Thank you for sharing the dating insights! Indeed, there are a lot of cultural differences when it comes to dating in Japan. Can you do an episode on what is considered rude in Japanese culture, can be related to anything. For example, while eating, out with friends, etc. Thank you!😺
Thank you so much for the episode, I really enjoyed it! 😊 I was wondering if it might be possible to lower the music volume just a little so your voice comes through more clearly? Also, I think the podcast could be even better if the English subtitles were moved to the RUclips subtitles feature. That way, viewers could decide for themselves whether they want to use them. Personally, I find it a bit tricky not to read the English version. I would love to hear about the school system in Japan! 😊 Thank you again!
"even better if the English subtitles were moved to the RUclips subtitles feature" - I agree. I'm trying to listen to and understand the Japanese, but my eyes keep jumping to the English words.
I seeーーー… It’s a bit difficult for the next time, but I’ll think about how to add subtitles in the video after that! The Japanese school system is really interesting.
I seeーーー… It’s a bit difficult for the next time, but I’ll think about how to add subtitles in the video after that! The Japanese school system is really interesting.
Excellent advice on dating a Japanese woman. I'll keep that in mind. My approach is taking things slow to get to know someone. Seeing if we have similar interests in food, hobbies, goals, etc. Thank you for making the time to create this video! ❤ 日本人女性とのデートに関する優れたアドバイス。そのことを心に留めておきます。私のアプローチは、誰かを知るために物事をゆっくりと進めることです。 食べ物、趣味、目標などに同じような興味を持っているかどうかを確認します。この動画を作成するために時間を割いていただき、ありがとうございます!❤
Thank you as well 😊 You always send me money, and I can’t express how grateful I am for that. Thanks to someone like you, I’m able to continue my work. I truly appreciate it.🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️
This type of relationship is 2 levels. The relationship, and the cultural differences. Many foreign men go to Japan with wrong idea . And possible too, many Japanese women also have wrong idea. So this kind of relationship has to click from the beginning, where each person just feels something and it's worth the effort to make it work. Good video on Japanese dating. 🙂
Another very good video Yurichan! This was very helpful and wise advice. I feel serious people should be respectful enough to create a good relationship slowly. I feel this has a better chance of standing the test of time if you know what I am saying. I might also suggest that there are at least a couple good subjects here for a couple video interviews of people on the street. It would be good to get a random sample for your audience on these matters of dating, confessions, cultural exchange, and thoughts on romance in general. Your little pink desk friend is very cute; nice touch. Thank you very much for another interesting podcast. またまたとても良いビデオゆりちゃんです！ これは非常に有益で賢明なアドバイスでした。 真面目な人は敬意を払い、ゆっくりと良い関係を築いていくべきだと思います。 私の言っていることを理解していただければ、これは時間の試練に耐えられる可能性が高いと思います。 また、路上で人々にインタビューするいくつかのビデオに、少なくとも 2 つの良い主題があることを提案するかもしれません。 デート、告白、文化交流、恋愛全般についての考えなどについて、視聴者にランダムなサンプルを提供するとよいでしょう。 あなたの小さなピンク色の机のお友達はとてもかわいいです。いい感じ。またまた興味深いポッドキャストをありがとうございました。
While there are many ways to meet people, and there are many reasons for people to be together, one thing that I think is important is to share a common interest or hobby. It's very helpful even if it isn't essential. So one way to meet people is to find some kind of group or meeting place where people with that interest come together. It can be online, but of course it's easier to meet people face to face if it's in person. Now suppose you find someone who is interesting at such a meeting; what next? 'ellifiknow 🙂 But, importantly, don't build up your feelings before finding out if that person is available and able to go out. And going back to what's mentioned in the video: do communicate (both your question and your intention). That's the most important.
I've noticed your opinion are not much any different from the other Japanese RUclipsrs. But still your take is very much welcome. Not that I have any chance at all on dating a Japanese woman.
As an American guy, the Japanese style of "confessing" to a woman feels so cringe. If you said many of those things to an American woman she'd get scared and run away instantly. I think probably only boys between 12 and 18 "confess" to a girl, or ask a girl to go out. It feels like, in America, it's assumed that adults will be good at indirectly communicating (probably a bad assumption).
While not necessarily my prefered topic, i bet it's a good one for generating some audience. That was a really enjoyable video and i really liked your style/way of talking. Towards the end i think the english subtitles were a bit ahead? Or maybe it just didn"t fit correctly.
kung marunong lang ako magsalita ng nihongo at may kadate na isang haponesa ay kakain kami ng street food katulad ng takuyaki at sasakay kami ng rickshaw..
English doesn't make sense lol. It's called "make a friend" so by the same analogy it should be make a girlfriend right? What's funnier is that "get" might sound more serious but it's actually less. To make someone your friend, that sounds like an ongoing process that doesn't magically happen. To get a girlfriend sounds like you're just searching for the fastest way to obtain one.
When I have dated, I’m always very conscious about being respectful. I feel things deeply and I am very careful with peoples feelings as well as protecting my own.
I would be sure to text you daily, Yuriko! I don't think it will be very realistic for me to get a Japanese girlfriend in Japan considering where I live and where I am at in life right now. I do, however, enjoy the content. This is great information to know. Your production and voice are great which is much appreciated. I find that in USA, women definitely do not like if you confess right away! Some do actually like it and find it refreshing (because they are not used to it). They tend to like the mystic, the question, am I dating or where it's going. I do not like this. I think directly communicating how you feel makes sense. I see more romanticism in actually confessing feelings rather than the fear of the unknown. I feel that this is a foundational reason why so many Westerners are generally unhappy in many different relationships, short or long-term. There are many sensibilities that I like about what you shared here.
1. Do the 3 dates need to be back-to-back (consecutively) before confessing? Or can it be spread out? For example, 1st date is Monday. 2nd date is Wednesday. 3rd date is Saturday. Or is that not recommended? 2. I agree that communicating with that potential love interest in Japan is important. However, I fear that daily constant communication may come off as clingy or desperate that may rub off Japanese girls the wrong way, and they may end up not responding back. I’m of the same opinion that communication with them every 2 or 3 days is good like you suggested. 3. Finding someone through SNS, eh… to be honest, it’s hard. I can’t remember who said this. I think it was you. I’ll have to find the video. Anyway, when it comes to finding love interest through social media or dating apps, we’re evaluating someone’s worth via pictures, swiping left or right, and not getting to know them in person. So, sometimes online dating apps and SNS aren’t for everyone and we’re not being fair on judging someone through pictures only. Well, I can’t speak for everyone, but it’s definitely not for me. I’d very much do the meeting in person. It’s gonna be a few years until I return to Japan for my 2nd trip, so I guess I don’t have a choice but to consider doing online apps if I don’t feel like waiting. 4. After the 3rd date, a confession is definitely something that is expected. By Japanese society standards or tradition, girls want guys to make the first move. I’d imagine that if the guy, whether he’s Japanese or foreigner, doesn’t confess then the Japanese girl won’t know where they stand, and the guy (most likely a foreigner) will probably assume that they are a couple. And that will lead to a lot of confusion on both sides. Or so I heard. 5. Thank you so much for your input. I took a lot of detailed notes on what to do and what not to do. I want to find love in Japan and I don’t want to be that dumb American 🇺🇸 that makes a mistake.😅😅 Most of all, thank you so much for using my topic suggestion and making it a video. I am truly happy. ❤ What was your experience with dating? If you don’t mind me asking. What did you like/don’t like? What’s the key to a long lasting relationship for marriage? I do have another topic suggestion. What is “chatting up”? How do we avoid that if we want to find love in person instead of dating apps and SNS? What are the big NO NO’s? Sorry for the long paragraph. 😅😅
I am in a successful 6-months relationship with a Japanese woman. If the girl has lived abroad or has experience dating foreigners usually “Japanese dating rules” don’t apply. For example, there’s no kokuhaku, you can be more relaxed with physical contact (even sleeping together on the first date), and they will be more open about their feelings (no tatemae).
Speak Japanese. I'm not joking, haha. I'm serious. Being able to speak Japanese is the best, especially when you need to convey your feelings and intentions-unless she speaks English. I didn't understand the three dates well. I went out with my girlfriend five or six times, I think, before I asked her. I did the kokuhaku, which is interesting. She made me get on my knees. I met her mom, and we went to dinner. Because I can speak, we could do a lot of things and of course, she would be more relaxed. My case is different, I speak with her every day, which is interesting. Our relationship is different from what I'm used to but I love her, so I will do my best. She's two years older than me, I'm 23 and she's 25, but I don't think there is any problem with it. Thank you Yuri-san, be careful and I wish a great week for you.
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Good evening! Thank you for always watching!!
I'll be doing a RUclips live tonight at 10 PM, so feel free to join if you’d like!☺
Eeeergh 8 hours of difference. :( I missed it.
I assume this was at 8 AM my time (New York) this morning, so I missed it. But I don't see any "Live" tab on your channel. How can I see these?
@@Mueller3D I can't see them either.
Another great video from you. Lots of important information. Keep up the great videos
Thanks, will do!☺️☺️☺️
Thank you for sharing the dating insights! Indeed, there are a lot of cultural differences when it comes to dating in Japan.
Can you do an episode on what is considered rude in Japanese culture, can be related to anything. For example, while eating, out with friends, etc. Thank you!😺
Ah!! That's a good topic!! I'll try🙂↕️
Thank You Yurichan, a very informative video with lots of great advice. 🙂
I'm glad you enjoyed it! 😄
👏👏Another clever podcast! I admire your insight and intelligence. Very good, podcast young lady! 🙂
Thank you☺️
Thank you so much for the episode, I really enjoyed it! 😊 I was wondering if it might be possible to lower the music volume just a little so your voice comes through more clearly? Also, I think the podcast could be even better if the English subtitles were moved to the RUclips subtitles feature. That way, viewers could decide for themselves whether they want to use them. Personally, I find it a bit tricky not to read the English version.
I would love to hear about the school system in Japan! 😊 Thank you again!
"even better if the English subtitles were moved to the RUclips subtitles feature" - I agree. I'm trying to listen to and understand the Japanese, but my eyes keep jumping to the English words.
I seeーーー…
It’s a bit difficult for the next time, but I’ll think about how to add subtitles in the video after that!
The Japanese school system is really interesting.
I seeーーー…
It’s a bit difficult for the next time, but I’ll think about how to add subtitles in the video after that!
The Japanese school system is really interesting.
Thank you for your valuable opinion!☺️
プロデューサーは、あなたの楽しみのためにエロティックなコンテンツのムードとして音楽を使用することになります。 それを中傷しないでください。 ポルノビデオみたいに。 わかりますか？ プレゼンテーションに流動性を加えます。 大丈夫ですか、巡礼者さん？
Excellent advice on dating a Japanese woman. I'll keep that in mind. My approach is taking things slow to get to know someone. Seeing if we have similar interests in food, hobbies, goals, etc. Thank you for making the time to create this video! ❤
日本人女性とのデートに関する優れたアドバイス。そのことを心に留めておきます。私のアプローチは、誰かを知るために物事をゆっくりと進めることです。 食べ物、趣味、目標などに同じような興味を持っているかどうかを確認します。この動画を作成するために時間を割いていただき、ありがとうございます!❤
Thank you as well 😊
You always send me money, and I can’t express how grateful I am for that.
Thanks to someone like you, I’m able to continue my work. I truly appreciate it.🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️
This type of relationship is 2 levels. The relationship, and the cultural differences. Many foreign men go to Japan with wrong idea . And possible too, many Japanese women also have wrong idea. So this kind of relationship has to click from the beginning, where each person just feels something and it's worth the effort to make it work. Good video on Japanese dating. 🙂
I love the topic so much. Would you please make topic "how to make a Japanese boyfriend"❤.ありがとうねゆりちゃん
I will try my best ☺️
Another very good video Yurichan! This was very helpful and wise advice. I feel serious people should be respectful enough to create a good relationship slowly. I feel this has a better chance of standing the test of time if you know what I am saying.
I might also suggest that there are at least a couple good subjects here for a couple video interviews of people on the street. It would be good to get a random sample for your audience on these matters of dating, confessions, cultural exchange, and thoughts on romance in general. Your little pink desk friend is very cute; nice touch. Thank you very much for another interesting podcast.
またまたとても良いビデオゆりちゃんです！ これは非常に有益で賢明なアドバイスでした。 真面目な人は敬意を払い、ゆっくりと良い関係を築いていくべきだと思います。 私の言っていることを理解していただければ、これは時間の試練に耐えられる可能性が高いと思います。
また、路上で人々にインタビューするいくつかのビデオに、少なくとも 2 つの良い主題があることを提案するかもしれません。 デート、告白、文化交流、恋愛全般についての考えなどについて、視聴者にランダムなサンプルを提供するとよいでしょう。 あなたの小さなピンク色の机のお友達はとてもかわいいです。いい感じ。またまた興味深いポッドキャストをありがとうございました。
I'm glad you enjoyed it!☺️☺️☺️
なんて素晴らしい！あとは字幕付きで話してくれる人を見つけるだけだね😁
はははははは🤣🤣🤣in the future🤣
Step 1: Find a way to move to Japan. 🤔
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
めっちゃ重要なトピックですね！😅
Thank you 😊
While there are many ways to meet people, and there are many reasons for people to be together, one thing that I think is important is to share a common interest or hobby. It's very helpful even if it isn't essential. So one way to meet people is to find some kind of group or meeting place where people with that interest come together. It can be online, but of course it's easier to meet people face to face if it's in person. Now suppose you find someone who is interesting at such a meeting; what next? 'ellifiknow 🙂 But, importantly, don't build up your feelings before finding out if that person is available and able to go out. And going back to what's mentioned in the video: do communicate (both your question and your intention). That's the most important.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts!☺️
✌️🙏👋 peace & blessings good to see you you!
Thank you☺️💚
Interesting!!
Thank you! 😊
I've noticed your opinion are not much any different from the other Japanese RUclipsrs. But still your take is very much welcome. Not that I have any chance at all on dating a Japanese woman.
hallo kak, salam dari indonesia
Hello☺️
Nice podcast. I would like a Japanese girlfriend so this is helpful! 😊
I hope it helps you find one! 😄
@@i.am.yurichan Thank you 🙂↕️
❤ hahaha 🇨🇵🙇je suis en g, et japonais je t'aime ✨🙆🙆🙆🙇🌹
ありがとう😊
Single forever. Dating is just problematic. Spending such a times and amount of money into dating, I feel like better to treat myself
🤣🤣🤣🤣🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️
As an American guy, the Japanese style of "confessing" to a woman feels so cringe. If you said many of those things to an American woman she'd get scared and run away instantly. I think probably only boys between 12 and 18 "confess" to a girl, or ask a girl to go out. It feels like, in America, it's assumed that adults will be good at indirectly communicating (probably a bad assumption).
I see😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you for telling your experience!
日本の様々の地域について聞きたい！☺
いいねいいね☺️☺️☺️
今度作ってみる
I'm kind of in love with a few twitch streamers. I know this may not be genuine love,but I wouldn't mind going on a date with one of them.
Good luck!🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️
@@i.am.yurichan Thanks
へー私はジャマイカ人ので日本人の女性と付き合うのことが思ったことないんですけど文化が全然違うなので少し興味がある
付き合ってみたら感想教えてね！！！
@i.am.yurichan はい！
あけましておめでとう
あけましておめでとう！日本ではあんまりその文化ないんだけどね😆
1:42 - 1:51 ok lang kahit araw-araw pa magkita basta ikaw lang..
😂😂😂😂😂
While not necessarily my prefered topic, i bet it's a good one for generating some audience.
That was a really enjoyable video and i really liked your style/way of talking. Towards the end i think the english subtitles were a bit ahead? Or maybe it just didn"t fit correctly.
Thank you🙂↕️
kung marunong lang ako magsalita ng nihongo at may kadate na isang haponesa ay kakain kami ng street food katulad ng takuyaki at sasakay kami ng rickshaw..
Awwww!!!
That looks fun☺️❤️
Thank you for the advice I live in Okinawa and planning on going out on the date soon
I hope you have fun! 😄
Pretty sure that in English we say "how to GET a girlfriend" (when teaching I lose all confidence in my native tongue 😅)
Hahaha!😂😂😂😂
English doesn't make sense lol. It's called "make a friend" so by the same analogy it should be make a girlfriend right? What's funnier is that "get" might sound more serious but it's actually less. To make someone your friend, that sounds like an ongoing process that doesn't magically happen. To get a girlfriend sounds like you're just searching for the fastest way to obtain one.
hi
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Kamakura no kawaii kanojo ga hoshii na! RUclips de haishin shiteru ko ga ii na! Douyatte deaeru kana? Oshiete ne! 😎
Hahahaha🤣🤣🤣🤣
I know I know first what need to learn Japanese language ) Вот только учить японский через английский не просто xD
Difficult🥺🥺🥺🥺
@i.am.yurichan No if do it for fun. The main to have time. 😉
I can't agree. アニメと映画と音楽: Japanese language with English subs, and in case of music listening practice. I'm Polish. Difficulty is only an illusion. ;)
❤
💛
🐙🎙️😺
🐙🐙🐙
Don't forget that you are talking about my girlfriend. Last evening we were eating snails, on a bed made of seaweed.
音楽なしでお願いします！
音楽はつけたい。。。🥺🥺🥺ごめん。。。
Heya. lol u are cute :D
Thank you☺️
@@i.am.yurichan I think he probably watched your sequence on complimenting japanese women. 🤣
When I have dated, I’m always very conscious about being respectful. I feel things deeply and I am very careful with peoples feelings as well as protecting my own.
🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I would be sure to text you daily, Yuriko!
I don't think it will be very realistic for me to get a Japanese girlfriend in Japan considering where I live and where I am at in life right now. I do, however, enjoy the content. This is great information to know. Your production and voice are great which is much appreciated. I find that in USA, women definitely do not like if you confess right away! Some do actually like it and find it refreshing (because they are not used to it). They tend to like the mystic, the question, am I dating or where it's going. I do not like this. I think directly communicating how you feel makes sense. I see more romanticism in actually confessing feelings rather than the fear of the unknown. I feel that this is a foundational reason why so many Westerners are generally unhappy in many different relationships, short or long-term. There are many sensibilities that I like about what you shared here.
I see😳😳😳😳😳😳
Can you be my girlfriend??
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@i.am.yurichan I think this means no. xD
Airball!
1. Do the 3 dates need to be back-to-back (consecutively) before confessing?
Or can it be spread out?
For example, 1st date is Monday. 2nd date is Wednesday. 3rd date is Saturday. Or is that not recommended?
2. I agree that communicating with that potential love interest in Japan is important. However, I fear that daily constant communication may come off as clingy or desperate that may rub off Japanese girls the wrong way, and they may end up not responding back. I’m of the same opinion that communication with them every 2 or 3 days is good like you suggested.
3. Finding someone through SNS, eh… to be honest, it’s hard. I can’t remember who said this. I think it was you. I’ll have to find the video. Anyway, when it comes to finding love interest through social media or dating apps, we’re evaluating someone’s worth via pictures, swiping left or right, and not getting to know them in person. So, sometimes online dating apps and SNS aren’t for everyone and we’re not being fair on judging someone through pictures only. Well, I can’t speak for everyone, but it’s definitely not for me. I’d very much do the meeting in person. It’s gonna be a few years until I return to Japan for my 2nd trip, so I guess I don’t have a choice but to consider doing online apps if I don’t feel like waiting.
4. After the 3rd date, a confession is definitely something that is expected. By Japanese society standards or tradition, girls want guys to make the first move.
I’d imagine that if the guy, whether he’s Japanese or foreigner, doesn’t confess then the Japanese girl won’t know where they stand, and the guy (most likely a foreigner) will probably assume that they are a couple. And that will lead to a lot of confusion on both sides. Or so I heard.
5. Thank you so much for your input. I took a lot of detailed notes on what to do and what not to do. I want to find love in Japan and I don’t want to be that dumb American 🇺🇸 that makes a mistake.😅😅
Most of all, thank you so much for using my topic suggestion and making it a video. I am truly happy. ❤
What was your experience with dating? If you don’t mind me asking. What did you like/don’t like? What’s the key to a long lasting relationship for marriage?
I do have another topic suggestion.
What is “chatting up”? How do we avoid that if we want to find love in person instead of dating apps and SNS? What are the big NO NO’s?
Sorry for the long paragraph. 😅😅
Wow, thank you for such a thoughtful and detailed comment! Your questions are great. I am really happy you enjoyed the podcast. 😊
I am in a successful 6-months relationship with a Japanese woman. If the girl has lived abroad or has experience dating foreigners usually “Japanese dating rules” don’t apply. For example, there’s no kokuhaku, you can be more relaxed with physical contact (even sleeping together on the first date), and they will be more open about their feelings (no tatemae).
What's a successful six-month relationship exactly 😂
@ almost no fights, thinking about moving together. I didn’t mention that we are still together 😅
@Thebassist999 ohhh well all the best to you then!
@@Thebassist999Congratz! How did you meet if I can ask?
@ an international party near Shibuya
I prefer this more upbeat background music, than the ones you use in the vlogs, which are sometimes melancholic. Just a tip :)
このおんがくのほがいい
Thank you for the feedback! 🙏
Speak Japanese. I'm not joking, haha. I'm serious. Being able to speak Japanese is the best, especially when you need to convey your feelings and intentions-unless she speaks English. I didn't understand the three dates well. I went out with my girlfriend five or six times, I think, before I asked her. I did the kokuhaku, which is interesting. She made me get on my knees. I met her mom, and we went to dinner. Because I can speak, we could do a lot of things and of course, she would be more relaxed.
My case is different, I speak with her every day, which is interesting. Our relationship is different from what I'm used to but I love her, so I will do my best. She's two years older than me, I'm 23 and she's 25, but I don't think there is any problem with it.
Thank you Yuri-san, be careful and I wish a great week for you.
Thank you so much for sharing your story! ☺️
ユリちゃんのような彼女が欲しいです🥰
Hahahaha☺️
あなたが私のためにこれを作ってくれたような気がします。そして、あなたが笑ったときにあなたの目が輝くのが大好きです。そしていつか私があなたの笑顔の理由になれることを願っています
なんか気持ち悪い…
ははは🤣ありがとう
@@i.am.yurichan 成功しました、あなたを笑顔にしました😁