This video is so, so good. I'm a yoga teacher, and this theme parallels an Eastern concept called _kanchuka._ A _kanchuka_ is, basically, an erroneous belief that distracts us from experiencing the natural, Uncaused Joy that is our true essence. (Think of our Soul, True Nature, or True Self. This is the spiritual part of who we are that transcends our mere human or animal nature.) The 5 _kanchukas_ (beliefs) are 1. There is more I need to *do,* before I can relax and be happy. 2. There is more I need to *learn or know,* before I can relax and be happy. 3. There is more I need to *acquire,* before I can relax and be happy. 4. There is more I need to *fix about myself* (because I am inherently flawed), before I can relax and be happy. 5. I am a finite being, with a fixed beginning and fixed end. These flawed beliefs arose in our childhood when we were learning how to survive. They are generally helpful for that purpose -- but they go too far when the belief becomes that happiness or joy depend on these external circumstances. The antidote for these _kanchukas...?_ *Be here now.*
@@ksarecords8099 The idea that we *have* to be grow directly out of the fact that we've forgotten that we, naturally, already are uncaused joy, itself... There's no where else to go... we're already here.
“It’s not about being happy, that is the thing. I’m just trying to get through each day. I can’t keep asking myself ‘Am I happy?’ It just makes me more miserable. I don’t know if I believe in it, real lasting happiness. All those perky well-adjusted people you see in movies and TV shows? I don’t think they exist.” -Diane Nguyen, from the show Bojack Horseman. That quote came to mind while watching this. This was a very well done analysis, loved the back and fourth where you explained why Don was so good at his job comparing his own life to his work. Just remember, when you get to a million subs, and you’re up there among the greats, stop and ask yourself...am I content, or do I want more? Hehe, I’m subbed!
The majority of people believe that money or power will make then happy. But we often seen rich and leaders people depressed, taking medicine to sleep or drugs to deal with stress and so on... And if you search for pools about which persons feel the most happy. It will usually turn out to be people with more simple live. There are other elements that also influence happiness like a health body and spirituality. I once seen an Atheist urging other Atheists to do things like, for example, meditation in order to have a something akin to spirituality.
Amazing analysis. It made me realize something about this show; it's a masterpiece in explaining why materialism won't make you happy. Other shows may say this, but it doesn't properly break down why quite like Mad men does. Bravo
"it's a masterpiece in explaining why materialism won't make you happy." exactly. happiness is generated from the inside. the inside out, being happy with your self. materialism makes people look outside and it causes more problems than just "i need that thing".
2 underrated madmen quotes came up to me as I was watching this. Roger to Do about women: “Everyone is a nice person until they want something more” I think Megan to Don?: “You only like the beginning of things” I binge watched mad men just once, forgive me if I don’t remember the source of the second quote.
@@charisleighmusic she's just one of the most despicable character at some points. there's lots of moments where i felt bad for her and lots of moments where it felt like she got what she deserved. she did become more and more likable as the show went on
Incredible analysis. The last bit about Don and his search. It hit me. I've seen the show about three times, not counting episodes I've seen alone, and this is just, wow.
Beautiful essay and great extrapolation from the scenes. "You shouldn't have someone like me tell that boy what a hershey bar is, he already knows" to "Unhappy people selling happiness" "Only an expert in unhappiness can tap into that yearning for a solution", loved this!
You get Megan in a way a lot of people never did. One thing, though, she didn't leave her soap opera to pursue movies; Don convinced her to quit so they could move to California together, which she agreed to primarily for the sake of their marriage, which she wanted to save more than anything. She ended up moving by herself when he backed out and she could see he didn't care about her, or care enough. In season 7 we see she was auditioning for tv again but it wasn't working out.
I don't know what your background is but your observational abilities are remarkable and your analysis is quite philosophical. I hope to see more of your videos!
This is the best analysis video I have watched of Mad men. Others analyze the characters as if they were real people with free will. This on the other hand is about the theme of the history.
Wow! I love this analysis. I guess I never looked at it this way, but it’s really an insightful character analysis. It explains why these people behave the way they do. I always thought everyone wanted to be like Don, and Roger was so comfortable and privileged that he always just did what he wanted. They were all in search of happiness that they couldn’t find. I guess advertising and the material nature of American culture sort of makes us all like that to a certain degree.
Yes,@@JustanObservation, once you get more views, then you will truly be happy, right...? 😜 This video is so, so good. I'm a yoga teacher, and this theme parallels an Eastern concept called _kanchuka._ A _kanchuka_ is, basically, an erroneous belief that distracts us from experiencing the natural, Uncaused Joy that is our true essence. (Think of our Soul, True Nature, or True Self. This is the spiritual part of who we are that transcends our mere human or animal nature.) The 5 _kanchukas_ (beliefs) are 1. There is more I need to *do,* before I can relax and be happy. 2. There is more I need to *learn or know,* before I can relax and be happy. 3. There is more I need to *acquire,* before I can relax and be happy. 4. There is more I need to *fix about myself* (because I am inherently flawed), before I can relax and be happy. 5. I am a finite being, with a fixed beginning and fixed end. These flawed beliefs arose in our childhood when we were learning how to survive. They are generally helpful for that purpose -- but they go too far when the belief becomes that happiness or joy depend on these external circumstances. The antidote for these _kanchukas...?_ *Be here now.*
wow. spot on, best analysis on this. its funny, i watched this show 2 times without even knowing why. if i had to tell somebody the premisse i wouldn't know how to explain it, like "its just things happening". on the surface it sounds like some generic soap opera. but the briliant thing about this is that it doesn't tell you how to feel it. it just shows you the things happening just like in real life. you almost forgot you're watching a show. but you figure the real heart of the series, the title says everything. and its so real. the show was making me reflect about things you said without having to "say" it, and without me even knowing. that's some great writing and execution right there. that's what's real art is all about.
Sub #269 : I seriously thought while watching this video that this channel was way bigger than you are. I hope that doesn't sound insulting because you're truly going somewhere! Looking forward to the great content. The production value is immaculate!
Great analysis. Really good script. Makes you think of the things you have and what you wish. Many times we have what we wish but we don't take the time to appreciate it.
This is a great video essay, mate. I watched Mad Men after yrs in college thinking this or that would set me on the right path to being satisfied. Watching characters in Mad Men doing the same thing with, most times, miserable results was a big wake up call for me.
Loved this analysis, thought it'd have many more views. I'll check out more of your content! I enjoyed Mad Men so much, I still rewatch it often, it's oddly comforting with its beautiful setting and tragic stories I already love
Great video. However I would like to comment that I think the show also offers a glimpse of how to live oneself off of the burden of unhappiness. Especially in "Person to Person" where we see Don go through a growth and an inner change. Its fitting how a show about selling happiness through ads ends up with someone who actually found happiness but not through ads at all
In the process building a whole society where instead of looking inward for contentment, just like them we're all incentivized to look outward for it, where it's always one more elusive step away. Commodifying everything, every place and every feeling.
I think the term 'pleasure' would be more apt because of it's fleeting nature, these characters are chasing happiness which is more sustainable but settles for pleasure as a quick fix.
Excellent video. The sampling of women, like they were different competing products to try to find his happiness, so true. Of course Don has always known happiness is just the moment before you need more happiness. This also got me thinking about that line from Ted. The three women in every man’s life. Don never knows his mother, and Abigail wasn’t a very loving step mom, so putting the picture of Anna, who was probably the only person to ever say to him I know all about the real you and I still love you, is good for the place of the mother. Since all the temporary wives/mistresses are replaceable, it would have to be Peggy and Sally along with Anna, right? Ironic, for all his sleeping around, and the money he drops on women (very generous in both divorces), three platonic relationships are the three women in his life.
Being happy all the time is meaningless, because there would be no bad moments to compare it to. It would turn stale and empty after a while. True happiness gets its value from the fact it's fleeting. When true happiness ages, it becomes nostalgia.
You make some minor good point, here... but, ultimately, have offered a limited and flawed conclusion. At least as of this writing two years ago, you did not understand what _true happiness_ was.
Mad Men is my all time favorite show. And I’ve watched SO MANY shows. I like what you’re saying here...the self-imposed chase for constant wish fulfillment in life and how that’s represented in advertising (there’s always the next thing coming down the line). Mainly, though, I love your voice. It’s very soothing. Quite ASMR-y and brain-tingling. It took me a few minutes but I finally figured out that, to me, you sound like Justin Trudeau. Are you from the same part of the world? I’d be shocked if you weren’t. Count me as a new subscriber and I’ll be listening to more videos. Thanks for the hard work! @Mel_Med_Larson
Feels he's not loveable for who he is because he was abandoned as a child. Isn't fully conscious of that and is in some denial as that's too painful a realization to manage. Fear of confronting his 'unloveability' and shame of his vulnerability stop him letting women get too close. It's not a new story. Albeit brilliantly told in the Series. Best Drama of the last Decade.
this title hits a little to close to home...
"What is happiness? It’s a moment before you need more happiness."
-Don Draper
Was surprised this wasn't included in the video since so much of it could be summed up by that line
Yes, it's comes to my mind immediately,I wait to hear it but it wasn't there actually it's sums up everything said in the video
He should have been named Dopamine Draper😂
Great breakdown and analysis. The point of Don trying the different women as a new version of himself really hits close to home. Thank you for this.
Thanks I appreciate it!
Or better known as a middle life crises...
Who is Don? Is he’s definitely an Ai? Right?
Having watched "Mad Men" numerous times, this is the most accurate, yet succinct explanation of the series that I have seen.
Same!
This video is so, so good. I'm a yoga teacher, and this theme parallels an Eastern concept called _kanchuka._ A _kanchuka_ is, basically, an erroneous belief that distracts us from experiencing the natural, Uncaused Joy that is our true essence. (Think of our Soul, True Nature, or True Self. This is the spiritual part of who we are that transcends our mere human or animal nature.) The 5 _kanchukas_ (beliefs) are
1. There is more I need to *do,* before I can relax and be happy.
2. There is more I need to *learn or know,* before I can relax and be happy.
3. There is more I need to *acquire,* before I can relax and be happy.
4. There is more I need to *fix about myself* (because I am inherently flawed), before I can relax and be happy.
5. I am a finite being, with a fixed beginning and fixed end.
These flawed beliefs arose in our childhood when we were learning how to survive. They are generally helpful for that purpose -- but they go too far when the belief becomes that happiness or joy depend on these external circumstances.
The antidote for these _kanchukas...?_ *Be here now.*
And the biggest one of them all, the idea that you have to be happy in the first place.
@@ksarecords8099 The idea that we *have* to be grow directly out of the fact that we've forgotten that we, naturally, already are uncaused joy, itself... There's no where else to go... we're already here.
So there was a name all along for what I repeatedly put myself through. I am retired, and just now learning this??
@@twistoffate4791 Yes!
“It’s not about being happy, that is the thing. I’m just trying to get through each day. I can’t keep asking myself ‘Am I happy?’ It just makes me more miserable. I don’t know if I believe in it, real lasting happiness. All those perky well-adjusted people you see in movies and TV shows? I don’t think they exist.”
-Diane Nguyen, from the show Bojack Horseman.
That quote came to mind while watching this.
This was a very well done analysis, loved the back and fourth where you explained why Don was so good at his job comparing his own life to his work.
Just remember, when you get to a million subs, and you’re up there among the greats, stop and ask yourself...am I content, or do I want more? Hehe, I’m subbed!
The majority of people believe that money or power will make then happy. But we often seen rich and leaders people depressed, taking medicine to sleep or drugs to deal with stress and so on...
And if you search for pools about which persons feel the most happy. It will usually turn out to be people with more simple live. There are other elements that also influence happiness like a health body and spirituality. I once seen an Atheist urging other Atheists to do things like, for example, meditation in order to have a something akin to spirituality.
Thought provoking without being convoluted. Great video.
Thanks Shawn!
Amazing analysis. It made me realize something about this show; it's a masterpiece in explaining why materialism won't make you happy. Other shows may say this, but it doesn't properly break down why quite like Mad men does. Bravo
"it's a masterpiece in explaining why materialism won't make you happy."
exactly.
happiness is generated from the inside. the inside out, being happy with your self.
materialism makes people look outside and it causes more problems than just "i need that thing".
The most biting criticism came from Megan's mother. "It is hard dealing with a person who has an artistic temperament but is not an artist..."
Here before this channel blows up!
Thank you very much!
Damn, that's exactly what I was thinking when I see the sub count. This channel is going to blow up.
@@user-xb6dk4zl7l Thanks Michael, just getting started!
2 underrated madmen quotes came up to me as I was watching this.
Roger to Do about women: “Everyone is a nice person until they want something more”
I think Megan to Don?: “You only like the beginning of things”
I binge watched mad men just once, forgive me if I don’t remember the source of the second quote.
Second quote is Faye Miller (the psychologist) after Don breaks up with her for Meagan. Also one of my favorite great and insightful quotes.
“They’re all great girls...
until they want something.”
Joan’s character arc is beautiful. It broke my heart when she was raped in the office and I cheered when she left her husband.
joan is one of the most beautiful and repulsive characters on the show to me
@@scoldingwhisper why repulsive?
@@charisleighmusic she's just one of the most despicable character at some points. there's lots of moments where i felt bad for her and lots of moments where it felt like she got what she deserved. she did become more and more likable as the show went on
@@scoldingwhisper more repulsive than Don, Roger, Pete, Harry, Betty? 😶
@@edwinam1362 Betty is just an annoying little child, she hasn't done anything seriously wrong, unlike Joan or Don.
Incredible analysis. The last bit about Don and his search. It hit me. I've seen the show about three times, not counting episodes I've seen alone, and this is just, wow.
Beautiful essay and great extrapolation from the scenes.
"You shouldn't have someone like me tell that boy what a hershey bar is, he already knows" to "Unhappy people selling happiness"
"Only an expert in unhappiness can tap into that yearning for a solution", loved this!
This videos is everything I always thought about this show but never been able to translate into words. For sure one of the most underrated series!!
You get Megan in a way a lot of people never did. One thing, though, she didn't leave her soap opera to pursue movies; Don convinced her to quit so they could move to California together, which she agreed to primarily for the sake of their marriage, which she wanted to save more than anything. She ended up moving by herself when he backed out and she could see he didn't care about her, or care enough. In season 7 we see she was auditioning for tv again but it wasn't working out.
It’s such a meta show - the art of selling a lie by those who are lying to themselves.
I don't know what your background is but your observational abilities are remarkable and your analysis is quite philosophical. I hope to see more of your videos!
Bro...I just binged most of your videos. Top notch shit. I hope your channel gets more recognition because it's underrated.
This is the best analysis video I have watched of Mad men. Others analyze the characters as if they were real people with free will. This on the other hand is about the theme of the history.
Nice video! Its one of my fav shows and I never thought about the selling happiness angle
you nailed this way better than I could on a long running podcast. nice one
Wow! I love this analysis. I guess I never looked at it this way, but it’s really an insightful character analysis. It explains why these people behave the way they do. I always thought everyone wanted to be like Don, and Roger was so comfortable and privileged that he always just did what he wanted. They were all in search of happiness that they couldn’t find. I guess advertising and the material nature of American culture sort of makes us all like that to a certain degree.
Thank you, glad you enjoyed!
Such a great video, pretty insightful and with a really good script. This deserves way more views, don't be disheartened!
Thank you!
Yes,@@JustanObservation, once you get more views, then you will truly be happy, right...? 😜
This video is so, so good. I'm a yoga teacher, and this theme parallels an Eastern concept called _kanchuka._ A _kanchuka_ is, basically, an erroneous belief that distracts us from experiencing the natural, Uncaused Joy that is our true essence. (Think of our Soul, True Nature, or True Self. This is the spiritual part of who we are that transcends our mere human or animal nature.) The 5 _kanchukas_ (beliefs) are
1. There is more I need to *do,* before I can relax and be happy.
2. There is more I need to *learn or know,* before I can relax and be happy.
3. There is more I need to *acquire,* before I can relax and be happy.
4. There is more I need to *fix about myself* (because I am inherently flawed), before I can relax and be happy.
5. I am a finite being, with a fixed beginning and fixed end.
These flawed beliefs arose in our childhood when we were learning how to survive. They are generally helpful for that purpose -- but they go too far when the belief becomes that happiness or joy depend on these external circumstances.
The antidote for these _kanchukas...?_ *Be here now.*
wow. spot on, best analysis on this.
its funny, i watched this show 2 times without even knowing why. if i had to tell somebody the premisse i wouldn't know how to explain it, like "its just things happening". on the surface it sounds like some generic soap opera.
but the briliant thing about this is that it doesn't tell you how to feel it. it just shows you the things happening just like in real life. you almost forgot you're watching a show.
but you figure the real heart of the series, the title says everything. and its so real. the show was making me reflect about things you said without having to "say" it, and without me even knowing. that's some great writing and execution right there.
that's what's real art is all about.
this channel gonna go somewhere.
Sub #269 : I seriously thought while watching this video that this channel was way bigger than you are. I hope that doesn't sound insulting because you're truly going somewhere! Looking forward to the great content. The production value is immaculate!
Great analysis. Really good script. Makes you think of the things you have and what you wish. Many times we have what we wish but we don't take the time to appreciate it.
I've only watched the first 4 minutes of your video analysis but I'm really enjoying it! Thank you for putting it together, you have a new subscriber!
This is a great video essay, mate. I watched Mad Men after yrs in college thinking this or that would set me on the right path to being satisfied. Watching characters in Mad Men doing the same thing with, most times, miserable results was a big wake up call for me.
This channel is just
Super super super super super
Underrated
This is one of the best television analyses I have heard if not the best. Great work!
Incredible work. A fresh and nuanced take that hits close to home.
This is one of the best essays about one of the greatest series in television.
I learned a lot watching your description, analyzing the honest depth of what was happening. Thank you.
This is a really great analysis, hadn't really thought abt it this way
I thought this video was excellent!
Really good writing and observations.
And that’s why I really enjoy Mad Men, it has a lot of great subtext
Loved this analysis, thought it'd have many more views. I'll check out more of your content! I enjoyed Mad Men so much, I still rewatch it often, it's oddly comforting with its beautiful setting and tragic stories I already love
this is an incredible video essay. Beautiful writing.
This is GOOD. Your channel is at 155 subscribers (as I write this comment). Your channel is soon gonna get hundreds of thousands of subscribers.
Thank you very much!
@@JustanObservation man! 50k congrats!
Great video. However I would like to comment that I think the show also offers a glimpse of how to live oneself off of the burden of unhappiness. Especially in "Person to Person" where we see Don go through a growth and an inner change. Its fitting how a show about selling happiness through ads ends up with someone who actually found happiness but not through ads at all
This makes me miss Mad Men. I only finished it a couple months ago
Yeah me it made me sad and upset that Netflix removed it from the streaming service.
I still miss this show fuckin amazon
That is an interesting take on a great series. Nicely done! 👍🏻
In the process building a whole society where instead of looking inward for contentment, just like them we're all incentivized to look outward for it, where it's always one more elusive step away. Commodifying everything, every place and every feeling.
Wonderfully insightful interpretation and explication. Thanks for this video.
Wow, what a brilliantly succinct and beautiful synopsis!
great video of a great show. The title is just about perfect hahaha
Great observation bro! This is as good as the show.
I can’t rewatch the show and this breaks down exactly why. Wow, great work.
Yes, a new channel!!! I will subscribe!
When Don fires Lane and says "You'll tell them the next thing will be better, because it always is" takes on more meaning after this video.
Great analysis and an interesting perspective of the show
This is the best breakdown I’ve ever watched
I think the term 'pleasure' would be more apt because of it's fleeting nature, these characters are chasing happiness which is more sustainable but settles for pleasure as a quick fix.
Wicked video this. Brilliantly made
Thanks Tom!
As someone who works in advertising… you nailed it
Love this channel!
Excellent summary.
Perfect analysis. Well done!
All I can say is that your videos fill my void with happiness. Your latest one on The Godfather especially.... thank you Mr. Observer
I liked the editing, great work. Keep it up.
This is Brilliant man. Superb video
Excellent video. The sampling of women, like they were different competing products to try to find his happiness, so true. Of course Don has always known happiness is just the moment before you need more happiness. This also got me thinking about that line from Ted. The three women in every man’s life. Don never knows his mother, and Abigail wasn’t a very loving step mom, so putting the picture of Anna, who was probably the only person to ever say to him I know all about the real you and I still love you, is good for the place of the mother. Since all the temporary wives/mistresses are replaceable, it would have to be Peggy and Sally along with Anna, right? Ironic, for all his sleeping around, and the money he drops on women (very generous in both divorces), three platonic relationships are the three women in his life.
This video really hit home, well done! Subbed!
Incredible analysis! So beautifully explained! ❤️
This is a beautiful analysis. Chapeau!
insights well narrated... and I thought I didn't like Betty because of who she was... now I know she has the perfect name
Fantastic video. Great work 👌
Thanks Travis, more to come!
Wow . Amazingly put ❤
This is an awesome video!!!!
Very nice! "What is happiness? It's a moment before you need more happiness, you get hungry even though you've just eaten".
Great analysis, very captivating
Great Job. Dostoyevsky had spoken of these facts more than a century ago.
Thank you very much!
I assume you came with this observation from his books- which ones were you referring to?
So did the Buddha, Lao Tzu, Jesus, Marcus Aurelius and many more. Human nature never changes.
WoW ! Great Insights!
Being happy all the time is meaningless, because there would be no bad moments to compare it to. It would turn stale and empty after a while. True happiness gets its value from the fact it's fleeting. When true happiness ages, it becomes nostalgia.
You make some minor good point, here... but, ultimately, have offered a limited and flawed conclusion. At least as of this writing two years ago, you did not understand what _true happiness_ was.
Right now, I suppose true happiness comes from being at peace with yourself, your true self. Not that I have achieved such a thing.@@jimreadey4837
Amazing video bro, cheers from Argentina
Mad Men is my all time favorite show. And I’ve watched SO MANY shows. I like what you’re saying here...the self-imposed chase for constant wish fulfillment in life and how that’s represented in advertising (there’s always the next thing coming down the line). Mainly, though, I love your voice. It’s very soothing. Quite ASMR-y and brain-tingling. It took me a few minutes but I finally figured out that, to me, you sound like Justin Trudeau. Are you from the same part of the world? I’d be shocked if you weren’t. Count me as a new subscriber and I’ll be listening to more videos. Thanks for the hard work! @Mel_Med_Larson
I’m not Canadian. I’m originally from Ireland.
Bang on about him sounding like Trudeau... with less umm’s and uhh’s
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*fewer
@@jimreadey4837 thanks jim
@@trevdog110
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nah man this video was amazing summed up the whole show
Quality video. I bet you'll have a lot more subcribers soon...
the feeling that i had watching the show was i wish i could have his life but when it ended telling myself i am happy where i am
I love it! Great analysis. Especially now that i work in ads... 💕 Dont stop making videos! Susbcrrribed
Hit the nail on the head!
I never watched the show, but fascinating breakdown
5:40 Great Work here!
Nicely put
Fuck yeah! 185th sub!! Early, cuz u gonna blow up pretty soon based on this amazing analysis!!
Thank you I really appreciate that!
To paraphrase the Van Halen song, the more we get the more we want, just trade in one for the other. A simplified life will always make one happier.
Very good perspective
Fantastic video.
Feels he's not loveable for who he is because he was abandoned as a child. Isn't fully conscious of that and is in some denial as that's too painful a realization to manage. Fear of confronting his 'unloveability' and shame of his vulnerability stop him letting women get too close. It's not a new story. Albeit brilliantly told in the Series. Best Drama of the last Decade.
Good observation skills.
I think the title literally summarized the whole show.
hahahah first line of the video, i want to sample it and turn it into a rap beat - "advertising is based."
Beat breakdiwn about Don ive heard thus far.. alot of men with absent mothers can relate
Very good content.
That was sublime
as someone who has worked in advertising for more than a decade, i agree
If anyone ask me what the meaning of Mad Men is, I’ll send this
"Life is pain, Highness, anyone who says differently is selling something." - the Dread Pirate Roberts
*With no real mother figure in his life*
*Shows Anna Drapper*
My heart, please.