He is equally thoughtful and considerate towards his son as well. His body language towards his boy is that of care and love. He's a super affectionate person. He just wants his son to grow up into a strong and a dynamic man. Dads in past used to treat their kids the same way too, did their children loathe them? Certainly not. They would do this just to let their kids know that the World we live in is not a bed of roses. Plus the way this guy looked at his lad at the time of arrival to make sure whether he has entered the room or not and he also asked some people for advices despite being in a foreign country is a living proof of the love he has for his kids.
For people saying he is a bad parent, let me tell you no father is perfect, or look at your first before talk. He is trying his best, he was talking with the other parents how to be a good father, he doesnt have a full advice since his dad is not there and now living in a foreign country is harder to ask for real advices. He is trying his best and also he is always paying attention to his kids and doing home shores, a lot of dads wont even know the subjects their kids are taking. Plus he said he wants to be a good parent because it will also heal him, he is aware that he has a problem and he really wants to fix it. I congratulated you because being in a foreing country is hard and more being a dad , Desde méxico , gracias 🇲🇽
Let me say you have a lot of real empathy here. But most of the people in the comment section don't even bother to comprehend what does the word means, they just go for the easy way of critizicing and judging him as if they were capable of parenting perfectly at 100%. You have a great human ability to put yourself in other people's shoes and imagine what they're going through in that situation.
Not necessarily. The father means well and he cares for his son. He's just very hands-on about it. I think It will give the son a good foundation to be a responsible adult in the future. but I do agree he shouldn't be too aggressive and Burden the son too much.
I agree with you. This is the standard of Mexico's fathers, men who believe toughen up is number one priority and stern behavior are over any emotional development and understaning..
are you a soy boy.. he is a good father .. look at the state in the west were men are looking weak and act nothing close to what a man is. if your father was not this caring then you are missing out.. his son will be great in the future.
@@KaminoTenshiGel Yeah no. I think your just being very judgemental about the guy. He is just trying to show that he cares about his son. Do you know the scene where he stops his son from drawing and tells him to listen? That just shows that he is a good father.
I guarantee, if he would have fully understood korean properly, he would definitely cry hearing the letter his father in law wrote for him. .. That was so deep & touching that it can even make me cry just by understanding from the subtitles...😔
He is actually very normal for a mexican father......... he just needs someone too REALLY TALK TO about his parenting problem,i hope he learns from the comments
Daniel is definitely a caring father, but in some ways he has to think more clearly and healthier so that the children do not suffer any mental damage later on. I think he puts too high demands on himself (pain processing of his childhood - the lack of love and affection from his father) - so he wants to do everything perfect as a father. To feel confirmed in his father's role, the son has to follow him ...... The worst thing about parenting is playing the kids against each other and making comparisons. Thus, no trust, no love and no emotional bond between the siblings and the parents arise - if you feel unloved, not accepted, worthless in a family, you distance yourself in the adult life, because some scars never heal . Children should not be the recipients of frustrations, failures and anger of adults. The task of parents is to provide their children with security, affection, education, physical and emotional care and not to impose obligations on children !!!
What a beautiful family. I really enjoyed this episode out of the many that I have seen so far. Daniel is a kind and loving father to his children and the bonding with his parents in law is something special.
He is so obviously biased towards his daughter, it's really detrimental to both his children on the long run.. People who were rejected by one of their parents can unconsciously transfer their grief on their children of the same sex and I'm sure he doesn't have bad intentions but his son will be hurt in the process and his daughter might pick up bad habits as well :/ Also, his "raise men harder because they are men and they will have more responsabilities than women" in this day and age.....
Paul Idson wrong! That’s why he needs understanding parents that show him unconditional love and support. You can love a child and still educate it. He seemed sad that everyone says his father was American, not Mexican. Hope at least the mother gives him attention and love and not only asking her husband to be more affectionate. And yes, he is showing some unusual signs in his behavior. He seems always distracted (at the beginning he is looking at the microphone (?), in school he is drawing and when they read the letter he was playing). It could be that he has a problem with hearing or processing things. I think its rather that he cant concentrate. But of course we cant judge from this short video. But it’s the parents job to help him, go to a doctor/ psychologist. He’s a kid after all, it’s not the kids fault.
@Paul Idson Maybe he is hyperactive and needs psychological attention or even psychiatric treatment. But I completely agree on what you say about raising a generation of men-children like Peter Pan. As a spanish youtuber Psicovlogs says (he's also psychologist): the first mistake of this generation of snowflakes is that parents teach us that "we are all special" so when we face the real world and we realize that we are maybe unique but not special, that we are like everyone else, we sink into depression or social phobias. People these days thinks showing unconditional love and support is let the children do everything they want for not causing traumas, nowadays teaching duties and obligations is against good parenting, we have to be butlers from our children to be politically correct.
shut up.. men are men.. they need to be tought different from women coz they are. plus in the east manly hood is highly valued not as the west. were men are bunch of soyboys lol
Mi papá siempre me decia que yo no podia tener novio hasta los 40 años😂😂😂 y ahora que tengo 23 años me dice que cuando voy a tener novio, que tenga muchos novios pero que me cuide😂😂😂
Today (24th July), the 197 episode was broadcast and there is still no upload. A pity, as an international viewer like many of you, I find this program very worth seeing and informative, hope that it will be back soon .....
Daniel seems like a really innocent guy. However, i disagree with differential upbringing method for his son and daughter. p.s - I was glad to hear the BGM by Busker Busker. Guess 'Cherry Blossom Ending' is a must song in S Korea during Spring. I love their songs.
DAMN! I am always happy to see a latino/Mexican guest on the show but this one made me mad & sad about the poor boy. I know his upbringing did not favor him but that is definitely the typical "macho way" of raising kids. I hope he changes for the wellbeing of those beautiful kids.
@@silviareynoso1835 bueno creo que también tiene que ver la edad y la época en que él creció y súmale que no tuvo papá durante esas difíciles etapas, eso lo hizo así y se ve claro. Hoy en día yo no he visto casi padres machistas, y los que conozco son personas ya mayores y así.
@@queen041 eso si, pero pues al final estamos hablando de él en particular... Que está denotando una ideología tóxica en una televisora extranjera en donde los mismos conductores se dan cuenta de eso y se lo hacen notar, su misma esposa le ha dicho...
Maybe he's not the perfect father yet, but he's clearly a good man and he has the capacity to become a great father one day. But that is not a plain target, is a path full with ups and downs.
No existe el padre perfecto o informado, solo se ve una perspectiva en este video y es que Aston tiene hiperactividad, se soluciona fácilmente tenerlo en deportes, mientras come que este sentado encima de una pelota y así, mantenerlo entretenido.
The only sane father is the father-in-law. He sounded surprisingly progressive, telling his daughter to fully enjoy her life before getting married and settling down. And she didn’t listen lol. Daniel’s backward views and his hippocritical stance on his own daughter’s future dating life make me cringe. If he’s lucky his son won’t resent him in later years.
I know its hard to comprehend his old fashioned way but it is very common in Mexico for fathers and kids to have a more progressive relationship when they are older. That energy of “resentment” that grows in young boys usually fades with sports or other hobbies. It just that Mexicans have a lot of passion and fell so deep that love and hate are usually the same coin and it is not view as a bad thing just like a phase. As for the daughter's future significant other is just an act. Macho father the way he practices it (caring about family, saying I love you, providing) it's like a endurance test to find a good man. Save your cringes, if he really would act on what he says he wouldn't care a all.
Zazil A. Gaytan Nah, sounds like a whole bunch of apologies to me. The current state of Mexico is all you need to look at to see how well that works out. There’s really no need to export that behavior. Hard cringe.
@@zazila.gaytan1911 not because is common is ok. It fucking sucks. And I'm so grateful my parents were not like that it all. Mexico's social situation is part because of this fucking macho way of thinking.
I feel so sorry for his son... Daniel is transferring unconsciously the reject he felt during his childhood to his own son. Also in his speech, it feels very misogyny towards his daughter. He still hurt because of his past and should solve this situation before their child starts having the same behavior.
Ok, Daniel es un buen padre, no es un mal hombre pero si, se nota mucho la diferencia de trato que le da a sus hijos y él mismo lo dice, espero los trate de igual manera a ambos 😊
OMG, I truly disliked Danilel for treating their children in that way, making such big differences. That will cause on them lots of psicological issues if they're not adressed as soon as possible.That issue will affect both greatly.He's treating he's son that way because of his own issues with his absent father. Aston is not a troublemaker, his behaviour is because he's trying to receive different kind of attention towards him, his trying to get attention in the only way he knows he could get it.
I do understand the father. Looking at his past experiences in life, he's probably scared that his son will make the same mistakes his father did or other men he knows. We shouldn't forget that culture also plays a role in raising children. He's doing the best he can. I'm just glad to see a father being involved in raising his children, most of the times all burdens fall on the shoulders of the mother.
Y es muy probable que su hijo sea muy tímido por eso, por su tipo de crianza, al final este tipo tiene que ver lo que de verdad beneficia a su hijo No creo que cambie su manera de ser, mi padre nunca cambio, es de verdad una pena Pero hay que crecer con estos ambientes machistas muchas veces, y te dejan problemas psicológicos, secuelas que no vas a olvidar. Hasta cosas peores, en mi etapa más difícil, cuando tenía 12 Odiaba a mi padre, luego simplemente lo ignoraba y ahora tengo 18, no voy a negar que le tengo rencor pero le sigo queriendo
The boy is talented>> this kind of kids are always geniuses ( it's very clear that he is an ADHD child) , but they need more understanding parents, as they do things their own way & they don't mean to be disrespectful,, actually obedient & calm kids are considered normal. This boy needs his dad to forget about how he was raised & need to go to a consultant to understand his boy more Also, it's so wrong to compare children to each other in front of them... even the girl is being raised by making her scare losing the Christmas gift,,, very very old fashioned way I'm not saying he's an evil dad, but he's so old fashioned & not aware of the new issues about kids nowadays
Yesssss! Was looking for an ADHD comment. ADHD kids need another style of parenting than this… Aston might start feeling like the odd one out and very misunderstood if this keeps going on. Having ADHD does not make someone a trouble child but rather these children learn and function in a different way than what most people are used to.
Here you see the old fashioned mentality of Mexican parents. Thanks God my dad was nothing like this. He didn't think I was different cuz I was a girl. Even though he was never good when showing hid emotions he educated me to be capable and never let a man treat me like less. In my opinion his way of thinking sucks. This mentality is what is bringing so much violence and shit to my country. I love my culture and my country. But honestly I hate this aspect of it.
En que momento la esta enseñando a que se deje tratar despectivamente a su hija?...si escuchaste la parte donde dijo que a las mujeres hay que tratarlas bien o solo la parte de que hay que ser mas estricto con los varones? Creo que actualmente la mayoria de los padres de ambos sexos se estan volviendo demasiado suaves con los hijos, estamos criando puros copitos de nieve hipersensibles ante cualquier muestra de disciplina. En primer lugar si alguien educa hijos machistas son las madres mexicanas porque la mayoria de las veces los padres estan ausentes.
@@Nina_InXs Creo que no concuerdo. El le va a dar a su idea la imagen de que las mujeres son más débiles y delicadas y ese tipo de estereotipos equivocados. Si vas a ser un padre estricto es con ambos. No con solo uno. Si vas a llenar de besos a es a ambos. Si vas a ser tierno y la mamada es con ambos. Eso es lo correcto. Todos coludos o todos rabones. El hombre necesita el mismo nivel de amor, tolerancia y cariño qué su hermana. Y la niña necesita el mismo nivel de exigencia qué el hermano. Esta es la misma educación qué ha creado mujeres sumisas y hombre macho durante tantas décadas en nuestro país. La equidad de género no tiene nada que ver con la inteligencia emocional de un individuo. Si en todo caso el síntoma snowflake es debido a una falta seguridad y educación emocional.
@@Nina_InXs con respeto a quien educa a los macho si las mujeres mexicanas de generaciones pasadas también tienen gran culpa. Pero solo es por lo aprendido. Mientras a los niños no se les crié con equidad eso seguirá pasando. Mientras no haya una apertura emocional de nuestra cultura también y se elimine el machismo para la salud mental y emocional de los hombres, todo seguirá igual.
Ay no había visto que eres army, olvidarlo eso anula la posibilidad de una conversación o argumento serio contigo. Además queda claro el tipo de masculinidad que te gusta y apoyas. Ya se como son de tercas con todo, adiós.
@@Nina_InXs wow el nivel de prejuicios. Yo pensé que estaba teniendo una conversación interesante pero ya me di cuenta del nivel de persona pedante. Por eso el pais esta como esta por que la gente no es tolerante a lo diferente y les gusta tener la mentalidad de pueblo. Es evidente la falta de seguridad fuera de la zona de confort. Pd: Y no se si realmente puedas hacer tantas predisposiciónes desde un solo hecho acerca de mi. Jajaja soy más que la música que oigo. Pero pues x en la vida siempre habra generalizaciónes por parte de gente ignorante.
KBS WORLD TV why you don't post the newer episodes(starting from episode 190 and above) with eng sub anymore?? I found newer episodes online but they don't have eng sub. T~T
The comments made it sound like he was the worst father ever. He is just being a typical Mexican father. It isn't necessarily better or worse, it is just a different style of parenting. Like, there are 130 million mexicans around the world, just because some people have different ways of living doesn't make all the Mexican parents mean or evil or all the Mexican kids damaged. There is no perfect parenting, you learn as kids grow, and you make mistakes and learn from them and he seems eager to learn and be the best father he can be for his kids. Besides, Dads tend to grow closer to daughters and Moms to sons, that's why the expressions Daddy's Girl and Mother's Boy are so popular. He just needs to listen to both of his kids and bend his beliefs just a bit in order to adapt to what they need.
No manches todos en los comentarios diciendo que no le muestra suficiente cariño a su hijo cuando, comparado al estándar del papá mexicano, en realidad no es que digas tú un asco de padre.... los estándares en México son muy bajos al parecer :vvvv
Al menos es un padre presente ,si es muy machista pero quizas quiere que si hijo sea "fuerte" por temas de bullyng , la mitad de los papas mexicanos son ausentes...
As someone said in another comment what Daniels says about not lleting her have a bf until 30's is just an act. Everybody is overreacting to his words...Not cute, truly scary is the perfect description for your video scaring your mom... what woud you think if I say your mom is abusive because she's calling you "Pinche pendeja"? Don't you think it would be too much from a stranger who doesn't not know your family? Or even ignorant if I don't know the mexican culture enough to comprehend that is a very common reaction from mexican moms calling bads name to their children. If USA social services would come to Mexico surely 80% of mexican moms would be in jail for child abuse with all their chanclas.
His mentality is a bit backwards but he's not a bad parent! He should listen to the advice about treating Aston a bit better. There were cute moments with Aston like when he told him that he doesn't have to be the best but he only wanted him to listen to his teachers
Como mexicana no estoy de acuerdo con ese trato diferente que tiene entre sus dos hijos, mi padre jamás fue así con nosotros y crecimos bien. Desgraciadamente si existe esa cultura machista en México pero no quiere decir que el debería ser igual.
Creo que el hecho recide en que tu padre estuvo ahí y el de él no. Por lo que si lo crió su mamá seguro le tocó el papel del "hombre" de la casa, esta tratándolo como lo trataron a él.
@@j.l6882 comparto tu opinión sin embargo la educación de "macho" que el menciona no es necesariamente una consecuencia de la falta de una figura paterna en la familia pero tienes razón tal vez ese fue su caso. Simplemente me limito a decir que no es una excusa para tener esa diferencia de trato entre sus hijos. :)
@@graygris8135 Quiza no es una excusa para ti que tuviste la fortuna de tener una familia "estandar" completa. Es muy fácil decir que son excusas, cuando no conoces lo que significa la ausencia paterna, es dificil que comprenda los roles que uno tiene que tomar en la familia ya sea como hija o hijo, es diferente en cada caso y si juega un papel muy importante en como desarrolla uno la relación con los hijos propios después. Para ser hijo de un padre que lo abandonó esta tomando su responsabilidad con toda la seriedad y el compromiso que su padre no tuvo con él, y mejor aún se muestra con la disposición de aprender, de pedir consejo.
Such a cute family!! But i really do hope the father will treat his son as a kid before seeing him as a man lol ... i have a twin sister our father does everything for us but i always felt the 1% care more for her not even love but care! So imagine aston situation were the father does treat them differently
I don't get the over sensitivity of how Koreans perceive the dad's attitude with his son...he is not mean or too strict or abusive..he is very supportive as a dad..my latina mom yells way more at me than him and I am a girl🤣
Casi crucifican al pobre hombre, ningún padre nace con un manual, muchos emplean la forma en que los crían y otros no, por ejemplo mis padres me criaron como una niña al inicio, siempre vestidos y sapatitos y bla bla bla y después fueron comprendiendo las cosas y encontrando una crianza adecuada para mi hermano y yo. Mientras mi hermano no puede manejar y le da hueva todo a mi me criaron manejando tractores, cargando cajas de fresa, jitómate, se montar a caballo y puedo levantar un costal de papas de 70k y mi hermano a sus 15 no puede hacer nada de eso, me crié en el campo y trabajo, para mi, mi infancia fue la mejor de todas, jugué en la calle y disfrute de miles de cosas pero de igual forma aprendí el valor del trabajo y el esfuerzo, si ustedes dicen que su crianza es la correcta están equivocados, a lo mejor para ustedes les funciono una cosa, pero para otros no les funciona, repito el criar a un niño no lo aprendes en libros sino con la vida, nadie tiene razón. Digo todo esto por que mis padres quisieron emplear lo mismo con mi hermano y no funciono, funciono con migo pero con el no, ademas que otros les dijeron a mis padres que la forma de criarme era la incorrecta y ahora puedo decir que yo he ido por un buen camino mientras que los hijos de esas personas están en la cárcel o metidos en cosas ilegales yo estoy feliz con mi vida.
gosh this is the first episode i don't like what's wrong with daniel honestly he is a bad dad i mean how can you treat your kids likw that the daugther won't be a real adult never because "she is a girl" and his son must take reposibility and be serious and work hard "because he is a guy" WTFFFF i want punch daniel so hard, in the future their kids won't have a good relationship because his son will think is unfair the way his father raised them gosh so sad.
If you want to punch a man because his way of thinking you're not better than a man who hits a woman for the same reason. Perhaps you're one of the feminist punks who think they can be unrespectful to men and even hit them and get away with it just because you're a girl...that is also a shitty kind of thinking.
@@Nina_InXs are you kindding me? the only thing you understand was the part when i said i want punch him? ahahaha ok you need learn how to read bye i don't talk with stupid people like you😘
Wtf why would he say that you need to be lovely and soft with your daughters but strict with your sons? It doesn't make sense to me, we're equals in my eyes lmao. Us girls also need discipline and we are stronger than a lot of people think. Daniel make us sound like we are fragile and we aren't actually
As a Mexican, I don’t know how to feel about this. Not all Mexican families are like this, there are a lot of machismo out there but we try to avoid that as much as possible because is toxic. I hope he realizes how bad can be to be biased by one kid. Just as he feels with his father situation, is going to happen the same to Aston.
So good and honest guy!!! Always trying to protect his family. He came from unsafe country and patriarchal culture. It is understandable his intention to raise a strong man from his son and do everything to please a daughter. But he is very kind at the same time. Cooking (unusual for mexicans), speaking a lot (not screaming) to children. Taking care of al his family, relatives, neighbors and others. His son anyway closed to him playing with his father and trusting him. It is not a big pressure in comparison with really strict parents. He is trying all his best to be a perfect father. Good luck to all family.
M sure he's trying his best to raise Ashton but I think boy n girl should not be treated differently, sometimes if a parent is too strict dn it affects the mind so just a bit of advice to all the viwers especially the parents not to show affection in front of the children because if you show partiality between the children dn sometimes the consequences are not good....
This guy makes me reflect on my father actions and they are not nice memories....kids remember more than this guy thinks ,karma will come when he is old ...I can’t watch the full clip even ,ptsd
If u b bit strict to a boy. Is a good thing. U need to give love, but b strict. My 2 brothers were spoiled like crazy. 1 doesnt talk to my mother since he got married. The second brother ignores my mum for weeks and few months aswell. He is married to a manipulating woman. I saw boys who grew up very strict. They boys turned into men who worship their parents. Especially mothers.
Me parece un hombre 4x4 ,osea super manitas y responsable , pero creo que deberia tratar de la misma forma ha ambos, si quizás por el género seas más amable con la niña, pero el niño va sentir que tiene preferencia y se va sentir mal ,y no querido.
I know that raising boys is sth difficult . You should teach him living skills and how to be self depended . But he is a child to he need affection . as parents ,we should give to our children the space to express their opinions and talking to us , and our role is to listening to them , if we were rude and strict a lot they will hate us and neglect us.
I honesty think the Dad is trying his best. He is reverting to his traditional ways of fathering because the same tactics he uses with his daughter don't work as well with the Son. Boys can be a little more disobedient at times. So he is being stricter because that's the next best option he knows, but I think if someone showed him a better way he would be open to receiving it ... I think.
Yeap, he is a machista 😥 I felt really ashamed while he was explaining why he treats his children like that and the things with money... Tiene un pensamiento muy anticuado, espero pueda cambiar ese pensamiento, comprendo su ideología por lo del abandono de su padre, pero sino lo cambia va a traumar a su hijo. Se ve muy intenso ñ_ñU
Daniel si ves esto eres un machista y vas a perder a tu familia si sigues así tienes que cambiar y vas a tener muchos problemas en Corea si sigues así Corea no es México te lo dice otro Méxicano
Que mal, es la primera vez que no me gusta un episodio, me cuesta entender como hay padres que diferencian el amor entre sus hijos............ Y como es posible que le quite el dibujo delante de sus compañeros y profesores con esa mirada....... En fin esa niña se creerá que es el centro del universo y el niño que no vale nada.............. No me sirve que es porque no tuvo padre porque todos hemos pasado por cosas traumáticas y no las pago con mis hijos.........
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He is equally thoughtful and considerate towards his son as well. His body language towards his boy is that of care and love. He's a super affectionate person. He just wants his son to grow up into a strong and a dynamic man. Dads in past used to treat their kids the same way too, did their children loathe them? Certainly not. They would do this just to let their kids know that the World we live in is not a bed of roses. Plus the way this guy looked at his lad at the time of arrival to make sure whether he has entered the room or not and he also asked some people for advices despite being in a foreign country is a living proof of the love he has for his kids.
For people saying he is a bad parent, let me tell you no father is perfect, or look at your first before talk. He is trying his best, he was talking with the other parents how to be a good father, he doesnt have a full advice since his dad is not there and now living in a foreign country is harder to ask for real advices. He is trying his best and also he is always paying attention to his kids and doing home shores, a lot of dads wont even know the subjects their kids are taking. Plus he said he wants to be a good parent because it will also heal him, he is aware that he has a problem and he really wants to fix it.
I congratulated you because being in a foreing country is hard and more being a dad , Desde méxico , gracias 🇲🇽
Let me say you have a lot of real empathy here. But most of the people in the comment section don't even bother to comprehend what does the word means, they just go for the easy way of critizicing and judging him as if they were capable of parenting perfectly at 100%. You have a great human ability to put yourself in other people's shoes and imagine what they're going through in that situation.
If he continues like this his son will resent him in the future. They won't have a great relationship, i feel bad for the son...
Not necessarily. The father means well and he cares for his son. He's just very hands-on about it. I think It will give the son a good foundation to be a responsible adult in the future. but I do agree he shouldn't be too aggressive and Burden the son too much.
I agree with you. This is the standard of Mexico's fathers, men who believe toughen up is number one priority and stern behavior are over any emotional development and understaning..
are you a soy boy.. he is a good father .. look at the state in the west were men are looking weak and act nothing close to what a man is. if your father was not this caring then you are missing out.. his son will be great in the future.
@@KaminoTenshiGel Yeah no. I think your just being very judgemental about the guy. He is just trying to show that he cares about his son. Do you know the scene where he stops his son from drawing and tells him to listen? That just shows that he is a good father.
I guarantee, if he would have fully understood korean properly, he would definitely cry hearing the letter his father in law wrote for him. ..
That was so deep & touching that it can even make me cry just by understanding from the subtitles...😔
He is actually very normal for a mexican father.........
he just needs someone too REALLY TALK TO about his parenting problem,i hope he learns from the comments
hmm if this bias towards sofia continues, i won't be surprised seeing Aston or the wife on hello counselor in a few years
이사타 ikr
😂😂😂
I was thinking same...
Exacly... in Mexico you never move while you eat... and also mom's counts 1 2 3
He just needs a chancla
Daniel is definitely a caring father, but in some ways he has to think more clearly and healthier so that the children do not suffer any mental damage later on. I think he puts too high demands on himself (pain processing of his childhood - the lack of love and affection from his father) - so he wants to do everything perfect as a father. To feel confirmed in his father's role, the son has to follow him ......
The worst thing about parenting is playing the kids against each other and making comparisons. Thus, no trust, no love and no emotional bond between the siblings and the parents arise - if you feel unloved, not accepted, worthless in a family, you distance yourself in the adult life, because some scars never heal . Children should not be the recipients of frustrations, failures and anger of adults.
The task of parents is to provide their children with security, affection, education, physical and emotional care and not to impose obligations on children !!!
What a beautiful family. I really enjoyed this episode out of the many that I have seen so far. Daniel is a kind and loving father to his children and the bonding with his parents in law is something special.
He is a good father, nobody is perfect he just does the best he can
He is so obviously biased towards his daughter, it's really detrimental to both his children on the long run.. People who were rejected by one of their parents can unconsciously transfer their grief on their children of the same sex and I'm sure he doesn't have bad intentions but his son will be hurt in the process and his daughter might pick up bad habits as well :/ Also, his "raise men harder because they are men and they will have more responsabilities than women" in this day and age.....
ArthurMtl his dad left his family. But one would think that should be the biggest motivation to do better 😣
Paul Idson wrong! That’s why he needs understanding parents that show him unconditional love and support. You can love a child and still educate it. He seemed sad that everyone says his father was American, not Mexican. Hope at least the mother gives him attention and love and not only asking her husband to be more affectionate.
And yes, he is showing some unusual signs in his behavior. He seems always distracted (at the beginning he is looking at the microphone (?), in school he is drawing and when they read the letter he was playing). It could be that he has a problem with hearing or processing things. I think its rather that he cant concentrate. But of course we cant judge from this short video. But it’s the parents job to help him, go to a doctor/ psychologist. He’s a kid after all, it’s not the kids fault.
@Paul Idson Maybe he is hyperactive and needs psychological attention or even psychiatric treatment. But I completely agree on what you say about raising a generation of men-children like Peter Pan. As a spanish youtuber Psicovlogs says (he's also psychologist): the first mistake of this generation of snowflakes is that parents teach us that "we are all special" so when we face the real world and we realize that we are maybe unique but not special, that we are like everyone else, we sink into depression or social phobias. People these days thinks showing unconditional love and support is let the children do everything they want for not causing traumas, nowadays teaching duties and obligations is against good parenting, we have to be butlers from our children to be politically correct.
That's a problem. I have a feeling Ashton would end up gay or trans.
shut up.. men are men.. they need to be tought different from women coz they are. plus in the east manly hood is highly valued not as the west. were men are bunch of soyboys lol
Okay but, when is this show coming back!!!
this is my favourite Korean reality show and i've patiently waited a year for it to come back 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Mi papá siempre me decia que yo no podia tener novio hasta los 40 años😂😂😂 y ahora que tengo 23 años me dice que cuando voy a tener novio, que tenga muchos novios pero que me cuide😂😂😂
Today (24th July), the 197 episode was broadcast and there is still no upload. A pity, as an international viewer like many of you, I find this program very worth seeing and informative, hope that it will be back soon .....
Daniel seems like a really innocent guy. However, i disagree with differential upbringing method for his son and daughter.
p.s - I was glad to hear the BGM by Busker Busker. Guess 'Cherry Blossom Ending' is a must song in S Korea during Spring. I love their songs.
These children are so beautiful mashaAllah ❤️ Aston's eyes are everything :)
It feels like the father makes his son feel like the black sheep of the family
DAMN! I am always happy to see a latino/Mexican guest on the show but this one made me mad & sad about the poor boy.
I know his upbringing did not favor him but that is definitely the typical "macho way" of raising kids. I hope he changes for the wellbeing of those beautiful kids.
He is an amazing father! So precious
I feel so sad Aston.
Es un claro ejemplo de papá mexicano 😅😂
Y que horror...
@@silviareynoso1835 porque?
@@queen041 por el nivel de machismo que maneja a la hora de expresarse y actuar
@@silviareynoso1835 bueno creo que también tiene que ver la edad y la época en que él creció y súmale que no tuvo papá durante esas difíciles etapas, eso lo hizo así y se ve claro.
Hoy en día yo no he visto casi padres machistas, y los que conozco son personas ya mayores y así.
@@queen041 eso si, pero pues al final estamos hablando de él en particular... Que está denotando una ideología tóxica en una televisora extranjera en donde los mismos conductores se dan cuenta de eso y se lo hacen notar, su misma esposa le ha dicho...
Maybe he's not the perfect father yet, but he's clearly a good man and he has the capacity to become a great father one day. But that is not a plain target, is a path full with ups and downs.
No existe el padre perfecto o informado, solo se ve una perspectiva en este video y es que Aston tiene hiperactividad, se soluciona fácilmente tenerlo en deportes, mientras come que este sentado encima de una pelota y así, mantenerlo entretenido.
I feel bad for the son, he’s favouring his daughter so much I bet the sun will resent him in the long run...
i want a beautiful family like this. They really look happy...
"¿Quieres que le hable a Santa Claus? Come pues" JAJAJJAJAA the most mexican thing
I think he is a good father. just a little bit strict.
The only sane father is the father-in-law. He sounded surprisingly progressive, telling his daughter to fully enjoy her life before getting married and settling down. And she didn’t listen lol.
Daniel’s backward views and his hippocritical stance on his own daughter’s future dating life make me cringe. If he’s lucky his son won’t resent him in later years.
I know its hard to comprehend his old fashioned way but it is very common in Mexico for fathers and kids to have a more progressive relationship when they are older. That energy of “resentment” that grows in young boys usually fades with sports or other hobbies. It just that Mexicans have a lot of passion and fell so deep that love and hate are usually the same coin and it is not view as a bad thing just like a phase.
As for the daughter's future significant other is just an act.
Macho father the way he practices it (caring about family, saying I love you, providing) it's like a endurance test to find a good man. Save your cringes, if he really would act on what he says he wouldn't care a all.
Zazil A. Gaytan Nah, sounds like a whole bunch of apologies to me. The current state of Mexico is all you need to look at to see how well that works out. There’s really no need to export that behavior. Hard cringe.
@@zazila.gaytan1911 not because is common is ok. It fucking sucks. And I'm so grateful my parents were not like that it all. Mexico's social situation is part because of this fucking macho way of thinking.
@@Lalahk corea es machista tambien no sean ingenu@s 😂
I feel so sorry for his son... Daniel is transferring unconsciously the reject he felt during his childhood to his own son. Also in his speech, it feels very misogyny towards his daughter. He still hurt because of his past and should solve this situation before their child starts having the same behavior.
Ok, Daniel es un buen padre, no es un mal hombre pero si, se nota mucho la diferencia de trato que le da a sus hijos y él mismo lo dice, espero los trate de igual manera a ambos 😊
Entiendo el amor de Daniel hacia su hija porque así suele pasar pero el prácticamente deja a un lado a Aston🤧
Why this show has stopped uploading videos?😔
They are still ongoing, but unfortunately all the newer episodes have no eng sub. =/
Why this program is not been uploaded lately what is the problem
43:16 that made me tear up 😭 such a beautiful relationship they have 💙
STILL WAITING FOR NEW EPISODES 7u7
Why they stopped releasing new episodes ?
I feel like her parents aren't truly happy for that marriage but they're nice to accept reality
Yeah i feel the same . I dont feel like they really love eachother . They are just there for the kids
@@krtdhi7007 I think Ame is talking about the father and mother in law. Are you talking about Daniel and his wife?
OMG, I truly disliked Danilel for treating their children in that way, making such big differences. That will cause on them lots of psicological issues if they're not adressed as soon as possible.That issue will affect both greatly.He's treating he's son that way because of his own issues with his absent father. Aston is not a troublemaker, his behaviour is because he's trying to receive different kind of attention towards him, his trying to get attention in the only way he knows he could get it.
I do understand the father. Looking at his past experiences in life, he's probably scared that his son will make the same mistakes his father did or other men he knows. We shouldn't forget that culture also plays a role in raising children. He's doing the best he can. I'm just glad to see a father being involved in raising his children, most of the times all burdens fall on the shoulders of the mother.
Didn't expect this episode to make me cry
Va crearle inseguridades y problemas de estrés a su hijo
Lo digo por experiencia
Y es muy probable que su hijo sea muy tímido por eso, por su tipo de crianza, al final este tipo tiene que ver lo que de verdad beneficia a su hijo
No creo que cambie su manera de ser, mi padre nunca cambio, es de verdad una pena
Pero hay que crecer con estos ambientes machistas muchas veces, y te dejan problemas psicológicos, secuelas que no vas a olvidar.
Hasta cosas peores, en mi etapa más difícil, cuando tenía 12
Odiaba a mi padre, luego simplemente lo ignoraba y ahora tengo 18, no voy a negar que le tengo rencor pero le sigo queriendo
The boy is talented>> this kind of kids are always geniuses ( it's very clear that he is an ADHD child) , but they need more understanding parents, as they do things their own way & they don't mean to be disrespectful,, actually obedient & calm kids are considered normal.
This boy needs his dad to forget about how he was raised & need to go to a consultant to understand his boy more
Also, it's so wrong to compare children to each other in front of them... even the girl is being raised by making her scare losing the Christmas gift,,, very very old fashioned way
I'm not saying he's an evil dad, but he's so old fashioned & not aware of the new issues about kids nowadays
Yesssss! Was looking for an ADHD comment. ADHD kids need another style of parenting than this… Aston might start feeling like the odd one out and very misunderstood if this keeps going on. Having ADHD does not make someone a trouble child but rather these children learn and function in a different way than what most people are used to.
Here you see the old fashioned mentality of Mexican parents. Thanks God my dad was nothing like this. He didn't think I was different cuz I was a girl. Even though he was never good when showing hid emotions he educated me to be capable and never let a man treat me like less. In my opinion his way of thinking sucks. This mentality is what is bringing so much violence and shit to my country. I love my culture and my country. But honestly I hate this aspect of it.
En que momento la esta enseñando a que se deje tratar despectivamente a su hija?...si escuchaste la parte donde dijo que a las mujeres hay que tratarlas bien o solo la parte de que hay que ser mas estricto con los varones? Creo que actualmente la mayoria de los padres de ambos sexos se estan volviendo demasiado suaves con los hijos, estamos criando puros copitos de nieve hipersensibles ante cualquier muestra de disciplina. En primer lugar si alguien educa hijos machistas son las madres mexicanas porque la mayoria de las veces los padres estan ausentes.
@@Nina_InXs Creo que no concuerdo. El le va a dar a su idea la imagen de que las mujeres son más débiles y delicadas y ese tipo de estereotipos equivocados. Si vas a ser un padre estricto es con ambos. No con solo uno. Si vas a llenar de besos a es a ambos. Si vas a ser tierno y la mamada es con ambos. Eso es lo correcto. Todos coludos o todos rabones. El hombre necesita el mismo nivel de amor, tolerancia y cariño qué su hermana. Y la niña necesita el mismo nivel de exigencia qué el hermano. Esta es la misma educación qué ha creado mujeres sumisas y hombre macho durante tantas décadas en nuestro país. La equidad de género no tiene nada que ver con la inteligencia emocional de un individuo. Si en todo caso el síntoma snowflake es debido a una falta seguridad y educación emocional.
@@Nina_InXs con respeto a quien educa a los macho si las mujeres mexicanas de generaciones pasadas también tienen gran culpa. Pero solo es por lo aprendido. Mientras a los niños no se les crié con equidad eso seguirá pasando. Mientras no haya una apertura emocional de nuestra cultura también y se elimine el machismo para la salud mental y emocional de los hombres, todo seguirá igual.
Ay no había visto que eres army, olvidarlo eso anula la posibilidad de una conversación o argumento serio contigo. Además queda claro el tipo de masculinidad que te gusta y apoyas. Ya se como son de tercas con todo, adiós.
@@Nina_InXs wow el nivel de prejuicios. Yo pensé que estaba teniendo una conversación interesante pero ya me di cuenta del nivel de persona pedante. Por eso el pais esta como esta por que la gente no es tolerante a lo diferente y les gusta tener la mentalidad de pueblo. Es evidente la falta de seguridad fuera de la zona de confort.
Pd: Y no se si realmente puedas hacer tantas predisposiciónes desde un solo hecho acerca de mi. Jajaja soy más que la música que oigo. Pero pues x en la vida siempre habra generalizaciónes por parte de gente ignorante.
KBS WORLD TV why you don't post the newer episodes(starting from episode 190 and above) with eng sub anymore?? I found newer episodes online but they don't have eng sub. T~T
Guys! Where are new episodes!?
The comments made it sound like he was the worst father ever. He is just being a typical Mexican father. It isn't necessarily better or worse, it is just a different style of parenting. Like, there are 130 million mexicans around the world, just because some people have different ways of living doesn't make all the Mexican parents mean or evil or all the Mexican kids damaged. There is no perfect parenting, you learn as kids grow, and you make mistakes and learn from them and he seems eager to learn and be the best father he can be for his kids. Besides, Dads tend to grow closer to daughters and Moms to sons, that's why the expressions Daddy's Girl and Mother's Boy are so popular. He just needs to listen to both of his kids and bend his beliefs just a bit in order to adapt to what they need.
Why are you not releasing new episodes
They have release new episodes, but unfortunately they all don't have eng sub. =/
Los mexicanos conquistando corea hahaha bien por Daniel ❤️🇲🇽
No manches todos en los comentarios diciendo que no le muestra suficiente cariño a su hijo cuando, comparado al estándar del papá mexicano, en realidad no es que digas tú un asco de padre.... los estándares en México son muy bajos al parecer :vvvv
Al menos es un padre presente ,si es muy machista pero quizas quiere que si hijo sea "fuerte" por temas de bullyng , la mitad de los papas mexicanos son ausentes...
For me, Daniel is not cute when he's being over protective with his daughter. It's his daughter but he does not own her. Not cute, truly scary.
As someone said in another comment what Daniels says about not lleting her have a bf until 30's is just an act. Everybody is overreacting to his words...Not cute, truly scary is the perfect description for your video scaring your mom... what woud you think if I say your mom is abusive because she's calling you "Pinche pendeja"? Don't you think it would be too much from a stranger who doesn't not know your family? Or even ignorant if I don't know the mexican culture enough to comprehend that is a very common reaction from mexican moms calling bads name to their children. If USA social services would come to Mexico surely 80% of mexican moms would be in jail for child abuse with all their chanclas.
His mentality is a bit backwards but he's not a bad parent! He should listen to the advice about treating Aston a bit better. There were cute moments with Aston like when he told him that he doesn't have to be the best but he only wanted him to listen to his teachers
True he is not that bad but he needs too change his attitude too macho
Daniel's funny. 🐻
I wanna fast forward to his daughter's Quinceañera and see his reaction ^^
Como mexicana no estoy de acuerdo con ese trato diferente que tiene entre sus dos hijos, mi padre jamás fue así con nosotros y crecimos bien. Desgraciadamente si existe esa cultura machista en México pero no quiere decir que el debería ser igual.
Creo que el hecho recide en que tu padre estuvo ahí y el de él no. Por lo que si lo crió su mamá seguro le tocó el papel del "hombre" de la casa, esta tratándolo como lo trataron a él.
@@j.l6882 comparto tu opinión sin embargo la educación de "macho" que el menciona no es necesariamente una consecuencia de la falta de una figura paterna en la familia pero tienes razón tal vez ese fue su caso. Simplemente me limito a decir que no es una excusa para tener esa diferencia de trato entre sus hijos. :)
@@graygris8135 Quiza no es una excusa para ti que tuviste la fortuna de tener una familia "estandar" completa. Es muy fácil decir que son excusas, cuando no conoces lo que significa la ausencia paterna, es dificil que comprenda los roles que uno tiene que tomar en la familia ya sea como hija o hijo, es diferente en cada caso y si juega un papel muy importante en como desarrolla uno la relación con los hijos propios después. Para ser hijo de un padre que lo abandonó esta tomando su responsabilidad con toda la seriedad y el compromiso que su padre no tuvo con él, y mejor aún se muestra con la disposición de aprender, de pedir consejo.
@@Nina_InXs relax solo es una opinión propio. :)
So nice People in Korea
even though i dont like his way of think but i laughed so hard and they seem nice and there is no problem within the family
Such a cute family!! But i really do hope the father will treat his son as a kid before seeing him as a man lol ... i have a twin sister our father does everything for us but i always felt the 1% care more for her not even love but care! So imagine aston situation were the father does treat them differently
I don't get the over sensitivity of how Koreans perceive the dad's attitude with his son...he is not mean or too strict or abusive..he is very supportive as a dad..my latina mom yells way more at me than him and I am a girl🤣
He is just like my father.
Casi crucifican al pobre hombre, ningún padre nace con un manual, muchos emplean la forma en que los crían y otros no, por ejemplo mis padres me criaron como una niña al inicio, siempre vestidos y sapatitos y bla bla bla y después fueron comprendiendo las cosas y encontrando una crianza adecuada para mi hermano y yo. Mientras mi hermano no puede manejar y le da hueva todo a mi me criaron manejando tractores, cargando cajas de fresa, jitómate, se montar a caballo y puedo levantar un costal de papas de 70k y mi hermano a sus 15 no puede hacer nada de eso, me crié en el campo y trabajo, para mi, mi infancia fue la mejor de todas, jugué en la calle y disfrute de miles de cosas pero de igual forma aprendí el valor del trabajo y el esfuerzo, si ustedes dicen que su crianza es la correcta están equivocados, a lo mejor para ustedes les funciono una cosa, pero para otros no les funciona, repito el criar a un niño no lo aprendes en libros sino con la vida, nadie tiene razón. Digo todo esto por que mis padres quisieron emplear lo mismo con mi hermano y no funciono, funciono con migo pero con el no, ademas que otros les dijeron a mis padres que la forma de criarme era la incorrecta y ahora puedo decir que yo he ido por un buen camino mientras que los hijos de esas personas están en la cárcel o metidos en cosas ilegales yo estoy feliz con mi vida.
gosh this is the first episode i don't like what's wrong with daniel honestly he is a bad dad i mean how can you treat your kids likw that the daugther won't be a real adult never because "she is a girl" and his son must take reposibility and be serious and work hard "because he is a guy" WTFFFF i want punch daniel so hard, in the future their kids won't have a good relationship because his son will think is unfair the way his father raised them gosh so sad.
If you want to punch a man because his way of thinking you're not better than a man who hits a woman for the same reason. Perhaps you're one of the feminist punks who think they can be unrespectful to men and even hit them and get away with it just because you're a girl...that is also a shitty kind of thinking.
@@Nina_InXs are you kindding me? the only thing you understand was the part when i said i want punch him? ahahaha ok you need learn how to read bye i don't talk with stupid people like you😘
May be I'm stupid but you are the agressive one here. Or just a typicall neurotic american.
What happen to the next episode???
Wtf why would he say that you need to be lovely and soft with your daughters but strict with your sons? It doesn't make sense to me, we're equals in my eyes lmao. Us girls also need discipline and we are stronger than a lot of people think. Daniel make us sound like we are fragile and we aren't actually
Is My neighbor Charles has stopped making episodes?
I can't see any further episodes after this??
Please help 😢
There are new episodes but they don't translate it and post on here, i don't know why 😶
As a Mexican, I don’t know how to feel about this. Not all Mexican families are like this, there are a lot of machismo out there but we try to avoid that as much as possible because is toxic. I hope he realizes how bad can be to be biased by one kid. Just as he feels with his father situation, is going to happen the same to Aston.
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I wish I was Korean so I could have a Mexican Korean baby as handsome as their's. And let's not forget hoe gorgeous their daughter is too!
No more episodes??
POST NEXT EPISODE
So good and honest guy!!! Always trying to protect his family. He came from unsafe country and patriarchal culture. It is understandable his intention to raise a strong man from his son and do everything to please a daughter. But he is very kind at the same time. Cooking (unusual for mexicans), speaking a lot (not screaming) to children. Taking care of al his family, relatives, neighbors and others. His son anyway closed to him playing with his father and trusting him. It is not a big pressure in comparison with really strict parents. He is trying all his best to be a perfect father. Good luck to all family.
Awwwh he's such a great, loving father, but he just needs to treat both his kids equallys
M sure he's trying his best to raise Ashton but I think boy n girl should not be treated differently, sometimes if a parent is too strict dn it affects the mind so just a bit of advice to all the viwers especially the parents not to show affection in front of the children because if you show partiality between the children dn sometimes the consequences are not good....
Next episode?
no more eps?
namesake!! love from +255
This guy makes me reflect on my father actions and they are not nice memories....kids remember more than this guy thinks ,karma will come when he is old ...I can’t watch the full clip even ,ptsd
Don't come here saying that is the Macho culture in Mexico. At least his generation is not like that.
If u b bit strict to a boy. Is a good thing. U need to give love, but b strict. My 2 brothers were spoiled like crazy. 1 doesnt talk to my mother since he got married. The second brother ignores my mum for weeks and few months aswell. He is married to a manipulating woman. I saw boys who grew up very strict. They boys turned into men who worship their parents. Especially mothers.
His wife looks like cheng xiao
Siento que está dando una mala imagen de los padres mexicanos en un programa extranjero
Where is the new episode?
His handling of the kids is kinda rough. Does he suffer from ADHD, he seems very fidgety and impatient. I'm scared for his family's safety
Beautiful family, all the best :)
Me parece un hombre 4x4 ,osea super manitas y responsable , pero creo que deberia tratar de la misma forma ha ambos, si quizás por el género seas más amable con la niña, pero el niño va sentir que tiene preferencia y se va sentir mal ,y no querido.
I know that raising boys is sth difficult . You should teach him living skills and how to be self depended . But he is a child to he need affection . as parents ,we should give to our children the space to express their opinions and talking to us , and our role is to listening to them , if we were rude and strict a lot they will hate us and neglect us.
Cant stand watching Daniel biased towards his daughter... not a good episode to watch.. Feel sorry for aston.
Is this show discontinued?
I honesty think the Dad is trying his best. He is reverting to his traditional ways of fathering because the same tactics he uses with his daughter don't work as well with the Son. Boys can be a little more disobedient at times. So he is being stricter because that's the next best option he knows, but I think if someone showed him a better way he would be open to receiving it ... I think.
12:30 this part pissed me off a lot
same i was like wtf
When is coming Episode 190 ?
Never
Plz add ep190
Why there's no latest one? Can someone tell me
Yeap, he is a machista 😥
I felt really ashamed while he was explaining why he treats his children like that and the things with money...
Tiene un pensamiento muy anticuado, espero pueda cambiar ese pensamiento, comprendo su ideología por lo del abandono de su padre, pero sino lo cambia va a traumar a su hijo. Se ve muy intenso ñ_ñU
Bonjour est-ce que vous avez arrêté l'émission ?
He's nice
English teacher?? Nope
Daniel si ves esto eres un machista y vas a perder a tu familia si sigues así tienes que cambiar y vas a tener muchos problemas en Corea si sigues así Corea no es México te lo dice otro Méxicano
En corea el machismo es distinto pero tambien existe
I want aleyna yilmaz family in this show please
5:25 Romanian kids song
A man has to do more than a woman?
I think not thank you very much
Que mal, es la primera vez que no me gusta un episodio, me cuesta entender como hay padres que diferencian el amor entre sus hijos............ Y como es posible que le quite el dibujo delante de sus compañeros y profesores con esa mirada....... En fin esa niña se creerá que es el centro del universo y el niño que no vale nada.............. No me sirve que es porque no tuvo padre porque todos hemos pasado por cosas traumáticas y no las pago con mis hijos.........