I'd probably be devastated going through a similar experiences like you did. You must have a figurative heart of steel being able to go through the trauma of those experiences. I mean, I have had heartaches in the past, too, which were mostly self-inflicted, so I know the pain that comes with failed relationships. But yours is completely something else, as there's clearly an element of cheating in them, and you the one being cheated. Still, lucky are you for finally meeting the right one past the wrong relationships you've been into. Love truly works in mysterious ways like that, sometimes.
@dothackjhe to be clear, it did suck going through these events and yeah being cheated on sucks, but it did help me move past the victim mentality and learn to become accountable. It’s hard to see your own flaws if everything goes well the first time. I now look back on those times as a beautiful, rare moment of sadness that some people never even get to experience. Thanks for listening @dothackjhe.
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I'd probably be devastated going through a similar experiences like you did. You must have a figurative heart of steel being able to go through the trauma of those experiences. I mean, I have had heartaches in the past, too, which were mostly self-inflicted, so I know the pain that comes with failed relationships. But yours is completely something else, as there's clearly an element of cheating in them, and you the one being cheated. Still, lucky are you for finally meeting the right one past the wrong relationships you've been into. Love truly works in mysterious ways like that, sometimes.
@dothackjhe to be clear, it did suck going through these events and yeah being cheated on sucks, but it did help me move past the victim mentality and learn to become accountable. It’s hard to see your own flaws if everything goes well the first time. I now look back on those times as a beautiful, rare moment of sadness that some people never even get to experience. Thanks for listening @dothackjhe.