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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 136

  • @crystalolivarez9587
    @crystalolivarez9587 2 года назад +359

    It’s okay if friendships end. People come and go in our lives, and I think you handled that question with grace and care. I support you both!

  • @ceee8998
    @ceee8998 2 года назад +127

    Q&A
    4:08 what's your MBTI and enneagram
    4:20 how do you view your friendships in your late 20s
    4:51 what made you choose June? how did you know he was the one
    5:58 any plans on going to korea? do you ever plan on living abroad
    6:29 do you feel like you're late to everything in life
    7:27 how do you know when it's time to let go of a friendship
    8:03 how do you handle stress
    9:29 are you and michelle still friends

  • @Olga-cy6hr
    @Olga-cy6hr 2 года назад +78

    I wouldn’t call your prioritizing yourself selfish! It is very mature of you to take care of yourself more and it gives you chance to get to know and understand yourself even better! Love your videos!

  • @jollivia
    @jollivia 2 года назад +98

    Something I can thank Michelle for is linking me up to your vlogs! You’re my favourite vlogger (+ your interior design style inspires me!) and I look forward to your videos every week :)

    • @its_ellenitta
      @its_ellenitta Год назад +1

      Me too ❤❤❤....I even have my notifications on. She's more relatable.

  • @anahiimeza
    @anahiimeza 2 года назад +93

    Whether you and Michelle are or are not friends anymore does NOT change the level of support we have for both of you 💛 On the other hand, the negativity people try to put out there as reality of “what happened” is crossing the line.
    But thank you for addressing so gracefully and know that this doesn’t change anything between us supporters and yourself xx

  • @DaestrumManitz
    @DaestrumManitz 2 года назад +179

    Congrats on reaching 50k. I appreciate you addressing the elephant in the room. I have always recognized the differences in personality traits that exist between you and Meesh and can enjoy both of your channels without any inherent need for comparison. You have exhibited professionalism in this matter and now we can move on! 😎

  • @isah1885
    @isah1885 2 года назад +122

    It’s sad when a friendship ends. And wishing the best for one another is the way to move on in peace. Both of you are good people and deserve all the success and happiness life has to offer.

  • @S엘리엄마
    @S엘리엄마 2 года назад +78

    You just put yourself as a very classy woman in my book. Thank you for your honesty and we respect your boundries. I am older than you, and I just foresee you going very far in life.

  • @irenetweedledee6857
    @irenetweedledee6857 2 года назад +30

    Esther, I’m 47 with an 18 year old daughter and still learning on the matter of friendships… The certain thing is that through them we learn ourselves and evolve. I always keep and remember the good times🙂 Wishing you all the best😘

  • @cosyville
    @cosyville 2 года назад +89

    Lots of love Esther ❤ thank you for addressing the question so gracefully. Friendships come and go and that's just part of life. I'm pretty sure most of us here have had both long-term and short-term relationships. Nothing but respect to you and your channel ❤

  • @kimmytlw
    @kimmytlw 2 года назад +26

    Totally agree on the part about sharing same values with your friends. Especially ones that you thought was more than just friends, basically those you consider as family and when they betray your trust it just really isn't the best feeling. And for me that's when I know that, that is the end. Worst is if they don't even see it as an issue. 😔

  • @mjmjmj-ko2mq
    @mjmjmj-ko2mq 2 года назад +13

    the thing is I just love and admire Esther who SHE is, surroundings are not important. That's why I'm watching her with no judgement since she started YT, her vibe is such a peace and love, and that makes me smile. so thankyou❤

  • @jzara3984
    @jzara3984 2 года назад +27

    I love Michelle. And I loved Esther’s honest and respectful answer, which made me respect and like Esther more. Honestly more friendships should end in a dignified way, not with all the drama and tearing down that normally ensues.

    • @NadzHas
      @NadzHas 2 года назад

      Is it Michelle Choi she talking about?

    • @jzara3984
      @jzara3984 2 года назад +3

      @@NadzHas yeah

  • @88ashjen
    @88ashjen 2 года назад +21

    I let go of many friendships with no drama. Also you grow and they grow or the purpose of the friendship has been fulfilled. It sounds weird to some but a mature mind would understand it’s life and not everyone is meant to be in your life forever. Also, I really hope DACA receipts get more from a life they didn’t ask for. The fact that if feels like you are on patrol is insane. I didn’t know that about you but I appreciate you not feeling ashamed because you shouldn’t.

  • @rosebuenaventura4593
    @rosebuenaventura4593 2 года назад +62

    I knew you through Michelle's channel but now I watches your videos more. I just feel that I can relate to your videos more now. Love your simplicity and intelligence.

  • @roosplans
    @roosplans 2 года назад +7

    When kids say they're in their 20s and "too late" for things.
    Let me tell you, and many many others can agree to this, 30s is just the beginning of better things coming into life. I know 40s will be even better!!

  • @alisa311ify
    @alisa311ify 2 года назад +7

    Honestly I think everyone should understand not all friendships are meant to be long term , if it is that’s great but it doesn’t always have to be

  • @tsering8344
    @tsering8344 2 года назад +20

    I am happy for you that you have come out of a relationship/friendship that does not serve you. Just because something doesn't work out, I hope you don't doubt yourself (which I am quite sure you aren't). You are a warm and wholesome person to watch on this platform. We love your content.

  • @gracecanlas
    @gracecanlas 2 года назад +6

    As also a 9 type, I can relate that growth can look like being willing to set and hold your personal boundaries, when it’s not your MO. It can feel like doing that isolates you from others but it’s important. Always love how real you are, and thank you for doing this Q&A!

  • @cynthiamakao9198
    @cynthiamakao9198 2 года назад +69

    Damn! The title of this video gave me some sort of anxiety coz I knew where this was really going. Some viewers were really haunting her on her comment section. Their friendship had such an authentic and some sort of vibrant chemistry, it was so nice and engaging watching them hangout and do random stuff together, I am yet to come across such but I guess good things also come to an end and it must have also not been easy for them to come to such a conclusion. It's not all roses but I love them both, I can only wish them the best on their separate journeys. Bless you Esther✨❤️

  • @TheAmie1995
    @TheAmie1995 2 года назад +4

    the late 20s and having friend break up are hard, it can be a simple thing that ends it! but thats okay some ppl are only meant in your life for a certain season and you learn so much from them also. 😢

  • @kb4893
    @kb4893 2 года назад +30

    Thank you for always being so genuine and honest, without any drama or shade. We’re rooting for your happiness and success, and we can’t wait for the day that you can finally take that vacation to Korea!❤

  • @elyse3884
    @elyse3884 2 года назад +17

    You and June are such a cute couple. You complement each other very well.❤️💙 What fun to see Lois pop up in your post! You are very well spoken with such a “gentle” demeanor. You handled your questions with the utmost grace and respectability. Looking forward to your next post. 😍

  • @hannahkim5665
    @hannahkim5665 2 года назад +23

    I’m so so sad their friendship ended😭 never going to see them together.. but you both are equally amazing person so wish both of you the best!!

  • @larali7873
    @larali7873 2 года назад +6

    You are truly the sister I never had, loving all your work, your openness and your honesty. It's beautiful to see you embark on your own journey. Your vlogs have so much style, rooting for your Esther!

  • @siennap7854
    @siennap7854 2 года назад +15

    I'm one of many people who think that you're so much more substantial & real than M. I appreciate your transparency & realness! As a Unni myself, I wanna let you know this kind of fall out between female friends is pretty common and normal, also happened to me before!

    • @lorraineyu724
      @lorraineyu724 2 года назад +1

      Your word comforted me a lot as someone who just has gone through a 'friendship crisis'. Thank you Unni:)

  • @JayJan10
    @JayJan10 2 года назад +12

    I respect you, Ester. You know you don’t owe us anything but you still addressed it. You’re a real one. I mean nothing was explained but if you want us to move on then I’ll move on. I like you way better anyway.

  • @kara8892
    @kara8892 2 года назад +20

    I'm so sad y'all aren't friends anymore, but as someone in their mid 20s o understand how friendships, no matter how good can end so abruptly. But wish you guys well and will be rooting for both of you!! ♥

  • @siajrdn
    @siajrdn 2 года назад +17

    Maaann this was heavy. Now I feel I need to be honest. I was only watching Michelle's vlogs because you and Freesia were in them. I wish her well but I was terrified that you were going to take some time away from YT. Sad and relieved right now. Please keep up the excellent work.

    • @michellejordaan
      @michellejordaan Год назад

      What happened with freesia and michelle’s friendship?

    • @flayvrr1119
      @flayvrr1119 Год назад

      @@michellejordaan I think they’re still friends

  • @withhubby
    @withhubby 2 года назад +13

    에스더님 초반부터 열심히 보고 있는 구독자입니다~ 저도 끝나버린 friendship이 생겼어요.. 코로나이후 그리고 결혼이후 자연스럽게요… 쉐어하기 굉장히 힘든이야기 일텐데 그런 질문을 하는 사람들이 있었기에 에스더님도 그냥 지나칠 수 없어서 맨션하셨겠지요… 꼭 모든 사람과 친구를 해야할 필요는 없는 거 같아요. 이야기 해주셔서 감사합니다❤

  • @miumiu262
    @miumiu262 2 года назад +1

    I don't know what happened exactly so there is no judge. But the best moment in her vlog to me was she shared how she and Ivan be a couple to support your podcast, it looked like so valuable. If she talked this topic on her own channel, there should be many views. I was sooo touched at the moment. Hope both of you are going well and happy.

  • @goat8614
    @goat8614 2 года назад +11

    Hey Esther if you not being with Michelle makes you happy then who cares 🤷🏻‍♂️ You’re still the same ole Esther that we met in Michelle’s videos and honestly I thank her for that. You’re so responsible, kind, and I hope the BEST for you and June. You guys are amazing people and I really hope I catch both of you together some day to just say hi 😂 I’m ALWAYS around Manhattan and sometimes Brooklyn. Much love to both of you! Take care! :D

  • @waiify7
    @waiify7 2 года назад +1

    I noticed the shift, but some friendships.. fully letting go and giving it time, etc is good. I’m sad, but I’m rooting for growth, compassion and change.

  • @BlueberryBoogie
    @BlueberryBoogie 2 года назад +22

    the last question I was actually wondering but I thought it would be so weird to even ask that to anyone even someone on youtube...ppl on the internet can be a lil weird. but appreciate the transparency!

  • @ratchl
    @ratchl 2 года назад +6

    Ah I was a bit sad to hear that you and Michelle are no longer friends but I know you guys have your reasons and wish the best for you both 🙏🏼 but also Esther I’m really happy for you that you have June and other friends and are out there doing your own thing 🙌🏼

  • @aliciacs19
    @aliciacs19 2 года назад +9

    Totally agree with the friendship talk. Congrats on 50k!! Road to 100k 🥳🥳🥳

  • @LA-bi9ht
    @LA-bi9ht 2 года назад +8

    Love you so deeply Esther 🥰 you are you’re own person. An amazing youtuber/influencer/content creator. WILL FOREVER BE A HUGE FAN ❤️ (also, we know it wasn’t your fault)

  • @yagirlnaila
    @yagirlnaila 2 года назад +46

    I just hope Michelle isn’t a mean girl since I really like her as well. Well, the person that I see in a 10 minute video. I noticed things fell off after Michelle was telling the story of Esther getting upset during a game (something like that). It just seemed like she was trying to bring something up that had already been hashed to make her look bad, but idk. You did a really great job at addressing the situation Esther! Congrats on 51K 🥳

    • @rudylee8596
      @rudylee8596 2 года назад +23

      Yeah I think Michelle included that part to make herself look like she can go through conflicts with friends but it clearly just made her look like someone who gets mad over small things...red flag. Esther is the realer and sweeter person.

    • @lilipam909
      @lilipam909 2 года назад

      Where did Michelle talk about the board game thing?

    • @francinesabs
      @francinesabs 2 года назад +14

      @@lilipam909 It's the vlog titled "Living Alone Diaries | Chill and cozy week making food, confronting friends, beautiful winter in NYC" I think towards the end of it they talked about the confrontation.

    • @LA-bi9ht
      @LA-bi9ht 2 года назад +3

      Yesss!! Omg, so glad someone noticed it too. Although, not that she was putting Esther in a bad light, but she accidentally revealed who she was and didn’t even realized it.

    • @yougetaspear7799
      @yougetaspear7799 2 года назад

      Who's girl

  • @1004-l2u
    @1004-l2u 2 года назад +1

    happy 50k! I enjoy how chill your vlogs are, youre not doing things for the vlog rather youre just living your life and its nice to see that :) i think its very mature of you to address the "elephant in the room" i hope people (as in viewers) will be mature as well and keep unnecessary comments to themselves. Also, your makeup in the q/a portion was really pretty!

  • @asahinaiori994
    @asahinaiori994 7 месяцев назад

    I love how mature esther is ❤❤❤❤

  • @jnncb
    @jnncb 2 года назад +13

    Thank you for being honest with us Esther 🥺

  • @happyface3216
    @happyface3216 2 года назад +2

    You can still travel within the US/US territory right? You should go to Hawaii, PR, US Virgin Islands GUAM u can still get the foreign experience in these places

  • @bellenyc2342
    @bellenyc2342 2 года назад +26

    What happened between you and Michelle, is you n Michelle problem, I still love you and love to watch your vlog, God bless you Esther

    • @goat8614
      @goat8614 2 года назад

      If you would have watched the whole entire video you would know

    • @sarahjane4772
      @sarahjane4772 2 года назад

      @@goat8614lol damn chill, this person isn’t asking but saying that whatever beef they have is their own business

  • @missll72
    @missll72 2 года назад +16

    Just watched and I’m so sorry to hear about you and Michelle’s friendship. I did start being a fan of Michelle’s first for years then I became a fan of yours through her channel. I do however really love your channel a bit more because you’re a bit more relatable than Michelle she sometimes comes off as too bougie without saying she is. And that’s fine but it’s not for me. Please stay sweet and relatable. Xoxo

  • @joanmichel
    @joanmichel 2 года назад +5

    glad to hear your thoughts and honesty ~ commend you for putting yourself out there

  • @MegaRbailey
    @MegaRbailey 2 года назад +1

    hi Esther I always love your videos and vlogs its so relaxing but just wanted to ask about you chairs, can customers by it separately or customers have to buy it as a set

  • @joycejames88
    @joycejames88 Год назад +1

    you know what esther, i found you're amazing. Thank you for being real

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 года назад +15

    Congrats on 50k Ester ❤

  • @jk_7298
    @jk_7298 2 года назад +5

    We love you Esther❤❤❤ your honesty is appreciated.

  • @tenyang4545
    @tenyang4545 2 года назад +6

    Esther please do a mukbang with June in the your next vlog ❤

  • @jeraldlynding5153
    @jeraldlynding5153 2 года назад +1

    You are very brave to acknowledge about letting go a friendship!!!

  • @beigecozygirl
    @beigecozygirl 2 года назад +1

    always in awe with your maturity and honesty. congrats on 50k!! 🚀

  • @shynanoojeff602
    @shynanoojeff602 2 года назад +10

    ❤❤..really love her simplicity of style..

  • @jennylin6806
    @jennylin6806 2 года назад +3

    those white couches are growing on me, i might look into a bench like that hehe

  • @liakath639
    @liakath639 2 года назад +4

    It's ok to let go ....life goes one....we will always support you and love you 💓💓

  • @cindytsai917
    @cindytsai917 2 года назад +4

    Hi Esther, this is my first time leave comment here,I knew you through her channel, but I also become your loyal viewer too🥰Just want to say I really like how you answer these question such a peaceful way. Btw, I actually just subscribe your podcast channel, will u update anytime soon??

  • @luisaalba2592
    @luisaalba2592 2 года назад +15

    I had no idea you and Michelle are not friends anymore but I do hope both pf you are OK.

    • @Jsbdhuwbxbks3
      @Jsbdhuwbxbks3 2 года назад +7

      Same here! I just figured they were both super busy or hung out more off camera 🤷🏾‍♀️
      I wish both of them the best though ❤

    • @luisaalba2592
      @luisaalba2592 2 года назад

      @@Jsbdhuwbxbks3 yeah, it never really bothered me.

  • @lindajackson6959
    @lindajackson6959 2 года назад +4

    I love Michelle you and Freesia….. but there is always 2 side of the story and we don’t need to know and glad it’s finally addressed….but hey life moves on….. ❤ and you never know there might be a time it will be ok again❤

  • @ashleyskoo9354
    @ashleyskoo9354 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability Esther ❤

  • @saso1432
    @saso1432 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. I love you and i wish u the best you deserve it❤

  • @haleydonovan3421
    @haleydonovan3421 Год назад +1

    where is your white long sleeve & black tank top from?

  • @beenishhaider6308
    @beenishhaider6308 2 года назад +3

    You are so graceful. All my love to you 💕

  • @jjohn1388
    @jjohn1388 2 года назад +6

    Thank you for being so frank, Esther

  • @kc1016
    @kc1016 2 года назад +3

    Keep thriving keep posting keep going ✨️ 💓 your awesome and brave

  • @mmma_yaaa
    @mmma_yaaa 2 года назад +4

    wait what?since when did people notice?i am so left behind and in shock :((((

  • @moricouple1591
    @moricouple1591 2 года назад +4

    Hi Esther :) Could you add some Korean subtitles?😊

  • @ani9603
    @ani9603 2 года назад

    That tree is really vibrant! I bet you are loving fall there! I love Bryant Park and am ready to go back there soon. I also love your new sofa!! 🤩🤩🤩🤩 Enjoy girl! Soon it will be time to decorate the new place for Christmas. Maybe I can score a Christmas cookie baking video from you and June! 😃😋😋😋🍪🍪🍪

  • @junekim2325
    @junekim2325 2 года назад

    Thank u for sharing ! Feel sad 😢 but wish you two are happy seperately ❤

  • @cafepupu11
    @cafepupu11 2 года назад

    I tried this Belief products earlier and I really loved it!! I just didn't buy it again because it's a little bit pricy..

  • @kayl.2877
    @kayl.2877 2 года назад +23

    Wow that was some answer… lol honestly saw this coming I don’t remember who’s channel it was but I remember you both argued over a board game and that’s when I knew it wasn’t gonna last

    • @l.salevi
      @l.salevi 2 года назад +5

      I remember that video and for some reason it popped in my head as well when I stopped seeing vids of them together

    • @l.salevi
      @l.salevi 2 года назад +2

      @@TunAnneNadia I’ve been searching. As soon as I find it I’ll link!

    • @fromjkim
      @fromjkim 2 года назад +1

      @Loyd what video did she say that to freesia? 👀🍵

    • @Dr57198
      @Dr57198 2 года назад +10

      I was thinking the same too
      I just went bd rewatched it
      Michelle brings this topic out of the blue
      It’s phrased as we’re you ever upset with me and then she smiled
      Esther had no idea what she was indicating at
      And then Michelle herself brings in this topic
      It was more like she wanted to rub in her point of view
      In the video Esther says
      I never knew this was an issue
      That episode was so awkward there

    • @itsminehana
      @itsminehana 2 года назад

      @@Dr57198 can you guys give the link of the video, I wanna watch it

  • @somerset8088
    @somerset8088 Год назад

    new subscriber ❤ you and Lois are such classic Korean beauties

  • @ai.cherie
    @ai.cherie 2 года назад

    Esther I think you’re really an ESFP and your bf is an INTJ. The compatibility makes sense

  • @jayajanghel7391
    @jayajanghel7391 2 года назад

    I found ur channel a week ago and I have watched all ur vlogs.
    From 1st vlog till this last one.
    Because I like u and ur vlogs.
    Sooo good 👍😊

  • @mariamathews5312
    @mariamathews5312 2 года назад

    Where did you let that key magnetic live it

  • @MariaEatWorld
    @MariaEatWorld 2 года назад

    where's ur blazer from! x

  • @elsa_unnie
    @elsa_unnie 2 года назад +1

    부족한 영어 실력으로 완전히 이해하진 못 하지만 영상을 여러 번 돌려보면서 이해하려 노력하고 있어요. 한국에서 예은양에게 화이팅을 보냅니다.^^

  • @she81430
    @she81430 2 года назад

    Love your voice! Like your attitude ❤❤❤

  • @ahatmira30
    @ahatmira30 2 года назад

    Esther you are the best!

  • @HanQian
    @HanQian 2 года назад +3

    I like u, a minimalist 😊

  • @jayajanghel7391
    @jayajanghel7391 2 года назад +2

    There is not so much editing on ur vlogs it's like pure and realistic.

  • @mavicwatson522
    @mavicwatson522 8 месяцев назад

    ate you michelle choi's friend?❤😊

  • @lillayfoxx426
    @lillayfoxx426 2 года назад +2

    Hiiiii! Miss your videos 🎃❤🎃

  • @robram4357
    @robram4357 2 года назад +1

    Life goes on and we should move on

  • @chjnfu1120
    @chjnfu1120 Год назад

    Esther here

  • @aakritisingh2323
    @aakritisingh2323 2 года назад +2

    Love you❤️

  • @vuletshvhs4451
    @vuletshvhs4451 2 года назад

    Oh no. 💔

  • @katherinezh
    @katherinezh 2 года назад +1

  • @october_lnn
    @october_lnn 2 года назад

    So lovely you are ✨😊

  • @shijiaqi8222
    @shijiaqi8222 2 года назад +1

    ❤❤

  • @angeliedee
    @angeliedee 2 года назад +8

    awwee. Friendship breakups are always hard but they're normal 🫶🏻 ...and should be talked about more!

  • @chelseazhou8569
    @chelseazhou8569 2 года назад

    💜💜💜

  • @yougetaspear7799
    @yougetaspear7799 2 года назад

    You gotta hate this conundrum of Asian cuties so hard to find thou, what's up with that🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @fridaliu1462
    @fridaliu1462 2 года назад

    now I know why you are not friends any more lmao.

  • @aakritisingh2323
    @aakritisingh2323 2 года назад

    Omg I'm first view nd comments 😁❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @mskimthaing9800
    @mskimthaing9800 2 года назад +1

    Michelle Choi

  • @ohlalakathi8807
    @ohlalakathi8807 2 года назад +44

    im so happy that youre no friends with michelle any more.. she changed so much! i don’t recognize her any more… she became such a chick and i think only her appereance is the most important thing for her..

    • @estherys
      @estherys  2 года назад +189

      hi, i want to make it clear that just because we’re no longer friends doesn’t mean i condone these kinds of comments about her. i understand that everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but i don’t stand for hate comments about others on my channel. after receiving countless questions and also seeing hateful discussions about it on my channel, i wanted to address it once and only once to put this to rest. hope we can all move past this topic after this! i will be removing any comments related to this going forward - hope you guys understand..

    • @ohlalakathi8807
      @ohlalakathi8807 2 года назад +19

      @@estherys hey esther, sorry, it wasn‘t meant to be as a hate comment. i apologise for this!

    • @Tj-nj1be
      @Tj-nj1be 2 года назад +28

      Then please go ahead and delete this comment. People are liking this comment. Esther’s channel isn’t the place for this 😊

    • @ctgeblue17
      @ctgeblue17 2 года назад +11

      Not even a hate comment, very much of an opinion. But i get where Esther is coming from, her channel don't need to be a drama stage for ya'll... Go share your opinion with Michelle, lol 😆

    • @calmlysom
      @calmlysom 2 года назад

      So true out of thousand people there’s someone who’s always there to make bad atmosphere. Think in a mature sense, how hard it has been for Esther to speak about the topic n to reframe or find the appropriate sentence inside her head before letting it out, just to make we guys clear.
      I’m happy for whatever the matter is.
      I’ve enjoyed Esther channel since the day one n will be!!
      Love you both

  • @loispark
    @loispark 2 года назад +3

  • @ABrunnaGoncalves
    @ABrunnaGoncalves 2 года назад

    ❤❤❤