They are out there, the trick is to attract them, either that or wait for their wives to die! But seriously, two things need to done to attract the right man. First, you have to live in your heart. Relationships follow divine laws of attraction and how good a woman feels about herself Honestly determines what she will attract.
Seriously man you look wise but seriously dude? Always men fault? Seriously make some video explaining it if you are so convinced about this crazy thesis of yours !
THe D9 is what makes us feel good about our lives, no matter what happens. So if D9 is solid, even when troubles come and life is hard, the person feels right about their life. But with a weak D9 even if life is nice and smooth and good, a person feels restless and wrong in their life.
@@guillaumefloatin91 d9 is 2nd part of life, the fruit of our work in ourselves of 1st part, which is before marriage or 36 if unmarried. If we know ourselves (d1) then we understand where we stand in d9/ for other .. In d9 like or not we will need each other more .. It's not about nice of not but it's about the meaning of life (dharma) ... By knowing astrologi I understand why I'm struggle in some area of life, then it's easier for me to accept as it is.
@@IlusIl thank you very much for your clear explanation. I discovered the channel of Ernst Wilhelm after a podcast of him with Paul chek. It is very interesting and deep. I listen the habit of Jupiter video and I can say that I lack an activ and strong jupiter which reflect on my d9 at that time in my life. ( so I need to work on it ) I will try to see how my d9 is built and what planet support it from his courses.
If this wasn't so sad within the reality ... i could laugh for days and days, you have such a funny way of putting bad things into humor!!!! :-) Such a joy to listen to your relationships videos.... !!!!!!!!! THANK YOU !
Secondly, a man is the result of the merit a woman has acquired. A portion of that merit is stored away to make her man. This is indicated by her Jupiter. If Jupiter is bad, she will constantly get stuck with worthless men, in which case she needs to do acts of charity, service and spiritual practices directed at Siva in order to increase the merit that will come back to her as a man.
Oh, I have experience doing spiritual acts of service toward Siva for merit toward a man. Suffice to say that Saturn punished me for trying to leave a difficult relationship situation with an Indian guy named after the planet Saturn.
I had to rewind a few times to fully understand it. But it explains a lot for me. I was raised by a military dad and an emotionally distant mother who taught me to never show vulnerability. So I hid my hurt or disappointment when a guy did something wrong. Instead I showed anger, it usually turned into an argument where the guy didn’t try to fix it. Thank you for your insight.
And yes, Rahu in 7th can become critical, when it does that, it indicates lengthy experiences of feeling unloved and unappreciated, not necessarily just by their partner, but by everyone in their life. Feeling unappreciated eventually gets frustrating at which point Rahu in 7th responds with criticism.
@@ErnstWilhelm namaste Ernst! What are the indicators of a guarenteed marriage in a chart? There are yogas for sanyasa in texts but are there any yogas that give marriage for sure? I have Jupiter retrograde in 8th, Mars in 4th, mercury in 2nd, moon in 3rd and Saturn in 11th.
He speaks nonsense on this subject though. Vedic Scripture (where he studies Jyotish) clearly states repetitively that the peace and happiness of a marriage and marital home lies with the woman, who must always let the man be the aggressor and pacify him. He remains dominant and she remains submissive. When she refuses to be subordinate thats when there is a disturbance. He sounds like beta male feminist who has never lived with a woman when he speaks so ignorantly in the beginning of this video.
Gay individuals require a completely different analysis, something too involved to answer properly in this comment box, but I will probably make a video on it at some point.
i was very expressive and say exactly how i feel. But he manipulated me made me feel guilty for how i feel shuttingme , such a traumatic experience In the process of healing 🙏✨
yes! this is so true, women often excuse man's behavior from the start just because he makes her feel special and overlook warning signs because of their own insecurities and damaged charts (speaking from experience here haha )
oh my god….. my tears ran down my cheeks ! The way to my real feelings is soooo long .i thought that I have worked on recognizing my real feelings, but I see those layers of determination of society and parents... "YOu are not allowed to feel the real and show it" Thanks for this stuff.
Just listening to your video! Thanks Ernst for such a good common sense. I always select partners specially for his values and the way they treat people, and never fails. However, I have realised that I prefer to live alone. I am not made for dealing with the troubles of a relationship. My mental peace is more valuable.
I will be doing several videos at the end of August. But my best videos if you want to learn astrology are at my video site astrology-videos dot you know what. At that site I have extensive courses for those who want to learn astrology.
Thanks to this video I know the truth now. Good thing that I have Venus-Moon conjunction in Gemini 2nd house. I'm 30+ single man and I will try to stay single in future too. Staying single is better than bad partnership.
Somna7h true, a bad partnership can ruin your mental peace and physical health and destroy your world as you know it, but then again we all learn from our failures.
Moon starves Mercury, so when it comes to friendships, which are about sharing mutual interests to the best advantage of the friendship, the person will see things from their point of view. Essentially, their needs will be seen as more important than the need of the friendship. If a Libra Lagna, moon and mercury will make them follow their inspirations, so they will be more amazing people, but they often sacrifice friendships for their inspirations.
Living is about oneself. Relationships are about partnerships. I totally agree. Ernst is totally right about the Indian culture. While we do understand the importance of partnership in a relationship, we just struggle with living. More often than not, we make relationships as a goal of living. Thank you for this video!! :)
This video was amazing! Not only for astrological knowledge but also for good relationship advice I hadn't thought of (as a woman) I have a "sleeping" Jupiter that is combust, and a Venus/7th ruler that is opposed by Saturn. (And conjunct moon and mars) I had a couple serious relationships starting from a very young age, both lasted several years, but they were very...traumatic relationships. When I would show my first feelings they would be turned around/used against me. So when I entered a third serious relationship (which ended terribly) I hid my feelings. It makes sense now why it didnt work. That guy was a mostly good guy, although he did have certain defects that he tried to keep hidden as well which only furthered my distrust and ability to be able to open up. Its puzzled me though, when you see that same guy fall in love and get married and seem to have a now perfect relationship. (Seemingly anyway although I'm sure its still not perfect) this really helped changed my perspective! Maybe I will open up better next time.
so much about relationships have to do with healing. the first part in healing is becoming aware of our wounds - aka, a bad relationship. After that, a person may heal the wound and move onto a great relationship, or choose a relationship that does not push their wounds and "rest" for a while, but that relationship will never last. So you just have to focus on healing the wounds that these relationships showed you. It can be humiliating thing for a guy to make it work with a girl right after failing with another... and thtt right there can be a wound too. I hope you can keep successfully examining yourself, heal, and fulfill your dreams.
If you’re going to have relationships, remember men can take a while for them to grow up... You might need to guide them to be the man they supposed to be.... Takes a lot of patience and understanding to have a solid relationship 💖
The first feeling in a woman often doesn't make it past her lips because she needs her gut involved. If she can have a trained awareness to be in touch with her gut alongside her heart, she can be more "open and expressive". The gut is the action centre. This type of woman who holds onto/tweaks/reinterprets her inner experience to suit the man is one of the main personality types that pursues astrology, which means that probably most of us watching this video are at fault in our relationship. If she can learn to coordinate her three brains- the head, heart, and gut, she will be a whole, balanced person (although this takes a lifetime of practice).
😂😂😂👍this is the best video I've ever heard in my long happy life no issues following these very simple rules no issues dumping&moving on no planets needed😂😂you are the best
D9 represents the path that a person is on and their commitment to that path. If a person falls of their path they feel lost in life. The path is an ashram. Marriage path, spiritual path or renunciation, or bramachari path. People with a weak navamsa may dabble in a mix of these things, but it is important that a person be strong an their chosen path in order to maximize their potential otherwise they squander a lot of time and energy.
If you are using the right ayanamsa and calculates, then Moon mercury conjunction for scorpio lagna will sometimes disrupt his best intentions - it all depends on the periods he is running. More important always are the planets in the 10th, the 1st, and conjunct the sun and in the 10th from the sun.
Could you please make a separate video just explaining this concept? I agree! Moon-Mercury conjunction will often disrupt a man's best intentions. I actually think it occurs in any lagna. I think this is also the anti-marriage yoga (I made that up but there is some truth). Thank you!
That is why people need to think about these things BEFORE they meet someone so that it is ingrained in them. Sorry to hear about your drag o friends. You must have been in one of those Dasas that just does not provide good stuff from people, but all dasas come to a close and new periods start. I hope with your cleansing being over that a fresh period awaits.
Its a great video, it was always clear for me that compatibility charts are not the absolute truth, men who admired me the most and where most caring, always had sun in Pisces and moon in taurus and where instantly unsuitable according to these charts, I have Magha nakshatra. I have seen a couple with almost no compatibility according to charts, but having great love, good kids and no major problems, they never knew their charts even. I was married to another magha nakshatra men, who of course had high compatibility and lots of things in common, but I guess we were to similar, when a problem arouse, which could have been fixed in 7 months time, he just left me after 4 years marriage telling me that 'I am too saintly', whatever this means. When you are left at the age of 42 its hard to find again someone. I accept my limitations in the field of marriage. Its good that here for the first time another angle is shown, which is much more profound the simple matching of nakshatras. I am really thrilled to find such great video at youtube. Thanks a lot.
How it works is that wherever Ketu is placed there is too much control and as a result where Rahu is placed things get out of control. So Ketu in the first is overly self-controlled and the partner is thus very chaotic. Balance needs to be achieved by the Ketu in the first, if a woman, being more free and honest with her emotional expression, and that is her first emotional expression. Then she also needs to learn to be more receptive in most cases.
Wow! This is better then going to Psycologist... I’m learning so much from this! can you please do more videos? I love Vedic astrology but I’m not sure about the exact time I was born.. and I find it confusing because every site gives me a different results even though I’m putting the same birth time.
Hmm, Ketu in lagna ruled by Saturn with Saturn is a yoga that is said to make a person very attractive. So far the cases I have seen have proven that Yoga as accurate. Does it work in your case?
It's my navamsa .. No wonder I can't be nice to man or they will think I like them, nice to woman then they think I'll steal their husbands.. Thanks for libra ascendant, I don't need them, I'm okay with my self ... My 7th is too heavy with mars venus jupiter rahu
and you know, idk if observing how men treat the nobodies in their life actually works. often times i will gravitate towards a man BECAUSE he was so nice and pleasant to random people and he was a stand-up guy around his friends but then ended up being COMPLETELY different in a relationship. i will never allow myself to think that just because a man is NICE to the ugly chick behind the counter, that he will be a GOOD man for me in a relationship. the WRONG GUY will often over-compensate with his work and social life and it can be VERY confusing to decipher if hes actually that way or if hes just a wolf in sheep clothing. i've had to learn that the hard way... what do you think about this?
I know a few guys (!) that one in particular is very nice to strangers when we are out, but that is all to impress, and an act. Or he is in a good mood because the thinks he may get lucky (!) The same guy has a friend who I noticed him giving good advice and trying to calm someone down in a bad situation and he didn't have to, and I was impressed with his approach when I was looking but he didn't know I was paying attention. So there is a difference.
he has all the wrong conjunctions, how did i end up getting him in my life😂😂😂😂 - moon mercury, venus opposite mercury, Mars jn ascendant debilitated, sun rahu conjunction in libra debilitated in 4th house , ketu in 10 th house my God 😂😂😂😂😂 i really have a heavy relationship karma help me 😂❤
Everything you are saying is common sense but when people fall in love they lose their common sense and make up excuses for there partners imperfections. I am at a point in my life where I got rid of all of my friends because they were all negative energy doing nothing positive for me they were draining me I was giving and giving and they would just take and take its like they sucked the life out of me
True node is really not true and is the worst option in my opinion. The problem with Nodes is that they are only in existence twice a month, the rest of the time they are interpolated. Mean node does not always line up with these to times that it is actually there. So I use something called Interpolated True Node where the two times it is in existence per month are precisely calculated and then intermediate positions are interpolated. Only Kala software has this calculation.
Do you have a video on this Ernst? This is also really fascinating. My north node varies only minutes between mean and true but some people have a variance of several degrees.
Hello Ernst, not everyone may have access to this knowledge and in that case despite coming from a cultural background where people do things like horoscope matching etc. there are many failed marriages. In case people become aware of the unrest in their relationship after coming across videos like these, do you think it is advisable for them to walk out for their own sake? Do the planets guide people's life trajectory based on their karma or is it someone's judgement based on acquiring awareness about 'relationship capacities'. Or may be as per me the best part is to work on your own self instead of fixing others or walking out on them based on one's own perception of discomfort. I believe that the universe actually charts the path of a person's life and even when one hasn't acquired such an awareness one can sooner or later understand this frustration. The only difference is 'time' and energy wasted in something that wasn't real but then wasn't it meant to be a life lesson then? And since an astrological chart is basically decoding the different languages of different planets, while keeping a track of the transitions, it becomes imperative for teachers like you to probably come up with something that helps people understand their life path. Such circumstances might have negative bearings on a person's life path but do you think it is a way of teaching it the hard way? I personally, always see life as a conundrum in that case. I have very recently started my journey towards making sense of basics of astrology but that is to understand my role in this life. It may take another 15-20 years to acquaint myself with this but I am glad I am already getting an opportunity to listen to learned people. Gratitude and greetings.
Excellent video Ernst, Thank you very much for this. I have three questions if i may: 1. what about moon and mercury in the same sign but very far from each other (moon in 3 degrees and mercury in 27)? will that still be considered a bad thing? 2. what about moon and venus very close but in different signs (moon in 3 degrees and venus in 29 of previous sign)? will that still be considered a bad thing? 3. a man who has such bad indications - is there no hope for him being in a healthy relationship? should he opt for living on his own? Thank you
YEs, if they are far apart Moon will not hurt mercury as much. ALl that can be exactly calculated, but I do not teach that on youtube as it is very involved. I teach that in my astrology-videos website. If moon and venus are in different signs but close in degrees, then no, they are not conjunct for this purpose.
You have to calculate HOra correctly by the planet in the first half of the sign being in that sign in the Hora. The planet in the second half of the Sign goes into the 7th from the sign it is in the Rasi. Only Kala software to my knowledge calculates the Hora correctly this way. Then the most important houses are the 2nd and 4th in the Hora and Moon is most important planet.
Do you include besides the Ve/Mo - Me/Mo conjunction and opposition also the square to determine whether a man is "capable" of maintaining a healthy love relationship with a woman or visa versa? And why is Mo rasi aspecting Ve a Raj Yoga in Jaimini? Thank you.
No, what you really need to do is look at the exact aspect strength of moon to venus which is a value between 0-60. If its more than 30, its gettign high and not ideal.
I have a question for you. Are these to be checked only in the rashi chart and not in the saptamsha and navamasha? If the rashi chart shows a mercury conjunct venus, the man gets a multi faceted, charming and witty wife. However, the navamsha shows a venus aspected by moon. And the saptamsha shows a venus conjunct moon. Can such a man be relied upon and considered a good prospect for marriage? The moon also happens to be the darakaraka for this man.
Brilliant, Ernst! Would 22 year old me have taken your wise counsel and avoided years of suffering? I'd like to think so but he was so beautiful and capable that I ignored the fact that his heart was capable of deep cruelty, much like my dad.
my lagna and sun are good but venus and mercury opposing moon...what can i do or where do i go wrong?i am born on 28/8/1985, 7.30pm, Delhi(india).. i am Aquarius lagna with saturn exalted in ninth house conjucting with ketu..sun in leo in 7th, moon, jupiter in 12th house(Capricorn)and venus, mercury and mars in 6th house(cancer)..i am shravana nakshatra guy... i m already practicing spirituality, meditation and charity service from last 8 years. M 31 and still not able to attract a good woman in life..is there anywhere i can take personal consultation from you esp regarding career and relationship?
Thanks for this very informative video. However, if Moon starves Venus and Mercury, why does it only diminish the relationship capacity of a male? Are you suggesting that a conjunction or opposition of Moon- Venus or Moon-Mercury has no impact on a female relationship capacity--for instance, females are immune to "irrational ideas" of the Moon-Mercury?
Thanks for the quick response. Now that makes more sense. That may explain why this gal I know with Jupiter in Rashi Cancer and in Saptamsa Cancer as well (with Rahu) and in Navamsa Pisces (with Saturn and Pluto) got divorced in less than 4 years with a daughter. In her Rashi chart, she has Moon, Saturn, and Rahu in Virgo and Venus, Mercury and Keto in Pisces! Sun and Mars in Aries, opposing Pluto in Libra. Would you say that in this case the Man was OK, but it was her fault that the marriage failed, even with Venus and Jupiter in their own exaltations? Any advice for her, please? Thanks and have a great weekend.
There are many reasons why a person will get divorced. People may have the destiny for a short marriage or several it all depends on the entire layout of all relationship factors and yogas.
Thanks for your response Ernst. As this is a video on relationship capacity, and you stated that Moon opposing Venus or/and Mercury would starve both and diminish relationship capacity, my question is: How would Saturn ("friend at a distance" of Venus) joining Moon in the above case in Virgo change this relationship capacity (of irrational ideas and values as well as self-centeredness)? And, how is Rahu's presence in Virgo, joining Moon and Saturn, complicating the picture? Thanks.
I was in a relationship in where you just taught me why it didn't work and was never going to work I spent 30 years on that guy and I still trying to get over that guy by consciously saying I don't want to be in a relationship with him I think about him all the time I tried to watch his videos and I really want to get over him I just feel like he is embedded in me in some way and I would really like to know how I can change that if you have a course that can teach me to do that I will happily take it thank you Ernest you've helped me so much already
then their are the professional Liars: they pretend and say words they don't mean just to get what they want: D1 chart will show that; yet not all people understand astrological principles. actions speak louder than words that are meaningless. Or they "change" their mind; after they "got" what they want! I really like the book: "Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dream-girl: A Women's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship by author Sherry Argov" and the author only used that title for the book to catch the eyes of female readers: &&& has absolutely nothing to do with 'being a bitch') It's about women holding onto their dignity and honor in relationships and not losing one's self to an abusive or lazy or demanding or control-freak man. this is a huge subject in USA and Marriage is also Marka and that is so true …. thank you again for this video (I watched this in 2013-2014: and obviously I must keep watching this... Yet when I tell a man "NO"- I get called Jaded or guarded or "Oh you must have been abused".... O M Geeeze …. No means No.... only a genuine gentleman understands and "RESPECTS" the word NO.... om shanti
I like moon mars always, it's a decent combo. Old texts don't like it for a womanbe cause it makes her strong minded in what she needs. But it's a healthy strong mindedness and so I like it. You don't wany any malefics in the 4th from moon o4 4th in a woman' chart, those make it rough.
@@ErnstWilhelm Okay. He's Mars is in Scorpio, so is my Moon. Also we both have precise personal Pluto conjunctions with my Moon and his Mars. Solving mutual karma and power struggles seems to be a huge theme and it's Very frustrating because his Jupiter is in my 7th and my Venus is in his 7th house. Love is hard!
Oh shit that's so true... I realized this a couple years before watching this video... My opinion is the woman's ego gets in the way when trying to express the primary feelings.. So.when the Saturn transit happened opposite to my sun a couple years back and when my ego was completely shattered, I was able to see below the surface, the truth. Ahhhh I GET IT NOW!! 😄
Lets say person has bad relationship capacity like you said. I actualy got your report and its not looking very bright. And I have a venus that has like 380 points according to your videos on DK and Ve. What does that imply? That I will have a great wife that is unhappy with me? And how does it all relate to what you said in other video that good venus in male chart represents that man "earned" a good wife due to his past life karma. How can somebody have bad relationship capacity and at the same time great venus and DK ?
So Venus shows how helpful your wife will be to you. YOur capacity shows how good of a man you can be towards the woman you love. Those are very different things.
Now I get it what bothered me about both of them. You've answered my questions. Thanks! They both have ☀ conjunct Rahu, Mars, Mercury (like this is so common or something) and one of them has Moon conjunct Mercury and opposite Venus. But the match calculator on astrosage says 33/36 for on and 22,5/36 for the other and I really didn't get it how is this possible! They both are so wrong on so many levels and they both try to get me to communicate but I'm so not into it.
Thank you for your answer. One (33/36) is my coworker and other coworkers think we are cute when we are fighting. They also thought that we are a good match (????). They stopped thinking that because they see it now we are not joking. Since we`ve met I find him repulsive. He irritates me so much. And the other is a guy who asked me out and since the first date I have this not really good feeling about him so I`m leaving him aside (like there is something violent in him and I really don`t want to know this part of him).
Because Moon starves venus as per the Lajjitaadi Avasthas the single most important technique in Vedic Astrology. A starved venus is never happy with their partner.
Oftentimes when Moon is starving Venus then they are overly concerned with fulfilling and enjoying their own emotional needs. If they are concerned with fulfilling their own emotional needs, then how are they going to care about anyone else’s needs or how to make the other person feel safe and comfortable on life?
ok astrology is complicated... I need a teacher, do you have any video about aspects? just to give a look for now... i know quite few women with Moon Venus conjuction, they seems alright, is it different for females? The sign in wich falls is it relevant?
Yes, there is as lot to learning astrology clearly without getting your wires crossed. You can find all the good stuff at astrology-videos.com , and yes, the sign it falls in is relevant, if it falls in a sign that is a friend to venus it helps.
I have a question is moon in Scorpio makes a woman not able to be receptive. or is it other factors . from your website it actually said I had a high relationship conpacity but I feel like you were talking about me in this video . I'm an Aries Sun with a Taurus ascendant Scorpio moon. Also if a mans Venus conjubcts my moon is this positive
A man's venus on your moon will make the man attracted to you in some ways. Moon in scorpio for a woman is a receptive place, if its not afflicted,. However, Moon in scorpio is always a tough place if the Moon is not between the 1st and 7th houses.
Will the moon with jupiter in a womens chart will have the same effect as the moon with venus in a mans chart? Also: does the same problem occur when the darakaraka is conjunct the atmakaraka?
@@ErnstWilhelm this will apply to synastry also right? Does it mean that a person with moon in scorpio for example will hurt their partner with venus in scorpio if they're conjunct?
If a man has got moon venus jupiter sun together in aries and mercury and satturn in Libra in his Navamsha chart who is a aquarius ascendent, having venus and moon together in Navamsha chart aspecting mercury, will it affect the relationship?
D1 : Leo Ascendant. ketu conjunct sun, moon & venus in Aries in 9th D9 : Sagg Ascendant. Sun, moon in Sagg & Venus, Saturn in Gemini ...I have no hope for any relationship. WTF I have done wrong?
You have problems expressing ur confidence. Sun and Ketu conjunction makes u introverted and less egoistic. You have to remember one thing. Girls love confident person. If u r not confident expressing yourself, how would u b confident dealing with other issues/matters?? This is the Psychology of Girls, and that's the reason why they fall for a guy who is an asshole
+Herbert Grundböck Sun is the Atma, the soul, which is the state devoid of the ego. When the Sun gets afflicted then a person becomes separated more from their soul state and that will create egocentric behaviour, but its not due to the sun, its due to lack of sun. Moon is the Manas in which resides the Jeeva, the living individual being along with ahamkara, the ego, which is the idea of separate existence.
I guess all of this is very interesting to check for in a birth chart of your partner but there's stages in everyone's life, man or woman, when it's so challenging that not everyone could stick to their best side. Or, on the opposite, a person can come out as a wonderful reliable partner even if originally they seemed to be a complete asshat. Is it beneficial to think of all this profile features rather like a main theme, like major or minor key in music piece, but to remember that it's all really fluid and not set in stone?
Its the hard times that show who a person really is. How do they act then? In good circumstances its easy for people to pretend to be decent people, but take away a bit of security or what they want and see the real them...
@@ErnstWilhelm thank you for your answer. But my point was rather about "Is there any "real them" or "real you" at all?" Or just like everyone else, like my precious self I suppose, anyone should be granted a chance to meet life experience and express or rather define themselves through their choices at the moment. Or is it all set in stone, I mean stars, from the birth? I don't think so. :)
Yes, ultimately it all boils down to that and so by seeing what a person is attracting, whether as a partner, as a relocation chart for their residence, etc. it will point out the same in their chart.
yes. i'm sure you intuited that i have that kind of chart! all about standing on MY OWN TWO FEET. independent, confident, pioneering, healer, visionary. fortunately i WAS married 20 years to a good man that also has same kind of "not marriage oriented" but family hero type, so we made 3 glorious children, now grandchildren. all happy family, just not "married". my subsequent loves were also very fated Karmic relationship souls with very bad relationship aspects, so there was no delaying my personal evolution! me: moon, Jupiter Pluto 11th Leo square Venus Taurus 8th ! (whole house signs) along with Sun 7th Aries 2 degrees, Mars 4th Capricorn Trine Venus. Saturn conjunct North Node Rahu Sagittarius 3rd so it took me forever to learn it all. i have the very desirable sexy female vibes of deep passion of the Venus Taurus 8th with Sun 7th house comittment needs. so the shenanigans of my totes gorgeous sexy brilliant non-commital ambiguous loves were not going to suffice the long haul. Cancer Uranus Midheaven. very healer. much " expose the truth, burn out the lies " Pluto conjunct moon sq Venus! I just accept it ALL now and have forgiveness in my heart. not bitterness. i won the children lottery. men come and go. i'm set in my "old age". my son in law acts like the husband i wanted. we get along great! my son acts like the hubs i wanted. he adores me! maybe next year i will remember to go for true love again!
There is no way to tell Who a psychopath on is on the first date because they mimic Human empathy so well. I dated a psychopath and I will say, there were zero gut feelings about his manipulations for the first two months. He played the perfect attentive suitor. He ended up driving me into a wall at 100mph, then Abandoning me 340 miles away from home after driving me out of the city. I met him on Instagram where you can see how he portrays himself as fun and cool. He is neither fun nor coolant he uses his popular meme page to find women. His chart has so many retrogrades. His vertex squared my vertex, if that means anything. Tried to ruin my reputation online. Beware if you’re a woman who follows Tatum.strangely or if he slides into your DM’s.
jonak dowerah Its a mental struggle against desires and emotional needs be fulfilled by another person. So just turn your mind to things that really can be fulfilling until your mind gets that habit. That can be a mantra or something else that is inspiring to you.
As a male, I don't really think about myself as being "attractive"...learned that what women find attractive can be pretty subjective anyway. but I've always worked on how I come across & I do get looks, then again, maybe they just think I'm weird looking ;-)
Ernst can you please talk about 'Nadi Dosh'. I'm Indian in believe in astrology but if Nadia dosh is real then 33% of the population would suffer from it. also there's a lot of fear mongering about it in India. please explain
Indeed, when a man ties you down anyways against your will is Mr Right, according to 50 Shades of Gray, ruins an entire generation of women yet again; so unless there was a pre decided safe word, it is not OK. Modern western women get in trouble cuz they don't know how to show vulnerability; if you watch Asian soaps you notice the women in love always CRYS; Russian women know this too and that is why some guys like that.
sir i have a query like which d2 chart to use parashara in which only 2 houses play a major role or there is another i came across KASHINATH HORA a normal chart plz guide which one do you use for weath aspects........
They are out there, the trick is to attract them, either that or wait for their wives to die! But seriously, two things need to done to attract the right man. First, you have to live in your heart. Relationships follow divine laws of attraction and how good a woman feels about herself Honestly determines what she will attract.
Ernst Wilhelm beautiful beautiful sage advice.
Ernst Wilhelm agreed. But also actively look for red flags in potential suitors.
So true...
If only men were as easy to love as this video:)
Ernst Wilhelm but they are easy to love once you know your type.
Haha 😀😂 ..touché!
Ernst Wilhelm Hi Ernest how can I get in contact with you. I got my capacity to love reading and have some questions.
If only I found this video before I'm broke 😂
Seriously man you look wise but seriously dude? Always men fault? Seriously make some video explaining it if you are so convinced about this crazy thesis of yours !
every man should think about themselves, women and relationships like you do! i ´am impressed that there are man like this in this world!
Tell all those men to watch this video, haha, one day we will straighten them out.
@@ErnstWilhelm Most men are like dog's tail. Even if you put that tail in iron pipe, the pipe will bend but tail won't get straighten !!
THe D9 is what makes us feel good about our lives, no matter what happens. So if D9 is solid, even when troubles come and life is hard, the person feels right about their life. But with a weak D9 even if life is nice and smooth and good, a person feels restless and wrong in their life.
True
@@IlusIl can you explain to me what is D9 ?
@@guillaumefloatin91 d9 is 2nd part of life, the fruit of our work in ourselves of 1st part, which is before marriage or 36 if unmarried. If we know ourselves (d1) then we understand where we stand in d9/ for other .. In d9 like or not we will need each other more .. It's not about nice of not but it's about the meaning of life (dharma) ... By knowing astrologi I understand why I'm struggle in some area of life, then it's easier for me to accept as it is.
@@IlusIl thank you very much for your clear explanation. I discovered the channel of Ernst Wilhelm after a podcast of him with Paul chek. It is very interesting and deep. I listen the habit of Jupiter video and I can say that I lack an activ and strong jupiter which reflect on my d9 at that time in my life. ( so I need to work on it ) I will try to see how my d9 is built and what planet support it from his courses.
@@guillaumefloatin91 congratulations for finding great teacher like him..
If this wasn't so sad within the reality ... i could laugh for days and days, you have such a funny way of putting bad things into humor!!!! :-) Such a joy to listen to your relationships videos.... !!!!!!!!! THANK YOU !
Secondly, a man is the result of the merit a woman has acquired. A portion of that merit is stored away to make her man. This is indicated by her Jupiter. If Jupiter is bad, she will constantly get stuck with worthless men, in which case she needs to do acts of charity, service and spiritual practices directed at Siva in order to increase the merit that will come back to her as a man.
Oh, I have experience doing spiritual acts of service toward Siva for merit toward a man. Suffice to say that Saturn punished me for trying to leave a difficult relationship situation with an Indian guy named after the planet Saturn.
Ernst Wilhelm phew atleast there is something I can do
Sati Devi was advised by Narad Muni to do penance so as to get Shiva as husband.
I had to rewind a few times to fully understand it. But it explains a lot for me. I was raised by a military dad and an emotionally distant mother who taught me to never show vulnerability. So I hid my hurt or disappointment when a guy did something wrong. Instead I showed anger, it usually turned into an argument where the guy didn’t try to fix it. Thank you for your insight.
And yes, Rahu in 7th can become critical, when it does that, it indicates lengthy experiences of feeling unloved and unappreciated, not necessarily just by their partner, but by everyone in their life. Feeling unappreciated eventually gets frustrating at which point Rahu in 7th responds with criticism.
Hi Ernst.. could you advise something to deal with rahu in 7th ? Especially if it's in a bad position ..like Aries etc ..
What if it's Cancer Rahu in the 7th?
Is it true that Rahu in 7th guarentees a marriage? I have sun ketu in Aries 1st house with Venus in 12th.
@@SrinivasRao7 It does not guarantee a marriage, it does point towards a sexual relationship.
@@ErnstWilhelm namaste Ernst! What are the indicators of a guarenteed marriage in a chart? There are yogas for sanyasa in texts but are there any yogas that give marriage for sure? I have Jupiter retrograde in 8th, Mars in 4th, mercury in 2nd, moon in 3rd and Saturn in 11th.
You are a precious gift to the universe 😊 thank you. Namaste
He speaks nonsense on this subject though. Vedic Scripture (where he studies Jyotish) clearly states repetitively that the peace and happiness of a marriage and marital home lies with the woman, who must always let the man be the aggressor and pacify him. He remains dominant and she remains submissive. When she refuses to be subordinate thats when there is a disturbance. He sounds like beta male feminist who has never lived with a woman when he speaks so ignorantly in the beginning of this video.
Gay individuals require a completely different analysis, something too involved to answer properly in this comment box, but I will probably make a video on it at some point.
i was very expressive and say exactly how i feel. But he manipulated me made me feel guilty for how i feel shuttingme , such a traumatic experience
In the process of healing 🙏✨
yes! this is so true, women often excuse man's behavior from the start just because he makes her feel special and overlook warning signs because of their own insecurities and damaged charts (speaking from experience here haha )
Meggie Mapper Haha, it seems that Life makes us stupid at the first feeling of affection so as to insure the survival of the species!
oh my god….. my tears ran down my cheeks ! The way to my real feelings is soooo long .i thought that I have worked on recognizing my real feelings, but I see those layers of determination of society and parents... "YOu are not allowed to feel the real and show it" Thanks for this stuff.
Your teachings are totally awesome, Thank You very much.
Just listening to your video! Thanks Ernst for such a good common sense.
I always select partners specially for his values and the way they treat people, and never fails. However, I have realised that I prefer to live alone. I am not made for dealing with the troubles of a relationship. My mental peace is more valuable.
I will be doing several videos at the end of August. But my best videos if you want to learn astrology are at my video site astrology-videos dot you know what. At that site I have extensive courses for those who want to learn astrology.
Thanks to this video I know the truth now.
Good thing that I have Venus-Moon conjunction in Gemini 2nd house.
I'm 30+ single man and I will try to stay single in future too.
Staying single is better than bad partnership.
Somna7h true, a bad partnership can ruin your mental peace and physical health and destroy your world as you know it, but then again we all learn from our failures.
So basically your future plans will b sleeping around creating karma to suffer and pay back rather then change and learn ur lessons SMDH...
@@jackpotwinner1260 How is him not choosing to be in a relationship creating karma?
30:35 is one of the best advice one can get. Thanks Ernst.
Moon starves Mercury, so when it comes to friendships, which are about sharing mutual interests to the best advantage of the friendship, the person will see things from their point of view. Essentially, their needs will be seen as more important than the need of the friendship. If a Libra Lagna, moon and mercury will make them follow their inspirations, so they will be more amazing people, but they often sacrifice friendships for their inspirations.
Living is about oneself. Relationships are about partnerships. I totally agree. Ernst is totally right about the Indian culture. While we do understand the importance of partnership in a relationship, we just struggle with living. More often than not, we make relationships as a goal of living. Thank you for this video!! :)
This video was amazing! Not only for astrological knowledge but also for good relationship advice I hadn't thought of (as a woman)
I have a "sleeping" Jupiter that is combust, and a Venus/7th ruler that is opposed by Saturn. (And conjunct moon and mars)
I had a couple serious relationships starting from a very young age, both lasted several years, but they were very...traumatic relationships. When I would show my first feelings they would be turned around/used against me. So when I entered a third serious relationship (which ended terribly) I hid my feelings. It makes sense now why it didnt work. That guy was a mostly good guy, although he did have certain defects that he tried to keep hidden as well which only furthered my distrust and ability to be able to open up. Its puzzled me though, when you see that same guy fall in love and get married and seem to have a now perfect relationship. (Seemingly anyway although I'm sure its still not perfect) this really helped changed my perspective! Maybe I will open up better next time.
so much about relationships have to do with healing. the first part in healing is becoming aware of our wounds - aka, a bad relationship. After that, a person may heal the wound and move onto a great relationship, or choose a relationship that does not push their wounds and "rest" for a while, but that relationship will never last. So you just have to focus on healing the wounds that these relationships showed you. It can be humiliating thing for a guy to make it work with a girl right after failing with another... and thtt right there can be a wound too. I hope you can keep successfully examining yourself, heal, and fulfill your dreams.
If you’re going to have relationships, remember men can take a while for them to grow up... You might need to guide them to be the man they supposed to be.... Takes a lot of patience and understanding to have a solid relationship 💖
The first feeling in a woman often doesn't make it past her lips because she needs her gut involved. If she can have a trained awareness to be in touch with her gut alongside her heart, she can be more "open and expressive". The gut is the action centre. This type of woman who holds onto/tweaks/reinterprets her inner experience to suit the man is one of the main personality types that pursues astrology, which means that probably most of us watching this video are at fault in our relationship. If she can learn to coordinate her three brains- the head, heart, and gut, she will be a whole, balanced person (although this takes a lifetime of practice).
😂😂😂👍this is the best video I've ever heard in my long happy life no issues following these very simple rules no issues dumping&moving on no planets needed😂😂you are the best
D9 represents the path that a person is on and their commitment to that path. If a person falls of their path they feel lost in life. The path is an ashram. Marriage path, spiritual path or renunciation, or bramachari path. People with a weak navamsa may dabble in a mix of these things, but it is important that a person be strong an their chosen path in order to maximize their potential otherwise they squander a lot of time and energy.
Ernst Wilhelm how we know if navamsa weak or strong? In navamsa I have venus in taurus and sun in libra. How can I judge?
so where the hell were you when i was twenty, ernst?! LOL!
coming from a scorpio moon "screwed up" single mom ; ) OUCH!
BTW, i am 45 and learning astrology. not looking for mr. right ; )
honeymac guess better late than never💙💜💚
If you are using the right ayanamsa and calculates, then Moon mercury conjunction for scorpio lagna will sometimes disrupt his best intentions - it all depends on the periods he is running. More important always are the planets in the 10th, the 1st, and conjunct the sun and in the 10th from the sun.
Could you please make a separate video just explaining this concept? I agree! Moon-Mercury conjunction will often disrupt a man's best intentions. I actually think it occurs in any lagna. I think this is also the anti-marriage yoga (I made that up but there is some truth). Thank you!
That is why people need to think about these things BEFORE they meet someone so that it is ingrained in them. Sorry to hear about your drag o friends. You must have been in one of those Dasas that just does not provide good stuff from people, but all dasas come to a close and new periods start. I hope with your cleansing being over that a fresh period awaits.
Its a great video, it was always clear for me that compatibility charts are not the absolute truth, men who admired me the most and where most caring, always had sun in Pisces and moon in taurus and where instantly unsuitable according to these charts, I have Magha nakshatra. I have seen a couple with almost no compatibility according to charts, but having great love, good kids and no major problems, they never knew their charts even. I was married to another magha nakshatra men, who of course had high compatibility and lots of things in common, but I guess we were to similar, when a problem arouse, which could have been fixed in 7 months time, he just left me after 4 years marriage telling me that 'I am too saintly', whatever this means. When you are left at the age of 42 its hard to find again someone. I accept my limitations in the field of marriage. Its good that here for the first time another angle is shown, which is much more profound the simple matching of nakshatras. I am really thrilled to find such great video at youtube. Thanks a lot.
Yes, he obviously had some low capacity combinations for him to bail after 4 years.
How it works is that wherever Ketu is placed there is too much control and as a result where Rahu is placed things get out of control. So Ketu in the first is overly self-controlled and the partner is thus very chaotic. Balance needs to be achieved by the Ketu in the first, if a woman, being more free and honest with her emotional expression, and that is her first emotional expression. Then she also needs to learn to be more receptive in most cases.
I have Venus + ketu in Pisces Rising.. Thank you so much Ernst 🙏
Its the simple truth. I am favoring the guys when I say 90/10. When a guy realizes that, then he can start having a good relationship every time.
For a man Ketu in first means he needs to be stronger in saying and doing what he wants in a relationship, in other words, being more masculine.
Wow! This is better then going to Psycologist... I’m learning so much from this! can you please do more videos? I love Vedic astrology but I’m not sure about the exact time I was born.. and I find it confusing because every site gives me a different results even though I’m putting the same birth time.
Get your chart at www.vaultoftheheavens.com from the chart link on the right. Then more videos are at astrology-videos.com
Hmm, Ketu in lagna ruled by Saturn with Saturn is a yoga that is said to make a person very attractive. So far the cases I have seen have proven that Yoga as accurate. Does it work in your case?
It's my navamsa .. No wonder I can't be nice to man or they will think I like them, nice to woman then they think I'll steal their husbands.. Thanks for libra ascendant, I don't need them, I'm okay with my self ... My 7th is too heavy with mars venus jupiter rahu
This is true especially how he treats the nobodies in his life.
and you know, idk if observing how men treat the nobodies in their life actually works. often times i will gravitate towards a man BECAUSE he was so nice and pleasant to random people and he was a stand-up guy around his friends but then ended up being COMPLETELY different in a relationship. i will never allow myself to think that just because a man is NICE to the ugly chick behind the counter, that he will be a GOOD man for me in a relationship. the WRONG GUY will often over-compensate with his work and social life and it can be VERY confusing to decipher if hes actually that way or if hes just a wolf in sheep clothing. i've had to learn that the hard way...
what do you think about this?
I know a few guys (!) that one in particular is very nice to strangers when we are out, but that is all to impress, and an act. Or he is in a good mood because the thinks he may get lucky (!) The same guy has a friend who I noticed him giving good advice and trying to calm someone down in a bad situation and he didn't have to, and I was impressed with his approach when I was looking but he didn't know I was paying attention. So there is a difference.
Yes, that is true, people will disguise their nature in casual situations. Its a matter of seeing if they are Sincere in how they treat others or not.
he has all the wrong conjunctions, how did i end up getting him in my life😂😂😂😂 - moon mercury, venus opposite mercury, Mars jn ascendant debilitated, sun rahu conjunction in libra debilitated in 4th house , ketu in 10 th house my God 😂😂😂😂😂 i really have a heavy relationship karma help me 😂❤
I’m from Catalina island. Let’s hangout . I love the wisdom that you share. ❤
1:58 - mistakes that women do
- wrong man
5:13 - right man
Everything you are saying is common sense but when people fall in love they lose their common sense and make up excuses for there partners imperfections. I am at a point in my life where I got rid of all of my friends because they were all negative energy doing nothing positive for me they were draining me I was giving and giving and they would just take and take its like they sucked the life out of me
I have no 1 calling me or using me for anything. I am just thankful that I got rid of people in time before I had my life taken away
True node is really not true and is the worst option in my opinion. The problem with Nodes is that they are only in existence twice a month, the rest of the time they are interpolated. Mean node does not always line up with these to times that it is actually there. So I use something called Interpolated True Node where the two times it is in existence per month are precisely calculated and then intermediate positions are interpolated. Only Kala software has this calculation.
Do you have a video on this Ernst? This is also really fascinating. My north node varies only minutes between mean and true but some people have a variance of several degrees.
Not necessarily as there are many things that can influence how a person treats their mother.
Hello Ernst, not everyone may have access to this knowledge and in that case despite coming from a cultural background where people do things like horoscope matching etc. there are many failed marriages. In case people become aware of the unrest in their relationship after coming across videos like these, do you think it is advisable for them to walk out for their own sake? Do the planets guide people's life trajectory based on their karma or is it someone's judgement based on acquiring awareness about 'relationship capacities'. Or may be as per me the best part is to work on your own self instead of fixing others or walking out on them based on one's own perception of discomfort. I believe that the universe actually charts the path of a person's life and even when one hasn't acquired such an awareness one can sooner or later understand this frustration. The only difference is 'time' and energy wasted in something that wasn't real but then wasn't it meant to be a life lesson then? And since an astrological chart is basically decoding the different languages of different planets, while keeping a track of the transitions, it becomes imperative for teachers like you to probably come up with something that helps people understand their life path. Such circumstances might have negative bearings on a person's life path but do you think it is a way of teaching it the hard way? I personally, always see life as a conundrum in that case. I have very recently started my journey towards making sense of basics of astrology but that is to understand my role in this life. It may take another 15-20 years to acquaint myself with this but I am glad I am already getting an opportunity to listen to learned people. Gratitude and greetings.
Excellent video Ernst, Thank you very much for this. I have three questions if i may:
1. what about moon and mercury in the same sign but very far from each other (moon in 3 degrees and mercury in 27)? will that still be considered a bad thing?
2. what about moon and venus very close but in different signs (moon in 3 degrees and venus in 29 of previous sign)? will that still be considered a bad thing?
3. a man who has such bad indications - is there no hope for him being in a healthy relationship? should he opt for living on his own?
Thank you
YEs, if they are far apart Moon will not hurt mercury as much. ALl that can be exactly calculated, but I do not teach that on youtube as it is very involved. I teach that in my astrology-videos website. If moon and venus are in different signs but close in degrees, then no, they are not conjunct for this purpose.
You have to calculate HOra correctly by the planet in the first half of the sign being in that sign in the Hora. The planet in the second half of the Sign goes into the 7th from the sign it is in the Rasi. Only Kala software to my knowledge calculates the Hora correctly this way. Then the most important houses are the 2nd and 4th in the Hora and Moon is most important planet.
Do you include besides the Ve/Mo - Me/Mo conjunction and opposition also the square to determine whether a man is "capable" of maintaining a healthy love relationship with a woman or visa versa?
And why is Mo rasi aspecting Ve a Raj Yoga in Jaimini?
Thank you.
You have to measure the exact aspectual value from 0-60. So squares, etc. are not the correct aspect to use for this purpose.
Ok, thanks.
No, what you really need to do is look at the exact aspect strength of moon to venus which is a value between 0-60. If its more than 30, its gettign high and not ideal.
Thanks.
I have a question for you. Are these to be checked only in the rashi chart and not in the saptamsha and navamasha? If the rashi chart shows a mercury conjunct venus, the man gets a multi faceted, charming and witty wife. However, the navamsha shows a venus aspected by moon. And the saptamsha shows a venus conjunct moon. Can such a man be relied upon and considered a good prospect for marriage? The moon also happens to be the darakaraka for this man.
Brilliant, Ernst! Would 22 year old me have taken your wise counsel and avoided years of suffering? I'd like to think so but he was so beautiful and capable that I ignored the fact that his heart was capable of deep cruelty, much like my dad.
my lagna and sun are good but venus and mercury opposing moon...what can i do or where do i go wrong?i am born on 28/8/1985, 7.30pm, Delhi(india).. i am Aquarius lagna with saturn exalted in ninth house conjucting with ketu..sun in leo in 7th, moon, jupiter in 12th house(Capricorn)and venus, mercury and mars in 6th house(cancer)..i am shravana nakshatra guy... i m already practicing spirituality, meditation and charity service from last 8 years. M 31 and still not able to attract a good woman in life..is there anywhere i can take personal consultation from you esp regarding career and relationship?
Thanks for this very informative video. However, if Moon starves Venus and Mercury, why does it only diminish the relationship capacity of a male? Are you suggesting that a conjunction or opposition of Moon- Venus or Moon-Mercury has no impact on a female relationship capacity--for instance, females are immune to "irrational ideas" of the Moon-Mercury?
Not at all, moon aspecting mercury or venus will reduce the ability of mercury and venus for everyone.
Thanks for the quick response. Now that makes more sense. That may explain why this gal I know with Jupiter in Rashi Cancer and in Saptamsa Cancer as well (with Rahu) and in Navamsa Pisces (with Saturn and Pluto) got divorced in less than 4 years with a daughter. In her Rashi chart, she has Moon, Saturn, and Rahu in Virgo and Venus, Mercury and Keto in Pisces! Sun and Mars in Aries, opposing Pluto in Libra. Would you say that in this case the Man was OK, but it was her fault that the marriage failed, even with Venus and Jupiter in their own exaltations? Any advice for her, please? Thanks and have a great weekend.
There are many reasons why a person will get divorced. People may have the destiny for a short marriage or several it all depends on the entire layout of all relationship factors and yogas.
Thanks for your response Ernst. As this is a video on relationship capacity, and you stated that Moon opposing Venus or/and Mercury would starve both and diminish relationship capacity, my question is: How would Saturn ("friend at a distance" of Venus) joining Moon in the above case in Virgo change this relationship capacity (of irrational ideas and values as well as self-centeredness)? And, how is Rahu's presence in Virgo, joining Moon and Saturn, complicating the picture? Thanks.
I was in a relationship in where you just taught me why it didn't work and was never going to work I spent 30 years on that guy and I still trying to get over that guy by consciously saying I don't want to be in a relationship with him I think about him all the time I tried to watch his videos and I really want to get over him I just feel like he is embedded in me in some way and I would really like to know how I can change that if you have a course that can teach me to do that I will happily take it thank you Ernest you've helped me so much already
I love these videos ❤
I have to learn about this in my 50 🤐🙄🙂
In worst cases Moon and Mercury conjunctions can lead to irrational ideas and actions.
Nice to hear it is not my fault when the relationship doesnt work ;-)
Its just your fault for having the fate to attract a man who fails. So keep cultivating goodness until that passes.
then their are the professional Liars: they pretend and say words they don't mean just to get what they want: D1 chart will show that; yet not all people understand astrological principles. actions speak louder than words that are meaningless. Or they "change" their mind; after they "got" what they want! I really like the book: "Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dream-girl: A Women's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship by author Sherry Argov" and the author only used that title for the book to catch the eyes of female readers: &&& has absolutely nothing to do with 'being a bitch') It's about women holding onto their dignity and honor in relationships and not losing one's self to an abusive or lazy or demanding or control-freak man. this is a huge subject in USA and Marriage is also Marka and that is so true …. thank you again for this video (I watched this in 2013-2014: and obviously I must keep watching this... Yet when I tell a man "NO"- I get called Jaded or guarded or "Oh you must have been abused".... O M Geeeze …. No means No.... only a genuine gentleman understands and "RESPECTS" the word NO.... om shanti
Great content, thank you. What do you think about womans Moon conjunct mans Mars?
I like moon mars always, it's a decent combo. Old texts don't like it for a womanbe cause it makes her strong minded in what she needs. But it's a healthy strong mindedness and so I like it. You don't wany any malefics in the 4th from moon o4 4th in a woman' chart, those make it rough.
@@ErnstWilhelm Okay. He's Mars is in Scorpio, so is my Moon. Also we both have precise personal Pluto conjunctions with my Moon and his Mars. Solving mutual karma and power struggles seems to be a huge theme and it's Very frustrating because his Jupiter is in my 7th and my Venus is in his 7th house. Love is hard!
Oh shit that's so true... I realized this a couple years before watching this video... My opinion is the woman's ego gets in the way when trying to express the primary feelings.. So.when the Saturn transit happened opposite to my sun a couple years back and when my ego was completely shattered, I was able to see below the surface, the truth. Ahhhh I GET IT NOW!! 😄
Lets say person has bad relationship capacity like you said. I actualy got your report and its not looking very bright. And I have a venus that has like 380 points according to your videos on DK and Ve. What does that imply? That I will have a great wife that is unhappy with me? And how does it all relate to what you said in other video that good venus in male chart represents that man "earned" a good wife due to his past life karma. How can somebody have bad relationship capacity and at the same time great venus and DK ?
Now that i read it before its not that bad its says I'll be hard to love and average in doing the right thing. That not that bad?
So Venus shows how helpful your wife will be to you. YOur capacity shows how good of a man you can be towards the woman you love. Those are very different things.
Yea, I have Rahu in 7th too!
I have also.. Rahu in 7th
WOW amazing and u know i m 22 u r gonna change my life for better in furure. Thank you 😇 namastey 🙏
Great
Now I get it what bothered me about both of them. You've answered my questions. Thanks! They both have ☀ conjunct Rahu, Mars, Mercury (like this is so common or something) and one of them has Moon conjunct Mercury and opposite Venus. But the match calculator on astrosage says 33/36 for on and 22,5/36 for the other and I really didn't get it how is this possible! They both are so wrong on so many levels and they both try to get me to communicate but I'm so not into it.
Rahu Mars Mercury conjunct will be difficult for anyone to get along with, regardless of any compatibility.
Thank you for your answer. One (33/36) is my coworker and other coworkers think we are cute when we are fighting. They also thought that we are a good match (????). They stopped thinking that because they see it now we are not joking. Since we`ve met I find him repulsive. He irritates me so much. And the other is a guy who asked me out and since the first date I have this not really good feeling about him so I`m leaving him aside (like there is something violent in him and I really don`t want to know this part of him).
thank you Ernst! Amazingly video.
Why, symbolically, is Moon Conjunct Venus bad in a man? I would have thought that would make it easier on the girl?
Because Moon starves venus as per the Lajjitaadi Avasthas the single most important technique in Vedic Astrology. A starved venus is never happy with their partner.
Oftentimes when Moon is starving Venus then they are overly concerned with fulfilling and enjoying their own emotional needs. If they are concerned with fulfilling their own emotional needs, then how are they going to care about anyone else’s needs or how to make the other person feel safe and comfortable on life?
@@ErnstWilhelm 😂 😉 thanks for the answer
ok astrology is complicated... I need a teacher, do you have any video about aspects?
just to give a look for now...
i know quite few women with Moon Venus conjuction, they seems alright, is it different for females? The sign in wich falls is it relevant?
Yes, there is as lot to learning astrology clearly without getting your wires crossed. You can find all the good stuff at astrology-videos.com , and yes, the sign it falls in is relevant, if it falls in a sign that is a friend to venus it helps.
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I have a question is moon in Scorpio makes a woman not able to be receptive. or is it other factors . from your website it actually said I had a high relationship conpacity but I feel like you were talking about me in this video . I'm an Aries Sun with a Taurus ascendant Scorpio moon. Also if a mans Venus conjubcts my moon is this positive
A man's venus on your moon will make the man attracted to you in some ways. Moon in scorpio for a woman is a receptive place, if its not afflicted,. However, Moon in scorpio is always a tough place if the Moon is not between the 1st and 7th houses.
Ernst Wilhelm I thought a mans Venus on a woman's moon was considered bad because Venus is more the physical right ?
Taking notes like👀📝
Will the moon with jupiter in a womens chart will have the same effect as the moon with venus in a mans chart? Also: does the same problem occur when the darakaraka is conjunct the atmakaraka?
No, moon helps jupiter. And no, DK with AK is not a problem.
thx!
Sir, this is the first time I heard that a venus-,moon conjunction was a negative. Does that hold true in a female's chart as well?
Yes, you don't want it cause Moon hurts Venus.
@@ErnstWilhelm this will apply to synastry also right? Does it mean that a person with moon in scorpio for example will hurt their partner with venus in scorpio if they're conjunct?
If a man has got moon venus jupiter sun together in aries and mercury and satturn in Libra in his Navamsha chart who is a aquarius ascendent, having venus and moon together in Navamsha chart aspecting mercury, will it affect the relationship?
Impossible sun will Never be that far from mercury
D1 : Leo Ascendant. ketu conjunct sun, moon & venus in Aries in 9th
D9 : Sagg Ascendant. Sun, moon in Sagg & Venus, Saturn in Gemini
...I have no hope for any relationship. WTF I have done wrong?
You have problems expressing ur confidence. Sun and Ketu conjunction makes u introverted and less egoistic. You have to remember one thing. Girls love confident person. If u r not confident expressing yourself, how would u b confident dealing with other issues/matters?? This is the Psychology of Girls, and that's the reason why they fall for a guy who is an asshole
Hi, Ernst - would you be able to make a video surrounding relationship capacity for a gay man? 🙂
Oooo....l lovv tht......how he treats th nobody in your lives...
You r amazingg..bless U
Hi Ernst, why does the moon stand for the ego and not the sun? Thx
+Herbert Grundböck Sun is the Atma, the soul, which is the state devoid of the ego. When the Sun gets afflicted then a person becomes separated more from their soul state and that will create egocentric behaviour, but its not due to the sun, its due to lack of sun. Moon is the Manas in which resides the Jeeva, the living individual being along with ahamkara, the ego, which is the idea of separate existence.
Sir i have zero degree venus(darakarka) in 6th house in scorpio
What does it means?
What does zero degree venus means?
I guess all of this is very interesting to check for in a birth chart of your partner but there's stages in everyone's life, man or woman, when it's so challenging that not everyone could stick to their best side. Or, on the opposite, a person can come out as a wonderful reliable partner even if originally they seemed to be a complete asshat. Is it beneficial to think of all this profile features rather like a main theme, like major or minor key in music piece, but to remember that it's all really fluid and not set in stone?
Its the hard times that show who a person really is. How do they act then? In good circumstances its easy for people to pretend to be decent people, but take away a bit of security or what they want and see the real them...
@@ErnstWilhelm thank you for your answer. But my point was rather about "Is there any "real them" or "real you" at all?" Or just like everyone else, like my precious self I suppose, anyone should be granted a chance to meet life experience and express or rather define themselves through their choices at the moment. Or is it all set in stone, I mean stars, from the birth? I don't think so. :)
Thanks Again!
Thats relief to hear from a man
Is he still doing this reports? Would be tonnes of fun to get one from him! 🙂
is it necessary to have BT for a man's capacity report?
Yes, it is a full chart.
What about a woman with venus and moon conj 😅
in all fairness, the truth is, what is in your OWN personal chart? there's yer trouble.
Yes, ultimately it all boils down to that and so by seeing what a person is attracting, whether as a partner, as a relocation chart for their residence, etc. it will point out the same in their chart.
yes. i'm sure you intuited that i have that kind of chart! all about standing on MY OWN TWO FEET. independent, confident, pioneering, healer, visionary. fortunately i WAS married 20 years to a good man that also has same kind of "not marriage oriented" but family hero type, so we made 3 glorious children, now grandchildren. all happy family, just not "married". my subsequent loves were also very fated Karmic relationship souls with very bad relationship aspects, so there was no delaying my personal evolution! me: moon, Jupiter Pluto 11th Leo square Venus Taurus 8th ! (whole house signs) along with Sun 7th Aries 2 degrees, Mars 4th Capricorn Trine Venus. Saturn conjunct North Node Rahu Sagittarius 3rd so it took me forever to learn it all. i have the very desirable sexy female vibes of deep passion of the Venus Taurus 8th with Sun 7th house comittment needs. so the shenanigans of my totes gorgeous sexy brilliant non-commital ambiguous loves were not going to suffice the long haul. Cancer Uranus Midheaven. very healer. much " expose the truth, burn out the lies " Pluto conjunct moon sq Venus! I just accept it ALL now and have forgiveness in my heart. not bitterness. i won the children lottery. men come and go. i'm set in my "old age". my son in law acts like the husband i wanted. we get along great! my son acts like the hubs i wanted. he adores me! maybe next year i will remember to go for true love again!
There is no way to tell Who a psychopath on is on the first date because they mimic Human empathy so well. I dated a psychopath and I will say, there were zero gut feelings about his manipulations for the first two months. He played the perfect attentive suitor. He ended up driving me into a wall at 100mph, then Abandoning me 340 miles away from home after driving me out of the city. I met him on Instagram where you can see how he portrays himself as fun and cool. He is neither fun nor coolant he uses his popular meme page to find women. His chart has so many retrogrades. His vertex squared my vertex, if that means anything. Tried to ruin my reputation online. Beware if you’re a woman who follows Tatum.strangely or if he slides into your DM’s.
Sorry you had to deal with that. By learning to read body parts, especially the shape of the hands, you can learn how to see the people to run from.
@@ErnstWilhelm what do you mean by this?
Thank you
The Teacher!
Ha!! You’re awesome 😊🦋
How does a man improve upon this moon venus conjucntion.to improve relationship???..UPAYAS?
jonak dowerah Its a mental struggle against desires and emotional needs be fulfilled by another person. So just turn your mind to things that really can be fulfilling until your mind gets that habit. That can be a mantra or something else that is inspiring to you.
didnt really understand ...but thanks
100%
Yes, if you do not have Kala, use Mean.
As a male, I don't really think about myself as being "attractive"...learned that what women find attractive can be pretty subjective anyway. but I've always worked on how I come across & I do get looks, then again, maybe they just think I'm weird looking ;-)
thank you so much for posting
what about rasi dristhi beetwen Moon Venus, does it work like opposition/conjunction? thank you
No, Rasi drishti is not the same.
so sir person who doesn't have kala software should prefer mean over true because i am really a amateur guide.....
Ernst can you please talk about 'Nadi Dosh'. I'm Indian in believe in astrology but if Nadia dosh is real then 33% of the population would suffer from it. also there's a lot of fear mongering about it in India. please explain
Nadi dosha is not that serious. A relationship is possible with it. Rajju Dosha and Vedha Dosha are the two that can cause serious problems.
Indeed, when a man ties you down anyways against your will is Mr Right, according to 50 Shades of Gray, ruins an entire generation of women yet again; so unless there was a pre decided safe word, it is not OK. Modern western women get in trouble cuz they don't know how to show vulnerability; if you watch Asian soaps you notice the women in love always CRYS; Russian women know this too and that is why some guys like that.
sir i have a query like which d2 chart to use parashara in which only 2 houses play a major role or there is another i came across KASHINATH HORA a normal chart plz guide which one do you use for weath aspects........
ernst how are u. i just wnna ask what is the exact use of d9 chart.what aspects of life are to be seen and why its given so much importance
Yeah this explains alot....not expressing my first feeling :(.