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Hey guys, it's Charlotte here, and today we're talking about spoiled rich kids getting hit with the real world.
We all know those kids who seem to have everything handed to them on a silver platter - designer clothes, exotic vacations, and the latest gadgets. But what happens when they're forced to face the challenges of the real world?
In this video, we're going to take a look at some real-life examples of spoiled rich kids who had a reality check. From trust fund babies who had to start working for a living, to entitled teens who learned the hard way that money can't buy everything.
We'll also explore the psychological effects of growing up privileged, and how it can hinder one's ability to cope with adversity.
So if you're ready to see some spoiled brats get a dose of reality, hit that play button and let's dive in. Don't forget to leave a comment below and let me know what you think about the topic. Thanks for watching!
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As someone who didn't get a sweet 16 because my family couldn't afford it, I am astonished at the fact that someone could act that way for a FREE CAR
🤯🤯🤯
Same!
My mum bought me a free car when I was 33. lol We had just had a baby and he needed to go to various specialist doctors so my mum bought our family a car so we could get to all the baby's appointments without taking the bus. THIRTY-THREE!
I don't believe that one... seriously! Look at the size and proximity of the houses in their neighborhood. You think ANY of them are driving a tesla 😂 let alone buying one for a 16yr old? The inside of their house is not one of a millionaire either (not that you HAVE to be one to buy one) but all those things added up don't equal legit story!
AND $1600! My first car was less than her gift money, a used Toyota corolla that was 2 years older than me
I saw a video of a father giving his daughter a used car. She came out to the parking lot of her job and was happy and jumping up and down saying “I love it, it’s so ugly I love it”. Her dad told her he was sorry but she kept laughing and was just so thankful and excited.
You could see the love between father and daughter was so strong by and he had raised a wonderful person.
Yes this sounds like an awesome kid but I’m stuck on “ it’s so ugly. I love it.” Sometimes ugly cars can be awesome.
My first car was a grass-green '79 Toyota Corolla with a smashed-in trunk that barely opened and closed, but we still paid $600 for it and I loved it. lol
My first car was a Ford Pinto. My dad helped me keep it working and I paid for it by my job. Handouts should not be given to entitled children. If they don't like it. Take it back, get your money back. Put it away or show them you handing it to people in need. To give in to the entitlement is the only thing that is going to keep building (entitled, snotty karens).
That was a great video and I agree with you
Mine was a 1975 orange Honda Civic with a desert scene screen in the hatchback window. I paid 500 for that thing and it was so much fun to drive.
I have one biological daughter and she has always been precocious. She has also always been remarkably easy to raise.
Her tantrum stage was delayed, though. Around five she decided on a tantrum test drive.
When we were both calm again, we sat down to talk. I explained that this was not the way people get what they want and as a reminder, in future if she threw a tantrum, not ONLY would she not get whatever the tantrum was about, she wouldn’t get the NEXT thing she asked for, either.
About a week and two tantrums later she crawled up on my lap and said conversationally, “This tantrum thing isn’t working for me.”
Bingo!
Clever mother, clever girl
Bravo👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Well done!👏🏻💜✨
2:49 the way I screamed and happy cried for my 2007 Honda civic with 70k miles on it. A car is a car!! Forever greatful my parents did that.
Those Honda's go forever though haha
The fact that the mother was just going to take it back and get her a pink Mercedes absolutely explains why her daughter is so spoiled, entitled and ungrateful
That is EXACTLY 💯 WHAT I THOUGHT..😮 NO WONDER SHE ACTS LIKE SUCH 🙄 A SPOILED JERK... IT PAYS OFF FOR HER. .
They didn't even seem rich. That mother is probably prioritizing or sacrificing stuff to spoil her daughter. Give the Tesla to yourself!
THANK YOU
Her mom should step back and see what she created
Her mom should step back and see what she created
The fact that she says she's going to try to get her a pink Mercedes explains a lot. She's raising a monster and then society will have to deal with this disgrace of a human being
Right!?! I got a tennis racket and $16 for my 16th...lol
Exactly. If you aren't grateful for anything, then you shouldn't get anything.
What, you don’t have at least one pink Mercedes? Plebeian!
Nah it's a skit. Or let's say I want to believe it is. WTF! A whole new level of nopes just unlocked for me. :O
Judging by the neighbourhood I'm pretty sure they don't have Mercedes or Tesla money, I wouldn't be surprised if they're living way beyond their means.
The definition of good parenting is telling them no DESPITE the tantrum! Don't give in, mamas and daddies! Stay STRONG! Don't reward bad behavior...it isn't good for our democracy! 😂
It’s sad that this far along in the history of man kind reproducing and raising children…that this has to be stated.
Why do people think their spawn will be any different?
AND THEN THE SAME PARENTS WILL HAVE THE AUDACITY TO BLAME THE CHILD!
Bruh…
Plus you will probably end up raising your grandchildren
@@serahloeffelroberts9901 TRUTH
The sweet 16 kid really blew my mind. Wanna know what I got for my sweet 16? A birthday cake with a toy car on it. That's it. No actual car. No $1600 in a card. We were between homes at the time and living with my grandparents. That child truly doesn't understand how to be thankful.
Same bro
We moved on my 16th birthday. That was super happy fun times. It wasn't like we had to move that day, my dad just wanted to do it that day because it was convenient for him or something. Who knows. He was an AH.
As someone who will openly admit she was spoiled, I have to say there's a difference between spoiled and entitled. I was spoiled, but, I was also taught to appreciate things.
My cousin is this way! She’s very well rounded
Same I was told to enjoy the little things in life because they are more rare than a big event I don't get how they can get like this
Exactly. My parents would give me what I wanted (within reason 😅). However, I had to donate a toy or do community service. I was excited to do it! I knew the toys I had brought me happiness and I loved hoping that another kid would have as much as I did!
Absolutely. My children are extremely spoiled but they are not entitled brats & they're always grateful, thankful and well behaved.
Yep grew up like this as well. We aren’t by any means rich, not even upper middle class. But my parents still tried hard to get me and my sister what we wanted. My mom had a little system in place to help us learn patience so we didn’t expect to have it at our feet as soon as we asked. It’s been nice growing up like that for sure, and my sister and I are very well-rounded hardworking people. The mindset that follows after being spoiled is the difference between a spoiled kid and an entitled kid.
These tantrums were really triggering when I realized that my own child behaves like this from time to time. But then I remembered that my child is an actual toddler. Stay safe out there, parents.
😂😂😂
Start them young sweetie humble them real early/j
LOLMAO....It's OK. You still have time to help that little sweetie. You are doing a great job. (Hugs)
Tantrums and testing parents boundaries is part of healthy child/teenage development. It's in our DNA. Being spoiled, however, is a something that is taught. The fact that you are even worrying about this tells me that you're probably a really good parent
Ok don’t like the car I got you? We’ll take it back and your ass can walk. Simple 🤷🏽♀️
i never let my kids win.. when they win they actually win and the EXCITEMENT they have when they finally win is awesome. I now lose on the regular cause they have surpassed me.
As a mom with 3 awesome kiddos on the spectrum... I blame the parents, point, blank, and period.
100%
I’m 33 and I’m up for adoption if that lady would like a new daughter and I’m fine with the $1600 birthday gift part on its own😂
Girl SAME!!! my parents are poor and the only thing I got for my sweet 16 was a cake baked by my mom and I am eternally grateful. I live in the south side of India. If she happen to have that attitude here, she will be confetti rn. Please lady, adopt me and I am 29. I'll do anything you ask for. I am that desperate 😅😌🐣
@@phoenix_zee okay now i hope she wants 2 daughters 😂 i don’t even remember if i had a birthday for my sweet 16 😂😂😂i feel you
Me and you both!! Lol
Ahahaha!!!😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 hundo
I’d give her a pink Mercedes, a Hot Wheels pink Mercedes 🤣
And 16 cents
💯 You're reading my mind - exactly! 😄
I worked with kids and it is important that they learn how to loose. But at the same time I of course help them win over me sometimes. Like when they miss a chance or dont know what to do I will help and they act all "Ohh nooo youre so good" afterwards. Its the cutest thing ever.
That being said: He plays wrong! He doesnt get to go after he put a plus 2 or a plus 4 in my opinion.
I know this is an old comment, but the +2/+4 is right, but the reverse doesn't work like that. If there are 2 players it doesn't do anything as all it does is reverse the order.
(I have played a lot of Uno and read the rules several times.)
Raising my son, (Who is 28 now) He knew I always backed up my words, and he learned to argue without this stupid behavior. He could change my mind, but it better be good, and even a HINT of tantrum would get him NOTHING right away, and whatever I said I was going to do was done! He is the sweetest kindest guy and SMART. No lying though, THAT I will double down for to this day.
Oh this reeks of mommy son ridiculousness and he likely is a narcissistic and manipulative partner I feel so bad for their partner
The fact that the mom is even considering getting her the Mercedes after she acted like that is the problem.
I looked it up after seeing 10 seconds of this and the dad got her a Chevy, a nice used one that she hated. This should have never been put on the internet
@@CH-ol2zyI’m just glad she has a dad in her life to correct that mess the mom was conditioning her to possibly be.
Id have gotten her a mercedes.
An old broke fixer-upper. And when she complained? Id tell her its what she asked for bc MY choice wasnt good enough. :wipes hands: We done here.
The fact that ANYONE would consider a mercedes for a 16 year old - especially one that acts like that is crazy. Getting kids expensive cars and worse high powered sports car when they're an inexperienced driver is dangerous not only for the kid but for the other drivers on the road - just so the parents can have 'brownie' points is stupid as hell. The first car is the one they learn how to take care of, what to do if the car breaks down - gets a flat etc.
I would have gotten her a 1960 ? POS
I KNOW that mother didn't just say she's going to take the Tesla back and get a pink Mercedes-Benz!!
THAT'S how you get kids like that!
…Veruca Salt style. It’s not like we weren’t warned.
Looking at the neighborhood, I think the video is fake lol
Her dad got her a 2015 Chevy Sonic instead
Girl got a brand new tesla and didn't even deserve a 87 Ford pinto smh
@@Madkalibyrthis girl doesn’t look like a trust fund baby like the girl in the other video mentioned. That’s a basic neighborhood and the home has basic interior. I think this was a fake video lol.
The best gift you can give her is the life lesson of humility.
My sister knew a rich kid in school whose parents tried to teach them reality through public school. That kid then proceeded to tell people she was being abused at home really badly, my sister was concerned and wanted more details only to discover that her parents had started giving her chores around the house and she thought it was abusive because she didn't want to do it, but her parents insisted.
My jaw dropped when the daughter said “that’s it?” And called $1,600 little money. Wait until that brat is supporting herself, she’ll still expect hand outs from her poor mom.
Poor mom? The mother is the reason her daughter is so self centered and ungrateful. Mom probably has never said no to her. I don’t feel sorry for the mother at all. I feel bad for everyone else that has to come in contact with this narcissist daughter in the outside world. 🤦🏻♀️
@@katz734 Lighten up Katz
I know right? That's more than I get paid in 2 weeks and she is complaning?
That’s a few months worth of pay for my part-time🫣 I’ll happily take this 1600$…
And all in the name of love, the mother has managed to bring up an absolute disaster of a person...
The Tesla girl should be shown the video of the girl who was given a old used car as a gift . She was so happy that she was given a car that she giggled "it's so ugly and I love it" . her dad was over the moon with happiness. And then we have Tesla girl .
On one hand, she’s entitled and ungrateful. On the other, she’s not wrong to not want an electric car. This is why we just shouldn’t ever surprise people with big expensive items.
Literally, I bought all my cars myself because my parents couldn't be bothered so I can't stand thr fact she got a TESLA and threw a fit over it
Give that 16 year old a tricycle! The first car that my dad bought for us “kids” was a ‘63 Dodge Dart that we called “pig”… cuz it looked like a pig. We loved that car.
My best friend got a $100 car for her 16th and she was so happy and grateful, and that thing drove us all around for 2 years.
Yeah I have seen that video, it was so heart warming.
This just show's us that how parents raising can make a difference.
This girl here is raised into a money sucking monster and with this kind of attitude I don't think she can do anything good in life. Whereas, the other girl was raised into a great human being who is grateful for what she has and this kind of people in future lives a more Fulfilling life.
For my sweet 16, my parents told me I don’t have to wash dishes that day… we ate from paper plates..
😂
"I'll put on some cocomelon for u." Bahahahahah!😂
Sell the car and use the $ to buy little dude's first car. He was so excited for his sister.
Right?! 😂❤
I hope he doesn’t become entitled.
@@lorilancaster5917i hope he doesn't that would be horrible
That kid was excited for his sister. What a sweetheart. Hopefully, he sees how his sister acts and doesn't do the same. It's pathetic.
That mom created that ungrateful monster. When she says that she’s ungrateful but then says she will see if she can return it and get her a pink Mercedes, what she has really taught her daughter is to throw a fit if she doesn’t get exactly what she wants and mom will get her exactly what she wants. They are both hugely problematic.
I’m guessing the video is just rage bait. I refuse to believe someone could just cave like that
The only pink Mercedes that kid would get would be a match box…
@@margielou6914you are too generous
@@Miss_DistressThen you’re kidding yourself, sadly.
I'd have taken the Tesla back (or kept it for myself) along with the money and spent $16 to buy her a pink plastic toy car.
This is what happens when kids are raised by electronics (phones, iPads, video games) and not raised by their parents. They become addicted, entitled, and don’t learn how to cope with even the slightest discomfort
The omelete guy yelling “shut up” was the best! I wish I could do the same to some spoiled kids I’ve met in public places! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
For my youngest daughter’s ’Sweet Sixteen’, she asked that three or four girls be allowed to spend the night, and that we provide 3 cans of silly string for each of them. She then went door to door in our cul-de-sac and got permission to run in their yards for a silly string fight as long as they picked up the silly string. We shopped for snacks. Cul-de-sac was clear of silly string next morning, and the girls had a blast.
Good, simple fun and y’all cleaned up as well of course y’all had no problem from your neighbors which is a great thing! 👍🏻
now THAT is a sweet sixteen that has pure golden memories! and this is coming from a 17 year old! Tell her happy late birthday from abroad! She sounds sweet and the fact that she did as promised means your doing a good job raising her!
Less is more! There are buckets that can never be full. And other´s that are never going to be empty.
I acted up one time in a store. My mom dropped everything we were going to buy, and we immediately left. I learned real quick that you don’t get what you want by throwing a fit.
i never threw a fit over anything tbh, i was a pretty good kid, the one time i really wanted a plushie i started crying quietly cuz my mum said no... she just walked away and left me there crying...
tho i think she felt bad since i never even complained when she would say no to things, next time we went to the store the plushie was still there, she saw me still looking at it sad and let me have it woo xD
I did that to my kids.
Our kids fought. We said they could have a treat if they were good but they weren’t. They were still expecting a treat at the end but didn’t get it. It was meltdown city. The cashier wanted to give them candy because she felt bad. We said no. They never did it again!
My mom did that all the time.
My mom beat my ass in store when I huffed and folded my arms across my chest after not getting a barbie. I learned that day not to be ungrateful.
Even the dog was astonished and embarrassed in the last bit. 😂😂😂
I received a 1986 BMW for my sweet 16. My grandfather gave it to me from his classic car collection and hand painted the pinstripes for me, and for years, taught me about the car, and cars in general. He doesn't *want me to be an independent woman, but he wants me to be prepared if I need to be. Such a sweet man, unless you like the Boston Red Sucks.
I played UNO with my nephew and subtly help him learn strategy. He told my sister he liked playing with me because “Aunt Mary doesn’t care if she wins or loses, she just likes playing with me.” It made me tear up. Now he is in his 40s
My youngest nephew would plat cribbage with my grandfather (who almost always cheated) so my nephew decided he'd had enough of it, and played something that my grandfather always did, which made him get mad and tell my nephew that he couldn't do that, to which my nephew said, "Why not? You do it all the time." My grandfather got the same look of realization he got when I told him that pinching and poking his grandchildren with sacking needles was not acting his age, and he stopped doing those things. Maybe my youngest aunt (my mother's youngest sister) picked up her game cheating from her dad. She didn't like losing, but sometimes even her cheating didn't help her.
For as far back as I can remember, we played a weird cutthroat/pushover style of UNO if little kids were playing. Like, we'd absolutely hit a kid with a draw 4 if we had to, but then all the adults would do things like "forget" to declare UNO or would draw when we didn't need to so that the kid could then brutalize us right back.
Lol lol I would do the exact OPPOSITE- including doing a "yay I won" dance- and thennnn- when my 2 kids ganged up on me and made me draw SIXTEEN(!!) I was torn between exploding and feeling so damn proud- lol they even did the dance!! And aww they were working together, I was so pissed off and proud at the same time😂😂🤣🤷♀️
A couple I know used to stack the deck so that their child would win at Candy Land every time- and also to make the game shorter. The results of this type of parenting were as expected.
as soon as she said "you can have these gifts back" I would have said ok and taken it back for a refund. Don't want it and behave like that, you get nothing
Thank god I have the most understanding child. He deserves the world and more. I wish I could give him so much, and it’s heartbreaking how understanding he is because it makes me wish even more that I could give him everything. He’s so understanding and empathetic. Such a huge heart. Some people say I’m lucky. It’s not luck, he’s just parented correctly… And I love it when he calls his friends out for how they are treating their mother if he sees a friend act out for not getting something they wanted.
The Billy butcher edit was crazy😂 I’m glad I was born in a lower class family. Having less than has made me appreciate what I get. And it keeps me content with what I have. I am blessed and sometimes it shows and surprises me. One of my friends asked me if I was rich one time. My family is nowhere near close to that. Actually the opposite end of the spectrum. But if you trust Him, miraculous things can happen.
When I was around 10 I got really mad at my mom for not taking me to get ice cream after dance class. She kept telling me no because she wasn’t feeling well. I didn’t find out until many years later that she had had a miscarriage that night. I was so mad at myself, made me feel like the biggest brat.
I am sorry this happened. But I don't think it was your fault or someone else's - don't blame yourself for something you didn't have control over. It is normal to ask mom to take you for ice-cream, especially if you initially had no idea she was unwell.
You were a kid, you didn’t know.
@@themirrorbeauty Thank you for saying that. As kids we don’t really think about the things our parents are going through. I didn’t think I was at fault, I just kinda wish my adult self could go back and put my kid self in check lol.
OMg pls don’t worry, your mom probably forgives you and loves you 😅😅😅
It’s a genuine parenting skill to say “No,” when your kid demands something you either cannot afford, or that would be bad for them. It’s not easy to do, especially when your little angel is throwing a tantrum, and trying to manipulate you. I applaud all parents who stand their ground. We need more people like you.
Honestly yes once i demanded a new fone and my dad didnt give me any thing for weeks so i can learn and i asked for important things like clothes i liked and he bought it hes teaching me to be responsible
I tell my kids no all of the time. If they’re really asking for something consistently, they can do chores to earn the money to buy it or wait for a birthday or Christmas. Small things just because are a thing because I love my kids but not buying them everything they want the second they ask for it.
Kids these days are absolute assholes.
As a parent I want my child to have all the good things BUT I know it's not realistic and it's not healthy so I say no, I give an explanation and an alternative. Such as, if he wants chocolate then I'll ask him to help with taking the dishes out of the dishwasher, or putting clothes into the washing machine (he's 3).
@@maryssaannright?
If we go to a store and there is some toy they like… oh yeah it’s cute honey! But I’m not buying it for you just because?!?
You’ve got your own pocket money wich you are allowed to spend on what ever you want or you go and put it on your birthday/Christmas wish list and we will see if you get it!
But NEVER ever would I buy stuff randomly and just because, not small and not big things! If they really want it they can pay for it with their money (a little weekly allowance given to them) that’s how you teach them how to be responsible and how to take care of their own money.
They will learn to manage their own money and will ask themselves "do I really want this?" Because it’s always easier to spend someone else’s money than yours!
Just buying your child every little thing as soon as they see it? They will think money grows in trees and they are a special little princess that gets everything they ask for "just because".
And that’s not how it goes… you have to work for what you’ve got in this world.
Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t spoil your kid every once in a while and maybe indulge them in a small treat from the store etc… but it is meant to be a small and a rare occasion not an every week thing! That’s how you get a spoiled brat that is ungrateful af.
@@Alta_Potgieter*phone
When i turned 16 july 2011 i got a 95/97 Pontiac Sunfire Red paint a tan cloth interior and the driver side back panel was wrecked (this was an easy fix) and i LOVED that car. My mom was a single mom of 2 doing what she could to make sure we had the things other kids would get. I adore my mom for everything she did for us growing up and still appreciate her now even as shes a grandma to my niece.
In case anyone was wondering how a 16 year old girl could fix a wrecked panel, i in fact asked my mom to buy a 30 pack and paid it to a man down the road who gladly accepted lol
I just love the iconic "how are you not embAArrrAAAAssed?!!??"😂😂
I had a HS student who would throw a tantrum or argue every time she didn't get her way (or thought she was right but wasn't). She told me that that was how she behaved at home. She just kept after her Mom until she got her way. I told her she wasn't at home, and I wasn't her Mom and I just put in ear plugs and kept going. She eventually realized that she looked stupid to the other kids.
Sounds like my daughter actually. She has Oppositional Defiant Disorder and Intermittent Explosive Disorder and she can be extremely difficult to deal with. She makes it to the point that her tantrums are impossible to ignore. She does the same at school. She’s currently in placement by juvenile probation. I miss the hell out of her.
@@Mommy2Amaya This student was very calculated in her behavior until it didn't impress her friends anymore. When she told me about how she argued with her Mom to wear her down to get her way, she was very matter a fact but then no one else was listening to the conversation. I give you respect for having to be in your situation. You can always love them even when you don't always like them.
As a person who grew up privileged I’m disgusted with this mothers decision to buy her daughter a freaking Tesla! I’m so great full to my parents for saying the word “NO” to me… a lot lol. This girl will grow up and life will hit her and swallow her up. This parenting style is extremely damaging in the long run.
Yes, same with me. I’m lucky that my parents have taught me to hear no.
Same my mum has cancer and a broken back from a car accident and my dad was her caregiver as well so we didn’t have a lot of money but I knew if I waited for something I really wanted my parents got it for me instead of screaming I wanted it now.
She will be in a world of pain once she has to fend for herself. But seeing how mom enables her, she will likely be smooching off of her parents until they die (or go broke)
*grateful. And I totally agree.P
When I was growing up and dad was still making big bucks, all I remember is being taught how to SAVE money lol. I never even knew we made a lot until I grew up. Spoiled kids is not abt rich parents, it's abt bad parenting ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
“I think she wants her phone” honestly love the commentary it’s so entertaining to listen to while I’m at work
That first kid is so lucky. I stopped getting birthdays at 13 bc my brother and I had conjoined parties. Once our parents split up we no longer did parties. You can forget about a sweet sixteen
My dad gave my husband and I a used car when our other one died. I tried to pay, he refused. We’ve had our differences, but I will forever be grateful that he did that for us even though he was unhappy with me at the time. The fact he put that aside and did that was so kind. I definitely need to be a better daughter to him
I skim read the first part of your comment and thought it said “My Dad gave me a husband” 😂
If you're already aware of it, you're half way there 😊
My mom did the same thing for me. I too kept trying to pay until she told me that I was the only one of her kids who’d never asked for money as an adult and that she and my dad had loaned thousands of dollars to my siblings over the years. She said if I had to pay, give her a dollar…which I did. 🥰
All I can say is that these parents are dealing with the consequences of their actions!!! Don't spoil them excessively, and they won't be brats!!!
Exactlyyy. Anyone blaming the kids and hating on them shouldn't have kids. Parents are there to PARENT. If you choose to be a bad parent, you've gotta deal with the consequences.
yup she created the mess. so the parent is just to blame as much as that one kid
Some kids will end up being terrible people regardless, frustratingly.
You could do everything possible to make them a good person, and they’ll still be an entitled asshole.
Watching this made me realize how spoiled I used to be and how bad it sounds to hear your teenager throw a tantrum. I promise to NEVER do that again.
7:10 Kid's quoting Matilda - man's gonna show that kid exactly what that movie was about
I didn't know there was a surcharge fee for bad parenting until now. I recently saw a news story here in the US that a restaurant in Georgia charged parents a fee for their misbehaved children.
🙌🏻 genius! Wish we could do that in schools!
They didn’t really. They just put that so the parents could see. There isn’t a surcharge for bad parenting. There should be…lol.
That's a genius idea!!
YES !!!!! I'M ALL ABOUT THIS!!! That is coming from a woman with five children who never misbehaved in public as young as they were to as old as they were. My husband and I did not play that.
Every business should have that….and not just for children but for adults too.
I’m 39. My surrogate parents gave me a van that’s as old as my (almost) 18 year old daughter. It moved me to tears. I’m beyond grateful for them, so are my children
My dad brought home car brochures for me from the time I was 16 because I didn't want to drive. He would have bought me any sort of mid priced nice car I had wanted and I was just like, I do not want to drive! lol I didn't drive until I was 20 and it probably saved him a fortune. My sister wrecked 3 cars before she was out of high school! He didn't have to drive me anywhere, my friends did that. He was an airline pilot, so he made good money. He insisted on buyin me a new car when I was about 25-26 before he retired because he was just like "let me do this for you before I retire!" I'm 48, he's probably still going to give me money for xmas even though I tell him not to! I got most everything I wanted growing up, but I think because I grew up in a military family and travelled around, I saw how much other people didn't have and I watched the news every night, I just knew I had it good and always appreciated it.
What a sweet gift! I bet it runs well too. I would love to have a van. I live on 20 acres in a very rural area with goats, chickens, and other animals, so a van would be ideal for hauling feed bags and some new baby goats
I was 22 when my dad gave me his old car in 1983. It was a 1970 4-door Oldsmobile land yacht with a few dents and no AC. It was beige. Even my grandmother said it was boring!
It ran great because dad was a stickler about maintenance. In fact, while I was a teenager he would ask me to "help" him with repairs such as replacing brakes (I helped by bleeding the brakes while he described the process of changing brake pads and getting rotors turned instead of replacing them). He showed me the radiator cooling system and taught me how to put a hose clamp on a cracked hose to stop a leak, taught me which fluids go where and how to check correctly and often, and the proper names and locations for various parts. I'm so grateful for that now because I can describe car problems to a mechanic without sounding like a complete idiot.
As a teen I wasn't interested in owning a car because I was scared of all the things that can go wrong. I figured I'd only work at jobs that were close enough to ride my bicycle to. However, those weekends hanging out with dad and talking about life are some of my most treasured memories. I learned much more than vehicle maintenance.
When I was 22 I applied for a tech job that I didn't feel qualified for, and to my shock, I was hired! It was 12 miles away so I wasn't looking forward to riding my bike that far but it's good exercise and I'd be stupid not to take the job!
Mom and Dad congratulated me and said they wanted to take me out to dinner downtown to celebrate, but he's not sure if there's enough gas in the tank so would I mind driving it to the station down the street to fill it up while they got ready? Um, okay, strange request, especially since we usually took Mom's car because it was nicer but sure...
I came back, told them the car had more than half a tank already but I filled it the rest of the way, and here's your keys back, Dad.
Dad said, "Those aren't MY keys! They're yours!"
I looked out at that beat-up Oldsmobile hoopty in the driveway that was as stylish as a bowl of plain oatmeal and burst into the "ugly cry" of joy. I've never felt more loved in my life! At that moment it dawned on me that Dad spent all those weekends teaching me so that by the time I was ready for a car I'd feel more confident in my abilities. He also wanted me to have the safest car possible and I didn't care that it was "uncool" to my friends. They changed their minds when they realized it could carry 7 people comfortably. I wouldn't have traded it for a Mercedes!
Did you call it The Mystery Machine?
@@johntracy72 no…but now I’m definitely going to! Best idea EVER!
There is a van I’ve seen around the Santa Cruz California area decked out as the mystery machine. Identical! They did such a good job
I mean, in this economy, any car will do 😂
Makes me so happy that my kids are not overly spoiled. They're spoiled enough to know they have more than some but not enough that they forget that. I wanted to give my kids more than I had growing up and maybe I'm lucky but they've always been grateful for what they have. When my husband lost his job are we bought a new house, I ended up having to make some gifts for my daughter. This was several years ago and she still has those gifts and says she loves them.
The woman in the first video was my FREAKING BOSS FOR MY COLLEGE INTERSHIP!!!!! I AM NOT EVEN JOKING! LOLOOLOL
What kind of money did she make? Holey crap! That was a middle-class neighborhood, not rich. who has 50k lying around to buy a car for your kid? Making 100,000k a year doesn't pay for that king of luxury?
I was a spoiled and entitled brat when I was younger because my parents just didnt want to deal with me. They gave me what I wanted whenever I'd cry so I had an attitude. Then my grandma got her hands on me and changed that behavior real quick. Now I'm much more appreciative of what I do have and do not mourn the person my parents were turning me into.
I have two friends whose parents neglected them this way, including giving them candy whenever they wanted, and both have horrid dental issues as adults because of it. So many little details of their lives would have been much better if their parents had been patient and said no and taught them good habits :(
How did your grandma help you? Currently dealing with nieces travelling down the same path and would appreciate any advice 🥲
U were blessed to get disciplined by ur grandmother. I'm the oldest of 2 sisters. And both my younger sisters were spoiled. Even today they are adults living free off of my parents and not working. 28 and 30. I'm 32. I had to work for everything i had. And even then I got nothing really because my parents were toxic narcissist and were abusive to me on top of neglect. (Seriously I was in a cinderella life until i moved out) Needless to say however, despite all that, taught me to be humble and appreciate everything I got and earned. My sisters have no idea what the real world is like and have no people skills.
I have a niece who would throw fits when she didn't get her way. Her parents always gave in and let her do what she wanted. One time, we were playing her Wii game on my projector. She decided none of the rest of us could play because it was her game, so she didn't have to share. So I walked over and turned off the projector and said, this is my projector and I don't want to share it. That was the end of that.
bless your grandma
For my sweet 16, I was taken to a public event at a Japanese tea house and garden, and then a Japanese restaurant for dinner. It was an affordable celebration, but my best friend came along for both parts, and I will never forget how fun it was 🥰
My mom took me and a friend to the movies and lunch. Sadly the friendship wasn't strong enough to last past HS, but still it was a nice celebration, just the three of us.
Not an addict; just a sober, p*ssed Momma!
11:44 was a perfect example of “Cash is king”
"I'll put on sum coco melon shush shush shush!!!" 😂🤣💀 Very appropriate for a baby having a boredom fit
I can’t stop laughing over the sweet 16 bday. And here I was feeling guilty as a kid when I was sad over my bday gift. I asked for a necklace for my 13th and dad got me a ceiling fan 😐 when we moved 6 years later I made him take it down and bring it to the new house where i made him install it in my new room because it was a bday gift after all it was not staying in the house for someone else…he learned his lesson and never gave any of us weird gifts again so now I just laugh over it 🤭
Nice one!
That was still a nice gift 😂
I would like a ceiling fan😂
I can see the older you get, the more you appreciated the ceiling fan 😂
why do men????
I’ve been gifted two cars in my life-a 2009 Camry and then a 2009 CRV when the Camry broke down. And I loved both so much. Just having a car that works is a blessing.
Dude, CRV’s are the best! I got my mom’s 08 CRV and I kept it for years. I loved that car 💗
I'm using my dad's 20 year old car to go to work but just to have a working car is already a huge blessing!
Same here😅 damn i have a toyota corolla from 1999😅 love it🙈😅
I remember a single mom worked extra hard to buy her daughter a waterbed for Christmas (back when waterbeds were coveted). She wanted to put $500 in the Christmas card. The lady worked really hard, and it was not easy, considering her circumstances, to raise the money. She had a second part-time job. She managed to get the waterbed and the card with $500. The lady sound so sad when she said her daughter asked, "Is that all?"
Kid can have a win but they get an ego you must CRUSH THEM 🤣🤣
This is exactly why you NEVER spoil your children. They don't learn the value of money that way. They don't learn that things have to be earned, and that there is more to life than material possessions
So true. My son when he was little was limited to Hot Wheels and Matchbox airplane toys if it wasn't Christmas or his birthday. And only when he was super well behaved, did great in school etc. They were rewards. And he loved them and played. When my husband lost contracts I'd tell our son "time to reign in spending right now until Dad gets another contract". And now he's paying his way through college and will finish debt free.
Our family tradition is that the birthday person chooses which local restaurant they want to go to for dinner. For my 16th, I invited my BFF to join us. We went out to Basque food, with cake and ice cream at home afterward. Yes, there's gifts etc., but it isn't all about that. The time spent with friends and family has always been more important.
🙄fk family and friends this ain't no hallmark movie or disney movie.
This is exactly what my family does too
Same with my family, a special meal for a special day!
CHARLOTTES FACE WHEN THEY SHOOT THE CONNSOLE ISTG
The sheer number of young people who are incapable of processing emotions without having a full on screaming tantrum is mind-boggling
I wish I could’ve gotten something like that when I turned 16. All I got was appendicitis and almost being put in foster care. I wish people were more grateful for the positive lives they have.
Same!!!
If she doesn't like it as a car, she can enjoy it as an apartment with that attitude.
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Me too!
I wish I had gotten something for my 16th birthday. I didn't get anything. Not even a happy birthday
That video of the girl and the car literally made me feel ill. I don't even care how rich her parents are. That is so beyond disgusting behavior I cannot.
where is madea when we need her?
Riiiight?! And the mother at the end SAYING she'd have to get the pink BMW at the end?!!!! WTF? (if it was my kid I'd take the money back, and sell the car and she gets nothing else ALL YEAR after that as well ... then on Christmas, or her 17th, I'd get the same car and money again .... and so on every birthday/christmas until the kid is humble, reticent and grateful)
She'd buy her own car
That’s why the dad had so many +4,+2 and reverse in his hand.. He was trying to let her win by not playing these cards but nope once the child starts acting like they’re better.. the cards come out!! 😂
Thanks again for your amazing content, Charlotte!
Re: your question about games
I’m a mum and we are just entering an age when we can start to play some card and board games. I do the mix of both: when it’s late in a day and I can see that my kid is starting to get tired, I don’t push it and make sure he wins, but if we play on the weekends, morning or mid-day I play fair as he is usually very good (esp. If game is based on good memory or reflex) and he learns how to handle it. It’s a great proccess too as you actually witness your kids growth:experiencing emotions, learning to handle them and finally choosing that a great time together is what he actually craves anyway. Also if you always wins and hv easy wins you dont really get the satisfaction and the game itself gets less interesting.
The way the mother tries to pacify her tells you everything you need to know as to why she behaves like that. The very first time she moaned those keys would have been in hand and the money in my purse and she would be walking everywhere
I have a sneaking suspicion that the 16 yr old will act this way to the wrong person & get SLAPPED into reality IMMEDIATELY lol. And I’m here for it. So many are raising thoughtless, entitled, self absorbed narcissists & that isn’t a flex…. It’s destroying our bloody society 🤦🏼♀️🙄
Here's hoping 🤞🏼
Sick metal vocals on the girl who wants her phone lol
4:28 And that right there is the explanation why you’re daughter is as spoilt as she is. You are not parenting! Don’t blame your child for being the way YOU raised her!
When I was 16 going to the movie theater was an amazing gift! GOT TO BLAME THE PARENTS FOR THAT LEVEL OF ENTITLEMENT!
When my son quit school on Friday and I was leaving out on Sunday He was in the truck and the Miami to do harm work. Then went payday rollaround he was paying his mother room and board
Man, being a teenager in the early 2010s was truly a bless. We had phones, but it was nothing like those kids. It's an addiction, for sure.
Agreed
It looked more like an autism meltdown that girl, as a mother of an autistic child she acted very similar to him
I agree. One of my friend's was a teacher & she had her students put their phones on her desk at the beginning of class. For the 1st few weeks her students were fidgety & jittery. Before the end of the semester they were forgetting to pick up their phones. She had to start reminding them. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
@monicaavendano5553 as an autistic person I can tell you I never behaved that way. My meltdowns went inward and I didn't have a phone to act this way over.
The thing that comes closest was maybe forgetting my Teddy in vacation and my parents went back to pick it up. The people we were travelling with didn't get it but I was calm and greatful after. I also still have the Teddy.
Granted, I mostly couldn't have outward meltdowns because it wasn't safe, but even now the go inward. Which is apparently more common in women and girls.
If it is an autism meltdown I wonder what she really needs, because the phone would most likely be a stimming tool
@@monicaavendano5553sometimes people are just assholes
My daughter gets emotional when I hand write her notes for her birthday. She’s still only 8 but every year she asks for drawings or notes from people and keeps them ALL. The only toy she wanted for Christmas was a pink jumprope lol I can’t ever imagine her acting like that
Losing builds character 😂😂died
Wow. For my 16th birthday, my mother gave me her deceased mother's jewelry case, and it was the best thing ever. I'm 28 now and still guard it with my life. I CANNOT imagine being so entitled or spoiled.
That’s a beautiful gift!
I treasure when given a family heirloom.
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For my 16th birthday, I got a Carvel Ice Cream cake like I did every year. It was a birthday tradition.
$1600 is more than a lot of people make in a month. Un freaking believable.
That mom should put her to work and realize people make actually less than that after taxes, can confirm. I make 19/hr which is pretty good for most people and the check comes out 1,100 after taxes.
Man that's more than I make in a month and a half. Her child is a massive b*tch and shouldn't get a pink car. Make her work for that car
A spoiled little monster,but mommy made her that way,
@@darcy5761 True dat
With the kid getting his playstation taken away reminds of the greatest freakout kid on youtube. lol
5:55 Long overdue to take that kid’s PlayStation! Wow, so spoilt!
As someone who had to work to buy my own car, I have to say that this parent is the problem with kids today. They hand their kids everything then wonder why they're spoiled brats and ungrateful.
I've bought every car with cash, starting at $500 for my first one at age 20. For reference, I'm 55 now.
The mother is the reason the daughter is like that. And the fact that the mother is even remotely thinking about getting her another car is beyond me. The mom deserves everything she gets.
The mom's getting a Tesla...
💯 👍%
True the mom deserves whatever consequences her poor parenting will bring. But society doesn't.
I got my mom’s CRV. I don’t even think it was specifically a sweet 16 gift, or a birthday gift. She needed me to be able to pick up my younger sister from afterschool if she was running late, and drive myself to dance class. I loved that car so much 💗💗
Actually, I was told that I got a car on my 16th birthday - my grandfather’s old copper colored jeep. And I definitely might have threatened to blow torch it 😂😂 my parents knew how much I hated that car, so they had been teasing me with it before my birthday
The girl with the car floored me. When I turned 16 (in 1984) my dad brought home a 1978 Plymouth Horizon. I was so excited to just HAVE a car of my own. I worked and made the payments on the car ($86/month). My parents paid the insurance and gave me a gas allowance each week for school. I was so happy I remember jumping up and down with joy. I would NEVER have said, "I didn't want..." NO NO NO Mom, don't give in to her tantrum. If Mom did/does swap the car, well, we know where the 16-year-old learned her entitled behavior.
I wouldn't shoot the PlayStation. I'd keep it for myself and make my child watch ME play his PlayStation. When my kids were little, I'd let them win maybe 1 time out of 10 times. Most of the time I didn't have to let them win - they won all on their own
When I was 8 years old I rejected a gift because my father bought a gift that I hated, and I regretted it so much as soon as I saw my father's sad face, it became one of my biggest regrets in life and of course I apologized several times and I've never done anything like that since.
I’m happy you immediately rectified your mistake.
Same. He got me a princess dress and I said it looks like a fish. Gave it away to cousin. Biggest regret ever for being so insensitive. He's no more.
The hardest thing in the world for a parent to learn is saying no! I've cried downstairs while my sons were crying upstairs but the answer remained the same. Yes, I'm bragging, I have three wonderful grown up sons who would give the shirt off their backs to help someone in need. They treat everyone with respect and are absolute gentleman. I can honestly say that tantrums ended pretty quickly in my house. I'd tell them to have at it and let me know when they were done lol. Even outside, if my 2/3 yr old was having a tantrum on the floor, I would just stand by them and tell people, don't mind us, we're just having a learning moment. Once they figure out that screaming doesn't work, they give up, but you give in? well, that's the rest of their childhood spent screaming lol
That’s parenting done right!!! Well done!!! 🥰👏🏾💯
Thank you for putting in the difficult yet necessary work to raise good men. I wish everyone did this for their sons.
My children knew that they could not even dream of a tantrum inside or outside. Wot a lousy parent stands by the kids when they are outside on the floor in public??,
I used to babysit for three siblings, so much so that I started functioning as a third parent. The thing I hated most about that job is that the parents always gave in to the kids eventually, so they would try to wear my down after I had said no multiple times. The worst part was when the parents came home, they said no as well, but then always ended up saying yes. The next babysitting job I took, I made sure that my parenting views aligned with my client's parenting views!
I used to dress my kids in overalls a lot in winter and once when my then 3 yr old daughter threw a tantrum in a store and threw herself to the floor, I just used the straps on the back of the overalls like handles and picked her up like a handbag, left my trolley where it was and started walking out of the shop. She was so surprised she instantly shut up and asked where we were going. I said we were going home because I didn't want to be seen with such a badly behaved child which was sad because usually you are so good at the shops. She then started to beg me to put her down so we could go back and she promised she she would behave.
I only had to do it once... and we did go home. My kids know that when I say something like NO... I mean it.
Parents don't help their children express and regulate their emotions then be shocked when they have emotional reactions
I got a 72 VW bug for my 21st in 1988, that my dad paid half for. I was grateful beyond words. For my Sweet 16, all I got was a card with $20. And I was HAPPY!
I think we’re all in agreement with “Sweet 16” girl. Mom is raising a spoiled kid, which is going to carry over into adulthood. Yeah, take the car back to get another. She is part of the problem. That $1600 would mean a lot to most of us.
My 16th, my two good friends came over. Had a sleepover. Ordered them food and I ate “blendered” Chef Boyardee. I had just had jaw surgery (one of too many) a week before my birthday.
I bet you were happier with your two real friends than that girl is.
Sure , take the car back and get her a pink Mercedes, a plastic Barbie one!
I am pretty sure that I got nothing for my 16th birthday. In fact, for most of my birthdays I considered myself lucky to get a birthday cake and sometimes a card. Even those stopped by the age of 12 or 13. As a young adult my parents would take my Mom, sister and I out for a “shared birthday dinner” as all of our birthdays are in the same month - usually on my sister’s birthday as it was first up. My birthday was 2 days after my Mom’s birthday, which my Dad always remembered and asked me to pick up a gift for her. But by the time my birthday rolled around (literally 2 days later - every year!) it was often forgotten because “we already celebrated this month”. So no cake, no card, no Happy Birthday wishes - nothing.
I learned early that my life events were not a priority for my family. Lesson learned and not forgotten!
Same reality here. If I didn't learn to DROP my expectations by 90%, I would've been very unhappy.@@judycroteau482
As a mother of 2, I can confirm that every now and then a lil humbling needs to happen. But yes, I do let them win. Need to find the balance between building up their self esteem but not letting them get an ego. It's a fine line sometimes.
You let them win but sometimes you have to let them lose so they can learn HOW to lose like a winner. Being a bad sport was just not allowed in my parents home. If you lost, you lost with a smile, you shook hands or gave a hug or whatever, no throwing down cards and stomping away. You might toss them down with an "aw...damn! You beat me!" But it would be with good humour. I grew up playing cards with adults (euchre, 500, canasta, poker, blackjack, cribbage etc) snooker, pool, billiards etc and if you wanted to be allowed to play you had to act like a grown up and not throw a hissy fit if you lost OR prance around if you won.
I was once playing poker with a guy who plays regularly for money and I kept cleaning him out. I was out bluffing him and even when he did beat me, I lost with a smile and it just threw him off his game. The last hand I actually had a superb hand and went all in, he thought I was bluffing and I won the lot and he was almost in tears. Losing with a smile is a great way to out psyche your opponent as well as being a good way of living your life.
God bless you in the name of Jesus Christ, who is the name above all names & the only way to Heaven❤
That second girl had me so mad…. “Worst birthday ever”. I literally spent my 18th birthday alone in a park because I lost my apartment. They have no idea how bad things can get. And honestly what happened to me isn’t even that bad in the grand scheme of things. Horrible attitude
Charolotte: *aggressively shoving ipad* here take it! I'll put on some cocomelon lmao 🤣
I would have cried tears of gratitude if my parents got me a car, and if I would have seen the cash, I'd be sobbing 😮
same i would have been speechless with that much money LET ALONE A CAR, little miss like "that's all?" never in all my days.
Oh please! If my parents would have given me a car on my 16th birthday, I would have suspected dad of robbing a bank.
My sweet 16 was 36 inch Poulan chainsaw so that I could work better BY MYSELF! when cutting down trees for firewood cause Dad could not stand the smell of propane from the gas heater. It made it hard for him to breath and we couldn't afford to have it fixed. So it was wood heater or freeze.
I’m completely appalled by the sweet 16 gift situation.. that was a real slap in the face for the mom!! She’s definitely raising a narcissist and it’s disgusting to see!! 🤬💔
I felt bad for the mum right untill the end of that clip where she says ‘ I guess I’ll take back the car and see if I can find her a pink Mercedes ‘ excuse me what?? You see your child is so spoiled and ungrateful to the point of ridiculousness , and your answer is to reward her and give her what she wants? That mum is creating a monster. I have no sympathy
I'm a former child abuse investigator. I am a huge advocate for children's rights. I would have called children and family services that day and told them to come and get my daughter. To quote Charlotte "ABSOLUTELY NOT!"
@@Laura-mi3nv
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A 2000 Honda Civic for her - and take the money back.
Maybe she should put the phone away! And focus on mothering!
I work in an emergency room and I witnessed a tantrum identical to that "I want my phone" one a couple weeks ago from a full grown adult.
I have grown daughters and I can diagnose the problem here...these brats weren't disciplined as children
I love it when Charlotte throws her head back, with one hand in the air, in a slicing tomato action, while saying out loud; “how are you not embarrassed!” It makes me laugh out loud every darn time. The added echo affects are perfect for it!😂😂😂 thank you!
* slicing potato action
It is iconic
6:44 when Charlotte mentioned she is corrupting our minds and gave that giggle, I was thinking "no babes, it is a mental cleanse, you are cleansing mind body and souls" with hilarity.
My first car was a 1991 oldsmobile Toronado that previously sat in a barn for seven years after being driven by my grandparenta and parents. I loved that boat of a car
8:07 As a Mom. We let 'em win. But when they get cocky with it, that's when you gotta show 'em who's boss 😂