@@oetilemoruakgomo5239 God has no son. Or is your God so close to being man like that he has offspring? Not that he needs any offspring. God is pure of any human traits and relations. God doesn't beget as he was never begotten. He does not need sleep or rest. He does not feel shame or humiliation. He does not die in any way.
This is a great example to set boundaries in learning to say no to certain things that we are asked to do even if people get disappointed we have our own limits.
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This is such a real issue for me. As a high school senior, it’s so hard to miss opportunities and manage a social life. Thanks for covering these real problems! Edit - currently in college. Yea same issue :/
@@Aayushdhak yeah I am SOOO sorry about that it's still HARD FOR ME but I find ways to say it........ Sighs sometimes if I do I'd feel like a jerk a little....................................................................
That’s a lesson I had to teach myself. When I was in 8th-9th grade, I also never said No to people. I kept being too nice to everyone and too generous. Now I know most of the time to stand up for myself ❤️
This is so true because I am still struggling with the word no, it has been abused so much and now it is hard for me to say no especially to friends. This lesson is really important love you dhar thank you for making content that actually relates to us
"If you're saying "Yes" to everyone else, then you're saying "No" to your own needs." Fact! The morals/messages of this video: For all the teens, you have your own limits when it comes to certain activities and need to stand up to yourself; you also need to make time for yourself with your own responsibilies. It's not healthy to your body and focus if you're doing many things in one time. Don't be afraid to say NO!
Friends can help you celebrate good times and provide support during bad times. Friends prevent isolation and loneliness and give you a chance to offer needed companionship, too. Friends can also: Increase your sense of belonging and purpose.
@@TheTigerKingShow I’m almost up to a thousand because I’m being me and not everyone else. Remember, in order to be successful, be you and not everyone else.
I know exactly how she feels. It's hard for me to say no too. It's hard because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. But, I've learned to set boundaries now. Don't make someone a priority, when all you are to them is an option!
im kind of like her i cant say no to no one because im to scared of people being angry at me, but this year i decided to make boundaries and say no when i dont want to do something ❤
I needed this the most. Being a people pleaser is just crazy. Saying no to everything is hard especially when they try to pressure you into saying yes. I remember I tried saying no and when they have that face of being down I just say yes.
"Saying no to others isn't a bad thing". Thank you so much Dhar for this helpful quote. From now on, I will say no to things which I don't want to do. Thanks for making me realise that.
I’d have to say that this one was a very relatable one for me. I know how it is to be taken advantage of. It’s stressful. But I have learned to say no to certain things. Yes, I enjoy helping others, but I also need to focus on myself sometimes.
I know what you mean, I wish someone would have told me this lesson (unlike my narcissistic parents who raised me to be controlled and easy to manipulate) when I was in high school. It really could have saved a lot of hell during my junior year and senior year.
It's alright to say no and set boundaries and I understand her motive that she felt pressured and wanted to make others happy. Also thank gosh she has amazing friends. I know that in grade 10, I learned that it's okay to say no because I felt that I had to help others out and be kind. Saying no will help with your mental health and will save your grades and time. We all know that English is the worst subject lol.
I always used to say yes then felt like this like my father wants me to spend time with him then being with my mom I was scared to say no but right after this I’m happy to see my self trustworthy for my self and being honest thanks dhar this helped me alot❤
@@VOIDSEH that's one's personal interpretation. According to me, anything other than a clear yes or a nod of the head, is a no. Here the other girl interpreted the absence of a no as a yes, but she never actually said yes. So that's on her. The other girl might have understood it as a yes which isn't Erica's problem. And she's not obligated to support someone cheating, whatever she said before. It's a wrong cause, and she can very well back out of it if she wants to.
It’s important that you have boundaries with your friends. You can’t expect to depend on them too much as they have lives too and cannot always be there when you needed them the most ❤👍
It's a totally different situation when everyone are only worried about their time + want to force their problem/work on you and not having trust worthy friends on top of that.
My friend had this problem she couldn’t say no to anyone even if it meant being unhappy ☹️ but she’s still learning and she’s been saying no now so I’m glad 😊
I used to be a yes girl too even till now... I really loved this video... But Saying no sometimes too does help us prioritise some of our needs and ourselves 😍
If you always say yes to people then you’ll turn into a “really reliable” person and that’s a good thing but, it can also cause a lot of people to ask you for a lot of things that in the future you may not want or have time to do. ^ ^
Another great video! to say "No" coming from myself i always said "Yes" to others who would only thank me for that one moment and say no to myself including my family who would go above and beyond for me. This video was a great form of inspiration to take a Yes for a yes and No for a no glad to have learned that lesson.
Dear God, thank you for another day. Please watch over my family, friends, and whoever is reading this. I pray you will bless them and keep them safe, Amen.
I like to think of this video as a good lesson. And metaphorically speaking, this scenario can be like butter on toast. If you spreads herself way too thin, the toast could get messy. And by “toast”, I mean things and tasks you do.
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"Simply let your yes be 'yes' and your no 'no'." - Matthew 5:37
Why does this child of God only have 23 likes
Amen and Amen !
Amen!!
@@oetilemoruakgomo5239 God has no son. Or is your God so close to being man like that he has offspring? Not that he needs any offspring. God is pure of any human traits and relations. God doesn't beget as he was never begotten. He does not need sleep or rest. He does not feel shame or humiliation. He does not die in any way.
Yessir
"If you're saying yes to everyone , you're saying no to your own needs" I really need to hear this 😭
@@TheTigerKingShownice
@@AyeshaCrafts55your the only reply?
@@wendythomson9161 and.
it was probs deleted or smh
Im ur 100th like!
7:06 I'm sorry but if your Besties doesn't understand, they're actually not your real best friends.
Agreed
couldn’t agree more,you’re so right.
just look at the end. they understod that she had stress
Go deeper in vid
why are girls so hard bruh, just say i got no time. bye
This is a great example to set boundaries in learning to say no to certain things that we are asked to do even if people get disappointed we have our own limits.
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If I ever say no to someone like my little brother they won't talk to me so I got no choice!!!
no = no
Me who told no to my parents😎↔️🕶️🥲
This is such a real issue for me. As a high school senior, it’s so hard to miss opportunities and manage a social life. Thanks for covering these real problems!
Edit - currently in college. Yea same issue :/
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Tbh prom is just abt having fun n not abt being better n cooler abt anyone else but hey what do i know I've never even been to one before 🤫shh🧏♂️
Wow rn ATM this is my very last year and I think semester by being a high school 🏫🎒 senior rn ever since from 2020-2024
This is same for me and still now
@@Aayushdhak yeah I am SOOO sorry about that it's still HARD FOR ME but I find ways to say it........ Sighs sometimes if I do I'd feel like a jerk a little....................................................................
This is indeed a crucial lesson. We don't always have to bend ourselves over to please others. Sometimes a "me first" is the most important thing.
That’s a lesson I had to teach myself. When I was in 8th-9th grade, I also never said No to people. I kept being too nice to everyone and too generous. Now I know most of the time to stand up for myself ❤️
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Same❤
I can relate. I’m working on it.
someone just entered 10th grade
I had the same thing when I was younger. As I got older I learned to set boundaries with other people.
This is such a great subject matter for our teens. They need to learn to set boundaries for self preservation!
This is so true because I am still struggling with the word no, it has been abused so much and now it is hard for me to say no especially to friends. This lesson is really important love you dhar thank you for making content that actually relates to us
"If you're saying "Yes" to everyone else, then you're saying "No" to your own needs." Fact! The morals/messages of this video: For all the teens, you have your own limits when it comes to certain activities and need to stand up to yourself; you also need to make time for yourself with your own responsibilies. It's not healthy to your body and focus if you're doing many things in one time. Don't be afraid to say NO!
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if you say yes than your a people pleaser
Jess jess say you need to work at no limits
Ayo just tell them f*** off bro everyone should rely on themselves they gon pass the exam and ya gon fail that's BULLSHIT
It is always important to set boundaries in life with others so you can focus on yourself. Don’t worry about what other people think of you or say.
"If you're saying yes to everyone else, then you're saying no to your own needs." Lots of Facts, thanks Dhar 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎
Lol I’m a female and I agree with the boys who requested no Taylor Swift lol
@@amylee8969she’s one of the boys guys!! 😱
Ariana Grande is so good than Taylor Swift
@@DominionAnako-bb7ryur on crack no she isn’t
@@amylee8969 wow ur one of the Boyz
She has incredibly supportive parents. That’s so rare.
I wish my parents were that supportive.
I was so blessed to have loving and supportive Parents.
It's not supposed to be rare. It's supposed to be normal. As a mom it makes me sad to hear this. I support my kids 100%. So sry you don't have that 😢
Friends can help you celebrate good times and provide support during bad times. Friends prevent isolation and loneliness and give you a chance to offer needed companionship, too. Friends can also: Increase your sense of belonging and purpose.
Yes 🙏🏻
@@TheTigerKingShowyour like 20 shouldn’t you be able to buy your own camera??
i honestly feel so bad for that guy he set all that up just for her not to come
If you have friends who just want to take advantage of you, you really don't need enemies. 😂
Find people you care about you and are kind to become friends with 🙂
I have a friend like that she just fakes it tho but I know it’s real I just don’t know what to do anymore
If you're saying yes to everyone, you're saying no to your own needs. Wow. Very inspirational
Same I hear you
The friends at 7:15.. was kind of weird they didn’t even care for her fr
fr
exactly.
Doing things at once can be stressful no matter how responsible you are
@@TheTigerKingShow I’m almost up to a thousand because I’m being me and not everyone else. Remember, in order to be successful, be you and not everyone else.
I know exactly how she feels. It's hard for me to say no too. It's hard because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. But, I've learned to set boundaries now. Don't make someone a priority, when all you are to them is an option!
I feel the same way.
16:38 healthiest trio alive fr
Frrrr
im kind of like her i cant say no to no one because im to scared of people being angry at me, but this year i decided to make boundaries and say no when i dont want to do something ❤
I relate 4 sure
My advice when setting boundaries and saying no: expect retaliation.
I needed this the most. Being a people pleaser is just crazy. Saying no to everything is hard especially when they try to pressure you into saying yes. I remember I tried saying no and when they have that face of being down I just say yes.
What's also crazy is that they would throw a temper tantrum, guilt trip, and/or berate you when you do say no.
I relate to you so much.
@@MarkSamurai5 what a late reply but fr tho. The guilt trips and them throwing a tantrum is crazy.
But ln life you can't say yes to everything yes I do that yes I do that you have to learn you have to say no at times too you can't please everyone
Saying no doesn't mean your being selfish; you can't take on everyones problems
@@TheTigerKingShow Cool! Hope u get it!
@@zkstudio7031it’s bait bro 😂
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Exactly
@@nicknakgd6889 I know it is but I'm not subbing (no offence) I'm just saying good luck
"If you're always saying "yes" to everyone else, then you are saying "no" to your own needs." Big facts! 💯
“If you’re always saying “yes” to everyone else, then you are saying “no” to your own needs.” Big facts! 💯
"If you’re always saying "yes" to everyone else, then you are saying "no" to your own needs." Big facts! 💯
"If you’re always saying "yes" to everyone else, then you are saying "no" to your own needs." Big facts! 💯
Why’d everyone say the same thing
@@Your_Girl_kKyliee I don't know.
13:59 that’s why you don’t take advantage of someone especially when they’re dealing with a lot of stuff one at a time
0:08 funny moments
2:04
2:54 Awesome sauce
3:49 lebron
4:23 sad😢
"Saying no to others isn't a bad thing". Thank you so much Dhar for this helpful quote. From now on, I will say no to things which I don't want to do. Thanks for making me realise that.
Well Don't Mind but It means You were Saying "YES" to the Things you don't want to do before Watching This Video. 😁😅
Yep, that's true😂
I’d have to say that this one was a very relatable one for me. I know how it is to be taken advantage of. It’s stressful. But I have learned to say no to certain things. Yes, I enjoy helping others, but I also need to focus on myself sometimes.
I know what you mean, I wish someone would have told me this lesson (unlike my narcissistic parents who raised me to be controlled and easy to manipulate) when I was in high school. It really could have saved a lot of hell during my junior year and senior year.
Same, your not alone
3:50 This is NOT his last season 😭😭
It's alright to say no and set boundaries and I understand her motive that she felt pressured and wanted to make others happy. Also thank gosh she has amazing friends. I know that in grade 10, I learned that it's okay to say no because I felt that I had to help others out and be kind. Saying no will help with your mental health and will save your grades and time. We all know that English is the worst subject lol.
the same quote which goes for this video is be there for others, but don’t leave yourself behind ❤
At 0:10, it says can I request no Taylor swift got me dying😂
This episode was really thought out to be honest, this was one of little videos that I haven’t skipped forward. Great message!
I always used to say yes then felt like this like my father wants me to spend time with him then being with my mom I was scared to say no but right after this I’m happy to see my self trustworthy for my self and being honest thanks dhar this helped me alot❤
There's nothing wrong with being nice and helping others but sometimes, try to say no.
Fun fact Dhar is the perfect person to watched while eating and he always makes our day or night even better
FAX I’m about to cut some apples and eat some yogurt
I’m legit eating now!😂❤
DHAR MARTIN IS SO INSPIRING WE'RE NOT JUST TELLING STORYS WE'RE CHANGEING LIVES.
I LOVE DHAR BANANA
Martin??? Are you an idiot?😂
12:23 every teacher be making us do a 1,000,000 words essay😂😂
I am very happy to see a real life scenario. This message is not for teenagers but adults as well. It is okay to say NO!
Those are some great friends ❤ I wish I had friends like that 🙂
18:35 why’s she snaking like she didn’t say yes at first🤣
She never actually said yes. She just gave her a smile. It doesn't mean yes. Absence of a no doesn't equate to yes.
@@straw-berry_2day. Yeah, but when the girl thanked her, she should have corrected her by saying she never said yes, so technically, she did
@@VOIDSEH that's one's personal interpretation. According to me, anything other than a clear yes or a nod of the head, is a no. Here the other girl interpreted the absence of a no as a yes, but she never actually said yes. So that's on her. The other girl might have understood it as a yes which isn't Erica's problem.
And she's not obligated to support someone cheating, whatever she said before. It's a wrong cause, and she can very well back out of it if she wants to.
It’s important that you have boundaries with your friends. You can’t expect to depend on them too much as they have lives too and cannot always be there when you needed them the most ❤👍
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Right on
Absolutely 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯
People have to look after themselves and their well being.
@@michaelsreviews yup
It's a totally different situation when everyone are only worried about their time + want to force their problem/work on you and not having trust worthy friends on top of that.
13:03 those two are definitely real friends
My friend had this problem she couldn’t say no to anyone even if it meant being unhappy ☹️ but she’s still learning and she’s been saying no now so I’m glad 😊
I used to have the problem
@@Spiralreddsame
I think her friends could be more supportive and understanding rather than complaining and acting like "you don’t make time" 🙄
I used to be a yes girl too even till now... I really loved this video... But Saying no sometimes too does help us prioritise some of our needs and ourselves 😍
this is the type of friends we all need
2:05 Hes like “shiiii i do too”
If you always say yes to people then you’ll turn into a “really reliable” person and that’s a good thing but, it can also cause a lot of people to ask you for a lot of things that in the future you may not want or have time to do. ^ ^
Another great video! to say "No" coming from myself i always said "Yes" to others who would only thank me for that one moment and say no to myself including my family who would go above and beyond for me. This video was a great form of inspiration to take a Yes for a yes and No for a no glad to have learned that lesson.
@@TheTigerKingShowI subbed. I’m also a youtuber too 🙂
If I ever talked at this tone at my parents like this -> 5:53 I'd want to pack up for my own funeral.
Frr i cant even talk back even if i didnt do it in a rude way😭😭😂
16:28 I wish I can have friends like this
I love the content and consistency you put out on a regular basis.
Moral of the story:if your saying yes to everyone else,then your saying no to your own needs❤
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Do not let other people take your kindness as a weakness!!
I really like the story it's a new kind thanks dhar it's a big lesson ❤❤❤
We all know it’s a good vid when dhar posted it
She is like me I always say yes to everything and sacrifice my time every time.
Quote: You made a commitment you have to honor that commitment
@@TheTigerKingShow exactly that is a commitment
@@galaxy_cat9575 thats a bot
Dear God, thank you for another day. Please watch over my family, friends, and whoever is reading this. I pray you will bless them and keep them safe, Amen.
6:50 her friend was being dramatic bc Erica had to setup for prom she’s not helping prob knows everyone asks her to do things.
W mans for asking for no Taylor swift at prom someone give that man a raise😂
SHE RLLY THOUGHT SHE ATE HANGING UP AHHHHH🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 7:13
Swears 😊😊😊
Swears 😊😊😊😊
Fr
TRUE BAHAHA
bro the fact that they actually wanted to play taylor swift is kind of concerning.
Thank you Dhar for this! I love it!❤❤❤
@@TheTigerKingShow i know ur lying but i subbed anyway
16:46 “ janitor: what’s going on..”
Bro was like “I love you” got me. Cracked
Always set boundaries and limits on friends
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JESUS LOVE YOU AND SO DOES GOD TURN TO GOD BEFORE ITS TO LATE
@@joey6451 JESUS LOVE YOU AND SO DOES GOD TURN TO GOD BEFORE ITS TO LATE
This also applies to relationships and marriage too.
4:08 anyone notice how she switched from a red phone to a white one
I felt like this video was for me because I have that problem I always say yes. Thank you Dhar great video ❤
Same
I live how Dhar keeps us entertained with out fail 🙂
@@TheTigerKingShow your dad lied to you
@@TheTigerKingShowshut up
@@TheTigerKingShow You're lying.
Not talking about the subscriber thing, I'm talking about how you claimed you have a father
@@Dan_Animationthat’s rude
@@Gardening.shorts ok
This is another fantastic video Dhar as I've been through this before and everyone should understand this moral 🙏
"awsome sauce" got me laughing😂 you guys do ait like a master❤❤🎉🎉🎉
At 19:58 that no was personal atleast let him finish geez
The way she cut him off by saying no at the end was the best 😂
At 18:59 The teacher was still reading the note😂😂😂😂
you can say yes or no to people and if you are shy always stay positive . NEVER GIVE UP .
This video is also a reminder to hug your best friends. They will always stand by you no matter how far apart.
I really appreciate how you take the time out and dedication to making all these amazing videos.
before: always be kind because it will always have a way of coming back to you.
now: don't be too kind or else you will regret it
"Can we not play Taylor swift?"😭😂 Relatable
I can relate to this because at school when kids ask me for stuff my heart just can’t say no to them
0:22 every time I see bro, I simp 😂
Same😂😂😂
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*See? This is EXACTLY why our lungs are IMPORTANT!!! 😭😭😭*
Moral of the story; sometimes it's okay to say no.
0:09 VALID. I STAND WITH THIS GUY.
Well, I stand with the girls.
@@wowpoopstaylorsversion3267Kanye made her famous
@@ItzSonic69He didn’t. Taylor’s music was beautiful and magical and we all love her for her music and most importantly who she is
I also stend with the girls ❤I love taylor Swift 💕
@@Xiaoxii231 no
19:55 “no.” LMFAOOOOOOPOAOAOAOSKSWKALSJSKW
Imagine likening dhar man’s videos but not subscribing. Couldn’t be me 😂❤
same💀 8:14
Loved this video, Dhar❤❤❤. Keep up the good work.
I've always struggled to say 'no' and watching this video has motivated me to let my 'yes' be yes and let my 'no' be no. Thank you.🎉
Lesson:Sometimes don't say yes especially in unnecessary business.
she really thought she ate yall🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 18:08
GIRL CAN'T Say No To HER FRIENDS
The emojis tho-😭
1 like= 1 pushup
16:17 damn Ian don’t wanna go on a date with that girl
This helped out a lot because I always say yes to people, since I don't have the heart to say no.
I like to think of this video as a good lesson. And metaphorically speaking, this scenario can be like butter on toast. If you spreads herself way too thin, the toast could get messy. And by “toast”, I mean things and tasks you do.
This video actually teaches me how to say no thanks dhar ! 😊