OVERCOMING SEXUAL SINS ~THE SPIRITUAL TOOLS REQUIRED

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  • @FatherSpyridonROCOR
    @FatherSpyridonROCOR  Год назад +248

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    • @kristhomas2326
      @kristhomas2326 Год назад +4

      how do we contact you ? do you have an email address ?

    • @EasternOrthodoxChristian
      @EasternOrthodoxChristian Год назад +1

      Ok

    • @zcosmos2721
      @zcosmos2721 Год назад +5

      @@polarvortex6601 I feel you ! But it’s a problem and God knows that. Just keep praying 🤲🏿

    • @GodsDogICXC
      @GodsDogICXC Год назад +3

      Your blessings Father,
      please could you speak of difficult parents. Parents who may not listen or who say things that attack your faith. Things that attack the church. Parents who are judgemental, prideful or arrogant.
      I respect them, I want to always be the son they want, but they drain me so painfully. I love them but they insist o be who they want me to be when I am around them.
      I will speak of this in person next time you come to St. Elizabeth’s too (Wirral).

    • @letriciabrowder2942
      @letriciabrowder2942 Год назад +1

      Can you please speak on how the remedy to this issue, to many issues really... is answering the blessed call yo religious life? I plan on becoming a nun and I beleive everyone should consider this as an option

  • @emmanueljabbour9257
    @emmanueljabbour9257 Год назад +5019

    Therefore, being a Christian is the hardest journey anyone willing can endure. Our God has set out for us to love a perfect life in a world run by evil and sin. I personally think there is nothing harder.

    • @world_musician
      @world_musician Год назад +18

      yea so hard, what year is it btw? 2023 years since what? name one atheist politcian

    • @nameirrelevant0
      @nameirrelevant0 Год назад +221

      There is nothing harder. We are obligated to choose between living a life of warfare and pain here on Earth, or spending an eternity of misery in Hell if we fail. The writer of Ecclesiastes knew exactly what he was talking about when he said those who are stillborn are better off than those of us who have to face this life.

    • @michalrusin6503
      @michalrusin6503 Год назад

      @@nameirrelevant0 a joke ? Some Buddhist monks living as beggars on the street have a much harder life.

    • @michalrusin6503
      @michalrusin6503 Год назад +6

      @Jonathan Sutton is awareness really separate ? Or rather one with all appearances ?

    • @michalrusin6503
      @michalrusin6503 Год назад +3

      @Jonathan Sutton ok but what is our true reality ? What is the core of our being ?

  • @marleyb6506
    @marleyb6506 Год назад +2099

    Forgive all who have committed sexual sins and are sorry Lord ✝️

    • @shakey3306
      @shakey3306 Год назад +3

      Forgiveness means nothing without punishment

    • @marleyb6506
      @marleyb6506 Год назад +27

      @@shakey3306 , what are sort of punishment do you want

    • @cloakxdezeer9261
      @cloakxdezeer9261 Год назад +104

      @@shakey3306that’s why Jesus died he was the punished he was the one who paid

    • @bad_covfefe
      @bad_covfefe Год назад +42

      ​@@shakey3306 that makes no sense. When you forgive someone, you are by definition deciding not to punish them.

    • @michaelnavarro9833
      @michaelnavarro9833 Год назад +1

      I am not
      sorry or seek sorrow I desire punishment. sense of feeling of shame like In adam and eve

  • @darthrevan2499
    @darthrevan2499 Год назад +939

    I had overcome porn butt tonight I fell back. Cried my eyes out after for the things I've done. Its not easy but I will never give up when God is on my side. Amen

    • @rileyp1419
      @rileyp1419 Год назад +129

      Same here, I was going strong then fell to temptation again. I’m at the point where fighting it brings a greater award than the sin. God bless you ☦️

    • @gabrielgarcia-zw8fu
      @gabrielgarcia-zw8fu Год назад +121

      ​@@LorenzoPolidori-zi6ox it's normal to feel shame but don't stay in it. That's the tactic the enemy uses to keep you apart from God. God wants you to come to Him, in any and every circumstance. "A righteous man falls seven times and gets up eight". Stay in the fight bro.

    • @rileyp1419
      @rileyp1419 Год назад +1

      I was in the same EXACT situation about two weeks ago. Don't let it ruin you, look at it as a chance to learn. That shame I felt motivated me to pray, prayer gives us the armor we need to resist temptation. Stay strong brother@@LorenzoPolidori-zi6ox

    • @cameronrivera2449
      @cameronrivera2449 Год назад +15

      same here. you’re not alone

    • @distinctfully3682
      @distinctfully3682 11 месяцев назад +21

      Keep fighting the good fight brother. The enemy wants you to feel weak and away from our father. Do not be deceived my fellow brother. I love you ❤️

  • @marshalkrieg2664
    @marshalkrieg2664 Год назад +2281

    This week marks two straight years of being pure and celibate in my bodily habits. I feel blessed and free for the first time in my life and I know I had divine help in this struggle, I have won the war. Never ever give up trying to be good. Amen.

    • @cid7427
      @cid7427 Год назад +157

      Excellent. One of the most damaging addictions to young Men is pornography. But it is accepted as a normal habit in today’s society. A sin for sure, and through the power of God, we can overcome it.

    • @cleangoblin2021
      @cleangoblin2021 Год назад +18

      ​@@sparklesparklesparkle6318 i understand. My bipolarity just kicks in and now im having brainfogs daya after weaning off alcohol.
      I hope you and i can do it together

    • @etcwhatever
      @etcwhatever Год назад +51

      Be always on guard. The fight is never won until we die. I get the bad toughts and feel depressed because im alone. If i didnt follow God way i wouldnt have such a lonely life. But for sure i cannot live without chastity as my past relationships made me feel psychologically unbalanced. Also because i cant live without the sacraments.

    • @superpeaceloveunity
      @superpeaceloveunity Год назад +60

      I was pure and celibate for two years straight and then fell hard back in to masturbation and it’s been very difficult regaining consistent abstinence. The war isn’t over until we die.

    • @metamentality9818
      @metamentality9818 Год назад +7

      God bless you

  • @icxcnika555
    @icxcnika555 Год назад +1004

    "Pornography is the Devil's Iconography." -Saint
    Seraphim Rose of Platina

    • @Jia-dp9cu
      @Jia-dp9cu Год назад +45

      😢I have porn addiction and It is making my life worse than hell 😢

    • @XinLiXiang12345
      @XinLiXiang12345 Год назад +32

      ​@@Jia-dp9cuI Will pray for u 🙏🙏❤❤❤❤🙏

    • @ЕгорРябенко-к4г
      @ЕгорРябенко-к4г 10 месяцев назад +1

      Who is he(Seraphim Rose of Platina)?

    • @joaomoraes6514
      @joaomoraes6514 9 месяцев назад +14

      @@Jia-dp9cu Don't give up brother, I know that with the help of our Lord Jesus Christ we can overcome this! We need to ask Lord for mercy and for help to RUN away from sexual sins

    • @allenvayner4987
      @allenvayner4987 9 месяцев назад +3

      Soon, there is going to be the rapture. It's when there will be trumpet sounds, and after the trumpet sounds, God will lift his people from here. Also, God said people should be living by the Bible. Amen, and God bless you.
      ❤Jesus loves you guys. He can come back any second. Dont wait, please. Turn away from your sins and come to him❤ He will welcome you with arms wide open. Have a great day! ❤
      ❤* John 3:16 - "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life".

  • @fungsia5549
    @fungsia5549 Год назад +1397

    Lust is poison to the spirit. It leads to ignorance and clouds our innate wisdom. It also leads to all sorts of sins, like abortion, jealousy, murder etc.

    • @MrHighlander400
      @MrHighlander400 Год назад +32

      Lust in the Greek means far more than just sensual things. Murder can also come from resentment and bitterness. Lack of justice in this sick culture and society is part of it.

    • @DissentingTirade
      @DissentingTirade Год назад +10

      I would further it to say even greed (physical wealth) comes even second to lust, most men who do evils or bad things do so to attract a woman. That includes making or stealing physical wealth, fighting, betrayal, all due to lust. No Greed is not really the root of all evils but Lust.

    • @datura7883
      @datura7883 Год назад +10

      Lust is a prerequisite for your existence. Indulgence is the true sin, as without lust you are nothing.

    • @icxcnika555
      @icxcnika555 Год назад +2

      Is man also guilty of abortion if he is against it but the woman does anyways ?

    • @datura7883
      @datura7883 Год назад +17

      @@icxcnika555 Your choice of woman is a reflection of yourself.

  • @j-hoe2351
    @j-hoe2351 10 месяцев назад +256

    I had been struggling with sexual sin my entire life almost. Things such as pornography, masturbation , and premarital sex was consuming me and I felt controlled and drained by my sexual impulses constantly. Every time I tried to break the cycle I would fall back into it again. But then I found Jesus and he has freed me. I am no longer a slave to my sexual pleasure. This is not to say I do have have the impulses still but with the strength and love of Jesus everything is possible. If you are in the same boat as I was please know that with God all things can be done and you can be transformed

  • @b.b.3260
    @b.b.3260 Год назад +1772

    I am struggling with this, and it is God who brought me to your video. Thank you.

    • @world_musician
      @world_musician Год назад +18

      the youtube algorithm is a kind of god these days

    • @brianjones4026
      @brianjones4026 Год назад +15

      @@world_musician Yes.... but be careful who you follow !

    • @karnell5761
      @karnell5761 Год назад +24

      Amen, brother. Im still struggling with sexual temptations..

    • @ucheanagor5720
      @ucheanagor5720 Год назад

      Pray all the mysteries of the Rosary and stay away from all occasions of sin. Our of purity pray for us.

    • @houssemehsn
      @houssemehsn Год назад +5

      you got this soldiers

  • @williamb1933
    @williamb1933 Год назад +551

    I prayed this morning for help overcoming sexual sin and at 11:00AM I log into youtube and this is the first video in my recommended feed.

    • @OnlyBugmenWantedHandles
      @OnlyBugmenWantedHandles Год назад +37

      Even our wiretap spyphones and the recommendation algorithm can unwittingly play a role in salvation.

    • @justforever96
      @justforever96 Год назад +16

      You didn't pray out loud did you? Because your phone _is_ listening to you. That isn't even a conspiracy theory any more. It just is.

    • @barrontrump3943
      @barrontrump3943 Год назад +1

      The internet is your god. Repent

    • @marleyb6506
      @marleyb6506 Год назад +9

      God hears and answers our prayers, never mind listening devices in phones

    • @Bec_loves_Jesus
      @Bec_loves_Jesus Год назад +5

      God is good 🙏

  • @letigre3816
    @letigre3816 Год назад +531

    Lord Jesus Christ son of God have mercy on me a sinner ☦️

    • @noirral185
      @noirral185 Год назад +10

      me too

    • @ELLHNIKA
      @ELLHNIKA Год назад +3

      ☦️

    • @MaxPpdn
      @MaxPpdn Год назад

      ☦️

    • @Nubako463
      @Nubako463 8 месяцев назад

      @@ELLHNIKA14:15*

    • @mtalk828
      @mtalk828 7 месяцев назад

      Eternal Father, Lord Jesus Christ, my breath is in your hand. Have mercy on me, a sinner 🙏🏽

  • @adu9422
    @adu9422 Год назад +215

    I shall win over this sexual sin with Gods guidance and protection. Today it ends.

    • @adu9422
      @adu9422 Год назад +20

      Perhaps God will allow me to fall bur I will fight to the end. And every victory will be 0% me and 100% God because in no way have I done anything as significant as God to overcome it.

    • @Lady_Graham
      @Lady_Graham 8 месяцев назад

      How has it been going

    • @adu9422
      @adu9422 8 месяцев назад +11

      @Winkle-Dinkle I failed but its gotten a lot better, only done it 3 times since this comment before it was every week. I feel I'm closer to quitting everyday now

  • @SchofieldRex
    @SchofieldRex Год назад +1478

    It is the duty of every man to protect the dignity of every woman

    • @ruth.greening
      @ruth.greening Год назад +52

      Sexual sin is not only found in women.

    • @evolassunglasses4673
      @evolassunglasses4673 Год назад +6

      @@ruth.greening are you J.

    • @stinkygrownman
      @stinkygrownman Год назад +4

      Amen!

    • @ruth.greening
      @ruth.greening Год назад +1

      @@evolassunglasses4673 Nope! P.

    • @john-xo9vp
      @john-xo9vp Год назад +132

      ​​@@ruth.greening pretty sure he's just saying we as men can say no ,even to a harlot, protecting ourselves and them spiritually. Of course mean play the harlot as well.

  • @bonesyjonesy716
    @bonesyjonesy716 Год назад +333

    I was praying for God to help me with sexual sin like 5 minutes before watching this video. I open up RUclips and it’s the first video on my page. Thank you Father, and God bless you. ❤️

  • @keybha-dk9qi
    @keybha-dk9qi 7 месяцев назад +26

    oh lord how many times i promised you repentance but i sinned, have mercy on me...

  • @shadowjuan2
    @shadowjuan2 Год назад +473

    Although I’m not particularly struggling with sexual sin at the moment, it’s always a good reminder to remain humble and not let the prideful victory turn into arrogance. I know I’m vulnerable at all moments, and the devil is always there looking for the best moment to attack. I’m weak and vulnerable, God have mercy on me, for I am a sinner, thank your for your grace. Amen🙏

    • @iminlove1148
      @iminlove1148 Год назад +5

      Yep I fell back into relapse

    • @blackdoor2858
      @blackdoor2858 Год назад +4

      Amen brother. May the lord be with you

    • @menew4675
      @menew4675 Год назад +3

      My brother/sister in Christ you are absolutely right I almost fell into the enemies clutches last week because of pridefulness and arrogance I'm thankful only to the LORD that I didn't crumble under the attack. All PRAISE BE TO GOD ALMIGHTY

    • @takemywordforit4128
      @takemywordforit4128 11 месяцев назад +2

      Finally a perspective truly grounded in God.

    • @loveisintheair3487
      @loveisintheair3487 8 месяцев назад

      ❤❤

  • @lukev.evergarden9048
    @lukev.evergarden9048 11 месяцев назад +189

    Ever since I started battling my masturbation addiction I discovered how weak I actually am against the bodily desires and how hard it is to overcome this evil passion. Despite my efforts I find myself sinning again and again. Passions like these truly humble a person like me, always making me wonder how long will it take for me to conquer them. However, I never lose hope, I know God is watching over us, both in our victories and our defeats and urges us to continue our battles. Thank you Father Spyridon for your speeches. They always help us and gives us courage. Amen

    • @nikolai7537
      @nikolai7537 11 месяцев назад +34

      I saw a reflection of myself in this comment. May god help us all.

    • @Guijardb
      @Guijardb 11 месяцев назад +1

      Amen !

    • @CJ-137
      @CJ-137 11 месяцев назад +3

      We are not alone. Keep on fighting brother🫡❤

    • @AvatarAang100
      @AvatarAang100 11 месяцев назад +9

      I'm struggling with the same addiction. But do not worry, no matter how many time you relapsed, as long as you stay in the fight, you can win.

    • @kanecentino
      @kanecentino 10 месяцев назад +3

      Amen we are all on this together i’ll pray for you man!

  • @randomg613
    @randomg613 Год назад +75

    Im struggling with sexual sin and I have been trying to quit. I asked God to help me and he has been helping me little by little. Amen

  • @paulgonzalez7610
    @paulgonzalez7610 Год назад +246

    I have struggled with this for a long time but I still have hope that God will deliver me from this in his time. Thank you Father for the wisdom.

    • @IvanRichards-k2f
      @IvanRichards-k2f Год назад +14

      Use Jesus prayer in your quest , it's a necessary tool for all of the Christians who want to serve God consciously

  • @zeekyle1200
    @zeekyle1200 10 месяцев назад +30

    Im a protestant and i have much respect for fr. Spyridon and the orthodox church. These videos are Spirit lead and i gain lots of wisdom from this content. God bless you all and Christ is Lord

  • @thehydeaway8898
    @thehydeaway8898 8 месяцев назад +17

    I’ve been battling lately me and my fiancé have been long distance and the distance makes it even harder to chase purity at times after not seeing one another. Pray for our purity and for our trials during repentance. God bless

  • @breandangillespie1387
    @breandangillespie1387 Год назад +110

    Prayers to all struggling with lust it is a truly amazing thing to come out from this sin and realize it doesn’t define you but that you’re responsible for your healing and connection with god.

    • @hauscchildt6418
      @hauscchildt6418 11 месяцев назад +1

      I swear it's the most addictive drug

    • @TheNIKOLASRBIN
      @TheNIKOLASRBIN 10 месяцев назад

      What are you trying to tell us by "realising it doesn't define you"? Do you mind sharing your experience that made you write that part? Thank you for your message of encouragement

  • @gybx4094
    @gybx4094 Год назад +47

    I prayed for the Lord to remove lust from my mind. It happened.
    I was very shocked at how God can deliver us quickly if we genuinely want purity.
    Our body is the temple of the Lord. We must be conscious of this in a twisted era.

  • @areezyisg95
    @areezyisg95 Год назад +125

    Either you feed your flesh or your spirit and you can't do both. Fasting, praying, gratitude & meditatiing are all tools to feed your spirit 🙏

    • @EQOAnostalgia
      @EQOAnostalgia Год назад +6

      Yeah, you can do both... it makes you unstable though... you just can't serve both with your heart. Sin is in the flesh, but it does not reign over us anymore. As Christians we're not without sin, we just learn to hate it, while others seemingly revel in it. No care in the world about it. We grieve over it, sometimes lose sleep over it, cry over it... i.e. Repent.
      They don't do that. I know because i was them lol. So were you probably.

    • @IsraelCountryCube
      @IsraelCountryCube 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@EQOAnostalgiaI'm sorry but are you a pride person! I always see the atheist types who say LMAO and lol and rolf or yolo all of them too much and it's evidence of pride also annoying because they use such words in literally every sentence mouth utters.

  • @Ricky-es9vg
    @Ricky-es9vg Год назад +96

    St Mary of Egypt and her story is truly moving to my heart. Lord have mercy on us sinners.

  • @bigmonkee639
    @bigmonkee639 Год назад +197

    Thanks,Father! As a young man i really needed this!

    • @boylain8481
      @boylain8481 Год назад +9

      @@kopronko this is not about idolizing them, it is a form of respect, because he has more experience in orthodox and christianity than us so we call him father/teacher, God most likely does not care about that since we see the Fathers as our guides for the Christian life and he must aproves that they work so hard to help others

    • @sammyog3475
      @sammyog3475 Год назад +9

      @@kopronko so you can't call your own dad, Father?????... get over the BS mate... the priest is Christs representative on Earth, he performs the mysteries, the confessions, baptisms, Orthodox priests (non-schismatic) have Apostolic succession from the true Church Christ built.

  • @UltraFXWave
    @UltraFXWave 10 месяцев назад +10

    I am a 24 year old man who was raised by a christian family but for some reason never baptised, I hope to do this in the next few days. I came across your videos and it has given me peace. God bless you sir and any one who reads this may Jesus Christ bless us all

  • @Jacobsupercharger
    @Jacobsupercharger Год назад +28

    I think woman are the most beautiful magnificent piece of art work of God in the entire universe for all of time! Praise the Lord by his beautiful work

  • @ceasrrr
    @ceasrrr 7 месяцев назад +6

    I have just went back into my lustful deeds have continued to do it many times. I had just repented and went onto my computer and looked on youtube and saw this video along with your "Despite Repeated Sins, Do Not Despair" and im sure of it that God brought me to this video. God is great.

  • @Gaz4113
    @Gaz4113 7 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you, Father, for this sermon. Pray for me in my battle to overcome my sin as i shall pray for you.

  • @richardjohnson2692
    @richardjohnson2692 Год назад +23

    Thank you so much for this message. I'm a single man in his 50's. Have not been on a date or inappropriate relationship for over 4 years. This kind of message needs to be taught more, particularly in this day and age. God bless 🙏🙏

  • @Tibbs736
    @Tibbs736 Год назад +134

    I have found that in my struggle against sexual sin, usually the greater / underlying struggle is against apathy and desire to escape my problems (this is also linked to the struggle with intrusive thoughts and living in my own head / daydreaming). After over a decade of fighting it (not all of that in the church) I largely know what I need to do, but thats different to actually doing it, staying disciplined day to day, hour by hour struggling to not just give up and open the "submarine hatch"

    • @nandocastiglione9742
      @nandocastiglione9742 Год назад +6

      Keep up the good fight 💪

    • @otiliamanuelajurj
      @otiliamanuelajurj Год назад +7

      I also daydream a lot, but it is because I have childhood trauma and marriage trauma.

    • @Tibbs736
      @Tibbs736 Год назад +12

      @@otiliamanuelajurj I think mine is strongly linked with childhood trauma as well, I remember trying to disappear into my own imagination to escape my parents constantly arguing / general untreated mental illness in the house

    • @rubies200
      @rubies200 Год назад +2

      ​@@gigighibaWow, this is so true for me! I'm a daydreamer and fantasizer, and have been all my life.

    • @reclusiarchgrimaldus1269
      @reclusiarchgrimaldus1269 Год назад

      @Gigi Ghiba Imagination is sinful?

  • @mrw4429
    @mrw4429 4 месяца назад +5

    Roman Catholic here I love the Orthodox and this man

  • @gabrieliusplauska3120
    @gabrieliusplauska3120 9 месяцев назад +17

    I use to be a Christian but i fell into sin again and for months i sinned against God, i got drunk,high i cursed, i talked bad about others, but yesterday i smoked some weed and had a huge panic attack, went to a hospital, thought i was gonna die, but then today i was afraid of death and of hell, i fell to my knees asked God for forgivness but it didn't work cause i didn't do it wholeheartedly, but after some time passed after watching one of this guys videos i came back crying out to God telling him that i Believe in him and his sacrifice for us and now am no longer afraif of death even tho 30 mins earlier i was. It's gonna be hard giving up my sins to God but it's worth it, so that he could use me.

    • @Ph_Spark
      @Ph_Spark 6 месяцев назад

      Stay strong brother, this channel - Ancient Archives helps me a lot

  • @servantofjesuschrist839
    @servantofjesuschrist839 Год назад +76

    As a protestant I always listen to Father Spyridon
    May the Lord Jesus Christ have mercy upon me if Im in error

    • @westhigh1976
      @westhigh1976 Год назад +29

      Ditto...Roman Catholic here

    • @conantheseptuagenarian3824
      @conantheseptuagenarian3824 Год назад +7

      same.

    • @johnflorio3576
      @johnflorio3576 Год назад +20

      Catholic here - and our Orthodox brothers profess much wisdom. Listen without fear.

    • @W_H_K
      @W_H_K Год назад

      Denominations are a divide and conquer strategy used against us for all of history, be it religious or political.
      Christ, that is all. Not Catholic not Evangelical…Christ.

    • @elroussa
      @elroussa Год назад +14

      It is because Orthodoxy is the base that never changed! It is the heart of our faith. And your hearts know it! Fear nothing!

  • @Felipe-kv8qd
    @Felipe-kv8qd Год назад +20

    Thank you Father Spyridon. This spiritually edifying advice helped me as i just relapsed again. Lord have mercy on me.

  • @stanislous137
    @stanislous137 Год назад +14

    Just relapsed and this video came in my feed. God Knows.

  • @kekman693
    @kekman693 Год назад +9

    God bless all who see this ☦️ may Christ shine his bright light upon your souls. May he guide you into eternal salvation.

  • @JoahuaLaza
    @JoahuaLaza Год назад +9

    Seeing a lot of other people feel the way I do is comforting, and seeing others refrain is beautiful, I will begin my journey today

  • @loganwilliams173
    @loganwilliams173 10 месяцев назад +6

    Needed This Really Bad, All Glory And Honor Be To The Most High GOD 🙌🏾❤️

  • @noahscott4477
    @noahscott4477 6 месяцев назад +6

    I can’t stop, I’ve been able to resist every other passion except this one. Someone, lord, anyone, help me..

    • @JclaypotchtoonsComics
      @JclaypotchtoonsComics 3 месяца назад +1

      Jesus Christ said Your eyes are like recorders. it Records everything you see and it reflects how you are. Healthy eyes think Good things and Unhealthy eyes think Bad things. / You have to Restrict it. And I believe we use the temptations to lead us to The Lord in our Minds. Because this is a spiritual battle. Combat it by talking to God and your relationship with him. I also struggle with such things. but you must put your mind to the spirt. and put your eyes on Him. it takes time for your mind to recover. But this sin specially tries to holds you back against your will. That's because we are Flesh and these are desires of the flesh. But is believe Praying and talking to the Lord is the best thing to do. as the Lord can do anything.

  • @beam2826
    @beam2826 Год назад +14

    sexual sin is by far tha hardest thing to over come quit alcohol and weed so easily don’t even miss it at all, but sexual sin is where i always fall short stay on prayer with me over this battle im going through im truly trying to be a man that serves christ i need his holyspirit with me

  • @charlesmatlock2177
    @charlesmatlock2177 Год назад +11

    I was brought into the Orthodox church a week ago and desperately needed this video. Thank you, Fr. Spyridon.

  • @reyno6826
    @reyno6826 Год назад +389

    Holy Saint Mary of Egypt pray for us.

  • @antonkirani2758
    @antonkirani2758 Год назад +119

    Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me a sinner.
    Thank you for your words Father.

  • @blu9371
    @blu9371 Год назад +37

    Your videos relax me, Father. I can listen to you and feel peace. 🙏🏼☦💙
    Love from Romania🇷🇴
    I really needed this video.

  • @TOughC234
    @TOughC234 5 дней назад +1

    Very useful, thank you for reminding us, Father! I hope your health is better. God bless!

  • @ELLHNIKA
    @ELLHNIKA Год назад +19

    “ Κύριε Ιησού Χριστέ, ελέησον τον αμαρτωλ ”

  • @OrthodoxNugzari
    @OrthodoxNugzari 7 месяцев назад +5

    You've changed my life Father Spyridon. Thanks to the Lord!

  • @alext7647
    @alext7647 Год назад +42

    Thank you 🙏 father Spyridon! The sins I am struggling the most is the rage and the Lust! If you see this comment, please say a prayer for me, because you can definitely strengthen me in this battle! God bless

    • @aaronerickson8878
      @aaronerickson8878 Год назад +3

      I struggle with the same two sins...

    • @slikbac6656
      @slikbac6656 10 месяцев назад

      Maybe you're angry because you're not getting any ass?

    • @IsraelCountryCube
      @IsraelCountryCube 9 месяцев назад

      Yes rage and lust. When such is combined specifically in a male it's ugly. Really same with a woman. Any sin is ugly in anyone. But not "especially" simply I'm a man so I speak as a man. And I don't feel too good nor healthy when I feel rage and lust.

    • @IsraelCountryCube
      @IsraelCountryCube 9 месяцев назад +1

      And I must pray for you now so that you keep praying for another. Endless chain of good will keep us together from Jesus Christ who is Lord. Amwn

  • @tonymagnaterra7299
    @tonymagnaterra7299 Год назад +7

    True wisdom Father. I have experienced that gluttony/excessive sleep & laziness leads to carnal thoughts. I’m a baby on my spiritual journey. Your wisdom has helped me begin to turn my back on these passions. Thank you Father Spyridon

  • @vektor7780
    @vektor7780 8 месяцев назад +18

    God forgive us. I am sorry deeply for my sins. I am sorry for failing to keep my promise and lusting over and over again. My heart cries when I disappoint you. May your power purify my soul and I truly hope you forgive me and guide me on my journey from now on. Be with all of us. Amen.

  • @tiaharrison2802
    @tiaharrison2802 Месяц назад

    Dearest Father Spyridon, Your connection to the Holy Spirit and your mediation for us often brings me to tears when I turn to your offerings. Thank you for helping us through genuine service and commitment to truth and humility.

  • @wayfaringstranger5957
    @wayfaringstranger5957 Год назад +25

    I struggle with this so much it tempts me towards despair, As you mentioned, it leads to other bad actions. Oftentimes I'll find myself overindulging myself in booze to distract from bad thoughts only to be thrown back into the arms of the thoughts that spurred them on in the first place. I want to be free of this, at least in lucid flashes like this but I keep sinking into the swamp time and time again. Apologies for venting, this video found me during a poor time for me this Lenten season.

  • @hunivan7672
    @hunivan7672 Год назад +57

    Pray for me father, I have managed to give up sexual acts of all kinds for lent and I continued ever since but temptation is growing stronger. Please pray for me. I use sex to fill up my other needs, I don't even enjoy it anymore, it's just a sick addiction. Please pray for me to leave it behind.

    • @Mlobb7
      @Mlobb7 Год назад +9

      Jesus can set you free man. I struggle with lust too and I will say that prayer, reading the bible, and worship have been the only reason I’ve made it 17 days. also you may need deliverance

    • @jediineducation
      @jediineducation Год назад +5

      @hunivan7672 hi hunivan. development of love will help. if u are male control of your eyesight also helps to reduce temptation and control of thought. u can also explore it for yourself what is feeding temptation and what not. i wish you good luck from my heart

    • @Edgar_Nava
      @Edgar_Nava 9 месяцев назад

      ruclips.net/video/9M3-eybl1gQ/видео.htmlsi=P3y3Bhh9qG3MiMVv

  • @FlaquitoNow
    @FlaquitoNow 11 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you so much. I needed to hear this. Blessings to all my brothers & sisters here.

  • @OrthodoxOutreach
    @OrthodoxOutreach Год назад +22

    Glory to God through Jesus Christ our Lord

  • @DotReal
    @DotReal Год назад +25

    Thank you father. I am thinking of converting to orthodoxy from Protestantism. I am currently struggling with lust and this video helped so much. Thank you for all that you do.

    • @Maja161
      @Maja161 10 месяцев назад

      You don't have to convert to anything just seek our Lord Jesus.

    • @IsraelCountryCube
      @IsraelCountryCube 9 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@Maja161yeah he honestly does. Protestantism at large is depressing the human soul.

  • @thomaserickson568
    @thomaserickson568 Год назад +7

    You brought me back to my church, thank you Father.

  • @ProtestantismLeftBehind
    @ProtestantismLeftBehind Год назад +9

    Thank you Father for making these videos. I’m a Protestant Evangelical looking to become Eastern Orthodox

  • @loner.720
    @loner.720 8 месяцев назад +4

    I have struggled with sexual sin for years on end, even when i came to Christ. I prayed to God to free me of my sin for i want to stop, and thus video popped up, thank you Father.❤

  • @ObeseGramps
    @ObeseGramps Год назад +6

    To think this would appear randomly on my feed in between a South Park clip, and a fallout fun facts video.
    The words you share completely and utterly humble me. The shame is great, but the inspiration gained from The Lord is greater! The hope He carries never falters.

  • @ScottishOrthodoxPilgrim
    @ScottishOrthodoxPilgrim Год назад +14

    It is a very difficult fight. What helps me is simply the thought that this isn’t good for me and that it wastes my potential as a human being and that life is very fulfilling when lived virtuously. Prayer and improving habits and the sacraments and church attendance all aid in this.

  • @Dahmer88
    @Dahmer88 Год назад +23

    something that helped me a lot in fighting the sexual sins is incredibly something very simple and that you may even think it has nothing to do but actually is a great thing that is just cleaning my room.
    well the correlation is very simple, a chaotic place leads to chaotic thoughts and it makes way more diffucult to control these thougs, but in counterpart a ordered place makes the exact opposite, it gives harmony to your mind making you have more control of yourself.

    • @Felipe-kv8qd
      @Felipe-kv8qd Год назад +2

      I will try that next week. thank you.

    • @justforever96
      @justforever96 Год назад +3

      You aren't going to give Jordan Peterson credit for that even? 😢

    • @Dahmer88
      @Dahmer88 Год назад

      @@justforever96 well, actually i did this even before i know who is George Peterson

  • @DIeem2042
    @DIeem2042 Год назад +59

    God is defiantly working through you brother. This video showed up in my feed just at the right time. I keep getting steered lovingly in the right direction when and how I need it. Thanks for the teachings and the wisdom it helped me tremendously today

  • @firingbulletsatmoon
    @firingbulletsatmoon Год назад +15

    Thank you for evangelising in such a kind and caring way. It is always very nice to listen to you.

  • @Sophronios
    @Sophronios Год назад +19

    Father bless! I just needed to hear this. Luckily, I had a chance to go to a service today so that I would have something else to think. I want to thank you for making these videos. You are actually one reason why I got interested in orthodoxy and I'm going to chrismated on Great Saturday. Pray for me!

  • @Sharigan561
    @Sharigan561 7 месяцев назад +6

    1 year free from the slavery of lust addiction. Which was only possible through Yeshua and the 12 step program he led me to. ♥️ You speak truth sir in your videos I hear the Holy Spirit talking through you and Christians of any demonination can learn from your wisdom.

  • @Mobius762x51
    @Mobius762x51 Год назад +24

    Father Spyridon thank you for this message. I have been struggling with this very sin for a while now. I made myself a promise to remain chaste for the first 6 months of this year. I have found that so far even though I am struggling, it has helped clear my mind and allowed myself to be one step closer to God.
    For many years I turned my back on God, I went as far as to claim to be atheist, but recently I have found myself coming back to him and even praying again. And through this prayer I can feel the pain of my sins weighing on me, pushing me closer to God, pushing me to repent. This year is the first year I have taken part in Lent in a very long time, I decided to put down alcohol and tobacco. And although the temptation persists, I maintain myself control and refuse to break my promise. I am a simple man and a sinner, and I acknowledge that.

  • @ILuvRally06
    @ILuvRally06 10 месяцев назад +4

    I pray to god that he makes my body a temple of his resemblance as I work my way to not work into temptation but to deter from it. Amen. 🙏🏻

  • @octuplebaker4008
    @octuplebaker4008 4 месяца назад +1

    I absolutely needed this, God has continued to keep me humble and I pray he will continue to, until my last breath.

  • @jqalightexhange
    @jqalightexhange Год назад +19

    Its a moment of divinity that I found this channel. I found you by passing, and subscribed only to see you post on what I feel is a type of sin I've had the hardest time struggling with. Thank you for this my friend. Definitely the sign I needed and am grateful for.

  • @jahnsen712
    @jahnsen712 10 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you so much Father Spyridon, Glory to our Lord God!

  • @RetributionParadox
    @RetributionParadox 7 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you for this powerful message

  • @genetgslassie2282
    @genetgslassie2282 Год назад +43

    Mother Marry of Egypt, intercede for us 🙏🏽

    • @SeekTheCross
      @SeekTheCross Год назад +8

      Different Mary. This is St. Mary of Egypt, not Mary mother of Jesus.

  • @paperweight57
    @paperweight57 Год назад +20

    Thank you, Father. Pray to God for me!

  • @RayBoshers
    @RayBoshers Год назад +10

    Thank you, Father, for this message. I needed to hear this and I will take this with me from now on.

  • @lazywastelander5250
    @lazywastelander5250 Год назад +26

    Some how the message I need at any given time seems to pop up at the exact right time in my feed from your years worth of posts. This was first time it ever popped up at exact moment it was premiering. Thank you Father for another wonderfully delivered message.

  • @josephmartinez8803
    @josephmartinez8803 Год назад +4

    Thank you Father, for using your time to help us stay on the path that leads to our Lord, our God,
    Father, Son, an Holy Spirit 🙏✝️

  • @stevestack6173
    @stevestack6173 6 месяцев назад +3

    its only humility and Gods grace to deliver me and others!

  • @notavinav
    @notavinav Год назад +2

    It's incredible how you speak so effortlessly such wisdom. Thank you, Father.

  • @TheFIoridaMan
    @TheFIoridaMan Месяц назад +1

    Father Spyridon has me crying over my meatloaf at lunch right now 🙏🏻 God have mercey on us all

  • @cPARKer12
    @cPARKer12 11 месяцев назад +8

    Jesus Christ said even if I look at a woman for having adulterous thoughts; I have committed the sin already. It’s in the mind. The mind must be controlled & mastered in good spirits. Thank you Father! I am a great sinner. ✝️♾

  • @laetitiacl
    @laetitiacl Год назад +2

    God put this on my screen at the very minute I was needing it
    God is Great God is good

  • @blasted2691
    @blasted2691 Год назад +12

    Thank you father for your timely videos. God willing, I would love to meet you someday and shake your hand.

  • @John-PaulMutebi
    @John-PaulMutebi 4 месяца назад +1

    This is the first video I truly watched in my walk with Christ, and it still manages to teach me now, repeat the lessons you learn because even the brightest man cannot learn something once and never repeat it, we must be strong enough to admit we are not perfect and in need of revision and repentance, that leads us all to God, God bless and God loves you all

  • @ForeverNovemeber
    @ForeverNovemeber 10 месяцев назад +14

    A little over 2 years of intentional celibacy and It’s truly difficult. Lust pursues me from every angle and I don’t know how to stop. It was easier but I’ve strayed. I feel I’m losing control. Lord help me.

    • @sandrapicton6349
      @sandrapicton6349 9 месяцев назад

      Look at what gybx4094 (above) has to say. I believe that prayer has to be heartfelt and that's when God listens and replies.

  • @ICXCNIKA8
    @ICXCNIKA8 Год назад +4

    May Our Almighty Triune God Bless you Father Spyridon!!! Your videos have been a blessing to me and i just got baptized and chrismated into the Holy Orthodox Church (Serbian) this past Palm Sunday with my 2 daughters 🙏🏼 the most beautiful day of my life and am truly grateful! Glory to our Risen Lord l! Have a blessed Pascha ☦️ Christ Is Risen!

  • @lukeplaysdrums7007
    @lukeplaysdrums7007 Год назад +19

    @FatherSpyridon you have been a great encouragement in my journey to the orthodox faith as a lukewarm believer in Christ. I greatly appreciate your helpful words regarding these things, as I’ve never been very strong in my resistance towards the passions of the flesh. God willing I am beginning to be strengthened and sharpened by the Holy Spirit in my desire to flee from sin, you are doing internet dwellers like myself a huge service!!! God bless you!☦️

  • @Krl-pr5jq
    @Krl-pr5jq Год назад +6

    Hello, my family and I are not that religious, however I have started looking into more orthodoxy and have realized that I want to stop myself from sinning. I struggle most to keep sinful thoughts specifically lust, and I see these videos that give me faith but I keep falling into sin and unorthodoxy. Thank you for giving me these videos, I am just one person that you are blessing.

  • @solaireofastora8609
    @solaireofastora8609 7 месяцев назад +5

    Through the power of Christ, I quit everything, alcohol, drugs. But lust is the hardest to stop. I hate what my mind wants but I do it anyway. I am nothing but a wretched sinner

  • @ДанилоКомненић
    @ДанилоКомненић Год назад +9

    I stumbled upon this channel once and ever since I enjoy every video. God save us from ourselves! Thank you Father for your wisdom ❤

  • @zengo8214
    @zengo8214 Год назад +9

    Father,
    I used to fall into sin every day...oversexualising everything. The day I found God was the day my life changed forever. Now I live for God. God really does everything for our salvation !

    • @Ph_Spark
      @Ph_Spark 6 месяцев назад

      How u find Him?

  • @davidmaligo5647
    @davidmaligo5647 Год назад +11

    I would argue that pride is the worst sin in the world, even worse than sexual immorality, sorcery, idolatry, and murder, because not only is it the sin of the devil, but it is also the sin that keeps people from seeing their own sins and repenting.

  • @agiasf7330
    @agiasf7330 Год назад +7

    Dear St Mary, pray for us that we, like thee, may become holy, by God's grace, which is God Himself, & our complete cooperation with Him, repenting until we die of all of our passions, sins, falls, & failings.

  • @SN_-lo1ws
    @SN_-lo1ws Год назад +15

    I thank you for this video Because I'm struggling with lust and I feel very terrible, but I must stay with Christ, because Christ is my Strength and he will help me

    • @jediineducation
      @jediineducation Год назад +2

      @SN_-lo1ws Hi Sn, i found controlling my sight and thought helps. u can make up your mind about what triggers your lust and what not.

  • @tecnitrongames1472
    @tecnitrongames1472 Год назад +3

    Thank you Father Spyridon for these wise words.

  • @BalotelliFan713
    @BalotelliFan713 10 месяцев назад +2

    Love the mesages and I love hearing the goats :^) THANK YOU and God Bless! To all struggling just like me, He is there for us. Lay your burdens down and better yourself

  • @Tikon7HM-7
    @Tikon7HM-7 Год назад +5

    Thank you Father Spyridon for this timely message. Glory to Jesus Christ!

  • @NJP9036
    @NJP9036 Год назад +7

    Saint Mary of Egypt help us. Thank you Father Spyridon.