A constant physical and emotional struggle for me. I've been a recovered substance addict for some time now. Having dealt with drug addictions and lust, my addiction to lust has a significantly stronger hold on me. It's been years since I've seen pornography and I'm faithful to my wife. Yet this struggle is killing me and my mind is completely wrapped up in it and no one around me seems to understand or know how to be helpful. It's not anyone else's job to fix me but damn, I can't seem to fix it on my own.
Uhh I mean there is nothing wrong with those thoughts its normal for teenagers, as long as you dont do anything to harm someone its perfectly fine and normal and some people just dont have those feelings ever and that's ok we are all different and as long as your respectful to others you will be fine, also please be good and kind because you want to be not because it might get you to heaven. Thank you for reading this comment
NotA Programmer dude exactly, for me I started like 8th grade and ima be a junior now and it sucks. Like now it’s just a couple days without then I relapse the without it for days
@@castner7768 I'm 25, I struggle with this too! I used to be every couple of days but now for me its weekly and the urges dont have nearly as much! overtime we will overcome this in Christ Jesus!
1) Lack of prayer. A lack of prayer. Not persistently having relationship with God on daily basis. Lack of meditative prayer. 2) You are not actively crucifying the flesh and walking in the spirit. 3) They are not having sex with their spouse. 4) Tolerating sexual temptation to much in their life. 5) they're minimizing the seriousness of sexual sin and minimizing the importance and blessings of self control.
1. Prayer is done from coincidence leading to humans believing in causation, check out a Skinner's box ruclips.net/video/BR-eMMCp7tg/видео.html&vl=en. 2. ??? Having more faith, believing in the unproven ??? 3. Satisfying the natural sexual urges of living beings, because organisms evolved to desire sex in order to have a higher reproduction chance and species survival chance. (4 & 5 are correct, except sins are interpreted ideas, nature has no moral code).
@@personleperson8678 Our complexity defies entropy, one of the basic "laws". You don't know God but you can see the text. If you're willing, just ask Jesus if he's God. The eyes of the Lord are everywhere; he won't miss what you said. We don't believe with a lack of evidence; you just don't know God yet.
@@Rocksaplenty Watch the video Vsauce made - ruclips.net/video/BR-eMMCp7tg/видео.html&vl=en These are real social experiments where people thought their actions caused something out of their control, and people imagined and felt things in an entirely faked environment AKA - People are able to think prayer's change the world, and they can imagine an overcoming of a divine spirit if you suggest it the right way.
Im a christian struggling with lust. This video was like a breathe of fresh air. I fight lust everyday of my life. But i love the lord and will fight this with all my heart. I will be victorious in the end. Him who the son of GOD set free is free indeed. Today JESUS CHRIST set me free and I'm free indeed.
I think we need more sexual sin support groups within churches or it needs to be spoken of more.. cos this sin loves to hide in the dark and live in shame...!! Bringing this sin into the light of Christ will help heal so many people or help start the conversation. Especially those girls or guys who have been sexually assaulted or violated in someway there needs to be more support or openess within churches.. such an important topic!:) thanks Mark!:)
People may say it is fine and some will even say that it is good for you but beware sexual sin will destroy you spiritually, physically, emotionally, socially, mentally, sexually, your soul, and almost every other way you can think of!
Yes I think that's why in the bible especially the new testament it speaks against it so much because God knows how harmful and DESTRUCTIVE it is. I remember when I was younger something in me like a voice which I know confidently now was the holy spirit, was speaking to me to not let certain things or attraction to females go to far where lustful thoughts rose up. I guess I got prideful about it because I was acting like I could handle it and worse wasn't seeking God in that area so I did get worse unimaginably. Long story short, a certain night where I shouldn't have did something that would start and cost me a decade of slavery and sinfulness in sexual impurity and immorality. It is not worth it and really will take more than gives you and if God use me to help others dealing with this and want to stop and be free it. I personally can tell none of those wrong desires and lies of thinking it's ok because you can do it or everyone else is will gain you what you really want. You never really get what you really want out of it but its guaranteed you lose and have taken from you more! Also, it's very difficult maybe one of the most difficult things to ever choose to get help and see it's wrong and hurting you and to stop it and get free from. I just recently turned from that lifestyle and know I been release from the burden of it but because of doing all I did for so very long the lord and his spirit and word has to work on me mightily and heavily. But it comes with the choice personally and to have hope and faith that you can do and have better! We let the world around us make it seem ok and no big deal because it's a natural part of life. But because they don't know the lord and truth and don't have the spirit and word on them, they can't see and understand why it's so wrong and really harmful to live in that manner and see the consequences and effects of the sin to see why they are the way they are and they have harder lives. Henceforth the sexual diseases and unplanned children and the aspects spiritual and emotional dealing with people that don't care about others and won't mind cheating committing adultery and sexually assaulting someone. All this exposure or access that its LEGALLY available like porn, strip clubs, massage spas and etc. etc, few see or think it's the reason why so many out there have bad issues with sexuality and perversion and it needs to change. Me personally my prayer is that God will RE sensitize me and make me the way I was before being sexually active or promiscuous and that I will not desire none of it but in the right way purely which is in marriage to my future wife only hoping that I can still become the man I need to be and be blessed to marry the right good godly unconditionally loving woman for me.
When there is life, there is hope in deliverance. I lived the gay life from the age of 20-35. I thought I was born gay and lived accordingly. One day, my sister excepted Jesus as Savior. She then started teaching the Hope through the gospels. It took her 2 years of consistency in showing the love of who Jesus is and can be for me. After 2 years, my heart was opened to knowing who He was. He punched a hole in my life and delivered me from the desire to live that life. He did not take away the temptation at that point. I excepted Jesus as Savior and walked close to Him. Two years past and I started noticing women in a new way. I met my future bride, working in the Awanas at our church. I was scared to death but, asked her out on a date. She said yes... Yayee. The first night, I was transparent with her, she shared she was a sinner saved by Grace too. 9 months later she became my bride and that was 16 years ago. Now, I teach all over the country on the Hope same sex strugglers can be delivered from these chains. Perhaps not the desire itself but, guide a different path for you and give you spiritual strength. He hits these subjects spot on. Remember, we love the sinner, hate all sin and offer the Hope of Christ to all people. Only 1 sin He wii not forgives us for.. rejection Him.
Thank you for your share brother. Thank God for your deliverance. Sadly it's becoming a crime to address this issue with homosexuals and the "crime" of promoting conversion is gaining traction. Bless your courage. Keep going brother.
I can't bear this sin anymore 😔. I feel like if I continue to do this to myself that I am going to die. I feel so guilty all the time that it lurks behinds my mind everywhere I go and it clouds my judgement. But your wisdom Mark is helping me understand what I need to do and to not give in to hopelessness. Thank you Mark and God bless you.
You can overcome. The holy spirit is convicting you but give it to God. Even the fact that you're tired of sinning and the shame and the guilt shows that you're on the right path. Stay encouraged ❤. You are healed and delivered by the blood of Jesus.
Bro I can't really give you advice right now because I'm having problems with this myself and the Bible says the blind are not to lead the blind, but what I can tell you is that my mom overcome this spirit simple by strengthening her spirit, not giving in to condemnation, and confessing.
IS THEIR POWER IN LUST? My friend I know what it means to be tempted by the lust and other kind of depression I was tempted ever since I was a little girl it has lived with me like a shadow I did everything to overcome it I always repent and repent and repent again and again and also pray and read the bible but it was no good and one day I told God " I give up I am not going to fight it any more I am so tired of it, I have fought for 10 years I am not going to fight it anymore." What surprised me the most is that God hasn't gave up on me God was fighting for me and always whispers in my ear to get back up and how much he love me and fight it again in prayer and reading the bible. I thought that I got mad when this voice whispers in my ears. THE VOICE STARTED TO SCREAM IN MY EARS " I LOVE YOU " I couldn't resist the voice it was touching my heart so I got back up again and started to pray and read the bible again during that the Holy Spirit was revealing for me THE POWER OF JESUS BLOOD. During prayer God opened my eyes and I got the revelation of the blood and started to listen music about "THE BLOOD OF JESUS" read about THE BLOOD OF JESUS. I GOT FREE !!!!! Even when it tries to tempt me I declared "THEIR IS POWER ONLY IN THE BLOOD OF JESUS there is no such a thing written in the bible the power of lust JESUS already dethroned you. Devil you are the father of lies you have been laying me for 10 years you have no authority over me JESUS died for me on the CROSSE to be a victor not a victim. SO don't give up yet "I CHALLENGE YOU TO START DECLARING THE POWER OF THE BLOOD OF JESUS IN YOUR LIFE."
@@hannahailu4046 Hannah I agree, it has been like a shadow to me, I was exposed from a young age, I would say 4 to pornography. My name's Alejandro just an FYI. It haunts me till this day sadly
In my life, freedom came when I got so fed up with trying to find freedom through my own will-power and surrendered, humbly to God. I found when I spent time daily in His Word and prayer, I could walk free of the sinful practice. When I skipped my devotional time, I would choose the sinful practice again. There was a point where I felt in my spirit that God had absolutely set me free. Freedom was mine to walk in. God had broken its power over me. It took me months to successfully desire His presence more than the gratification of sexual sin. Now I am free, praise God!!! Remember though, an unprotected strength is a double weakness. Once you're free, stay in the Word and prayer, and enjoy the intimate, physical company of your spouse!!
For those struggling with lust I think this may help. 1.) Filter what you look at and watch and listen to. 2.)Believe In your heart that the battle is already one 3.) Treat the ppl you list after with love and treat them as a gift from God because that’s exactly what they are a gift from God. I hope that helps.🤞🏾🙏🏾
Sexual Sin is very very hard to overcome, I struggle with it everyday... Lord, I'm trying my best not to sin but it's soo soo very hard. Please lend me your strength to overcome the sins I keep committing. Release me from temptation and heal my heart in your name I pray...Amen.
This is by far my biggest struggle. I fail so often I wonder if I was ever born again in the first place. I truly feel completely alone and separated from our Father in heaven. Please, anyone, pray for me, please. I am embarrassed that God has been so kind to me and this is how I thank Him for hanging on a cross. Now I know why Paul said “oh wretched man that I am”. Thank you for posting this brother, please don’t stop.
@@LONEWLF practical advice: 1. Always focus on the Cross/Jesus not the sin 2. Pay attention if your previous generations struggled with sexual sin too, if so it might be a familiar spirit/demon and fasting and speaking outloud breaking the generational demonds ties might be necessary 3. What are you watching/listening to? what's triggering lust thoughts? pay attention to what's triggering the dirty thoughts and eradicate whatever is triggering the thoughts from your mind 4. Most importantly focus on Jesus (worship, time praying, fasting/praying)
Right there with you, Michael Oud. But I think of the Grace that He still gives us, even when we mess up. That's what gives me straight. Continue to fight the good fight, brother. I think we need accountability partners.
I really love the Lord, but sometimes I get so exhausted having to constantly pray about the same issue. I’m a 30yr old single woman and I just want to either find someone or hope that my sex drive goes away. It takes an incredible amount of discipline to stay before the presence of the Lord no matter if you’re married or single.
Grace sister, grace. If you already have a relationship with The Creator you can look at it as an apprenticeship, he's the Sensei and we're the students. If you pay attention and humble your senses just a little bit you can actually SEE GOD teaching you.
Thank you for you comment. I just want to say that it is not true that your issues and unmet desires will go away when you walk closer with God. We can see that from the Psalms. Many times David encountered sorrow even though he had a strong relationship with God. I have been celibate for 11years, so walking in purity is not the problem. The problem is continuously presenting a desire before the Lord that goes unanswered for many years and you are not sure if the end result will be what you hoped. I know I am not the only one who is in this position. Also, it’s not guaranteed that everyone will receive a spouse even if they are walking close with God. That’s a reality that some of us need to prepare ourselves for. Some people think that if they walk closer to God, then they will get something out of Him. The point is to seek His face out of genuine love even if he never blesses you with what you want.
I believe that I have to serve God whether he chooses to bless me or not. That is not being double minded. It’s a question everyone should ask themselves. Will I serve God even if I don’t get what I want? Paul had a thorn in his side and asked God three times to remove it. He did not, but gave him the grace to deal with it. That is all I am saying. That’s like saying if a Christian wasn’t healed from cancer they didn’t have enough faith. Everyone is not guaranteed a long healthy life. We live in a fallen world with many trials and tribulations.
Listening and agree are two different things. I heard what you had to say and I thanked you. I just disagreed with some of it. I have seen many of my friends settle for people who are not saved, or they walked away from the church completely for various unfulfilled desires. This is why I said everyone should ask themselves if they are truly committed to God even if the blessing takes a long time or doesn’t come at all. We don’t serve God to get something. That’s exactly what satan thought about Job. I appreciate you sharing your testimony. It’s just me personally, I would not tell someone that you don’t have enough faith if things don’t turn out the way they hoped. That’s not always the case. That is just a natural part of life. But it is nice to hear from another believer who has been where I’m at. Thank you for sharing.
Hello law I'm single lady praying to get honest husband... I'm keeping my self pure for the right guy.. I'm a teacher, bornagain Christian. +254722681697
Please pray for me. I keep promising God that I'll stop but then the next day rolls around and I give in. I willfully know the truth and I still do it. I just did it not too long ago today and I feel so bad for myself. I repented soon after though and I have faith and courage that the Lord forgave me. I have a desire to walk with Christ everyday and be a pure Christian everyday but that sexual sin still comes and I give in. Sorry Jesus, forgive me Lord. God bless everyone here! Amen
The Bible says when you fall Seven times get up! Don't stay in it. Pray and believe God has delivered you and and it will be so in your life. God knows your heart desires before you even ask. Fast and pray, and belkin God. Read the word of God. Yes ik it's hard because I was once struggling with it. Our eyes and ears are gates to our soul. It means what you see and hear will make you what you become. If social media drives you to do it, cut it off. Is watching movies Make you to do it cut it off. If seeing women exposed because you to lust, don't Look at them, and stare. The Bible says "flee" from sexual sin, it didn't say stand and try to resist the temptation. There's a reason Why it says flee. Most importantly, God doesn't give us a temptation that we can't overcome. It means whatever temptation you go through, you can overcome it. We're prone to sin, because of our sinful nature. But that's why Jesus came to conquer it for us. Don't give up because Jesus already did it for us. Don't give up it'll be over soon, and there will be no more sin. If you fall Seven times, get up 8 times. God is waiting for you to call on him so he can help you. But if you stay and listen to the lies of the devil to make you think you are not Worthy of God, then you will keep falling into it.
But, you MUST repent, confess your sin to God and ask for Him to forgive you and then try your best to not sin again. God knows your motive/posture of heart.
It’s a valiant goal but at the end of the day we are human. I’m only saying this because you shouldn’t absolutely beat yourself up and dwell on it if you fail. Just ask for forgiveness and go forward and with your best effort with His help.
@Amiel Shield This is why I advise against the "I'll never do it again talk". Never sinning is a promise that we cannot keep and that God knows we will fail in, but if you go to Him with a humble heart and you truly want to be better, he will forgive us. Keep praying and asking for forgiveness, but also pray for strength and self-control to resist sin in the future.
Don't get brainwashed by false teachings of men Listen - its speaking about spiritual adultery. Which is to abandon God for other idols or gods. Nothing to do with going with another women, for they had many wives back in the days of old. Jdg 8:27 Gideon crafted the booty into an ephod and enshrined it in his home town of Ophrah. Then all of Israel committed spiritual adultery with it there, and it became a snare for Gideon and his household. View more Jdg 8:33 Later on, as soon as Gideon was dead, the Israelis again committed spiritual adultery with various Canaanite deities and appointed Baal-berith to be their god. - sexual immorality has to do with cult practices. He is speaking about people doing sexual rituals in temples where they used to sacrifice to their gods. Jews and many other nations did temple cultic rituals having sex in secret temples. Nothing to do with you having sex with another person. Num 25:1 While Israel remained encamped in Shittim, the people began to commit sexual immorality with Moabite women, View more 2Ch 21:11 In addition to all of this, he built high places in the mountains of Judah, led the inhabitants of Jerusalem into cultic sexual immorality, and made Judah go astray. View more 2Ch 21:13 Instead, you have lived like the kings of Israel by causing Judah and the inhabitants of Jerusalem to commit cultic sexual immorality-just like Ahab’s dynasty did! And you’ve killed your brothers who were better than you-your own father’s dynasty Also I highly recommend you read Hosea 4 and Ezequiel 23. It says it clear. It is all related to temple worship. The men would pay for prostitutes in ancient history to convert to other gods that their fathers did not know.
@Adelsa Shield Girl been getting to this point as well!!! I just feel hopeless! It’s not even funny or cute! Ever since I got saved in 2014! I have been struggling with masturbation, then last year I gave into to it and had sex with someone for the first time in my life! We did it more than once! I was scared for my life! Because I kept thinking about how the wages of sin is death! But my pastor says God will give me the strength over sin! I just need to believe! Which is still hard because I keep on messing up! Also started letting guys touch me and went on a date with someone that wasn’t saved! I was living wild!
My heart just desires more of God and to live pure and in the joy of the purpose God has for me. But this is a struggle for me . Please pray for me 🥺🙏🏽
I just came across this video. It's an excellent topic. Sexual sin results in guilt and shame and stops Christians from sharing their testimonies and preaching the Gospel. Keeping yourself clean allows you to march forward with a clean conscience and share the truth with others.
everytime i give in to sexual sin i feel horrible, dirty and sometimes feel like i shouldnot continue living if i keep asking for forgiveness..i need help to overcome sexual sin i dont want to keep doing this please pray for me
I totally relate to what you going through, I feel like giving up at times, I nearly committed suicide for it because I could not bear the shame and guilt
Do not give up. This may happen to you many many times and leave you feeling completely worthless but your very last line of defense is your will to keep fighting, repent, wash yourself anew and keep going...it is the devil who sends you discouragement, he wants you to die in this sin...eventually, you will overcome.
By Fasting and Praying you can overcome the sins of the flesh, ( Matthew 26:41 ' The Spirit is Willing but the flesh is weak ' ) ( Matthew 17:21 ' But this kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting ' )
Yes, I'm 31 and thought I could live the bachelor lifestyle, I'd say he's 💯 right here. We aren't supposed to be alone. Around age 30 your body will keep its past desires and never change its habits. Some choose to stay behind and are set in their ways, but I choose to be with christ and let him guide me. Haven't found a wife yet but God assures me not to lose hope he's got one ready for me. I trust him 🙏
@@therealtornadosam you look too young if your the person on the Chanel.. If you are that young you have lots of time to do more to improve your self..don't rush to marrying.. If it's temptation and lust you need to find a buddy that will check on your activity on your thoughts and feelings to help you straighten your path whenever your going side ways.. If u want to date but worried about this you should look for a celibate dating site so you and the supposed to be partner is having 1goal and u'll be sorounded with lots pf support group..
I go great for months and then CRASH. Get going again for a while and then CRASH. Thank you for the work you put into this teaching and indeed your ministry, Mark. Delighted also to see that so many people are being blessed and benefitting from your work. God bless.
When you elevate anything higher then your relationship with God example , money , lust , a relationship , etc it becomes a form of an idol and that is what will have a strong hold over you . What controls you can feel like it owns you . But When you seek God with all your heart elevating nothing higher then that , you will begin to walk in the spirit far more then walking in the flesh gaining that self control because God will change the desires of your heart and you begin to care more about what pleases God then pleasing self .
If anyone sees this please pray for me. I too am struggling with lust and it is has hurt my relationship. I’m trying to overcome this, and become stronger in my faith to live accordingly. Thank you
Hey, i hope all is going well so far, God can help you, he loves so, alongside with his son. God has great plans for you, and he cares. Whenever you feel tempted to sin against God, always ask our God to help. I too, have the same lust problem, and im still working on it. I felt lost, and i thought that God gave up on me, and that i was hopeless. Then i started praying, asking God for help. Slowly, lust started to fade away, and its slowly becoming a thing in the past for me. Always ask our great God for his mercy, and for help. But dont forget to pray in Jesus' name, (It said in the bible, i am the way the truth and the life, nobody can come to the father, except through me) Praise God :D
Just know that sexual feelings are very normal. If you want to deal with it without having sex with someone, you could try masturbating on your own. Don't feel guilty: it's healthy for you!
@@ThisRobinDoodles Yeah, no. Masterbation is never the solution. In any circumstance. That's coming from someone who dealt with an addiction to it for ten years of her life.
Of course there are physical benefits to experiencing sexual pleasure. After all, it was created by God Himself as a gift to man. And as usual, man took that gift, abused it and twisted it to suit our own selfish purposes. And that's what masterbation is: just a twisted and perverted version of a beautiful and good gift from God. So no, masterbation is never good, in any way, shape, form, situation, or reason. "Benefits" or not.
I'm free guys I don't struggle anymore with sexual thoughts, just man up and say no each time you get those types of thoughts and watch random Christian videos or listen to Christian music, god bless you and trust in god
I have been single my whole life, I have a serious problem with sexual sin, I have never been married, i try to stop this but i can`t, please pray for me!!!!!!!
Sexual temptation is something I struggle with in the past and am currently working on one never having premarital sex again and two learning to not put myself in compromising situations like a night club or abstaining from alcohol so not to get tipsied. Infact staying away from night clubs helps a lot! My prayer life does need to improve, after the suicide of my sister i had a bit of a block in my prayer life due to grieving/pain, but i have been going to a support at my church called Griefshare and started writing out my prayers and journalling and this is helping!!:). I am actively crucifying the flesh now more than ever by avoiding the night clubs, avoiding flirting online with guys or in person, avoiding alcohol, avoiding romantic comedies or too much hollywood romance movies or IMVU some chat rooms, avoiding becoming too emotionally attached to my christian guy friends, getting some more christian counselling and making sure God fills the hole in my heart due to grief NOT premarital sex/men. I definately want marriage/kids one day being age 32 female BUT I need to work on self control in this sexual temptation area and with my lust thoughts before i start dating/courting the right guy!! Also i have stopped reading romance novels or movies with premarital sex in it (which is like all hollywood movies these days!). I am also careful about my friendships with non christian females who are engaging in premarital sex because at times they can influence me in a bad way.. so I am drawing close to my church and christian friends :)! If anyone wants to talk about this please pm down below as I understand! Only a very few ppl at my church know i have struggled with this but a LOT dont but i was thinking of giving a testimony but not sure yet cos im embarrassed!! Most ppl see me as a strong christian girl and role model so this side of me is something that is often hidden cos im ashamed!! Infact sexual sin has stopped me from stepping up to mentor the young university students because i know i have to fix it first and its a serious sin.. sexual sin is honestly aweful.. if ure a virgin make sure you stay one until marriage!! Trust me:)
Maybe you are already aware of this, but some of the most empowering things for me have been hope, a more positive/high view of sex(not like the nonsense of the "sex positive" movement), compassion for others that I would otherwise be harming, and not letting guilt or shame stand in the way of repentance. This may be a little bit like the blind leading the blind since I am not totally free of it yet(I have gone from looking at porn all day every day to generally going weeks without it but succumbing to temptation to look every few weeks or every month and not looking at stuff containing/exploiting real people but it still is not good). But I have made a great deal of progress. I have learned to actually see sex as a wonderful thing, rather than just paying lip service to the idea(many people say "sex can be a beautiful thing", but I am not sure they believe it or simply mentally assent to it). At this point, the idea of watching hardcore porn or ogling real women just seems crazy an untempting to me like an invitation to an orgy or something, but I still occasionally struggle with temptation to pursue arousal by looking at sexualized "cartoons", drawings, video games, last time was looking at "graphic novels", etc and it is easy to rationalize when I am vulnerable because I say to myself that the only person I am disrespecting or harming is me, and I sure don't feel harmed. My greatest vulnerability is not trusting God and thinking like he is a big ol prude or a killjoy. I know he isn't when I am in a good state of mind. Seeing sex highly does not mean obsessing over it, being licentious, thinking unrealistically about it(like romance movies), or seeing it like a "sex positive" person(who say that it is just casual fun and do not see it highly enough). To me viewing sex highly means recognizing that is was and is meant to be wonderfully loving, fun, bonding, clean, virtuous, generous, and satisfying(even if realistically, it will not be "perfect" every time even in a great marriage). One of the best arguments for this in my opinion is to look at all the horrendous evil that sexuality causes! God would not have made sex if it wasn't worth it but he decided that it was worth it(just like life is worth creating and living despite evil). But to be worthwhile, sex would have to be profoundly good, and it is! Temptation gets the better of me when I act like Adam and Eve and subconsciously think to myself "God is unfaithful and keeps good things like sexual pleasure from me!". I know that God isn't a prude and wants me to get a wife and have a good marriage, including sex! But I have to remind myself sometimes and sometimes I am deceived by the lie when I get really aroused and caught up in a temptation. Last time I even considered to pray for help to empower me to stop, but I chose not to because some part of me(a broken part of me or maybe some sort of demon or something) said to me something that if put into words would look something like "If you pray for help, you will probably be empowered to put a stop to this. But that would leave you feeling unsatisfied and you will miss out on the excitement!". To accept this lie is to believe that God is unfaithful to me and that it is his will for me to always be sexually unfulfilled or that he is just a big killjoy. When I am sober-minded, I know that if strong sexual urges are resisted and I redirect my focus(especially with exercise), they will be weakened. But when I am under the influence of these thoughts, I feel like they will last forever until I give in so it takes a leap of faith not to give in. You should not give into shame but you should consider and come to terms with how your behavior is harmful to the men involved, not only yourself. I am >>not being condemning here
I don't know if you will ever read this, but I just want to say that your testimony moved me. I recognise a lot of myself in it. I pray that you are doing well whereever you are. God bless!
lotrandsherlock hey thank you:) im so much better, premarital sex is something as a christian female you have to avoid at all costs as it can cause so much damage!! But praise god for our saviour Jesus Christ who died for our sins so we no longer have to live in shame but keep going and running the race Christ has set for us.. of course sexual past sin brought heavy consequences in my life but because I repented and worked on this lust area of my life I am now free or on a much better path:).. nothing is ever hopeless:) Theres always hope found in Christ.. sin just leads to pain and death
I just did too. It was strong demonic urges and the thoughts wouldn't leave me alone. I felt alone that nobody could relate that I was the only person going through trauma and all the sins I am. I felt alone and unique and fell into it. I know I'm demonized and thought wrong.
IS THEIR POWER IN LUST? My friend I know what it means to be tempted by the lust and other kind of depression I was tempted ever since I was a little girl it has lived with me like a shadow I did everything to overcome it I always repent and repent and repent again and again and also pray and read the bible but it was no good and one day I told God " I give up I am not going to fight it any more I am so tired of it, I have fought for 10 years I am not going to fight it anymore." What surprised me the most is that God hasn't gave up on me God was fighting for me and always whispers in my ear to get back up and how much he love me and fight it again in prayer and reading the bible. I thought that I got mad when this voice whispers in my ears. THE VOICE STARTED TO SCREAM IN MY EARS " I LOVE YOU " I couldn't resist the voice it was touching my heart so I got back up again and started to pray and read the bible again during that the Holy Spirit was revealing for me THE POWER OF JESUS BLOOD. During prayer God opened my eyes and I got the revelation of the blood and started to listen music about "THE BLOOD OF JESUS" read about THE BLOOD OF JESUS. I GOT FREE !!!!! Even when it tries to tempt me I declared "THEIR IS POWER ONLY IN THE BLOOD OF JESUS there is no such a thing written in the bible the power of lust JESUS already dethroned you. Devil you are the father of lies you have been laying me for 10 years you have no authority over me JESUS died for me on the CROSSE to be a victor not a victim. SO don't give up yet "I CHALLENGE YOU TO START DECLARING THE POWER OF THE BLOOD OF JESUS IN YOUR LIFE."
For all the people who are struggling we should make a group somewhere where we can help each other! So if someone is about to sin he or she can just send a message and we can all help! But we have to do help using the word of God not our own words!
I came across this video and I recently given my life to God. This is unfortunately something that is harder than I thought to fight. I trust the Lord in all things. I bought this book as well just have have extra help. Thank you for your ministry
So needed this. Please.pray for my deliverance with sexual sin. I want to be free but i still struggle. Times i can be doing so well and then i slip. This was definitely what i needed to hear bless u bro
Please pray for me I'm struggling with sexual sin... I'm tired of it but I always find myself back doing it again. I just want a peaceful life full of Jesus.
The way you talk about these things are so needed, nobody likes to talk about these situations. You explain how to overcome in a soft way like the love of Christ that I can feel Holy Spirit through this video and every video you do especially about this topic!!! These videos help me learn as a young single Christian how to live out Truth and it helps God to prune and clip me and convict me of things I had no clue about. It helps me even more that you are married because it shows truly that you know what covenant means and you live these things out. Truth flows out of you, thank you for helping me and so many others focus on Jesus and overcoming these sins and looking forward to who Christ says we are and the eternal purpose... I love you so much!!! May God bless you and your family!!!😭
Just finished a podcast series all about this topic. And many on here are spot on, the American church (I can only speak of American churches since I have not been to any other churches around the world) is hesitant to talk about this topic. Not addressing this in the church is doing the body of Christ a disservice. Great points Mark. I was in the ballpark with the same points. Glad I found this video to verify that the podcast is addressing consistently with what you spoke of here.
Excellent video, friend. Wow. Point number 4 really hit home. Allowing and tolerating sexual sin perpetuates sexual sin. I definitely have more say in this issue when I KNOW I may be placing myself INTO a situation that can become sexual/arousing. I have the strength for self control as Christ gives me the strength to do all things.
This was spot on for me. Those who struggle with sexual sin should really take this to heart - and always remember that our Father is merciful, forgiving and patient. Remember that you are a new creation in Christ, through faith. It is not of works. I struggled in this area for many years. It was so painful, and it became a vicious circle, where the more I sinned, the less I prayed and read the Bible, and that lead to more sin, and so on. Guilt tormented me. If this is your reality, trust God's grace and love. Trust that you are a new creation by faith in Jesus and what he did on the cross. The Bible says so! Then run to God, who is always ready to forgive. Trust Him with all your heart. He will do the work in you, as you continually Walk with Him. Have patience, seek Him, feed on Him, and you will start to see the change that He does in you! This is coming from someone who just recently started to realize who I am in Christ, and it has made all the difference. I am still learning so much, and I have a long way to go. I still struggle sometimes, but not nearly as much anymore. I am learning to keep trusting God and seeking Him. And the difference is remarkable. I pray for you who read this that you may see the truth 🙏❤️
Thankyou for being so clear and simplifying the topic. I have struggled with sexual sin and the reason I found you is because I am intentional in discipline and obeying God and winning against sexual sins..because it is possible.
Hey I’m really struggling from this (sexual lust and masterbation) My life is just feels like a mess,I really wanna stop 😔😩 I’m trying to avoid the tv,social media and I even set my phone to block sexual contents. But still when I go outside and I look around I can still see it, women dressed to show their curves. I really wanna be free, it’s like something that just turns on inside (a heat). Sometimes I even think crazy things like if I was blind or if I was a eunuch like Paul. I’m praying for help from God, I don’t when I’m gonna be free. I’m just a young guy trying to be obedient to my creator, but I just keep sinning.
"....women dressed to show their curves." That hit a nerve!!! I've been struggling to dress in a more decent manner and that line just encouraged me to keep trying!!! But the ladies won't cover up so you need to pray and fast!! Praying for you.
I'm with you brother I'm about to enter into a ministerial role and last night I blew it I'm so ashamed of myself I told everyone I wasn't qualified for this 😞 pray for me I know God wants to use me but I cant keep myself from failure
@@stupidleftists2580 I did too and I did twice and said to my self screw it. I have so many demonic strongholds and don't think I genuinely feel bad about what I'm doing to Jesus when I do that.
Repent and Believe it’s crazy cuz temptation and lust will eventually lead to actual sin if you allowed but I see the reason of pray and fasting and mediation in god word we can overcome its battle we will fight everyday but what is impossible with man is possible with god.god bless you you all let’s keep pushing closer to god
Our culture is perverted man. It's totally understandable. Woman dress this way because again, our modern society is screwed up. But you can overcome it! It's not the end!
Wow! Sooooooo many brothers and sisters struggling with this!!! Am 59 and, as for desire, it's plagued me from my youth.....less so now due to age. What was meant as a blessing has been the ONE and ONLY bane of my life!!! (I think we'll all be free soon though.)
Thank you. I sent this video to someone struggling with sexual sin, but I felt I needed to listen to this again. I got new info that I didn't get the first time.
Please anyone who reads this pray for my husband. He struggles with lust on the daily and it causes strain in our relationship because I’m so insecure already. We’re implementing complete honesty in our marriage and it has helped us keep up with our struggle. However prayers are appreciated I would love for him to be able to overcome this sin struggle
For all you guys "struggling" with this lust thing....... let's compare apples to apples here. Men are visually stimulated. Woman are stimulated by physical and/or emotional touch. A man looks at a woman and (within 3 seconds) has mentally decided if he would or would not want to have sex with her. (anyone who doesn't believe this is the actual mind processes of a man - is out of touch with reality) If the answer is yes it's because he determine that she is attractive/hot/sexy/pretty/cute/etc. (pick something). If that particular man decided to tell his partner that he thinks the other woman is attractive and women are smart enough to know that he has made that determination based on his conclusion that he would be willing to have sex with her. Men want the luxury of being visually stimulated and feel they should be allowed to do so without judgement. Here is where the apples to apples comparison comes in. We, women, are stimulated by physical and/or emotional touch so in order for us to have a similar experience to men's - we need to have some sort of "interaction" with the men we find attractive. So men - Wise up and recognize that your partner is probably jealous because she hasn't given herself permission to "interact" with other men for the physical and/or emotional connection (i.e. massage, hugging, intimate conversations, quality time, etc.) she would need to experience a comparable feeling to what you are getting out of "noticing" how attractive other women are. The next time you are feeling so sorry for yourselves for being misunderstood by your partner - realize that she doesn't misunderstand you at all! She GETS YOU!! That's what pisses her off! And if you don't want her to be pissed off - give her complete permission to go get a full body massage from the hottest man in town and spend the rest of the night with him sharing her feelings. That experience would (most likely) put her in a similar mindset as you allow yourself to go into every time you look twice at other attractive women! ONLY if you give your partner your blessing for her experiencing a similar mental rush ( in a way that pleases her ) to what you get from getting turned on by 'looking' at other women, can you give your own self permission to do what you do! Men you aren't stupid - you are just selfish! Either STOP sharing your own minds with other women - or start sharing your woman's mind with other men! If you don't want to do that then let that be your motivation to just stop!! It's a choice! That's it - A CHOICE!!
You do not need to stay with him!! Lust = adultery = divorce! I would leave him if he were my man! If he can't maintain control of his own mind and body - he is useless in taking care of you as Jesus commanded. So - get out, get out, get out!! (per this video!) ruclips.net/video/DG4tbMyHCVQ/видео.html
Robbie Amadeus Stoly hi! We’ve worked through this a lot! The honesty with each other was a great step and we grew closer in the Lord. We’re doing much better now! I wouldn’t say I resent him at all :)
Mark, i usually don't write comments on youtube videos, but i wanted to thank you, because your knowledge has helped me to understand what i couldn't understand my whole life. I've been struggling with porn addiction since i was a kid, even thought about ending my life because i've hurt loved ones due to this addiction and i couldn't figure out why i can't control myself, the things i do. That's when i surrendered to God and he changed my life. I'm only 1 month old in Christ and in this month God has revealed so many things to me about my past... and you being his vessel has also been a bless to me, to understand what went wrong and the scriptures. Thank you very much! keep doing videos. God bless you! PD: sorry for my english, it's not my first language haha
Am always struggling with this everyday! Now don't know what to do anymore, it's always Popping in my mind every second, God have mercy on me lifeless souls as mine😔😥
I was addicted to masterbation. I did it perhaps 5 times a day. I've been clean for 2 months now, and 2 days ago I made the decision to throw away a 150 dollar toy. I pray God will keep me strong and gives me a husband.
God loves you. It's a struggle and God knows our hearts and made a resolve to love us even when we're 'unlovable'. Looking forward to seeing you in heaven
And what you say, is what I try to relay to my fiance. We pray together, we go to Bible study, we go to church every week, but this is the one thing that holds us back. Especially on my end, me being delivered.. it just doesn’t make it easy. It seems like more of his struggle than mine, but I know what effect it has on me. Thank you, I needed this very much ❤️
For those struggling, try fasting and praying for however many days you can. And of course getting in the Word daily. Be persistent and you’ll get your deliverance. There’s a spirit of lust behind that’s why it’s so so difficult to overcome on your own. Remember what Jesus said about casting out some demonic spirits? Some are only cast out by prayer and fasting. Blessings to you all.
God bless your heart Mark! I am struggling with this menace and living with the power of faith,my prayers. Our GOD is a GOD of mercy, ask for his mercy through daily prayer.
Please really keep me in prayer as I'm literally dealing with this in the worse way. I'm honestly trying to stop doing things and sinning especially with sexual sins and immorality and impurity and lust and truly turn my life back to the lord but this keeps getting a hold of me. I haven't did anything yet as far as since repenting and getting back to christ and going to church but the last week I been struggling and even honestly contemplating to. I missed church this morning which I hate I did and regret so I think that made it worse and I really been thinking about doing something but I really dont want to feel that way cause it's wrong and worse and I dont want to do or be wrong no more but it's so much involving this I dont think I can deal with it on my own.
I feel that when I'm idle its more of a temptation. Keep yourself busy and thinking the right thoughts. Seeking the Kingdom of God. Get yourself ready to actually be in a relationship that leads to marriage, if that's the case here of course.
@@MariS1980 yes I completely agree cause when I'm not doing things or even doing important or constructive positive things that's when temptation gets me.
Just give your life to Jesus and Read Gods word. He loves you do much, keep your eye on God while in this much asking world. God can use everyone he can also use you. Be baptized with water and the holy spirit. If you put time in your relationship with Jesus it Will grow. Stay strong with Jesus!
Whatever brother said was exactly is happening with me & the mostly that i lack.. Lack of prayer is the main reason. Absolutely important for me, it wasn't a coincidence but God warns me to needed to focus in prayers stronger ..
I'm married and it's so hard because women throw themselves at me all the time. I was always the guy who loved attention from women. So it's so hard for me to not like it or lust after them. I need deliverance from this. My wife is amazing
A true believer of christ can't be hellbound repent of that mindset you are a child of God not of this world now walk like it were all in this together we must continue to fight the bible says the rightous man falls 7 times and gets up prove that you are the rightous man or woman that u are and get up and fight back with the word Of God
God bless you. I've been turning my life around but I noticed music and sexual sins are the hardest. I'll do good for couple days but it sneaks up on me, the temptation is everywhere. I'm also a recovering alcoholic. Everyday it's a battle.
The spirit of masterbation is wicked. Having been married but when Jesus healed me, my husband divorced me, the only remedy it seems is to fall on my face before Jesus after having fled temptation & then submit it to Him. It's not at all easy. It's the most difficult thing I do, to be honest, but what other option is there? No one else wants to talk about it & asking for specific prayer with my new sisters for this isn't something I feel is appropriate. I tried it once & they avoided me, so I just bring it to the Lord. What else is there? The world is broken. Fasting & praying all night is soooo easy compared to this. I'm grateful for His Word & this Word as well. I already live a very prayerful life. That's not the area of change for me in this regard. I don't go more than a few moments without talking to God, but i also pray more formally in my prayer closet, often in the spirit & corporately, so that's not the issue. And I'm not ready for marriage. This may just be the cross that I bear in this life. Not at all happy about it but oh well. Praying, worship, and studying the Word is my new life. So I will pray much more for my flesh to be crucified. I'll give y'all a report in a few months & let you know how it goes. We just have to pray for each other. Y'all have my prayers.
I have Just done something bad to day and i pray to God quickly and then ask him to give me some help. And then when i my open my RUclips i saw this video now i feel he's helping me to get trough this thank you very much for making this video he use this to show me what im doing wrong all the time thank you very much
I gave in too ...I feel useless...I feel I wanna get married nau and am literally young for that buh this eager is too high for me ...pray for me I jus cant stop😢
@@doityourselfartoftheheart1715 thnk you actually I hav to confess since then it has disturbed me buh ave Been praying neva losing hop n tuday God answered me not jus thru the advice uv given buh thru several pple tuday ave seen God's works n i had to go repent n thnk him for changing my mindset n putting some sense in me..God bless you..shalom
@@naomivali3428 your not alone many of us having a hard time battl with it and gove up sometimes but with out the proper reason marrying is not an option it will only make u more disappointed if the fleshy fashion dednt meet..sometimes you uave to access your self there coukd be mire more than that fashion or desire the reason behind..you need to uave peace with your sekf and heart understand that only God can fullfill the longing you wanted to be fulfill within your heart..Hes the one thats always beside you whenever you are..Be intimate in spirit with God..Accept His love and then let Him descide when will you meet this guy fashionate about God to be able enough to love you as Gods want you to be love
@@doityourselfartoftheheart1715 amen my dia God bless you ...uv been a blessing in my life for these advices they might seem few buh hnstly they have it all...may peace b with us all n may God teach us to love him even more than we do ...SHALOM
God bless you brother. It's good that I found you on RUclips. Whatever you're doing for the glory of God definitely will not go in vain and it'll be rewarded. Keep continuing to do more for the Lord Jesus and to reach the unreached. God bless you and your family. Thank you brother.
I also believe that with sexual sin there is a spirit of oppression that can turn into possession and then deliverance and casting out these evil beings needs to happen to break the strong hold and ties.
thank you so much for the video, I noticed the first reason was my why to fallen to it, so I start practice just the 1st reason, : not being devoted to God. to spend daily time to read the bible and pray, and whenever the sexual desire came in, I would pray for marring , I may not get marry still , it feels like the burden of my fleshly desire, would be lifted up on JESUS, thank you so much brother. it's been a month now, and I am continue pray and read the bible every morning, but also what helped me was fasting from food during the days when I have strong desire. thanks be to God for this amazing video
I struggle badly with this. I fight this by myself. Since my ex and I are apart, I’ve part take in porn and other sexual sin. I’m broken but I fight alone and it’s hard
Ur not alone. A lot of people go tru this. Its easier to just give up, but if God's kingdom was easy to get in then what are we fighting for? One thing I noticed is no matter how much u pray, if u dont keep urself grounded in God's word, u can easily fall back into temptation. God really does help when I pray. I can see him help me, but when I have no word of God to meditate at that point, it gets difficult. Pick a word, even if its just one verse, meditate on it, and sincerely ask God for a spiritual understanding, and d grace for you to practice his word. Remember God can help u if you re downright sincere. God is indeed real and gracious cos he helped me. Also pray to the Lord for a good partner that thinks the way God wants. That helps too. Remain blessed!🙂
Wish there were more Christian support groups out there for the sexually addicted. I've been through everything trying to find the power to overcome. At one time after so much struggle I thought God had brought me a wife but that was she and everything prayed for was taken away. Sex drive sigh.
I've struggled so much with this. I am so grateful for this video! I really needed to hear this. Everything is kinda leading for me to find someone now. I guess I needed confirmation in some type of way.
Transferring of demons through child incestral rape has been beyond damaging 🥺 God let it happen for a reason, I’m forever his warrior! Keep up the Faith✨✝️💜
Pornography has destroyed my life over the long haul. I remember when i was in my teens and I was first exposed to pornography. I went Into a porn theater in manhattan and as I saw the sex acts being performed on the screen I felt a wave of energy come over me which I believe to be Satan. Over many years of going to strip clubs and prostitutes on and off I had long periods of freedom from it when I had relationships but kept falling back into it. And fast foward to now. Marijuana and alcohol were always a catalyst for my bad behavior. And recently I went too far with a stripper and caught an std . Now I have Serious health problems and I dont know what the out come will be. I confessed to God and accepted jesus as my lord and savior but sometimes I think I pushed God's patience and I will not recieve his good graces. I had a number of chances but I think he gave up on me. I have been in relatiinships and had other opportunities to pursew a good relationship but dropped the ball on it.
the heat at the theater is a demon. Marijuana and drugs open the door for demons to possess or have a stronghold on people. So does watching porn. The good news is that Jesus will never given up on you, the demons want you to believe that so it's YOU who gives up on God, but I believe and pray that won't happen. Repent and once you repent focus on Jesus, dont keep beating yourself up, remember when we commit one sin commits them all so quite frankly your sin is not worse than other sins. I'll leave you with practical advice: 1. Always focus on the Cross/Jesus not the sin 2. Pay attention if your previous generations struggled with sexual sin too, if so it might be a familiar spirit/demon and fasting and speaking out loud breaking the generational demons ties might be necessary 3.Ready the Bible daily and arm yourself with scripture that speak purity over you, speak them out loud and over your disease, remember Jesus came so you can have life abundantly 5. What are you watching/listening to? what's triggering lust thoughts? pay attention to what's triggering the dirty thoughts and eradicate whatever is triggering the thoughts from your mind 6. Most importantly focus on Jesus (worship, time praying, fasting/praying)
God loves you! He wants the best for you and that is control over your flesh. And even though you've fallen dont give up on God! We've all fallen short and there's a spiritual battle going on in this world but remember He's given us the victory and the Holy Spirit to overcome all temptation!!!!! 🛡️🗡️🙏🔥🔥🙌
Hi phillip, i don't share in your testimony except for one area: feeling alone as if God gave up on me. I bugged Him. I talked to Him all day in my head. I read His words everyday. I made it so He'd hear my voice constantly. I pushed myself into Him. You are not alone. God IS love. That voice telling you that he has forsaken you, is the devil. You are not alone. You are loved. Build a relationship with Him. He wants you, He wants to hear you. He wants you to ask Him to sit with you when you feel alone. From experience, this worked. We aren't alone, and He hasn't given up on us. Waking up every morning is proof. You catching an std was God calling your name. He CHOSE you. You are one of His. God only corrects His chosen. He wants to change your life in ways you can't imagine. But you need to pick yourself back up and run to Him. He's waiting. 💕
Dont worry, our great God will never forsake you. Whenever, you feel like sinning, or being tempted, ask God to not forsake you. Ask for him to save you. Always keep your head up, God loves you and has great plans for you :D
This came at the right time for me >_< Thank you for this video, I may be coming back to watch this a few more times to remind myself if I start to stray. I'd been struggling this weekend and then when I looked to see what you had uploaded, it was just perfect
I’ve been struggling lately. This video helped put things into perspective for me. I know I’ve done wrong and that I need to repent and ask for his forgiveness. I’ve recently felt a nudge that I really need to get right with God before I get any further than I already am. I pray that he will forgive me and leads me to a path that glorifies him. I am tired of having these desires and want to go back to the days that I had a fire for the lord. Pray that He will forgive me and I find peace in Him to fight the urge to fall back into sexual sin and temptation.
I don’t know why I keep giving into it. Just as I was feeling this is the closest and strongest relationship with Jesus I have ever been. Then I find myself entertaining it and then I can’t stop until I’m done. I’m tired of this and I don’t want to be where I was before. I feel like I’m just taking advantage of His grace and he is going to part from me. I want to be able to say no more then once I WANT IT BENEATH ME!!
Thank you for addressing , acknowledging and helping those of us who are single and dealing with this area of our lives . I welcome and appreciate your input , experience and willingness to share about this !! I’m enjoying and reading your book and know this can help me and many others . You are an inspiration and blessing from God . Thanks !
*Get married instead of falling in sin, it's better to be Single like me than to be married says Paul (the single man) 1 Corinthians 7:8- 9 8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I. 9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.
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The addiction is very real and the voice of temptation is very cunning. And for what? Ten seconds of dopamine rush.
And days , weeks or longer of guilt.
We all feel the same pain, god is here to lift it
Amen Brother, I struggle as well. Satan tries to decieve us and get us when we are weak. We need to put on the armour of God
Smh
A constant physical and emotional struggle for me. I've been a recovered substance addict for some time now. Having dealt with drug addictions and lust, my addiction to lust has a significantly stronger hold on me. It's been years since I've seen pornography and I'm faithful to my wife. Yet this struggle is killing me and my mind is completely wrapped up in it and no one around me seems to understand or know how to be helpful. It's not anyone else's job to fix me but damn, I can't seem to fix it on my own.
I am a teenage Christian, I don't comment much but this time I am losing please pray for me😭🙏
I struggle with it too. But you shall overcome! Stay strong!
Uhh I mean there is nothing wrong with those thoughts its normal for teenagers, as long as you dont do anything to harm someone its perfectly fine and normal and some people just dont have those feelings ever and that's ok we are all different and as long as your respectful to others you will be fine, also please be good and kind because you want to be not because it might get you to heaven. Thank you for reading this comment
@@flarefox1912 you’re wrong
@@DrOrr how?
@@flarefox1912 lust is not good at all
I'm so sick of sin. I would rather pass away than sin. I'm so tired of this sinful world.
Amen man, youre not alone!
well become the president and make it less sinful
Me too it sucks when you want so badly to be clean but you’re in bondage and being tempted by Satan..🤦♀️
Same here
Im with u bro I can't wait for us to walk with jesus on the earth being free from sin
"Submit yourselves therefore unto God. Resist the devil, and he shall flee from you!" James 4:7
Easier said than done.
NotA Programmer dude exactly, for me I started like 8th grade and ima be a junior now and it sucks. Like now it’s just a couple days without then I relapse the without it for days
You have no idea how strong sexual sin is brother
@@castner7768 I'm 25, I struggle with this too! I used to be every couple of days but now for me its weekly and the urges dont have nearly as much! overtime we will overcome this in Christ Jesus!
@@lightray9573 hey man I’m still doing it, but I came across this messages and gave me the motivation to stop and try again, thanks man 👍
1) Lack of prayer. A lack of prayer. Not persistently having relationship with God on daily basis. Lack of meditative prayer.
2) You are not actively crucifying the flesh and walking in the spirit.
3) They are not having sex with their spouse.
4) Tolerating sexual temptation to much in their life.
5) they're minimizing the seriousness of sexual sin and minimizing the importance and blessings of self control.
Thanks . Very helpful.
1. Prayer is done from coincidence leading to humans believing in causation, check out a Skinner's box ruclips.net/video/BR-eMMCp7tg/видео.html&vl=en.
2. ??? Having more faith, believing in the unproven ???
3. Satisfying the natural sexual urges of living beings, because organisms evolved to desire sex in order to have a higher reproduction chance and species survival chance.
(4 & 5 are correct, except sins are interpreted ideas, nature has no moral code).
@@personleperson8678 Our complexity defies entropy, one of the basic "laws".
You don't know God but you can see the text.
If you're willing, just ask Jesus if he's God. The eyes of the Lord are everywhere; he won't miss what you said. We don't believe with a lack of evidence; you just don't know God yet.
Thank you, you saved me 16 minutes of my life!
@@Rocksaplenty Watch the video Vsauce made - ruclips.net/video/BR-eMMCp7tg/видео.html&vl=en
These are real social experiments where people thought their actions caused something out of their control, and people imagined and felt things in an entirely faked environment
AKA - People are able to think prayer's change the world, and they can imagine an overcoming of a divine spirit if you suggest it the right way.
Im a christian struggling with lust. This video was like a breathe of fresh air. I fight lust everyday of my life. But i love the lord and will fight this with all my heart. I will be victorious in the end. Him who the son of GOD set free is free indeed. Today JESUS CHRIST set me free and I'm free indeed.
Amen!
Amen! Without faith it’s impossible to please him the Bible says!
If you are suffering from it your not alone, I would highly recommend going to a revival and seeking deliverance. God bless you
Amen
Amen
I think we need more sexual sin support groups within churches or it needs to be spoken of more.. cos this sin loves to hide in the dark and live in shame...!! Bringing this sin into the light of Christ will help heal so many people or help start the conversation. Especially those girls or guys who have been sexually assaulted or violated in someway there needs to be more support or openess within churches.. such an important topic!:) thanks Mark!:)
Amen, totally agree!!!
You are right, it's a topic that is not "fun" to talk about so I think many churches just avoid it.
ApplyGodsWord.com/Mark Ballenger please continue to talk about it when possible or appropriate it helps!:)
A mature believer who you can trust as an Accountability partner helps.
Celebrate Recovery has a great support group for every issue. See if a church near you has one! Its fantastic. Totally confidential and group rules.
People may say it is fine and some will even say that it is good for you but beware sexual sin will destroy you spiritually, physically, emotionally, socially, mentally, sexually, your soul, and almost every other way you can think of!
True!
Facts
I agree.
Yes and Amen
Yes I think that's why in the bible especially the new testament it speaks against it so much because God knows how harmful and DESTRUCTIVE it is.
I remember when I was younger something in me like a voice which I know confidently now was the holy spirit, was speaking to me to not let certain things or attraction to females go to far where lustful thoughts rose up. I guess I got prideful about it because I was acting like I could handle it and worse wasn't seeking God in that area so I did get worse unimaginably. Long story short, a certain night where I shouldn't have did something that would start and cost me a decade of slavery and sinfulness in sexual impurity and immorality. It is not worth it and really will take more than gives you and if God use me to help others dealing with this and want to stop and be free it. I personally can tell none of those wrong desires and lies of thinking it's ok because you can do it or everyone else is will gain you what you really want. You never really get what you really want out of it but its guaranteed you lose and have taken from you more! Also, it's very difficult maybe one of the most difficult things to ever choose to get help and see it's wrong and hurting you and to stop it and get free from. I just recently turned from that lifestyle and know I been release from the burden of it but because of doing all I did for so very long the lord and his spirit and word has to work on me mightily and heavily. But it comes with the choice personally and to have hope and faith that you can do and have better!
We let the world around us make it seem ok and no big deal because it's a natural part of life. But because they don't know the lord and truth and don't have the spirit and word on them, they can't see and understand why it's so wrong and really harmful to live in that manner and see the consequences and effects of the sin to see why they are the way they are and they have harder lives. Henceforth the sexual diseases and unplanned children and the aspects spiritual and emotional dealing with people that don't care about others and won't mind cheating committing adultery and sexually assaulting someone. All this exposure or access that its LEGALLY available like porn, strip clubs, massage spas and etc. etc, few see or think it's the reason why so many out there have bad issues with sexuality and perversion and it needs to change.
Me personally my prayer is that God will RE sensitize me and make me the way I was before being sexually active or promiscuous and that I will not desire none of it but in the right way purely which is in marriage to my future wife only hoping that I can still become the man I need to be and be blessed to marry the right good godly unconditionally loving woman for me.
When there is life, there is hope in deliverance. I lived the gay life from the age of 20-35. I thought I was born gay and lived accordingly. One day, my sister excepted Jesus as Savior. She then started teaching the Hope through the gospels. It took her 2 years of consistency in showing the love of who Jesus is and can be for me. After 2 years, my heart was opened to knowing who He was. He punched a hole in my life and delivered me from the desire to live that life. He did not take away the temptation at that point. I excepted Jesus as Savior and walked close to Him. Two years past and I started noticing women in a new way. I met my future bride, working in the Awanas at our church. I was scared to death but, asked her out on a date. She said yes... Yayee. The first night, I was transparent with her, she shared she was a sinner saved by Grace too. 9 months later she became my bride and that was 16 years ago. Now, I teach all over the country on the Hope same sex strugglers can be delivered from these chains. Perhaps not the desire itself but, guide a different path for you and give you spiritual strength. He hits these subjects spot on. Remember, we love the sinner, hate all sin and offer the Hope of Christ to all people. Only 1 sin He wii not forgives us for.. rejection Him.
Amen That's A Great Helpful Testimony. I Struggle With Same Sex Attractions.
Amen!
Your testimony brought tears to my eyes. God is soooo good and I'm so glad you accepted Him!!🙏
Thank you for your share brother. Thank God for your deliverance. Sadly it's becoming a crime to address this issue with homosexuals and the "crime" of promoting conversion is gaining traction. Bless your courage. Keep going brother.
Wow amen 🙏🏾!! Hallelujah ❤️!!
I can't bear this sin anymore 😔. I feel like if I continue to do this to myself that I am going to die. I feel so guilty all the time that it lurks behinds my mind everywhere I go and it clouds my judgement. But your wisdom Mark is helping me understand what I need to do and to not give in to hopelessness. Thank you Mark and God bless you.
Facing the same problems, 😢
@revelation1217 ministries me? No.
You can overcome. The holy spirit is convicting you but give it to God. Even the fact that you're tired of sinning and the shame and the guilt shows that you're on the right path. Stay encouraged ❤. You are healed and delivered by the blood of Jesus.
Bro I can't really give you advice right now because I'm having problems with this myself and the Bible says the blind are not to lead the blind, but what I can tell you is that my mom overcome this spirit simple by strengthening her spirit, not giving in to condemnation, and confessing.
@@elilundgreen I shall do the same soon
please pray for me. i am struggling with sexual sin.
IS THEIR POWER IN LUST?
My friend I know what it means to be tempted by the lust and other kind of depression I was tempted ever since I was a little girl it has lived with me like a shadow I did everything to overcome it I always repent and repent and repent again and again and also pray and read the bible but it was no good and one day I told God " I give up I am not going to fight it any more I am so tired of it, I have fought for 10 years I am not going to fight it anymore." What surprised me the most is that God hasn't gave up on me God was fighting for me and always whispers in my ear to get back up and how much he love me and fight it again in prayer and reading the bible. I thought that I got mad when this voice whispers in my ears. THE VOICE STARTED TO SCREAM IN MY EARS " I LOVE YOU " I couldn't resist the voice it was touching my heart so I got back up again and started to pray and read the bible again during that the Holy Spirit was revealing for me THE POWER OF JESUS BLOOD. During prayer God opened my eyes and I got the revelation of the blood and started to listen music about "THE BLOOD OF JESUS" read about THE BLOOD OF JESUS. I GOT FREE !!!!! Even when it tries to tempt me I declared "THEIR IS POWER ONLY IN THE BLOOD OF JESUS there is no such a thing written in the bible the power of lust JESUS already dethroned you. Devil you are the father of lies you have been laying me for 10 years you have no authority over me JESUS died for me on the CROSSE to be a victor not a victim.
SO don't give up yet "I CHALLENGE YOU TO START DECLARING THE POWER OF THE BLOOD OF JESUS IN YOUR LIFE."
Pray for me as well as I've been struggling with sexual sin since I was 10 years old - I'm 46 now.
@@hannahailu4046 Hannah I agree, it has been like a shadow to me, I was exposed from a young age, I would say 4 to pornography. My name's Alejandro just an FYI. It haunts me till this day sadly
Me too man I'll pray for ya
In my life, freedom came when I got so fed up with trying to find freedom through my own will-power and surrendered, humbly to God.
I found when I spent time daily in His Word and prayer, I could walk free of the sinful practice. When I skipped my devotional time, I would choose the sinful practice again. There was a point where I felt in my spirit that God had absolutely set me free. Freedom was mine to walk in. God had broken its power over me. It took me months to successfully desire His presence more than the gratification of sexual sin. Now I am free, praise God!!!
Remember though, an unprotected strength is a double weakness. Once you're free, stay in the Word and prayer, and enjoy the intimate, physical company of your spouse!!
For those struggling with lust I think this may help.
1.) Filter what you look at and watch and listen to.
2.)Believe In your heart that the battle is already one
3.) Treat the ppl you list after with love and treat them as a gift from God because that’s exactly what they are a gift from God.
I hope that helps.🤞🏾🙏🏾
Sexual Sin is very very hard to overcome, I struggle with it everyday...
Lord, I'm trying my best not to sin but it's soo soo very hard. Please lend me your strength to overcome the sins I keep committing. Release me from temptation and heal my heart in your name I pray...Amen.
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This is by far my biggest struggle. I fail so often I wonder if I was ever born again in the first place. I truly feel completely alone and separated from our Father in heaven. Please, anyone, pray for me, please. I am embarrassed that God has been so kind to me and this is how I thank Him for hanging on a cross. Now I know why Paul said “oh wretched man that I am”. Thank you for posting this brother, please don’t stop.
I feel the same way often
I feel the same also n need prayers
@@LONEWLF practical advice: 1. Always focus on the Cross/Jesus not the sin 2. Pay attention if your previous generations struggled with sexual sin too, if so it might be a familiar spirit/demon and fasting and speaking outloud breaking the generational demonds ties might be necessary 3. What are you watching/listening to? what's triggering lust thoughts? pay attention to what's triggering the dirty thoughts and eradicate whatever is triggering the thoughts from your mind 4. Most importantly focus on Jesus (worship, time praying, fasting/praying)
Right there with you, Michael Oud. But I think of the Grace that He still gives us, even when we mess up. That's what gives me straight. Continue to fight the good fight, brother. I think we need accountability partners.
@@MrPaulecummins I am pretty sure there is no where you can point me in the Bible that states erections are sin.............
I was okay before this quarantine. I put temptation behind me... since I’ve been shut in the house is it’s creeped back up...
I really love the Lord, but sometimes I get so exhausted having to constantly pray about the same issue. I’m a 30yr old single woman and I just want to either find someone or hope that my sex drive goes away. It takes an incredible amount of discipline to stay before the presence of the Lord no matter if you’re married or single.
Grace sister, grace. If you already have a relationship with The Creator you can look at it as an apprenticeship, he's the Sensei and we're the students. If you pay attention and humble your senses just a little bit you can actually SEE GOD teaching you.
Thank you for you comment. I just want to say that it is not true that your issues and unmet desires will go away when you walk closer with God. We can see that from the Psalms. Many times David encountered sorrow even though he had a strong relationship with God. I have been celibate for 11years, so walking in purity is not the problem. The problem is continuously presenting a desire before the Lord that goes unanswered for many years and you are not sure if the end result will be what you hoped. I know I am not the only one who is in this position. Also, it’s not guaranteed that everyone will receive a spouse even if they are walking close with God. That’s a reality that some of us need to prepare ourselves for. Some people think that if they walk closer to God, then they will get something out of Him. The point is to seek His face out of genuine love even if he never blesses you with what you want.
I believe that I have to serve God whether he chooses to bless me or not. That is not being double minded. It’s a question everyone should ask themselves. Will I serve God even if I don’t get what I want? Paul had a thorn in his side and asked God three times to remove it. He did not, but gave him the grace to deal with it. That is all I am saying. That’s like saying if a Christian wasn’t healed from cancer they didn’t have enough faith. Everyone is not guaranteed a long healthy life. We live in a fallen world with many trials and tribulations.
To be honest, I think you’re being presumptuous and critical. Thank you for your comments though.
Listening and agree are two different things. I heard what you had to say and I thanked you. I just disagreed with some of it. I have seen many of my friends settle for people who are not saved, or they walked away from the church completely for various unfulfilled desires. This is why I said everyone should ask themselves if they are truly committed to God even if the blessing takes a long time or doesn’t come at all. We don’t serve God to get something. That’s exactly what satan thought about Job. I appreciate you sharing your testimony. It’s just me personally, I would not tell someone that you don’t have enough faith if things don’t turn out the way they hoped. That’s not always the case. That is just a natural part of life. But it is nice to hear from another believer who has been where I’m at. Thank you for sharing.
Please pray for me, i am unmarried and desire to live pure for the Lord Jesus until i find a wife or can gain enough self control to overcome.
I struggle with the same thing too.
Fast and pray for deliverance.
Jessica B. I prayed for you both. I can’t imagine what you’re going through but definitely keep praying to God to reveal his plans for you
@Jessica B. Im diagnosed schizoaffective too.
Hello law I'm single lady praying to get honest husband... I'm keeping my self pure for the right guy.. I'm a teacher, bornagain Christian. +254722681697
Please pray for me. I keep promising God that I'll stop but then the next day rolls around and I give in. I willfully know the truth and I still do it. I just did it not too long ago today and I feel so bad for myself. I repented soon after though and I have faith and courage that the Lord forgave me. I have a desire to walk with Christ everyday and be a pure Christian everyday but that sexual sin still comes and I give in. Sorry Jesus, forgive me Lord. God bless everyone here!
Amen
The Bible says when you fall Seven times get up!
Don't stay in it. Pray and believe God has delivered you and and it will be so in your life. God knows your heart desires before you even ask. Fast and pray, and belkin God. Read the word of God. Yes ik it's hard because I was once struggling with it. Our eyes and ears are gates to our soul. It means what you see and hear will make you what you become. If social media drives you to do it, cut it off. Is watching movies Make you to do it cut it off. If seeing women exposed because you to lust, don't Look at them, and stare. The Bible says "flee" from sexual sin, it didn't say stand and try to resist the temptation. There's a reason Why it says flee.
Most importantly, God doesn't give us a temptation that we can't overcome. It means whatever temptation you go through, you can overcome it. We're prone to sin, because of our sinful nature. But that's why Jesus came to conquer it for us. Don't give up because Jesus already did it for us. Don't give up it'll be over soon, and there will be no more sin. If you fall Seven times, get up 8 times. God is waiting for you to call on him so he can help you. But if you stay and listen to the lies of the devil to make you think you are not Worthy of God, then you will keep falling into it.
I did it yesterday😭😭 God forgive me
But, you MUST repent, confess your sin to God and ask for Him to forgive you and then try your best to not sin again. God knows your motive/posture of heart.
Amen
You forgot to say, "And put your faith in Jesus"
Try your best ? Many have tried relentlessly.
@@oliverkent7158 .....? What is your point or question? Please elaborate.
Today is my Birthday...Thank you Jesus 🙏
I have promised my self, that I’m never gonna fall in a sexual sin ever, from this day in the name of my lord and saviour Jesus Christ/God amen ✝️❤️✝️
It’s a valiant goal but at the end of the day we are human. I’m only saying this because you shouldn’t absolutely beat yourself up and dwell on it if you fail. Just ask for forgiveness and go forward and with your best effort with His help.
@Amiel Shield This is why I advise against the "I'll never do it again talk". Never sinning is a promise that we cannot keep and that God knows we will fail in, but if you go to Him with a humble heart and you truly want to be better, he will forgive us. Keep praying and asking for forgiveness, but also pray for strength and self-control to resist sin in the future.
Don't get brainwashed by false teachings of men
Listen
- its speaking about spiritual adultery. Which is to abandon God for other idols or gods. Nothing to do with going with another women, for they had many wives back in the days of old.
Jdg 8:27 Gideon crafted the booty into an ephod and enshrined it in his home town of Ophrah. Then all of Israel committed spiritual adultery with it there, and it became a snare for Gideon and his household. View more
Jdg 8:33 Later on, as soon as Gideon was dead, the Israelis again committed spiritual adultery with various Canaanite deities and appointed Baal-berith to be their god.
- sexual immorality has to do with cult practices. He is speaking about people doing sexual rituals in temples where they used to sacrifice to their gods. Jews and many other nations did temple cultic rituals having sex in secret temples. Nothing to do with you having sex with another person.
Num 25:1 While Israel remained encamped in Shittim, the people began to commit sexual immorality with Moabite women, View more
2Ch 21:11 In addition to all of this, he built high places in the mountains of Judah, led the inhabitants of Jerusalem into cultic sexual immorality, and made Judah go astray. View more
2Ch 21:13 Instead, you have lived like the kings of Israel by causing Judah and the inhabitants of Jerusalem to commit cultic sexual immorality-just like Ahab’s dynasty did! And you’ve killed your brothers who were better than you-your own father’s dynasty
Also I highly recommend you read Hosea 4 and Ezequiel 23. It says it clear. It is all related to temple worship. The men would pay for prostitutes in ancient history to convert to other gods that their fathers did not know.
@Adelsa Shield Girl been getting to this point as well!!! I just feel hopeless! It’s not even funny or cute! Ever since I got saved in 2014! I have been struggling with masturbation, then last year I gave into to it and had sex with someone for the first time in my life! We did it more than once! I was scared for my life! Because I kept thinking about how the wages of sin is death! But my pastor says God will give me the strength over sin! I just need to believe! Which is still hard because I keep on messing up! Also started letting guys touch me and went on a date with someone that wasn’t saved! I was living wild!
Why are your videos getting better and better, God bless bro good stuff.
Thanks Kevin :)
ApplyGodsWord.com/Mark Ballenger god bless
@@abelfalconoterto1692 Can anyone go to the website??? 🤔 🤔 🤔
His videos never cease to amaze me
Amen
My heart just desires more of God and to live pure and in the joy of the purpose God has for me. But this is a struggle for me . Please pray for me 🥺🙏🏽
I just came across this video. It's an excellent topic. Sexual sin results in guilt and shame and stops Christians from sharing their testimonies and preaching the Gospel. Keeping yourself clean allows you to march forward with a clean conscience and share the truth with others.
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everytime i give in to sexual sin i feel horrible, dirty and sometimes feel like i shouldnot continue living if i keep asking for forgiveness..i need help to overcome sexual sin i dont want to keep doing this please pray for me
I will
I totally relate to what you going through, I feel like giving up at times, I nearly committed suicide for it because I could not bear the shame and guilt
Same here I feel dirty and guilty
Do not give up. This may happen to you many many times and leave you feeling completely worthless but your very last line of defense is your will to keep fighting, repent, wash yourself anew and keep going...it is the devil who sends you discouragement, he wants you to die in this sin...eventually, you will overcome.
By Fasting and Praying you can overcome the sins of the flesh, ( Matthew 26:41 ' The Spirit is Willing but the flesh is weak ' ) ( Matthew 17:21 ' But this kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting ' )
Pray for me
Glory to God Amen i believe
Yes, I'm 31 and thought I could live the bachelor lifestyle, I'd say he's 💯 right here. We aren't supposed to be alone. Around age 30 your body will keep its past desires and never change its habits. Some choose to stay behind and are set in their ways, but I choose to be with christ and let him guide me. Haven't found a wife yet but God assures me not to lose hope he's got one ready for me. I trust him 🙏
😭😭😭😭 I'm so tired of all these additions of sexual sin and other sins. I want to be free from it Lord
That first one is basically the core of my problem: I just don't spend enough time with God. I don't let his Spirit take control of me enough.
Then spend enough time with Him Now
@@doityourselfartoftheheart1715 It's hard. I don't get engaged. I pray but get bored. I don't have the enthusiasm. I want it but it isn't there.
@@therealtornadosam it will make the struggles even more, intensify.. You have to be patient..
@@therealtornadosam you look too young if your the person on the Chanel.. If you are that young you have lots of time to do more to improve your self..don't rush to marrying.. If it's temptation and lust you need to find a buddy that will check on your activity on your thoughts and feelings to help you straighten your path whenever your going side ways.. If u want to date but worried about this you should look for a celibate dating site so you and the supposed to be partner is having 1goal and u'll be sorounded with lots pf support group..
@@therealtornadosam remember that if you die in your sins you will be tormented in hell day and night forever and ever.
I go great for months and then CRASH. Get going again for a while and then CRASH. Thank you for the work you put into this teaching and indeed your ministry, Mark. Delighted also to see that so many people are being blessed and benefitting from your work. God bless.
I experience this too 😢
When you elevate anything higher then your relationship with God example , money , lust , a relationship , etc it becomes a form of an idol and that is what will have a strong hold over you . What controls you can feel like it owns you . But When you seek God with all your heart elevating nothing higher then that , you will begin to walk in the spirit far more then walking in the flesh gaining that self control because God will change the desires of your heart and you begin to care more about what pleases God then pleasing self .
Amen
If anyone sees this please pray for me. I too am struggling with lust and it is has hurt my relationship. I’m trying to overcome this, and become stronger in my faith to live accordingly. Thank you
Hey, i hope all is going well so far, God can help you, he loves so, alongside with his son. God has great plans for you, and he cares. Whenever you feel tempted to sin against God, always ask our God to help. I too, have the same lust problem, and im still working on it. I felt lost, and i thought that God gave up on me, and that i was hopeless. Then i started praying, asking God for help. Slowly, lust started to fade away, and its slowly becoming a thing in the past for me. Always ask our great God for his mercy, and for help. But dont forget to pray in Jesus' name, (It said in the bible, i am the way the truth and the life, nobody can come to the father, except through me)
Praise God :D
I am struggling with sexual issues please be in prayer for me
Just prayed for you.
Just know that sexual feelings are very normal. If you want to deal with it without having sex with someone, you could try masturbating on your own. Don't feel guilty: it's healthy for you!
@@ThisRobinDoodles Yeah, no. Masterbation is never the solution. In any circumstance. That's coming from someone who dealt with an addiction to it for ten years of her life.
@@katiedrake76 No addiction is ever healthy, but pleasuring yourself on its own is! Ask your medical provider if you don't believe me. 🙃
Of course there are physical benefits to experiencing sexual pleasure. After all, it was created by God Himself as a gift to man.
And as usual, man took that gift, abused it and twisted it to suit our own selfish purposes.
And that's what masterbation is: just a twisted and perverted version of a beautiful and good gift from God.
So no, masterbation is never good, in any way, shape, form, situation, or reason. "Benefits" or not.
I'm free guys I don't struggle anymore with sexual thoughts, just man up and say no each time you get those types of thoughts and watch random Christian videos or listen to Christian music, god bless you and trust in god
I have been single my whole life, I have a serious problem with sexual sin, I have never been married, i try to stop this but i can`t, please pray for me!!!!!!!
God is will forgive you and will never forsake you. Pray that the Holy Spirit comes into your life and guard you from your temptation.
It is written "it is better to marry than to burn with passion"
Sexual temptation is something I struggle with in the past and am currently working on one never having premarital sex again and two learning to not put myself in compromising situations like a night club or abstaining from alcohol so not to get tipsied. Infact staying away from night clubs helps a lot! My prayer life does need to improve, after the suicide of my sister i had a bit of a block in my prayer life due to grieving/pain, but i have been going to a support at my church called Griefshare and started writing out my prayers and journalling and this is helping!!:). I am actively crucifying the flesh now more than ever by avoiding the night clubs, avoiding flirting online with guys or in person, avoiding alcohol, avoiding romantic comedies or too much hollywood romance movies or IMVU some chat rooms, avoiding becoming too emotionally attached to my christian guy friends, getting some more christian counselling and making sure God fills the hole in my heart due to grief NOT premarital sex/men. I definately want marriage/kids one day being age 32 female BUT I need to work on self control in this sexual temptation area and with my lust thoughts before i start dating/courting the right guy!! Also i have stopped reading romance novels or movies with premarital sex in it (which is like all hollywood movies these days!). I am also careful about my friendships with non christian females who are engaging in premarital sex because at times they can influence me in a bad way.. so I am drawing close to my church and christian friends :)! If anyone wants to talk about this please pm down below as I understand! Only a very few ppl at my church know i have struggled with this but a LOT dont but i was thinking of giving a testimony but not sure yet cos im embarrassed!! Most ppl see me as a strong christian girl and role model so this side of me is something that is often hidden cos im ashamed!! Infact sexual sin has stopped me from stepping up to mentor the young university students because i know i have to fix it first and its a serious sin.. sexual sin is honestly aweful.. if ure a virgin make sure you stay one until marriage!! Trust me:)
Maybe you are already aware of this, but some of the most empowering things for me have been hope, a more positive/high view of sex(not like the nonsense of the "sex positive" movement), compassion for others that I would otherwise be harming, and not letting guilt or shame stand in the way of repentance. This may be a little bit like the blind leading the blind since I am not totally free of it yet(I have gone from looking at porn all day every day to generally going weeks without it but succumbing to temptation to look every few weeks or every month and not looking at stuff containing/exploiting real people but it still is not good). But I have made a great deal of progress. I have learned to actually see sex as a wonderful thing, rather than just paying lip service to the idea(many people say "sex can be a beautiful thing", but I am not sure they believe it or simply mentally assent to it). At this point, the idea of watching hardcore porn or ogling real women just seems crazy an untempting to me like an invitation to an orgy or something, but I still occasionally struggle with temptation to pursue arousal by looking at sexualized "cartoons", drawings, video games, last time was looking at "graphic novels", etc and it is easy to rationalize when I am vulnerable because I say to myself that the only person I am disrespecting or harming is me, and I sure don't feel harmed.
My greatest vulnerability is not trusting God and thinking like he is a big ol prude or a killjoy. I know he isn't when I am in a good state of mind. Seeing sex highly does not mean obsessing over it, being licentious, thinking unrealistically about it(like romance movies), or seeing it like a "sex positive" person(who say that it is just casual fun and do not see it highly enough). To me viewing sex highly means recognizing that is was and is meant to be wonderfully loving, fun, bonding, clean, virtuous, generous, and satisfying(even if realistically, it will not be "perfect" every time even in a great marriage). One of the best arguments for this in my opinion is to look at all the horrendous evil that sexuality causes! God would not have made sex if it wasn't worth it but he decided that it was worth it(just like life is worth creating and living despite evil). But to be worthwhile, sex would have to be profoundly good, and it is!
Temptation gets the better of me when I act like Adam and Eve and subconsciously think to myself "God is unfaithful and keeps good things like sexual pleasure from me!". I know that God isn't a prude and wants me to get a wife and have a good marriage, including sex! But I have to remind myself sometimes and sometimes I am deceived by the lie when I get really aroused and caught up in a temptation. Last time I even considered to pray for help to empower me to stop, but I chose not to because some part of me(a broken part of me or maybe some sort of demon or something) said to me something that if put into words would look something like "If you pray for help, you will probably be empowered to put a stop to this. But that would leave you feeling unsatisfied and you will miss out on the excitement!". To accept this lie is to believe that God is unfaithful to me and that it is his will for me to always be sexually unfulfilled or that he is just a big killjoy. When I am sober-minded, I know that if strong sexual urges are resisted and I redirect my focus(especially with exercise), they will be weakened. But when I am under the influence of these thoughts, I feel like they will last forever until I give in so it takes a leap of faith not to give in.
You should not give into shame but you should consider and come to terms with how your behavior is harmful to the men involved, not only yourself. I am >>not being condemning here
Angel Flower bless you for such a candid sharing. Thank you.
Dan B thank you for opening up in the manner you did
I don't know if you will ever read this, but I just want to say that your testimony moved me. I recognise a lot of myself in it. I pray that you are doing well whereever you are. God bless!
lotrandsherlock hey thank you:) im so much better, premarital sex is something as a christian female you have to avoid at all costs as it can cause so much damage!! But praise god for our saviour Jesus Christ who died for our sins so we no longer have to live in shame but keep going and running the race Christ has set for us.. of course sexual past sin brought heavy consequences in my life but because I repented and worked on this lust area of my life I am now free or on a much better path:).. nothing is ever hopeless:) Theres always hope found in Christ.. sin just leads to pain and death
The comment section was at 666 so I had to comment 😭
God bless everyone I can’t wait to see you guys in heaven!❤️
God bless you too!
Thank you for your vidoes,
Im muslim and hijabi girl. I love what you say. Thanks again
Please pray for me in this issue brothers and sisters. I always tend to fall back into masturbation
Will do
I just did too. It was strong demonic urges and the thoughts wouldn't leave me alone. I felt alone that nobody could relate that I was the only person going through trauma and all the sins I am. I felt alone and unique and fell into it. I know I'm demonized and thought wrong.
IS THEIR POWER IN LUST?
My friend I know what it means to be tempted by the lust and other kind of depression I was tempted ever since I was a little girl it has lived with me like a shadow I did everything to overcome it I always repent and repent and repent again and again and also pray and read the bible but it was no good and one day I told God " I give up I am not going to fight it any more I am so tired of it, I have fought for 10 years I am not going to fight it anymore." What surprised me the most is that God hasn't gave up on me God was fighting for me and always whispers in my ear to get back up and how much he love me and fight it again in prayer and reading the bible. I thought that I got mad when this voice whispers in my ears. THE VOICE STARTED TO SCREAM IN MY EARS " I LOVE YOU " I couldn't resist the voice it was touching my heart so I got back up again and started to pray and read the bible again during that the Holy Spirit was revealing for me THE POWER OF JESUS BLOOD. During prayer God opened my eyes and I got the revelation of the blood and started to listen music about "THE BLOOD OF JESUS" read about THE BLOOD OF JESUS. I GOT FREE !!!!! Even when it tries to tempt me I declared "THEIR IS POWER ONLY IN THE BLOOD OF JESUS there is no such a thing written in the bible the power of lust JESUS already dethroned you. Devil you are the father of lies you have been laying me for 10 years you have no authority over me JESUS died for me on the CROSSE to be a victor not a victim.
SO don't give up yet "I CHALLENGE YOU TO START DECLARING THE POWER OF THE BLOOD OF JESUS IN YOUR LIFE."
@@hannahailu4046 “there is power in the name of Jesus, to break Every Chain 🔨“
Tempted right now maybe this is right on time for me
For all the people who are struggling we should make a group somewhere where we can help each other! So if someone is about to sin he or she can just send a message and we can all help! But we have to do help using the word of God not our own words!
I came across this video and I recently given my life to God. This is unfortunately something that is harder than I thought to fight. I trust the Lord in all things. I bought this book as well just have have extra help. Thank you for your ministry
So needed this. Please.pray for my deliverance with sexual sin. I want to be free but i still struggle. Times i can be doing so well and then i slip. This was definitely what i needed to hear bless u bro
Please pray for me I'm struggling with sexual sin... I'm tired of it but I always find myself back doing it again. I just want a peaceful life full of Jesus.
The way you talk about these things are so needed, nobody likes to talk about these situations. You explain how to overcome in a soft way like the love of Christ that I can feel Holy Spirit through this video and every video you do especially about this topic!!! These videos help me learn as a young single Christian how to live out Truth and it helps God to prune and clip me and convict me of things I had no clue about. It helps me even more that you are married because it shows truly that you know what covenant means and you live these things out. Truth flows out of you, thank you for helping me and so many others focus on Jesus and overcoming these sins and looking forward to who Christ says we are and the eternal purpose... I love you so much!!! May God bless you and your family!!!😭
Just finished a podcast series all about this topic. And many on here are spot on, the American church (I can only speak of American churches since I have not been to any other churches around the world) is hesitant to talk about this topic. Not addressing this in the church is doing the body of Christ a disservice. Great points Mark. I was in the ballpark with the same points. Glad I found this video to verify that the podcast is addressing consistently with what you spoke of here.
God bless!
Excellent video, friend. Wow. Point number 4 really hit home. Allowing and tolerating sexual sin perpetuates sexual sin. I definitely have more say in this issue when I KNOW I may be placing myself INTO a situation that can become sexual/arousing. I have the strength for self control as Christ gives me the strength to do all things.
I notice music that’s explicit plays at most offices ...the other day I heard “baby got back” . You’re correct -it’s everywhere !
This was spot on for me. Those who struggle with sexual sin should really take this to heart - and always remember that our Father is merciful, forgiving and patient. Remember that you are a new creation in Christ, through faith. It is not of works. I struggled in this area for many years. It was so painful, and it became a vicious circle, where the more I sinned, the less I prayed and read the Bible, and that lead to more sin, and so on. Guilt tormented me. If this is your reality, trust God's grace and love. Trust that you are a new creation by faith in Jesus and what he did on the cross. The Bible says so! Then run to God, who is always ready to forgive. Trust Him with all your heart. He will do the work in you, as you continually Walk with Him. Have patience, seek Him, feed on Him, and you will start to see the change that He does in you! This is coming from someone who just recently started to realize who I am in Christ, and it has made all the difference. I am still learning so much, and I have a long way to go. I still struggle sometimes, but not nearly as much anymore. I am learning to keep trusting God and seeking Him. And the difference is remarkable. I pray for you who read this that you may see the truth 🙏❤️
the divorced are highly vulnerable especially if they feel unable to remarry
Thankyou for being so clear and simplifying the topic. I have struggled with sexual sin and the reason I found you is because I am intentional in discipline and obeying God and winning against sexual sins..because it is possible.
So glad this was useful to you. I actually just posted a new video today on this topic too!
Hey I’m really struggling from this (sexual lust and masterbation)
My life is just feels like a mess,I really wanna stop 😔😩
I’m trying to avoid the tv,social media and I even set my phone to block sexual contents. But still when I go outside and I look around I can still see it, women dressed to show their curves. I really wanna be free, it’s like something that just turns on inside (a heat). Sometimes I even think crazy things like if I was blind or if I was a eunuch like Paul. I’m praying for help from God, I don’t when I’m gonna be free. I’m just a young guy trying to be obedient to my creator, but I just keep sinning.
"....women dressed to show their curves." That hit a nerve!!! I've been struggling to dress in a more decent manner and that line just encouraged me to keep trying!!!
But the ladies won't cover up so you need to pray and fast!! Praying for you.
I'm with you brother I'm about to enter into a ministerial role and last night I blew it I'm so ashamed of myself I told everyone I wasn't qualified for this 😞 pray for me I know God wants to use me but I cant keep myself from failure
@@stupidleftists2580 I did too and I did twice and said to my self screw it. I have so many demonic strongholds and don't think I genuinely feel bad about what I'm doing to Jesus when I do that.
Repent and Believe it’s crazy cuz temptation and lust will eventually lead to actual sin if you allowed but I see the reason of pray and fasting and mediation in god word we can overcome its battle we will fight everyday but what is impossible with man is possible with god.god bless you you all let’s keep pushing closer to god
Our culture is perverted man. It's totally understandable. Woman dress this way because again, our modern society is screwed up. But you can overcome it! It's not the end!
Wow! Sooooooo many brothers and sisters struggling with this!!! Am 59 and, as for desire, it's plagued me from my youth.....less so now due to age. What was meant as a blessing has been the ONE and ONLY bane of my life!!! (I think we'll all be free soon though.)
If anyone sees this, please. Please pray for me. I pray all of y’all be released from ur sins also🙏
Thank you, blessings to you!
Thank you. I sent this video to someone struggling with sexual sin, but I felt I needed to listen to this again. I got new info that I didn't get the first time.
Please anyone who reads this pray for my husband. He struggles with lust on the daily and it causes strain in our relationship because I’m so insecure already. We’re implementing complete honesty in our marriage and it has helped us keep up with our struggle. However prayers are appreciated I would love for him to be able to overcome this sin struggle
For all you guys "struggling" with this lust thing....... let's compare apples to apples here.
Men are visually stimulated.
Woman are stimulated by physical and/or emotional touch.
A man looks at a woman and (within 3 seconds) has mentally decided if he would or would not want to have sex with her.
(anyone who doesn't believe this is the actual mind processes of a man - is out of touch with reality)
If the answer is yes it's because he determine that she is attractive/hot/sexy/pretty/cute/etc. (pick something).
If that particular man decided to tell his partner that he thinks the other woman is attractive and women are smart enough to know that he has made that determination based on his conclusion that he would be willing to have sex with her.
Men want the luxury of being visually stimulated and feel they should be allowed to do so without judgement.
Here is where the apples to apples comparison comes in.
We, women, are stimulated by physical and/or emotional touch so in order for us to have a similar experience to men's - we need to have some sort of "interaction" with the men we find attractive.
So men - Wise up and recognize that your partner is probably jealous because she hasn't given herself permission to "interact" with other men for the physical and/or emotional connection (i.e. massage, hugging, intimate conversations, quality time, etc.) she would need to experience a comparable feeling to what you are getting out of "noticing" how attractive other women are.
The next time you are feeling so sorry for yourselves for being misunderstood by your partner - realize that she doesn't misunderstand you at all! She GETS YOU!! That's what pisses her off! And if you don't want her to be pissed off - give her complete permission to go get a full body massage from the hottest man in town and spend the rest of the night with him sharing her feelings. That experience would (most likely) put her in a similar mindset as you allow yourself to go into every time you look twice at other attractive women!
ONLY if you give your partner your blessing for her experiencing a similar mental rush ( in a way that pleases her ) to what you get from getting turned on by 'looking' at other women, can you give your own self permission to do what you do!
Men you aren't stupid - you are just selfish!
Either STOP sharing your own minds with other women - or start sharing your woman's mind with other men!
If you don't want to do that then let that be your motivation to just stop!!
It's a choice! That's it - A CHOICE!!
You do not need to stay with him!! Lust = adultery = divorce! I would leave him if he were my man!
If he can't maintain control of his own mind and body - he is useless in taking care of you as Jesus commanded.
So - get out, get out, get out!! (per this video!)
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Robbie Amadeus Stoly hi! We’ve worked through this a lot! The honesty with each other was a great step and we grew closer in the Lord. We’re doing much better now! I wouldn’t say I resent him at all :)
Robbie Amadeus Stoly I just seen this was addressed to June! Sorry haha
Mark, i usually don't write comments on youtube videos, but i wanted to thank you, because your knowledge has helped me to understand what i couldn't understand my whole life. I've been struggling with porn addiction since i was a kid, even thought about ending my life because i've hurt loved ones due to this addiction and i couldn't figure out why i can't control myself, the things i do. That's when i surrendered to God and he changed my life. I'm only 1 month old in Christ and in this month God has revealed so many things to me about my past... and you being his vessel has also been a bless to me, to understand what went wrong and the scriptures. Thank you very much! keep doing videos. God bless you!
PD: sorry for my english, it's not my first language haha
Am always struggling with this everyday! Now don't know what to do anymore, it's always Popping in my mind every second, God have mercy on me lifeless souls as mine😔😥
I’m about to cry I’m speechless thank you for this video
Thank you Mark please keep us that struggle Daily with these issues and Godbless you and your ministry.
God is good, keep fighting the good fight. His grace is always enough!
What he means with prayer is to manifest your salvation and your dream, goals and wishes, by affirmation work and meditation.
Thank you for having a free version I’m a single mom and don’t have that mucho money..... I will print it tomorrow at work. Thank you again!!!
Matthew 26:41 definitely helps a lot to hold myself accountable
I was addicted to masterbation. I did it perhaps 5 times a day. I've been clean for 2 months now, and 2 days ago I made the decision to throw away a 150 dollar toy. I pray God will keep me strong and gives me a husband.
Right there with ya...
God loves you. It's a struggle and God knows our hearts and made a resolve to love us even when we're 'unlovable'. Looking forward to seeing you in heaven
And what you say, is what I try to relay to my fiance. We pray together, we go to Bible study, we go to church every week, but this is the one thing that holds us back. Especially on my end, me being delivered.. it just doesn’t make it easy. It seems like more of his struggle than mine, but I know what effect it has on me.
Thank you, I needed this very much ❤️
Guys! Please pray for me in my fight against sexual immorality!
Thank you in advance xx
God bless!
For those struggling, try fasting and praying for however many days you can. And of course getting in the Word daily. Be persistent and you’ll get your deliverance. There’s a spirit of lust behind that’s why it’s so so difficult to overcome on your own. Remember what Jesus said about casting out some demonic spirits? Some are only cast out by prayer and fasting. Blessings to you all.
I'm grateful that such wholesome content is available
So glad you are enjoying the content!
God bless your heart Mark!
I am struggling with this menace and living with the power of faith,my prayers.
Our GOD is a GOD of mercy, ask for his mercy through daily prayer.
I am a 13 year old boy and i struggle with this i am going to do my best to stop and be with god
Please really keep me in prayer as I'm literally dealing with this in the worse way. I'm honestly trying to stop doing things and sinning especially with sexual sins and immorality and impurity and lust and truly turn my life back to the lord but this keeps getting a hold of me. I haven't did anything yet as far as since repenting and getting back to christ and going to church but the last week I been struggling and even honestly contemplating to. I missed church this morning which I hate I did and regret so I think that made it worse and I really been thinking about doing something but I really dont want to feel that way cause it's wrong and worse and I dont want to do or be wrong no more but it's so much involving this I dont think I can deal with it on my own.
I feel that when I'm idle its more of a temptation. Keep yourself busy and thinking the right thoughts. Seeking the Kingdom of God. Get yourself ready to actually be in a relationship that leads to marriage, if that's the case here of course.
@@MariS1980 yes I completely agree cause when I'm not doing things or even doing important or constructive positive things that's when temptation gets me.
I will pray for Brother or Sister in Christ :) ❤
I will pray for you. I may advise to start fasting for 3 days and pray try to clear you toughts . Dont try to overcome it by yourself
Just give your life to Jesus and Read Gods word. He loves you do much, keep your eye on God while in this much asking world. God can use everyone he can also use you. Be baptized with water and the holy spirit. If you put time in your relationship with Jesus it Will grow. Stay strong with Jesus!
I choose right now to turn from my sexual sin and turn to the Lord, I acknowledge that I have fallen Lord give me the strength to stand.
Keep seeking and following the Lord no matter what
Whatever brother said was exactly is happening with me & the mostly that i lack.. Lack of prayer is the main reason. Absolutely important for me, it wasn't a coincidence but God warns me to needed to focus in prayers stronger ..
I'm married and it's so hard because women throw themselves at me all the time. I was always the guy who loved attention from women. So it's so hard for me to not like it or lust after them. I need deliverance from this. My wife is amazing
Robbie Amadeus Stoly I lost my wife brother.
Sucks to hear mate.
To me it sounds like your saying if you don't pray 24/7 your going to fail to flesh. Walking this life is so hard I know I'm hell bound.
A true believer of christ can't be hellbound repent of that mindset you are a child of God not of this world now walk like it were all in this together we must continue to fight the bible says the rightous man falls 7 times and gets up prove that you are the rightous man or woman that u are and get up and fight back with the word Of God
One day at a time. 🙏🏻
God bless you.
I've been turning my life around but I noticed music and sexual sins are the hardest. I'll do good for couple days but it sneaks up on me, the temptation is everywhere. I'm also a recovering alcoholic. Everyday it's a battle.
The spirit of masterbation is wicked. Having been married but when Jesus healed me, my husband divorced me, the only remedy it seems is to fall on my face before Jesus after having fled temptation & then submit it to Him. It's not at all easy. It's the most difficult thing I do, to be honest, but what other option is there? No one else wants to talk about it & asking for specific prayer with my new sisters for this isn't something I feel is appropriate. I tried it once & they avoided me, so I just bring it to the Lord. What else is there? The world is broken. Fasting & praying all night is soooo easy compared to this. I'm grateful for His Word & this Word as well.
I already live a very prayerful life. That's not the area of change for me in this regard. I don't go more than a few moments without talking to God, but i also pray more formally in my prayer closet, often in the spirit & corporately, so that's not the issue. And I'm not ready for marriage. This may just be the cross that I bear in this life. Not at all happy about it but oh well. Praying, worship, and studying the Word is my new life. So I will pray much more for my flesh to be crucified. I'll give y'all a report in a few months & let you know how it goes. We just have to pray for each other. Y'all have my prayers.
I have Just done something bad to day and i pray to God quickly and then ask him to give me some help.
And then when i my open my RUclips i saw this video now i feel he's helping me to get trough this thank you very much for making this video he use this to show me what im doing wrong all the time thank you very much
I gave in too ...I feel useless...I feel I wanna get married nau and am literally young for that buh this eager is too high for me ...pray for me I jus cant stop😢
marrying will make it worse because the heart intention isn't right
@@doityourselfartoftheheart1715 thnk you actually I hav to confess since then it has disturbed me buh ave Been praying neva losing hop n tuday God answered me not jus thru the advice uv given buh thru several pple tuday ave seen God's works n i had to go repent n thnk him for changing my mindset n putting some sense in me..God bless you..shalom
@@naomivali3428 your not alone many of us having a hard time battl with it and gove up sometimes but with out the proper reason marrying is not an option it will only make u more disappointed if the fleshy fashion dednt meet..sometimes you uave to access your self there coukd be mire more than that fashion or desire the reason behind..you need to uave peace with your sekf and heart understand that only God can fullfill the longing you wanted to be fulfill within your heart..Hes the one thats always beside you whenever you are..Be intimate in spirit with God..Accept His love and then let Him descide when will you meet this guy fashionate about God to be able enough to love you as Gods want you to be love
@@doityourselfartoftheheart1715 amen my dia God bless you ...uv been a blessing in my life for these advices they might seem few buh hnstly they have it all...may peace b with us all n may God teach us to love him even more than we do ...SHALOM
@@naomivali3428 amen were all blessings to each other to strengthen our faith
God bless you brother. It's good that I found you on RUclips. Whatever you're doing for the glory of God definitely will not go in vain and it'll be rewarded. Keep continuing to do more for the Lord Jesus and to reach the unreached. God bless you and your family. Thank you brother.
I also believe that with sexual sin there is a spirit of oppression that can turn into possession and then deliverance and casting out these evil beings needs to happen to break the strong hold and ties.
thank you so much for the video,
I noticed the first reason was my why to fallen to it, so I start practice just the 1st reason, : not being devoted to God.
to spend daily time to read the bible and pray, and whenever the sexual desire came in, I would pray for marring , I may not get marry still ,
it feels like the burden of my fleshly desire,
would be lifted up on JESUS, thank you so much brother.
it's been a month now, and I am continue pray and read the bible every morning, but also what helped me was fasting from food during the days when I have strong desire.
thanks be to God for this amazing video
I struggle badly with this. I fight this by myself. Since my ex and I are apart, I’ve part take in porn and other sexual sin. I’m broken but I fight alone and it’s hard
Never stop repenting and walk in the light with other brothers in Christ
Don’t have any real brothers
I’m alone in this!
Eric L McDonald as long as you have Christ. Your never alone ‼️
Ur not alone. A lot of people go tru this. Its easier to just give up, but if God's kingdom was easy to get in then what are we fighting for? One thing I noticed is no matter how much u pray, if u dont keep urself grounded in God's word, u can easily fall back into temptation. God really does help when I pray. I can see him help me, but when I have no word of God to meditate at that point, it gets difficult. Pick a word, even if its just one verse, meditate on it, and sincerely ask God for a spiritual understanding, and d grace for you to practice his word. Remember God can help u if you re downright sincere. God is indeed real and gracious cos he helped me. Also pray to the Lord for a good partner that thinks the way God wants. That helps too. Remain blessed!🙂
Wish there were more Christian support groups out there for the sexually addicted. I've been through everything trying to find the power to overcome. At one time after so much struggle I thought God had brought me a wife but that was she and everything prayed for was taken away. Sex drive sigh.
Experienced God’s wrath years ago for sexual sin and definitely don’t want to anymore ever! Going to watch this full video
I've struggled so much with this. I am so grateful for this video! I really needed to hear this. Everything is kinda leading for me to find someone now. I guess I needed confirmation in some type of way.
Transferring of demons through child incestral rape has been beyond damaging 🥺 God let it happen for a reason, I’m forever his warrior! Keep up the Faith✨✝️💜
Loving the production quality going up!
Thanks!
Pornography has destroyed my life over the long haul. I remember when i was in my teens and I was first exposed to pornography. I went Into a porn theater in manhattan and as I saw the sex acts being performed on the screen I felt a wave of energy come over me which I believe to be Satan. Over many years of going to strip clubs and prostitutes on and off I had long periods of freedom from it when I had relationships but kept falling back into it. And fast foward to now. Marijuana and alcohol were always a catalyst for my bad behavior. And recently I went too far with a stripper and caught an std . Now I have
Serious health problems and I dont know what the out come will be.
I confessed to God and accepted jesus as my lord and savior but sometimes I think I pushed God's patience and I will not recieve his good graces. I had a number of chances but I think he gave up on me. I have been in relatiinships
and had other opportunities to pursew a good relationship but dropped the ball on it.
God has not given up on you 😔❤
the heat at the theater is a demon. Marijuana and drugs open the door for demons to possess or have a stronghold on people. So does watching porn. The good news is that Jesus will never given up on you, the demons want you to believe that so it's YOU who gives up on God, but I believe and pray that won't happen. Repent and once you repent focus on Jesus, dont keep beating yourself up, remember when we commit one sin commits them all so quite frankly your sin is not worse than other sins. I'll leave you with practical advice:
1. Always focus on the Cross/Jesus not the sin 2. Pay attention if your previous generations struggled with sexual sin too, if so it might be a familiar spirit/demon and fasting and speaking out loud breaking the generational demons ties might be necessary 3.Ready the Bible daily and arm yourself with scripture that speak purity over you, speak them out loud and over your disease, remember Jesus came so you can have life abundantly 5. What are you watching/listening to? what's triggering lust thoughts? pay attention to what's triggering the dirty thoughts and eradicate whatever is triggering the thoughts from your mind 6. Most importantly focus on Jesus (worship, time praying, fasting/praying)
God loves you! He wants the best for you and that is control over your flesh. And even though you've fallen dont give up on God! We've all fallen short and there's a spiritual battle going on in this world but remember He's given us the victory and the Holy Spirit to overcome all temptation!!!!! 🛡️🗡️🙏🔥🔥🙌
Hi phillip, i don't share in your testimony except for one area: feeling alone as if God gave up on me. I bugged Him. I talked to Him all day in my head. I read His words everyday. I made it so He'd hear my voice constantly. I pushed myself into Him. You are not alone. God IS love. That voice telling you that he has forsaken you, is the devil. You are not alone. You are loved. Build a relationship with Him. He wants you, He wants to hear you. He wants you to ask Him to sit with you when you feel alone. From experience, this worked. We aren't alone, and He hasn't given up on us. Waking up every morning is proof. You catching an std was God calling your name. He CHOSE you. You are one of His. God only corrects His chosen. He wants to change your life in ways you can't imagine. But you need to pick yourself back up and run to Him. He's waiting. 💕
Dont worry, our great God will never forsake you. Whenever, you feel like sinning, or being tempted, ask God to not forsake you. Ask for him to save you. Always keep your head up, God loves you and has great plans for you :D
This came at the right time for me >_<
Thank you for this video, I may be coming back to watch this a few more times to remind myself if I start to stray.
I'd been struggling this weekend and then when I looked to see what you had uploaded, it was just perfect
I’ve been struggling lately. This video helped put things into perspective for me. I know I’ve done wrong and that I need to repent and ask for his forgiveness. I’ve recently felt a nudge that I really need to get right with God before I get any further than I already am. I pray that he will forgive me and leads me to a path that glorifies him. I am tired of having these desires and want to go back to the days that I had a fire for the lord. Pray that He will forgive me and I find peace in Him to fight the urge to fall back into sexual sin and temptation.
You look like the dad that needs to have "the talk" with his son in your thumbnails
I don’t know why I keep giving into it. Just as I was feeling this is the closest and strongest relationship with Jesus I have ever been. Then I find myself entertaining it and then I can’t stop until I’m done. I’m tired of this and I don’t want to be where I was before. I feel like I’m just taking advantage of His grace and he is going to part from me. I want to be able to say no more then once I WANT IT BENEATH ME!!
Thank you Brother 🙏🏾 God bless you ! May he continue giving you wisdom and using you!
God bless you too! Thanks for the encouraging words :)
Herb here. Just came across this. AWESOME.
Make prayer your like your breath of Life that way you can not keep on sinning
Thank you for addressing , acknowledging and helping those of us who are single and dealing with this area of our lives . I welcome and appreciate your input , experience and willingness to share about this !! I’m enjoying and reading your book and know this can help me and many others . You are an inspiration and blessing from God . Thanks !
I cannot wait for my wife !!!!
I’m with my future wife right now and we’re waiting and I’m so excited!!
*Get married instead of falling in sin, it's better to be Single like me than to be married
says Paul (the single man)
1 Corinthians 7:8- 9
8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I.
9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.
Try to be patient. You don't want to end up marrying someone that is a distraction. Someone that the enemy sent.
Get married for love,respect and trust not to satisfy your desire
@@mylifemyjourneylincy6028 It's okay to satisfy a desire that allowed in the Bible
We need Jesus Christ for us to overcome carnality and evil doings. So help us God. Wonderful message.