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When I first had surgery my penis was about 5 inches, which is what me and my doc had agreed on. Over the next 5-6 months it shrunk to 4 inches exactly. I would measure it all the time hoping it would “stretch” back out. It never did. What I realized though is that I never actually felt bad about my penis size while I was using it; only when I had the tape measure in my hand. So I just stopped measuring it and it really hasn’t bothered me since.
It's not the size that matters, it's how you know how to use what you have 😁 Being I'm in transition, I've noticed that smaller is better most of the time, and also girth can be a problem. I dated a cis male who was as big as my wrist in girth, and he couldn't even get it in I'm a small person 5 foot 2 inches, and he was VERY frustrated at his size. I realized then that bigger is NOT better for the average person.
I found out that after losing so much weight, I have excess skin around my belly, and if I wanted to do phalloplasty, that would be the best place to have a skin graft because it would be like a tummy tuck with a phallo at the same time. I would also not have any skin graft scars in any region of my body. I'm still contemplating this option of course, but it's another option I wanted to share in here just in case anyone was interested 👍😁 Thank you for being candid about the technicalities of choosing a size, I didn't realize it made that big of an issue with urethral hookup. Yet another reason I'm taking my time deciding if I want to do metoidio or phallo. You're the best! 💖😎💪🥰👏
Bless you buddy, yes the option of abdominal phalloplasty is possibe and a great way to kill two birds with one stone! And yes, the urethral hook up is the most challenging thing, but my word I am glad I stuck with it! Thanks for watching, and for your kind comments as always!
Imma straight trans guy, but your videos are so helpful. The fears I have had over wanting bottom surgery, top surgery, and everything. Thank you so very much for these videos honestly! You're a beautiful being!
What a lovely thing to say! Thank you my friend. The fears are understandable, especially with lower surgery and I am very glad to help. I have a website too, and I offer coaching and mentoring should you ever need a listening ear and some help to work through decisions finlaygames.com/mentoring-and-coaching/
I'm a cis chap, and your happenis is as important to me as it is to you. I think you help a LOT of people with your story mate. Wish you nothing but good💙
This woman is despicable. Female transsexualism virtually didn't exist. She wants to ruin teenage girls' and young women's lives. Misery loves company.
As a cis woman, I probably do not have much business for watching this video. But I appreciate how informative it is and can just imagine how many men you have helped!
I agree. I am also a cis woman, but he is so easy to listen to and very informative. I was also thinking, I would never have the surgery done, for one reason, I make kidney stones or my kidneys do. I want the stones out, not to have to travel another 5 inches 🤣. It happens every 2 or 3 years and it got stuck last time.
@@howardstrauss275 please rely on medicine! I worked years with plants and would consider myself researched on many different plants with 'healing' abilities. They are good for stomach aches and maybe headaches as first try or additions, not to replace real medications and doctors
I have a question. Did you have a mentor or friend or support person who was able to be as open. honest and so very concise as you are, and have been, for those on a similar journey to yours? As a mum and and a gran, I'd want my loved ones to be able to find such honest and clear information if this was a road they needed to travel. Your openness and honesty never fails to floor me. You are blessed to have such a gift. xx
What a beautiful comment, thank you so much. I have been blessed to meet awesome people, trans people who have shared their experiences with me, as well as people in recovery whi have helped me to learn to cope and manage life in much healthier ways. It's funny you mention mentoring as l am in the process of launching myself as a coach and mentor. I want to be able to do exactly as you say, support others in their own journey, so that they can forge their own path to contentment and inner peace 😊
I've been really wanting to get phalloplasty but it's terrifying to think about and I wanted to thank you for your videos because their really helping me feel more confident in wanting to get phalloplasty
Bless you my friend, I completely understand how it is terrifying. I felt the same way, I was overwhelmed with choices and there was very little information, which is why I now share as openly as I do. Take thigs one at a time, allow plenty of time for reserach and reflection. If I can be of any help, please do pop over to my website finlaygames.com
@@billmartins5545 any surgery is risky, but when its needed then the risks are worthwhile. Negative experiences used to be all you heard, now we have much more of a balance, which is what l aim to provide. This does have complications, it can go wrong, but can also go very well and to make decisions people need to hear both sides so that they can be properly informed and prepared
I still remember when your scar on your arm was new and now it looks so good! I'm so surprised in a good way. I'm happy everything also turned out good for your surgery. I know you had a lot of complications ❤️
Thank you so much, yes lm pleasantly surprised too! I was wisely told that complications are inevitable but they would be worth it in the long run, and they were right!
I haven’t had a surgery, I actually just came out recently. But the second I did, I started getting questions and searching things up. And I feel a bit more confident in my self now. You seem pretty cool.
I’ve found that most surgeons are very discriminatory in their language when recommending the size of your phallus. When asking for larger than “average” they tend to argue it not being sexually pleasurable to your female spouse, assuming you are a heterosexual trans male and it won’t fit your body size. I chose a surgeon that did not use this toxic language and instead lead with asking my top goals and expectations. We only spoke of size after we agreed on a donor site and options of UL or not. Feedback for surgeons is to stop saying “average” bc this is discriminatory to races and assuming those may not want smaller or larger.
That is a very very good point my friend, proffessional often do not realise their unconcious bia when it comes to sex and genitals, I am glad to hear you found a good surgeon!
@DIORDOL VON GIOHEIM I don't think their the toxic one.. I think you are. All they really did was get a surgeon that did what they wanted so they'd feel the most comfortable in their body. You need to low key chill
I am now 10 weeks post op from RFF Phalloplasty. My surgeon, which is the top Phalloplasty surgeon in the world said you cannot choose your size if its RFF, that is a huge misconception. Only ALT can decide the size. RFF length is based on nerve endings not just skin available. The most length on a forarm is usually 6 and under, never above a 6. Ill have to make a video to explain.
There’s so little good information from folks with lived-experience about transgender bottom surgery. I’m considering it and I deeply appreciate your information
I totally understand how enthusiastic you are about the subject! the amazing thing is that there starts to build sensation that integrates the new part to the body. I'm very happy about it. No complications for me, everything is perfect, thanks to the surgeons. I'm glad things worked out well for you too. Size matters when you have it :)
Yes the return of sensation is incredible isnt it! It's amazing what the human body can do. Very pleased to hear you have had such a great result. Wonderful to be happy in our bodies isnt it 😊
I just watched one of your other videos and OMG, I didn't know you were gay, too! I'm a transmasc gay as well and I feel like everyone I've found (though still helpful) was speaking from a straight perspective. Thank you for making this channel!
This is just the video I needed right now. In the process of getting my referrals for phallo so trying to gather as much info as I can on what to realistically expect from it. (looking at RFF in particular) 😊 Thank you for this 💞
Very glad the video helped! Good luck with your phallo journey, early days are tough, trying to get the right info and make decisions etc, happy to help if you ever need. There are tons of lower surgery playlists of all the stages on my channel, and extra resources on my website and blog too. You can also contact me viw my website too, if i can ever help. finlaygames.com/index/
Not pervy at all! I aim for these to support trans people, but also to inform people who might not understand the surgery, so I am very glad to hear that the vlog was interesting! Thanks for that kind feedback and for watching!
👏🏻👏🏻 Love this, vids such as these are so important for us cis folk to demystify our curiosity and understand the transition process to become better LGBTQ+ allies. Thank you! Xx
I saw you in a video on Facebook. Your vibe is EVERYTHING 🙌 I'm so very PROUD of you! I love how comfortable you are in your own skin, sending hope and information to our trans community! (I'm just a cis woman with many trans friends, giving unconditional love and support) I don't know you, but I love you 💖 Please don't stop! New Subscriber.
You are so lovely! I seem to have missed this comment so sorry! Bless you for being such a great ally and thanks for subscribing, welcome to the FinnFam!
Im so glad I came across your video . I have been thinking of getting phalloplasty . Before I got my top surgery I was nervous , scared and afraid I would regret it however; it was the best decision in my life. I do have more questions I would like to ask you if it’s okay .
Hi my friend, nerves are absoultely normal, we want the outcome, but not the surgery and recoveru and risks, so making these decisions is so very hard. I am happy to amswer questions. I have an option on my Ko-fi page to send me questions ,for a pay what you can afford donation basis. ko-fi.com/finlaygames/commissions
I don't know you're gonna read this or not but thank you :) I really mean it ... I got a friend that she or better to say he is going for the transgender surgery and I am really scared . each day I study more about it and I got more confused till I saw your video :))) right now I'm crying :) really thank you she is so important to me
Bless your heart! Your friend is lucky to have you! Iys a strange thing for us, that as trans folks, as much as we are nervous about surgery, it is also exciting, but for our friends and loved ones, its just surgery and so is often terrifying! Just bare in mind that this surgery is going to transform your friends life in so many amazing ways! He will be very much in need and grateful for your support afterward. I have a ton of resources on my website too if it helps! finlaygames.com
It's so interesting to see other transmen that aren't straight. I always knew i was a boy but I thought when i grew up I'd be straight; that it must occur at some point in your teens. I'm 25 in two weeks and the cooties have never left. I've only ever had interest on the gay side of the spectrum
Soooo I am really planning on getting one myself. But I'm still in my late teens and I don't have the money and am still not out yet, but I definitely will have phalloplasty so thank you for this very informative video. You make everything understandable and fun 💓😹
@@SassoSkorzenyrecently got top surgery and it’s been the best thing ever. Stop calling gender reassignment surgery, “mutilating or butchering”, when it’s not.
I am a cis man that had ALT phalloplasty. I did get to choose my size. My surgeon said she’d have no problem with making the phallus the size I requested. No problems so now I have a very lovely size of 7" by 7". But yes, keeping the bulge in my pants less noticeable is an ongoing issue. But compared to what I had beforehand I’m willing to take the hit of my dong snaking down my pant leg. It’s been 6 months since I had the flap created and no sensation yet but I’m hoping soon it’ll begin happening.
Hi, i am planning on having this surgery at some point and one of my main concerns is the scarring. I always planned to have the scars at the donor site covered with tattoos. How long do you have to wait before you can tattoo over the scarring and did you have any issues asking a tattoo artists to do this?
Hello! I can understand your concerns re scarring. You need to wait at least a couple of years until you can have a tatoo, but it all depends on how well your arm heals. Lots of tatooists wont do it, because there is no guarentee how it will turn out, but, my friend is a tatooist, and had some experience of scarring, so i was lucky he said yes and did a great job. I shall link you to a playlist about it. ruclips.net/p/PL-xdbMjLqelLBo16lh79QgEhhoVcZmUml
Hey man, thanks for explaining so well! Is it true that the initial graft size they take (for example 6 inches from the arm) will eventually shrink at least by 1 inch due to skin plasticity?
Thanks for watching and for your kind comments. The skin can settle a bit and cause some loss of length, but personally l havent experienced this, in fact l measured just before this video to see!
I want phalloplasty in the future. My ideal length is 3 or 4 inches so I can use it but also have lower risk of complications and it’ll fit well in my pants. I want urethral lengthening and scrotoplasty too. I don’t want more than 4 inches though
Hey Finn, really appreciate and enjoy your videos! As a very skinny guy considering RFF, do you think exercising/bulking up my forearms would affect the girth at all? Or is it entirely dependent on fat content?
Hello my friend, thanks for your lovely comment! It is fat content more than anything. I was told to put on a bit of weight for mine, as my arms werent very chunky, but Im honestly not sure how much it worked! It cant hurt to try buling up your arms and seeing if you can put some weight on. Have you managed to speak to a consultant yet?
@@FinnTheInfinncible thanks for your reply! I haven’t. It’s been something I’ve been mulling over in my head - I was like you and didn’t think I needed bottom surgery for the first part of my transition. I should probably do some consultations because waitlists are so long now, but maybe that’ll work in my favor if I can put on some weight.
@@FinnTheInfinncible me too I am 5’5 😅.. I wish u could took about heigh Dysphoria brother because many I know has this issue... I usually don’t like to hear what other say on RUclips but u got an interesting way to tell 😅👍🏼
Yes me! I have extensive scarring on both forearms. This has not affected my result, though underneath my penis you can see the scars that were once on my forearm, and around the glans, you can see the scars too. Sensation/results wise its not been a problem for me and I don't mind how it looks. You can find more info here: Finished result video: ko-fi.com/s/f854c136f2 Arm graft healing playlist: ruclips.net/p/PL-xdbMjLqelLBo16lh79QgEhhoVcZmUml My phalloplasty Memoir and Guide: finlaygames.com/my-books/
Thanks for sharing your personal info, great job. 🏳️🌈👍 I really want to be educated in other communities. I dunno about men's anatomy on this, but at least for women if you have decent/average girth it feels pretty good, and 5 is average anyway. I never thought about it always being the same size. I thought it was at least slightly smaller and a pump was used to expand a little + be hard. I didn't know about the variety of surgeries. You all are very brave! These surgeries must be rough.
Really informative video I'm concerned that im too short Not even 5 feet.. around 4 10 .. my arms are really small but even less in circumference.. really concerned Is there any limit to how much of the circumference of the arm they can take.. I assume the graft is not taken all the way around + it also rolls inside itself so the actual girth would be like half
Thanks for your kind comments. No the graft doesnt go all the way around on mine, i have anout an inch spare on the underside of my forearm. I have friends with very small arms whos results are fine, so I wouldnt worry too much
@@adliadadliad4096 for Guys with Low Body fat percentage theres also the possibility of getting your Graft from your thigh. Maybe Look Up Papoga on yt. He Had this Procedure done and talks about ist on his channel
Very glad to help, thank you for your kind appreciation! I have also written a book, a detailed memoir and guide, to the decision making process, the surgery, and to navigating my changed body, sex, and sexuality. you can find out more and hear a reading over here finlaygames.com/my-books/
Hi I found you looking up info on vaginoplasty and I am really interested in lower surgery and researching options. Right now I'd be happy just to not have a vagina. I already got rid of my uterus and ovaries.
I’m a trans gay guy and I’ve realised there isn’t much on this kind of thing in the internet and I’m getting told that I can’t be gay I’m not gay enough and that when I start T my sexuality will change could you do a video on this kind of topic please
The surgeries are so expensive, like of course they are but still. I feel like I could go without top surgery but I may just have to suck it up and only get the top surgery. God I wish I was just born in the right fucking body.
2 months back abdominal phalloplasty surgery in my country but the size came out too small around 2.5 inch, I just had first step there is no implant yet.. is implant helps to increase the length? Or the tissue can grow little more naturally after few days?
Hi my friend, congrats on your surgery. In RFF phalloplasty, the implant cannot give any more length, im not sure if this is different for abdobinal. For more info on the implant, I have a blog that may be helpful? finlaygames.com/phalloplasty-final-stage-ams-implant-review/
Thank you for sharing on the info, I've been conflicted between meto and phallo (wasn't happy with the size of either) so knowing that there might be an option to have a combo is awesome. 4 inches sounds good- maybe just under to 4.5 definitely not more than that. I'm not sure if you've shared before but I'm just wondering what surgeon you went to- and your referrer.
Hallo, my dear Finn. Your video is very interesting, informative, clear.to understand! So, even I can understand. How hard is this process! I remember all your journey, shared in your videos. Now you can really advice who is at the biginning. 😘
Thank you so much, that is great to hear that this was clear to understand. Im really enjoying being able to now go back and redo some of my earlier videos, to help others on the same path. Much love!
you're video is very helpful to understand more about phallos I'm a lot more confident in what I want and how it should go after this video watching your video made me fe more comfortable in my skin
Hello my friend, I am thrilled this video helpd, thank you for letting me know. I have also written a book about my phalloplasty experience, you can find details of that here : finlaygames.com/my-books/
Big D energy, lol! I am glad this was helpful, and thank you. With good scar care a graft can heal well! finlaygames.com/best-scar-care-products-for-surgery-recovery/
Your very lucky that you didn't end up with any divits on yr arm. I had RFF . I'm almost two years post op and my arm looks very bad. My leg also never healed well. I was told nobody scars in the leg where they take the split thickness graft. Not true. My leg is still itchy too. My penis looks pretty good though I ended up with 5.25 in length and 4.50 in girth. I regret the graft choice . I wanted more girth. Maybe the implants might make me abit more thicker. I think Alt is the better choice. I think if size is a consern don't choose RFF. Thanks for your video.
I am really sorry to hear the result is not as you would like, I can imagine that is hard to make peace with. It is always a risk, that we might end up with more scarring than we like, or other things that dont quite match up to our expectations. Learning to manage my expectaition, has featured heavily in my journey, I too have bits I would have liked to be different, but I have used lots of acceptance work around those, and made peace and come to love what I do have. You could speak to someone about the scars, even at 2 years post op, there is a lot that can be done to help problematic scars. Good luck my friend
If I opted for phalloplasty, would I be able to choose a two inch penis? For Rfff. I know metoidioplasty can range from a few cm to a couple of inches, but if i dont get the growth outcome i wanted, phalloplasty would be my next option. And I care about size, but I don't at the same time, hence why I'm saying 2 inches, I'd be happy with 2 inches and comfortable with two inches, any bigger than 3 or any smaller than one would cause me some severe dysphoria. And I'm glad I know what I'm comfortable and not comfortable with. But I just don't know how small, is too small for phalloplasty.
Hi my friend. I completely understand because I had the exact same questions at the beginning of my journey and I talked about this in my videos and in my book. I wasn't sure I wanted full phalloplasty, but equally I felt meta might be too small for me. I discussed this with Mr Christopher, who said that he could make me a smaller penis, taking a smaller graft. This would be the same procedure as phallo, but that I could have a smaller size. The only thing with this is that I wouldn't be able to have the erectile device as there wouldn't be the room. It's worth discussing it with the team as it's definitely an option. In the end after weighing things up I did decide to go full phalloplasty I think this is the video I discuss this in. I hope it helps ruclips.net/video/H2awnT4FCYE/видео.html
I also have one more question. If I were to opt for phalloplasty, can I still have scrotoplasty and keep my... woman hole. Or would closure of that hole be required in order to have it done. Personally, I'd feel comfortable with or without balls and to keep that hole there at the same time. And if they can keep the hole there while achieving scrotoplasty, would the balls separate in order to access that hole, or would they be placed higher up so penetrative sex is still possible..
I have a question. I am quite skinny and my forearms are very skinny. I am 18 years old and have not started T yet. Do you think I can still get the graft from my thighs and that it would work and still be an average size? I really don't think there's any way I could use my forearms...
Hello my friend, yes, using the thigh works very well for folks who are skinny. You still end up with similar results, Each method of grafting and creating a oenis just has different pros and cons, it is all about working out what is right for us
@@FinnTheInfinncible welp , im a malaysian & it's nearly impossible to even come out as trans here - im sure that there's no surgeons nor health insurance companies available , regarding that malaysia doesn't support LGBTQ+ :(
@@doughyolk I'm so sorry to hear that. Do you have a local LGBT group you can contact? Or connect with some trans folks from your area online to get some info?
Can you explain about the sense of the penis? Heat, touch and sexual sensation. I'm really worried that the sexual sensation goes away or decrases because I did not choose a good doctor
Is phalloplasty and enlargement the same thing? Because I’m considering an enlargement to boost my confidence, but I’m not sure if I need phalloplasty. I’m really confused
Hi my friend! Phalloplasty usually means full construction of a penis. Here is their website, perhaps you can give them a call? www.andrology.co.uk/phalloplasty
Hi, Finn! Can you answer, please, the length of penis depends on the length of forearm's flap? In other words, if I have naturally thin forearms (but long enough), I would rather to look to a different kind of phalloplasty (alt)? Sorry, if it's a dumb question. I will rewatch the video again.
@@FinnTheInfinncible thanks for the reassurance... 'Thankfully' that's all still in the future since I'm not on hormones (yet, March next year is the first appointment 🥳) so I still would've time to gain some weight. But it's good to hear nonetheless that even if you're skinnier you can still get good results :)
So if getting 6 inches, will anything bad occur during surgery and after surgery when it heals and during healing? I'm sorry if that didn't make sense or anything 😅
It might not cause any issues at all. Just the reasoning behind not creating a particually long penis is mostly because of re routing the urethra pipe.
So informative thank you!🏳️⚧️ Unrelated- but ugh why are men so attractive and beautiful 😭 You're really really handsome.. 😳🙈 - local flustered pan girl
So do they put a donor graft on your arm? If so where are they getting the grafts from? Reason is it seems like in the past ive heard there are often shortages (for burn injuries, etc.) Do they have you wait for times of surplus? (since I imagine there is a shelf life, which creates a 'use it or lose it' situation with the graft material), or are there synthetically grown grafts that you pay to have grown? I have no idea how any of this is done, but I guess my concern is that i wonder if anyone else really asks, becauss while I can imagine several ways it could be done properly, i could also definitely imagine some politicians desparate to pander for votes making rules that cause some graft material to be diverted from places that could cause major backlash that could seriously harm your community. Particularly if you are in a nation with socialized medicine that also bans cash procedures, forcing all graft material to come from possibly one supply. Idk does this make sense? I'm not trying to criticize, but rather im thinking out loud that if I were in ypur shoes i would be interested in making sure the politicians and medical community was regulating this in such a way that wouldnt cause a backlash later on...mainly as living in the USA with the DNC considering stepping away from LGBTQ rights (basically forsaking LGBTQ to pander to the growing Catholic Latino vote instead), this kind of stuff has been on my mind alot.
Thank you for your concern! The graft is taken from our own bodies. Here in the UK, they take a graft from under each bum cheek to replace on the arm. More info here ruclips.net/p/PL-xdbMjLqelLBo16lh79QgEhhoVcZmUml
How is running and all other sports with 5 inch size? I do trailruning and triathlon and am kinda worried that the package is going to be a problem ha ha
I can understand but there is nothing to fear! Because our penis are soft,they can be bent and compacted so running and exercise is fine. I do find though, that l need tighter underwear. I cant wearbthe boxer style with the loose legs as my penis comes out the bottom! So, l wear boxer trunks, the ones with snug legs
I’m not post-op but I do pack. I run and cycle myself and like Finn says, tighter underwear definitely helps keep everything together. As for being post-op, I think it will be the same as any cis-man. GCN (if you don’t watch them already, I’d really recommend you do!) have done videos about this and give some tips on how to manage with a package ;)
Some of the masculising features would reverse, fat would redistribute to a more female pattern, hair growth would slow. How much would depend on whether the person had a hystorectomy or not.
They dont, there is no cartilage in a penis. cis or trans. To get erect, rather than erectile tissue, the surgeros use an erectile device. I have a whole playlist explining that surgery and how it works ruclips.net/p/PL-xdbMjLqelLGAQbUso3HTU_ode4a2zCl
@@FinnTheInfinncible Thanks for the info, got a step sibling who's trans and I'm trying to learn as much as I can so as not to make them feel isolated.
That's wonderful, they are very lucky to have your support! I wonder if this video might be helpful for you then ruclips.net/video/fKAfJnrh-Rw/видео.html
Thank you for this video I’m still barely figuring out what type of surgery I want and haven’t even started t yet cause I’m broke so I’m trying and really want to transition but this helped a lot I’m are u able to take the skin for your penis from your ass cause mines big so 💀😭
Thats ok, you only know if you know! I dont mind being asked anything when it is asked with consideration. And no, we cannot produce sperm. Surgery can recreate a penis but not the testes etc
For metodioplasty, yes. For phalloplasty, which is what Finn got, no. However there are currently two options for devices you can have added to the penis to serve this function. They are called "semi-rigid rod" and "inflatable" penile implants.
Well phalloplasty creates a penis for men who dont have one, so yes, if a straight man doesnt have a penis and wants one then yes he can have phalloplasty
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When I first had surgery my penis was about 5 inches, which is what me and my doc had agreed on. Over the next 5-6 months it shrunk to 4 inches exactly. I would measure it all the time hoping it would “stretch” back out. It never did. What I realized though is that I never actually felt bad about my penis size while I was using it; only when I had the tape measure in my hand. So I just stopped measuring it and it really hasn’t bothered me since.
Exactly this! Size is really not relevant at all is it, it's being happy in our own bodies
It's not the size that matters, it's how you know how to use what you have 😁 Being I'm in transition, I've noticed that smaller is better most of the time, and also girth can be a problem. I dated a cis male who was as big as my wrist in girth, and he couldn't even get it in I'm a small person 5 foot 2 inches, and he was VERY frustrated at his size. I realized then that bigger is NOT better for the average person.
Shockingly, most men think average is 8", and their 5" is tiny. So same thing!😝
The erect vagina is about 5" long, so anything over 5" hurts.🤷♀️
I found out that after losing so much weight, I have excess skin around my belly, and if I wanted to do phalloplasty, that would be the best place to have a skin graft because it would be like a tummy tuck with a phallo at the same time. I would also not have any skin graft scars in any region of my body. I'm still contemplating this option of course, but it's another option I wanted to share in here just in case anyone was interested 👍😁
Thank you for being candid about the technicalities of choosing a size, I didn't realize it made that big of an issue with urethral hookup. Yet another reason I'm taking my time deciding if I want to do metoidio or phallo. You're the best! 💖😎💪🥰👏
Bless you buddy, yes the option of abdominal phalloplasty is possibe and a great way to kill two birds with one stone! And yes, the urethral hook up is the most challenging thing, but my word I am glad I stuck with it! Thanks for watching, and for your kind comments as always!
@@FinnTheInfinncible Thank you too for your wonderful videos! 👏🥰 Where there's a will, there is a way!👍💖😎
Omg that's gets two birds with one stone that's genius. I've never heard of this.
@@danutdracula I'm glad I can share what I've learned here with all of you! I'm happy it can help anyone out there 👍😎💪
wow! that's awesome. Thanks for sharing.
Imma straight trans guy, but your videos are so helpful. The fears I have had over wanting bottom surgery, top surgery, and everything. Thank you so very much for these videos honestly! You're a beautiful being!
What a lovely thing to say! Thank you my friend. The fears are understandable, especially with lower surgery and I am very glad to help. I have a website too, and I offer coaching and mentoring should you ever need a listening ear and some help to work through decisions finlaygames.com/mentoring-and-coaching/
I'm a cis chap, and your happenis is as important to me as it is to you. I think you help a LOT of people with your story mate. Wish you nothing but good💙
A lovely comment! Thank you!! 😁💕🏳️🌈
This woman is despicable. Female transsexualism virtually didn't exist. She wants to ruin teenage girls' and young women's lives. Misery loves company.
Happenis is an underrated term
As a cis woman, I probably do not have much business for watching this video. But I appreciate how informative it is and can just imagine how many men you have helped!
Bless you! It is good for anyone to earn what we go through. Thanks for watching and for your kind words :)
I agree. I am also a cis woman, but he is so easy to listen to and very informative.
I was also thinking, I would never have the surgery done, for one reason, I make kidney stones or my kidneys do. I want the stones out, not to have to travel another 5 inches 🤣. It happens every 2 or 3 years and it got stuck last time.
@@MartinsGarage97 there are herbs that would dissolve the stones. Don't rely on western medicine.
I love people like you, wanting to learn 💕
@@howardstrauss275 please rely on medicine! I worked years with plants and would consider myself researched on many different plants with 'healing' abilities. They are good for stomach aches and maybe headaches as first try or additions, not to replace real medications and doctors
I have a question. Did you have a mentor or friend or support person who was able to be as open. honest and so very concise as you are, and have been, for those on a similar journey to yours? As a mum and and a gran, I'd want my loved ones to be able to find such honest and clear information if this was a road they needed to travel. Your openness and honesty never fails to floor me. You are blessed to have such a gift. xx
What a beautiful comment, thank you so much. I have been blessed to meet awesome people, trans people who have shared their experiences with me, as well as people in recovery whi have helped me to learn to cope and manage life in much healthier ways. It's funny you mention mentoring as l am in the process of launching myself as a coach and mentor. I want to be able to do exactly as you say, support others in their own journey, so that they can forge their own path to contentment and inner peace 😊
You sound like a wonderful mom and grandmother! ❤️
@@RowanWarren78 So kind to say so 💞
Getting that tattoo on your arm to cover the scar was a good idea!
Turned out well hasnt it!
I've been really wanting to get phalloplasty but it's terrifying to think about and I wanted to thank you for your videos because their really helping me feel more confident in wanting to get phalloplasty
Bless you my friend, I completely understand how it is terrifying. I felt the same way, I was overwhelmed with choices and there was very little information, which is why I now share as openly as I do. Take thigs one at a time, allow plenty of time for reserach and reflection. If I can be of any help, please do pop over to my website finlaygames.com
@@billmartins5545 any surgery is risky, but when its needed then the risks are worthwhile. Negative experiences used to be all you heard, now we have much more of a balance, which is what l aim to provide. This does have complications, it can go wrong, but can also go very well and to make decisions people need to hear both sides so that they can be properly informed and prepared
I still remember when your scar on your arm was new and now it looks so good! I'm so surprised in a good way. I'm happy everything also turned out good for your surgery. I know you had a lot of complications ❤️
Thank you so much, yes lm pleasantly surprised too! I was wisely told that complications are inevitable but they would be worth it in the long run, and they were right!
It's not about the size, it's how you use it. wink* wink*
Absolutely! 😜
Pretty weird dude. Fighting nature, you’ll never win.
@@jdlives8992 unfortunately for you, you’ve already lost. Because you’re jealous and insecure. How did you even find your way here
HAHA! Got that right
@@Jwilliams813 lol. Dude that was the best comment on RUclips. I won’t argue but I won’t say your right. Diddle my needle
I haven’t had a surgery, I actually just came out recently. But the second I did, I started getting questions and searching things up. And I feel a bit more confident in my self now. You seem pretty cool.
I’ve found that most surgeons are very discriminatory in their language when recommending the size of your phallus. When asking for larger than “average” they tend to argue it not being sexually pleasurable to your female spouse, assuming you are a heterosexual trans male and it won’t fit your body size. I chose a surgeon that did not use this toxic language and instead lead with asking my top goals and expectations. We only spoke of size after we agreed on a donor site and options of UL or not. Feedback for surgeons is to stop saying “average” bc this is discriminatory to races and assuming those may not want smaller or larger.
That is a very very good point my friend, proffessional often do not realise their unconcious bia when it comes to sex and genitals, I am glad to hear you found a good surgeon!
Who was your doctor and how did the surgery
@@Milk-y My surgery was done under the care of st peters andrology in the UK
@Rudol Von Stroheim 🤫
@DIORDOL VON GIOHEIM I don't think their the toxic one.. I think you are. All they really did was get a surgeon that did what they wanted so they'd feel the most comfortable in their body. You need to low key chill
That's a lovely compliment, thank you!
For real tho. I just want you to read things to me in your smooth vernacular and accent. It's soothing.
@@sarahpool1168 I clearly need to work in voiceover!
5 to 6 inches is plenty!! Honestly if I have phallo I think I'll opt for 4 inches. It's the size of my packer and it makes me quite happy
Exactly this my friend, we dont need to be giant!
I am now 10 weeks post op from RFF Phalloplasty. My surgeon, which is the top Phalloplasty surgeon in the world said you cannot choose your size if its RFF, that is a huge misconception. Only ALT can decide the size. RFF length is based on nerve endings not just skin available. The most length on a forarm is usually 6 and under, never above a 6. Ill have to make a video to explain.
Congratulations on your surgery! Yes you are correct, which is what I said in this video! Happy healing my friend!
There’s so little good information from folks with lived-experience about transgender bottom surgery. I’m considering it and I deeply appreciate your information
i thought you were a thigh guy. your forearm looks really good. :))
Thanks my friend. It helps having the tattoo! But, l was very blessed to have a graft that healed very well too
@@FinnTheInfinncible what did you do to aid in healing?
I totally understand how enthusiastic you are about the subject! the amazing thing is that there starts to build sensation that integrates the new part to the body. I'm very happy about it. No complications for me, everything is perfect, thanks to the surgeons. I'm glad things worked out well for you too. Size matters when you have it :)
Yes the return of sensation is incredible isnt it! It's amazing what the human body can do. Very pleased to hear you have had such a great result. Wonderful to be happy in our bodies isnt it 😊
yes, it's wonderful!
So much information here. It’s really easy to understand and you’re so open and thorough, I really appreciate you!
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What a lovely comment, thank you so much! There's loads more on my website too if you fancy a look! Finlaygames.com
This is SO well presented and sensible, Finn you really have a real gift for teaching,really well done.
What a lovely compliment. Thank you so much!
I just watched one of your other videos and OMG, I didn't know you were gay, too! I'm a transmasc gay as well and I feel like everyone I've found (though still helpful) was speaking from a straight perspective. Thank you for making this channel!
My pleasure! There are lots of us not strait trans folk around, just not many are visible about it! Thanks for your lovely comment!
WOW glad I clicked on this video ! Gave me so much information and helped me with my decision THANK YOUUUU ❤, you look great 🎉
Thank you so much for watching and for your kind words! I have some more resources ony website if it's helpful finlayjgames.com
This is just the video I needed right now. In the process of getting my referrals for phallo so trying to gather as much info as I can on what to realistically expect from it. (looking at RFF in particular) 😊
Thank you for this 💞
Very glad the video helped! Good luck with your phallo journey, early days are tough, trying to get the right info and make decisions etc, happy to help if you ever need. There are tons of lower surgery playlists of all the stages on my channel, and extra resources on my website and blog too. You can also contact me viw my website too, if i can ever help. finlaygames.com/index/
I love how informative you are with these videos
Thank you for that fab feedback! :)
this was actually really interesting, is that pervy to say?! Thanks for sharing, Finn!
Not pervy at all! I aim for these to support trans people, but also to inform people who might not understand the surgery, so I am very glad to hear that the vlog was interesting! Thanks for that kind feedback and for watching!
👏🏻👏🏻 Love this, vids such as these are so important for us cis folk to demystify our curiosity and understand the transition process to become better LGBTQ+ allies. Thank you! Xx
You literally made me feel better about getting phalloplasty thanks man ^^
That is wonderful to hear, thats my mission! I have a ton of additional resources over on my website if its helpful finlaygames.com/welcome/
You just popped up on my feed. Glad you did. Your a joy x
How lovely! Thank you! Welcome to the FinnFam! If you want more of me, I have a website too over on finlaygames.com :)
Surgery is so scary but dysphoria is such misery
I saw you in a video on Facebook. Your vibe is EVERYTHING 🙌
I'm so very PROUD of you! I love how comfortable you are in your own skin, sending hope and information to our trans community!
(I'm just a cis woman with many trans friends, giving unconditional love and support) I don't know you, but I love you 💖 Please don't stop!
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You are so lovely! I seem to have missed this comment so sorry! Bless you for being such a great ally and thanks for subscribing, welcome to the FinnFam!
Im so glad I came across your video . I have been thinking of getting phalloplasty . Before I got my top surgery I was nervous , scared and afraid I would regret it however; it was the best decision in my life. I do have more questions I would like to ask you if it’s okay .
Hi my friend, nerves are absoultely normal, we want the outcome, but not the surgery and recoveru and risks, so making these decisions is so very hard. I am happy to amswer questions. I have an option on my Ko-fi page to send me questions ,for a pay what you can afford donation basis. ko-fi.com/finlaygames/commissions
I don't know you're gonna read this or not but thank you :) I really mean it ... I got a friend that she or better to say he is going for the transgender surgery and I am really scared . each day I study more about it and I got more confused till I saw your video :))) right now I'm crying :) really thank you she is so important to me
Bless your heart! Your friend is lucky to have you! Iys a strange thing for us, that as trans folks, as much as we are nervous about surgery, it is also exciting, but for our friends and loved ones, its just surgery and so is often terrifying! Just bare in mind that this surgery is going to transform your friends life in so many amazing ways! He will be very much in need and grateful for your support afterward. I have a ton of resources on my website too if it helps! finlaygames.com
@@FinnTheInfinncible :)))))))))thank you :)💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
It's so interesting to see other transmen that aren't straight. I always knew i was a boy but I thought when i grew up I'd be straight; that it must occur at some point in your teens. I'm 25 in two weeks and the cooties have never left. I've only ever had interest on the gay side of the spectrum
There are plenty of trans people who are not straight. We are as diverse within ourselves as everyone in the world!
Welcome to the club! I'm a trans man too but I realized I was bisexual before I was trans
Soooo I am really planning on getting one myself. But I'm still in my late teens and I don't have the money and am still not out yet, but I definitely will have phalloplasty so thank you for this very informative video. You make everything understandable and fun 💓😹
Thank you for your lovely comments! Yes, take your time with it, and pop back here if you ever need any help!
I hope you came to your senses in the last 2 years and didn't butcher your own body.
@@SassoSkorzenyrecently got top surgery and it’s been the best thing ever. Stop calling gender reassignment surgery, “mutilating or butchering”, when it’s not.
I am a cis man that had ALT phalloplasty. I did get to choose my size. My surgeon said she’d have no problem with making the phallus the size I requested. No problems so now I have a very lovely size of 7" by 7". But yes, keeping the bulge in my pants less noticeable is an ongoing issue. But compared to what I had beforehand I’m willing to take the hit of my dong snaking down my pant leg. It’s been 6 months since I had the flap created and no sensation yet but I’m hoping soon it’ll begin happening.
Thanks, a lot explained here, mythos and speculation put into perspective.
Thanks for watching, very glad it helped!
It hurts to see hate comments even in such awesome videos 🥺🥺🥺
I agree, but the lovely comments far outweigh the horrid ones!
I am impressed with your perfect British accent.
Thanks! It's pretty easy to do when you live in Britain 😆
Hi, i am planning on having this surgery at some point and one of my main concerns is the scarring. I always planned to have the scars at the donor site covered with tattoos. How long do you have to wait before you can tattoo over the scarring and did you have any issues asking a tattoo artists to do this?
Hello! I can understand your concerns re scarring. You need to wait at least a couple of years until you can have a tatoo, but it all depends on how well your arm heals. Lots of tatooists wont do it, because there is no guarentee how it will turn out, but, my friend is a tatooist, and had some experience of scarring, so i was lucky he said yes and did a great job. I shall link you to a playlist about it. ruclips.net/p/PL-xdbMjLqelLBo16lh79QgEhhoVcZmUml
Hey man, thanks for explaining so well! Is it true that the initial graft size they take (for example 6 inches from the arm) will eventually shrink at least by 1 inch due to skin plasticity?
Thanks for watching and for your kind comments. The skin can settle a bit and cause some loss of length, but personally l havent experienced this, in fact l measured just before this video to see!
Great video informative and funny just the right balance of serious and comedy, thank you so much for sharing this snippet of finn ❤❤
Lovely feedback, thank you!
@@FinnTheInfinncible You're very welcome it was a valuable insight xx
I want phalloplasty in the future. My ideal length is 3 or 4 inches so I can use it but also have lower risk of complications and it’ll fit well in my pants. I want urethral lengthening and scrotoplasty too. I don’t want more than 4 inches though
Hey Finn, really appreciate and enjoy your videos! As a very skinny guy considering RFF, do you think exercising/bulking up my forearms would affect the girth at all? Or is it entirely dependent on fat content?
Hello my friend, thanks for your lovely comment! It is fat content more than anything. I was told to put on a bit of weight for mine, as my arms werent very chunky, but Im honestly not sure how much it worked! It cant hurt to try buling up your arms and seeing if you can put some weight on. Have you managed to speak to a consultant yet?
@@FinnTheInfinncible thanks for your reply! I haven’t. It’s been something I’ve been mulling over in my head - I was like you and didn’t think I needed bottom surgery for the first part of my transition. I should probably do some consultations because waitlists are so long now, but maybe that’ll work in my favor if I can put on some weight.
@@levileidy1890 good plan my friend! If I can ever help, if you want to chat things through, do come find me over at finlaygames.com
I'm definitely set on the three-four inches phallo though finding a graft will prove to be difficult as I'm relatively small.
Ah yes, then it may well be a good option for you
Ur channel is one of the best what an amazing person u are brother 👍🏼.. btw u look so huge are u 6’1 ? 😅
You are very kind! I love that you are enjoying my channel. Welcome to the FinnFam! And no, I am rather short, I'm 5 ft 4!
@@FinnTheInfinncible me too I am 5’5 😅.. I wish u could took about heigh Dysphoria brother because many I know has this issue... I usually don’t like to hear what other say on RUclips but u got an interesting way to tell 😅👍🏼
@@suliman7147 Thats a good idea I will do that, thank you for the suggestion!
Have you ever met any ex self harmers who self harmed on the left arm and were worried about how that might affect results?
Yes me! I have extensive scarring on both forearms. This has not affected my result, though underneath my penis you can see the scars that were once on my forearm, and around the glans, you can see the scars too. Sensation/results wise its not been a problem for me and I don't mind how it looks.
You can find more info here:
Finished result video: ko-fi.com/s/f854c136f2
Arm graft healing playlist: ruclips.net/p/PL-xdbMjLqelLBo16lh79QgEhhoVcZmUml
My phalloplasty Memoir and Guide: finlaygames.com/my-books/
Thanks for sharing your personal info, great job. 🏳️🌈👍 I really want to be educated in other communities. I dunno about men's anatomy on this, but at least for women if you have decent/average girth it feels pretty good, and 5 is average anyway. I never thought about it always being the same size. I thought it was at least slightly smaller and a pump was used to expand a little + be hard. I didn't know about the variety of surgeries. You all are very brave! These surgeries must be rough.
Thank you for this. Also you’re my brand of humor lol
Yay! Glad to hear that! Thanks for watching! I have more info over on my website finlaygames.com
Really informative video
I'm concerned that im too short
Not even 5 feet.. around 4 10 .. my arms are really small but even less in circumference.. really concerned
Is there any limit to how much of the circumference of the arm they can take.. I assume the graft is not taken all the way around + it also rolls inside itself so the actual girth would be like half
Thanks for your kind comments. No the graft doesnt go all the way around on mine, i have anout an inch spare on the underside of my forearm. I have friends with very small arms whos results are fine, so I wouldnt worry too much
@@FinnTheInfinncible thank you 🙏
@@adliadadliad4096 for Guys with Low Body fat percentage theres also the possibility of getting your Graft from your thigh. Maybe Look Up Papoga on yt. He Had this Procedure done and talks about ist on his channel
@@jamesthezemnian753 thanks i will check it out
@@adliadadliad4096 hope it helps
thank you for making this video, I scheduling consults soon :)
Very glad to help, thank you for your kind appreciation! I have also written a book, a detailed memoir and guide, to the decision making process, the surgery, and to navigating my changed body, sex, and sexuality. you can find out more and hear a reading over here finlaygames.com/my-books/
@@FinnTheInfinncible thanks so much!
I love what you do. You make this so much easier to understand
Thank you so much my dear friend! And, are you the same Elijah who has signed up to my Coffee Club?
Hi I found you looking up info on vaginoplasty and I am really interested in lower surgery and researching options. Right now I'd be happy just to not have a vagina. I already got rid of my uterus and ovaries.
All men need to understand that the magic is in the magician and not the wand.
I agree!
Crazy cause I’m also in that process as well.
Congratulations! I hope it's all going well! I have more resources on my website if it's helpful! Finlaygames.com
Just a question.. How long did it take to fully recover for you?
I'm a cis male and always wanted to have a 2nd one. Is that possible?
If you can afford it go for it
I’m a trans gay guy and I’ve realised there isn’t much on this kind of thing in the internet and I’m getting told that I can’t be gay I’m not gay enough and that when I start T my sexuality will change could you do a video on this kind of topic please
Translation: I'm a heterosexual girl.
Thank bro❤❤what a fantastic information 👏 👌 🙌. 🎉Thanks a lot.big brother❤
The surgeries are so expensive, like of course they are but still. I feel like I could go without top surgery but I may just have to suck it up and only get the top surgery. God I wish I was just born in the right fucking body.
I hear you my friend
Okay this might be a strange question, but I am curious if when having bottom surgery if you can have a colored tip?
A lot of people get medical tattooing for more typical colouring
2 months back abdominal phalloplasty surgery in my country but the size came out too small around 2.5 inch, I just had first step there is no implant yet.. is implant helps to increase the length? Or the tissue can grow little more naturally after few days?
Hi my friend, congrats on your surgery. In RFF phalloplasty, the implant cannot give any more length, im not sure if this is different for abdobinal. For more info on the implant, I have a blog that may be helpful? finlaygames.com/phalloplasty-final-stage-ams-implant-review/
Thank you for sharing on the info, I've been conflicted between meto and phallo (wasn't happy with the size of either) so knowing that there might be an option to have a combo is awesome. 4 inches sounds good- maybe just under to 4.5 definitely not more than that. I'm not sure if you've shared before but I'm just wondering what surgeon you went to- and your referrer.
Hallo, my dear Finn.
Your video is very interesting, informative, clear.to understand! So, even I can understand.
How hard is this process! I remember all your journey, shared in your videos.
Now you can really advice who is at the biginning.
😘
Thank you so much, that is great to hear that this was clear to understand. Im really enjoying being able to now go back and redo some of my earlier videos, to help others on the same path. Much love!
you're video is very helpful to understand more about phallos I'm a lot more confident in what I want and how it should go after this video watching your video made me fe more comfortable in my skin
Hello my friend, I am thrilled this video helpd, thank you for letting me know. I have also written a book about my phalloplasty experience, you can find details of that here : finlaygames.com/my-books/
Question: when you were a woman did you like women? Or have you always been Attracted to men?
Thank you...i want a ALT I HOPE WORKING out my legs so it wouldn't be too thick
Ah yes, thats often the issue! Good luck with it, pop me a message if I an ever help! finlaygames.com
Doesn’t matter the size you choose if you got big d energy. 😎
Also - very very helpful. the scar part scares me but yours & your tattoo look great.
Big D energy, lol! I am glad this was helpful, and thank you. With good scar care a graft can heal well! finlaygames.com/best-scar-care-products-for-surgery-recovery/
This was super informative! Thanks dude :)
Thanks for watching and for your kind appreiation!
Your very lucky that you didn't end up with any divits on yr arm. I had RFF . I'm almost two years post op and my arm looks very bad. My leg also never healed well. I was told nobody scars in the leg where they take the split thickness graft. Not true. My leg is still itchy too. My penis looks pretty good though I ended up with 5.25 in length and 4.50 in girth. I regret the graft choice . I wanted more girth. Maybe the implants might make me abit more thicker. I think Alt is the better choice. I think if size is a consern don't choose RFF. Thanks for your video.
I am really sorry to hear the result is not as you would like, I can imagine that is hard to make peace with. It is always a risk, that we might end up with more scarring than we like, or other things that dont quite match up to our expectations. Learning to manage my expectaition, has featured heavily in my journey, I too have bits I would have liked to be different, but I have used lots of acceptance work around those, and made peace and come to love what I do have. You could speak to someone about the scars, even at 2 years post op, there is a lot that can be done to help problematic scars. Good luck my friend
So what if I don’t want Urethral lengthening could I find a size around 6.5? @finn
This actually helped so much! Thank you :)
Very glad to hear that, thanks for letting me know! If you need any more reseources, please do check out my website at finlaygames.com
If I opted for phalloplasty, would I be able to choose a two inch penis? For Rfff. I know metoidioplasty can range from a few cm to a couple of inches, but if i dont get the growth outcome i wanted, phalloplasty would be my next option. And I care about size, but I don't at the same time, hence why I'm saying 2 inches, I'd be happy with 2 inches and comfortable with two inches, any bigger than 3 or any smaller than one would cause me some severe dysphoria. And I'm glad I know what I'm comfortable and not comfortable with. But I just don't know how small, is too small for phalloplasty.
Hi my friend. I completely understand because I had the exact same questions at the beginning of my journey and I talked about this in my videos and in my book. I wasn't sure I wanted full phalloplasty, but equally I felt meta might be too small for me.
I discussed this with Mr Christopher, who said that he could make me a smaller penis, taking a smaller graft. This would be the same procedure as phallo, but that I could have a smaller size. The only thing with this is that I wouldn't be able to have the erectile device as there wouldn't be the room.
It's worth discussing it with the team as it's definitely an option.
In the end after weighing things up I did decide to go full phalloplasty
I think this is the video I discuss this in. I hope it helps
ruclips.net/video/H2awnT4FCYE/видео.html
I also have one more question. If I were to opt for phalloplasty, can I still have scrotoplasty and keep my... woman hole. Or would closure of that hole be required in order to have it done. Personally, I'd feel comfortable with or without balls and to keep that hole there at the same time. And if they can keep the hole there while achieving scrotoplasty, would the balls separate in order to access that hole, or would they be placed higher up so penetrative sex is still possible..
Im new on this journey but i heard the maximum cap was 7in because of blood flow and complications it has to cap off at 7in maximum!
I have a question. I am quite skinny and my forearms are very skinny. I am 18 years old and have not started T yet. Do you think I can still get the graft from my thighs and that it would work and still be an average size? I really don't think there's any way I could use my forearms...
Hello my friend, yes, using the thigh works very well for folks who are skinny. You still end up with similar results, Each method of grafting and creating a oenis just has different pros and cons, it is all about working out what is right for us
@@FinnTheInfinncible how much does it costs tho ? im going to set up a target
@@doughyolk cost depends on where you live, who you choose as your surgeon , and whether you are covered my health insurance . Where are you based?
@@FinnTheInfinncible welp , im a malaysian & it's nearly impossible to even come out as trans here - im sure that there's no surgeons nor health insurance companies available , regarding that malaysia doesn't support LGBTQ+ :(
@@doughyolk I'm so sorry to hear that. Do you have a local LGBT group you can contact? Or connect with some trans folks from your area online to get some info?
Is there a way to have the surgery without hooking up the urethra? I don't care about standing to pee
Yes indeed! The urethral hook up is optional and a lot of folks choose not to have it
I get a lot of comments and l do my best to answer as many as l can!
with what they replaced the skin of your arm ?
Can you explain about the sense of the penis? Heat, touch and sexual sensation. I'm really worried that the sexual sensation goes away or decrases because I did not choose a good doctor
I too wannaa know...about the sensation..
Thanks Finn!!! Awesome vid.
Thanks for watching!
Is phalloplasty and enlargement the same thing? Because I’m considering an enlargement to boost my confidence, but I’m not sure if I need phalloplasty. I’m really confused
Hi my friend! Phalloplasty usually means full construction of a penis. Here is their website, perhaps you can give them a call? www.andrology.co.uk/phalloplasty
Hi, Finn! Can you answer, please, the length of penis depends on the length of forearm's flap? In other words, if I have naturally thin forearms (but long enough), I would rather to look to a different kind of phalloplasty (alt)? Sorry, if it's a dumb question. I will rewatch the video again.
You explain so well 💙
Thank you for watching and for that lovely feedback!
New drinking game take a shot every time you hear “penis”
You'll be pissed as a fart 2 mins in!
Great Info!!! Thank You Brother!!! 🤔👊👍😎💯
Thank you my friend!
....it depends on how much fat you have on your forearm...
me *looking donw at my stickfigure-like forearm*: soooo....none ;'D
Ah yes! Well dont rule it out! I have a friend who has quite skinny arms and he still has a great result
@@FinnTheInfinncible thanks for the reassurance... 'Thankfully' that's all still in the future since I'm not on hormones (yet, March next year is the first appointment 🥳) so I still would've time to gain some weight. But it's good to hear nonetheless that even if you're skinnier you can still get good results :)
@@frederickfrankenstein yes indeed! Glad your appointment is getting nearer!
So if getting 6 inches, will anything bad occur during surgery and after surgery when it heals and during healing? I'm sorry if that didn't make sense or anything 😅
It might not cause any issues at all. Just the reasoning behind not creating a particually long penis is mostly because of re routing the urethra pipe.
Is it true you can have someone donate a skin graft so u dont have 2 use ur own arm or leg?
I have never heard of that being done!
Hi Finn if I have a 6inch phalloplasty do you lose an inch after surgery or will it stay at 6inches cheers
So informative thank you!🏳️⚧️
Unrelated- but ugh why are men so attractive and beautiful 😭 You're really really handsome.. 😳🙈
- local flustered pan girl
I want 4 inches at most
So do they put a donor graft on your arm? If so where are they getting the grafts from? Reason is it seems like in the past ive heard there are often shortages (for burn injuries, etc.)
Do they have you wait for times of surplus? (since I imagine there is a shelf life, which creates a 'use it or lose it' situation with the graft material), or are there synthetically grown grafts that you pay to have grown?
I have no idea how any of this is done, but I guess my concern is that i wonder if anyone else really asks, becauss while I can imagine several ways it could be done properly, i could also definitely imagine some politicians desparate to pander for votes making rules that cause some graft material to be diverted from places that could cause major backlash that could seriously harm your community. Particularly if you are in a nation with socialized medicine that also bans cash procedures, forcing all graft material to come from possibly one supply. Idk does this make sense?
I'm not trying to criticize, but rather im thinking out loud that if I were in ypur shoes i would be interested in making sure the politicians and medical community was regulating this in such a way that wouldnt cause a backlash later on...mainly as living in the USA with the DNC considering stepping away from LGBTQ rights (basically forsaking
LGBTQ to pander to the growing Catholic Latino vote instead), this kind of stuff has been on my mind alot.
Thank you for your concern! The graft is taken from our own bodies. Here in the UK, they take a graft from under each bum cheek to replace on the arm. More info here ruclips.net/p/PL-xdbMjLqelLBo16lh79QgEhhoVcZmUml
How is running and all other sports with 5 inch size? I do trailruning and triathlon and am kinda worried that the package is going to be a problem ha ha
I can understand but there is nothing to fear! Because our penis are soft,they can be bent and compacted so running and exercise is fine. I do find though, that l need tighter underwear. I cant wearbthe boxer style with the loose legs as my penis comes out the bottom! So, l wear boxer trunks, the ones with snug legs
@@FinnTheInfinncible Thank you!
I’m not post-op but I do pack. I run and cycle myself and like Finn says, tighter underwear definitely helps keep everything together. As for being post-op, I think it will be the same as any cis-man. GCN (if you don’t watch them already, I’d really recommend you do!) have done videos about this and give some tips on how to manage with a package ;)
What would happen to trans men if they stopped taking hormones?
Some of the masculising features would reverse, fat would redistribute to a more female pattern, hair growth would slow. How much would depend on whether the person had a hystorectomy or not.
This is interesting! 🤯🤯
Thanks for watching!
Odd question: What did they use for a cartilage substitute?
They dont, there is no cartilage in a penis. cis or trans. To get erect, rather than erectile tissue, the surgeros use an erectile device. I have a whole playlist explining that surgery and how it works ruclips.net/p/PL-xdbMjLqelLGAQbUso3HTU_ode4a2zCl
@@FinnTheInfinncible Thanks for the info, got a step sibling who's trans and I'm trying to learn as much as I can so as not to make them feel isolated.
That's wonderful, they are very lucky to have your support! I wonder if this video might be helpful for you then ruclips.net/video/fKAfJnrh-Rw/видео.html
Thank you for this video I’m still barely figuring out what type of surgery I want and haven’t even started t yet cause I’m broke so I’m trying and really want to transition but this helped a lot I’m are u able to take the skin for your penis from your ass cause mines big so 💀😭
Hello bro phaloplasty r u successful done but somebody tell me few years later its difficult to body bro true or wrong please tell me bro
Im not entirely sure what you are asking, but here is a video where I talk about phalloplasty outcome ruclips.net/video/0ByUTqIDowg/видео.html
Great video!
Thank you!
They can go bigger and it can be done
Anything can be done really, but with anything, the risks and complications must be weighed up.
Hi I'm just curious can transmen produce sperm I'm sorry about the stupid question I'm not educated with this sort of stuff.
Thats ok, you only know if you know! I dont mind being asked anything when it is asked with consideration. And no, we cannot produce sperm. Surgery can recreate a penis but not the testes etc
@@FinnTheInfinncible thank you I enjoy your videos and how informative it is.
@@lyleeggmolesse5330 that's so.kind, thank you!
@@FinnTheInfinncible I have another question does a ftm penis get hard or an erection when they're in the mood or turned on by someone like a cis man?
For metodioplasty, yes. For phalloplasty, which is what Finn got, no. However there are currently two options for devices you can have added to the penis to serve this function. They are called "semi-rigid rod" and "inflatable" penile implants.
I'm curious, can straight men opt for phalloplasty or nah? Thanks SML!
Well phalloplasty creates a penis for men who dont have one, so yes, if a straight man doesnt have a penis and wants one then yes he can have phalloplasty
Thanks!!! Much appreciated 🙏😘🥰