How to Stop ISTP Women Who Abuse | CS Joseph Responds
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CS Joseph responds to the Acolyte monthly member question how can an ISTP woman stop abusing those closest to them?
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80s gay club scene is back in fashion lol
No joke. I wonder if he thinks he looks cool. Lol
@@kazesan3431People tend to take other people more seriously if they don’t look like a try-hard tbh. It’s hard for me to send people I know his videos because I know they’ll just be distracted by the 30 year old man looking like he’s in his edgy junior high boy phase. I respect what he says but I do sometimes wish he would do some research on fashion 😅
its bad fashion. But ig bad fashion looks good on him
Who gives a fuck. It’s CSJ, he’s the goat 🐐
Reminds me of the gay club attire Vito was wearing in the Sopranos. “I’m here, it’s a joke!” “Don’t say nothing Sal!”
Great outfit, and a great video! as ISTP i tend to disappear from other ppl lives, just like PUF!! But they memories hunt me for years after
great video, Freddie Mercury should guest lecture more often
My biggest problem as a templar when i fuck things up is that i do not know when to re-engage with people. I want to fix the problem, is just that i am too afraid of the people's reaction to me re-engaging. I do not know what to expect, especially when i can still feel those people's disappointment or hatred. I have this problem that sometimes i read people's emotions too well, or i just assume they still feel that way because of their facial expressions or body language.
I am all in for solving my conflicts, but i definitely lack the knowledge of knowing when to act. This happened with an ISTP girl whose Fi demon gave me the same stare for over 4 months after my confession to her lol. It took me 6 months just to finally be able to speak to her without feeling hit with lasers lmao.
Good explanation !
But are you really sure it's their reactions 🙃
Not just your worry ?
Also if she is istp, she is probably really fine, we form opinions of people mostly when we think they are a bad person, not a wrong person
why did u confess to a istp girl to begin with lmao. What happened to philosophers or even crusaders.
I have the same problem as INFJ
@@aladdout9454 gone, reduced to atoms. No joke, i actually felt some compatibility. She made me feel comfortable and we also had common interests. We were really good at completing each others' sentences. We just came from different parts but reached the same conclusion.
I guess i was attracted because i subconsciously wanted to be more like her; blunt, honest and not afraid of speaking up. She had some INTP and INTJ friends, but i didnt like them as much because oftentimes they were kind of annoying/ irritated by everything. There was this INTP girl that would constantly seem angry and in need of attention. But when she received it she would respond bluntly to you and make you feel worse. There was another INFP that i really related to, but never felt any kind of attraction towards her. She was very nice and had a calming aura around her. I think i really liked that ISTP because she was a very calm person that was also smart and you had a lot to talk about. We shared interests and we both werent so fond of small talk, so talking to her was very easy. She was actually impressed by me knowing so much about her at times and how accurate i was with my descriptions of what she is feeling.
Too bad we are apparently incompatible. Really liked her looks, her character and way of thinking. Quite witty, i would say. She wasnt really that kind of girl that paints her nails or puts on a lot of make-up, but she had a strong character and natural beauty. But oh well, its all lost now so whatever.
@@malakashraf2801 it probably is worry as well, aint gonna cap.
I just generally have trouble initiating interactions with people. Its not that i have social anxiety, because once i get comfortable, i am very talkative, especially with the right people. But i have trouble finding subjects or reasons to initiate.
It just seems like other people's relationships flow naturally, while mine are very mechanical. They have stuff to talk about and share anecdotes of experiences, while i never have things to talk about and i rarely get engaged into a conversation.
I've noticed that i have the highest amount of success in groups of 3 people, because in those scenarios the two can come up with subjects and i can also add something to the conversation. Its like when i am in a group of 3 i instantly get into my ENFP unconscious. Its just hilarious how from low energy i get super energetic once i can talk to two or more people
Enmity? That's very gloomy to hear. I'm usually intrigued by ntps.
I think templars lock philosophers down without the choice of freedom.
I wanted to take my lunch break, couldn't because I couldn't say no to a estp. She thanked me later for it.
(Same thing could be said about wayfarers, they run me raggedy.)
Edited: anyways good video!
This describes my last ex so amazingly well it's ridiculous
I’ve had ENFJ and INFJ female friends that have either ghosted, or dumped as friends for the reason that they felt I was either cold and not caring enough of their feelings enough and not being loyal to them enough. -INTP
That’s a fairly typical judgment you can get from FJ types and it can be a problem.
what does loyal or caring "enough" mean? I'm scared
Yeah I have an Infj daughter. Loyalty is huge for them. She has loyalty checked all her siblings lol. I can see how it could be a potential problem for NP types when developing friendships with one. My son is an Intp who is best friends with his sister but even he admits it was an issue for them when they were children/teenagers (less so as adults because she trusts him and they’ve obviously known each other for years but he says it is still underneath when it comes to judgement in regards to how loyal a person is to her). The door slamming stuff because an Infj person deems a person as disloyal is a real thing.
@@susanrodriquez3757Yes, I have had that same problem with xNFJ’s as an INTP myself. My oldest INFJ brother will still jack me over loyalty
You took years for that philosopher abuse video haha, you better get it right. INFP💫
ISTP’s - Good at offering, but suck at asking for help. Humble urself and listen to people. Learn to ask for favors and u will be able to give BACK.🐉
HOW CAN INFPS HEAL AFTER BEING ABUSED BY AN ISTP?
Me hearing “heart temple has natural enmity with mind temple” everytime there’s a vid with mind temple in it 😆 As in INFP I may dislike you at times but as the great Thorfinn said ‘I have no enemies’. But ENTPs love to have haters so I’ll be a hater for you 😉
ni aspirational ESTps would fail less than unconcious focused ones? at least this is my experience, and i would like to understand why, is it because if they are aspirational they are more aware of consequenses? or because they have enough will to actually make decision instead of just being only controlled by the moment?
My ISTP father was not active in our life (us four kids, me the youngest and only (Y)); in doing things with us kids and I hold him blameless for reasons of dementia (he got Alzheimer's Disease early in his late 50's). I'm am an INTJ (1984) only Millennial born when this Silent Generation (1943) father of mine was born who served in Nam and I suspect this "Agent Orange" or something else had to do with his lack of upbringing in activity in my INTJ life.
How to create more masculine personality. Serious answers. I know you have them Mage.
Don’t call me mage. I do not practice magic. I just do as I listen.
when philosopher abuse video out?
what do you think the main form in which philosopher abuse manifests is? i wonder if its like treachery...using people and moving on or something
@@aladdout9454 just using people for their hidden agenda like using children for their retirementmrnt olan.
I, don't even know of I should reconnect with people. I am too sensitive, that I dont know how and whom to start. If I start with the wrong one, it will mess me yp furyher, and I dont think I have enough freedom and resources to deal with tue consequences thereafter. What I will become after reconnecting with even one friend is very uncertain to me. That is what I am afraid of.. 0:45
Hey Chase, Great video. But I have to ask, because this one really hit close to home for me.
Have you (or anyone else) seen this same kind of abusive behavior also from INTJs?? Because this whole thing about people being a reminder of failure is very familiar to me.
I dont think its because of Pride, but mostly because of Shame and Fear. Instead of being brave and facing the problems, I have a lot of times just abandoned people, and jobs, and other things. Basically being a Coward and run away, instead of doing the scary thing and try to fix the problems instead.
I am definitely not a Templar, and I dont know if I have done this as often as Templars do, but I really have done this regularly, and its definitely one of the things I feel most shame and regrets from.
Maybe Wayfarers do this also, or at least something similar in a different way??
I’m an ESFP and I do this ALL the time. Whyyyyyyy
It is a trait of Se. All Se users have this. Its a form of psychometry.
Maybe it has to do with Status or something like that? We feel terrible if we perceive that people around us dont like us anymore, so instead we chose to avoid that pain, and move on to a new place or new people if we can do it without too much personal loss.
I dont know , but it feels like a thing Pirates would do. Almost in the same vein as "Take what you can, give nothing back" type of situation, in terms of relationships with other people.
I'm an INTJ and i've done this before, i'm trying to be more vulnerable with people (people i value) ever since i became more self aware, it helps at times when through conversations i realise that these people have forgiven me and so they won't abandon me , this way i dont leave first before i'm left
Hi Chase, you typed me as an ESFP. But this is something I do all the time. If I feel like I’ve failed someone or I keep making errors with someone I rather cut them out of my life and start a new relations friends etc. Does this happen to wayfarers as well?
Only INTJ focused ESFPs would cut people out of their life.
I think it applies to wayfarers too, but we do it less , maybe because we can accept forgiveness or self forgive more than templers because we have Fi, we are still able to see our worth even after failure
-intj🙂
Se hates failure in anyone
i think it’s very common for se dons and ni doms to run from relationships esp when they think they’ve fucked up
@@sandradibiaso7316is it a good thing, though?
My INTJ hubby has gotten upset with me for asking me for help, in the assumption that I’m compromising not only mine’s, but also his independence, but am not afraid to ask for help. I also know that they will ask for it in the future and that I will help improve them. -INTP
Bro is looking like the offspring of Freddy Mercury and Andrew Tate
Very brilliant good sir
lol..there's no way in hell a person can trash my car and walk away. I'm gonna beat the life out of that guy. Csj you need to be more tough
Brilliant !! 🤩🤩
Hit the gym big fella
Bro, he obviously has other priorities. Like getting us good content, and taking care of his family. he also fights an autoimmune disease for his liver. The gym isn’t everything.
@@simransingh-lr7qbstop riding so hard? xD
Are you talking about planned tactics that you are planning with doing a bit of desire over reality ju ju?
Was amber lumen from the elementals istp or infj ?
I thought maybe a istj or enfp? Only determined because she didn't know what she wanted the whole time.
@@cacorn982 no she was obviously an ni - se user
@@الساهرميسان-غ4م what was your typing of wade then?
@@cacorn982 not sure but he may be an enfp
@@الساهرميسان-غ4م I'm not so for sure, I need to watch this movie again. The only reason I was I was thinking lumen was a si user was because wade liked connecting with people in the puffball game and getting all the people together.
I thought lumen felt obligation and having to have duty to fulfill her dad's shoes.
Will you marry me ? Of course, I'm asking that without know if you're Gay, Bi, or Pan
i think its important to know what kind of abuse is done. You made a video responding to a disgusting istp rapist man. The right thing to do is indeed, stay away from ur victim's life and then work on yourself.
Type Tommy Shelby if you dare.
it's called immaturity, not personality type lmao
Too funny...