My husband was afraid I would be angry, he didn't tell me he had lent money to his friend

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  • Опубликовано: 19 мар 2023
  • Hey everyone, it's Rose! I'll be sharing tasty food and rural Chinese life on this channel.
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  • @kidchocolate9253
    @kidchocolate9253 Год назад +579

    Total transparency in this relationship. She has access to his phone and he didn't mind her answering it. Love this couple's relationship.

    • @julitetitus5121
      @julitetitus5121 Год назад +67

      So organic, no makeup or wig to impress the subscribers, just natural

    • @fatou1975
      @fatou1975 Год назад +29

      This is how a relationship should be. My husband and I we answer each other phone’s when the other one is busy. No headaches and I can not imagine it any other way. We are two mature adults who understand 100% what it takes to keep a relationship.

    • @yuenshee4997
      @yuenshee4997 Год назад

      Such relationship one could only guess, rarely happens in the White society particularly those whites supporting human rights and slightly distorted democracy.

    • @nakasumbashabiirah742
      @nakasumbashabiirah742 Год назад +5

      I don't trust social media relationships ever since Laura and stephan divorced

    • @highlyfavored2434
      @highlyfavored2434 Год назад +9

      ​@@fatou1975 yes girl let us thank God for that gift, trust and mutual respect and love is a wonderful thing for a relationship

  • @patriciahamilton111
    @patriciahamilton111 Год назад +397

    Rose you're the best, like the way you handled that phone call and not penalize your husband for loaning his friend money, you're a good person.

    • @mavelinebeckford593
      @mavelinebeckford593 Год назад +17

      Very reasonable n considerate,.. May the Almighty guide n protect you always...Women like you're rare.

  • @ChocolateBarbie8704
    @ChocolateBarbie8704 Год назад +216

    I love how you played it off on the phone, with his friend like yeah, I know he told me. yes, Mama, don't give anyone outside of your home an inkling that you are unaware of anything. 💐

    • @viviankareth
      @viviankareth Год назад +19

      💯

    • @isabellaobonyo2890
      @isabellaobonyo2890 Год назад +11

      Very true

    • @kirsten6459
      @kirsten6459 Год назад +26

      Yes. She handled that perfectly. Friend thought she knew too so she just played right along and won’t make her husband look bad. Great job Rose; I pray your relationship continues to thrive ❤

    • @TheJoyofCooking24
      @TheJoyofCooking24 Год назад +2

      African women don't joke when it comes to their relationship.

  • @km_6181
    @km_6181 Год назад +218

    I’m learning so much about marriage on a cooking channel ❤️🔥😍

    • @maggiedtp5524
      @maggiedtp5524 Год назад +9

      Surely, I used to spend 2 yo 2 1/2 hrs in the kitchen, but now I spend 45 to 1 hr, Ì istir fry veges quicky tastey, meat and have a lot of visitors they come for lunch. They are asking me where did I go for catering. Imagine they dont even know what is soy sauce and oyster sauce. I am think I should open a small restaurant for breakfast and lunch only per order at home. Lol!

    • @zuzilezungu5899
      @zuzilezungu5899 Год назад +5

      Mzansi for sure🇿🇦

    • @NeoMokgabo21
      @NeoMokgabo21 Год назад +1

      Ne!😂❤

    • @glodot1
      @glodot1 Год назад

      You need to get out more often

  • @1browngirl29
    @1browngirl29 Год назад +183

    I love the communication skills between these two
    And even though Wu didn’t tell Rose before, he made promise not to do it again. That’s respect, growth, and good communication we can all use

  • @ch.ii.s
    @ch.ii.s Год назад +269

    I love how gentle you two are with each other, even when it comes to things that could be a problem (lending money without asking the other). It makes me happy seeing you two discuss things in a warm and patient manner ❤

  • @roseinchina1
    @roseinchina1  Год назад +26

    This video was shot in January, it's not as cold now

  • @EB2therescue
    @EB2therescue Год назад +189

    Marriage and relationship lessons as well as cooking lessons, Rose and Wu you do it all!

  • @queenfify-em6wp
    @queenfify-em6wp Год назад +59

    I love the way the husband apologized and she didn't ask by nagging at him. The transparency of her answering the husband's calls is just all what makes me enjoy this couple.

  • @eeefie489
    @eeefie489 Год назад +8

    No negativity intended, but I hope Rose and her family are well paid cause their videos have good viewership and should bring in enough money for them.

  • @rubysailor9186
    @rubysailor9186 Год назад +17

    This couple is so authentic,pure, perfect example of how marriage should be. They will live long,no stress,just two very best friends. Rose is a gem.

  • @Julie-wb7od
    @Julie-wb7od Год назад +29

    Wow! Rose is an understanding wife. Some wives will scream crazy scolding their husbands lending money secretly to friends. Both of them have beautiful hearts.

  • @caseyj779
    @caseyj779 Год назад +4

    I like that she did not let the person on the phone know she didn't know about the loan. She just acted like she knew and stood behind her husband and then had a conversation with him in private.

  • @novletmills9244
    @novletmills9244 Год назад +102

    Unity is strength. We should be overall honest with our partners. It saves embarrassment. Rose’s husband didn’t tell her about the loan but she eventually found out. Nonetheless, their opened discussion tell that things could be dealt with peacefully,

  • @sosoosheye6242
    @sosoosheye6242 Год назад +23

    This is communication not screaming and accountability. Communication with respect ❤❤❤

  • @mirembesarah9840
    @mirembesarah9840 Год назад +47

    I love this couple. So simple. Makes me admire their marriage.

  • @medusagorgon8432
    @medusagorgon8432 Год назад +32

    This is how it should be. Respect, Trust, Loyalty, Kindness and Love!💚🥰

  • @angelaheras5466
    @angelaheras5466 Год назад +7

    You and your husband have a beautiful and clear relationship. By the way, those bones look delicious!!!❤❤❤

  • @patrizia5725
    @patrizia5725 Год назад +19

    J'aime beaucoup Rose,sa façon de gérer la situation avec simplicité et compréhension envers son mari,et son ami.J'adore qu'ils aident la communauté avec confiance et bienveillance. Bravo à vous deux ,vous êtes merveilleux 🥰😘👍

  • @arethabailey2
    @arethabailey2 Год назад +34

    Weldone Rose for understanding. Communication is a big key in every marriage.

  • @diahsetianingsih9383
    @diahsetianingsih9383 Год назад +10

    Komunikasi yg paling penting dalam sebuah keluarga ,dan kejujuran ,semoga keluarga Kalian selalu rukun dan diberkahi selalu rose dan keluarga kecil nya

  • @randallm8818
    @randallm8818 Год назад +8

    I would love to live in this village, preferably near Rose, I could try new food. And plant veggies, ride a scooter. I might even try saute chicken feet😊 but this is simplicity at best. That's why she's so happy and full of energy all the time. SIMPLICITY!

  • @TRUTHx247
    @TRUTHx247 Год назад +13

    I am not a people’s person but Rose and her husband have inspired me so much. I love this couple. They are a treasure.

  • @juddiewandera
    @juddiewandera Год назад +10

    I am a Kenyan and ever since I came across this channel, I enjoy watching your video every time you upload a new video. Lovely couple indeed

  • @julieruddock4386
    @julieruddock4386 Год назад +20

    Ah Rose is so understanding. This video shows you don't have to be old to be wise. Although Rose received news from a phone conversation she shows how willing she is to support not just her husband but his friend who is in financial need. How nice to see their handsome son in this video too and the love between them is a joy to see.

  • @DeyseSousaC
    @DeyseSousaC Год назад +43

    To watch videos like these warms my heart ❤️

  • @zusibone
    @zusibone Год назад +6

    With such amazing temperament Roase held the husband accountable for his actions. She confronted him and he responded with remorse and apologized. No ego but love and respect. This is beautiful. Imagine if you let small things bother your marriage. It's hell.

  • @muffintopz4692
    @muffintopz4692 Год назад +18

    What a cute little boy!
    I liked how Rose was tactful yet not harsh and communicated her point well, even with a smile. ❤ Apparently a great cook too.

  • @lnwri8508
    @lnwri8508 Год назад +12

    Rose, I love how you handled this situation with your husband. I am very impressed and applaud you for your maturity and wisdom. You maintained respect for your husband, strengthened honesty in your marriage, and represent unity as a couple. Please continue to share your knowledge. 🌹🌹👍🏽❤️😊

  • @user-yx1jc1iy1v
    @user-yx1jc1iy1v Год назад +7

    Недавно попала на твой канал, Роза! Ты замечательная, мать, жена, друг! Смотрю с интересом твои видео.

  • @gracekikon241
    @gracekikon241 Год назад +20

    Help others but consult each other.....Rose, you are a wise woman and your husband too is very kind hearted. Much love from Nagaland. ❤

    • @viviankareth
      @viviankareth Год назад +2

      Love that!!! "Help others but consult each other." ❤💯

  • @aleaiacetaest9132
    @aleaiacetaest9132 Год назад +12

    … and they lived happily ever after ❤️

  • @TheFriend2u
    @TheFriend2u Год назад +8

    Their unpretentious interactions over a family issue, arises from their mutual protective instinct, love & understanding for each other. Love their way of dialogue. Thank you Rose & hubby for the warmth & pleasure of your sharing.❤

  • @carolpenn8455
    @carolpenn8455 Год назад +18

    You 2 are just the best !!!
    A role model for every couple to look up to. No matter what you are always so kind and understanding of each other. I love you both !❤

  • @jaifyre702
    @jaifyre702 Год назад +8

    Rose I learn from you at times. My feelings would be hurt if my husband hides things like that from me. You and your hubby have valuable lessons to be learned by both men and woman alike.

  • @shingiraimasvaure5201
    @shingiraimasvaure5201 Год назад +38

    Also the video production style is great. The switching from the money issue, and then over to cooking. Rose has an endless number of recipes.

    • @ebrown7338
      @ebrown7338 Год назад +1

      THIS! Ohmygosh! The videographer needs to get awards as they embody so much in 3-12 minutes! Each video is amazing, in large part to their skills!

  • @dignagranja4660
    @dignagranja4660 Год назад +6

    Los amo. Que hermoso un matrimonio así. Una familia así. Una esposa y un esposo así. Bendiciones. Y waooooooooo, rica comida.

  • @enolelasoitameno4094
    @enolelasoitameno4094 Год назад +18

    Love you family. Ever since I started watching this channel my cooking has improved. Thank you Rose 😂

  • @panamasrose
    @panamasrose Год назад +18

    Your food always looks so good!

  • @funsizechao2895
    @funsizechao2895 Год назад +18

    Awww rose! I love the relationship you and your husband have. What a genuine couple. I love it!

  • @amyvassel4879
    @amyvassel4879 Год назад +3

    They’re my favorite… I love love love them. If you want to be in a “relationship goal” this is it. Pure & honest. God, please continue to bless them…may their table remain full. Amen 🙏🏾

  • @jplin888
    @jplin888 Год назад +9

    Rose you are such an amazing daughter, mother and wife. Yes communication/ understanding each other are very important between both parties for an everlasting relationship. Anyway your food are always delicious. Can you try and cook some Ugandan food sometimes later? TQ and take care.

  • @brenda1005
    @brenda1005 Год назад +4

    I absolutely love this couple ❤️ they talk to each other not at each other. There is nothing worth either of them losing their cool.. great chemistry ❤️ they're just a beautiful family.

  • @Flower-ck2bs
    @Flower-ck2bs Год назад +5

    I love this couple. They are so sweet to each other and in such a beautiful harmony and Anzai is so handsome and he has the best qualities from his parents.The background music respresent them perfectly.❤️🥰🍀🤗🌹

  • @user-pe6bx4er2y
    @user-pe6bx4er2y Год назад +5

    Роза какие вы прекрасные люди береги свою семью счастья желаю вам🎉❤

  • @smorris2353
    @smorris2353 Год назад +7

    Food looks delicious. Great communication between marriage partners.

  • @pennyh3101
    @pennyh3101 Год назад +12

    always to be truthful and honest with each other... such a great relationship for Rose and Hubby... so trusting of each other as well to handle this situation, could have been full of anger, etc. but love and understanding handled well. Great example and also, loyal to each other. God bless your family!!!!

  • @bettymukolwe6600
    @bettymukolwe6600 Год назад +2

    Rose, I learn a lot from you, your home is blessed.

  • @alicepinheiro3158
    @alicepinheiro3158 Год назад +26

    Aprendendo sobre compreensão e companheirismo.
    Rose você e seu marido são pessoas incríveis.

  • @crispinsalandy9759
    @crispinsalandy9759 Год назад +3

    Total trust and understanding you that's the way it should be for husband and wife ❤❤❤❤❤love from Trinidad and Tobago😇😇😇😇

  • @SweeTeaNLemon
    @SweeTeaNLemon Год назад +10

    💚Good to always be open with wife or husband; love, trust and communication big in every relationship✌🏼.
    Hello lovely family. Still using left over green hearts from St.Patricks day ☘. It's difficult when married to make sole decisions on when to lend money. Maybe husband feels he will help longtime friend without telling wife for fear she might say no.
    However, learned that "all comes to light". Poor husband killing himself trying to make money because of the loan. He should've just told wife I'm loaning friend money and these are the terms. [Now if the family was struggling financially of course you can't loan money, but.... be careful in times of good wealth many family and friends like to say they are borrowing but never repay.]

  • @whyallthese6805
    @whyallthese6805 Год назад +1

    Wow 😮 I'm amazed at how fluent she speaks her husband's language. Makes me wonder about the background story of their ❤relationship, and more so her background. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @momshielornz3098
    @momshielornz3098 Год назад +9

    The couple has leveled-up transparency... it is nice to note that they can discuss things smoothly. Their family bond is so great. Anzai is blessed to have parents like Rose and Wu...Beautiful family!

  • @t.lucalake8963
    @t.lucalake8963 Год назад +3

    What a GREAT couple. It's very clear that they not only love each other, but also respect each other.

  • @maryshawn905
    @maryshawn905 Год назад +4

    😊keep being honest and loving towards one another.

  • @hellennjeri2431
    @hellennjeri2431 Год назад +14

    Rose she's such a sweetheart 😘😘

  • @elainepinnock2933
    @elainepinnock2933 Год назад +1

    Look how quick they slove a problem without no issues I love them

  • @pauladonaldson1559
    @pauladonaldson1559 Год назад +6

    Love this family❤🙏

  • @lourdesestevam73
    @lourdesestevam73 Год назад +6

    Seu filho é lindo Rose muito parecido com o pai

  • @dorrettelliott1843
    @dorrettelliott1843 Год назад +4

    Rose you are so understanding. Yes we have to help others sometimes and that could mean with money.

  • @AngryOvaries
    @AngryOvaries Год назад +22

    Absolutely love this family ❤️ Wholesome to watch and enjoy seeing how each interacts with the other. Always seeking things to do for one another is absolutely beautiful. I also like how Rose doesn't feel the need to keep her child in videos all the time and just keeps it to once in awhile unlike many other RUclipsrs. Also, when will you be releasing a cookbook because I'm tired of drooling all over your cooking every time and want to make some now 😂🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @daolieu4261
    @daolieu4261 Год назад +3

    Love you guys. Reasonable and compassionate couple. Would love to be your friend!

  • @aparecidaneves9988
    @aparecidaneves9988 Год назад +20

    Rose Nunca esconde nada do esposo! Acho vcs tão companheiros

  • @donnacharles3521
    @donnacharles3521 Год назад +3

    Rose you are the best. I love the way how considerate you are and didn’t put LaoEr and Wu Jianyun in a tight spot.❤❤❤❤😊😊😊

  • @bethwood765
    @bethwood765 Год назад +12

    Thank you for sharing your family, friends, and your recipes! Watching you all makes my heart smile. 😊

  • @al6476
    @al6476 Год назад +5

    Какие добрые, душевные, чистые комментарии! ❤

  • @khorl.m.6992
    @khorl.m.6992 Год назад +2

    Rose is blessed with a trusted and understanding good chinese husband. Happy to see you both loving and kind, am watching from Malaysia

  • @margretnduta4862
    @margretnduta4862 Год назад +7

    Love u Rose from 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @annamuganda
    @annamuganda Год назад +5

    Rose you're very sweet and understanding

  • @mindysmom6132
    @mindysmom6132 Год назад +4

    Beautiful love, understanding, and trust in this family. Key ingredients for a successful and happy marriage.
    Rose, you sound like you might be a bit under the weather. Prayers going up for you.

  • @chrislong5355
    @chrislong5355 Год назад

    Rose性格開朗活潑可愛真誠懂事熱情聰明,優點太多了。

  • @nickeysunshine830
    @nickeysunshine830 Год назад +6

    Rose your heart is beautiful have a bless day

  • @Charlotte66666
    @Charlotte66666 Год назад +8

    Such a wonderful family ❤

  • @triepope6429
    @triepope6429 Год назад +3

    I love watching your vedio !!! Such a beautiful family and your Son is so handsome and smart too ❤❤❤

  • @xuanihmels7170
    @xuanihmels7170 6 месяцев назад

    Tôi là người Việt Nam, tôi rất ngưỡng mộ vợ chồng bạn, vợ chồng bạn thật là hạnh phúc, bạn lại nấu ăn rất ngon, và có người con rất rễ thương và ngoan nữa, khi tôi buồn tôi lại mở video của hai bạn lên xem, thì tôi cảm thấy hết buồn, vì hai bạn có rất nhiều cảm hứng cho người xem, tôi thực sự rất mến các bạn, chúc gia đình bạn có thật nhiều sức khỏe, và có nhiều video hay và bổ ích cho người xem như tôi, mỗi lần xem video của bạn tôi cũng cảm thấy căng thẳng bớt đi rất nhiều ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @celiaallen6798
    @celiaallen6798 Год назад +1

    Your son is so handsome.God bless your family.Food looks really tasty.

  • @RolyPoly008
    @RolyPoly008 Год назад +27

    Rose, I love the community that you and your family have built in rural China. Would you be able to share Jollof with them one day?

    • @maggiedtp5524
      @maggiedtp5524 Год назад +2

      Hahahaha! For sure I am just seeing Jollof food in youtube I can tell that its most delicious food. In my country we cook differently its called pilau (pilaf). Both are oily so I do t think Wu and his people will like it but Roae can try.

    • @eunicekesa4426
      @eunicekesa4426 Год назад +1

      Rose is from uganda so she may not know the recipe 😊

  • @kehindeadelana7445
    @kehindeadelana7445 Год назад +2

    This is how marriage supposed to be ❤.

  • @viviankareth
    @viviankareth Год назад +8

    Hello Rose have a great day everyday!❤🌹🙏

  • @nancyhuffman5802
    @nancyhuffman5802 Год назад +3

    My mouth always waters when you cook!

  • @chloemarangos3622
    @chloemarangos3622 9 дней назад

    Rose was so sweet to the man instantly making him feel at ease ❤ That food 🤗

  • @scorpiob9593
    @scorpiob9593 Год назад +22

    Seems that while Rose speaks Chinese well she does not read it. Wonder if it is Mandarin or a dialect.
    They seem so happy and her cooking always looks delicious and is always attractively presented.

    • @helloitsayaa
      @helloitsayaa Год назад +13

      she speaks mandarin. her husband speaks in dialect to his family sometimes though. and she has said before she doesn’t read but she’s learning along with their son!

    • @maggiedtp5524
      @maggiedtp5524 Год назад +3

      Its normal to know how to speak a language, but cant read bse everyone in that village speaks mandarin. Inorder to hrlp Anzai with his homework she needs to know how to read.

  • @user-hk3wp1ky4d
    @user-hk3wp1ky4d Год назад +1

    Rose is a pretty reasonable person. We like you.

  • @maribrunson4464
    @maribrunson4464 Год назад +1

    I truly enjoy watching this couple work together as one. Rose, if possible, would you consider telling us about the spices and herbs that are used when preparing meals. I'm not a good cook; however, I genuinely enjoy watching your family prepare meals.

  • @trason9272
    @trason9272 Год назад +1

    Bạn có một người chồng rất yêu thương bạn. Chúc gia đình bạn luôn thành công hạnh phúc

  • @CarlaThomas37
    @CarlaThomas37 Год назад +3

    Now thats what u call a good marriage.

  • @Rosinha1943
    @Rosinha1943 Год назад +4

    Olha só, eu descobri o canal da Rose, faz pouco tempo. Assisto bastante, apesar de nem sempre, deixar comentários. Vou dizer uma coisa. Rose e seu esposo, dão show. Eles nos ensinam, quais os ingredientes, são necessários, para se manter uma união saudável e, harmônica. Carinho, amor, respeito, educação, companheirismo, cuidado um com o outro e, etc. Nota-se, que com essas virtudes, eles construíram esse lindo relacionamento. Casal nota 1000, da China. Em uma próxima vida, espero merecer, ter um relacionamento assim...Parabéns.👏👏 Bênçãos para vocês🙌🙌🌹💞🖥🇧🇷🇧🇷.20/03/23.🎉

  • @Shitsngigz
    @Shitsngigz Год назад +1

    Love love love this wholesome couple ❤️ ❤️

  • @aquarian1314
    @aquarian1314 Год назад +2

    Awesome family Rose. Your son is well mannered. Appreciative. As usual your food looks delicious. ♥️

  • @SarahKingkitchen
    @SarahKingkitchen Год назад +1

    Rose, you are very wise. You handled the situation very well. The food looks delicious

  • @Itisanewday
    @Itisanewday Год назад +8

    Your food looks yummy Rose.

  • @tatertott2390
    @tatertott2390 Год назад

    Awe! I didnt know you had a son!!! Hes very handsome!!!! He will grow up big and strong with a wonderful mother cooking such yummy food !!$

  • @raymonddavies6094
    @raymonddavies6094 Год назад +1

    Amazing content from Rose and husband.

  • @musiclover6842
    @musiclover6842 Год назад +2

    So cute I love the moments when the whole family eats together they are so funny and of course Anzai too

  • @sue9372
    @sue9372 Год назад

    Rose ..you are a perfect wife, mother and truly a good human being..by observing your ability to see eye to eye with your equally loving and understanding husband..you have spread your love for everyone far and near....❤❤
    I love these rib bones you have just cooked..its so delicious, just with hot rice during this cold season. I would love to try this out and enjoy with my family n friends..also introducing your channel to my friends too👍
    God Bless Rose and her family members n friends.. be happy always..❤️❤️🙏🙏

  • @annmariepardo6989
    @annmariepardo6989 Год назад

    Rosa is always cooking, she seems like a good cook, they all enjoying her food

  • @shakirayounge7287
    @shakirayounge7287 Год назад +2

    I hope your taking care of your mom. I can’t wait to see that visit

  • @akwaabab8504
    @akwaabab8504 Год назад +1

    what a beautiful family.

  • @carolinephorosi2345
    @carolinephorosi2345 Год назад

    I see unconditional love, respect, loyalty and transparency here and I admire them

  • @NB-tv9xj
    @NB-tv9xj Год назад +1

    Hey Rose and family just discovered your channel couple weeks ago and I love it one of the best anyways keep up the amazing work much love the USA 🇺🇸