pretty well for victims of bullying :^)
it was publicated 16 nov. 2016
or published (sorry for bad english im not really english im from Albania
Kaitlin Hannah i was bullied. I told them to go away and they went to the teachers. luckily it has stopped and because they made fun of my self-harming scars, i wear them with pride. if anyone asks what they are i say "signs of courage"
When that black belt instructer was trying to teach the kid how to push away people having a go at him, it was so sad to see how the kid's gut reaction would be to just cringe away from the instructor's hands instead. You can just see how bullying has knocked on the kid's confidence and self-assurance.
I do think he made a smart decision, by taking a martial arts program to begin with and I think it has probably helped him in the long run, something I should have done and should do if im being honest.
My heart goes out to these children. My niece was bullied by two girls, and was eventually punched by them. I was told about it and I wasn't going to let them get away with it. I confronted one and told her if ever she so much breathed in my nieces direction she'd be sorry. She never went near my niece again. I don't like bullying but if it means I have to stand up for someone being bullied, I will. These shitheads deserve a kick up the ass, and the parents of the bullies also need to a swift kick up the ass. These kids being bullied shouldn't have to move schools because of these bullies.
Hi j
I agree and you did the right thing
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These kids are all so beautiful. Those other kids must be jeolous.
I thought the same thing. They are gorgeous, and quite smart, well-spoken.
Of course. If someone has to go out of their way to make someone sooo miserable, then I’d say ur right. Something must be bothering them to treat others in this way!!!
Mike Veis yes and all the human emotions that people have. Even the bible speaks about envy , jealousy, hatred. It says that men have evil in their hearts etc. it’s part of us living under the curse of sin, which the bible also speaks about. So yes, a lot of bullying is due to jealousy and insecurities. Jennifer is spot on.
@@myroom1913 ....and it doesn't just happen in the public schools. It goes on in the adult workplaces, too.
FischerFan Yes am very well aware of those facts. Makes you wonder; if they were actually bullies at school also. Mmmmmm.
I used to get bullied. All through high school and middle school. Over things that were out of my control (looks, social class etc) but now those same kids that used to make fun of me, Mean nothing to me. It does get better guys. You're a late bloomer love. And if you're reading this just know that it will get better. I promise. 😘
Zeta ...you're very kind.,.thank you so much for saying that... 😌
same with me. used to get bullied too but I got stronger out of it, instead of weaker.. don't let nowboddy get you down buddies! and zeta you look very gorgeous..cheers
Ive not been bullyed but in the 6th grade two girls call me names but not all the time
Sometimes if we get bullied and we cannot do anything about it, it's may means that our lord gives hardship for us to be stronger but anyways never deal bullying lightly
wow some racist kids as well
Why is it so fun to hurt people's feelings? I really don't get that.
It's because they get a sense of power and control over somebody else. It's a powerful feeling to be able to manipulate someone's emotions or actions to your desire which is why these bullies do what they do.
barbh1 Yeah.. They say some bullies get abused but I was abused as a child. I never thought it was okay to hurt anyone! It would probably make me feel bad to put someone down and put them through something I'm going through. I want everyone to feel happy and special! I don't want anyone to feel like me. It sucks.
barbh1 ikr like why
barbh1 because they are stupid and don't know other ways to make people think they are actually funny. I don't give a damn about this kind of idiots. Those are people who worth as much as a shit.
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I was bullied too in middle school for 4 years. Was always alone at Break times. I never told my parents for some reason. I think it's because, cause home was the only place where I felt safe, so I don't like to bring it up. It affected me in so many ways till today. I lost my confidence, struggled with social anxiety. But I'm getting better.
Chesa Djanelle Good luck to you :)
Chesa Djanelle I've got social anxiety from the exact same reason
Flynn Morgan , I was bullied all thew middle school and high school also , now I suffer with social anciety realy bad , I didn't realize that the two were related , ! Thank you for sharing ! ❤️
i got bullied everday at school every minutes every second there was never piece and i got bullied many months before i decided to just stay home and i stayed home 3 months without telling my mom and my teacher when they found out they stopped the builly in school but it was a relief to just stay home and get the stress down
You'll get better. I did. I went from being anti-social to more talkative with people. Took me about 3 years after grade school to get to that point, but I got there! I refuse to let my past haunt me because if I let it continue to get to me, it is basically telling the people that hurt me that they still have control over me! Not happening! I wish you the best of luck and hope that you gain your confidence sooner than later.
Bullying in the UK sounds a lot worse than the US. I was bullied but not to this extent. Heart goes out.
only thing is, in Canada, one girl committed suicide and her name was Amanda Todd.
To be fair I live in the uk and these seem quite extreme. Unless I’ve just been very sheltered
Where do you live in the US? The bullying is insane and gun violence is getting progressively worse.
bullies get worse and worse so evil they agree with abortions lowest of the low
@@maipoina-xk5zk DC I know gun violence is a problem and police brutality. You cannot NOT see it in DC. But bullying here was never like this, and by high school everybody was cool with each other
This is exactly what causes school shootings. I was bullied in middle school, I was one of the lucky ones who escaped it. But if I didn't I don't know what would have happened.
Doesn’t cause school shootings in the UK, but I get your point 😂
I totally get where you're coming from. People don't understand the psyhoclogical effects that this has on kids. It's only a matter of time when the kid snaps. I've contemplated the like because schools do absolutely nothing about this other than punish the victim when they snap. Granted if the victim does go the route of killing people they have to be held accountable, but if that's ever the case then so should the school district doing nothing.
@@Camisimluva UK citizens don't easily have access to guns like Americans do. That's probably why
Bullying is part of it, but those issues are very complex. Its a combination of mental health issues and social issues, next to access to firearms.
Its also extremely rare, which is why bullying alone doesnt explain school shootings. But, yes, many school shooters have been bullied, along with other problems in their life. Its part of a broader issue.
I used to get bullied, when i watch things like this it just makes me wanna go to the school and stand up for them.
I'm halfway through watching this.
My best friend in primary school randomly started calling me a gorilla because of my full lips and strong jawline. She wrote notes to other girls about me on the table we were sitting on. This was the first time I'd ever been made fun of. It made me so mad but i kept calm. Towards the end of class, as we packed up, I snatched the papers they had been writing on and their faces LMAO they were SHOOK. I showed my teacher but since it was the end of the day, he said he'd deal with them the next day. I stuffed the paper in my pocket and ran to my mum. My mum wasted no time. She knew what route she took when walking home and found her. I'll never, ever forget how tomato-red her face was. My mum went off on her. "So you're calling my daughter a gorilla?! How can you say that to her? Aren't you supposed to be her best friend? What a shame, I'll be giving your parents a ring." Mind you, there were other parents walking home with their kids looking on, but they could tell what she did warranted my mum's reaction. Lol I was so embarrassed, hunched in the back seat. Her parents didn't seem at all phased by what happened. The next day, She and the girls involved spent the whole day in a sperate classroom doing an all-day detention.
This documentary reminded me of that situation. What I'll say is, don't let the verbal and/or physical abuse prolong. Stand strong and attack it when it first comes.
I know you were embarrassed, but your Mom did the right thing, and I praise her for it. She got right in the little brat's face. Kudos to your Mom!
Through trial and error this is honestly great advice. Shut it down right away and be thunderous!👊
off topic but we have the same name
Your mom sounds awesome
This brings back what happened to me at school. I was bullied relentlessly everyday for 3 years from Year 7 till Year 9. My parents knew and tried their best to help, the school knew but didn't help. I moved from England to Ireland in 1998 aged 14, I think the moved saved my life, but I had zero confidence, now aged almost 33 I am still affected by what happened but I am a stronger person now. I teach my son who is 12 to not bully. I think parents have a duty to teach their children to not be horrible to others.
the anti bullying policy is a joke.
freedom seeker how
Melody Safo It’s a joke because this policy says it’ll protect students from bullies when in actuality it punishes the person being bullied if they fight back and even if the bullies are punished it’s usually very minimal and it’s bullshit!
Abram Davidson very minimal is an understatement
@gnithe it was a self protection. Defend different from attack.
@gnithe So what victim should do? Should just let themself get beaten up? If someone try to hurt you, will you just stand still?
schools do nothing about bullying. its really sad.
It really depends on the country and the school. Even in the UK some schools are stricter than others. Overall though it’s true that schools are indifferent to bullying which is ridiculous.
"I don't want to be a chicken"
If you think chickens are cowards, try meeting a pissed off rooster or a hen who's eggs you tried to grab.
Angry roosters are scary af,
I was bullied for 3 years. The school did nothing to help me. I was unable to go to school because i was too scared. I was bullied becausr im from spain and because im ginger. If you are a bully victim and you are reading this. It will get better. Its bee a year since ive not seen or heard from any of the bullies. No one has the right to bully or to be bullied. Its horrible
ive been bullied for 6 years
@@splatoonlyricsbytupac6185 I was bullied persistently for 4. But there were bullying moments throughout my school years.
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My son was bullied but hid it from me. I knew something wasn't right and went to the school to discreetly talk about marks I'd seen on him and bruises. I was lucky I suppose as the school took it very seriously. Keeping your cool is so hard to do as I ended up finding out who they were and would see them. I could honestly have easily walked up to each one and floored them, it's only natural as a parent. If I was any of those parents I'd have taken them all out of the school and not stop till someone did something. It is hard but you have to fight it all the way. Just feel sick for all those lovely kids like mine had to walk into trouble every day whilst trying to do their school work. Some kids are evil little shits.
You're quite blessed that the school actually cared about your son being bullied. Because 90% of schools downplay the bullying as harmless banter or something.
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I was picked on for being tall and Skinny. Back in high school I was the tallest girl in an all girls school and because I stood out I was made to feel like a freak. At 22 I still feel paranoid about being 6'1 and people are staring at me. Bullying Is a really crap thing to do it always stays with you.
I got made fun of in school for dating a girl your height. I am 5ft8in tall she was taller then me.
Yeah. I was bullied on elementary school for being chubby and have a large forehead. My family also make fun of me for my body and nerdy style... I'm 30 years old now and I'm highly insecure about my body and forehead.
I was in a friendship group that believed in a heirarchy. It took me three years of notes being written about me, my things being stolen, images of me spread across snapchat and nasty little comments for me to realise that I was being bullied. I didn't think it was bullying because I thought they were my friends. I didn't even realise that you could be bullied by your friends. I thought bullying was only done by enemies, you know?
In a way, that's one of the worst kinds of bullying because, like you said, you're constantly getting manipulated and you don't even realise.
Yes, there are some really sick power hungry people out there.They don't know how to turn it off.
I feel you. Theyll act like they are interested, then wham. I had a group project due and i went to my friends house. she not only invited us but her cousin who also went to that school just not that class.. Well it went from working on the project to them making fun of me. I went down stairs and asked the mom for a ride home. she was confused. and I was so sad.
@@epilogicful that sounds awful, hun. I hope you’re okay!
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Rather than even take the chance my child would be bullied, I homeschooled her. People would tell me she wouldn't develop people skills and problem solving if she didn't attend public school. Today she's 31, a Nurse and is happily married to a fellow Nurse. She couldn't be more well adjusted AND the best part, she never has to be haunted by memories of being bullied.
@Mick Williams Lol..... And this you say without knowing my daughter. She doesn't walk around scared with her tail tucked between her legs. She's a tough cookie and can handle herself well. She also carries mace and isn't afraid to use it. She's so much more well adjusted than kids that have gone through indoctrination....I mean, public school....lol.
@Mick Williams Parents of my ilk? Gee, we wouldn't be a bit of a snob, would we? 🙄 You're not listening, Mick. My daughter can handle herself. She's a nurse in a well paying psychiatric hospital, where she treats patients who have a wide array of psychiatric illnesses. Some of the males try to inappropriately grab her in places they ought not. Others will try to bite, slap and kick. She handles herself quite well, trust me and she isn't afraid in the least. The reason I didn't want her to go to public school is because I simply don't believe in what is being taught there besides academics. So I taught her everything she needed to know in order to take the test to graduate high school. Her grades were high enough to get on the Honor Roll. In Collage, she joined Phi Theta Capps after achieving and maintaining a perfect GPA. As far as her personality goes, she's happy, outgoing, kind, compassionate but tough. She's a lot more well adjusted than many who have gone to public school. She has a good job, a happy marriage, is well adjusted and independent.
I got bullied at school and telling the teacher or staff just made it worse. In my opinion bullies are up there with rapists and murderers they are scumbags.
I agree too, they may not be harm you the same way but they are harming you.
Formal warning for attacking someone and making them need to go to the hospital for three days? The fuck?
Damon I totally agree with you dude
Damon I was once bullied, walked up to the kid at a park and decked him. Ground and pound and put him in a guillotine choke, passed out and left the school. I didn't get reprimanded because no one knew it was me. Hide in the shadows, show emotion then strike when they least expect it. It's what they won't expect you to do🙂
Yeah, I TOTALLY didn't get that at all. :-/
School is worried about the bully= iT wOuLd rUiN hiS LiFE because it’s everybody’s fault but the perpetrator
Amanda your stunning! Your eyes are amazing! Those kids are jealous of you. That's the reason they do and say what they do. Remember your worth is more then their words! And you are loved ❤️❤️
Christina Lewis if only she could read this.
This is very sad. I don't think the parents know how to handle this. Saying that they still need to go to school. Why did the mother pick her daughter up from school instead of looking out the window to see where she was or fearing if she was late home.
Definitely everyone needs to do more. Parents, teachers, schools
Rachel Taylor The thing is, teachers can't do anything anymore... they have no authority and the kids know it! They try to discipline and the kids will kick up a huge fuss. I was horrifically bullied for 7 years(mostly for being clever and hard working) and teachers could do so little! Eventually I stopped reporting the incidents and just kept my head down and carried on working!
Rachel Taylor That's the reason I haven't been bullied since, I was left out a few times in primary school and sometimes laughed/mocked at my mum did everything she could and she was very stern about the problem. Seen their parents, talked to the teachers and the education department and I've not been seriously bullied since. Also learned how to answer back since I need it. Parents need to do everything they can because the children in the documentary try way more than enough to cope.
I hated school & I hated being
at home. I went through this at home & school. I knew I never
had a choice either way. So I turned my hate within & didn't just face it at home & school.
Same. I was bullied at school, and also at home (narccisist mother and abusive step-father). I had no place to feel safe. The teachers didn't believe me because "your step father is a doctor he would never hurt anyone". I'm in therapy now as an adult, it has impacted my life hugely.
shows you how delusional people are about people in positions of wealth and power.
Lost I'm sorry about all your pain. I wish I could have protected my children. But abuser are like roaches. They will destroy anyone who gets in the way of their abuse of others.
+Cathy Key - Story of my grade school years. The school never took me seriously when I reported the bullying. What's worse was when the TEACHERS saw the abuse happening in the classroom and did ABSOLUTELY NOTHING about it (one of the teachers even joined in on the teasing!) Even worse than that was when my mother NEVER did anything about it; even when I got jumped in front of the house! When I finally had the courage to stand up for myself and attack the bully, it was ME that got in trouble for it. My mom never knew the reason why I got into that fight and she didn't care; she not only sided with the school, but she just took it as an opportunity to make me feel bad for what I did and then call all her friends and family and exaggerate the hell out of the situation so that everyone will feel so sorry for her (she was [and still is] one hell of a narcissist!) All of this resulted in me wanting to end my own life several times.
Needless to say, I got the hell out of that shithole of a town I grew up in after community college. I have been a MUCH HAPPIER person since the move (couple years ago.) I've gained more confidence in myself in just the first month alone of moving away than in the 20 years of life I had back home. On top of all of that, I made long lasting friends in the city. I've got everything I could ever want in the new city I moved to and have no reason to go back to my hometown. To this day, it's gotten to the point where the past can never hurt me as I now let my new life define who I am rather than allow my old life to continue to get to me. I REFUSE to let my past haunt me because if I let it continue to get to me, it is basically telling the people that hurt me that they still have control over me! That is NOT happening! I refuse to be a victim! It's funny how I went from being anti-social and have no confidence in myself to being more outgoing, and have confidence to the point where I am assertive. These events were nothing more than unfortunate lessons of life and instead of allowing it to get to me, I learn from them and move on, just like with any issue. I like to share my past with people who were in the same (or similar) position as I have because I want them know that there is hope. Life really does get better once you're out of grade school. It did for me.
I feel bad for a kid in my class in a way hes always bullied..... and on the school bus older kids hurt him.. next time they do that im gonna make them stop :3
You won't do shit.
actually RUDOLPH OR SHOULD I SAY RUDE-OLPH i actually did help and now he has a lot of friends
@mimirules21 He's one of those bullying cowards hiding behind an interface.
0autumn6 you’re full of it.
@@puccipuu1797 I love when people show their true colors such a hypocrite
James your a beautiful young man. Never let those kids break you! It's hard I know , but you can do it! Know that your a special
Person and your loved !!
Christina Lewis these people didnt put the video up You know... stop talking to them
Ew what!!!!! She was in hospital for kidney injuries and the perpetrator only had a verbal warning?! That would NEVER happen with an adult so why would they let a kid get away with it? Unreal!
Because she's an American?! Come onnnnn.
Is it really any different then when kids bully people who emigrated from anywhere else?
Where the fk are the teachers? Are they just standing around watching kids push and pull on each other in the hallway every day? WTF?
Yes, actually.
Roman Jones but Y tho
I can't speak for teachers today, but when I was a kid in the 90's the adults had this belief of Social Darwinism where the uncool deserved to be abused for the having the audacity to not be popular. I remember an adult telling me that child suicide was nature's way of weeding out the weak ones. But then again that was the 90's.
Roman Jones
Disgusting. I hope things improve for these kids.
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That's ridiculous.
What the hell is wrong with the parent of these bullies? The kids most likely have horrible parents...
Bee Clair I agree! But tbh, a bullies background usually does come from family life.
Bee Clair Doesn't give them an excuse.
Bee Clair they need their asses beat too my mother would knock on doors for shit like this and had no problem putting them in their places either your child stop or I will beat their ass myself
Bee Clair same my mom said just ignore them wtf would that do a boy punch me in the eye and my mom did nothing so I punch him
yuno gasi Wow... A boy shouldn't hit a girl like that. :(
I just love your documentrys , please post more I've seen them all up to date , thank you for sharing !!
I really hope all these children are having a happier time now. Wish there was a follow up to how they are doing. WISH THEM ALL THE BEST
Beautiful coment,lots of love and light from Norway 😘💞💕❤️
"As many than twenty children commit suicide" but still some schools don't do shit, they decide to do things when it is too late.
Some teachers in my school told me that it was my fault I was being bullied. (I was being bullied over things I couldn't even control)
So in the end I just fought back, I eneded up grabbing one of my bullied and smashing his head into the locker. I got in a lot of trouble for fighting my bullies, but it stopped it.
Yes that makes me so angry - when the victim finally fights back and then gets blamed for it. A person should never be blamed for being bullied.
teachers used to say the same to me well no one brings bullying on themselves anyone who thinks so one day they will be bullied
@@Rozemarijn97right but it happens
Damn... I would be friends with those kids getting bullied
me too
Me too
The poor second girl. That really gives you an insight to how English people feel or think about Americans or American children.
Breanna Thompson lol not really?
it does though because if she was not american, then she probably wouldnt have been bullied
Breanna Thompson I can only assume the school the girl attended has a high number of people from a particular minority group that worship a certain religion. Most likely politically and religiously motivated influenced by their parents as we all know many M...s hate Americans and western culture in general. The average native brit doesn't hate americans.
I find Americans whiny and annoying because of their accents. Not all the time but majority of the time. I have few American friends, they're nice and their accents aren't annoying.
G'day Govnah!
my daughter was bullied from yr 4- yr 7. It was ruining her life . I lost all respect for the school system. She is now home schooled and doing great.
its a shame when the parents
are powerless to help
my mum was powerless and useless and a unfit mum
where the hell are the parents of these bullies, they need to be held responsible for the actions fo their children, after all they are a product of their environment
I got bullied by a kid older than me. Everyday he walked up to me and said mean things to me and pushed or kicked me. I never told anyone until my friends saw it. I'm really grateful to have my friends in my life. ❤
Bless those strong children, I feel so sorry for them... Hopefully some day it will be okay ♡
One thing bullying taught me is that learning by yourself and teaching yourself is an incredibly useful skill which I'm glad I'm great at.
This absolutely tears my heart in pieces. I wish I could give them all a huge hug & Be there for them with everything. Love is crucial Y’all. Kindness, Love, Compassion is CRUCIAL. I send my love to all dealing with this. It sickens me & tears my heart to pieces to hear about it.
I agree with you...Off topic but I LOVE guinea pigs! They are my favorite animal 😍.Your guinea pig is gorgeous 👌.,love and light from Norway 😘💕❤️
bullies are freaking protected by the schools and by God they know how to play the adults,they purposely get a good rep with school authority so when they get in trouble for bullying the teachers and so on will say "oh come on that can't be true" and the bully is sitting there secretly smiling,i found the only thing that worked for me unfortunately was slugging the absoloute hell out of them,i say unfortunately because I don't like hurting people,i once destroyed a kids nose in 3rd grade,blood went everywhere,i felt bad but at the same time in a strange way kinda vindicated even though he was seriously hurt.
i agree but they are not protected by god they wont go to heaven
Imagine if these bullies grow up to be criminals and get themselves arrested. Then they'll learn the hard way when they meet up with prisoners who were also bullies in the past (assuming IF they'll have committed crimes as adults), but then treat everyone else, including other former bullies, as their own personal punching bags.
Seriously, it seems like these bullies are psychopaths and society is not addressing that.
James is the loveliest, most adorable boy ever!!
Not to mention, teachers can also play into the problem by being bullies themselves. The sad truth is in anti-bullying campaigns, adults who bully are NEVER mentioned. It's always focused on the children, people forget that adult bullies play a detrimental role in a child's development.
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The parents talking about how crap "anti bullying" policies are, are spot on!!!! Schools do just end up blaming the victim and nothing is done to stop the behaviour. I told my child's school that she has been instructed to start hitting back and they will not be allowed to punish her for defending herself.
So heartbreaking. The local education authorities really need to step up their game with this. Everything with those departments is a constant battle. Poor kids. I totally empathize.
Abby your beautiful! I see jealousy is s reason that they're all the way they are. I hope your new school
Is better and remember that your amazing and your loved ❤️
i love ur docs
This needs to be shown in schools across the country.
Right
Made me remember my school years.
If Was the FATHER I would teach he or she how to fight.
Nice avatar🤙🏽
I love how it shows the bullies perspective
this boy called me pig face and I said "Oh, were you talking to yourself?"
Poor children... it is truly sad how people have to live with this.
Brings back memories 😢
I would love to be friends with an American person
I was the goofy friend walking down the school road with her (thank god for braces and puberty ha) . This was years ago tho we are now 27 not seen her in about 7 year x
The same here. 😊😊😊
I'd be friends with every kids
Bullies don't grow out of it, they just graduate to the RUclips comment section.
I'm still in resentment from the verbal abuse I've received and I start gaining satisfaction from distaining others
2:23 literally my mom wakes me up but I was trying to pretend that im asleep or my stomach aches. It hurts me so much cause I was a kind person but why people be so mean to me. 😢
same here i used to tell my mum i was in a coma when she tried o wake me up i hated school i used to scream
The worst thing is when adults do nothing or even play along like it's funny. Ultimate feeling of betrayal
interesting about the bully that now is being bullied...... imagine how those children felt ... karma...
thats right and i have to agree with karma due to teachers being useless
Exactly, to be honest I really don't feel sorry. She got what all bullies deserve. She should not be allowed to move school and should be made to go every day unless she really is sick.
I've been bullied since year 2 in primary school and now I'm 14 out of school, I have anxiety, depression and Asperger's syndrome so it made it harder for me to cope with school.
It will never change it will be like this for as long as we are here
I was bullied in 7th grade by this group of girls for months and months with one girl, Rose, the main one. They used to follow me home, surround me at my locker, etc. etc. Well one day I had enough and decided the night before that I was going to stand up for myself. When they surrounded me at my locker, I said, "OK Rose, just you and me, right now." Back then what I did was referred to as I "called her out." Anyway we walked outside and my legs were shaking I can tell you and the first thing she did was grab my hair and start whaling on me but I got in a few good punches before it was broken up by a teacher. After that they never bothered me again. Stand up for yourself and they will leave you alone'
Yes, it's been said that bullies aren't looking for a fight they're looking for victims.I hope these kids learn to stand up for themselves because these people never change.
I feel sorry for all the kids who were ever bullied.
I know how it feels to be bullied stay strong champ
Wow sooo sad for this beautiful teenage!!
My bully was
Julien Lesmerises
And he bullied me for a year straight
And the teachers just let it happen all because her excuse was "oh it's his medicine" or "do you have proof
And the teacher's name was Sister Gilchrist Cottrill at Ave Maria Prep in sarasota Florida on
verna road
And yes she is a nun but most likely an abusive nun, not to mention she has made false accusations and put her hands on the students as well so obviously I couldn't go to her, couldn't go to the school board because they didn't help at all, and I realized that no one was ever going to help me
And every day I was getting beaten up in class, the other nuns just stood there and watched the hull thing and never helped at all. I truly have thought of committing suicide because no one was going to help me
There just wasn't any hope for me
But I managed to graduate and went to college and graduated college and now I'm working 2 jobs
But the head nun sister gillchrist is now the director of the school now and believe it or not the school is still there.
I realized that I can't change them, however I just wish they would just stop to think about what is happening there...
God please. help them change...
Frank Matthews my bully is Alfie Cooper
"her excuse was "oh it's his medicine" Seriously? What sort of explanation is THAT? smh
Lizette Wanzer
My thoughts exactly
Lucy Arclord
I'm going to beat his ass
I was bullied from year 1 to year 6
James seems to be a dear boy, and Abbi, and Amber also seem smart and sweet, I honestly don't understand why some losers would pick on them without having solid reasons to do so. Like, one thing is joking around, being roasty with your pals sometimes, that's even healthy, but this harassment is just plain cruelty.
Please stay strong Amber. Take good care of yourself. This too shall pass. 💝💜
poor kids. the teachers ought to do more about these situations!
I remember a little bit of when I was bullied in lower school. My mom told me that the girl, who bullied me, practically terrorized me. In middle school, the two of us literally didn't speak to each other. In high school, we became decent friends. I found out through my mom that her home life, with her parents, was pretty unstable so that was probably why she bullied me (verbally). I think she just wanted a way to feel secure. I'm guessing she started living with her older sister around middle school and I'm positive that household was better than with her parents. My mom told me that she had only seen the girl's mom ONCE at the school. I think it was for something that the parents had to be there for and I guess she never showed up again after that one time. Basically, the parents were at fault. Her own sister was a better role model than her mother.
That is so sad to hear.
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Rebecca was so mature beyond her years. I hope she found some peace
I remember watching this before I started secondary school. Scared the absolute life out of me.
And yes, the bullying turned out to be horrible.
I feel so sad for these kids. Schools should do more to protect the victims and to stop the bullies from bullying other kids. I wish the victims could learn some kind of self defence so they can fight back.
Right ❤
I was bullied for 3 years and I never told anyone but my BEST friend and one time she tried to back me up then they started picking on her how small she was and then constantly it kept happening and It won't stop I tried to tell a teacher and they told them off but they carried on but worse than last time. Then I started to lose my friends my popularity and I thought I didn't need that so I screamed on top my lungs and my sister saw and she was popular and they were so confused so they stopped and me and my sister started picking on them and my sister knew the WHOLE time so I'm glad it stopped! Please help these kids that are being bullied! I hope you all have a wonderful day!
When I was 12, there was a group of three boys who'd constantly tried to feel me up. I didn't tell anyone BUT I thought and I thought about how I could get them to stop. I had a brilliant idea. I grew my fingernails long and when they were long enough, I waited. When one of the boys made a grab at me, I grabbed his arm at the wrist and with all my strength, dug my nails right into the soft part of his forearm, the soft skin underneath and scratched him deeply, from elbow down to wrist. I remember being ECSTATIC when I saw the red marks and blood start to ooze from each of the three lines my nails had made. hahaa He howled in pain and pulled away! None of them ever touched me again. Sometimes you have to solve your own problems.
On brighter side, these kids could send this documentary to the bullies future employers or social media accounts.
all the stories are the perfect recipe for a school shooting and its the bullied child that is pushed to that point, especially when its many against one .
Not if the kids have any respect and know that's never the answer but catching them alone and throwing down on them would be acceptable
Bullies are lowlifes. I had people try to bully me to death back in the 1980s. Im still here standing strong
Sorry to hear that. However, I can say for a certainty that today’s schools are much worse. Bullying is on a different level nowadays especially in the UK. I blame the government.
That role play where they teach them to talk back and practice talking back to the bullies would have really helped me in school
I know that feeling of being scared and not wanting to go to school anymore because you will know what will happen yet also asking yourself if they won't do anything today. I remember the bullies were on my table as a seating plan and my English wasent strong that time, one of the bullies would drag my exercise book reading my answers (which were incorrect) out loud for the whole table to hear, scribble on my work telling me it's all wrong and to write it again all the time. When it started snowing very bad in birmingham I was praying for the school to be closed and was always nervous on the way to school being then happy and relieved that it was closed due to weather. That's how bad it was being picked on
As one who was bullied my entire school career this breaks my heart. I never thought about suicide or even striking out at the bullies; I just wanted them to STOP! Now I see this issue has become MUCH worse than when I was in school. Back then there was no social media to keep the bullying going after the school day ends and, to my knowledge, kids weren't commuting suicide. This is beyond heart breaking and extremely disturbing.
these children are so beautiful. my heart hurts for them. may God heal their pains. I know how they feel. I went thru so much in school. kids can be evil.
I hated middle school, I was bullied a lot, and the worst part was this girl would pretend to be my friend, and then I was so insecure and wanted friends so badly that I’d believe her, and then she’d be rude again, that happened several times. I wish I knew that she was just being stupid and lying to me, but I was so naive that I fell for it every time!
People need to stop bullying, words can hurt a lot and really effect people, so please watch what you say and be nice to everyone!!!
Same, my friends would either turn on me or may they we’re never rly friends to begin with.
They would make fun of me.
My heart goes out to all theese kids
bullying will never stop