What about your friends ? // Dr. Dharius Daniels

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  • Опубликовано: 25 дек 2024

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  • @lillianrichardson1229
    @lillianrichardson1229 5 лет назад +195

    It's so hard to find good friends people who are trust worthy or are on my level. I love God so much I feel like everyone in my life is so seasonal ... I pray for good friends Sisters in Christ someone I can lean on and trust ... I feel like I am always giving the support but I don't get any in return.

    • @robinnelson9428
      @robinnelson9428 5 лет назад +3

      Same here. Unfortunately, its made me a bit cynical. I know...not good, but I'm asking the LORD GOD to help me heal. I've never been surrounded by so many superficial & treacherous people in NY

    • @paulashipman8281
      @paulashipman8281 5 лет назад +9

      Lillian Richardson You are not the only one I feel the same way. Trust God he will send them in due time.

    • @chrishaugabook2531
      @chrishaugabook2531 5 лет назад +5

      “I’m not judging peanuts, peanuts just makes me sick”. Pastor Daniels
      I’m Not calling you a fool but Foolishness makes me sick!! -me

    • @LYTETALKS
      @LYTETALKS 5 лет назад +9

      Due time..... God knows you need good friends yet don’t let this reality make you not receptive to when they actually arrive and you push them away. I’m learning that the hard way because I was pushing people away God sent because I was so used to not having people that were trustworthy and able to be reciprocal in relationships.

    • @thehoneydeev
      @thehoneydeev 4 года назад +2

      Are you a good friend though? Not being shady. Genuinely asking... Would you want to be your friend?

  • @sarahgardiner4929
    @sarahgardiner4929 4 года назад +19

    ‘You keep expecting things from people you’re calling something that they’re not’ 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @anointedstilettos
    @anointedstilettos 5 лет назад +96

    "Love is freely given, while access must be earned" ~Pastor Dharius

  • @ladyjoyarcher1187
    @ladyjoyarcher1187 3 года назад +7

    20 years ive been disciplining & in ministry alone here because i couldnt find any mature christians to bear my burdens. Literally 2 months before i watched this sermon, God brought THREE burden bearers into my life this year! Praise God!

  • @myraholmes8702
    @myraholmes8702 5 лет назад +55

    Been carrying it too long. I need a friend or friends. I need relationships that are reciprocal. Thank you Father for sending them to me. I open my heart to receive them.

    • @Giselleee789
      @Giselleee789 5 лет назад +1

      Myra Holmes AMEN! me too!

    • @bellaiarose
      @bellaiarose 4 года назад +1

      Same! Thank you in advance Lord!

    • @ragazzasolare77
      @ragazzasolare77 4 года назад +1

      Same. I don't have friends. I actually released my last "friend" because they were unreliable. It was only a way relationship--when it's convenient for them. Ya'll they didn't even come to my baptism. That hurt because I didn't invite but 3 people and only my daughter went. My baptism was more than a wedding for me, and I've never been married. It meant a ton. But, it really woke me up.
      Also, I've been in a season of separation. But, I'm ready now. #sheready 🙌

    • @CalculatedRisk58
      @CalculatedRisk58 4 года назад +1

      Same here Myra. I have walked away from many lately, because I think you have to KNOW when it's over. I had a life event that changed the game for me and went into isolation for a few months, which wasn't a BAD thing...Sometimes God can only work with you in private and He had stuff to teach me in private so I wouldn't flinch when I had to use it in public.. I recognize that. I think I am ready now to see and be with people. I'll pray for you and you pray for me! Maybe we'll both get a blessing.

    • @sharnesesmith8605
      @sharnesesmith8605 4 года назад

      Yes I need friendships that are reciprocal.

  • @LattesandLuxury
    @LattesandLuxury 5 лет назад +69

    You can’t trust anyone but God, be careful who you are vulnerable with.

    • @simon.houseaccount4807
      @simon.houseaccount4807 4 года назад +3

      So very / very true.,,at this stage in my life.,,friends are overrated,,for my life path

  • @terrablake2564
    @terrablake2564 5 лет назад +37

    GIVE ME WHO I NEED FATHER TO BE WHO YOU CALL TO BE.

  • @ragazzasolare77
    @ragazzasolare77 4 года назад +17

    Be authentic with everyone but transparent with people you trust.
    That's gold!!!

  • @tshayelindsey6618
    @tshayelindsey6618 5 лет назад +51

    This message has me crying right now because when you say "IT IS TOO MUCH", I feel this on so many levels. God, please send me the friends You want me to have and know I need in my life.

  • @fcalhoun40
    @fcalhoun40 5 лет назад +36

    Put people in their place 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Love is freely given , but ACCESS has to be earned. Friends should not be determined by feelings, but by their fruit. Fruit must be expected every season! TEACH💪🏽♥️❤️

    • @CodyCole80
      @CodyCole80 4 года назад

      I think it should be a mixture of both to have a good friendship. Remember Jonathan loved David as he loved himself.

  • @nadinedomany3987
    @nadinedomany3987 5 лет назад +59

    Friends are so hard to make, especially in church. There are lots of cliques and they are not welcoming to new people. So I have been praying to God for a friend; my best friend died in February of 2019.

    • @chelst547
      @chelst547 5 лет назад +1

      I pray for Nadine Domany that you Lord Jesus provide and fill the desire of fellowship in their heart.
      I pray for the comfort to swallow them in your peace and love of a dear friend that was their support but are now with You.
      Please send help, love, light, grace, and mercy; a person after Your heart and to be their friend/companion/brother or sister in Christ.
      Let these qualities be added unto them spiritually and naturally. Allow Nadine to reciprocate the same sentiments of true friendship in Spirit and truth. In Jesus name. Amen.

    • @nadinedomany3987
      @nadinedomany3987 5 лет назад +1

      @@chelst547 thank you for that beautiful prayer, Chels. I pray that God will bless you and grant you all of your heart's desires this year.

    • @chelst547
      @chelst547 5 лет назад

      @@nadinedomany3987 Thank you and amen.

    • @justbrowsingtheweb7791
      @justbrowsingtheweb7791 5 лет назад

      Join a group based on a goal. Friendship is easier when there is a common goal.

    • @teevee8558
      @teevee8558 4 года назад

      Sorry for your loss 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @takisharudolph3008
    @takisharudolph3008 5 лет назад +80

    This message is🔥thank you, Pastor Dharius
    ”Be authentic with everybody, but be transparent with the people you trust.” By Pastor Dharius Daniels
    Fruit inspection must be done seasonally to make sure it's still bearing fruit on the tree. 1 Samuel, 16 vs. 21 and 1 Samuel 18 by Pastor Dharius Daniels

  • @sarahgardiner4929
    @sarahgardiner4929 4 года назад +13

    ‘I wish you would stop telling my information but God says I wish you would stop telling them’ - WHAT A WORD 🔥

  • @mawescott
    @mawescott 5 лет назад +14

    Without proper support, success will sink you .
    Some people left you to soon.
    Burden bearers are coming.
    BUT there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
    Love is freely given, Access should be earned.
    You tell me stuff because I keep it. I don't tell you stuff because you don't keep it.
    The one time I need you, you sleeping on me.
    Every need is not my responsibility.
    You get out of bed | you ketch a plane | you cut a sandwich in 1/2 for a friend.
    Discern for placement.
    Fruit inspection must be done seasonally.
    Saul was cool as long as David was his Armor bearer.
    People fruits changed when they start to throw comments.
    If you are always doing the rescuing that is not a friend.
    LORD, send me people who will support me in this season.
    POWER FULL message!
    Thank you Pastor Dharius.

  • @lashundraharrell3483
    @lashundraharrell3483 2 года назад +8

    I'm seeing this sermon 2 years later but it has found me at a time I needed to her it the most...🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Love is freely given ACCESS is earned. Everybody don't deserve ACCESS to you!

  • @msvanessaceo
    @msvanessaceo 5 лет назад +15

    This is so true.....end up sharing your issues in the wrong atmosphere. Social media

  • @foreverhis5833
    @foreverhis5833 4 года назад +6

    Every need is not your responsibility🔥🔥🔥

  • @sequoia4631
    @sequoia4631 4 года назад +2

    Be authentic with everybody but transparent with the friends.

  • @anointedstilettos
    @anointedstilettos 5 лет назад +10

    I wish this word was longer. This was straight meat right here.

    • @ChyEvangelist
      @ChyEvangelist 5 лет назад +1

      Anointed Stilettos I got sad when it cut off

    • @anointedstilettos
      @anointedstilettos 5 лет назад

      @@ChyEvangelist I feel you on that. I'm sure there was more, but we'll have to patiently wait until next week😔.

  • @deeone3922
    @deeone3922 5 лет назад +17

    This series is 🔥🔥🔥Call the paramedics👨‍🚒👩‍🚒🚒. Pastor No Caps No Brakes done brought it again!! Got me in here snottin, laughing, & cryin at the same time. Help me Holy Spirit!!! I so needed to hear this!!! God bless this anointed message & may it reach the ears of those needing to hear it & deliver those who need deliverance, heal the hearts that need the fulfillment that only You God can truly bring as our Friend, & bring clarity to those who need to align & design the type of friends sent by You.

  • @meli111005
    @meli111005 5 лет назад +8

    “ I see your lil job” lol so true...Thank you pastor Dharius!

  • @NCarterMed
    @NCarterMed 5 лет назад +18

    "Ppl are going to be people" - that's right!

    • @joekim3424
      @joekim3424 4 года назад +1

      True that. Flaws and all. Makes us beautiful

  • @melanielewis9329
    @melanielewis9329 2 года назад +2

    This sermon is helping me in 2022. I suggest everyone to read Dr. Daniels Relational Intelligence if you’re struggling with relationships. Thank you PD for your ministry!!

  • @aleathaevans3316
    @aleathaevans3316 5 лет назад +2

    Father,send us people to support us in this season,for your glory!!! Amen!!!

  • @mariasolomon419
    @mariasolomon419 3 года назад

    JEESSSSUUUSSSS ACCOUNTABILITY, Assistance, Advancement

  • @josephinemoraa2128
    @josephinemoraa2128 5 лет назад +15

    I don't have any friend.I lost my father nobody stood with me apart from my family the same I was involved in an accident no body stood with me......but thank God he stood with me

    • @blessed_lana6965
      @blessed_lana6965 5 лет назад

      It's not normal. Ask God for friends.

    • @ntombifuthiyika5975
      @ntombifuthiyika5975 4 года назад

      I'm sorry Josephine. May God heal you speedily. May Jesus be your friend until He sends them your way. Talk to Him, tell Him everything, I assure you He listens and answers.

  • @Toyz3578
    @Toyz3578 11 месяцев назад

    My friends feel like family & they show up for me 💜 Thank u Lord!

  • @Lulabell0218
    @Lulabell0218 5 лет назад +13

    I've been watching your videos for a while now and I can't stop watching them. I love the realness !!!

  • @latashagooch7743
    @latashagooch7743 5 лет назад +8

    This series is about to get my whole life together 🔥🔥🔥

  • @LRNJ-43
    @LRNJ-43 2 года назад +1

    God has given Pastor Daniels a true gift. The sermon Infection from Rejection, Healing from Heartache, etc are life changing messages. God bless you and all that are involved in the ministry of changing lives and developing healthy relationships.

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 2 года назад +1

      I need to go watch those ones. They sound like great messages, and knowing how Dr. Dharius Daniels preaches, I know they would be good ones.

  • @honeylove304
    @honeylove304 5 лет назад +8

    This brother right here! Right here! Anointed to do what he does. God Bless you, pastor Daniels!

  • @niecysongz89
    @niecysongz89 2 года назад

    DROP IT!!!!! IM FINNA DROP IT LOW
    MY YES IS ON THE WAY!!!!!

  • @robbyethomashomeasafehaven6591
    @robbyethomashomeasafehaven6591 4 года назад +2

    Great breakdown IAW Scripture. Every need is not your responsibility. Discern! Feelings. Peanuts will make me 😷 so discern & stay away from them (like gossip, judgement, jealousy, opportunist, ...). Saul & David's relationship is a great example (1Samuel 16-21). Support & Compartmentalization are quite necessary. Be safe all.

  • @lateshajohnson3561
    @lateshajohnson3561 5 лет назад +8

    Love is freely given, access is earned ❤

  • @maloney774
    @maloney774 4 года назад +6

    This was so good! I'm running from those Saul's like🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️ to my bible

  • @thobivalred2027
    @thobivalred2027 5 лет назад +5

    Lord give us who we need to be who you have called us to be Amen🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @anaeliza5361
    @anaeliza5361 4 года назад +1

    Lord, please bless Pastor Daniels, his wife and family in abundance, to the full, until it overflows.

  • @purefriendships
    @purefriendships 5 лет назад +3

    This is the CORE of my ministry. Even the TLC song. This is confirmation that I heard God. Thank you!

  • @crowned_in_beauty
    @crowned_in_beauty 5 лет назад +28

    Come on Jesus 🙌🏾 your messages are always right on time to bless my evenings 🙏🏾

  • @carlkaufmann8516
    @carlkaufmann8516 2 года назад

    We all showed our. Backs.
    My family in 2014.. Couldn't eaven see each other ..for years .. 2014..

  • @nadinedomany3987
    @nadinedomany3987 5 лет назад +5

    Remember the dance for that song! I was 20 yrs old when that song was released; in fact, I went to school with Left eye in Philly. I did not know her, but I used to see her everyday.

  • @bruci8717
    @bruci8717 5 лет назад +9

    Anointed man of a God. Lord Thank you for this word!!!

  • @rachelb204
    @rachelb204 Год назад

    Still a deep message in 2023!!

  • @dellareselightbourn330
    @dellareselightbourn330 Год назад

    Powerful and Annoited Word of God Dr. Dharius Daniels - It was a Blessing!🎉

  • @dennis30620
    @dennis30620 2 года назад +1

    U can’t trust yo feelings💯

  • @mnnabira
    @mnnabira Год назад

    I am tasked to preach on Sunday in our meeting and my aim was to do friendships. And this just open my mind and I have what to share.

  • @PookieKurt
    @PookieKurt 5 лет назад +4

    Yes this message is all up in me and my wife's conversations...lol Pastor Daniels is a true Man of God exegetic ally bringing the word on a relate able level for all to understand! Keep these messages coming! God Bless!

  • @ebonydennis8996
    @ebonydennis8996 3 года назад

    Every season need to check the fruit

  • @toripruitt663
    @toripruitt663 3 года назад +1

    Be Authentic with Everybody and Transparent With Those U Trust📌💯💯💯I need to hear this sermon

  • @lindachristopher2994
    @lindachristopher2994 4 года назад +1

    Love is freely given but access must be earn

  • @msdecemberloveangel8236
    @msdecemberloveangel8236 5 лет назад +5

    Tell the truth and the truth shall make u free!!!

    • @margieparago3365
      @margieparago3365 5 лет назад

      i really love this young Pastor’s teaching , he has so much wisdom / insight in the WORD and so many times he is speaking to me .

  • @Fly-mf8gb
    @Fly-mf8gb 4 года назад +4

    Me you was talking to me!!!
    🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
    Feeling like my personal Pastor & Prophet!. Oh to the testimonies 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 #onpointdaily #spiritled #intheflow This message gave me confirmation. God was clearly speaking. No longer the armor bearer. I didn’t want to believe, but now I understand. Blessings be upon Pastor Darius Daniels.

  • @CrystalNicole13
    @CrystalNicole13 3 года назад

    Word of the year right here.

  • @medline5140
    @medline5140 5 лет назад +11

    Oh WOW! This is great timing! Such a great word!!

  • @aprilbomar7086
    @aprilbomar7086 6 месяцев назад

    THIS‼️ OMG! 🤯 Tight, but Right PD. Much needed and appreciated. 🙏❤️ I laughed, teared-up, squealed, and rejoiced!!! 😅 Thanks for fresh manna and a reminder. 🙌🏾

  • @carlkaufmann8516
    @carlkaufmann8516 2 года назад

    Confidential friends only ..

  • @annatheres3
    @annatheres3 2 года назад

    15:46 The Preaching Moment

  • @albertchivweta7656
    @albertchivweta7656 4 года назад +3

    I feel this message in my every part of my being, helping me in aligning my focus, and true, friends we need and we need them as our support system. I am thankful I have been blessed with a handful of them, who have always pulled me out of the pit when most left. They have showed up and stepped up for me when all was crumbling. Yes, you have reinforced what I needed to do indeed. Putting people in there places. Thank you Dr. Dharius Daniels

  • @stephaniemarie9850
    @stephaniemarie9850 5 лет назад +3

    This speaks to my current situation

  • @jacintawilson5897
    @jacintawilson5897 5 лет назад +2

    Whoo! This sermon was so powerful! I need to understand true friendship and know that it’s not just about my feelings. Thank you Pastor Dharius and God bless you and your family!

  • @lindachristopher2994
    @lindachristopher2994 4 года назад +2

    Some people leaves you when their net is full and when it gets empty they want to join you again.

    • @niquelovely1304
      @niquelovely1304 3 года назад

      In that position from 2019 I did everything for frens but they left 2019 when all I needed was a shoulder ,I was just praying for them and my husband too for only needing me when things go bad I am tired letting it go

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 2 года назад

      yup. I've been in that position. Praise the Lord for forgiveness, but boundaries in the process too.

  • @sparkwill5337
    @sparkwill5337 5 лет назад +35

    Come on I’ve been needing something to tell me about “friends”

    • @ChyEvangelist
      @ChyEvangelist 5 лет назад

      Sparkle Williams been praying on the topic heavily God always hears my prayers❤️

  • @preciousphasiwe8045
    @preciousphasiwe8045 5 лет назад +2

    Thank Pastor you are blessing me each day. Please come to South Africa

  • @janetking250
    @janetking250 2 года назад

    I need true friends I can trust, and I need a real relationship I can trust, this messge was great , gave me alot to think about, pastor you are amazing, awsome messge.

  • @09MrsRussell
    @09MrsRussell 5 лет назад +6

    This message is amazing! I got so many nuggets that I am sharing tjose nuggets with this video/message on social media! “ You Discern for Placement, Not Judgement” and “love Is given freely, by access is earned! “ 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @mseejipt
    @mseejipt Год назад

    i needed this word!!!! Thank you so much!!!

  • @jessicasatele3327
    @jessicasatele3327 Год назад

    Thanks!

  • @sward4246
    @sward4246 5 лет назад +4

    Come on thru🔥🔥🔥🔥
    I needed to hear this. I expect ppl to treat me the way I treat them.

  • @lajunejohnson8338
    @lajunejohnson8338 3 года назад +2

    I enjoyed this message it’s a eye opener sometime I feel like giving up but listen to you I feel I can do all things. Thanks for that message keep up the good work I hope to meet you one day it will be a honor

  • @nolumakipodcast3195
    @nolumakipodcast3195 5 лет назад +4

    What a valuable series, thank you, Pastor.

  • @rileyfoster152
    @rileyfoster152 5 лет назад +1

    Man can preach Gods good!

  • @beewilliams6768
    @beewilliams6768 4 года назад +1

    On point. On point. On point.

  • @mirandashelton5233
    @mirandashelton5233 5 лет назад +6

    AMEN 🙏🏽 AMEN 🙏🏽 AMEN 🙏🏽 thank you for such a bountiful message. No new friends, I don’t trust them. Time to cut out those toxic unsupportive friends as well. Whew I almost stomped a hole 🕳 in my floor

    • @CodyCole80
      @CodyCole80 3 года назад

      I’ve found that long friendships can be just as bad as new people. Can’t judge the value of a friend by time. I know.

  • @anointedstilettos
    @anointedstilettos 5 лет назад +4

    I am getting so much from this series. Thank you Pastor 🙏🏽.

  • @mskinne4
    @mskinne4 5 лет назад +7

    Come through with the knowledge!!!!

  • @kettanoble4357
    @kettanoble4357 3 года назад

    I listened to it today and God really spoke to my heart on putting people in the right place! Also acknowledging the need of accurate support on where Father is taking me ! Thank you pastor Daruis

  • @liftedtolifebydannab
    @liftedtolifebydannab 5 лет назад +1

    I loved this message. It has shed light on the importance of putting people in their place. Thanks so much for this!!

  • @ashleybrown1860
    @ashleybrown1860 5 лет назад +2

    This message is great.

  • @vynedvyne59
    @vynedvyne59 2 года назад

    Love this clear teaching 💕

  • @yellowbird9132
    @yellowbird9132 4 года назад +1

    I am always blessed by Dr. Dharius' messages.

  • @womenthriveglobal
    @womenthriveglobal 4 года назад +1

    Man!! This message is sooo good!!! I need to listen over and over!!

  • @noramohan5835
    @noramohan5835 5 лет назад +1

    Yes pastor , what a friend we have in Jesus,.

  • @kellylaws6303
    @kellylaws6303 2 года назад

    This is so timely!

  • @carlkaufmann8516
    @carlkaufmann8516 2 года назад

    Jesus will keep it

  • @Nasart7
    @Nasart7 2 года назад

    Another great teaching 🙌🏽 to apply in 2023 🙌🏽🙋🏽‍♀️ GOD FATHER BLESS your inteligence pastor Daniel 🙌🏽
    They weren't connected to me...
    They were connect to anticipated what - I - "could do for them....
    Painful ...Even " family "
    And when i NEED them ....
    Oh ....they can't .🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @natv6563
    @natv6563 4 года назад +2

    I needed this word so badly!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @tiffannyfitzjames7806
    @tiffannyfitzjames7806 Год назад

    2023 claiming it

  • @mistydoss8518
    @mistydoss8518 5 лет назад +1

    This blessed my soul! I held up the level 3 sitting all by myself. May God continue to bless your ministry because your ministry is blessing me and many others I'm sure. Thank you for all you do Pastor. I am a member of Going Hard For Christ Church in Tulsa, Oklahoma where Pastor Lawrence Peoples and Nichelle Peoples are leading the lost to Christ and allowing God to do the rest. God bless you and keep up the excellent work

  • @TashanaMc13
    @TashanaMc13 5 лет назад +2

    Wow wow wow! Thank you God, always on time.

  • @entleshibani6409
    @entleshibani6409 Год назад

    It's teeeeew good😩🔥.
    It's a WORD!

  • @rosepetty8531
    @rosepetty8531 2 года назад

    Lord please send My helper thank amen 🙏🏽 do it

  • @OffThePorch
    @OffThePorch 5 лет назад +4

    THIS IS FIRE!!!!🤯🔥🔥🔥

  • @shenickabanks6613
    @shenickabanks6613 9 месяцев назад

    This right here !

  • @monahwater
    @monahwater 5 лет назад +3

    Really needed this word!!

  • @empresserica
    @empresserica 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you for posting this! I only got to hear 28 minutes of it before. Great great word

  • @shereejackson4825
    @shereejackson4825 5 лет назад

    You're preaching this thing.... continue let the Father use you. I preordered your book and I'm looking forward to the release date

  • @janetking250
    @janetking250 2 года назад

    I really enjoy listening to you ministry, You are amazing 👏 ❤️

  • @Andre_vault
    @Andre_vault 5 лет назад +1

    Omg!! This series is right on time! Powerful message

  • @shareemosby1655
    @shareemosby1655 5 лет назад +1

    Pastor D man you always bringing that word. Love you and great great message

  • @TheJustme05
    @TheJustme05 4 года назад +1

    This message was such a blessing....spoke volumes to me!!!