I have to say he denied the other man's rights, the mother also. Or the mother mainly. They real dad didn't cause a mess back then, and he could have. Legally and physically, I don't know who would of won, or who might of used weapons. Also he wanted his baby, that's foul. He clearly did the same type of job as the guy she thought was her dad. She had a similar upbringing, so he wasn't a bad father. She even worked with on of her sisters. I mean this isn't fair. He did raise her the same, but the father was willing and capable, but chose to back down. Should he have pushed the issue when she was a baby?
I feel like Mr. Fresneda knew it deep down. But he treated her like his real daughter regardless. That's a good man right there. She should be grateful that two man want to be in her life ❤️
The man who raised her showed no reaction. He knew, probably has known since the beginning, and accepted her in his heart as his own child. The mark of a great man.
This by far one of the realest episodes I’ve seen in a long time. She has two fathers that will love her unconditionally. Sad situation but turned into a positive blessing. Respect to the father who raised her as well. Unconditional love trumps all.
Judge Lauren is correct when she says that we have a right to know who our fathers are, I am 58 never knew mine that’s bad not only for me but for my children and grandchildren my mother is wrong
This is some nice grown ppl business because both men are so respectful of each other. God is good and things would be just fine!!!!! She has two set of families now!!!!
Yes, so respectful! He suspected it was his daughter but knew he was wrong by violating the relationship back then, and didn't want to upset the family. But his heart was breaking! It's his child too! 😟😢🤧
@@alishadyaram4239 And thank God that I am black because that's who He created me to be. And that He blessed me with parents who raised me to be respectful of all people, because if I made a statement like the one you just made, whether or not I knew who my father was would not be the primary concern. By the way, you are clearly missing many episodes of this show.
I think he always knew but didn't care... he loved his woman and they accepted it and went on to have a loving family... I think they never wanted her to know so they could keep their fantasy alive
So does it make the simp a real man to lie to this little girl her whole life and her mom a real women for denying the real farther access to his child at the end of the day they hurt the young lady more by denying her biological farther and for that you get no real man award from me your a simp and the mother is a selfish lier
+Buddy Ro Oh, I agree it wasn't right for him to help keep that lie going. And that "real father" could have tried harder, if he REALLY wanted to be in his daughters life. Yes, Mr. Fresneda is a REAL man for being in his children's lives and this young lady that he knew could possibly not be his own. Because he stayed and WAS a father to this young lady, she appears to be a very nice, well adjusted woman. Only little boys use the excuse of blaming women for why they behave like little boys when you're supposed to be a grown man. At what point in life does a male have to accept responsibility for their actions as adults? You can't blame women your whole life for the things YOU do. Are males like you going to just whine your whole life about your slacking mother? Break the cycle and get the mental help you need to work through it and become your OWN man and not the one you blame your mother making you into.
I love when grown ups behave like adults in the courtroom even when facing a complicated situation. Both men treated the child, the memory of her mom and each other with respect. Other than time travel and honesty to begin with, I'm not sure their could've been a better outcome.
@@lynette599 please watch it again - you are right someone whispers that but if you watch the bio father carefully it's not him (his lips don't move) - someone else is near the microphone and says it but it wasn't the bio father (thank goodness!)
What an amazing father! When he said the piece of paper meant nothing to him it bought tears of happiness to my eyes. We need more people like him in this world
I knew he was the father, she looks just like him, the forehead she nose lips and brows. And in the picture she looks just like him. Her mother is wrong, she knew all a long that he was not the father, that is why she always got mad when someone brought it up. She knew that she had a good man so she didn't want to lose him. Smh!
@Fantastic View Imagine how many people never find out? The secret stays in the grave with that individual. Wow that is tragic. She should be thanking him for being persistent.
I believe the mother and the father that raised her knew the truth but decided to keep it secret. It sucks that her bio dad missed out on raising her and like she said, if her mom didn't pass this would have never came out. How sad???? I hope they all can heal from this.
The biological father says the mother was in a happy relationship but apparently she was in a 'break' with the legal father. I think she knew but we know that it's really weird be in a 'break', get pregnant and expect that your partner will accept raise a baby that it's not his but from a rebound.
He did not know he asked her was this my baby because I think people said something and he said once she said this is your child he went ahead and accepted it and went on and raise them
I think all the adults knew. It was unfair not to tell her since she could dated or been with a relative and not known. I'm glad she had a good man to raise her and knows the truth now.
I have a brother like that. We have the same dad. His mom took him away, got married and they raised him as their own. She took it to the grave. He found out after she died and found us on Facebook years later.
Maybe they weren't married yet (which is what I think). That was never specifically established. They just said Mr. Fresneda married her. They also said @ the time Mr. Thompson came in the picture, Ms. Robinson & Mr. Fresneda had "broken up" not "separated". Since it cost money 2 change ur name, & the mom was clearly sticking 2 her lie, & Mr. Fresneda didn't leave, why get her name changed?! Same last name or not, her & her siblings all believed Mr. Fresneda was their dad. Altho heartwarming, his episode was a trip!
And she should have never did dat cause if u have a real man in ur life u should have appreciated him more by giving the child his last name cause he's already her biological father from being married to her mom. I found dat unfair but who am I to judge, dats just my opinion, god is the only one dat can judge us.
In this case it was right - but not always the case. Sometimes looks are deceiving. Saw one episode where the girl looked JUST like the other dad.. not his. Lol.
Man a deep secret to take to the grave. The mom didn't think about how it would effect the child and both men. It's unfair. Now at 29 she has to process this.
Some of us have wickedness in our hearts. It gets taken to the grave, and then beyond. Wretched lost soul, she decided to go against truth and the good. That is why, ultimately all will be made equal.
@@qweshun1223 yes she definitely is blessed. So sorry you had to experience life without your parents. I pray that your life was filled with love and support.
@@ChosenVessel82 I used it to fuel me to be a very successful architect engineer and to help other children by starting several programs for teenagers throughout several Philadelphia school. Children who have only single moms, placed in the foster children system or was having trouble with doing the right things to stay out of trouble. The program give these children place to be creative, know that people do care, and to learn different skills. At the end of the program they could sell or showcase what they created. These program have helped many children. Basically I start the programs and let other people continue to carry out the work. So everything happens for a reason. God is great he proves it to me everyday by all the miracles I see as I observe and listen
"Even if you looked at me everyday of your life and knew that I wasn't yours, I wanna thank you for loving me." And this is where I completely broke down in tears 😭😭😭😂 even tho she wasn't truthful, at least the mother chose a great man to build a family with.
you and me both!! Also so touched that there are Men stepping up to the plate even though they have doubts if they're the father. So many men out there are avoiding their responsibilities!
My dad came into my life when I was almost 1. He loves when people say we look just alike and he’s not even my bio lol I’m 25 now and when I get married I’ll have a dad on both arms
It's a wonderful feeling! I was fortunate enough to have 2 dads walk me down the aisle. They both happily obliged. My bio father insisted my stepfather joined us...🤗
I disagree. Times have changed compared to yesteryear. What is more acceptable today may not have been the same years ago. At least she kept the child and give her up for adoption or to another family member. The mother did what was best. It looks like everything turned out ok.
@@burr6536 Lying to your child, denying the rightful man his child, and fracturing a 30-year daughter/"father" relationship is not what was best. I am tired of women thinking a mother can do no wrong. The mother was clearly wrong in this case.
This had me in tears. They all got along, everyone was so respectful, and now she has a dad, and a father. Beautiful young woman who now has the truth.
The mother knew deep inside her heart the big secret. That is really disgusting of not letting your daughter know about it. At the end of the day. The daughter needed to know. Thanx for the biological dad stepping up and reaching out to her daughter.
I feel she knew thats why she got upset when anyone brought it up...she was wrong in keeping that info from her child...but he should have demanded answers too...not wait so many years
But he respected her wishes and did not want to come between there marriage and their life. I think it was wrong also but who knows why people do things that later affects children. I don't have any so I don't know that kind of love and protective behavior
As an adult we all know life is not that simple. You don’t know why the mother made the decision that she did. It takes more than blood to raise a child.
Why and how these kids ALWAYS get angry with the potential father..instead of their mother...ITs the the mother responsibility to kno who her child father is.But the mother knew that he wasn't the real father ..
This breaks my heart cause there are going to be so many questions that can't be answer due to his mother passing and I love Mr. Fresnasia for saying that even though that not his biological daughter that still HIS DAUGHTER
LoL so many people mispronounced/misspelled Fresneda...is that a unique name in the US? It's a good name, but I always thought it was Latin names... 😂 The man has perfectly shaped nose...
That young woman, I hope she knows how incredibly blessed she is! She has two dads to just adore her, her children and create a beautiful blended family! Everybody knows....ain't nothin' like family!!
Two incredible men they are indeed !! The Bio didn't want to ruin the marriage. The girl is very fortunate to have two good men in her life that love her as a daughter.
This made me cry tears of joy! May this family always be blessed! Both men put any difference aside & showed true class. Jazmin is one lucky young lady!!!! 🤗💐🙏🌸🌹
Idk y’all she looks just like the man claiming to be the father... Momma was playing around ... but looks can be deceiving ...but my heart tells me I’m right and I’m a pretty good when it comes to stuff like this ...
Mr. Fresneda is number one! He is the MAN! Hats off to this gentleman! Wow! Mr. Fresneda stepped up to be the dad, father, loving provider for all of his children. We need more men like him.
These old people be keeping these secrets from the past smh 🤦🏽♀️ and of it wasn’t for the Biological father reaching out to her she would’ve never known 🤷🏽♂️
She looks like her real father. He wanted to be part of her life, but the Mother did not want him to be. With all the secrets out there, people should get DNA tests before getting involved, so you do not marry a close relative.
Wow!! this episode really shows the positive character of a real black Man 👨🏽 stepping up without a doubt as the father. But can still hear the truth and love the daughter he raised as his #1..the real dad seems to be a player back in the days; so I believe the mother wanted the security of her daughter growing up with a happy life.. It's sad to say but looks like life itself had to help the dad grow up and I genuine believe he's now ready and able to build and healthy Relationship with his daughter..🌹
Bosslady1 - I think Mr Fresnada was in jail and Mrs Fresneda wanted to play while he was away- She didn’t want to admit to her husband that she was messing around while he was “away”. Mr Thompson should have pressed harder to be tested when the Mother was alive. Why do these people mess with children’s lives so much? Mrs Fresneda needed to step up and be real- 29 years gone and now this young lady must change her reality!
Joy to you and me with him having strong feelings is not enough to disrupt the family if the mother is hard core that it's not yours! If he had press and then he was wrong he would've gotten blame for breaking the family.. Her family would've been more able to get her change the story but even them couldn't convince her, as per her sister's testimony..
I think the biological father loved the mother so much that he choose to protect her for the sake of her family, and she was protecting herself and the reputation of her marriage that everybody was selfish enough not thinking about what’s the right thing to do for that child who grew up to be a wonderful young women.
Bosslady1 I don't know how you inferred that Mr. Thompson was a player. That was a LEAP. Mrs. Fresnada was the one cheating on her husband while he "was away". He stated she insisted the child was her husband's, and he felt it was best to respect her choice to deny him, for the sake of her family situation. Where do you derive he was a player? I think he would have had a healthy relationship with her for all 29 years, if he had been allowed to do so.
The daughter seems like a good first born. You know, the type who takes very good care of their siblings. She looks like her mother too. Sorry Mr. Thompson, but I think she will be Mr. Fresnado's baby girl for life. Some of the best dads in this world are not biological. The man who take cares of and loves a child unconditionally no matter what, are the best in my mind.
And that's ok if she'll always be his baby girl..he raised her but that doesn't mean that her biological father can't love her the same. I mean he respected her mother's decision and the relationship that she already had so that doesn't make him a bad man at all. But he was tired of living a lie so obviously he loved her just as much
Me. Fresneda reminds me of my own father. We found ourselves in a similar situation a few years ago when I was 18. A man out of the blue claimed that he was my father. My dad looked at me and said it doesn’t matter. I’ve been here your whole life and I’m not going anywhere. It turns out that my father was my biological father (I always knew that) but it made me feel so cherished and honored to know that dna meant nothing to him and that his love was forever.
This man did not say nothing out respect for the mom. He did not want to mess the mom life up. Now that the mom pass he can speak on it. The other man had known this was not his child. The au t say how mad the mom would get.
I love the fact that when her Dad spoke to her, when she got upset, she calmed down.. Thank God for father's. My Dad has and will alysis be my first protector. Bless her Dad and biological father. Her Dad was right, there should have been adult to adult conversation before contacting the daughter.
I'm glad she finally knows the truth.. Her legal Father is a good man he put love ahead of biology.. He knew that she wasn't his, but he loved her mum and decided to stay instead of leaving and it seems they had a good life together, and Mr Thomas tried to be there but respected her wishes, he had no choice if he had done something and it turned out not to be his, there would've been trouble.. The mother thought she was doing the right thing.. I wish them well going forward.. Now the father's have to share her..
How refreshing. Respectful behavior from all parties involved. I love what her daddy said, "You got this." after the results were read and embraced them both. I pray that both families opened their arms and their hearts and just melded together increasing their numbers, especially since they live in such a small town. Good job. Good job💕
When she found out who her real father is. Can't believe I dropped a tear. So emotional. She has two dads now who loves her for life. Fatherly love is irreplaceable.
OKay Gee - okay I'm not crazy, I said... I know he doesn't have extensions in his hair,smh. You can tell at the beginning of the braid, smgdh. Bwahahaha
Although the mom probably knew that Mr. Thompson was the father...... I'm glad he didn't come on here talking about how the baby was conceived like the rest of these men do..... I just hate when the kids have to hear how their mom got down back in the day! Blessed her beloved soul.....
This is the kind of episode I love! Instead of people yelling and screaming, these grown folks knew it was a possibility that it would change their life's and they took it on amazingly!
That’s because everyone here knew the truth. The dad knew all along, he wasn’t surprised at all. But he loved them so much it didn’t matter. Honestly I think the 2 men conversed back then and probably came to a conclusion who knows 🤷🏾♀️
I haven't seen the results yet. But my piece. My boys are biracial. White/Taiwanese. They look nothing alike. Same parents. 2 years apart. And you can't tell they are brothers looking at them. Looks alone cannot determine paternity.
All Day Totally agree. He knew! They made a decision from the onset to raise her as his. It’s just a shame that nobody told her and she had to find out like that.
I cried when she said 'thank you for loving me'. Wow, that mother took that to her grave.
Kara Lands...I cried too and watched that part twice😢
@Denise Myers Yes she was
She sure did...I believe that she planned on keeping it that way a secret to the grave
The TRUTH shall be revealed no matter what
RIGHT ON THE DEATH BED !!!!!! SHE WRONG FOR THAT
I just love that Man that raised her..He's so genuine..
Me too..
You ar right me too
Yup🌸 there's a lot of men that 💗kids.
Big heart. What a guy!
I have to say he denied the other man's rights, the mother also. Or the mother mainly. They real dad didn't cause a mess back then, and he could have. Legally and physically, I don't know who would of won, or who might of used weapons. Also he wanted his baby, that's foul. He clearly did the same type of job as the guy she thought was her dad. She had a similar upbringing, so he wasn't a bad father. She even worked with on of her sisters. I mean this isn't fair. He did raise her the same, but the father was willing and capable, but chose to back down. Should he have pushed the issue when she was a baby?
They just exhibited class!! Gentleman of different worlds altogether!! Bravo guys!!!
I SWEAR! men don't come with this level of class and respect anymore
Great men
@@ChocolateSunshine1 only the men you know
Absolutely!
very nice people
I feel like Mr. Fresneda knew it deep down. But he treated her like his real daughter regardless. That's a good man right there. She should be grateful that two man want to be in her life ❤️
I think so too..he forgave his wife for cheating on him. He loved his wife and took the child as his own.
And I feel that Mr. Thompson was aware of the fact, that’s why he had peace of mind that his daughter is taken care, that’s why he never stepped up.
Thats not a good man if he knew, denying the real father from knowing his own daughter all those years, that speaks of a selfish person.
The man who raised her showed no reaction. He knew, probably has known since the beginning, and accepted her in his heart as his own child. The mark of a great man.
Yes that’s my dad
Yes the man that raised her is her dad first and foremost.
@@mzjazz1124You're blessed to have him as your father.
because the mother lied and the real Dad didn't know, otherwise the real father would have been there.@@TheGummybears101
Agreed!👍🏾
Mr Fresneda was so calm when he heard the results, he always knew
Elizabeth D Maybe apart of him always knew.
Cause he's a Real man just like my husband
Yes he said so , the mother is the one that didn't want it to come out
@@BLESSTREASURE that don’t make him a real man .
Yeah! He truly loved his wife.
This by far one of the realest episodes I’ve seen in a long time. She has two fathers that will love her unconditionally. Sad situation but turned into a positive blessing. Respect to the father who raised her as well. Unconditional love trumps all.
Hear Hear. Totally agree.
Amen!
Judge Lauren is correct when she says that we have a right to know who our fathers are, I am 58 never knew mine that’s bad not only for me but for my children and grandchildren my mother is wrong
@cbembry86......I totally agree.
Susan Herron many found their relatives thru DNA testing. You can get one kit online and see if you can find yous.
This is some nice grown ppl business because both men are so respectful of each other. God is good and things would be just fine!!!!! She has two set of families now!!!!
Yes, so respectful! He suspected it was his daughter but knew he was wrong by violating the relationship back then, and didn't want to upset the family. But his heart was breaking! It's his child too! 😟😢🤧
Thank god I'm not black. I know who my daddy is. My parents are married
@@alishadyaram4239 And thank God that I am black because that's who He created me to be. And that He blessed me with parents who raised me to be respectful of all people, because if I made a statement like the one you just made, whether or not I knew who my father was would not be the primary concern. By the way, you are clearly missing many episodes of this show.
@@alishadyaram4239 THANK GOD I'M BLACK so I don't have have to eat unseasoned food....... now bye...... TRASH!!!!!!! Sound so dumb
@@alishadyaram4239 and your grandparents are probably cousins.
Her biological father wanted to be in her life💗. And her stepfather loved and took care of her💗. She is now blessed to have 2 wonderful fathers.
They are both two very commendable human being's respect yong lady love them both
Excellent Comment...
Yeah! She's blessed ❤️.
He could have reached out to her sooner though. If that’s what he wanted.
@@AshNikkosWife he wanted to respect the mother’s wishes, which I can understand
Mr Jorge knew he wasn't her father but he didn't care 💯 Respect to him 👏👏👏
Except he called his "daughter" sexy twice on the show
What's on her head????. She's pretty.
@@porschemcginnis2764 can you give a timestamp I must of missed that?
@@pleashette9108 @0:54 Ughh!
@@porschemcginnis2764 😮
Mr. Fresneda is a REAL man. Ugh!!! I hate when someone finds out things like this later in life just out of the blue like a train wreck. So sad :(
Angel, and like she said if her Mother didn’t pass away she wouldn’t know any of this...
I think he always knew but didn't care... he loved his woman and they accepted it and went on to have a loving family... I think they never wanted her to know so they could keep their fantasy alive
So does it make the simp a real man to lie to this little girl her whole life and her mom a real women for denying the real farther access to his child at the end of the day they hurt the young lady more by denying her biological farther and for that you get no real man award from me your a simp and the mother is a selfish lier
Buddy Ro yeah you right tho...this is foul...when you look at the real deal of what has really went down...
+Buddy Ro Oh, I agree it wasn't right for him to help keep that lie going. And that "real father" could have tried harder, if he REALLY wanted to be in his daughters life. Yes, Mr. Fresneda is a REAL man for being in his children's lives and this young lady that he knew could possibly not be his own. Because he stayed and WAS a father to this young lady, she appears to be a very nice, well adjusted woman. Only little boys use the excuse of blaming women for why they behave like little boys when you're supposed to be a grown man. At what point in life does a male have to accept responsibility for their actions as adults? You can't blame women your whole life for the things YOU do. Are males like you going to just whine your whole life about your slacking mother? Break the cycle and get the mental help you need to work through it and become your OWN man and not the one you blame your mother making you into.
Jerome wherever you are, I hope you know we haven't forgotten you. We miss you. We appreciate you. Come on back home... I mean to court. Just back!😫😫
Old show. He was out for a few shows but he's back! We did miss him tho lol 😂
💀😂
JEROME BOOM BOOM HAMILTON
I love when grown ups behave like adults in the courtroom even when facing a complicated situation. Both men treated the child, the memory of her mom and each other with respect. Other than time travel and honesty to begin with, I'm not sure their could've been a better outcome.
indeed. Too often they just want to SHAME & BLAME. these people all acted like HUMBLE MATURE ADULTS in the middle of a uncomfortable situation
💯💯💯
I beg to differ....did you not HEAR the biological father (in the grey suit) whisper 'SEXY LOOKING..' when the daughter entered the courtroom?????
OnTheBrightSide I heard that but chose to disbelieve my ears. That was cringey 😬
@@lynette599 please watch it again - you are right someone whispers that but if you watch the bio father carefully it's not him (his lips don't move) - someone else is near the microphone and says it but it wasn't the bio father (thank goodness!)
Mr Fresneda...Hats off to you. You raised a beautiful respectable young lady. She thanked you for loving her!!! That was so so special
What an amazing father! When he said the piece of paper meant nothing to him it bought tears of happiness to my eyes. We need more people like him in this world
I knew he was the father, she looks just like him, the forehead she nose lips and brows. And in the picture she looks just like him. Her mother is wrong, she knew all a long that he was not the father, that is why she always got mad when someone brought it up. She knew that she had a good man so she didn't want to lose him. Smh!
@Fantastic View Imagine how many people never find out? The secret stays in the grave with that individual. Wow that is tragic. She should be thanking him for being persistent.
FooLMe Slick'Em you never understand why it had been a good reason
FooLMe Slick'Em back in day that how it goes what happens in house stay in house why did he not let it go he messy
exactly
Most of the time they all look like the child and then bam they are not the father.
I believe the mother and the father that raised her knew the truth but decided to keep it secret. It sucks that her bio dad missed out on raising her and like she said, if her mom didn't pass this would have never came out. How sad???? I hope they all can heal from this.
The biological father says the mother was in a happy relationship but apparently she was in a 'break' with the legal father. I think she knew but we know that it's really weird be in a 'break', get pregnant and expect that your partner will accept raise a baby that it's not his but from a rebound.
He did not know he asked her was this my baby because I think people said something and he said once she said this is your child he went ahead and accepted it and went on and raise them
I think all the adults knew. It was unfair not to tell her since she could dated or been with a relative and not known. I'm glad she had a good man to raise her and knows the truth now.
Of course
I have a brother like that. We have the same dad. His mom took him away, got married and they raised him as their own. She took it to the grave. He found out after she died and found us on Facebook years later.
Anybody who views this I hope you have a blessed day ❤️
same to u Devon.
ItsDevon u as well
Thank you same to you.
Have a fantastic day also
Same to you sweetheart.. Thank you
She made me cry. When she said thank you for loving me dad.
She looks just like Mr. Thompson.
The mom knew.. that's why she gave the daughter her last name... instead of Mr Fresineda.
that's a GREAT point~~~I CLEARLY missed that until today!
Maybe they weren't married yet (which is what I think). That was never specifically established. They just said Mr. Fresneda married her. They also said @ the time Mr. Thompson came in the picture, Ms. Robinson & Mr. Fresneda had "broken up" not "separated". Since it cost money 2 change ur name, & the mom was clearly sticking 2 her lie, & Mr. Fresneda didn't leave, why get her name changed?! Same last name or not, her & her siblings all believed Mr. Fresneda was their dad. Altho heartwarming, his episode was a trip!
And she should have never did dat cause if u have a real man in ur life u should have appreciated him more by giving the child his last name cause he's already her biological father from being married to her mom. I found dat unfair but who am I to judge, dats just my opinion, god is the only one dat can judge us.
CALIFORNIA GODDESS I just figured she is married and her maiden was Fresnada. I believe it was said she has 5 children so I presumed she is.
@@BLESSTREASURE No, He was her LEGAL father. Not BIOLOGICAL father...
I knew that Mr. Thompson was the dad when I saw her nose. That's all him.
Same
In this case it was right - but not always the case. Sometimes looks are deceiving. Saw one episode where the girl looked JUST like the other dad.. not his. Lol.
@@jonathanmunz669 INDEED
same it was the noses for me
Yes
Man a deep secret to take to the grave. The mom didn't think about how it would effect the child and both men. It's unfair. Now at 29 she has to process this.
Cynthia Dickerson yes, I don’t believe everyone is going to heaven, but let’s say everyone does, is that lie still going to continue up there 🤔
Some of us have wickedness in our hearts. It gets taken to the grave, and then beyond. Wretched lost soul, she decided to go against truth and the good. That is why, ultimately all will be made equal.
She will and now she has 2 father some people have none. I never knew my dad or my mom. She is blessed
@@qweshun1223 yes she definitely is blessed. So sorry you had to experience life without your parents. I pray that your life was filled with love and support.
@@ChosenVessel82 I used it to fuel me to be a very successful architect engineer and to help other children by starting several programs for teenagers throughout several Philadelphia school. Children who have only single moms, placed in the foster children system or was having trouble with doing the right things to stay out of trouble. The program give these children place to be creative, know that people do care, and to learn different skills. At the end of the program they could sell or showcase what they created. These program have helped many children. Basically I start the programs and let other people continue to carry out the work. So everything happens for a reason. God is great he proves it to me everyday by all the miracles I see as I observe and listen
"Even if you looked at me everyday of your life and knew that I wasn't yours, I wanna thank you for loving me." And this is where I completely broke down in tears 😭😭😭😂 even tho she wasn't truthful, at least the mother chose a great man to build a family with.
Dee Luu, me too. I couldn’t stop crying.
Every time im watching paternity court i start crying
you and me both!! Also so touched that there are Men stepping up to the plate even though they have doubts if they're the father. So many men out there are avoiding their responsibilities!
Yes she did and she made the best choice for her children's, God rest her soul and god bless her husband too😍😍😍😍
I'm still crying 😭😭😭😭
My dad came into my life when I was almost 1. He loves when people say we look just alike and he’s not even my bio lol I’m 25 now and when I get married I’ll have a dad on both arms
maybe living with daddy like they say our dogs take on our looks....so maybe children do the same thing...
It's a wonderful feeling! I was fortunate enough to have 2 dads walk me down the aisle. They both happily obliged. My bio father insisted my stepfather joined us...🤗
I am interested in knowing how you have been so positive knowing you have 2 dads.
I loved how the two Fathers were respectful of each other.
I don't need coffee. My morning fix is Paternity Court.
Elena J I'm getting my coffee right now lol...
Hey good Saturday!
Lol I still need my coffee
The mom, was wrong, but a lot of women do exactly what she did
She did not want to stop the good she had it, but that was at the expense of her child's happiness.
Right
@Bless Homeh Hope everything works out for you
I disagree. Times have changed compared to yesteryear. What is more acceptable today may not have been the same years ago. At least she kept the child and give her up for adoption or to another family member. The mother did what was best. It looks like everything turned out ok.
@@burr6536 Lying to your child, denying the rightful man his child, and fracturing a 30-year daughter/"father" relationship is not what was best. I am tired of women thinking a mother can do no wrong. The mother was clearly wrong in this case.
The sister can't even say her brother in laws name correctly 😂😂😂
Same thing I'm saying😂😂😂😂
Niambii 23 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m sure she was nervous up there. Plus she’s a woman of a certain age.
funny ! but who calls their brother in law by their last name though ? :)
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I was waiting for Mr. Fresneda to yell out " Say Hello To My Little Friend"...lol
Zion King 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I thought I recognized him! 😂😂😂😂🤣
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I love his voice, so quirky, calm and endearing
Yep!! you can definitely hear his accent. The daughter has it too Dad or not she sounds like the father she was raised by.
This had me in tears. They all got along, everyone was so respectful, and now she has a dad, and a father. Beautiful young woman who now has the truth.
Cause they all were grown and not immature kids like the other ones that come on this show
Very well said, a Dad and a Father
whoever is reading this. i wish something good happens to you today. xx
I hope I hit that Mega Million and/or Powerball..... thank You!
@@SSWBJC1 go get it👉🏻😎👉🏻
Hey PC fam Sharon yessss is the mega millions still going onbI thought they read the numbers lastnite?
No one hit..... it's over a billion now and the power ball is almost 500Mil
Oh my crazy...I knew I would get a second chance to play!
Thanks I'm playing today!!!
Aw her daddy that raised her made me cry he loves her so much!
These two fathers handled this so beautifully!!! I’m not crying...
WHAT A MAN WHO RAISED HER AND HIS ATTITUDE TOWARDS HER BIOLOGICAL DAD AND HER IS AMAZING!! GOD BLESS HIM
WHO'S CHOPPIN' ONIONS??
Me!
Me.
You can actually tell that this pretty girl js a well mannered princess even the way she relates with her aunt.
Me
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I knew he was the father b4 the results !the resemblance is 100%
Oh yeah!
Yep!
The mother knew deep inside her heart the big secret. That is really disgusting of not letting your daughter know about it. At the end of the day. The daughter needed to know. Thanx for the biological dad stepping up and reaching out to her daughter.
I feel she knew thats why she got upset when anyone brought it up...she was wrong in keeping that info from her child...but he should have demanded answers too...not wait so many years
But he respected her wishes and did not want to come between there marriage and their life. I think it was wrong also but who knows why people do things that later affects children. I don't have any so I don't know that kind of love and protective behavior
He Should've Done This Sooner...
@@tishtish4442
Blame the trifling mother.
As an adult we all know life is not that simple. You don’t know why the mother made the decision that she did. It takes more than blood to raise a child.
Two fathers that love her and most people can’t get one Such a lucky young lady Big ups to the dads That’s real men right there
She must have a hairstylist that specializes in braids onset. Almost EVERYONE HAS BRAIDS ON HER SHOW! I LOVE IT!
Lol even the dad 😂
😂😂😂
Why and how these kids ALWAYS get angry with the potential father..instead of their mother...ITs the
the mother responsibility to kno who her child father is.But the mother knew that he wasn't the real father ..
Right
U on point my dear
I was like....um I know I didnt hear that
when they don't shame on mom
D TB ...she should know without a doubt.who she bedded...
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She should be mad at both , the mother for keeping this secret and the father for just letting another man raise her as his own
This was beautiful! This young lady has 2 fathers that love her.
Very beautiful. Happy for her
she has one father that raised her
Some people cant get one father.
This breaks my heart cause there are going to be so many questions that can't be answer due to his mother passing and I love Mr. Fresnasia for saying that even though that not his biological daughter that still HIS DAUGHTER
Eleana Jenkins Takes a real stand up guy to even say that after the results..I'm so glad that he's gonna continue to stay in her life..
♥
He is a MAN!!!
Eleana Jenkins Fresneda
LoL so many people mispronounced/misspelled Fresneda...is that a unique name in the US? It's a good name, but I always thought it was Latin names... 😂 The man has perfectly shaped nose...
Who miss the word
"Thank you Jerome"
Yeah...where is Jerome???!!!
I miss Him too
That was the most beautiful behaviour EVER, that those men displayed, and the girl has such a blesséd attitude. Even I want a pat on the back!
That’s amazing. I love how both men loved her and wanted to still be in her life. And no fighting.
This actually brought tears to my eyes, and im glad she appreciated this man for looking after her, with there being doubt.
That young woman, I hope she knows how incredibly blessed she is! She has two dads to just adore her, her children and create a beautiful blended family! Everybody knows....ain't nothin' like family!!
Some respectful, intelligent, mature minded people! Such a welcome change from some of the cases we witness on PC.
AMEN
Agree!
Two incredible men they are indeed !! The Bio didn't want to ruin the marriage. The girl is very fortunate to have two good men in her life that love her as a daughter.
This was so beautiful omg. I hope she builds a relationship with her biological father as well.
Small Town!! What if she would have married her brother or something??!!! Secrets hurt more than the secret carrier People!!
I just watched this today wow just crazy and I agree with you.
I wish these people in my house stop cutting onions! 😭😭😭
Bless them real men hearts! 😭 This young lady is lucky despite not having her mom! 😭
That girl looks just like that guy and nothing like the other guy lol
okay, which guy? XD
sibria witch guy are you talking about? lol
Sibria is saying that the child looks just like her biological father, Mr. Thompson.
Duh
Sibria.... yes....look at those noses ...that's the first thing i noticed. Shaped the exact same way..
This made me cry tears of joy! May this family always be blessed! Both men put any difference aside & showed true class. Jazmin is one lucky young lady!!!! 🤗💐🙏🌸🌹
Thank you
this is one of the most respectful episodes. I admire how they just took all the information and actually talked rather than screaming and yelling!
Y'all see that picture of her and her mother. Mr Thompson is her father for sure!! Let's see...
Yes, he is. She looks like him.
she didn't need to know . He kept silent all those years
Idk y’all she looks just like the man claiming to be the father... Momma was playing around ... but looks can be deceiving ...but my heart tells me I’m right and I’m a pretty good when it comes to stuff like this ...
Nah she looks like the other man, Mr. Thompson. I knew it.
They have the same eyes. I called it. The husband knew it too. They all knew. She looks just like him.
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No matter. She's doubly blessed.
Yes she does plus the other man is Dominican or something🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
Hey PC fam..Can y'all imagine how many other cases like this that are out there that we will never see? Ppl taking SECRETS to the Grave for real...
Exactly! Moms was something else.🌸
sonyaethaniel Girl moma knew that man was the father but she didn't want to hurt the feelings of Mr. Fresneda
@@mphshotboy Mr. Fresneda should have DNA done for the other 4 kids.🌸
sonyaethaniel Yesssss
@@mphshotboy For health and medical reasons, like the real father was saying.🌸
Mr. Fresneda is number one! He is the MAN! Hats off to this gentleman! Wow! Mr. Fresneda stepped up to be the dad, father, loving provider for all of his children. We need more men like him.
These old people be keeping these secrets from the past smh 🤦🏽♀️ and of it wasn’t for the Biological father reaching out to her she would’ve never known 🤷🏽♂️
Biological father should have reached out sooner if he always knew lol.
There is nothing new under the sun. It’s still happening as we speak.
Not old people 🤣😩
She looks like her real father. He wanted to be part of her life, but the Mother did not want him to be. With all the secrets out there, people should get DNA tests before getting involved, so you do not marry a close relative.
Wow!! this episode really shows the positive character of a real black Man 👨🏽 stepping up without a doubt as the father. But can still hear the truth and love the daughter he raised as his #1..the real dad seems to be a player back in the days; so I believe the mother wanted the security of her daughter growing up with a happy life.. It's sad to say but looks like life itself had to help the dad grow up and I genuine believe he's now ready and able to build and healthy Relationship with his daughter..🌹
Bosslady1 - I think Mr Fresnada was in jail and Mrs Fresneda wanted to play while he was away- She didn’t want to admit to her husband that she was messing around while he was “away”. Mr Thompson should have pressed harder to be tested when the Mother was alive. Why do these people mess with children’s lives so much? Mrs Fresneda needed to step up and be real- 29 years gone and now this young lady must change her reality!
Joy to you and me
with him having strong feelings is not enough to disrupt the family if the mother is hard core that it's not yours! If he had press and then he was wrong he would've gotten blame for breaking the family.. Her family would've been more able to get her change the story but even them couldn't convince her, as per her sister's testimony..
I agree.
I think the biological father loved the mother so much that he choose to protect her for the sake of her family, and she was protecting herself and the reputation of her marriage that everybody was selfish enough not thinking about what’s the right thing to do for that child who grew up to be a wonderful young women.
Bosslady1 I don't know how you inferred that Mr. Thompson was a player. That was a LEAP. Mrs. Fresnada was the one cheating on her husband while he "was away". He stated she insisted the child was her husband's, and he felt it was best to respect her choice to deny him, for the sake of her family situation. Where do you derive he was a player? I think he would have had a healthy relationship with her for all 29 years, if he had been allowed to do so.
The daughter seems like a good first born. You know, the type who takes very good care of their siblings. She looks like her mother too. Sorry Mr. Thompson, but I think she will be Mr. Fresnado's baby girl for life. Some of the best dads in this world are not biological. The man who take cares of and loves a child unconditionally no matter what, are the best in my mind.
Sharon Brown Amen to that!!🙏🙌
And that's ok if she'll always be his baby girl..he raised her but that doesn't mean that her biological father can't love her the same. I mean he respected her mother's decision and the relationship that she already had so that doesn't make him a bad man at all. But he was tired of living a lie so obviously he loved her just as much
Me. Fresneda reminds me of my own father. We found ourselves in a similar situation a few years ago when I was 18. A man out of the blue claimed that he was my father. My dad looked at me and said it doesn’t matter. I’ve been here your whole life and I’m not going anywhere. It turns out that my father was my biological father (I always knew that) but it made me feel so cherished and honored to know that dna meant nothing to him and that his love was forever.
That was an such an incredibly classy response to the findings. May God bless and support them in the years to come.
This young lady is truly blessed. As she said to her father, even if you knew I was not your child, thank you for loving me. Unconditional love!
This man did not say nothing out respect for the mom. He did not want to mess the mom life up. Now that the mom pass he can speak on it. The other man had known this was not his child. The au t say how mad the mom would get.
I truly loved this episode. She is lucky to have 2 amazing father figures in her life and still want to be a part of her life as an adult.
it would really be nice to find out how their relationship progress.
I love the fact that when her Dad spoke to her, when she got upset, she calmed down.. Thank God for father's. My Dad has and will alysis be my first protector. Bless her Dad and biological father. Her Dad was right, there should have been adult to adult conversation before contacting the daughter.
The real question is where’s Jerome?! 🧐😂😂😂😂🤷♂️
Jerome is there now. This episode is about a year or 2 years ago.
I was wondering the same thing.
One season Jerome missed some episodes and Ron who is now on couples court was the bailiff
One season Jerome had to miss a few episodes and ron who is now on couple court filled in for him.
I'm glad she finally knows the truth.. Her legal Father is a good man he put love ahead of biology.. He knew that she wasn't his, but he loved her mum and decided to stay instead of leaving and it seems they had a good life together, and Mr Thomas tried to be there but respected her wishes, he had no choice if he had done something and it turned out not to be his, there would've been trouble.. The mother thought she was doing the right thing.. I wish them well going forward.. Now the father's have to share her..
Denys S, Well said.
How refreshing. Respectful behavior from all parties involved. I love what her daddy said, "You got this." after the results were read and embraced them both. I pray that both families opened their arms and their hearts and just melded together increasing their numbers, especially since they live in such a small town. Good job. Good job💕
What a gracious group of people and how they handled all of this so respectfully and with such care and love.
I love going down the comments and seeing men as a part of the Paternity Court Family!😘😘
Here lol
Me too. I like to see them.
This my show!
I Love PC!❤
She has 2 dads now. How beautiful. What a lucky, beautiful woman. ♡
Yesssss!
Are you serious? This would absolutely devastate me,
+Piatequila he would find himself in the morgue b4 he knows whatsup
Martine aaahhh yea this will be a long road for her
@@martineaaahhh7326 Okay that's you. Look out of your own perspective. This isn't about you.
When she found out who her real father is. Can't believe I dropped a tear. So emotional. She has two dads now who loves her for life. Fatherly love is irreplaceable.
Even Ray Charles can see that's his daughter! They twins.
yep obvious.
Now you wanna step up ,she’s grown
WOW IM IN TEARS!! I NEVER HAD A DAD AND SHE IS STANDING IN BETWEEN TWO MEN WHO WILL LOVE HER!! BEAUTIFUL
Mr Fresnada is a wonderful man! (Y).
She does look like her biological father.
She's blessed to have 2 dads now!
All those papers you have in front of you mean nothing to me.... i love that
I’m dying at Fresneda hair. But from quick glance she resembles Mr. Thomas
At what age should a man let go of braids? I just...why? Special Events I was dying too.
@@treasuresofglory9615 Are they his, though? They look like feed in braids that he sat in a chair for 4 hrs for.
😣 fix it, Jesus!
His choice. Get over it. We're into Hair shaming now? Good grief.
OKay Gee - okay I'm not crazy, I said... I know he doesn't have extensions in his hair,smh. You can tell at the beginning of the braid, smgdh. Bwahahaha
Treasures of Glory at least he’s not a deadbeat father and was in this lady’s life. That’s ALL that matters here!
Some kids can't even get one man to love them as their father, she is blessed to have two. Their daughter is a beautiful young lady.
Busted out in tears after she thanked him for loving her! 😭😭
ScaryPoppins me too!
They’re all struggling to pronounce “Fresneda” 😂
Indeedie.
Yeah the woman said "fasnada"
OLADIPUPO SODIQ -Lol
Yes they were 😂
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Dam she got 2 father's I ain't got one
B renegadde You have a Heavenly Father
We have God
Best response ever.....
😭😭😭😭 now you got me in my feelings
We all ❤️ you B. Renegade 💁🏻
Although the mom probably knew that Mr. Thompson was the father...... I'm glad he didn't come on here talking about how the baby was conceived like the rest of these men do..... I just hate when the kids have to hear how their mom got down back in the day! Blessed her beloved soul.....
Judge Lauren, You Surely Are An Epitome Of Peace, Patience, Tolerance And Magnificence. WE SIMPLY LOVE YOU.
The respect towards one another was beautiful! I hope she let's get biological Father in! She has alot of support! 💜
Wow, after two years, this episode still brings tears to my eyes.
I love to see 2 grown African men handling business like in mature manner
Never read comments before you finish watching...
Yesss learned my lesson when I first joined good Saturday anyways!
True!
That's just my weakness... 😢
Mulondo Kim j
Always
Mr. Fresenda, is a KING OF KINGS!! God Bless him!! 👍😇👍
He is a very good man. But only JESUS is the KING of Kings
This is the kind of episode I love! Instead of people yelling and screaming, these grown folks knew it was a possibility that it would change their life's and they took it on amazingly!
Mr. Thompson is a very young looking 53 yr. old.
The dad who raised that lady is a good man, I for one wouldn't be so calm knowing this.
It's deep
That’s because everyone here knew the truth. The dad knew all along, he wasn’t surprised at all. But he loved them so much it didn’t matter. Honestly I think the 2 men conversed back then and probably came to a conclusion who knows 🤷🏾♀️
If Mr Thompson wanted to find her he could've done a better job at finding her. His kids knew her and he knew Georgie.
Freznada.. Good man
@@tenten530 ...he said he couldn't wait to know any longer
I haven't seen the results yet.
But my piece. My boys are biracial. White/Taiwanese.
They look nothing alike. Same parents. 2 years apart. And you can't tell they are brothers looking at them.
Looks alone cannot determine paternity.
I have a boy and a girl 14 months apart and they look like Identical twins
Notification gang 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️ show of hands who is here 🙌🏽
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We here Kim 😍😍
Here but another old case I've seen before ×3
I just love your show, it's so nice to see two grown men love thier daughter.
Great episode glad to see the two fathers being so cordial.....NICE!
IDK, I get the sense that he has always known that there was a real possibility that this woman was not his actual daughter.
All Day
Totally agree. He knew!
They made a decision from the onset to raise her as his. It’s just a shame that nobody told her and she had to find out like that.