Teachers, What is the "MOST DELUSIONAL" thing you've Seen a Parent do? - Reddit Podcast
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My sons got autism we realized it before any teachers were involved it took two years for the state to get him tested after he started school and the school finally realized there was something different about him we don’t all deny it some of us understand it and try our best to help our child through life btw the reason it took two years is there was only one counseling office that could dignose him small town 😂 anyway wasn’t trying to sound like I was complaining just letting you know we ain’t all like that
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@@larissa-je8dcI’ll second this and would 3rd - 50th this if I could. 😊
Parents of autistic children are more often than not speaking/acting on behalf of what they know to be in the best interest of their child.
They know when they’re child comes home and doesn’t “act strong” anymore because there’s no classmates, no teachers, no possibility of getting in trouble/losing snack time or recess, so they can cry if it hurt to go potty or lie in the dark for an hour unable to eat or do homework and now hating themselves with a migraine/to regulate because they were overwhelmed/underwhelmed by being made to play with so many kids/couldn’t finish the book they were reading at lunch, all because a Special Ed teacher said they did X just fine at school.
A couple (or more) of these Special Ed stories not only beg the question, but scream them.
Yaranaika 😮
I still remember the first time I ever did my homework. After my mum got custody of me, and I began to have a normal/stable home life, I settled in through the end of year 3, and in year 4, the magical moment happened. I was left alone in my quiet bedroom, for once not being overstimulated with my Autism, and just... Sat down at my desk, looked it over, started doing it, and *liked it*. Being able to sit alone, no distractions, nobody trying to talk to me and confusing my fragile brain. That's all it took. Just being left alone and in a calm, protective environment.
That's so enlightening, as most of us who aren't "on the spectrum" were so lacking in self discipline and got so bored at homework time that we had to fight the impulse to pick up a comic book or something (now it would be the cell phone, of course). And that's where you thrived!
That says a lot about you that you wee willing to try even after bad experiences!
Why do people put *these* on some words and phrases?
The thing that sucks is that the "blame the teacher" thing is genuine sometimes. I once had a teacher who was super incompetent at her job, SHE would lose papers and mark them as missing, and then never tell us. She was quickly let go
Same happened to me in 7ty grade math, only my teacher found them eventually and ptofusely apologized (profusely because it was too late to add them to my official grades).
In Asian households the teachers are perfect and it’s the child that needs to step up. It teaches the children to be more independent but it does mean bad teachers get away with poor teaching. So it has its ups and downs
This applies to African households too.
Yup, my academic advisor in my college major of the Japanese Language. Her name: Makiko Asano. University: San Francisco State University. Because I have no loyalty to that woman after her efforts of venomously verbally and emotional devaluing me in front of the entire class in her effort to compel me to change majors out of sheer humiliation. She was pissed as hell when I handed my application for graduation and she realized I had met all the requirements for my Bachelors Degree in her native language. 😈
You're obviously not from Japan then
It seems that both extremes of the scale have issues. The trick is balance I guess. That goes for a lot of things, come to think of it.
I know this personally. Even when the teachers are OBJECTIVELY INCOMPETENT. It isn’t a good thing at all. To this day I haven’t forgiven that 3rd world conservative obsolete Chinese Catholic ignorance and arrogance
Edit: clarification
The most delusional thing my folks did was move to Germany without jobs waiting for them because they think America is too liberal, let’s in too many immigrants, and gives away too much free stuff.
Bro wth us wrong with them
i think they switched around amerika and Germany in their stupidity
Sooo, they immigrated to Germany to flee immigrants? :p
Isn't Germany just as bad in that regard? I mean I'm not 100% sure about it but I watch a youtube animator who talked about how he immigrated to Germany and they had actual CLASSES to help immigrants assimilate to the culture & learn the language, which is better than the US by a long shot, so I can't imagine they're better than the US in that regard...
@@pokegirl1799 idk, I honestly don’t like Germany very much.
I know when they got there (I stayed behind) they didn’t have money for private German lessons, so they attempted to get free group lessons, paid for by the German government of course. There were only so many spots available, so they got put on a waitlist, and said waitlist gave priority to the immigrants/refugees from Africa, the Middle East, etc. They ended up back in America after four months with nothing to their names.
In other words, they hate immigrants and they hate the government giving stuff to people. So they decided to become immigrants and demand that a different government give them free stuff.
At one point before this, my father stated that the reason Germany/Europe doesn’t have black and Hispanic people living there is because those countries don’t have welfare and food stamps.
One of my English teachers made a rule of if you forget your book then you can borrow a book if he could take one of your shoes. (Which, in any other circumstance would be horrible, because not only are you forced to walk on the nasty carpet if you needed anything, but your publicly shamed.) The entire class made it a joke and everyone "forgot" their books and there were piles of shoes in the back of the class. That rule was shortly removed.
My AIG teacher would have us take off one shoe and put it infront of the class, if we borrow a penicl. Everyone loved this rule,
Had a student who had not come to school in 3 months. Mom shows up to Parent-Teacher Interviews. I ask her why she's there. She says "He lives in his own apartment and I give him $1000 CDN per week in spending money and I'm afraid he's wasting it." "Welp, he hasn't been here all semester but a lot of the students in our school party with him so I'd say probably" "I don't know how to get him to come to school. What can I do to help him?" "My first step would be that he doesn't get any money unless he shows up to school" "Oh no, I can't do that". "Well then I don't know how to help you and we're wasting our time here"
Pretty rude of you
Lol I hate that type of meeting.
Parent: I WANT SOLUTION
Me: *gives solution*
Parent: NO
@@gmmartines7331lol. How?
@@gmmartines7331 Yeah but true so
Dudes allowance is more than what a lot of people make working an honest 9-5. Damn
My mom called my science teacher in a huff and found out I was just being lazy and not doing the work, my mother, who was never even rude to begin with, profusely apologized and proceeded to team up with said science teacher to make sure that was no longer an option. 6 years later and I’ll still tell you, Mrs.T is the greatest teacher I ever had.
#10 the part about denial is true. My parents were told once that I won't struggle with my adhd because I'm highly intelligent, so every time I struggled, got stuck of failed, it was blamed on me being lazy. And I got in trouble for seeking help, because they knew that I don't need help.
@8:13 while in elementary school, there was a mother who would bring McDonalds happy meals 2-3 times a week. Her daughter was obese. As a child, we thought she was lucky. As a fairly fit adult, I am so happy that my parents taught me the importance of eating healthy meals.
Story #10 is the opposite here. My grandchild has a disability. She 6 years old. She fun and smart and super strong, but is mostly non-verbal. She understands what is being said, but only speaks about 5 words which are hard to understand. She can’t count past five. She only knows a few letters. The school district does not want her to repeat kindergarten and is insisting she go to main stream 1st grade class. I really believe she could learn reading and math if she were in a special Ed class, but nope she has to be main stream.
I hope everything went well
@@flamefangstar we have her in a private school - in kindergarten again 😊
i'm glad!!@@tammystreasures8766
Move schools immediately
Story #14: they definitely should’ve pressed charges on that kid, depending on how far the girl’s pants were down he could’ve been distributing CP. suspension is far too light of a punishment, and he’s probably going to do something similar in the future
Depends on the cop, cause a nude picture isnt always porn.
Ah, how sweet of the father from story 1 to expect the daycare to magically deliver him a potty trained child at some point! I'm not saying I wouldn't pay 4X the 500 euros monthly fee I already pay to skip that hell, but in real life potty training is definitely a parent's job.
That kid who had to go to the restroom every period to touch himself had a serious problem. I've got nothing against touching yourself but there is a line where its just too much.
At that point, the kid needs to get a professional to help control his urges...
@@snackmachines8045 Yeah. Clear and obvious masturbation addiction. Which is a thing.
I'm honestly shocked he hasn't managed to beat it off his body not sure that's possible but as a former chronic masturbator Maybe
I'm shocked they wouldn't have them unlike the pedo impotence pills
There are actually medications that can cause this, rather in the bathroom than in the classroom, not saying that's what was happening here though
As an autstic person, I realize most parents resent the fact that their kids aren't "normal" and that sucked for many of my pears. As for the dad that complained about his sons position in football, why did you show the coach that you peaked in High School?
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Im a parent of an autistic kid I don’t resent him I did however cry when he was diagnosed because I was truly fearful for him and how others were gonna treat him as a parent you never want your child to suffer the way you did growing up
@@meatcandlepoeple5126what?
The story about the Japanese school just upsets me. Those kids are never going to have normal lives and their parents shame and denial of their disabilities is doing nothing good for them and is potentially harmful to their kids and the other kids. Some disabilities require constant supervision and they can't get that in normal classrooms.
I’m lucky to have parents that weren’t in denial about my diagnosis. I got help early, and if it weren’t for that I probably would’ve been worse off, though it also helps that my autism isn’t as severe as some of the cases described. I never realized I should be grateful for this until hearing these stories. The way some parents treat our disability is so…disheartening.
Story 30 is honestly so heartbreaking. It’s so sad that the child’s parents intentionally left him unable to read just so they could get disability checks.
Also being able to read doesn't mean you,re not behind
My daughter had a similar experience with a boy from the middle east and his father, whose words were "the Son must get good marks!" Her reply was "the Son must earn good marks!"
Blew Daddy's mind.
Wording is important.
And tone.
I had a friend who told me this story that her mom home used to teach elementary school. She had a student who was either 1st or 2nd grade with issues. One day the student ask my friend’s mom to use to bathroom, and she let him use only it took a long time to use. So she went in the boys bathroom and caught the student and probably another (I couldn’t remember what my friend told me) filling the urninals with toilet paper looking like it was clogging up the bathroom. Anyway she set up the meeting for the student’s dad and for some reason, the dad believed his own son. I don’t know what the kid said to him and obviously he believed him over my friend’s mom even though she caught him red handed.
I think the most delusional school related thing my mom ever did was go to my school and drop off a bag I left at home for Dia de mercado (market day) at my spanish class and insist on standing next to me while I sold the sodas and candy that I brought because apparently I was shady with my money, and she wanted to make sure I wasn't selling or buying anything in class. With my class money. In front of the goddamn teacher. In fricken' middle school.
Well, should've been more trustworthy with money
@@gmmartines7331 Yeah. I should have been more careful with my fake neon pesos
Story 12: Doesn't excuse the mother's aggression toward the staff, but she did at least have a reason to doubt what the teacher was telling her, since the kid was acting behind her back.
Story 22: And if your issue is the romance between Belle and the cursed prince, then you're _missing the entire point of the story._
Story 23: They've been that way since at least 1925, and it's only gotten worse over the years.
I just want to know the story 23-person is a total moron if they didn't realize Evolution versus religion was a thing
23 was the evolution story right? It been that way since Evolution has been conceived, nothing changed in 1925 (expect maybe Evolution being the "scientific" consensus)
@@potatoheadpokemario1931 1925 was the year of the Scopes "monkey trial", which is what I was referring to there.
I’m not that familiar with the Beast story beyond the basics; what was the core idea?
@@KnakuanaRkaTo not judge someone based on appearances or social norms. To be kind and honest and try to get to know someone better before making any judgments about whether you can get along with them. The Beast may have been physically monstrous , angry/scared and rough around the edges, but after time he calmed down and showed more of his actual personality which was more in line with the kind of person Belle was. Gaston knew Belle for some time since they lived in the same small town and interacted often. The more he pushed; the more disrespectful he got; the more their personalities clashed. Learn to be kind, be honest with yourself and others, and give yourself time to see what people are really made of. Don’t just judge people based on appearances, first impressions, or social norms. That’s not always going to give you a clear picture of who someone is on the inside.
That’s what the fairytale is about. At least the Disney version. Some people, though, miss that whole allegory and focus solely on “magic is witchcraft is evil” which includes anthropomorphic animals and sentient objects…because symbolism doesn’t exist and children should only be exposed to Biblical reality. Not even actually since many denominations of Christianity don’t acknowledge the majority of the Old Testament.
with the klepto kid, another possibility is that the parents don't mind because they also trained him to do it also outside of school after a young kid won't get sent to jail, and by the time he is of age he could go to jail for it he is already so good at it, the chances he gets caught are small.
Been teaching for 17 years and I’ll never forget a letter I got from a parent early in my career.
Long story short, we were told by admin that a warning letter needed to be sent home prior to teaching evolution. Any parent who disagreed could have their child removed from my class. Parent sent me a long letter stating how their family doesn’t “believe” in evolution and didn’t, and I quote, “understand why the monkeys could stay, but god wasn’t allowed.”
4:15 No that's not delusional. That is a very unusual thing for a kid to do and I can 100% understand how from the parent's POV the teacher was lying if the daughter had been managing to hide it up until that point.
Sounds more like parent isnt invested enough in het daughters schooling, cause theres ways for parents to find their kids grades.
"You're probably lying about your dog dying to get out of class. Go to the ISS room." If anyone is wondering, the movie was "where the red fern grows.
I started crying and asked "For what? You being an asshole?"
"If you refuse class because we're watching a movie and tell a sob story about your dog dying, you get ISS. Today and tomorrow." I left the room, went to my history teachers classroom (it was a break period for her, and she was grading papers.) I told her (through sobbing) what the other teacher did. She was livid. I have never seen her that angry. She asked me to call my mom so they could talk. My mother confirms that yes, my dog had died very early that morning and that he died next to me.
I was allowed to stay in her classroom and not English class for the rest of the year, and the next year, the history teacher was also the English teacher.
Umm I know this is from months ago, but I can’t watch movies like that at all, even without all the extra sad stuff going on. Side note, I refused to see Marley and Me when my friends said I’d love it, because I cannot handle sad dog stories and I didn’t want to be the weird grown woman ugly crying in the movie theater when the lights came up. If my dog died, next to me, the same day… I would have lost my mind in your situation. Sorry you had to deal with that, but glad it was remedied.
'S horrible! I'm glad you had good adults who got the issue addressed!
I was born with a birth defect that can cause partial to complete blindness, but I wasn't officially diagnosed until I was almost 7 after I was in foster care. My vision acuity is 20/400 which means that I have really bad vision ( can't drive, needs to use a white cane, reads ery large print and/or Braille ect.) Even when I was diagnosed, nobody belied that I was half blind because I ran around like a total maniac. Luckily, my now adopted parents got the services I needed to me in school. ( I was 9 went I started learning Braille and 11 when I started learning how to use a white cane.)
Its weird causr I have 20/400 but dont need anything other than glasses/contacts. Legally can drive IF im wearing one or the other. Sounds like youre WAY worse than 20/400.
20/400 as in the Us acuity?@@jaredcrabb
I'm totally blind and you wouldn't know it if you came to my house and visited me because I run around like a maniac too. Believe me, I can run around this house and not bump into a wall or anything unless I have a migraine then yeah I bump into the walls constantly and everybody thinks I'm drunk. Lol. But yeah I'm the same way. Can walk around my house without even a white cane or anything.
@@cmpvariety1764 So whenever you are online talking to people, how do they react to you telling them that you are blind? Because a lot of people ask me "how are you typing?" or "how are you reading my messages?" Just asking for a friend.
@@sabinewren3336 The same way they react to you, although I had someone get a little rude with me when I told them I couldn't see what was happening in a certain video, they were like you can't see the video but you're reading the smaller comments yeah that makes a lot of sense whatever. I'm like I'm blind I can't see the video but the comments are red with my screen reader. I've also been accused of faking my blindness because I have a RUclips channel. You can run a RUclips channel as a blind person. Trust me I'm doing it.
I wish, as an adult, I had gone back to my old grammar school to thank Miss O'Brien, Mrs. Anhyer, Mrs. Presley, and Miss Saddler (kindergarten through third grade teachers). They were kind and patient. They were good teachers. Please, if it is not too late for you, go back and thank your teachers.
as a person diagnosed with high-functioning autism, I HATE ALL OF THESE STEREOTYPES about kids with special needs
Same 😮
As something who has a disability this delusional thing with parents is real. Im legally blnd i was diagnosed wih a blindness when i was five but sigms showed i was as a baby. I never learned any independent skills until jr yr of highschool. Before i alwaus had to hold my moms hand when walking and never learned how to use a cane until college thx to my mom never letting me learn independent skills. My lil sis has ADHD. my mom refused to believe she had any chi and everyone kept telling her she did my mother never got her tested. My sister struggled with school lot when she was younger. It wasn't until she started middle school around fifth grade was when she finally got tested by a teacher and was diagnosed with ADHD. She got Hopewell School after that and has been doing great. But my mother refuses to let her take medication because she still does not believe she has ADHD.
Then that’s a delusional parent like that’s major bad 😮
As a kid I was always stressed about getting separated from my parents, I've always been easily distracted and I think I had an few bad experiences getting lost in stores and crowded places because some random thing had caught my interest. So I was really scared of it happening again.
I think having something along the lines of a leash would have really helped me, I could have had the freedom to look around and explore alittle, knowing that I was still within a few feet of my parents. I wouldn't have needed to check where my mom was every 5 seconds or hang onto her hand at all times.
My mom is proud of me having ADHD and Aspergers syndrome because it makes me insanely talented. I myself would be in hella denial to be honest. Those 2 are nothing to me, they just make your brain “wired in a different way” and give you a higher risk of being bullied or rejected.
same
I bet the young boy whos mom thinks he hurts on the toilet is just the boy reacting negatively to someone watching him use the bathroom.
Oh and regarding all the stories about parents being in denial that their kid needs to be in special ed... some times the parents are actually RIGHT about that.
I was put in a special ed class when I was in the 3rd grade because my teachers insisted I couldn't read. My parents tried to tell them I was reading just fine at home which was actually true. I had actually first learned to read before I even started school in the first place. My older brother actually does have a learning disability and my parents had bought hooked on phonics to help him catch up in school. He's 5 years older than me and since we were doing this at home I was basically learning from books intended for a 4th grader before I was even in Kindergarten.
The real issue I was having at school is that my English class was the first class of the school day and I had undiagnosed insomnia so it wasn't that I couldn't read it was that I was freaking exhausted from lack of sleep.
In my case being put in special ed actually stunted my education because once I was in that class we kept reviewing the same things we had already learned over and over again every single year. It was super easy for me because I literally was only being taught the things I already knew for YEARS so even when they did eventually try to put me back into a regular ed class room they were reviewing stuff I had never been taught so I literally had no clue what the hell they were talking about the entire time I was there.
Pretty much the bulk of my education I picked up OUTSIDE of school.
One of my co-workers joked about how she was the dumbest of the smart kids cause all her classes were AP, I was the smartest of the dumb kids cause I wasn't even suppose to be there in the first place. I was literally helping other kids in my class with their assignments cause I was the only one who actually understood what the assignment was.
FUCK insomnia.
This is a really good point! Parents and teachers should gather as much information as possible, including by asking the kid things (kids sometimes can provide information about waht is going on with them even though not always), and then try to think about the bigger picture instead of the first explanation that comes to mind! I'm sorry that happened to you
Sometimes it's not the parents, it is the teachers. My son in about grade 5 had a math question that he couldn't get right. He did it and erased it so many times that the paper wore through and then taped another paper over the hole and erased it through too. Finally asked me for help. Turns out the answer was always right and had always been right. I called the teacher and she said in a snotty voice... "Well he copied the question down wrong off the board and isn't doing the right question." He hated school so bad after that that he failed the grade. The teacher was eventually asked to leave. (wasn't just this one incident)
Which is why I question schools not letting go horrible teachers(districts intentionally hold onto the worst but how is that a solution) 🌝
Not a teacher, well sorta. I used to provide respite/hab and sometimes be a homeschool tutor. Anyway i really liked working with this family and they were always good to me and i ended up working with them for over 5 years. However after a while it started to become clear that they didnt get how much trouble their kid had with math.
Real quick, the kid had autism and was like 12 when i started working with him and 18 when i stopped. He was really bright and quite high functioning (even compared to myself who also has autism). I won't give too many details to protect his identity but he was even such an expert at a certain niche scientific field that he impressed a University professor/expert in that field to the point where he was invited to study more on campus and show off his knowledge when he was just 15. He just couldn't do math to the point where as a sophomore in high school he still needed his fingers to add and couldn't multiply and divide without a lot of reminders. His parents kept insisting that he take the same class that most kids were taking. Unfortunately algebra/geometry just were not possible with that level of impairment so we an hour+ a day with him every day just trying to teach him math. It was a mess and i don't know how teachers kept passing him. Thankfully it finally broke his junior year and they let him take a more basic math class.
To be fair to his parents, they wanted him to get a full diploma and stupid state requirements said that was what it required. I get not giving a full diploma to someone who only takes life skills classes, but he was taking all normal classes outside of math and getting mostly Bs with obvious As in science. It's stupid to torture a kid for a diploma in a situation like that
To the best of my knowledge he was forced to get the lesser diploma but he's still interning at the university despite not being able to attend. I don't think attendance would have worked even with a diploma as he had a hard time getting what he knew out so him writing college level papers would have been near impossible, even high school level papers were very hard for him. Still hes able to do what he loves just fine without a degree so here's hoping he makes a big discovery and can name it after himself.
Something tells me that those parents thought Beauty and the Beast was inappropriate due to bestiality…in their defense, she does fall in love with and kiss an actual animal before finding out that he’s actually a human so…point 😂
My guess is because they think it appropriates stockholm syndrome. I've heard that complaint before.
It's both, I never liked the movie growing up because the fact that Belle didn't know he would turn human but still was ready to be with a literal animal never sat right with me at all.
There is also Lumiere and sexual harassment.
Beast scared me as a child. I'd go use the bathroom and hide there until the moment he's screaming and yelling at Belle through the door was over. At the time, he was just loud and had a scary voice.
As an adult, I realize why I was afraid: he acted like my dad, loud, had a bad temper, and had banged on doors when angry. As a kid I didn't connect the similarities because beast's voice was different enough from my dad's until he started yelling at Belle. The link didn't feel connected in my younger mind that that was why I was afraid. I just was.
Fortunately my older caught on I was being a scaredy cat, and made me sit through it until i wasn't so uncomfortable and scared that I felt the need to leave the room. Now there was no way either of us knew the real reason I was scared - i didn't realize until I was an adult after all - but I'm glad he did that.
I got one, it might be controversial but whatever, let people be themselves and judge by actions and nothing else.
So a friend got asked to be one of her foster son’s history teacher after she confronted the teacher about her terrible teaching (she was giving kids wrong info and would not budge about it being wrong) and my friend did teach history but she also let the kids guide the lesson some by talking about things that they wanted to learn about. This included fashion going from the 1920s to modern times and of course sex ed. by then the students had gotten comfortable enough with my friend to tell her anything. Several students came out to her and she told them and the class that it was ok and there was nothing wrong with them for being gay or bi or trans or whatever. One girl said her dad would kill her if he found out she was gay. Friend had her call her dad in class on speaker and tell him. Listening to the conversation friend interrupted the dad by telling him if he really loved his daughter he’d let her be whatever she wanted and love her regardless before hanging up. The dad and another kid’s mom stormed into class on two separate occasions to scream at friend for brainwashing their kids and the girl’s dad even assaulted friend. The kids were high schoolers.
Anything involving sexuality is immediately a sensitive subject.
@@spaghettijeff8920 not sure why. Love is love, period.
god the way that he's playing Spyro is giving me anxiety
I'm a kid with autism and my last school never helped me or tried to help me, I would be blamed for almost everything and I would be yelled at a lot, my mom always believed them over me too. I was homeschooled later from the beginning of fourth grade to close to the end of 6th and my mom would yell at me everyday, I know it sounds like I'm lieing but she always yelled at me everyday, I never had a day I did not have a headache and sometimes it was so bad I ended up crying
Sounds like a stepmother.
I am so sorry, are you in a better school now?
@@NiennaFan1 yeah but those few years was hell on earth
@@duncang8008 I’m so sorry
3:00, little autistic boy is literally me
10:24 - on saying that some people object that moving furniture is ungodlike.
I can tell you for a fact that yes, that's exactly the case.
I was once friends with a lady - a pretty conservative Christian one - who specifically told people that her kids were not allowed to watch certain chapters of one of their DVDs because it depicted magic.
We followed the rules, but the older one at least was old enough to read and comprehend things, so I don't believe for a second that that didn't get watched when Mom was away, whether at age 10 or 15...
For story 22, it's the magic. Some overly religious families won't let their kids watch anything containing any amount of magic. It's absurd.
When i was in kindergarten, a severly autistic boy moved into my kindergarten, he will melt down to the slightest noise, we were forced to walk tiptoes like a thief in cartoons to not make him melt down, once i dared my bully to run as loud as possible thru the hallway in front of my class, the autistic kid melted down, and we had to bring the kid with the bully who ran to stop his meltdown and once i whispered to my friend about my drawing, the autistic kid cried.
Edit: the bully was wearing sandals because his foot got injured so you can imagine the sound and also the sandal was wet
Putting special needs kids in a regular school is beyond cruel. Their lives must be constant hell.
Constant hell is an understatement sadly, I spent 18 years undiagnosed with autism, so when I acted out they saw me as a kid having a temper tantrum and called me lazy for not trying hard enough and to stop having my head in the clouds, one time two teachers made fun of me when I started swinging my arms around, mimicking it with exageration, freaking laughing with other kids watching.
I was diagnosed with autism, more specifically aspergers, when I was 8. This was much worse than what I'd imagine hell to be. I was constantly emotionally and verbally abused by the staff, manipulated, personal possessions stolen, screamed at for not looking directly at a teacher, staff would sit down next to me just to insult me, they would revoke basic human rights such as a right to education and would constantly lock the toilets because "going to the toilets isn't a right" even though it is, I checked. I told them I was scared of balloons popping so then one time they took me out of class (it was also a class I liked) to tie balloons to my feet and force me to jump on them to make them pop loudly. I would say "I don't know" a lot when I was stressed out and I remember I didn't know the answer to a question so the music teacher said "you never know" and then made me stay in until I understood something but I didn't understand it since I was too stressed out to do anything so I had to stay in for all of lunch for no reason. I also got punished for wearing a jacket when it was cold and in the winter and the heating was turned off. There wasn't even a rule that said you can't wear jackets. They even thought I was faking crying to get out of class. I was having a panic attack. Once they put me in a different math class, they said it was so it would put it at my level, I would instead consider it mocking me. It was a class with people that didn't know how to read, let alone do math. The questions were things like 2 + 2 or 5 x 10. This was in high school. I completed the questions and they would reward me with an obviously fake "hooray! You did it!" in a way that sounded like they though I had the mental capacity of a 5-year-old. Overall, this was much, much worse than hell.
As a person with autism, I’ve become the de facto autism guru for my extended family. Typically it’s a parent who just learned that their child is on the spectrum and don’t know what to do with that knowledge. More so for their child’s academic K-12. I usually tell them about my experience and what my parents did for me: IEP meetings, coordinating with in-school specialists, talking with the teachers, and so forth. The most important advise I give to parents though is that they’ll have to fight most of the battles for their child to get the services they’ll need in order to succeed; to fight tooth and nail for them if a school doesn’t have the their best interests at heart. I also warn the parent that their child will become an adult at some point and avoid robbing them of opportunities to improve themselves as independents. I also warn them that every case is different so their mileage will vary.
Not necessarily. They had their own section in our school and joined us for music class. It taught us early about people with differences and they were our friends.
It was! Also discrimination lk
I grew up in a religious household, where magic wasn't allowed. I wasn't allowed to sing holiday songs, political (national anthems), or other religion's songs. I was lucky that my parents were a bit more relaxed about the movies with magic in them, but no Harry Potter. However when my grandmother was home for the summer I was encouraging not to watch movies that even hint of magic or evolution so that she'd leave me alone. I know that some other people in the religion were just as bad as my grandmother and worse. I was also raised to respect other people's beliefs and that their opinions didn't have to affect mine. And in turn, not to force my beliefs and opinions on others.
I knew a woman years ago that had a 5-6 year old daughter that couldn't walk. Turns out she wouldn't let her walk because if she could walk they'd take her disability check and the "mother" would have to go back to work. When the kid would try to walk she would run up and grab her and scold her for it!
Not a teacher, but I worked IT for a school.
Had a parent who bought their student an iPad, which the student then used as a bat to hit a basketball around the basketball court. The iPad didn't like this. The parent also didn't like it. And came to the IT office demanding to know what WE were going to do about it.
Story 22: If the parents are that religious, I bet the Beauty and the Beast thing was based on how the entire plot basically revolved around an instance of witchcraft, a supernatural power from a source other than God. My parents were never this bad, but they were always hesitant about that kind of subject material, so it seems like it might be something similar here. For example, I had to wait a bit to play pokemon yellow because my parents caught wind of the fact that one of the gym leaders had psychic powers. Though eventually they realized the game wasn't actually taking a stance on the subject and greenlit it. And for those curious, they chilled out over time.
Story 23: 10:23 YEC think that denying others access to science is 'Religious Freedom.'
Regarding the religious parents not wanting their kid to watch Beauty and the Beast, I think they may find the very concept of the Enchantress who cursed Beast to be objectionable. Probably reads too much like "Witchcraft" to them. That, or the actual witchhunt that Gaston instigates.
Okay, so important caveat here: disabled/autistic students may be incredibly gifted in academics but need accommodations to do well.
A teacher's aide wanted to put me into the "special ed" curriculum because I was obviously disabled. In that context, it would have meant limiting my learning because of stereotypes. Luckily, other people had more sense. I got the accommodations I needed and was top of my class... for high school and university.
Sometimes I wonder if these cases are parents in denial or whether ableism is affecting school employees' judgment. Ableism can distort the perceptions of both parents and school employees such that they set inappropriate expectations of the child (either too strenuous or too lax) instead of realistically evaluating their aptitudes and need for accommodations
Story 12, Ok, that's not denial, the mom wouldn't be reasonably expected to know the daughter did all of that.
That poop one... Idk why but it reminded me of the person who's mother had delusions and thought that the devil was gonna violate the kid, so made the kid wear a butt plug all the time, and people only found out when the kid accidentally flushed it while using the bathroom and cried to their teacher because they thought they were in trouble.... some parents are just wrong
I love this channel I can watch it for hours
I am a preschool assistant teacher, and most parents at this age are completely understanding that their kids (1) aren't perfect and (2) are entirely on their own developmental schedules. I have had two parents in different years specifically request that their toddler NOT be potty trained. Both kids were crying and screaming that they had to go, but we had to abide by the parents' wishes. Parent #1 didn't want a "regression" after they moved in a month's time (completely normal even in the best of situations, and the groundwork laid today will still be there tomorrow). Parents, if you're so lucky to be in this position, GO WITH IT. Both kids ended up with many problems down the line because their initial requests were ignored.
I didn't learn how to read until I was 12 years old because everytime I told the teacher I couldn't read they didn't believe me and they thought I was lying it wasn't until I had a full-on breakdown in class and threw a book because they would make me stand up and read and all the kids would laugh at me that anyone actually believed I couldn't read
I'm not a teacher but a friend of mine in grade school had some terrible parents who were convinced that my friend needed to be in the Special Education program even though he was getting A's in regular classses so the parents kept trying to say my friend's IQ was in the 60s but every test he took showed his IQ being over 130 so every time he went to sleep, his parents redid his homework to make him seem stupid but he kept his completed homework at school by turning it in early. When his grandparents find out what was going on, they took over his custody. Nowadays, he's a lawyer and cut contact with his parents who wanted him to take care of them.
So my third grade teacher had told my father she thought i could be autistic because of my handwriting, he apparently yelled at her. I didnt find out about this until i had graduated high school but i really wish he wouldve taken her seriously... it wouldve been rally helpful to know maybe i just needed a little help in certain areas and not having to feel like i was messed up or something basically all my life... wouldve avoided quite a few attempts to... end my life and few trips to the psych ward....
My mom says that I’m choosing to be anxious, even though she also has anxiety?????
I had a student who would roll on the floor and cry if he were asked to do anything "too hard" such as... writing five words as a sentence. I talked to his mom who said, "next time he does that, call me and I'll take him home." Incredulous, I asked, " You would *reward* this kind of behavior?"
It must work at home. I bet every time he's asked to put away his toys, he starts bawling and mom comforts him with some cookies and lets him play with stuffed animals the rest of the day.
I was a brilliant kid at school but never did homework. Nearly failed most of my classes because no matter how well my classwork was, I never did homework. Turns out I have autism and severe anxiety, plus I was bullied a lot, so all that added to my poor home preformance.
10:15 I think the issue with Beauty and The Beast is... the Beast having that name
If it's a religious family, they're gonna associate the word Beast with Satan
Like how 666 is "The Number of The Beast"
Wich isn't in the Bible, I hate that kind of religious people who know nothing about their own religion
I don't know what's worse - a lot of these stories where the parents are holding back their kids for selfish reasons, or Tree Tops in Spyro 1
That one who tried to say that retyping every word was not plagiarism is a real laugh. They should have sent a letter to the author of the plagiarized work to allow him to sue that Karen and put her in her place. Good god I despise delusional people who make these excuses up to try to get away with things. They are probably the same ones who make up rules and try to force everyone to comply with them being nothing else but a major pain in everyone elses posteriors!!
Man that teacher is so nice for letting the kids watch shows at the end of the month.
Regarding story 22, I actually had parents exactly like this. If this kid was in a Jehovah's Witness family, then I can absolutely understand this, because they have a tendency of arbitrarily deciding that some books, movies, ect are inappropriate. Sometimes we'd be watching a perfectly innocent kid's movie, and my dad would just step in halfway through to skip certain scenes that they didn't like, and I similarly had issues clearing some video games, because if a level had something like ghosts in it, I wasn't allowed to play anymore. Heck, even TV ads were considered to be demonic, which meant that whenever myself or my sister watched stuff, we had to turn off the TV before the ads played, otherwise we'd be yelled at or punished for allowing demonic influences. It was frustrating to watch anything because we'd always miss a little bit of the show from just after the ad break.
To refer to the story in the video, my guess is that the moving furniture and such is a depiction of magic, which is strictly forbidden in the faith. Only god can perform supernatural feats, and any magic outside of this is dealing with the devil.
Story 32 - obviously, the father is a complete asshole, but what's wrong with the mother, allowing her kids to be raised like that?
They are from the middke eadt, look no further it's cultural bullshit
I think the clue is in the phrase "Middle East." Yes, this [***] was an extreme example, but the attitude is pretty prevalent.
That teacher who taught a kid in 7th grade how to read up to a 3rd grade level in a month needs to be paid extra for that. That is called teacher’s magical powers and every great teacher has that power. My kindergarten teacher especially. She was so sweet and I literally almost cry from the joy of seeing the kindergarten kids enjoying their kindergarten years as it’s so pure and sweet. Oh how I hope that those kids never change. But funny thing about my first day of first grade was the teacher was showing us the route right and you know where I asked when I saw that the toy area from my old classroom was replaced by Books? I asked her flat out, “ where are the toys?” And I could visibly see the teacher trying her best to contain her laughter. I’m in fifth grade now and I still laugh at it. That teacher is no longer in our school sadly but I still reminisce about that day and it’s funny.
It's uncommon, but I've heard of at least one documentary where the person has a medical condition where they do have to "take care of things", or it can greatly impact their life and health.
This was years ago when I saw this thing though.
Then they need to be in a special school, not public schools.
Story 30 made me go back and listen to it again.
Parents with kids that don’t have disability:there’s something wrong with my kid
Parents with kid that do have a disability:nothings wrong within my kid
During this, I was very distracted by “ooooh Spyro! I remember this level!”
"My child your never lie!"
Yes they would, happily, easily, if they think it will get them out of trouble they will lie their little faces off. Children lie. It's a fact of life.
Also adults can but acting like it’s impossible blows my mind
That person with the EBT is just smart...
Genius!!!!! Pure genius!!!!!!!!!
My Father in Law was a gym teacher. Towards the end of his career
(hastened on by incidents like this) when he had a problem kid he would
call in the parents for a meeting. He would tell the parents what the
little bastard had done (it had to be pretty bad for him to call in the parents)
and sometimes the parents would look him in the eye & state 'Not MY little precious.
Hes a good boy he has never ever misbehaved' Even after being told the teacher had witnessed the act.
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4:01 thankfully my parents aren’t like this they always blame me for the missing work or bad grade. It is good for my teacher but I hate being yelled at 😭
Story 35: THAT IS FRAUD!!!!!!
There was one time where a kid’s dad came to the school and threatened to pull his kid out of the debate club it he was not put on team. The team consisted of me and three of my classmates. That kid was about two years younger than us, had no experience in public speaking, and contributed nothing to the preparation for the debate. He spent all his time sitting in the back of the room drawing airplanes on his tablet. I never saw him in the club again
Technically my mom noticed how delusional my fourth grade teacher was during this particular moment. The day before Halloween is when I unknowingly came home with a head lice infestation from one of my classmates. My parents fortunately noticed my sudden itchy behavior and cleaned out my hair ASAP. After my mom called the school and left a message about it, the infested classmate was sent home first thing in the morning. Although my mom kinda knew who it was, she was shocked deep down when my teacher talked to her in private and actually told her who started it. My mom pretended to play along with it but she couldn't get over how my teacher actually exposed such a personal manner, regardless of saying so in private.
Story 24: That is a sexual predator in the making...
I had a student show up on a google meet with a gun in hand. I contacted police and turns out it was a, air soft gun… the parent pulled their kid out of my school because they said I overreacted. No. I didn’t. That’s always going to get the cops called if for no other reason than student safety.
my issue is how the hell are kindergartners and other children that are too young to go places by themselves such as corner stores and candy stores getting obese in the first damn place?
I’m thinking of no other logical explanation than the parents being the problem
@@simplesphinx8093 thank you. My point exactly.
My family believe my depression diagnosis from the doctors is me making up for me not having enough attention as a kid; now I’m believed to not only to have depression but to also have Autism and ADHD
Two girls in 7th grade had become "enemies" since the end of 6th grade. The uncle of one of the students had just been released from jail. He showed up and TASED the 7th grade student after school in the parking lot who was "bullying" his niece. There was no bullying. They both were mean to one another and used to be friends the prior year. Yes, police were called and uncle went back to jail. But when the mothers of both girls showed up, they got into a physical fight as well... it was pretty crazy
When I worked in special ed, we had one parent being in full on denial. She came in with the child, before the school year started. Whilst the child was being shown around the school and getting more and more exited to go to this school next school year, the mom had a meeting with one of the teachers. It was supposed to just be an introduction to the school, the rules and the expectations the school had for the parents. Instead, the mother couldn't stop claiming her child didn't belong in special ed. The reason this child did not blong in speial ed? The mother has an other child, who was in university and about to become a lawyer, top of the class. So the younger child must be just as gifted as the older child, there is no way the younger child would not become some amazing doctor, laywer, astronaut, etc. The teacher tried the whole: when your oldest child is on their way to the courtroom and the car breaks down, our students are the ones to come our and fix it, so your child will always have a great future with an important job ahead of them. The parent kept being in denial. During the next school year the school managed to get the mother talking to a psychologist, to help her come to terms with a child in special ed. The child did amazing in special ed, made loads of friends and learned a lot in an enviroment safe for them. We didn't want the mother to hinder this with her negativity.
charges for.. taking a picture? go ahead and try, that dad will own the whole school district
The problem with Beauty and the Beast is that Belle did not know that the Beast might turn back into a human and was completely prepared to put a new spin on the phrase 'tying the knot'!
11:22 On the 5th day of CHristmas my child got for himself:
One of the reasons I hate this story is because I am religious, and every time I say so this is what people think of. These parents give a religious person a bad name.
Story 22: The parents are referring to the old woman who turns into a beautiful enchantress who curses the Beast and his castle with a spell. And the whole relationship of Belle and the Beast as evil as it is between a human and an animal. Oh, and Belle learning to love the Beast and her new home as Stockholm syndrome.
There's no such thing as normal.
My mom denies that fact that I have anything wrong with me, though she knows how delusional and disattached from reality I AM. (I have thought I was alone and bullied before, and my mom tried to fix me, it didn’t work)
I teach in university, fortunately got no parent come rushing in to me just yet, but I've seen grandparents going to professors because their grandchild failed the class. I'm never scared of anyone so my student both fear and respect me, had 3 second year student cry in my first semester teaching.
The teacher in story 27 I think is a bonus for them, they got paid. They did pretty much nothing.
A kid at a daycare I worked at had a complete meltdown when I told him he couldn't play with Duplo during naptime. Because we all know Legos are the quietest toy on the planet, especially in a five year old's hands. Well, he bites down on my arm and won't let go. I call for my co-worker and she helps pry him off me. She puts him in time-out while I go and clean the wound in my arm because he bit me so hard he drew blood.
His mother was mortified. Not by the bite wound in my arm that a feral cat would be jealous of, but because of all the diseases he'll catch from my blood. She said all of this could have been avoided if we just let him do what he wanted. She threatened to pull her kid from the daycare, but it was more like a gift from god to my co-worker and I because not a day went by without him having a nuclear-grade meltdown over sharing toys or our choices of snacks. But the Karen Cherry on the Bitch Sundae was that she said that she'd to go to the authorities and sue us if he got sick.
The brat remained in the daycare until the day I was laid off and as far as I know was still enrolled until the daycare finally shut down about six months later.
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Okay, the story about the kid having to attend 2 weeks of meetings with another kids parents trying to get him suspended for passing math? Where were his parents? How weak is the principal and why werent lawyers called? That was straight up abuse.
I would have CPS on speed dial
There was a 13 year old girl in the 90s who died from being to obese, a really sad story.
I have both ADHD and autism and my parents are not in denial and have tried there best to help me succeed
Story 20: I'm quite sure the parent said something along the lines of, "Oh, my child needs to eat lots of junk food and soda to get the essential nutrients she needs to grow!!"
I know that one in three Americans weighs as much as the other two, but I didn't realise they started this young.
@@lomax343 I like how you put that, and sadly its true. Though its more like 1 in 3 americans weighs more than the other 2.
Either of that, or it could be like what happened when I was growing up. For contacts, my mom was going through nursing school at the time and we lived in a fairly rural area, largest city in that area, south eastern Ohio if you need now. Some people can’t just fathom at the way they have been eating for years is wrong. And therefore, because of that, didn’t see anything wrong with giving the child what she did give her. I saw this in action, and I can tell you the story about it. While my memories of my grade school years are highly fragmentary, I’ve vividly remember this much. You see we had to have a healthy snack on us every day at school, at least the third grade we did. Mom would sometimes pack me homemade granola bars, blueberry bread, or anything else healthy that she could find. She says Eagle eye about it now as she was then. There was a boy I remember, goodness was he annoying is all crap, but that’s not the point. I remember my backpack hung next to his, we had a big long rack we put all our coats and backpacks, the top shelf was the lunchboxes. If you had a lunchbox, we kept our snacks in our backpacks, I kept mine separate from my lunchbox I think, I may not have, but I remember this boy, taking a big, huge, family style, share style bag of chips. I want to say they were Doritos, but I could be mistaken. In some cases, it could also be a financial concern. That may be all they can afford with whatever welfare they are on, I did not say that welfare quitted to health. I am our teacher, telling the boy that he couldn’t eat the Doritos, if Doritos they truly were, and only later making that connection. Not the connection of why he couldn’t eat Doritos, I knew by then the Doritos were no in no way a healthy snack, but why he had brought them.