I hate how people are entitled to know everything about a person’s personal life, I wish people didn’t take it that far. Stay strong Tom, we’re here for you
I don’t understand some people. I wouldn’t even really ask my friends about stuff like this happening to them. Tom had to make a video because so many people he doesn’t really know kept asking. All it does is make the situation worse
@@carloscamejo391 It's more the parasocial relationships that social media platforms promote. Platforms like RUclips and Twitch thrive on this sense of relationship with the creator, but the problem is there is no real relationship there. People feel or act like they have a real relationship with the person their watching, but its not that kind of relationship, its a one way relationship and people don't seem to understand that while you might feel you have a close relationship with the person your watching, the person your watching doesn't know you, or if they do its not in the same way, and so folks tend to push this weird "I'm your friend" type attitude or entitlement, when you're really not.
I’m so sorry Tom. Good luck with your future and thank you for everything you’ve done for all of us throughout the quarantine. We have all loved the afc/nfc east saga and coach season 3. If you feel like you need a break, feel free to take one.
You helped distract me after my kid's mother left us after their birth. I have taken care of all 3 toddlers since birth. People dont know the battles we face. But acceptance comes with time. Take time for yourself Tom. No pressure. We'll all be here when you're ready.
Dang I didn't even notice that you weren't wearing the ring but I also don't intrude on people's personal life either. I'm sorry you are going through this. Divorces aren't easy and fans overreaching is not easy either. Your true fans are with you Tom!
I'd like to think most of us, who noticed the uh, well lack of ring, thought it was good idea to be quite about it. Hearing you so uncomfortable, as you said, sucks boss. Very sorry this is something you both are going through. I hope we can be a positive place like you've been for us. Take care of yourself Tom, you're needed and appreciated. Much love Grossi Posse family
Sorry you had issues with idiots invading your personal life. I appreciate you sharing with us but you should have ZERO OBLIGATION to discuss anything with us involving your personal life. Share what you feel comfortable sharing and hopefully people can respect the rest is private. Unfortunately the internet sucks. Appreciate you both, thanks for the entertainment.
While I wish people would just not try to pry into every aspect of someone's life, what you did is admirable and courageous. No matter what trials and tribulations you are going through, we'll always be here to support you.
I’m relatively new among the Grossi Posse, and was watching the 30 in 30 from Indianapolis. You talking about your shirt led me to watch this. So many people cherish you, and it’s understandable that people want to know more about you. It’s not understandable that others have spread false rumors and been so unkind. You seem like a man with a really good heart, and it shows in this video and so many others you do. I hope time has been a healer for you and for Jade. So many people care about, respect, and appreciate you. I am one of them. Don’t let the jerks get you down. One last thing-I am a born and raised in Wisconsin lifelong Packer fan. Like you did, I teach young people-I teach at a small public university in western Maine. You have the passion, heart and enthusiasm that great teachers have. Now you have an ever broader appreciative audience for your talents. Go, Pack, Go.
Thank you for sharing Tom. As a fan base we all appreciate who you are and how you decide to tell us important things like this. We're all here for you with whatever you need. Keep on being you ❤
Imagine taking your time to mess with a man who’s going through something hard, sorry to hear about your situation Tom. The grossipossi will always be here with you❤️
I'm sorry that the internet has forced you to make something so private now public. Now to make you chuckle, at least Rodgers isn't leaving you too. (laughing helps me cope with tough things mentally)
Tom, we love and support your decision wholeheartedly and we both know that you will find someone else that makes you as happy as you deserve (not that she didn't)
You’re a good guy Tom. If there is ever a time where you need a mental day and not put anything up, don’t force content. Health comes first. I understand with struggling with mental health and staying focus and positive is not always easy. I remember years ago, things happened and I thought I would be unable to feel right again but six years later I feel a whole lot better than that day. Patience is key and sometimes it’ll be longer than others. U do what makes you happy and it shows progress
Going through something similar so best of luck with your healing and commiserations. I hope you don't feel the need to explain yourself in future! (And I'm a Viking's fan!) Take care Tom and congrats on going full time. Your content has done so much to cheer me up so thank you for that.
What just happened here is that a human being was pressured by trolls to release information about his personal life to quell their curiosity. That’s just not right, it’s just wrong. I support you Tom and while this has been a big month (both good and bad), through it all I always will support you. Tommunism Forever
I'm a very late comer to your channel, just started watching this year. Been going through old episodes, and strangely, this pops up high on the search terms. Boy, this feels personal, and I get it. Got married in '06, divorced in '14. I found solace in having a lot of talks with folks I knew and loved who had been through divorce and came through on the other side. Small piece of free advice: Keep dealing with the pain and trauma of loss as soon as possible. Face it, find help, work through it. And if you ever get in the dating pool again, be 100% honest about everything from the jump. Be well. You've got a good soul, and you've got a great heart. It comes through in your work. And go Lions. ;-)
And now you're Fan of The Year!!! Look at you now bro!! Get 'em Get 'em my friend! Sky is the limit for you!! This came up in my timeline and I am glad I watched because I just want to say how fricken frackin PROUD I am of you Tom.
Damn Tom. I'm so sorry. The fact that you where still putting up great content whilst going threw all this shows your dedication to your fans. We will always stick with you and support you no matter what happens. Those are not real fans who harassed you and they don't represent your fanbase. We will all continue to support you on everything you do Tom.
really glad you speak out about mental health. its just amazing how you can take something so personal that impacts you so negatively and make the best out of it. appreciate the hell out of you and your commitment to making the world a better place. like a lot of the other comments already said, we respect your privacy and your really fans will continue to do so. everybody is going thru bad times eventually, but you got 202.000 people behind you that support you! don't ever forget that
Love your channel and appreciate you being so candid I know it wasn't easy. I've been through a similar situation and just trust in you'll both be ok. God speed.
Sorry for you Tom, I got a similar “Thomas” so we Toms got to stick together, all the love in the world for you Tom, and most of us here love you to bits, you know you’re an amazing person, you make our days and I don’t know how to repay you.
going through the same thing Tom and you have my total support Hang in there it will get better. As far as the public that probably won't, i have been in media for years and public boldness and demands seem to only increase. Some say it's the price of fame but I think social media has made alot of people absolutely oblivious to personal barriers and that is truly saddening. I'll help anyway I can and I love your channel and all you do. Go Bills!! Lol sorry not a Packers fan.
Thank you for sharing so much of yourself and for doing so much for the community. You're an awesome talent and more importantly such a good person. Proud to be a member of this awesome group.
That sucks that you're going through this. It's never easy. But you two are still friends. That's super important. You didn't have to say all this, but ah man. I hope you are able to find some piece of mind on your time. Mental health is super important. Way to go for using your clout to do something good. Take care.
Hang in there Tom, we all have your back. It seemed like it pained you to make this video but thank you for keeping all of us in the loop. We will all respect your privacy and will all continue to be here for you as a fan base. We love you man, go pack go
Hey , all the very best wishes from here in England my friend . My best wishes to both of you for the future, I am sure you came to this tough decision for the best reasons in the long term ,, If you ever need someone to talk to let me know , even if its just for my British sense of humour and sarcasm. And all said and done, at least you are not a Bears fan. Not sure if you knew or not but the Bears suck .. All the best
I always wanted to ask how things were going, but then I realized that its none of my business how she was doing in the first place coupled on with the fact that I had a feeling something was up.
so sorry for what you are going through. you are a such a kind caring funny and loving person. wishing you and jade nothing but the success in your personal and shared lives. stay strong friend. you are loved
This took a lot of courage. Respect man, I’m very sorry for your troubles. Don’t listen to the ugly trolls. We support you even if you aren’t a bills fan. You’re a good dude, very creative, and will catch your stride once again I’m sure.
Dear Mathew -- What a beautiful and heartfelt post for Tom. We've all had our hearts kicked in at some point, and your words are a comfort for us all. All the best to you, Mathew, from a jazzy 70-year-old lady in Albuquerque -- with deep roots in northern Wisconsin.
Having gone through a divorce, it is not fun but full of second-guessing and sorrow. But coming out on the other side, I have become much stronger for the experience. I applaud you for helping the fans of your channel to understand the situation as Jade was such a strong part of your programming and you care enough about the fans to let us into your personal life. Keep up the wonderful work with the channel and take your time in dealing with the divorce. Everyone takes a different amount of time and the worst thing you can do is rush it. I wish you the very best as you try to deal with this very personal matter and will hope and pray that you stay positive and eventually find peace and happiness again.
Thanks for sharing Tom, I'm a widower and know first hand how invasive others can become in what is personal to you. Best of luck to both Jade and you in what must be very difficult.
Fuck dude, this sucks. Puts the difficulty of your decision to quit teaching even more into context. Massive respect for you to manage to not let this really slip. My prayers are with you in this time
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I hate how people are entitled to know everything about a person’s personal life, I wish people didn’t take it that far. Stay strong Tom, we’re here for you
I don’t understand some people. I wouldn’t even really ask my friends about stuff like this happening to them. Tom had to make a video because so many people he doesn’t really know kept asking. All it does is make the situation worse
@@carloscamejo391 It's more the parasocial relationships that social media platforms promote. Platforms like RUclips and Twitch thrive on this sense of relationship with the creator, but the problem is there is no real relationship there. People feel or act like they have a real relationship with the person their watching, but its not that kind of relationship, its a one way relationship and people don't seem to understand that while you might feel you have a close relationship with the person your watching, the person your watching doesn't know you, or if they do its not in the same way, and so folks tend to push this weird "I'm your friend" type attitude or entitlement, when you're really not.
Exactly Let ppl think for themselves
We all support u Tom and we will never stop watching you all love
So sorry to hear that Tom. We are here for you and stay strong man
Hey tom we support you all the way. Sad to hear that this is happening
I’m so sorry Tom. Good luck with your future and thank you for everything you’ve done for all of us throughout the quarantine. We have all loved the afc/nfc east saga and coach season 3. If you feel like you need a break, feel free to take one.
Just worried about his financial situation if he decides to do so
The Bills Mafia has your back, Tom. We're all here for you!
and Fins Nation, and all other nations and mafias in the NFL.
And the niner nation
Lions nation got you dude.🦁
Add the WHO DAT Nation to this list as well! ⚜⚜⚜⚜
Giants Nation supports Tom as well!
Sorry Tom, I hope things continue look up for you and Jade
You helped distract me after my kid's mother left us after their birth. I have taken care of all 3 toddlers since birth. People dont know the battles we face. But acceptance comes with time. Take time for yourself Tom. No pressure. We'll all be here when you're ready.
Dang I didn't even notice that you weren't wearing the ring but I also don't intrude on people's personal life either. I'm sorry you are going through this. Divorces aren't easy and fans overreaching is not easy either. Your true fans are with you Tom!
I'd like to think most of us, who noticed the uh, well lack of ring, thought it was good idea to be quite about it.
Hearing you so uncomfortable, as you said, sucks boss. Very sorry this is something you both are going through. I hope we can be a positive place like you've been for us. Take care of yourself Tom, you're needed and appreciated.
Much love Grossi Posse family
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We all will support you through all of this Tom!❤️
Sorry you had issues with idiots invading your personal life. I appreciate you sharing with us but you should have ZERO OBLIGATION to discuss anything with us involving your personal life. Share what you feel comfortable sharing and hopefully people can respect the rest is private. Unfortunately the internet sucks.
Appreciate you both, thanks for the entertainment.
We are Here for you tom 🙏🏾
While I wish people would just not try to pry into every aspect of someone's life, what you did is admirable and courageous. No matter what trials and tribulations you are going through, we'll always be here to support you.
We're all here for you Tom, Stay Strong
I’m sorry to hear this us as fans will be on your side. Take as much time off as you need. I hope nothing but the better for you Tom. ❤️
The real fans have your back Tom! Don’t listen to the hate
We love you tom. Stay Strong!!!
We Love You Tom Nomatter The Situation!!!
Big friendly hug from a UK Packers fan, Tom. All the best to you, and to Jade.
I’m relatively new among the Grossi Posse, and was watching the 30 in 30 from Indianapolis. You talking about your shirt led me to watch this. So many people cherish you, and it’s understandable that people want to know more about you. It’s not understandable that others have spread false rumors and been so unkind. You seem like a man with a really good heart, and it shows in this video and so many others you do. I hope time has been a healer for you and for Jade. So many people care about, respect, and appreciate you. I am one of them. Don’t let the jerks get you down.
One last thing-I am a born and raised in Wisconsin lifelong Packer fan. Like you did, I teach young people-I teach at a small public university in western Maine. You have the passion, heart and enthusiasm that great teachers have. Now you have an ever broader appreciative audience for your talents.
Go, Pack, Go.
You can see he's trying not to cry 😢
We will always support u no matter what. Still my favorite Packers fan.
- bears fan
Thank you for sharing Tom. As a fan base we all appreciate who you are and how you decide to tell us important things like this. We're all here for you with whatever you need. Keep on being you ❤
Imagine taking your time to mess with a man who’s going through something hard, sorry to hear about your situation Tom. The grossipossi will always be here with you❤️
I'm sorry that the internet has forced you to make something so private now public.
Now to make you chuckle, at least Rodgers isn't leaving you too. (laughing helps me cope with tough things mentally)
@Galateia... We're all chuckling & thank you for a great comment.
Stay strong Tom, we got your back!! All the way!! Love from Switzerland🇨🇭
We got your back Tom and we all love you dearly. GROSSI POSSIE FOREVER
Tom, we love and support your decision wholeheartedly and we both know that you will find someone else that makes you as happy as you deserve (not that she didn't)
You’re a good guy Tom. If there is ever a time where you need a mental day and not put anything up, don’t force content. Health comes first. I understand with struggling with mental health and staying focus and positive is not always easy. I remember years ago, things happened and I thought I would be unable to feel right again but six years later I feel a whole lot better than that day. Patience is key and sometimes it’ll be longer than others. U do what makes you happy and it shows progress
Going through something similar so best of luck with your healing and commiserations. I hope you don't feel the need to explain yourself in future! (And I'm a Viking's fan!) Take care Tom and congrats on going full time. Your content has done so much to cheer me up so thank you for that.
We love you Tom. Keep doing what you’re doing. Best wishes in all you do and that you find peace and comfort in this difficult time
What just happened here is that a human being was pressured by trolls to release information about his personal life to quell their curiosity. That’s just not right, it’s just wrong. I support you Tom and while this has been a big month (both good and bad), through it all I always will support you. Tommunism Forever
These trolls need to have the ban-hammer applied upside their damn heads! I hope they all get a visit from our good friend KARMA!
Watching this just makes want to give Tom a big hug, cause he definitely needs it.
We got your back Tom. Hope everything is going ok and I wish you the best
All of us will have your back, stay strong
I'm a very late comer to your channel, just started watching this year. Been going through old episodes, and strangely, this pops up high on the search terms.
Boy, this feels personal, and I get it. Got married in '06, divorced in '14. I found solace in having a lot of talks with folks I knew and loved who had been through divorce and came through on the other side.
Small piece of free advice: Keep dealing with the pain and trauma of loss as soon as possible. Face it, find help, work through it.
And if you ever get in the dating pool again, be 100% honest about everything from the jump.
Be well. You've got a good soul, and you've got a great heart. It comes through in your work.
And go Lions. ;-)
And now you're Fan of The Year!!! Look at you now bro!! Get 'em Get 'em my friend! Sky is the limit for you!! This came up in my timeline and I am glad I watched because I just want to say how fricken frackin PROUD I am of you Tom.
Seeing just how uncomfortable Tom looks here is heartbreaking as he has to talk about his divorce before he felt truly ready to. Curiosity is a bitch.
Me the 12th man Seahawks fan will support you and your channel. 💙💚💙 Take care Tom
And 2 years later he's now wearing that shirt in triumph
So inspirational
Take care of yourself and if you need time off we're not going anywhere. Much love and respect to you Tom
Love you Grossi. Stay strong, take time for yourself if needed. We will be here to support you
I feel for you Tom, you have a lot of people that care about you. Keep your head up brother. My prayers go out to you.
I noticed the ring and realized it, but I didn’t wanna ask since it’s not my business. I can see you are hurt stay strong my man you got this.
Sorry you have to go through this Tom it’s very tough but as a community we will always have your back
You always got us Tom, stay strong
we're here for u tom. take ur time with this and take breaks if u need to. we're here for u day in and day out.
Damn Tom. I'm so sorry. The fact that you where still putting up great content whilst going threw all this shows your dedication to your fans. We will always stick with you and support you no matter what happens. Those are not real fans who harassed you and they don't represent your fanbase. We will all continue to support you on everything you do Tom.
Much respect to you tom im sorry what happened but have a blessed day and much love.
I'm sorry about those who have hurt you. Will support you all the way
really glad you speak out about mental health. its just amazing how you can take something so personal that impacts you so negatively and make the best out of it. appreciate the hell out of you and your commitment to making the world a better place.
like a lot of the other comments already said, we respect your privacy and your really fans will continue to do so. everybody is going thru bad times eventually, but you got 202.000 people behind you that support you! don't ever forget that
We always support you tom, i hope things things begin to look up for you and i hope you know we are always here for you
Love your channel and appreciate you being so candid I know it wasn't easy. I've been through a similar situation and just trust in you'll both be ok. God speed.
Sorry for you Tom, I got a similar “Thomas” so we Toms got to stick together, all the love in the world for you Tom, and most of us here love you to bits, you know you’re an amazing person, you make our days and I don’t know how to repay you.
One year later, I think you’re doing a great job Tom!!! Keep it up!
Glad you guys still friends that bond can never be broke
going through the same thing Tom and you have my total support Hang in there it will get better. As far as the public that probably won't, i have been in media for years and public boldness and demands seem to only increase. Some say it's the price of fame but I think social media has made alot of people absolutely oblivious to personal barriers and that is truly saddening. I'll help anyway I can and I love your channel and all you do. Go Bills!! Lol sorry not a Packers fan.
Thank you for sharing so much of yourself and for doing so much for the community. You're an awesome talent and more importantly such a good person. Proud to be a member of this awesome group.
I’m really sorry about the situation and I hope things work out in the end.
Sorry to hear about you and jade but you have our full support and good on u for doing the fundraisers GO PACK GO
Tom, please accept my love and support, you’ve got this pal.
Sending you positive thoughts. Great idea doing a fundraiser💕💕
We love you Tom 💜 Sending you love and good vibes 🙏💕
Name of the character in your pfp?
Sorry to hear that Tom will always be here for you
That sucks that you're going through this. It's never easy. But you two are still friends. That's super important. You didn't have to say all this, but ah man. I hope you are able to find some piece of mind on your time. Mental health is super important. Way to go for using your clout to do something good. Take care.
Tom, we are with you all the way. Supporting you in this time and going forward. :)
Hey Tom I had no clue this was going on but still i support you till the end.
Love you Tom. Keep up the great work brother. Wish you the best
Absolutely sucks to hear that all that’s been going on, we have your back and absolutely love the videos and are here to provide support in any way.
All the love and support going your way man! Don’t feel the need to share more than your comfortable with.
we love you and are here for you no matter what ❤️
All the love that can be givin Tom! Grossiposse strong for you thanks for everything Tom!
Hang in there Tom, we all have your back. It seemed like it pained you to make this video but thank you for keeping all of us in the loop. We will all respect your privacy and will all continue to be here for you as a fan base. We love you man, go pack go
That broke my heart… sorry Tom hope all is well
Can't begin to imagine what you've been going through but I'm sure I speak for everyone when I say we're all here for you. #GrossiPosseForLife
Sorry to hear that buddy. I hope things get better for you.
He’s holding back so much pain
Hey , all the very best wishes from here in England my friend . My best wishes to both of you for the future, I am sure you came to this tough decision for the best reasons in the long term ,, If you ever need someone to talk to let me know , even if its just for my British sense of humour and sarcasm. And all said and done, at least you are not a Bears fan. Not sure if you knew or not but the Bears suck .. All the best
Tom, Josh Allen and the Bills Mafia fully support you
Some people are horrible though 😒
Better days are coming Tom
I know you'll get through this Tom, stay strong my man.
The GrossiPossi will always be with and part of you Tom.
You don't have to explain your personal life to your true supporters
Stay strong Don't listen to the trolls
We love you man
Go pack go
Love you tom hope this goes as well as possible. Love your content and wish you nothing but the best!
I always wanted to ask how things were going, but then I realized that its none of my business how she was doing in the first place coupled on with the fact that I had a feeling something was up.
Wishing the best for you Tom. Much love from Chargers fans ⚡🙏
so sorry for what you are going through. you are a such a kind caring funny and loving person. wishing you and jade nothing but the success in your personal and shared lives. stay strong friend. you are loved
This took a lot of courage. Respect man, I’m very sorry for your troubles. Don’t listen to the ugly trolls. We support you even if you aren’t a bills fan. You’re a good dude, very creative, and will catch your stride once again I’m sure.
Dear Mathew -- What a beautiful and heartfelt post for Tom. We've all had our hearts kicked in at some point, and your words are a comfort for us all. All the best to you, Mathew, from a jazzy 70-year-old lady in Albuquerque -- with deep roots in northern Wisconsin.
Wishing you well Tom! Hope you get through this.
We've got you Tom, you'll get through this
Love and support, man
That sucks so much. We're all here for you Please stay strong.
Having gone through a divorce, it is not fun but full of second-guessing and sorrow. But coming out on the other side, I have become much stronger for the experience. I applaud you for helping the fans of your channel to understand the situation as Jade was such a strong part of your programming and you care enough about the fans to let us into your personal life. Keep up the wonderful work with the channel and take your time in dealing with the divorce. Everyone takes a different amount of time and the worst thing you can do is rush it. I wish you the very best as you try to deal with this very personal matter and will hope and pray that you stay positive and eventually find peace and happiness again.
Thanks for sharing Tom, I'm a widower and know first hand how invasive others can become in what is personal to you. Best of luck to both Jade and you in what must be very difficult.
We’ve got your back Tom. Stay strong!
We wish you all the best. If you need anything even just a person to listen and not judge I'm here and we are here. We love you Tom
So sorry to hear about that Tom. Always loved you and Jade and I wish you both success in the future. You’ve always got a fan in me
I know this is very old now. But I just wanted to say I'm incredibly sorry to hear about this. I hope the best for both of you.
Fuck dude, this sucks. Puts the difficulty of your decision to quit teaching even more into context. Massive respect for you to manage to not let this really slip. My prayers are with you in this time